MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Abandonment | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & commitment (88), & coping strategies (26-7), & search for the Other (28), & wounds of too much or too little (21) | |
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | & def. of(52), & failure of caregiver to provide attuned responses to childs changing needs & affect states(53), & family organized around parents fear of(146), & fear of based on differences in partner(125), vs intrusion(52-3), & self-org. prone to shame, fragmentation, depressive accommodation to needs of others & rigid defensiveness(153) | |||
Adult Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | & blaming fathers for(138), by father of son @ 6-7(96), & fear of, as adults(31-2), & fearing will repeat parents hist.(31)(59), & 1 parent leaving=both leaving them(95)(298), & rushing into co-habitation or early marriage(31), & sense of loneliness(168) | ||
Borderline, and | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & acknowledging adaptation vs clinging(89), & dependence=safety, aloneness=abandonment(88-9), & suicide context vs content(14), & symbiotic attachment of Mother but discouragement of S/I(88) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & anxiety over _ → violence(243-4), & A illusion to ward off(19), & desire met w/ _ growing up(120)& non-recognition equivalent to relational _(52) | ||
Depression, and | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & borderline (Ch 5, 8), & capacity to be alone (45-6)(113), & creativity as solution (Ch 12), & depression (59), & etiology of (51-9) 6 qualities of (61-74), vs RS capacities for intimacy | ||
Oral Character, and | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | & behaviour, attitude & feeling of (173-182), & energetic expression of (182-5), & etiology of(164-173), & healing of (Chs 6 ,7), & T objectives (185-194) | ||
Aboriginal Life View | Returning to the Teachings | R. Ross | All | ||
Abreaction | Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H. Watkins | See Index | & essential elements of(118-9), & expressing anger(122), & purpose of (117), & silent(121-2), & standing up to abuser in fantasy(201), & unc as guide(203) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & beauty(216), & definition of(216) | |||
Absolute Other | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | & autonomy of(123), & Cosmic Other(125-6), vs ego(122), & God (116)(122)(127)(136), & the Other(125), & Self(16)(122)(124), & wholeness(141) | ||
Abuse | Child | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & adult survivor(110-4), & the body(108-10), & childs adaptation to(96)(103-8), & environment of(98-103), & mothers intervention (83) | |
Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | p. 292 | and hyperalertness | ||
Elder | Elder Abuse Pamphlet | CTP98-99 Binder | All | & intervention | |
Emotional, and | Stalking the Soul | M-F. Hirigoyen | All | ||
Males, of | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | |||
Acceptance | Existential, and | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & _ by God(170)(187), & _ by other(166), & _ by that which transcends ones individual self(165), & _ by T who represents the objective power of acceptance & self-affirmation(165-6), & courage of confidence(166-7), & the courage to be is the courage to accept oneself as accepted in spite of being unacceptable(164-5), of despair(175-6), & doubt & meaninglessness(176), & guilt(165-6) |
Accommodation | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & Eros an antidote to(22), & invariant organizing principles resistant to(40), & mutual _ required for relationship eg tango(18), of a new way of seeing & experiencing himself & the other(14), & pathological _(40), & playing w/ one anothers position as way of surrendering strident opposition w/o inducing pathological _(203), & use of dissociation(22-3), & variant organizing principles open to(40) | |
Pathological, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | P 59-60 | & descript. of(59-60), & genesis of(59), & rel. where partner seeks out traumatogenic partner an eg of(60) | |
Acquaintances | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | definition of(204-7), & public self(203) | |
Acorn Theory | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & calling(4)(285), & childhood vs the way we imagine it(4), & children as evidence of(13-4), defined(6)(39-40)(284), & daimon (8)(18), vs family systems therapy(64), & mother(70), & mythical reality(97), vs other theories(22-9), vs. psychological approach(5) (11-2)(31)(38), & reading life backward(7) | |
Acting Out | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & _ what we do not remember(139), vs compulsive actions(284-5), & definition of(138-9), & examples of behaviour(139), & hysterical personality(307)(311), & masochist(261)(263), & psychopath(155) | ||
Antisocial Tendency, and | The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & aims of T of char. disorders(208), as alternative to despair(209), vs liability to psychotic breakdown(210) | |
Borderline, and | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | Chapter 5 | & transference acting out(130-7) (175) | |
My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | on basis of identification w/ analyst(215-223) | ||
Hyperbole, and | The Clinical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | as indicator that transformation associated w/ rivalry, envy & evacuative projection is taking place(112) | ||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | & ascetic vs malignant(114), of caricatures of self & other(110), as communication(108), as erotic theatre(125-6), of maternal secret (111)(113), & maternal substitution of performance(107)(115)(135), of others internal object(118)(120-1), & mother as theatre(119), & performative vs narrative(112), vs perverts theatre(173), & sexual conversion(114-5), & sudden termination of involvement(166), & T reaction to(110)(131), & vested w/ auto-erotic libido(166) | ||
Reenactment vs | Thou Shalt not be Aware | A. Miller | Page 15 | ||
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & analyst understanding of(80), of forgotten past(122), & gratification(113), a mirror reflects an image but does not change its nature(80), & words as adult communication(79) | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & destruction of analyst(177), & identification w/ aggressor(193) | |
Addictive Behaviour/ Addictions | Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | See Index | as anxiety management technique(90), & bearing the unbearable (64) (91), & hope(144), & terror of loneliness(63) | |
New Therapist # 87 | All | ||||
A Million Little Pieces | J. Frey | All | |||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | & always an addiction to frustration(14), as unformulated frustration, frustration simply met(14) | |||
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | p. 188-9 |
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Couples, and | Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & anticipate pleasure from getting high & escaping from anxiety & depression→ persistent state of semi arousal(142), & avoidant more susceptible to(144) | |
Depression | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & acute self-loathing(239), & addiction comes from 4 problems (224), & addiction=substitution of comfortable pain for uncomfortable & incomprehensible pain(225), & addictive behaviours no different than substances(222), & alcohol(226), & cycle of depression & substance abuse(217)(292), & depressed person likely to become addicted much more rapidly than non-depressed people(223), & depression a search for invalidation(241), & does not involve volition(225), & 4 stages to freedom from dependence(224), & genetic predisposition(218)(224), & isolation of(220), & marijuana(229), & 1/3 rd of substance abusers suffer depression(221), & pathways in the brain(223), & smoking(225), & taking away original motivation for substance abuse does not free someone who has developed a pattern of substance abuse(219-20), & treating both depression & addiction(218-9) | |
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | & childhood sexual abuse(268-9), & getting high(262), to Internet (263), & men vs women(398), & multiple(263-4), to love(263), & quest for intensity(264), to romance(263), to sex(100)(262) | |
Internet Porn, and | The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | See Index | & brains reshaped by(103), & dopamine(106-7), & exciting pleasure vs satisfying pleasure(108)(114), & loving being in love(114)(116), & novelty(116), & periods of sexual dev.(111-2), & sensitizing vs tolerance(108), & wanting vs liking(107-8) | |
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | in survivors(109), as numbing behaviour(110), sexual(129) | |
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | as attempt to correct ego flaws(275), covert depression &(Ch 3) (22)(101), as cultural norm(271), & intensification of feelings(147), vs recreational drinker(191), & responsiveness to others(274-5), types of(270) | ||
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | as auxiliary regulators(110)(165), & being in control of whatever soothed them in early childhood(112), & definition of(116), & intolerance of delay(112), & kind of parenting that creates _(110-1), & link w/ narcissism(84), & meeting needs w/o exerting any psychic effort(112), & particular drugs creating particular moods(114-5), & rage(111), & rejection(111), & seen as beneficial by N.(116), & shame(84)(107)(111), as substitute ideal(111), & tendency to grandiosity & omnipotence(111), as triggers for N. fantasies & feelings of grandiosity & omnipotence that provide relief from shame & depression(110) | |
Practical Aspects of | Addictions Workshop | CTP97-98 Binder | All | 12 steps, bibliography, Epitaph, gambling, glossary, Hole in Sidewalk poem, referral service | |
Replacing Mother by | Thou Shalt not be Aware | A. Miller | Page 85 | ||
Shopping, and | Even as I bought it I knew it couldnt work | A. Baker | TPR Jan00 Page 18-20 | ||
Women, and | Appetites | C. Knapp | All | ||
Adolescence | Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & balancing restraints & gratifications(164), & body image(161), & to be different is to be inferior(162), & firm/flexible sense of self (164), & friendships(196), & going away to college(168), & identity confusion(165), & impossible dreams(165-6), & love (204)(223), & metaphorical murder of parents(160), & mourning of childhood/ evading of(167-8), & prolonged(169), & responsibility (170-1), as 2 nd separation/individuation(169), & separation from parents(166-7), & Who am I?(164-5) | |
The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | & major complaint = no one listens to them(210), & only period in your life when youre expected to do all things well and age getting lower(43) | |||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment, and | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & baby love left behind(50), & emotions of(165), & dev. of cherishment in(176), & friend as transitional object for adventuring into adulthood(204-6), & friends as main source of ego ideal providing everything adolescent cannot find inside or in parents(204), as idealists(205), & parents usually deidealized(204), as 2 nd chance to repair what went developmentally wrong in childhood(164), & sexual instincts on overdrive and cherishment needs almost totally hidden(171), as time of upheaval(164), & the world as infinite vs just caretakers in childhood(171) | |
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | & acting out(238), & anger(107-8)(187)(247), & dev. path from _ to adulthood thrown out of sync(37), & drugs/alcohol(188), & exp. several losses of new attachments not just one(28-9), & family alliances(115-6), & feeling that rel. failure is inevitable(34), & feelings of resentment(278), & mother/daughter(283-6), & need for good int. image of parents as couple(34), & no closure to normal process of separating(37), & preoccupation w/ morality of parents behaviour(242)(287), & protracted(37), & reinstalling caregiving role as adults(9)(13)(31)(69-70), & respon. for parent(9), & step-fathers(243-4), & step-mothers(274-6), & vision of adulthood frightening(38) | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & being more special(93),& essential task of(95-6), & invincibility fable(92), & N. parents(99), & regression to N.(96), & seduction/ relief of drugs vs active mastery & adaptation(112), & self-esteem (94), & 3 things that arrest healthy identity dev. & perpetuate adolescent N.(96-8) | |
Adult Life Cycles | 20's-40's | Passages | G. Sheehy | Ch 8-25 | |
40's plus | New Passages | G. Sheehy | Ch 3-19 | ||
Males, of | The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | All | ||
Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | ||||
Mid-life, and | Churchills Black Dog . . . | A. Storr | Chapter 6 | & fear of death/fear of life(138), & Jungs approach(142-3) | |
Affirmation | Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | See Index | & activated by & involves exp. of having an important aspect of ones self affirmed, recognized, understood & appreciated eg recognition of ones achievements, underlie the others actions toward self, involves deep recognition of ones self-transformation (171), & affective reaction to 1) feeling moved, touched & strongly emotional 2) love, gratitude & tenderness(171), & recognition of change for the much better, intrinsic to(171), & source can be self or other(171) |
Agape | Psychology and the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 119 | definition of | |
Denial of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | vs Eros: the urge for more life, for exciting experiences, for the dev. of self-powers, for developing the uniqueness of the individual the urge for individuation(153), as feeling of kinship w/ the All as wants to be delivered from his isolation, become part of a greater & higher whole & feel that he belongs in the universe(152), & if given in to risks failing to develop himself & if expands Eros too much risks cutting himself off from natural dependence(153), & idea of God logical fulfillment of(153) | |
Original Idea of | Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | Page 399 | ||
Rogerian Psychotherapy, and | Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | Page 30-47 | ||
Toward Partner | Getting the Love You Want | H. Hendrix | Page 168 | ||
Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | Page 294-8 | vs Eros(294) | ||
Agency | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & agents of free will we can choose(10),& birth of threatens to betray & annihilate lifelong identity(127), & captures a nascent sense of personal authorship(50), & claiming victimization vs investigating ones agentic role(128), & crucible of found in our conflicting needs as humans to be effective ie be impactful while also feeling safe & secure in our attempts(11), & dissociated aspects that undermine(118-9)(127), & empowerment in relationships comes from each partner embracing own sense of _ & not holding other responsible(51), & functions well when feel least constrained in how we determine & pursue personal goals in work, love & play & founders when used for defensive purposes(51), as illusion w/o which we cannot live(10), & incapable of recognizing others as being subjects of _ = self-as-subj. only(140), & innate motivational sphere of self-actualization through articulation & expression of sense of agency constantly threatens A(20), & living out in terms of self-actualization perpetually renegotiated in intimate relationships (11-2)(51), & much that undergirds it is Unc(10), & mutual negation of(53), & pertains to our capacity to reflect on our experience(10) (34)(96), & perversion of(51)(118-9)(128), & requires others confirming response which tells us we have created meaning, had an impact, revealed an intention(11)(51-2), & selfobj. Dimension of transference seeking responsiveness to vs repetitive dimension scanning for how it will be thwarted(51), & self-as-obj only→ no sense of(149), & taking responsibility for vs requiring other to(51), & very relationally oriented phenomenon(11), & within intersubj. field of mutual need, responsibility & recognition(11)(68), |
Aggression | Biological Basis of | The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | See Index | & anti-contact behaviour(125), & appeasement signals(110-13), & attacking methods(118-20), & displacement activity(104-5)(114-5), & facial expressions(109-10), & ritualized combat(102-4), & signalling of in infants(85), & submissive displays(106-9)(121-2), & territory(123) |
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | & aggression arising from parental failure(148-50), & internalise a persecutory obj., an aggressor w/ which we identify in both directing rage against ourselves & others neg. talion(66), & moral masochism(84), & 3 options to inhibit: repression, suppression & sublimation(84), & return of repressed in guise of punitive SEs anger @ ego(84), & Unc. need for punishment = Unc sense of guilt(84-5) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & bullying(221), & inability to sustain tension between love & aggression(20), & invocation of humour & aggression that stimulates vitality, repair & renewal(41), & involved in self-assertion(13)(16), & ruthlessness(14-5)(254), & supressing of to feel safe(20), & T frightened by clients _(119) | ||
Development, and | Hope & Dread | S. Mitchell | Ch.6 | & analysis as threat to self-integrity(167), as assertion vs destructiveness(159), as biological response(161)(163), as embellishing experience(165), as experience of unpleasure(161), & multiple self-organizations(170-1), as response to endangerment or threat(162-3), as response to others(160-1), & universality of(162) (170) | |
Generative, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | See Index | As part of essential play of being human(56) | |
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | See Index | as bolstering our own narcissism(28), as effective weapon(22), as factor in what is funny(23), & grimace of mirth same as grimace of suffering(22), & irony(86), as malice towards people who are perceived to be powerless(25), as pleasurable & safe release of destructive impulses(24)(26)(34), as protective shield against something happening to us(26), as repressed hostility & sadism(22) (86), as social regulation of sexual & aggressive drives(37), as sublimation of sexual/aggressive feelings(47), & teasing(86) | |
Love, and | Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & dependence(134-6)(138), & desire(138-42), as healthy(134), & love(120)(141)(143-4), as key ingredient of passion(141)(143), & object of revenge(141), & oedipal vs pre-oedipal(133), as reflection of endangered state of would-be lover(132), vs safety & predictability (140)(143), & segregation of in couples(142-3), & threats to integrity of self(129) | |
Males, and | The Hazards of Being Male | H. Goldberg | See Index | & aggressionless female(74), & fear of towards women(74), & self-hate(74) | |
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | & hiding impulse to connect(92-3)(109), & identification w/ aggressor(102), & inhibition of(234), & sense of self(103)(111), & shame(93-5) | |||
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | depression as assault on self as(54)(198) | |||
Psychopathy, and | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWiliams | See Index | & acting out instead of talking(153), & inborn(152), & the problem child(157-8), as stabilizing sense of self(158) | |
Psychotherapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | identification w/ aggressor as (193)(328) | ||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & Oedipal self(24-5)(43)(53-4), at selfobject vs obj(137-8), as selfobject need vs instinctual wish(5)(84)(208), | |||
Schizoid Withdrawal, and | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & ALE(195), as aspect of libido(422), classic depr. as defensive top layer of(149), as defence against ego-weakness(129), leading to depression & ambivalence(101), & regaining contact through(101), & turning in of against own weak ego(146), & withdrawal of libido(101), & world of internal fantasised objs(129) | |
Transference/Coun- tertransference, and | Transference and Countertransference | H. Racker | & concordant/complimentary identification(135), & countertransf. _(165-8), & law of talion(139), & liberation of(185), & T annoyance or guilt(147-8), & T as(73) | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | See Index | & _ exp. serve many of same functions as sexual ones(90-1), as antidote to shameful exp. of powerlessness(59)(100), & homophobia(91), as response to trauma in childhood as way of organizing exp.(88), as way of reducing uncertainty(59) | |
Aging | New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & brain(353), & childlessness(171-2), & denial of(59-62), & dying of youth(145-6), & every day as an awakening(429), & exercise (426), & how we look(179), & positive attitude(388-9)(419-20) (425), & state of mastery(142)(149), & testosterone(327-8) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | as what we imagine it to be(290), & justifying existence vs fulfilling destiny(297-9), & living from soul(294), & melancholy(295), & mentoring(293), & regret vs remorse(296) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | Ch. 18 | & ego transcendence(332-3), & good(331), & our life as our respon. (333), & mourning of losses(318)(320-1)(328)(340), & personality(334-5)(339), & sex(323-4), & work(324-5) | ||
Cognitive Decline, and | The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | See Index | & learning something new(252), & therapy(241) | |
Males, and | Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & concerns of 60s(218), & danger zone 45-65(247), & less conquests(146-7), & marriage(255), & multiple selves(140), & passion(223)(247), & sex(184-7), & trophy wife(138) | |
Agoraphobia | The Will to Live | A. Hutschnecker | as inner fear turned outward(82) | ||
Cognitive Behavioural Approach, and | The Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | definition of(54-5), vs social phobias(272) | ||
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & defect of idealized selfobj(31-2), & failure of oedipal selfobj milieu(30), & structural deficiency of self(29) | ||
Alchemy | The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | & Jung(167)(265{his doorway quote}), & Mars(167-9), & Mercury(332), & ruins(95), & scintilla(35-6), & stone(32) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & anger(239), & role of T(75), & rel.(153)(159-61), & smith in our soul(97) | |||
Androgyny | J. Singer | Chapter 12 | & discovery of contrasexual(139-41) | ||
Alcoholism/ Alcoholics | Alcohol and Drug Treatment in Ontario | ARF | All | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | As fastest-acting tranquilizer for abating shame(252) | |
Family, and | Toxic Parents | S. Forward | Chapter 4 | & fear of closeness by adult children of(83) | |
Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & hidden depr.(22)(61)(80), vs recreational drinker(191), & shame cycle(60)(79) | |
Older Adults, and | Older Adults and Alcohol | ARF | All | ||
Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | & collusion in(195)(389), & compulsion to repeat(47)(53-5), & interdependent relational system(116) | ||
Women, and | Women and Alcohol | ARF | All | ||
Aletheia | Definition of Truth as | Everything is Broken | TPRAug99 | Page 113 | |
Alexithymia (Numbness) | Love & War | S. Tatkin | P. 260 | & inability to detect &/or name internal somatoaffective states in oneself | |
Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & depression(55)(146), states vs feelings(285-6) | |
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | See Index | & anger(84), & benefits of curing(227), definition of(50-4)(63), exercises to help identify(64-79), & marital pattern(92)(278-9), as secret(145), & verbal abuse(97) | ||
Psychosomatic Illness, and | Recent Developments in Psychosomatic Medicine | P. Shoenberg | TPR Sept99 | (171-4) | |
Alienation | from Self | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & active moves away from RS(159-60), & autonomy of pride system (123)(162)(173)(187), & avoiding respon.(171), & being sincere w/ oneself(151)& compliance(168), & confusion(21)(296), & demands on self(123), & denial/externalization of shoulds(123) (160), & driven vs driver(21)(159), & feeling of futility(285), & idealized image(13) (22), & importance of safety(21), & lack of inner direction(167), & need for identity(21), & prevention of self-hate(115)(123), from real self(157), as relief from tension(177), & remoteness from feelings, wishes, beliefs & energies(21)(123) (157)(182), & self-destructive impulses(149), & self-sabotage(151), & suicide(149), & tyranny of shoulds(159), & unc. interest in not having a clear perception of himself(151)(160) |
Aloneness | Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & creativity(28)(32) (35-6)(69), & imagination(17)(62)(106-7), & inner security(18-9), & introversion(93), & learning(23), & self-realization(21), & sleep(22), w/ therapist(21), & TS(95-6), & transitional obj(70-6) | |
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & belief in benign env.(32), & ego relatedness(31), in presence of Mother(30), as sign of maturity(29), & unintegration(34) | |||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | & exp. of in face of what is experienced as psychically dangerous @ core of psychopathogenesis(37), & fear-fostering _ arises in response to the unresponsiveness & unavailability of other when self is in need(30)(37), & transforming by support & empathy(155), & unwilled, unwanted, dreaded vs sought after, willed, restorative(30) | ||
Alter Ego | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & selfobj. needs(194) (200), & selfobj. trans.(192-3), & therapist as(206) | ||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | as firstly familial(143), & intrafamily conflict putting an end to(146), & partners as(89), as primary in rel. to establishing a basic sense of security(40), as providing a sense of belonging as well as a sense that ones inner world is knowable(40) | |||
Ambivalence | The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | & assertion against int. prosecutors(152), & lack of close contact w/ loved ones(150), & unification of good/bad obj.(144) | ||
Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | w/ partner(201)(398-402), & projection(201), vs splitting(200) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | towards the dead (268-70), in friendships(187-9), & hatred(65-9), & love(226), towards siblings(84-102), & obj. constancy(43), vs splitting(42-3) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & concern(75-8), & guilt(16-7)(21), & splitting(98) | |||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | & dependency entails(223), & negating hating side of _ can cover up the positive love(223), & split internally, loving your hate = safety, familiar do not risk frustration from a person(227) | ||
Couples, and | What is this thing called Love? | S. S Usher | & keeping negative repressed in relationship(61), & love & hate 2 sides of very thin coin(61) | ||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | about growing up(82), in love-making(76)(167), in maternal/ paternal order limbo(76-7), & Mothers towards infant as sexual being(46-8), as negative hallucination(49-50) | |
Sequential, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p. 312-3 | sequential vs simultaneous | |
Amnesia | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | Pg 297-302 | ||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | & blind spots(228), & group(226) | ||
Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H Watkins | Chapter 4 | & dissociation(Ch 4), & MPD(39), & immediate adjustment problems(39), as symptom(41) | ||
Androgyny/The Contrasexual | Androgyny | J. Singer | All | definition of(6) | |
Anger | Feelings | W. Gaylin | See Index | & being used(154), & fear(18), & feeling upset(89-91), & guilt (55)(187), & hurt(185-6), & obligation of group living(11), & survival(11) | |
The Consolations of Philosophy | A. de Botton | & entitlement(83), & forces indifferent to our desires(11), & Goddess of Fortune(86-7)(99), & holding possibility of disaster in mind @ all times(87)(89-91), & Not everything which happens to us occurs w/ reference to something about us(93), & rage & the contract of life(84), & a subjects agency(91), & target of hurt(102), & use of and vs In order to(100), & violation of our sense of the ground rules of existence(83), & We will cease to be so angry once we cease to be so hopeful(85), & wisdom(107) | |||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | & child being punished for→ strategy of passivity & withdrawal(40-3) | |||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & avoidance of, affecting all emotions & rel.(234), & masochism (246-7), & passivity vs receptivity(245), as quality & emotion(239) (248), & reflecting on vs chronic(237-8), & repression of(234)(239), as S/M(241-3), & standing naked in the storm of life(247), & submission(241), & taking place of sexuality(187), as telling us what is wrong(234), & transformed into violence(236)(243), & turning against self(238)(244), & venting vs expressing(235-6) | ||
Notes in Favourites Binder | N. Diamand | All | |||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & abandonment depression(64-6), & panic(66-7) | ||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | as aversive emotion that functions shortly after birth especially when those we depend upon fail to fully satisfy our needs & desires(165), as familiar plane, underlying propensity(177), & more prone to experience anger in response to events in life vs distress or fear (160), & need to feel valued & protected includes notions of respect, power & control, congruence, comfort & harmony found in Anger group(165), & patterns of developmental pathways toward anger, separation distress/sadness or fear(160)(165-7) | |||
Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | See Index | & migraine(171-2), & stress(106) | ||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | & adaptive action tendencies released by fully experiencing(140)(158), & can function as core affective exp. or defense against grief & vulnerability(120)(156)(331), & typical anxieties associated w/ exp. & expression of(140) | ||
Males, and | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | & suppressing of(336-7), & volcano effect(335) | ||
The Hazards of Being Male | H. Goldberg | See Index | towards women(5-6)(16)(51) | ||
Victims No Longer | M. Lew | of abusers(50), & power(50), & recovery(282-3), of survivors(50)(142)(152)(257), | |||
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | Chapter 3 | & connecting to other men(109)(302-3)(309), @ Father(266), of fathers(151)(239), & father wound(67)(84)(263), & having value(111), & humiliation(116), & independent action(122), @ Mother(183), & shame(42)(56)(93)(95), @ wish to be mothered(183) | ||
Techniques to deal w/ | Toxic Parents | S. Forward | Page 224-7 | ||
Therapy, and | Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | & corresponding body behaviour(476) | |
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold et al | See Index | of daughters(69), & loss of(68)(107)(113) | |
Dance of Anger | H. Lerner | All |
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Angst | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & FS(29), & Primal Other(95), & survival strategies against(24) | |
Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | See Index | & addiction as defence against(90-1), vs anxiety & fear(103)(107), & defence of obsession(110), & freedom(126), & guilt as defence against(28), & rituals against feeling(110), & same root as anger, anxiety & angina(93) | ||
Anima | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & archetypes(22), & collective universals(49), & Cs(45), & Jung (21-2), meaning of(43), & obsessions(211), Persephone/Hades(208), & personifying(3), & soul(51) | |
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | as counterpart of persona(52), definition of(40), & diagram of(51), & female(52-3)(487), & inferior function(484), & Logos/Eros(487), as peculiar feeling reaction(80), & primitive (485), & real women(693-4), & shadow(55)(58)(67)(258), & symptoms of(57) | ||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & affect(103), vs animus(111)(113), & archetypes(91), & autonomy of(116-7), & coll. unc.(223-4), as complementary(101), & complexes(122), & persona(96)(100), as projection of soul image(imago)(103-10)(114), in relationship(112), & woman(102) | |||
Androgyny | J. Singer | & Feminine/Masculine(193), & Jung(32)(157), & Self(233) | |||
Animus | Women who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | as bridging man(310-2), description of(58) | |
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | definition of(40), Logos/Eros &(487-8), vs persona(75), & shadow(258), of woman(96) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & archetypes(91)(117) (222-6), & collective unc.(116), in relationship(112), of women(102(113) | ||
Father spirit, and | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | Page 36 | ||
Love, and | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | Page 141-2 | ||
Annihilation | Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | See Index | & defect vs organizing principle of experience(13-4), & delusion of influencing machine(55-61), & description of(49), & diagram of experiences of self-loss(48), & 2 forms of selfobject transference(15) | |
Going on Being | M. Epstein | & feeling of I am not(85), & feeling of being infinitely dropped (84), & going on being as uninterrupted flow of authentic self(11-2), & sense of disconnection(83), & sense of personal insecurity(83), & threat of _=interruption in continuity(11)(83) | |||
Anorexia | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold et al | & ills of culture(252), & looking good=being good(91) | ||
Appetites | C.. Knapp | All | |||
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | See Index | & desire to be self-sufficient(4) | ||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | & ascetic hysteric(126), & pleasure in anti-ingestion(165-6), & recovering maturational processes(105), & saying no(165) | ||
Antilibidinal Ego | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & attachment to rejecting obj.(72), as contributing cause of failure of ego dev.(216), as element of psychic experience(387), & ego kept in being through(72)(78), & fear of dissolution of(202), & fear & hate of weakness(72), & hidden self of schizoid citadel(283), & internal saboteur(188), & joining forces with CE(163), & overactivity(216), & persecution of LE(72)(163), & resistance to therapeutic regression(94)(238)(287), & superego(182), & therapy(195) | |
Antisocial Personality/ Tendency | The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | in adolescents(134), & 2 kinds of behaviour(27), & character disorders(204-10), & deprivation(204)(226), & Freud(28), as hope (103-4)(204)(208), & psychopathy(22-7) | |
I Dont Want to Talk about It | T. Real | & personality disorder vs neurosis(81) | |||
Notes - Winnicott Concentration | CTP97-98 | Pg 28-end | |||
Anxiety | Feelings | W. Gaylin | Chapter 1 | & castration(26) , & defences-rationalization(34), phobias (displacement)(35), somatization(36), oral/sexual gratification (37-8), & same defences for breakdown(115), & disapproval(32), & existential(115), vs fear(21), generated by change in sense of self vs environment (25), & separation(27), s as signal of potential distress(39), symbolic(22), & vulnerability(31), & worry(21) | |
Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & allaying by move toward, against or away from others(19), & basic of child(18), & drinking(189), & emerging in T(340), & passive externalization(225), as reaction to actual & anticipated humiliations (100), & self-idealization(22-3), & shoulds(74), in work(322) | ||
The Will to Live | A. Hutschnecker | See Index | & depression(17), as internalized fear(73-4), as signal that will to live is threatened(22), & symptoms of(15-6) | ||
My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | All |
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Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | & attention(41)(43)(52), & bad-me(103), & denial as antidote (palliative)(43)(52-3)(126), as extreme end of ordinary continuum of arousal(44), & groupthink as minimizing(181), & info. that threatens the self ie self-esteem(98)(100), as intrusion of distress(41)(45), as melding of emergency response w/ cognition of threat(41),& not-me(104), & obj. Vs subj. Anxiety(125), & orienting response(41-2), as panic(41), & self-system organized to avoid (104), & stress(52), & types of anxious intrusion(45-6) | ||
Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | See Index | & migraine(171-2), & stress(136)(205-6) | ||
Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | & emotional trends(153)(155), & narcissistic(382) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & displacement(131), & the paranoid(212), & phobias(131) | |||
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | & anxiety as strategic value(37), as a state we can learn to induce (37), & defense of(37), & fear of dev. of emotional life(38), & fear of letting anxiety dev. into more fully formed emotions(33), as selective attack on capacity to form salient thought(63-4)(68) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & castration(137), & defences against(87), & inner vs outer world(245), & loss of loved one(87), & midlife loss(306), & same sex relationship(190)(194), & separation(22)(168)(228), & symbiosis(130) | ||
Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | & defenses against primary: loss of affect, stilted speaking, false congeniality ie partial withdrawal(28-9), & primary as form of panic as response to sense of helplessness brought on by loss of ego functioning, as if self engaged in last-ditch effort to ward off breakdown(28), & primary occurs after signal fails to perform its function(28), & primary as self losing its way of being(27), & signal as specific & limited threat to self(28), & signal common in adolescence(28) | |||
A Brief History of Anxiety | P. Pearson | See Index | & anxiety sensitivity harbinger of anxiety disorder(23-4), & anxiety sensitivity ie apprehension of panic attack itself-cannot predict it (23), & anxiety @ work(122-131), & both unbearably vivid yet insanely abstract(11), of cancer(105), & to cease wishing is too inhabit the land of the dead, for w/o faith, we cannot want anymore, we cannot wish(76-7), & compels obsessive contemplation(12), & confronting danger w/ a clarifying rage(171), as cosmic as it invades us totally, penetrating our whole subjective universe(48), & courage (169)(172), & cued fear(19), as desire for what one dreads(12), vs depression as expresses a grim & slender hope that one will manage to prevail vs fuck it(7-8), & disgust vs fear(104-5), & dread of non-being-possessing neither purpose nor impact, of failing to be in the world ie threat of meaninglessness(40-1), & Effexor(146-8) (150), as fear in search of a cause((3), & fear invoked by immediate threat & galvanizes a response(9)(22), & fear of falling apart(105), & fear of losing control(113), & fear that one cannot cope(109-11), & fear sharpens the senses, anxiety paralyses them(9), & fears are primitive, arbitrary, idiosyncratic & very often masked(4), & healthy anxious readiness, the alarming possibility of being able(24), & helplessness(19), & how we interpret significance of our acts(122), & hypothetical analytical planning(8)(100), & high reactive temperament(16), & illusion we can be in control vs growing up (14), & intolerance of uncertainty, a need for absolute predictive control(6), & lack of community centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety(83), & mindfulness(167-8), & most prevalent mental health problem across globe(13), & normal response to real danger(9), & objectless(9-10), & OCD(115-7), & parents underestimate intensity of childrens fears(17), & pathological anxiety cued off by threat to some value that individual holds essential to his existence as a personality(40), & paying selective attention to threat(7)(63), & phobias as coping mechanism(100-3)(107)(109), & popular narrative for kids dont sooth fears by denying them but by acknowledging them(25-6)(79), & providing kids w/ a way to cope, a recipe for dealing w/ their dread, of knowing what to do(27)(89)(171), & rages undetected in the mind, both secretive & wild(4), & rationalism(96), & religiously observant less prone to as lives shaped by narrative larger than themselves vs we can assume total mastery of our fate(88)(119), & retroactive w/ intrusive thinking(43)(47), & startle reflex potentiated by darkness yet expected to fend for ourselves as infants(21-4), & 20% suffer from, 13% of kids(2), & wakeful anguish(4), & women vs men(106-7), & what ifs & if thens(6), & worrying vs generalized anxiety disorder(29) | ||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | See Index | vs alarm(35), & being held as antidote to(154), & defenses against(83), as a defining quality of unbearable exp.(81), & exploring cognitive, fantasised & experiential aspects of(254), & exploring physiological correlates of(252-3), & fear, helplessness & primary depressive reaction hallmark of anxiety disorders(81), = fear of inaccessibility or non-responsiveness of caregiver = driving force of A system(35)(37)(41)(43)(47)(108), & knowing connection between defense, anxiety & core affect patterns(265)(269), & learned early in life when real emotional danger existed & ind. felt alone w/o benefit of reassuring presence of trusted other(252), & power of to motivate behaviour central to all psychodynamic understandings of pathology(114), as powerful aversive state(154)(252), as red-signal affect(114), & rooted in feeling of being alone in face of psychic danger(47), as signalling defenses have been broken through(252), & specific to particular interper. env.(265), & triangle of conflict(104), & true sense of well-being vs absence of(35), & unthinkable(154) | |
Countertransference and | Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | & description of countertransf. _(161), & possibility of failure (141-2), as T resistance(40), & T superego(115) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & developing sense of self independent of family of origin engenders(264), & highly differentiated adults less prone to(113), & how management of, modeled in family system(112-3), & over abandonment(249), & spontaneity compromised by(33)(204) | ||
Death, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & death (29-74, 110-2, 163-4, 187-203), & neurotic conflict(146-7), & separation(101-3) | |
Denial of Death | E. Becker | & _ lures us on, becomes the spur to much of our energetic activity(56), & enter into symbiotic rel. to get relief from but rel. also binds us(56), & cannot be lied about(88), & fall into self-Cs, emergence from uncomfortable ignorance in nature had one great penalty for man = dread or anxiety(69), as function of his ambiguity & of his complete powerlessness to overcome that ambiguity ie either animal or angel(69), & impossible to stand up to terror of our condition w/o _(58), & once admit you are a defecating creature you invite the primeval ocean of creature anxiety to flood over you(87), & results from human paradox that man is an animal who is Cs of his animal limitations(87), as result of perception of the truth of ones condition(87), as a school that provides man w/ the ultimate education, the final maturity better teacher than reality because reality can be lied about, twisted & tamed by tricks of cultural perception & repression(87-8), & underneath the most bland exterior lurks the universal anxiety, the worm @ the core(21) | |||
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & alcohol(226), & anxiety element of depression tied to fear of being object of attack & excluded from group(405), & anxiety when you want something you know you shouldnt have &, therefore, dont attempt to get, depression=want something, try to get it & fail(324), & depression a response to past loss, anxiety to future (65)9323), & depression occurs when hate interferes w/ individuals capacity to love love rejected=world has turned against them=hate the world→ repressed sadism→ pleasure from depression(324), & exercise allays(138), & genes(65), & lifting anxiety to see depression more clearly(51), & much depression incorporates anxiety symptoms(65), as precursor form of depression(65), & suicide(65), & useful in preventing trouble(410) | |
Development, and | Attachment | J. Bowlby | & attachment(338-9), vs fear of strangers(223) (324)(329-30), & separation(209) | ||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | as desire to survive(147), & ego breakdown (87), & persecutory (147), & separation(128), & unthinkable(202)(238) | ||
Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | aroused by aggressive impulses & fantasies(5)(28)(41)(58) (75) (136), of being annihilated(5)(48), at birth(61)(95), of death(174), & death instinct(4)(28-31)(41-2)(57)(277), defences against as function of ego(57)(70)(85)) (216)(239)(273), & depressive(34-5) (44-5))(50) (56)(66)(71-2)(79)(83)(113), & feeling of danger(26) (32), & greed(73), & guilt(12)(27-8)(36)(38)(194), & hypochondriacal(63) (84), & interpretation(21)(123)(129)(137) (232), & leading in men & women(45)(133)(135), & loneliness (301-4), & neurotic vs objective(38-40), & object relations(49)(58), & obsessions (84-6), & Oedipal(80), & oral, urethral & anal(84), persecutory(32-5)(43) (49)(64)(76)(238)(253), & phobias(84), & projection/introjections(5-6)(9)(11)(63))(69)(277), & projective identification(69)(143), & repetition compulsion(51)(56), & splitting(6)(65)(74)(253), & unsatisfied libidinal excitation(26), & weaning(108-9) | ||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | See Index | & annihilation(179-80), as central theoretical tenet(28), & change from part to whole object(118), & depressive(124-5)(127)(139-1) (151), & ego development(98), about internalized parents(167), & mourning(156), & Oedipus tendencies(71)(92), & paranoid(140-1) (117-8)(143-4), & persecution(124), & psychotic(176), & repetition compulsion(153), & sadism(96-7),& situations of(124), & splitting(181), & therapy(88), & understanding inner world(149) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & annihilation(86-7), & clients greatest _ from experiencing interface between overvalued & disavowed domains of self(296), as clients reaction to inquiry(157), & feelings of not-me(101), & forms of infantile _, beginning of dev. line to adulthood(44)(86)(88), & gradient of _(50)(89), vs shame(295), & strangeness(87), vs traumatic dread(328) | ||
Existential, and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | See Index | as best teacher(179), & creativity(81), & drugs to relieve(81-2), vs. fear(107), w/ freedom(21)(67)(178-9), & growth(80-1), & Kirkegaard(49-50)(55)as neurotic shrinking of Cs(40-1)(68-9)(80) (105), & normal(67)(80)(105), & self-Cs(102)(104), & sexuality as security(42-3), as sign of conflict(179), as threat to values(51)(72) (74 )(76)(79-80) | |
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | as biologically useless(80), & cannot remove anxiety by arguing it away(13), & courage(45)(66)(78)(158), & definition of(35)(64), of the demonic(122), & despair(54-7)(140)(189), & doubt(48)(121) (173-4), & emptiness(47-8), & existential(35-6)(139), & fate(43-5) (169), vs fear(36-7)(39)(45)(65-6), & guilt & condemnation(51-3) (122)(163-4), & helplessness(36-7), & inability to preserve ones own being(35), & meaninglessness(47)(77)(121)(158-9)(173), & misplaced fear(75), of narrowness & openness(62), as negation of every object, only the threat(36-7),& neurosis(66-70)(74)(76), & pathological(65-6)(69-70)(74-5)(77), & self-affirmation(66)(69) (120-1), & threat of nonbeing(death)(13)(35)(37-9)43)(45)(48)(158), as self-affirmation on its guard(78), & 3 types according to 3 directions nonbeing threatens being: 1) fate & death 2) emptiness & loss of meaning 3) guilt & condemnation(41), & the unknown(37) | ||
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | See Index | as assuaged by comic routine(34), & making anxiety more bearable (55), & managing anxiety through play/humour(63-4)(70), & managing incongruity(39-40) | |
Social Disorder, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | See Index | & anxiety about doing something wrong that will lead to social humiliation(114), & associated w/ feelings of inferiority & extreme sensitivity to any kind of criticism or negative evaluation(123), & biggest fear that others will perceive his true inadequate self→ projecting an image that feels false, of confidence, competence, even perfection(23), & blushing(103)(116),& CBT for(111), & control issues(87), as evolutionarily adaptive(35)(103)(116-7)(119), & extreme avoidant behaviour(109), & highly prone to alcoholism & drug abuse(102), & impression management as both symptom & cause(112), & link between _ & depression/suicide(102)(107), & living on razors edge between success & failure(110)(112), & look downward, avoid eye contact, blush, submissive behaviours, seeking to please & actively deferring(119), & negativity & poor self-image + desperate desire to conceal textbook for _(122), & shame(103-4)(115)(120)(123), & specific phobia in childhood leads to _(230), & Unc neurobiological stress response to social stimuli(116), & unduly confident about negative conclusions they draw(113), & unusually attentive to other peoples feelings(113)(325) | |
Therapy, and | Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | Ch 11 | & awareness exercises for(17-19), & cognitive approach to(29), & common symptoms(216), & confronting problems(215)(249), definition of(38), vs depression(38), diagnostic categories of(50-56), & drugs for(470-8), & performance(340-359), & procrastination (169), & public speaking(297-318) & repressed anger(213), & test(340-359), & thoughts of danger(5) | |
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & castration(14)(21-3), & disintegration(16)(19)(21), & Oedipal selfobject(14), & primary/secondary(16), & selfobject needs(84), & therapeutic failure(188) | ||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | & breathing(56-7) | |||
Terrors and Experts | A. Phillips | P. 59-62 | as defence against fear(59-62) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & agitated depression(301), & anger(95-8), vs fear(94), & guilt (113-4), & maintenance of security(11)(56), & obsession(211) (232-4 ) (239), & paranoia(340), & selective inattention(56-7), as warning signal(56)(93) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & annihilation(41), & disintegration(44), & guilt(16-8), & TS/FS (46), & unthinkable(57-8) | |||
Treatment Approaches, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | & behaviourist(52), & biomedical(53), & experiential(52)(58), & 4 categories of(51), & meditation(54), & psychoanalytic(51-2)(54)(59) | ||
Apathy | Schizoid Phenomena, Object relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & dangers to ego(83-4), & manic state(154)(216), & regression(68) (77)(79), & schizoid state(62-4), & suicide(81-2) | |
Existential, and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P.35-6 | ||
Aphrodite (Venus) | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & love(184-5)(187), & rhetoric(213-4) | |
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.21,50-60 | & anasyrma(53-60), & the body(21), & passion(150-1), & seduction away from habits(53-4) | ||
Soulmates | T. Moore | P.164-6 | as scandal & grace(166), & vanity(164-5) | ||
Appetites | Women, and | Appetites | C. Knapp | All | & anorexic vs bulimic(100), & anorexics(8)(23), & appetite for appetite(16), & body loathing(85)(126), & description of(14)(18) (108)(138-9)(163), & desire(165)(176-7), & displacement(140-1), & entitlement(4), & family(5)(41), & longing vs constraint(4)(10), & mastery over body(26)(31)(92-3)(114), & mother/childhood(65-6) (69)(73)(75)(78)(80)(168-9)(173-6), & naming it(158), & need vs want(28)(35), & obsession(47)(49)(187), & parent as calligrapher (102), & primary narcissism(166), & rage(74)(150), & self-contempt (88), & self-denial(77), & sense of agency(106)(186), & sexuality (128-30)(137)(144)(160), & shopping/things(143-4)(146)(148), & starving/hunger(9)(29)(42)(48)(192), & therapy(164), as transforming anxiety(8)(17)(23-4)(43)(45)(47)(51)(53), & tyranny of freedom(45)(50), & women & culture(9)(12-3)(32)(36-7)(86-7) (90-1) |
Approval | Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | & anger(265), & anxiety(199) | |
Archaic Mother/Father (Pre-Oedipal) | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | vs phallic Mother(104)(116-7), & primitive terrors(7)(56)(91)(275), & reality principle(118), & separation from(12)(275), & sexual fusion(112) | |
Archetypes | Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | Ch. 13/14 | & creativity(265-76), definition of(252-3), & ego vs soul(257), & eternal child(252)(255)(258), & infants in exile(266)(268)(286), & father/mother(280), & finding our bliss(285), & quote re: annihilation/indestructibility(263), & wonder/wounded child(252-8) (261-3) | |
The Analytic Encounter | M. Jacoby | See Index | & Great Mother(82), & healer(23-4)(29-30) | ||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & archetypal psychology(99)(104)(148), & emotions(176), & fantasy(23)(170), as gods(139), & imagination(151), as metaphor (156-7), & myth(99)(157), as persons(17)(22)(36)(128-9), as psychic premise(131), & words(9) | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | definition of(145), & functions of(121), & Magical Other(120), & quest for wholeness(61) | ||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | of boy(679-80), & cauldron(128)(536), definition of(132-3), & dreams(130)(525)(537), of hermaphrodite(592-3), as instinctive natural man(129), & mind(178-9), & myth(550), as symbol(540-1), & words(538-9) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | as autonomous factors(117), & Christ(248)(343), & collective unc.(16), compared to instinct(382), definition of(16), & big dream(65), as equivalent of religious dogmas(266), as existing outside space/time(25-6)(337), & God-image(260)(329), of horse(187-8), & individual vs eternal life(248), & influence on ego(91), & mandala(236), as organizing influence(16)(25)(337), & origin of(70-1)(263), as persons(222-3)(292-2), as representations (84), & sun(70), & synchronicity(26), & wholeness(236) | ||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | as collective component of perception(347), & dreams(161), & karma(318), & life addressing a question to him(318), & life after death(302) | |||
The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | See Index | definition of(210-1), & mid-life(215), & immortality(215), & Young/Old(210-1) | ||
Males, and | King, Warrior, Magician, Lover | R. Moore | Ch. 4-8 | vs ego(106-7), & the King(Ch 5), & the Lover(Ch 8), & the Magician(Ch 7), & magnet analogy(44), & mandala(54), & the Warrior(Ch 6) | |
Self-Relations, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | vs cognitive self(15), as helping human development(154-6)(164), & human/archetypal partnership(156)(162), & inflation of(15), & King /Queen(165), & Lover(166), & Magician(167)(171), & person vs archetype(163), & positive/negative archetypal energies(172), & relational self(15), & rituals(179-80), & self(167-8), & social constraints(158), as somatic self(14-5)(152-3), vs stereotype(159), & therapy w/(xviii)(157)(172)(174-5), & transformation(161), & value of(161), & Warrior(166-7)(170) | |
Women, and | The Robber Bride | M. Atwood | All | ||
Arrogance | Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & better than vs worthless(11)(13-4), & competition(13), & controlling the audience(14), & craving admiration(13), & emotional detachment(12), & shame(11) |
Art | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | Ch.13 | & contemplation(286), & daimonic living(298), & dreams(291-7), & imagination(287)(289)(300), & living artfully(286-8), & pausing(286-7), & soul(285)(287)(290-1)(304-5) | |
The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | P.46 | as improper/proper | ||
Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | Ch.19 | & invisible/visible(206), & past/present/future(206) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & creativity(75-80), & lost/new unity(123), & style(151), as objects(152) | ||
Artemis | The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.63-7 | vs Aphrodite(64), & gays(63), & reserve(67), & solitary sex(63-7), & solitude(63) | |
Soulmates | T. Moore | P.166-8 | & reserve(167) | ||
Assertiveness | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & agoraphobia(30), & fragmented/integrated(24), & oedipal self(16)(24-5)(43) | |
Attachment Theory and Behaviour/ Disorder/Styles | A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | Ch. 2 | description of(60-1)(120), & FS(34-5), & human personality(64-5) (135-6), & mourning(31-3), & parenting behaviour(18)(50)(83) (133-5), & pathogenic situations(147-51), & patterns of(124-8) (172-3), & secure base(11), & separation anxiety(29-31), & therapy(53) (71-3)(138-141)(151-7), & transference(142-6), & working models(129-32) | |
Attachment | J. Bowlby | ALL | |||
Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | & Avoider(68-70(72), & Clinger(66-8), & coping mechanisms of diminishing or exaggerating affect in the world(65)(117), & Minimizer/Maximiser(70-4), & romantic love(228)(230), & sense of security(65) | ||
Love & War | S. Tatkin | & adult primary A partner(4), & attack & defend(181), & 1 st 18 months influence relationship trajectory throughout life(87) | |||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | as dev. system in which mutual & self-regulation are concurrent & complementary processes(74-5), & importance of affect(27), & language of(74), & 3 principles of salience(74)(121) | |||
The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | & def. of(131), & description of(133),& early emotional frustration(133), vs sociopathy(133-4) | |||
The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | See Index | at midlife(197), vs separation(239-43) | ||
The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | See Index | & evoked companion(111-9), vs RIG(112), & working model(114) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | & alone w/ therapist(21), vs aloneness(13-5)(18-21)(70), & creativity(69)(107), & placation/avoidance(95) | |||
| EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | & ability to tolerate doubt & uncertainty(52), & major determinant of style=mothers communication(59), & separation distress(10) (46-7), & 10 central tenets of(38-41), & tranquilizing the nervous system(44), & working models(40-2)(50-1) | ||
| Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & adult love=sexuality, caregiving & A(114), & adult romantic love an A bond as w/ mother & child(20), & bonding @ a vulnerable moment(154), & criticism(190-1), & affairs(197-8), & decreases in pos. connection create disillusionment→ conflict & destruction of emotional safety(187-9), & depression(165), & emotional dep. our greatest strength(21)(24), & fear(73-4), & foremost instinct to seek contact & comforting connection(19), & innate tendency to feels w/ & for others(24), & loved one can be physically present but emotionally absent(52), & marriage(155-8), & monogamy our natural state(21)(39), & panic & pain of separation distress(52) (270), & parenting(160-3)(166), & passion(153), & propinquity (182), & repairing bonds(221)(226)(229), & sex impels us to mate, love assures our existence(19)(21)(112), & 4 steps of separation distress(53), & stonewalling(192-3), & strong emotional connection sign of health(22-3), & violations of human connection(196)(237) | |
Adult Attachment Interview, and | Love & War | S. Tatkin | See Index | & angry-resistant(56), & avoidant(56), & distressing for those who have denied their dependence needs(70-1), & doing it w/ other partner present(8), & each partner having owners manual on the other(70), as history-taking instrument, intervention & memory stress test(54), & interpretation of(67-8), & learning how to relate to each parent by seeing each through the other parents eyes(69), & partners more alike than not(54-5), & persons way of speaking during(53), & probing into how attachment history re-emerges in present moment(11-2), & provide couple w/ expanded sense of continuity, trajectory & destiny & of attachment as process that antedates their relationship(71), m& remembering things meant just for us(59), & revealing individual partners models for experiencing the world(8), & role reversal(66), & seeing how couple fits together(8), & shedding light on how parents regulated each other(63-4)(69), & social referencing(69), & under 12 years old(8)(55), & what we remember as ideas vs experience(55)(70) | |
Affairs, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | & anxious(fearful/preoccupied(271), & childhood(272), & dismissive(271-2), & monogamous infidels(secure)(270) | ||
Anxious (Preoccupied, Ambivalent, Angry-Resistant), and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | & anger/use of coercion(54), & communication(54), & description of(50), & disclosure(54), & empathy(54), & info. processing(52) | ||
Love & War | S. Tatkin | & finds ways to end relationship (Its boring) if does find someone available(95), & fussiness(96), & guilt @ feeing a burden(96), & history a constant reminder of failed relationships(95), & I cant do it myself(95), & like antilibidinal ego that defends against disappointment by sabotaging positive expectations(96), & loses listener(120), & move forward to reunion then rapidly stiffens or moves back(95), & overly verbal, expressive emotionally & digressive in speaking style(56), & partners experienced as distancing despite their insistence on proximity(95), & physical separation→ distress→ becomes overstimulated or withdraws→ inability to explore environment when caregiver returns immediate reaction is resistance→ frustrates caregiver ie Im glad to see you but also angry @ you(96), & tends to be irritably preoccupied & unavailable→ makes demands to regulate her but w/o reciprocation→ pressure on partner→ further distancing→ sense of helplessness & rage & increase in blaming(96)(120) | |||
Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & appearing hyperemotional & melodramatic(226), & assuming others similar to them & see evidence of actual traits of their own in others(263), as clingy & immature & tend to be indulged & infantilized(23), & communication of needs @ high vol.(21), & comm. style of(134)(209), & connecting through helplessness vs anger(226-7), & continuously searching for int. & ext. cues to amplify distress(225)(263), & controlling-caregiving strategy(324), & dev. a strategy for amplifying awareness & expression of attachment related feelings & need to ensure continuing care(35) (92)(225), & expressing feelings to get attention vs expressing themselves(229), & externalizing or interpersonalizing int. struggle as way to manage & communicate feelings(239), & fearful preoccupation w/ traumatic events(235), & too fearful to assert themselves & too willing to please(227), & filled w/ self-doubt & fearful of being too independent(224), & fundamental fear of abandonment(225), & greatest threats separation, loss & being alone(225), & hypervigilant for actual or imagined signs that partner might be disapproving, withdrawn or rejecting(225), & infant actively seeks contact, hyperactivating attachment system & inhibiting exploration(36), & infants distress upon separation & negligible relief upon reunion(21)(226), & letting feelings drown out thoughts(230-1), & linked to hysteric, histrionic & borderline personalities(24)(224-5)(235), & little awareness of own intentionality(239), & little capacity for compassionate understanding of themselves(239), & little confidence their exp. can be managed(239), & lively & vivid but overwhelmed by feelings & absorbed in avoiding distance from others(224), & living in mind of others(227), as merger hungry(225)(231), & mothers of as being unpredictable & occasionally available(20)(205), & mothers discouraging autonomy leading to inhibition of exploration(20), & mothers insensitive responsiveness to(20), as often victims(23), & parental model adopted by children(93), & parents of deeply absorbed in own concerns about attachment(abandonment & helplessness)(236), & preoccupied w/ other & vague about own needs, views & ambitions(238-9), & projecting malevolent other onto partner(239), & promise of closeness on one hand & likelihood of its loss on the other(93)(205), & relentless hope & refusal to mourn(324), & repr. models of contradictory experience(92-3), & splitting, embeddedness in exp., failures of mentalizing & metaphor of self overwhelmed by powerful, malevolent other(237-8), & subj. world characterized by physical vs psych. realities, actions vs words, bodies vs minds(239), & tendency to read hostile intent in partners behaviour when cues suggest intent is absent(263), & trouble believing they can rely on themselves(224), & trouble harnessing left brain to make sense of disorderly exp.(224), & underest. of strengths & resources(230), & undermining potential for emotional bal., self-esteem & trust in others(225) | ||
Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & amplifies effect of both good & bad sex(120), & depression(162-3), In dreams, portray themselves as apprehensive & unloved(45), & gripped by own suffering vs compassion for other(103)(291), & haunted by spectre of abandonment(48), & perceived rejection triggers violence(49), & portray themselves as humiliated & helpless(119)), & sexual satisfaction constricted as preoccupied w/ being loved(121), & solace sex(118), & taught that cannot rely on another to respond & reconnect after momentary disconnection (216), & tend to idealize others & doubt own value→ obsessively seeks approval & reassurance(45), & women(162-3) | ||
Avoidant (Dismissing), and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | & blaming of self(121), & emotion(50), & empathy(54), & fearful(27)(49-50)(55-7)(118)(165), & info. processing(51-3) | ||
Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & absence of neural connections linking thinking w/ feeling, lang. w/ experience & sense of self in rel. to others(222), & appearing low on life & affectively muted, limited in capacity for excitement(306), & avoidant infant=dismissing adult=avoidant children(37), & _ infants actively ignoring mother, restricting attention to toys(35-6), & behaving as if little interest in closeness yet preoccupied w/ prospect of pressures from emotional demands of others(182), & children seen as sullen, arrogant or oppositional (23), & compulsively self-reliance(211), & Cs model of sense of self as good, strong, complete & others untrustworthy, needy & inadequate(90), & defensive overestimation of own value(211), & detachment from others & own feeling responses to hopelessness about being cared for(205), & difficulty trusting others enough to be genuinely intimate w/ them(211), & dwelling mostly in left-brain (222), & eliciting controlling responses(23), & emotionally distant parents(205), & evolutionary design of need for comfort in face of pain(90), & hovering over their lives, never really landing in their bodies(222), & ignoring or suppressing infants attachment needs (90), & justifying emotional isolation of childhood(89), & lack of emotion merely apparent(89), & learning to live as if no attachment needs(90-1), & living in heads w/ bodies that do vs feel(306), & minimizing attachment behaviour, max. exploration of non-human environment(37-8), & mothers of showing inhibition of emotional expression, aversion to physical contact & brusqueness when it occurs(20), & narrative rigid & incomplete(134), & never allowed to be babies(205), & projection of disowned needs, vulnerability & anger(90), & protection against further loss In present & sadness of past loss(205), & purpose of _ strategies=minimizing awareness of int. or ext. attachment-related cues in order to deactivate attachment behavioural system(36)(90), & radical restriction of attention to attachment-related matters(90), & rejection of early overtures for comfort & connection(205), & reluctant to feel & express emotions that might spur them to connect deeply w/ others(211), as tied to obsessional, narcissistic & schizoid problems(24)(211), & unable to freely access attachment memories(134), & Unc feared model of self as flawed, dependent & helpless & others as rejecting, controlling & punitive(90-1), as victimizing others(23), & w/o anxiety about abandonment yet behaviour is _(98) | ||
Love & War | S. Tatkin | See Index | & alone time = autoregulation(92-3)(95), & becoming physically ill(155), & dependency will yield only disappointment, gross misattunement, insensitivity, emotional pain & shame(92)(94-5), & dismissive & derogating of A values & behaviours(92), & dissociates from breaches in A system(93-4), & easily incorporates partner into fantasy world when dating as resemblance to primary A relationship out of awareness(93), & external disruptions of autoreg. state experienced as shock to nervous system(93), & gravitates toward things(92), & inability to shift states rapidly(94), & maintains pseudo-secure relationship internally based on fantasy of partners omnipresence(92)(94), & memories of self & family superficial & idealized & formed on ideas vs experience(56), & misappraisal of bid to reconnect as aggressive demand to surrender autonomy(94), & need for continual but implicit proximity to primary A figure-minus problem of explicit proximity(94), & needs must be met perfectly by other else w/d(95), & physical affection awkward(142), & physically deprived of hugging, cuddling & stroking during infancy & childhood(92)(142), & product of dismissive/derogating parenting dominated by neglect or intrusiveness(92), & real autonomy never developed(92), & reside in 1-person psychological system(92), & strong reaction to partners touch, smell & taste(93) | ||
Love Sense | S. Johnson | & avoidant children learn that no one will come when needed no matter what they do so better not to bother trying to connect all(216), & dampen effect of physical intimacy(120), & in dreams see themselves as distant & unfeeling(45), & endorse harsher methods of discipline & expect children to become separate & indep. earlier(163), & maintain certain detachment(120-1)(291, & less available & responsive to children(161), & more susceptible to addictions(144), & neg. view of others as inherently unreliable & untrustworthy(45), & parents tend to be ambivalent about becoming parents(161), & `sealed-off sex`(116-7), & view as worthy of love, self-doubt suppressed(45), & women suffer less depression & more detached(163) | |||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & A constantly threatened by need to self-actualize(20), & A as defensive strategy against fearful vicissitudes of love(19), & A an illusion(19), & A illusion in place to ward off very elements of danger & risk that romance invites(19)(120), & A kills romance & desire(18), & either preoccupied w/ self-regulation @ expense of sensitivity to partner or excessive monitoring of partner @ expense of own self-regulation(92), & Eros(22), & fantasy of permanence frequently trumps that of passion(120), & lust(23-4), & potentially opposing multiple states(27), & romance & A in contention w/ one another(18), & romantic love vs A love(19-20)(22), & selfish vs selfless aspects(19)(23), & sex(120) | ||
Disorganized (Unresolved, Fearful-Avoidant), and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & attachment figure as safe haven & source of danger(22)(95), & borderline(24)(247), & child caught between contradictory impulses to approach & avoid=biological paradox(22-3), & children of _ parents vulnerable to belief they are to blame for parents fear, withdrawal or dissociation(96), & children of _ parents @ severe risk of disorg. attachment(96), & children taking on parental role (94), & communication of marked by lapses in the monitoring of reasoning or discourse(209)(242), & confusing the part w/ the whole(247), & contradiction in inhibition of action or freezing as if no alternative sol.(95), & creating secure rel. & confronting trauma intertwined(245), & defenses provoke re-creation in present(245), & defensive projective identification(245)(249), & desomatization w/(305-6), & disidentifying w/ range of subj. unbearable exp., past & present(248-9), & dissociation(209-10)(243)(245)(247-9), & dissociation of parents(96), & empathy & limit setting(252), & experiencing emotions as somatic sensations or physical symptoms vs feelings(248)(303-5), & experiencing feelings as overpowering & chaotic(103), & failure of integration(247), & hard time taking care of bodies(249), & history of trauma(103)(242), & help in bearing painful feelings felt as unhelpful(252), & infant experiencing fright w/o solution(23), & internal world of(248), & keeping exp. of feeling endangered or dangerous @ bay(95), & lack of resolution of trauma/loss key(94-5), & lack of resolution vs painful exp. itself has disorganizing influence(242-3), & living life as ongoing emergency (96)(248)(304), & memories frozen in time(253), & mentalizing limited(96)(246)(254)(307-8), & model of self/other as victim, persecutor, rescuer & incompetent(250), & naming feelings associated w/ trauma(253), & oscillating between strategies of hyperactivation & deactivation(1010)(103), as outcome of interactions w/ parents who are frightening as well as frightened (23)(103), & parental rage(95), & parental response as physical withdrawal or trance-like state(23), when parents fear arises in response to child(23), & parents of _ experiencing trauma &/or unresolved losses(94), & projection outward of unbearable int. experiences(96), & promoting integration(243), as reflecting a collapse of strategy(23), & rel. w/ others & T as unstable, stormy & diff. to count on(244-5)(247-8), & rigid, brittle attentional strategies(307-8), & self-mutilation(249), & sense of helplessness against intrusive memories(253), & somatic equivalence(304-5), & splitting(247), & stance of embeddedness(246)(308), & torn by conflicting impulses to avoid others out of fear of attack & to turn desperately to others out of fear of being alone(103), & unable to interpret exp., instead defined by it(308), & vulnerable to sudden shifts from ordinary to overwhelming state of mind(248), & working w/ body of(249)(305) | |
Injury/Critical Incident, and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | & abandonment(15), & attachment theory as theory of trauma(182), & avoidance & numbing(134)(187), as betrayal(186), & dealing w/(180), & definition of (15)(176)(180-1)(184), & existential vulnerability(186), & helplessness(182)(186), & hypo/hperarousal (141)(187-8), & internal models of relating(186), & interpretation of by partner(185)(187), & isolation(15)(22)(36)(57)(182), & PTSD(187), & resolution of(192-3) | ||
What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & occurrences that had effect of changing the course of the rel. & may or may not be known by couple(40)(44-5) | ||
Secure, and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | See Index | & balanced assertiveness(54)(109), & fostering communication competence(53), & integrated sense of self(205), & safe haven/ secure base(36), & toleration of trauma(27)(36-7) | |
Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & associated w/ reflective stance toward experience(4), & balance of interactive & self-reg.(49)(109), & behaviour of mothers of reflect sensitivity, acceptance, cooperation & emotional availability(29) (37), & benign circle of sec. attachment fostering affect reg., optimal arousal & mentalizing(49)(143-4), & collaborative & contingent communication(21), & containing infants distress(48), & degree of bidirectional coordination(109), & earned security(134), & felt security(36)(48), & freely access & collaboratively reflect upon attachment rel. memories to construct & present coherent narrative (134), & healthy dev. dependent on both parties enjoyment of attachment rel.(17), & infant experiences attachment rel. as context in which affects can be effectively regulated(100), & internal registration of connection to others as source of relief, comfort & pleasure(100), & internal registration of self as good, loved, accepted & competent(100), & key to in pattern of communication (16), & metacognitive monitoring(4)941), & neither avoidant of closeness/dep. or anxious about abandonment(98), as neither victims or victimizers(23), & open to T(27), & recognizing childs emerging intentional; stance(48-9), & response of caregiver help both to alleviate infants distress & amplify pos. emotions(100), & _ infant becomes secure adult(37), & _ infants communicate their feelings & needs directly(21)(35), & _ infants reassured by reconnection(19), in school treated warmly & age appropriately(23), & show greater self-esteem, emotional health, ego resilience, positive affect, initiative, social competence & concentration(23), & single model of attachment(39-40), & window of tolerance(144) | ||
Love Sense | S. Johnson | & attuned mothers(216), & emotional balance(102), & learned that momentary disconnection is tolerable & that another person will be there to help us regain emotional balance & reconnect(216), & required before move into compassionate action(103)(290), & sex(14)(130), & show fewer discrepancies between actual & ideal traits(288) | |||
Secure Base, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & allows child to freely explore(12)(144), & based on certainty about availability of protective & supportive other(12)(161), & benign circle of attachment, secure base, mentalization & affect reg.(144), & capacity to mentalize(144), & exploratory behaviour system(12)(65), & internalized(6)(65)(144), & internal secure base of mindfulness(6)(161), & internalized _ allows us to restore emotional equilibrium through obtaining symbolic contact w/ security enhancing attachment figure w/o seeking actual proximity(65) | |
Styles, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & AAI(207-9), & affect regulation(100), & attachment figure need for physical & emotional survival(48), & attachment rel. w/ T(85) (100)(187), & 3 behaviours in attachment behavioural system(12-3), & childs appraisal of availability critical(13), as defined by relational prominence of avoidance & anxiety(96-7), & even when dev. cost is exorbitant, young children will respond in ways that preserve parents psych. status quo(39)(99), vs exploratory(12)(36), & healthy neural dev. hinges on attuned responsiveness(69), & insecure parents=ambivalent, avoidant children(37-8), & intersubjectivity(187-9), & key to security or insecurity=patterns of communication between infant & caregiver(16)(80), & long term effects of(23-4), & loss(205), & memory-driven expectations often trump new exp.(76), & mirror neurons(77), & most of what we perceive generated by int. memory model, not senses(76), & neural plasticity(79), & neurons that fire together wire together(69), & own 1 st rel. of attachment provides organizing blueprint of the mind(84), & parents as frightening & frightened=disorganized children(38), & recognizing clients prevailing state of mind w/ respect to attachment(206-7), & rel. connections become neural connections (70), & rules infants derive from earliest exchange govern how they behave & what they will allow themselves to feel, want, think & remember(84)(100), & secure parents=secure children(37), & structure of brain(70-79), & style tied to disorder(24), & synergy of affect reg., secure attachment & mentalizing(218-9), & working models of(27)(31) | |
Trauma, and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | & complex PTSD(56-7), & depression & anxiety(140-1), & dismissing avoidant(55), & fear(21), & fear of closeness(128), & How can we accept love if, to survive, one has had to give up on it & adopt a sense of self as unlovable?(125), & lack of mirroring (148), & making sense of(21), & need for secure attachment(8) (10-11)25)(36-7), & partner as source of solution to alarm(48), & recovery(35), & relaxing into pleasure as suicide(128), & retraumatization(23-4), & self-mutilation(56), & sense of self(57-9), & shame(124)(142), & significant other(23), & stressors(47), & styles of attachment(43)(55), as violation of human connection(27-9) | ||
Attention | Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & dimming to numb pain(36), & endorphins as hampering(38-9), & fear(82), & paranoia(138), & roles(106-8)(209-14)(216-7), & schizophrenia(33-4), & tact(222) | ||
Attention Deficit Disorder | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & Acorn Theory(107) | |
Attunement (Selected) | The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | & FS(209-10), & mirroring(210), & parental bias(207) | ||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | See Index | as act of focussing on another person or ourselves to bring into awareness internal state of other in interpersonal attunement-or self in intrapersonal attunement(54), & compassionate(47)(84), & feeling felt(34), & 1 st phase of=focus of attention on signals from another(34)(39), & internal states needed for(43), & interoception (39-40)(44), & limited by any preoccupations(35), & mirror neuron stimulation(37)(39), & need to be fully receptive(35)(42-3), & not necessarily intentional(38), & perceptual array being as open as possible(35), vs presence=state of being open(35)(43)(54), & projecting feeling of impending chaos or rigidity(53), & shame when needing but not receiving(47-8), & stimulation of integrative regions of brain(228) | ||
Couples, and | Love & War | S. Tatkin | & communication(188), & empathy(209-10), & feeling of being on same page, in alignment or in sync the feeling that launches primary attachment relationships(103), & micromoments(103), & produces a sense of safety & security as well as attraction & sustained by couples capacity to remain predictable & friendly(103), & when partners take care of each other, both of their needs are met(190) | ||
A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & even most sensitive caregiver is insensitive to childs state of mind 50% of time(96), & failing of selfobject _(42-3), & lack of to others emotional reaction over disappointment of primary selfobj. Function(49), & Ts _ to each partners subjectivity instils hope, perspective & new possibility(37), & T using to mollify aggression(119) | |||
Authenticity | Hope & Dread | S. Mitchell | Ch. 5 | & balance of internal & external(137-8), & body(140), as construction(131), & expression vs management(139-40), & gendered identity(140), & inauthentic experience as natural(133), & lying as extreme form of inauthenticity(130), & question of meaning in therapy(132-3), & secret experience(138-9), & spontaneous self-expression(133), in T(79)(84)(146-50), & true vs false experience (131) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & how do two authentic selves co-exist?(237), & improvisational moments capture most heightened moments of relational _(36)(159), & multiple states of _ vs hypocrisy(48), & preserving sense of by being unresponsive to each others longings(49), & submission vs surrender(171) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & alternate versions of reality denied to self dealing w/ world(197), & authenticity of T(211), & clients use of potential space(199), as a construction(195), & dissociated self-states(197-8), & hysteria (223-4), & one dimension is absence of full range of interpersonally organized self-experience(197), & incompleteness of answers(228), & internal saboteur(196), & oscillation between preserving self-state & restructuring it(199), & T experiencing clients diss. voices as discontinuous but individually authentic expressions of selfhood (199), & true self(197), & working w/ in T(199-200) | |
Automatisms | Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & automatic writing(70), & coughing(75), & dissociation(70), & stuttering(75)& tics(74-5) | |
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & definition of(123) | |||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | of behaviour(229-30), of decisions(321-8), of responsibility(262-4) | ||
Avoidance | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & borderline(76-7)(154), & creativity(209), & narcissist(183) | ||
Awakening Experience | Staring at the Sun | I. Yalom | & although the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death saves us(33),& catalyst for(36-7), as a confrontation w/ death that enriches life(32), & everyday(how things are) vs ontological(that things are)(33-4), & mindful of being(35), & the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety(49-50) | ||
Awareness | Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved by You? | J. Paul | & evolving of through learning(237), of partners intent(244), & self-respect(206) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & dissociation(65-76), & schizophrenia(13)(185)(361), & selective inattention(38-58), & self-system(4)(12), & sublimation(14-18) | ||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | of awareness & attention to intention(28)(224), & body scan exercise(44-6), & differentiating what we are aware of vs experience of awareness itself(93)(109), & inner critic(150), & mindful(29)(110), & objectivity(109-10), & permeable boundaries of you & me(127), & shared(134), & 4 streams of sensation, observation, concept, knowing(135-6)(138), & transpiration(254), & triception(126), & wheel of(93)(209-10)(224)(265) | |||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & anxiety when too much info. enters _(65), & capacity to know w/o awareness of what is known(67), & censors(59), & filtering perception(90), & hidden observer(88), & influence of info. that never reaches_(86), & memory(63), & most consequential activity outside of(68) | |||
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | & ecstasy(197), & self-relatedness(197) | |||
The Natural History of the Mind | G. Taylor | & body(157), & cognition(199), & consciousness(73-7), & unconsciousness(75)(86-7)(90)(318) | |||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | characteristics of(xv), as chief aim of therapy(281), & contact-boundary(267-8), & emotion(112), vs introspection(88) | ||
Awe | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | P.137 | & courage(137), & love(137), as respect for the Other(137) | |
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Basic Fault | Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & each human being wants to return to all-embracing harmony w/ environment, to be able to love in peace(4), as failure to feel primary love or an unrepaired, even irreparable rupture of it(4), & no sense that others might have wishes & expectations not our own, therefore, no need for seeking power or making effort(4), if unconditional dependence of primary love disturbed more than normal, baby responds desperately. If unwanted, neglected, abandoned, attacked, hatred & aggression is born(4) |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & anxiety around(21), & avoiding omnipotence by T(167-8)(171), & characteristics of(16-7), & clients expression of(88-9), as deficiency (21-2), & fault vs complex, conflict or situation(21-2), & frustration as intentional(19), & harmonious mix-up(57), & importance of every gesture(18), & interpretation as attack(18), & interpretation as demand for gratification or need for object rel. (162), & interpretation as gratifying(18)(161), & knowing too much about T(18-9), & mixture of emptiness & determination(19-20), as more primitive than Oedipal(16), as new beginning(165-6), & object rel. as primary love (168), & origin of(22)(82)(125), & provisions of T taken for granted (20-1), & reaction of client when T fails to respond appropriately(19) (112), & regression(156), & satisfaction vs frustration(17)(168), & T as primary substance(167), & Ts danger of subjective emotional involvement(20), as 2-partner relationship where only 1 partner matters(23), & vagueness of language(17)(111), & wide influence of (22) | |
BASK | Psychoanalytic Diagnoses | N. McWilliams | & B ehaviour, A ffect, S ensation, K nowledge(331-2), & dissociative personality(331-2) | ||
Beauty | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & the daimon(39-40), & life(38), & neglect by psyche(35) | |
The Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | p. 104-5 | |||
The Art of Travel | A. de Botton | p. 220 | & 5 central conclusions about | ||
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | Ch.2 | & the body(21-4), & the face(25), & the hair(27-30), & sex(33-5), & soul(30-3) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & art(220), & dark side of life(210-1)(222)(228), & definition of(209)(223), & depth of perception(211-2), & images(213)(215-7), & own beauty(225), & rel. to love & pleasure(216), as relief from distress(211), & self-interest(224), vs truth & fact to the mind(223) | ||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.277-280 | contemplation of(279), definition of(279), & lack of soul disturbance eg depression(277-8), & passion(280) | ||
New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | Emersons definition of a successful life &(157), vanity crisis &(182-5) | ||
Males Attraction to | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | & attractive infants(71), & beauty contests(70), & beauty power vs performance power(100-2), & desire for attention(116), & marriage (103), & mens need to prove themselves w/ a beautiful woman (74)(111), & power(66-70), & self-confidence(75), & sexual distance(76) | ||
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | See Index | & boys social power over(239), & cult of(238), as grounded in pleasure of girlhood(248), & internalizing males standards of(241), as passion(255), & shapely body(240), & shifts from feeling to observing body(241), as survival strategy(237)(244) | |
Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | & compliments(189) | |||
Being | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | vs doing as therapist(312), & fear of collapse(259) | |
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | All | |||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | See Index | & being in the world(25)(32), & body(130)(161-2), & denial of in psychosis(150), & ontological security(41-2), & relatedness(26), & sense of identity(139) | ||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | & doing infused w/(208), & love, joy & peace as deep states of(29), & merging of subject & object(107), vs mind(111) | |||
Conversations with God | N. Walsch |
| & action of body(185), vs doing(170), & soul(170)(185 ) | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott |
| & doing(85), & female element(80)(82), & I am vs I do(130), vs male element(80-2), & play(57) | ||
Being-Itself, and | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | & being affirming itself against nonbeing(179), & courage to be as self-affirmation of(24)(180-1), & doubt & meaninglessness(176), & embracing nonbeing(34), & faith(172)(176), & fate & guilt(176), & nonbeing(180), & participation vs individualization(156-7), & religion(156-7), & subjective/objective split(25), & threat of nonbeing (156)(158), as transcending every finite being infinitely(172-3) | ||
Body, and | Fear of Life | A. Lowen | Ch.3-5 | & activity as flow vs push(101), & authenticity(80), & body(86) (90-1), & breakdown/breakthrough(157), & breathing(105), & castration anxiety(166-7)(169), vs doing(82)(98-9)(101)(103), & fear of death(120), & fear of insanity(137)(161), & feeling(100) (106)(125), & growth(99), & harmony between ego & body(103), vs having(97-8), & helper(77), & holding(104)(124), & me, myself & I(85), & orgasm anxiety(123-4), & pleasure(100), & release from fear & anger(146-7), & roles(73-5)(103-4), & self(85-6), & sexuality(84-8)(96-7)(121-2), & sexuality vs sexual activity(90-6), & social roles (79), & spontaneity(102), as state of aliveness in body(107), & therapy(147-55), & therapy; learning how not to do vs how to be (104), & unity(89), & voice(84), & will to live(120), & wish to die (112)(119) | |
Therapy, and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 156 | ||
Bereavement | Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & creativity(129)(134)(143-4), & depressives(126-7), & meaning of life(12), as private(31), & writing(128) | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p. 170-1 | of parents for children | ||
Betrayal | Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | See Index | & denial(49), & forgiveness(48), & generalization(49-50), & individuation(50-1), of innocence, trust & faith(47), & isolation(49), & message of(51), & paradox of trust & depth(48), & revenge(49) | |
On Flirtation | A. Phillips | See Index | & letting people down by refusing to be only one version of oneself(169), as one way we get to know people by betraying them(169), & suffer most as adults from not being able to let people down(169) | ||
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | See Index | & anger(68-9), & culture(101)(299-300), cycle of (65-9)(170), by mother(39)(44)(46), & trusting each other(305), & voice(300-1) | |
Bioenergetic Analysis | The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | All | ||
Biofeedback | Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | All | ||
Bisexuality | Androgyny | J. Singer | See Index | & Adam & Eve(80), & androgyny(32)(111-2), & anima/animus(32) (257), definition of(16-8)(31), & Freud(254-7) | |
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & friendship(187)(189-90), & negative Oedipus complex(111), & wish for(121) | ||
Women, and | Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, Ed. | & creative process(167-8), & Oedipal situation(81) | ||
Blame | Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | & paranoid schizophrenia(87)(146)(148)(304)(335-341), & unworthiness(345) | ||
Body | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | Ch.8 | & context of cultural numbing(165), & cultivating bodys soul (172-4), & desire of as issue of pleasure(164), as expression of soul(155), & illness of as god wounds(166-7), & imagination(175), & organ eroticism(163), & world/human(171) | |
Conversations with God | N. Walsch | See Index | & 3 aspects of Self(196-7), vs mind(175), vs soul(81)(175)(196) | ||
Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | Ch.2 | & 2 factors associated w/ good health(30), & stress(28-9) | ||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | See Index | & attention in _=Now(117), & Cs(121), & rooted in_=observer of mind(118), & transformation as through, not away(114) | ||
The Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | See Index | & embodiment(153)(157), & evil eye(155), & humiliation(154), & schizoid(152), & sensuality(152-3)(155-6) | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, Ed. | Ch.16 | as hidden(84-5), & personal biography in(84), as shadow(armour, Reich)(83)(86-8) | ||
Bioenergetic Analysis, and | Betrayal of the Body | A. Lowen | All | ||
Fear of Life | A. Lowen | ||||
Body Dysmorphic Disorder, and | The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | p. 188 | & body vs body image | |
Development, and | Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | & grasping/sucking(105-6), & hands(106), & holding(93-4)(131), & manipulation of outside world(107), & moulding(100-1), & mouth as inner/outer bridge(101), & pleasure from(212)(224), & products from inside(225-6), & stiffening(102-3), as subject matter in 1 st 12m(104), & sensations of @ 16m.(55) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & aliveness of as antidote to depersonalization & deadness(191), & body as thing in absence of symbolization(191), & disconnection of mind from(232), & inauthentic use of in diss. processes(190) (232), & the sorrow that has not vent in tears makes other organs weep(317) | |
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | & inappropriate touch in T(204-5), loss of control of(70-1), as ugly(122) | ||
Mindsight, and | Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & blanking awareness of feelings, body reveals anyway(125), & the bodys feeling underneath panic(141), & body scan(95-6)(134), & creating mental models from(73), & fight, flight or freeze(131)(199-200), & interruptive awareness of(127), & neural networks throughout interior of body = gut feeling or heartfelt senses(43) (63), & safe place(135)(137), & saying yes & no re: reactive & receptive states(199)(214-5), & 5 senses(43), & vertical integration(72-3), & walking meditation(96), & window of tolerance(137-9) | |
Self-Relatedness and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | p. 197-8 | ||
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & ego(348-9), & erection(13)(383), & importance of father(266), & masturbation(67), & importance of mother(117)(204-5)(266)(274), & penis(19)(181)(303), & phallus(19)(189), as remaining unwritten (347), & reproductive techniques(21), & symbol(348-9), & vagina (20)(68)(303), & womb(199), & womens awareness of(261) | |
Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | See Index | & adolescence(14), & attractiveness to boys(240), & desire(14)(204) (207-8)(262), & eating disorders(252), & loss of living in(59-60), & neg./pos. image of(162)(241), & pleasure in(44), & reclaiming of (248)& sexualization of(192)(210) | ||
Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | & fairy tales(204), & love(162) | |||
Body - Mind Connection | The Will to Live | A. Hutschnecker | All | ||
Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | All | |||
Healing Yourself | S. Pennington | ||||
Getting Well Again | C. Simonton | ||||
Body Consciousness, and | Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | Ch 8 | & cancer(169-71), & psychosomatic health(156)(164), & techniques for(164-71), & travelling through(159-61)(167), & voluntary control(157-8), & yoga(156)(158-61) | |
Development of | Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | @ 2m.(170-1), until 15/18m.(262), @ 5m.(103), @ 15m.(179), & cycle of breaking free/returning(57-8), vs empathy/devotion(50), & growth(182), in tune w/ sensate world(159), & 2 nd birth(29)(54), & separation(172) | |
Bodywork | Exercises in | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | Pg 136-46 | & affect(94-108), & awareness focusing(100) |
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | Pg 298-302 | evaluation of(298-300), types of(300-2) | |
Borderline Personality | Women Analyze Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & narcissism(131), & treatment of(292) | |
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & countertransference w/(189), & parental projection(164) | |||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & attunement to therapist(139), & child abuse(123)(125-6), & traumatic transference(136)(147) | |||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & analyzability of(71)(183), & NPD(9), & nuclear self(8), & transference(9) | ||
The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | etiology of(203), & rapprochement(229) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | Ch 5, 8-9 | in adolescence(Ch9), & borderline therapist(198-9), & intimacy(110) (112-20)(127), portrait of(Ch5), & therapy w/(Ch8, 102-3)(175) (202-4) | ||
My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | All | |||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & asking the clients help(86)(88), & characteristics of(61-5), & consistent conditions of T(82-3), & countertransf.(32), vs dissociative (344), & enmeshment vs abandonment(51-2), & expressive T(81), & interpretation of primitive defenses(84-6), & lack of observing ego (84-6), as level vs type of pathology(51), & preoccupation w/ separation/individuation(53), & projective identification(85)(112), & promoting individuation(88-9), & talk of suicide(14) | ||
Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | Ch 8 | & intersubjective viewpoint(116-131), & idealization/grandiosity (115-6), & projective identification(111-5), & splitting(107-111) | ||
Borderline vs Narcissistic Characteristics | N. Diamand | All | Masterson Seminar | ||
Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | See Index | & countertrans(130), & FS(133-4), & feelings as object(127-8), & marriage to arousing person(130), & mind-fucking(128-9), & outbursts(131), & screen-objects(129), & turmoil(131-2)(134) | ||
Attachment Theory, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | & acting out vs articulating feelings(240), & the angry client(238-9), & anxious style(234), & appearing desperate for help but tyrannized by conviction that their needs will drive help away(235), & empathy w/(235), & equating feelings w/ reality(141), & experiencing life as ongoing crisis(235), & fearful preoccupation w/ traumatic events (235), & feeling chaotic inside & empty(235), & the helpless client (102)(238), & history of disorganized attachment(24)(224), & hyperactivating attachment strategy(102)(225), & hypervigilance for actual or imagined signs that rel. partner might be disapproving, rejecting or withdrawn(225), & lacking a reflective self(239), & lives shaped most fundamentally by fear of abandonment(225), & making own distress too conspicuous to ignore(225), & merger hungry(225), & parents as unpredictable & angry/unavailable in ways that were scary(236), & rel. stormy ending in betrayal(235), & setting T limits(238), & splitting, embeddedness in experience, failures of mentalizing & metaphor of self overwhelmed by powerful, malevolent other(237), & T w/(225)(235)(237)(239), & torn between terror of dep. & bottomless need(235) | ||
vs Hysteric | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | & bonding w/ T(131), & countertrans.(55)(174-5), & creating distress (55), & groups response to(176-7), & mother of(41), & narratives (174-5), & parental projective identification(109), & suicide of(175), & turbulence(9-10)(149) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | p. 62 | & inability to make use of interpretations for fear of being taken over by T | |
Boredom | Feelings | W. Gaylin | Ch 7 | & defences against(115-6), description of(112), vs ennui(111)(113), & existential anxiety(115), & fantasy(120-3), & learning(124), & play(120)(124), & pleasure(119) | |
On Kissing, Tickling and being Bored | A. Phillips | Ch. 7 | as defence against waiting(76-7), & desire(72), as developmental achievement(69), & fantasy(75), as opportunity(70), as protest(76) | ||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | & avoiding dependence on T(169), & emptiness of associations(140), & intellectualization(169), & mastering anxiety(170), as talion response(169), as Ts Unc response(139), & withdrawal of client (169) | ||
Sociopaths, and | The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | P. 185-6 |
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Boundaries/ Boundary Situations | Death as | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | 159-87 | and decisions as(319) |
Highly Sensitive Person, and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | P. 61 | & poor | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & allowing child to feel too important(28-9), & assertion(169), between partners(138), between Self & other(27-8), & fusion w/ all-powerful caregiver(75), & inflated sense of self-importance(28), & labile vs rigid(29), & not being manipulated by guilt & shame (170), as obstacle to control(143), & others as separate vs extensions(28), & parental(193), & predisposition to fusion(142), & sense of entitlement(176), & sexual(195) | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | & analytic space(143)(340), & containment((Ch6)(114)(128)(288), & interpretation(154) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & the therapeutic contract(147)(149-51) | ||
Boundary Transgressions in the Psychotherapeutic Framework | AJP Fall 98 | P.489-99 | & therapeutic guidelines(492), & types of therapeutic(490-2) | ||
Brain | New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & ageing(8)(353), & estrogen(326-7), & mid-life(328), & plasticity of(174) | |
Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | & experience as constructed(197-8), & grounding vs exploration (39), & sexuality(59-60)(67), & strange loop phenomenon(73) | |||
The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | All |
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The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | See Index | & contingent communication(76), & dominated by top-down cortical constructions(106-7), & flexibility to move back to plane of open possibility essence of tranquility(13)(250), & meaning(92), & mind uses brain to create itself(263), & 2 modes of representing reality: verbal & imagery(104), & mood(201), & music(107), & neuroplasticity(200), & physical & mental sides of reality equally real & mutually influence each other(8)(12), & rigidity/chaos(235), & self-engagement systems(23), & social engagement systems(23), & social rejection & physical pain activate same region of(140), & state of mind(200), & state of receptivity(76), & struggle/mistakes required(221-3)(225), & training of through deep practice(110) (221)(250), & transitions from peaks to plateaus(16)(22)(201) | ||
Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & come into this world wired to make connections w one another & neural shaping of brain based on these intimate exchanges between infants & caregivers(10)& creating mental models that shape our expectations(73), & directly shaped by interaction w/ world esp. relationships(41()125), & emotional arousal activates(85)(128-9)(140), & engrained states(199), & epigenesist-changing the reg. of genetic machinery through early exp.(42), & exercise benefits learning(84), & hardwired from birth to make maps in our brains of the intentional stances of others(60-1), & horizontal integration(72)(108), & input from body to(43)(63)(125)(127), & left-brain(72)(106-9)(113-6)(177)(182)(226), & me, you & we maps(8), & mental activity stimulates brain firing(39), & mirror neurons(59-61)(63), & novelty promotes growth of new connections(84-5), & open to learning from exp.(40-1)(84), & neurons that fire together wire together(148), & neuroplasticity(42) (83-5), & power to direct attention can shape brains firing patterns (39-40)(42)(84), & regulatory circuits(86), & resonance circuitry (28)(62-3)(86)(222(257), & right-brain(72)(107-9)(112-4)(181-2) (226-7), & same part of brain deals w/ phy. injuries & social ruptures & rejection(6), & using sensory info. to create representation of others minds as they use sensory input to create images of physical world(8)(60)(62), & vertical integration(72-3) (181) | ||
Anxiety, and | Mt Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | See Index | & anxiety a reminder governed by physiology(30), & anxiety as truest route to self-discovery(221), & autonomic system same whether neurotic anxiety or responding to real threat(45), & correlation between brain activity & subjectively experienced levels of _(273-4), & genetics(142)(270(276)(278)(294)(333), & mental illness caused by biological imbalance in (166)(221), as signal that something needs to change(221-2), & as soon as brain becomes capable of apprehending future, becomes capable of being apprehensive about future(310), & sensitive minds in sensitive bodies(77), & startle response(54), as state that evolved to keep us safe & alive(43)(221)(278), & stomach as `second brain`(77)(80), & talk T changing(53)(154), & uncertainty activates anxiety circuits of(306) | |
Attachment, and | Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & bond of love is safety & survival mechanism(95), & insecurely A have strong physiological reactions to any uncertainty & avopidants make more errors reading partners signals(92), & mirror neurons(97-9), & need for connection shape neural make-up(78), & neural overlap in way we process & experience physical & relational pain(77), & oxytocin(93)(95), & reappraisal vs suppression(73), & RB to RB signalling @ 4 months 1 st & most basic language between child & parent(88), & survival of the most nurtured(90), & womens brains pair safety w/ lust(132) | |
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & agitated depression(415), & anti-depressants(330), & best shot promoting genetic material is combination of loving & attentive mother & jealous & protective father(413-4), & brain doing more than it evolved to do(415), & decrease in serotonin(57)(253), & depression often precursor to sever impairment of(192), & depression touches cognition(55), & depression ultimately changes structure & biochemistry of(56), & 80% wellness rate w/ medication, 80% relapse rate w/o(80), & ECT(120), & endorphins (138), & evolutionary advantage of capacity to make commitments (413), & freedom from guilt attached to chemical(20)(102)(330), & 1/10 on SSRIs(25), & psychosomatic complaints(20), & too many episodes of(56-7), & when instinct, emotion & cognition out of sync(414-5), & will to communicate(419) | |
Ego Defence, and | Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | P.70-75 | & gating system(75), & tripartite(70-4) | |
Men, and | Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & depression(234-5), & Prozac(235) | |
Mirror Neurons, and | Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | & brain as intrinsically relational(21), & involuntary & automatic response to what another person is doing, feeling or intending w/o requiring thought or verbal language(21), & mirroring actions, sensations, emotions, intentions & motives(21), & more than observe another-create internal representation of their sensations, emotions & motives within our own brain, as if we are the ones that are sensing, feeling & intending((22),, as neuroscience version of relational theory of psychological functioning based on a self-state model of mind(21), & similar to implicit relational knowing(21) | ||
Music, and | Music and the Mind | A. Storr | & emotional effects of music on(39), & music originating from(51), & sensory input(104) | ||
Old | Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | & old vs new(41), & the unknown(145) | |
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & adoptive = bio. parent in shaping structure of childs brain(34), & attachment relationships promote integrative functioning within brain enabling child to thrive(175), & autobio. data(43)(46-7)(132)(135), & brain function creates mind(22), & brain structure shapes brain function(22), & constructed to rely on external social input to regulate its own functioning(215), & dont know how brain activity produces subjective experience of mind(32), & experience directly shapes structure of(22), & experience-expectant vs experience-dependent brain development(114-6), & impaired integrating processes of(78), & interpersonal relationships & patterns of communication children experience w/ parents directly influence dev. of mental processes(31-4), & left mode processing (43-4)(87-8)(132)(135)(137-8)(224-5), as most complex thing in universe(33), & well-integrated (right & left), organized brain creates a coherent, adaptive mind(46)(117), & moving from dyadic regulation to self-reg.(215), & right mode processing(43)(55)(63) (87-8)(135-6)(152)(177-8)(225)(232)(244), & social, emotional & bodily processing of other areas of brain directly shape abstract perceptions & reasoning(75) | |
Right | The Right Brain | T. Blakeslee | All | ||
Sociopathy, and | The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | P. 125-6 | ||
Breathing | Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | & anxiety(150-1), as 1 st step in therapy(468) | |
Bulemia | Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | as cultural ill(252) | |
Bullying | When Victims turn into Bullies | S. Bloom TPR Feb2000 | Pg 59-60 | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Calling | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & addiction to perfection(48), & beauty(35-6)(38), & character (251-2)(255),in children(13)(33)(134-5), & daimon(8)(18)(39-40) (83), & demonic crime(Ch 10)(235-6)(239-42), & the extraordinary (31), & feeling of purpose(203-4), & imagination(33), & loss of(4), & love (144-5), & mystery(10), & obsessions(7), vs other theories (25)(29), & reading life backward(7), & school(104-5), & symptoms (34-5)(53), vs therapy(5)(11)(38), vs traditional approach(134), as uniqueness that asks to be lived(6) | |
The Middle Passage | J. Hollis | & judged by fullness of our courage(74), & Self vs ego(74), & vocation(72-4), & vocatus vs task(74), & What am I called to do? (74) | |||
Catharsis | Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & acknowledging painful truths(55), & aim of(53-5), & the arts (220), & cleaning out(57), & definition of(52), & emotions required for(64), & telling your story(58-60) | ||
Cathexis | Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & aggression(90)(93), & obj meaning(88) | ||
Object vs Ego | Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H. Watkins | Pg 14-16 | & dissociation(43), & energy(17)(23-4), & identification(16), & internal obj(16), & introject(16), & thoughts vs perceptions(21) | |
Change | Change & the Real Self | N. Diamand | Pg 21-37 | what it is(21-5), working model of(25-6), how it happens(26-31), & therapy(31-3), why it happens(33-7) | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | and confrontation w/ death(160-5), and insight(339-42) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & anger(238), & dark night(308)(311), & imagination(308-9), & meaning(310), & resisting(77) | |||
Conversations w/ God | N. Walsch | See Index | & responsibility(36-7), & Who You Are(36) | ||
New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & aging(154-5), & aliveness(153), & the brain(174)(328), & inner discontent(12), & marker events(12), & mastery(271), & play(357), & resistance(62) | ||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | & bringing what is unaware into awareness(38-9), & capacity to maintain one`s composure in face of ceaseless change(77), & going more deeply into our problems(xv-xvi), & happens naturally as we open to truth(38-9), & identifying 100% w/ feelings(77), & learning to be w/ ambiguity(xvi), & moving away from problems & into unknown(xvi), & never getting rid of a single neurosis(38), & seeing attachments(37-9), & sense of spaciousness(38-9), & spiritual=anything that takes us beyond this personality(xiv), & using our capacity for Cs(39) | |||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & change point where client speaks to T about himself vs not speaking to T or not speaking about himself(265-6)(297), & client`s wish to stay the same while changing(170)(307), & continuity of human relatedness while self-change is taking place(19, & negotiating change & stability simultaneously(167) | ||
Males, and | Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | & breakdown(22), & exit events(99)& midlife(134),= loss(5)(13) (238), & passion(144-5), & permission(132) | ||
Why Men are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | Chapter 11 | after a relationship ends(311)(332), & intent of changing the other (285), & magical(57), & marriage(173), & not wanting(313), & fear of loss(331), & partner as therapist(318), & power(314), & quickness of(322), vs women(322-3)(332) | ||
Women, and | Dance of Anger | H. Lerner | See Index | as act of disloyalty(36), & anger as signal for(3-4)(102)(107), & anxiety of(44), & anxiety & guilt over potential loss of rel.(24), & choice between having a rel. & having a self(6)(16)(23)(27)(90)(93), & clarity around(114-5), & countermoves to(25-6)(34-5)(80), & de-selfing(20-3)(28)(106), & equated w/ destructive act(33)(95), & family hist.(118), & feeling of separateness & aloneness(96-7)(198), & feelings of depression, low self-esteem, self-betrayal & self-hatred when change doesnt occur(4-5), & guilt trumps anger →change(7), & indep. vs emotional distance(81), & making I statements(30-1)(90)(104), & moving from ineffective fighting & complaining to clear & assertive claiming(5)(9)(24)(26)(29)(55)(90), & pseudo issues(37), & rage in proportion to degree of submission to sacrifice(20-2)(32-3), & recognizing lack of clarity(106), & self-observation(45)(127-8), & self-sabotage(94), & staying silent(199), & staying stuck(8-9)(33)(43-4), & stepping back vs emotional withdrawal(144-5), & thinking vs expressing feelings(74), & trying to change other person(39)(52)(67-8), & venting anger ensures absence of(4), & wanting other person to like it(35)(39), & we teach what we must learn(99), & wishing, fearing & resisting partners change & growth(52)(63)(65) | |
Cherishment | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | All |
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Child Rearing/ Childhood/ Children | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & counter/codependent(265-8)(279), & dysfunctional families(33-4) (41)(43), & trauma(306) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & being stuck @ certain level of dev.(200), & dark night of(205), & mother withholding affection from, to encourage index.(86-8), & parents who stifle themselves(139), & reconnecting w/(200), & repressing(197), & searching for lost(202) | ||
The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | & changing behaviour vs improve mood(76), & chores(149), & communication w/(74)(76-7)(120-1)(200-2)(204)(206-7), & confusing what they want vs what they need(121), & deed vs creed(123), & disappointing behaviour vs rejection(204), & entitlements vs privileges(12)(206), & exploring cause & effect rarely works(120), & hearing parents dishonour others(87), & logical consequences(207), & making amends(207), & not needing to understand or agree(77), & rebuking vs criticism(201), & shame(201), & talk less, act more(200), & using polite phrases(74), & 3 types of sin(201-2)(204) | |||
Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & child abuse(45), & dependence(134-5), & guilt(152)(154) (158-60), & home(37), & romantic love vs parent/child love affair(101), & secure attachment(46-7)(49), & security vs mystery (87), & self-organization(85) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & 4 assumptions sustaining illusion of safety(313), & attachment (20), & bad fit(241), & clingy Mother(251-2), & consciousness (313), & dependency(126-7), & detachment(16), & ego ideal(151), & Father (73-4), & grandiosity/narcissism(54-8), & guilt(140-50), & identity-girls vs boys(129-30), & intimacy(127-8)(130), & latency (154-6), & love(19-20)(70), & myth of perfect family(250-1), & object constancy (43), & oneness w/ Mother(24-34), & 4 physical differences between girls & boys(125), & rapprochement(39), & separation/individuation (21)(35-7)(41)(130)(255), & superego (140-1), & True Dilemma Theory of Parenthood(240)(243-4)(246-7) | ||
Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | & acorn to oak tree human potentialities(17-8), & alienation from self(21), & attitude toward(68), & basic anxiety(18)(297), & basic conflict of moving towards, against or away from others(19-20) (221-2), & feeling of being unloved(87)(202-3), & living in 2 worlds(40), & revenge(27), & safety(21), & self-effacing(221-2), & self-confidence vs neurotic pride(87), & self-realization(17), & withdrawal from conflict(275) | |||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | & alterego(40), & attachment(74-5), & attuned response to expansive affect states(35), & boundaries w/ parents(145), & idealizing(39-40), & interplay between self & mutual reg.(73-5) (162), & language of attachment(74), & mirroring(39), & misattunement of parent(163-7), & organizing principles(24)(160), & parental T w/(165), & repair of injuries to(145), & role of affect (27-8)(36-7)(163), & self-obj. exp.(37)(160)(162), & Unc of(25) | |||
Lord of the Flies | W. Golding | All | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | All | |||
The Fear of Women | W. Lederer | See Index | & altar still a womens womb & her god & supreme purpose still her child(246), & arresting child @ womans favourite stage eg helpless infant, son-lover(67-70), & girls fare worse than boys →paranoia of women(66), & initiation into manhood(70-1), & women can reject, disown, harm, kill even eat their children(66) | ||
Adult Offending Behaviour, and | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 215-228 |
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Adult Eroticism, and | Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | See Index | & body as purest tool for communicating(111-2), & intimacy (123-4), & ruthlessness(121-2), & sexual self-discovery hampered by parental messages(109)(117), & what excites us most as arising out of childhood hurts & frustrations(109) | |
Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | See Index | & acquisition of language(72), & adults who have not found transformative cures for traumas of _→ fated to breakdown(39)(69) (98), & childhood as essentially unfathomable experience, one that cannot be communicated(38), & freeze-framing disturbing psych. Event(20 & preconception of child that someday they will be able to turn to an empathic other in order to make sense of disturbing event in childhood often appears to be realized when self falls in love(71-3), & suffering from childhood itself(38), & unthought known(68-9)(72-3)(80) | |
Caregiver, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | as active agent(12), & becoming admirable adults(69), & feeling deprived of own childhood(8)(70), & feeling guilty for own needs (9), & feeling respon. for keeping parent alive(7)(9-11)(70), & impact on custody(11), as loyal confidants(11), & parent/child as peers(12), as poor preparation for happy adult rel. choices(13), & providing sense of pride & satisfaction(12)(70), & reinstalling rescue re. in adult rel.(9)(31), & sacrificing friendships(9), & taking respon. for parents moods(8), & upside-down dep.(9) | |
Channels of Psych. Vulnerability, and | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 73 |
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Death, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | and concepts of death in(75-109)(212) | |
Denial of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & adapting to whole desperate human condition not merely to attune to whims of parents(61), & character of(29), & character defenses of are automatic & Unc as child needs to adjust to world, parents & own existential dilemma→ becomes dependent on them to encased in own char. armor unable to see his own defenses, the things that are determining his unfreedom(73), & death a complex symbol, not any particular, sharply defined(19)(22), & experience anxious confusion when parents do not transcend the body(44), & expressing horror @ complete dependence on what is physically vulnerable (89), & fetishizes mothers body as object of global danger(39), & inauthentic men follow styles of automatic & uncritical living, conditioned as children(73), & living w/ inner sense of chaos as forces of nature confused, external & internal→ exaggerated potential power & added terror due to magical malevolent feelings of child toward parents→ guilt & helplessness(18-0), & major task a flight from helplessness & obliteration(36), & mother represents pure source of pleasure & satisfaction, security & a fundamental threat to getting control of his own powers(38), & mothers body reveals a sex that threatens vulnerability & dependence & 2 sexes→ fact that childs body is arbitrary = horror of biological fact→ child saddled w/ impossible project = determining his meaning cannot be achieved by body-sexual means(40-1), & narcissistic project becomes mastery & possession of world through self-control but doomed to failure(37), & no perfect way to bring up child since he brings himself up by trying to shape himself into an absolute controller of his own destiny(37), & parents as living embodiment of cultural world view that child has to internalize(44), & repression of idea of own death fortified by his narcissistic vitality & identification w/ parents triumph over death automatically becomes his(71), & succumbing to desire to flee sex represented by mother 40), & unable to muster stamina & authority necessary to face overwhelmingness of world(62), & using body as machine to magically coerce the body(44), & wants to conquer death by becoming father of himself(36), & witnessing primal scene a complex symbol combining horror of body & betrayal of cultural superego(44) | |
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & ADHD, separation anxiety & conduct disorder(181-2), & anaclitic(183-4), & behaviour of(181-2), as depressed adults(181) (187), of depressed mothers(180-1),& early assertion of power(350), & 5 possible explanations for(182), & high level of physical complaints(182), & homophobia(204), in infants as young as 3m(181), & interventions based on listening(183), & magnify mother`s state(181), & paranoia(182), & physical illness or disability of(187), & prevents personality development(185), & school-age children severely maladjusted(181), & signs of(188), & suicide(187)(257) | |
Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | All |
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Highly Sensitive Person, and | Highly Sensitive People | E. Aron | See Index | & 2 kinds of HSP(66), & difficulty sleeping(24-6), & fears of(74-5), & help w/ overarousal(70)(72), & imagination(27), as peacemaker (170), & risk of anxiety, depression as adult(168)(173), & school (81) (83), & self-loathing(85), & social skills(81), & trusting the others (72-3) | |
Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk about It | T. Real | See Index | & absent Father(143), & adult depression(98), & affection from Father(141), & bullying(116), & closeness to Mother(144-5), & disempowering abuse(166), & false empowerment(166)(175), & grandiosity(161), & initiation rites(76)(132)(162-3), & lost, shame ridden boy(225-6), & masculine identity(130-1), & self-esteem (44-5) (182), & performance(168)(172), & socialization of gender(120-3) (130)(171)(174)(177), & trauma(105-7)(110) (116)(137)(205-9) (290), & violence as # 1 killer of(113), & work w/ inner children (212-3)(276) | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & age-appropriate N. = 2-3 yrs.(45), & development of real competencies(37), & evolving from grandiosity to reality-based Self (41-2), & management of shame(35), & N. personality=failure to complete the S/I process(45), & one w/ powerful parent(37), & recovery from shame(41), & shame as betrayal of illusion of perfect union w/ Mother(41) | |
Society, and | Thou Shalt Not Be Aware | A. Miller | All | ||
Sociopathy, and | The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | See Index | & ethic of care(women) vs ethic of justice(men)(176), & 50% inherited(123-4), & moral reasoning(99-101)(171) | |
Women, and | Women Analyze Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & absent Father(36)(139)(266), & creativity(22)(252)& equally shared(113)(125)(288)(295), & parents cultural fear of(396-7), & reproductive techniques(20), & single parent families(267) | |
Child, Divine | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.49-54 | as archetype(49), & embracing(53), & helplessness(50-1), as soul(54) | |
Child, Inner | The Middle Passage | J. Hollis | See Index | & affairs(57-9), & childish vs childlike(104), & marriage as prime bearer of needs of(57), & mid-life(104), & neurosis as defence of(10), as organic memory of childhood(10), & What would my inner child enjoy? as question of mid-passage(105), & 2 wounds(10) | |
Choice(Decision) | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.302-3, 314-46 | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & capacity to acknowledge one`s mastery is imperfect(293), vs decision(68)(292-3), & dissociation(293) | |
Clinging | Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | 3 types of(278-9), & approach behaviour(247-8), at birth(265), directed towards Mothers body(309)(348), to inanimate objects (309) (311-3), & kissing as attachment & sexual behaviour(233), & man vs primate(216), in monkeys(199)(278), & sequence of behaviour at separation(27-8)(337), & strong attachment or insecurity(334) | |
The Basic Fault | M. Balint | as defence against object loss(69), & harmonious interpenetrating mix-up(74-5), & physical contact w/ T(145), & primary cathexis to object vs space as threatening(68), & primary object(69-9 ) | |||
Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | & boys vs girls(218), & darting away(196-7), & shadowing(196-7) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & borderline(76-7)(79)(85)(113)(119-20), & feeling helpless(71), & guilt(69) | ||
The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | & smiling(83) | |||
Relationships, and | Dancing with Fire | J. Amodeo | & bypassing threatening feelings of hurt or loneliness(56), & clinging to being right(58), & clinging to shame(58)(111), & defensive reactivity(56), & definition of(48), & desire(45), & desire vs craving(45)(50)(52))(87), & fantasy(49), & letting go(46), & longings(52)(56)(64)(87), & shame about our suffering(65), & staying connected w/ our felt experience(51), & we cannot heal what we refuse to feel(65) | ||
Co-Dependence | Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | P.8-9 | & loss of identity(8-9) | |
Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopick | Ch 4 | & controlling behaviour of(41), & description of(40-1), & guilt vs shame(40), & people are always matched perfectly at the level of their common woundedness(43), & relationship between(42-3), & takers vs caretakers(41-2), & T as(145-6) | ||
Toxic Parents | S. Forward | P.39 | definition of | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & compliant employee(105), & neediness(79), & powerlessness(24) | ||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | Ch.5 | & definition of(28-9), & denial of feelings(39-40), & secrets(38), & threat of chaos(39) | ||
vs Counter-dependence | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | Ch 9 | & change(279-91), & description of(267), & mandates of(268), & passive acceptance(267), & self-evaluation(291-300), & shadow self(276-8), | |
Cognitive &/or Behavioural Therapy/ Cognitive Styles | Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | All | ||
Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | See Index | for ego-building(284-91), w. schizoids anxiety(118-22) | ||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | and cognitive dissonance(323), and styles of(153-6) | |||
Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H Watkins | vs insight(158), & phobias(158), & the unc(123)(158) | |||
Coherence | Solitude | A. Storr | Ch. 10 | & avoidant infant(146-7), & capacity to create(154), & disintegration anxiety(149)(164), & interests(151-2), & intimacy (149), & Kohut (148-52), & self-reference(147) | |
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & ABCs of attachment(attunement & balance)(103)(164), & central(243), & _ self neurologically created when response of social env. contingent(82-3)(98), & integrating various domains of exp. 249), as outcome of successful parent-mediated bal. in which brain becomes adaptive, stable & flexible to adjust to changing env. demands coherent, adaptive mind(117)(164), & secure attachments promote(117), as sense of integration where child feels both internally integrated & interper. connected(48)(103)(248), & telling a coherent story of our lives(47)(83-5)(123) | |
Combat Neurosis | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & community(70), & constriction(46), & fixation(37), & hysteria (20-2), & mourning(188-90), & rap groups(27), & relationship of soldier to leader(25), vs sex war(28-32), & shame(192-4), & talking cure (25), & testimony(181), & therapy w/(171)(181-7), & trauma(25-6) | |
Commitment | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & caring(187-8)(194), & Cs(334), & love(214-5), & relationships (91)(331-2), as relationship level(203), vs transitional(94)(214), types of(41) | |
Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & Cs, preCs & Unc(176-8)(192), & imagined vs real intimacy(190), & saying I love you(196), vs spontaneity(199), & will(185-7)(194-5)(198) | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & fear of abandonment(88-9), & fear of closeness(96-7) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | vs loving someone(149-50), & is marriage an affirmation of life or an attempt to constrain it?(148), & security from open-hearted loving(149) | |||
The Road Less Traveled | S. Peck | Pg140-50 | & failure of parents to commit(141), & sex(147), & spiritual growth (140-1)(148), to therapy(147-8) | ||
Adult Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | & anxious about love, commitment & marriage as afraid of failing & being hurt(150), & avoiding(150), & co-habitation(151), & fear of(150-1), & fear of rejection(150), & isolation(150), & men(151-2) | |
Males, and | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & fear of(151)(157)(160)(337), & giving up fantasy(150-1)(160) (162), & intimacy(162-3), & love(161)& power of(151), vs power of sex for women(151), as promise of payment(103), & quality of sexual connection(102)(159)(240), & quote on change(173), & relationship objects(180), & role expectations(171-2), for women(150-1)(157-8) (169)(171)(182), & womens complaint of mans fear of(154), & womens fantasy of(53) | |
Communication/ Listening(Verbal & Non-Verbal) | Attachment, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | w/ anxious infants(21-2)(35-6), w/ avoidant infants(21-2)(35-6), & balance between interactive & self-regulation(109-11), & collaborative(21)(105)(193-4), & containing infants distress through(48-9), & contingent(21)(53)(106)(108), & cross-modal responsiveness(52)(106), & dev. of rules of attachment through _(35), & explicit vs implicit memory(118), & if we cannot _ we enact, evoke or embody(119)(121), & infant patterns of nonverbal _ can predict representational patterns(30)(35), & learn most of significant & lasting rel. lessons by 12 months before lang.(116), & mutually regulating patterns of(108), & quality of non-verbal _ in attachment rel. that determines infants security or insecurity(2) (16)(20), & regulation of non-verbal _ as mental representations & rules for processing info. that influence adolescent & adult(2)(84), w/ secure infants(21)(35), |
Cognitive Behavioural Approach, and | Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | Ch18-22 | & attitudes that prevent listening(444-5), & attitudes that prevent self-expression(443-4), & characteristics of bad communication (365), & help addiction(437), & 5 listening & self-expression skills(401-410) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & affect storms(46), & articulation of self-actualization(147), & dysfunctional patterns of: criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling & contempt(100)(147), & emergence of dissociated states through implicit communication(119), & faces as primary mode of emotional communication(46), & how vs what is spoken(133), & implicit vs explicit processes(99-100)(119)(133), & meta_(166), & morality gambit(105), & mutually inductive scripts(121)(133)(135) (147), & plausible deniability of just kidding(230) | |
HSP and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | P.156-7 | & avoiding unpleasantries | |
Males, and | Why Men are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & problem solving(140), vs women(142) | |
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & attuned, reciprocal, mutual, collaborative, contingent _ describes fundamental universal process that links infant to parent(95), & awareness of primary emotions(57)(64), & being understood takes more than words(67), & coherence(68)(83-5)(93-4)(98)(117)(249), & communication about ext. events of life vs mental life(42), & compassion(68), & considering both child & parents point of view(68-9)(90-2), & contingent(80-1)(83), & emergence of more autonomous self & flexible self-reg.(68), & empathy(66)(88)(186), & exchange occurring in present moment(81), & feeling felt through (64)(66)(83)(108)(164), & giving respect to act of listening(81)(85) (93), as how we engage w/ others in process of connection, not only sharing info.(93), & how we talk to ourselves shaped by how others have talked to us(97), & includes verbal(left) & non-verbal(right) (87), & inconsistent(84-5), & mirror neurons(65), & mismatch between verbal & non-verbal(88), & moments of joining(66)(68), & mutual collaboration(80)(83), & neural representation of the self as-changed-by-the-other becomes a central aspect of our sense of identity(82-3)(89), & non-contingent(69)(91), & reaction dep. on what is actually communicated(81), & reflective self-understanding (69-70), & resonance(64-5), & ruptured connection(70)(186)(193), & secure attachment(103), & self-knowledge through(68)(83)(94), & shame(87)(185)(193), & social referencing(97) | |
Skills, and | The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | & being directive w/ regard to process of helping but nondirective w/ regard to content(148), & 3 different requests of helpers: for action, information & understanding(191), & 3 stages of helping: exploring, understanding & acting(188), & 4 stages in acquisition of: Unc incompetence, Cs incompetence, Cs competence & Unc competence(161-2) | ||
Therapy, and | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | as basic rule of psychoanalysis(103), & creative misunderstanding (186-7)(191), & dreams(109), & spirit(63), & unc(45)(114)(188-90) | |
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | Ch 2 | & listening(23), & T vs client(19) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, Ed | Ch 3 & 6 | & analyst gives back . . quote(58), & client non communicating (34), & FS(29-31), & incommunicado core(33)(35)(37), & interpretation(28)(34-5)(61), & joy to be hidden . . . quote(32), & object relations(27-9) | ||
Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & behaviour as(298)(325), & boredom(67), & clients monitoring of Ts(53-4), & containing(111-2), & form vs content(41)(84)(121), & hope(304), & identification w/ aggressor(193), by impact(64-5)(120) (208), & impulse to reassure(77)(127), & interpretation(47)(128) (181), & projective identification(70-2)(281), & role-responsiveness (66-7)(193), & silence(206), & unc(82-3) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | & hysteria(221-2), & obsessive compulsive(247), & schizophrenia (186)(315)(324-32) | |||
Unconscious, and | Cracking Up | C. Bollas | Ch.1 | as aesthetic(43), & forgetting(30-1), & free association(29)(170-1), & interpretation(17), & intuition(39-40), & misunderstanding(21), & pleasure(46-7), & silence(19)(45), & T as wise fools(20) | |
Companions | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | vs friends(210-1), as relationship level(203)(207-9), & self-assessment(223-4) | |
New Passages | G. Sheehy | vs competition(253) | |||
Compart- mentalization | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | p. 179-80, 190 | as solution to inner conflict | |
Abused males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | Ch 9 | & fragments(114), & isolation(114), & sex(186-7) | |
Affairs, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | & inability to by monogamous infidels(62), & preserving parallel lives(62), & secrets(71-2) | |
Compassion | vs Empathy | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 199 |
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Compensation/ Compensatory Structures | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & dreams(18(181-2), & mandalas(20), & neurotic symptoms(17), & psychological types/functions(18), & self-regulation(178)(181-2), & the unc(117)(167)(219) | |
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | vs primary structures(44), & selfobject(131)(205-6), & selfobject transference(44) | |||
Survivors fantasy of | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | Pg 190-2 | ||
Theory of | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | Pg 22-7 | ||
Complementarity | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & anima/persona(101), & single reality(25) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & each style requires other to exist(179), & preserves binary of opposites by reversing each partners respective position(179), & useful imnage=seesaw(179-80) | ||
Complexes | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & anima(122-3), & Cs(38-9), & definition of(34), & dreams(39-40), & introversion(143), vs persona(34) | |
Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | Ch.8 | & diagram of(119), & feeling charged up(118), & signs of(28) | ||
Modern Man in Search of a Soul | C. Jung | P.78-80 | & conflict(79), definition of(78-9), & parental(80) | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | accept the fact . . . quote(89), definition of(145), & detection of(52-3), & immortality(36), & mother(84)(90), & Magical Other (37), & parental(21)(105) | ||
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.166-9 | definition of(166)(168), & jealousy(166), & sex(169) | ||
The Middle Passage | J. Hollis | See Index | & ability to ask, Who am I at this moment?(63), & career(30), & contract w/ universe(41), & choosing partner(65), & mother/father (13), & nurturing/empowerment(68), & unlived life of parents(29) (71), & Who am I if I am not my ego & not my complexes?(108) | ||
Men, and | Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | See Index | & Father: & absence of positive male energy(69)(91), & anger(57) (107)(110)(118), & dual archetype of(83), & fear as primary enemy (51)(94)(110)(126), & grief(117), & hunger for father(86-7)(96), & Iron John myth(92), & loving the question(95), & mentoring(88-9), & need of father(89091), & need for nurturance(127), & outgrowing vs solving problems(129), & projection on Other(111), & unlived life of (90)(119)(128), & Mother: & acting out(57), as bridge to world of nature & body(109), as cave to retreat to(38), & compensation for (48), & confronting of(54), & Cs(40), & experienced as longing for warmth(31), & hero archetype(40-1), as idea of(31), & incarnation of feminine in male(43)(55), & information from Mother about men(30), & machoism(35-6), & male oppression(35)(47), & mans dependency (51), & mens rage(42-3), & necessary wounding(11)(65)(105), & rage toward anima(60), & regression w/ partner(35)(69), & relationships (41-2)(58)(111), & ritual of passage from(19-20), & unlived life of(34), & 4 ways of developing distorted relationship to feminine (102-3), & wound of too much or too little(56), & parent(129), & power(10-1)(23-5)(35), & Sky Father, Great Mother(84) | |
Compliance | Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | vs avoidance(95)(100), & depression(95)(97), & FS(94-6) | |
Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | & authoritative Inner Adult(69), & children of of compliant men (69), & description of(68), & men(69), & women(69) | |||
Development, and | The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & FS(102)(146-7)(149-50), w/ Mother(145) | ||
Winnicott | A. Phillips | & FS(133-4)(136), & mouthlove(70), vs surprise at oneself(12), & transitional object(122) | |||
Infants, and | The Beast in the Nursery | A. Phillips | P.28 | that which I do because not doing it is too dangerous | |
Passive Character, and | Neurotic Styles | D. Shapiro | Pg 169-74 | ||
Compulsions/ Compulsive Character | King, Warrior, Magician, Lover | R. Moore | P.92 | & Sadistic Warrior | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & compulsive heroism(121-2), as defense against responsibility (225), & description of(313), & meaninglessness of(452)(454), and sexuality(383-5) | ||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | & compulsion to repeat(342) | ||
Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & alienation from self(159), to actualize idealized self(24)(38), & need for vindictive triumph(209-10), & reactions to its frustration (31), & search for glory(24)(29), vs spontaneity(29)(38-9) | ||
Body, and | The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | See Index | & impulses(306), & sex(308), & solidity(308), & submission(310) | |
Males, in | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | & numbing behaviour(109-10), & sexual behaviour(129) | |
Concern | Infants Capacity for | The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & ambivalence(26)(75), & ego integration(26), & guilt(73)(77), & object/environment Mothers(76)(78), & origin of(73-4) |
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | & caring less about self than about damage to other(29), & depressive anxiety reflects(29-30)(87), & depressive or reparative guilt reflects(29-30), & depressive position(130), & leads to creative acts of apology, healing & restitution(30), origin of sympathetic vs empathic ID(61), & prosocial(30), & shame, depression & masochism reflect lack of for the other(29) | ||
Concretization | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | by children of familys subj. exp.(146-7), as dominating when responsiveness absent(26), as encapsulation of organizations of exp. by concrete, sensorimotor symbols(26), especially of particular affect states(26), as fundamental psych. process(26), of individual incidents by partners(57), & objective=dramatize, reify & thereby maintain organization of subjective world(146), as retreat from vicissitudes of rel.(26-7), & working w/ couples(147) | ||
Condensation | Cracking Up | C. Bollas | & dreams(55-6), vs free association(49)(53), as uniting disparate ideas(3)(53) | ||
Being a Character | C. Bollas | & dreams(55)(109), & genera(83), & unc communication(103)(188) (190) | |||
Confession | vs Apology | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P, 152-3 |
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Conflict | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | & ego(122-3), & marriage quote(85), & souls intention(104) | ||
Central Inner, and | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | & neurotic @ war w/ himself(112), & 2 kinds: w/ pride system & between RS & pride system(112), & 3 attempts to resolve: compartmentalizing, streamlining, resigning(190), & T(356) | ||
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | as airing grievances within 24 hr(57), & childs awareness of(277-281), as evoking painful memories & feelings of terror(56), as inevitable 1 st step leading to divorce(56), & fear of abandonment when disagreeing(300), & fear of disaster when content(300), & first response panic then flight(56)(300), & learning about @ home(55-6), in marriage of 2 divorced children(260-1), & never going to bed angry(57), & parents conjugal jihad(269-270), & passively addressing as adults(77), & post-divorce(94), & reaching for worst solutions(56), as spelling danger(56), & stepmothers(175)(274-6) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | between assertion of self & recognition of other(13)(164), between invariant Unc propositions & Cs wishes & desires(109)(159), between security in A & danger of romance(120), between self-interest & biological imperative to relate(13), & bidimensional transf. _(54), & essential contradictions(164), & multiplicity of self-states(173), & mutual inductive identification(135-6), over each partners actual needs & desires(14), over respective systems of meaning(14)(100), & pattern of dominance & submission(107), & playing w/(159), & self-actualization(147), & when perspective versions of what is presumed to be implicitly relationally known are in conflict(100) | ||
Therapy, and | Gestalt | F. Perls | & creativity(52)(418)(420)(428), & neuroses(418)(421) | ||
Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | See Index | of affect states(92-5), & intensity(90), as subjective state(88-90) | ||
The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | & avoidance(206), & emotional issues must be resolved 1 st before content issues(213), as friendly excursions into disequilibrium (208), & I statements ie starting conflict as problem you have vs other person has(213), & mutual discovery vs combative defensiveness(213), & personalizing(210), & in relationship vs person(213), as unmet expectations(211) | |||
Universal, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | P. 361, 278, 405 | ||
Conflict Model | vs Deficit Model | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | P 53,244-7 | |
Confrontation | The Road Less Traveled | S. Peck | P.150-5 | 2 ways to(152), as leadership(153) | |
Parental | Toxic Parents | S. Forward | Ch.13 | & face to face(244), & letter writing(239), & parental responses/ reactions(247-9)(256), of parents(233-8), & sibling reaction(258-9) | |
Congruence | On Becoming a Person | C. Rogers | See Index | in client(63-4), definition of(339-41), in therapy(61) | |
Conscience | The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | See Index | & antisocial personality(6), & authority(60), & courage(53)(68), as creator of meaning(52), & definition of(25-6)(193), & emotional attachment(180), & extreme(194-5), & honour(23), & killing(65-7) (105), & love(216), & love vs will to possess & dominate(191-2),& men vs women(176), & moral reasoning(171), as nexus of psychology & spirituality(215-6), & origins of(168-70), & perception of good & evil(178), & reason for(32)(210), & shamelessness(105), vs superego(31)(33)(35), vs unhealthy shame (193), & universal moral principle(60), & virtue(54) | |
The Till Small Voice | D. Carveth | & arises not from reason but from feeling(71), & associated w/ true self-dev.(77), & clients suffer from conflict between SE & conscience(65-6)(73-4), & elaborated through development of capacity for concern, empathy, sympathy & reparation(65), as expression of Eros(82), & fuelled by A, concern & love(66)(82), & justified guilt(65), & loving SE(74), as obligation to give love for love received(61), & originating in love for & ID w/ nurturing parents(65)(77), & owe moral & social progress to(67), as positive talion: love for love(61), & present from beginning in infants simple preference for pleasure(good) over pain(bad)(77), as reparative morality in depressive position(61), & w/o, subject will identify w/ punitive SE & self-righteously channel aggression away from self on to sinners whom it is his mission to punish(65) | |||
Consciousness | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & anima(45), & archetypes(23)(139), & ego(48), & fantasy images (23), & heroic(81), & multiple centres(26)(35), & myth(17)(23), & style of(135)(138) | |
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | See Index | & gap between perception & thought(97), & God-essence vs form(100), & manifestations of(99). & no-mind(24)9139), & presence(98), & space(139-42), & thought cannot exist w/o _ but Cs can exist w/o thought(23) | ||
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | See Index | vs awareness(96)(124-5), & conflict as essence of(217), & development of(20), & element of rebellion(217), & object/subject split(198), & self-relatedness(198), & uniting w/ behaviour & through values(220) | ||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | & diagram of(51), & dreams(4)(208), & ego as centre(105), vs the eternal things(242)(510)(515), & 4 functions(315)(467)(586)(608), of inferior person(664), & the moon(277), no idea what it is(433), & shadow(50)(584), & symbols(331)(463), & thinking(528), & Trinity(584-5), & Unc(126)(587) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & adaptation(61-2), & archetypes(16)(84)(222-3), & assimilation (80-2)(184), & compensation(18)(117)(131)(219), & complexes (38-9)(122), & divine wind quote(61), & dreams(213)& ego (212) (218-20), & emotions(215), & faith(384), & 4 functions (63)(145), & higher(227), & history of(223), & individuation(19)(22)212) (225), & instincts(382)(390), & intuition(219), & masculine/ feminine(106)(110-1)(113), & memory(219), & mid-life(72-3), & parental imagos(105), & perils of the soul(217), & persona(94) (98-9), & personality(220), as precondition of being(371), & projection(92)(114), & psychoanalysis(54), & regression(60)(63), & self(19), & shadow(91), & soul-image(103), & symbols(186), & symptoms(61), & transcendent function(226), & universal Cs(224),vs Unc(212)(214-7) | ||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | See Index | as illusion(324), & divine(324-5)(338), & longing for light(269), & myth(315) | ||
Androgyny | J. Singer | & androgyny as state of(11), & collective Cs(94), & cosmos(90), & masculine/feminine(32) | |||
Zen Buddhism and Psychoanalysis | E. Fromm et al | See Index | vs awareness(96)(109), & becoming Cs of Unc(129-30(135-6), & candle quote(138), & contents of(98)(106), & cosmic(134), & false Cs(127), & language(100), & socially conditioned filters(99)(195), vs Zen(136-40) | ||
Biofeedback, and | Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | & behaviour(25)(109), & brain waves(119), & diagram of(301), & location of(69), & reverie(123-4), & science of(65-6)(299-300) | ||
Biology, and | The Natural History of the Mind | G. Taylor | See Index | & autonomic functions(319), vs awareness(76-7)(90)(318), & brain (73-6)(318)(321), & emotions(289), & feelings vs facts(321), & location of(110), & mental function(107-8), & process of(187), 2 states of(77) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & descript. of(245), & equilibrium between stability & growth(168), & imaginative perception(316), & mind as configuration of discontinuous, shifting states of_(225), & need for I & You (316), & surrendering diss. to(316) | ||
Consensual Validation | Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & degree of based on maturational level of clients representational world(39), of the emergence of a new reality vs clarification/ correction(49), & empathy(156), & negotiated modification in the face of contradictory perceptions arising from social interchange(41) (174), & T not creating when recognition vs understanding required(25) |
Container/ Containment | Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | P.76-7 | & perceiver | |
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & holding environment(24), & intimate relationship providing _ for individual based on individuals own degree of internal _(39) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | as part of projective identification(54)(65-6), & masochistic interpretation of(56), & when process fails(54), & suicidal clients(57) | |
Contempt | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | as attack on other as self-as-obj.(151), & inflicting wounds through(38), & infusing criticism w/ sarcasm(100), & irony as humour vs sarcasm & contempt(71), & nonverbal(100), & partners state of terror vs actual contempt(222), as sulphuric acid of love(61)(100)(122)(151), & vulnerable to profound narcissistic injury when ones partner conveys what you believe about yourself is BS(151), & withholding sex generates contemptuous response(254) | |
Contingency | On Flirtation | A. Phillips | & accidents as only way of doing some things(12), & accidents as disowned intentions(12), & accidents meaningful(12), & accidents as reminders of unfinished business(13), & contingency as luck, fortune, accident, coincidence, random agency(20), & contingent self(16)(21), & desiring as creating condition for a coincidence(20), as enemy of fixity(20), & Freudian slip is accident meant to happen(9), & interpretation aims to extend realm of intention & diminish empire of contingency(15), | ||
Existential, and | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & anxiety of having no ultimate necessity(44), & destiny(52-3), & determining causes of our existence have no ultimate necessity - cannot be logically derived(44)(129), & fate as rule of(44-5) | |
Control | Do I Have to Give up me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | & anxiety(199), & expectations(206), & feelings associated w/(192), & guilt/fear(167)(210), & intent(219), & power(137)(195), as protective(7), & set-ups(172) | |
Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | See Index | & authoritative or permissive Inner Adult(72), & description of(70), & men vs women(70-1) | ||
Locus of | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | and defense of specialness(127), and locus of(156-8)(262-4)(267) | ||
Corrective Emotional Experience | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | & being the better parent((95-6)(144)(269-70)(272), vs spontaneous therapeutic experience(288) | ||
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | history of term(78), & removing Kleenex box(107-8), vs sustaining echo of empathic resonance(78) | |
Counter dependence | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | Ch 9 | vs codependent(267-9), description of(265-7), questionnaire on (291-300), & shadow self(276-8) | |
Counter transference | Women Analyze Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & male vs female analyst(66) | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & borderline clients(32)(65)(90), & concordant/complementary(33), & depressive(239-41), & dissociative(336-7), & hysterical(313-6), & manic(251), & masochistic(268-70), & narcissistic(178-80), & OCD (292-5), in neurotic vs psychotic dev. levels(59-60), & paranoid(216-7), & psychopathic(159), & schizoid(197-9) | ||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | All | |||
The Analytic Encounter | M. Jacoby | See Index | & archetype of divine healer(29-30), & being honest(86), & complementary(40-1)(46-7), & concordant(38-9), & feelings of irritation(85), & financial dependence(93-8), & I/Thou vs I/I t (26)(91-2), & illusional/delusional(58-9), & need for power(101), & need for T success(99), & resistance to change(120-1), & response of T as mirror to grandiose self(45), & sharing w/ client(39), & struggle w/ transf. as opus magnum(113), & Ts anger(101-2), & Ts curiosity (103), & Ts erotic needs(108-13), & Unc possessiveness (101-2), & uselessness of T(46-7) | ||
Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & better parent(144-5), & communication by impact(65-7)(108) (251-3)(193), & internal supervisor(103), & interpretation(154-5), & intervening too quickly(149), & openness to otherness of client (82-3), & own analysis(82), & reassurance(77), to theoretical orientation (13), & trial identification(54)(256-7) | ||
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | Ch. 6, 7 | & acknowledgement of loss(97)(114), & impulse to(87), & sleepiness(82), & reactive vs active(95-6), & resistance to(80-1) | ||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | Ch.12,13 | w/ borderline(189), & capacity for introspection(236-7)(239), & client recognition of Ts space to receive transference(248)(253) (255), & counter aggression(252), & creation of potential space(201) (205-6)(213)(233), & disclosure of Ts feelings(230), & disturbed by patient(204), & evenly hovering attention(249), w/ hysteric(198), & indirect use of(210), & interpretation(241), & language of presenting (206)(208)(231-2), & leaving client alone(240), w/ the liar(183), w/ manic(189), w/ narcissist(189), & not knowing(202-3) (253), w/ obsessional(189), & pre-verbal transference(230), to self as object(61-2), & self-analytic activity within(251), & silence(26) (233), & T as transformational object(168)(234-5)(244)(247), & T as wonderful man(253), & transfer of self-analytic function(245), & unthought known(230)(246), use of to reconstruct infantile life (189)(200)(209) (244), & technical difficulty of(207), & use of T through affect(203-4), & Winnicotts approach(206) | ||
Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | Ch. 6 | & 4 forms of(129-30), & obstructive vs useful(131-5)(139), & projective identification(136-7) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | Pg 195-207 | w/ borderline(202-3), & borderline/narcissistic therapist(198-9), & drugs(206), w/ FS disorders(196-7), & identification of(201), & questioning(200), & therapeutic framework(204) | ||
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | See Index | & patient like T(133-4), & perfect client(134-5), & older patient (132-3), & seductive patient(126-7), & supervision(141)(143-5) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | & classification of(16), & hate(Ch 2), & mothers hate of baby(21-3) (192), & sentimentality(267), & seduction(269-70) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | Ch. 14 | & own analysis(160-2) | ||
Attachment Theory, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & awareness of breathing(296-7), & being aware of clients flooding(297), & being comfortable in our body(296), & differentiating empathic resonance from projection of Ts feelings (296), & enactments(123-4)(181-2)(260), & evocations(266-270), & helping client w/ flooding(297), & mentalizing(335), & moment of meeting(125), & process leading content(125), & repeated rel. vs needed rel.(182)(334-5), & setting limits(238), & shared implicit rel.(124-6)(261), & Ts bodily/emotional exp. simulating clients (260)(296), & T rel. as asymmetrical(261), as Ts subjective exp. both as resource & resistance(170-1)(177), & Ts tendency to fall in line w/ clients expectations(178), & using to recognise feelings from which client is protecting herself(334), | |
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & arousing grandiose & saviour fantasies(63)(119), & being in middle of ferocious fight provokes far more intense reactions that hearing about it in individual T(119), & boundary setting(132), & _ reactions more transparent w/ couples than individuals(132), during termination phase(146)(150), & enactments of(27-8), & envy awareness of our own missed ort misused opportunities in life & opportunities we will never have(18)(121-2), & evoking feelings of bliss or intrusion & arrogance by need of couple to have an all-giving, all-nurturing mother(131), & failure to explore oedipal issues(118)(131), & forced into either parental or child role(120-1), & free-floating responsiveness(133), & monitoring of(119-20), & opportunities to meet ones caretaking needs(118), & projective identification(132-3), & risk of overidentification, envy, feelings of exclusion & grandiosity, regression(119), & selective factor in choosing T as career(118), & triads(118), & using _ to help expand understanding & empathy(133), & voyeuristic urges(111)(118)(120), & wishing the T would not work(127) | |
A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & intersubjective conjunctions & disjunctions(74-5), & when Ts organizing principles correspond or differ from clients(74)221-2) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & congenial clients(125), & maintaining illusion that a difficult client is an easy one(125), & Ts need to escape being objectified(209) | |
Hate, and | The Therapeutic Function of Hate in the Countertransference | L. Epstein | All CTP98-99 Binder | & borderline(227), & communication of(229), & ego identity(223-5 ) (227), & schizoid(221-2) | |
Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | Ch 7,8 | & acting out(219)(220-1), & countertransference neurosis(206-7), & envy(216), & expression of incongruous emotions simultaneously (193), & expressions on Ts face(369-70), & fears/wishes of becoming psychotic(216-7), & guilt(212-3)(208-9), & hate(209) (216), & ineffectiveness of interpretations(204), importance of (191-2), & jealousy(111)(238)(246)(248), & laughter(196-7), vs neurotic (198)(201-2), phases of(5), & sadism(194)(214)(221-2), & sense of identity as source of(203)(224-5), & sexualization(209), & suspense (215), & T reaction to as threat(200) | |
Hermeneutics, and | A Philosophy for the Embedded Analyst | CTP99-2000 (Supervision) | All | how psychotherapeutic understanding is informed by the transference/countertransference | |
Intersubjective, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | in cpls T(91-2), & def. of(20), & interplay w/ transf. as intersubj. field of analytic inquiry(20), & moments of conjunction/disjunction (20-1), & resisting immersion in partners experience(100), & Ts balance between self & mutual reg.(91-2), & Ts own Unc organizing principles about rel.(92) | |
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | Pg 140-7 | & grief(144), & identification w/ perpetrator(144-5), & rage(143), & rescuer(142-3), & witness guilt(145) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | as all the Ts responses to the client & the T situation(72), & complementary identification(72), & concordant identification(72), & interpretation of(74), & self-understanding(72-3) | |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & discover of technique of interpretation of(134), & gratifying client (30)(115)(161), as response for particular form of object rel.(161) | |
Courage | Existential, and | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & affirming our own demonic depth(122), & anxiety(65-6), to be as a part(91)(156), & being(2), of confidence(160)(168), & the courage to accept acceptance in spite of the Cs of guilt(122)(164)(168), & the courage to accept oneself as acceptable in spite of being unacceptable (164)(176), & the courage to be as oneself is the courage to make of oneself what one wants to be(150), of despair (140)(175-6)(188-9), & faith(8-9)(160)(176-7), & fate(43)9168), & joy(14-5), & life(29-30), & man directs the vessel of his life although it is driven by the winds of fate(167), & meaninglessness (146)(174-6), & personal encounter w/ God(160), & religion(73) (156), & self-affirmation(4-5)(21)(24) (32)(66)(91), & separation (143-4), & solitude(161), & taking ones death into ones self-affirmation(43)(168-9), & vitality(79) |
Creativity/ Creation | The Right Brain | T. Blakeslee | Ch.3 | & integration of L & R(124), & visual vs verbal thinking(38)(42) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | |||