MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Abandonment | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & commitment (88), & coping strategies (26-7), & search for the Other (28), & wounds of too much or too little (21) | |
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | & def. of(52), & failure of caregiver to provide attuned responses to childs changing needs & affect states(53), & family organized around parents fear of(146), & fear of based on differences in partner(125), vs intrusion(52-3), & self-org. prone to shame, fragmentation, depressive accommodation to needs of others & rigid defensiveness(153) | |||
Adult Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | & blaming fathers for(138), by father of son @ 6-7(96), & fear of, as adults(31-2), & fearing will repeat parents hist.(31)(59), & 1 parent leaving=both leaving them(95)(298), & rushing into co-habitation or early marriage(31), & sense of loneliness(168) | ||
Borderline, and | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & acknowledging adaptation vs clinging(89), & dependence=safety, aloneness=abandonment(88-9), & suicide context vs content(14), & symbiotic attachment of Mother but discouragement of S/I(88) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & anxiety over _ → violence(243-4), & A illusion to ward off(19), & desire met w/ _ growing up(120)& non-recognition equivalent to relational _(52) | ||
Depression, and | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & borderline (Ch 5, 8), & capacity to be alone (45-6)(113), & creativity as solution (Ch 12), & depression (59), & etiology of (51-9) 6 qualities of (61-74), vs RS capacities for intimacy | ||
Oral Character, and | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | & behaviour, attitude & feeling of (173-182), & energetic expression of (182-5), & etiology of(164-173), & healing of (Chs 6 ,7), & T objectives (185-194) | ||
Aboriginal Life View | Returning to the Teachings | R. Ross | All | ||
Abreaction | Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H. Watkins | See Index | & essential elements of(118-9), & expressing anger(122), & purpose of (117), & silent(121-2), & standing up to abuser in fantasy(201), & unc as guide(203) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & beauty(216), & definition of(216) | |||
Absolute Other | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | & autonomy of(123), & Cosmic Other(125-6), vs ego(122), & God (116)(122)(127)(136), & the Other(125), & Self(16)(122)(124), & wholeness(141) | ||
Abuse | Child | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & adult survivor(110-4), & the body(108-10), & childs adaptation to(96)(103-8), & environment of(98-103), & mothers intervention (83) | |
Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | p. 292 | and hyperalertness | ||
Elder | Elder Abuse Pamphlet | CTP98-99 Binder | All | & intervention | |
Emotional, and | Stalking the Soul | M-F. Hirigoyen | All | ||
Males, of | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | |||
Acceptance | Existential, and | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & _ by God(170)(187), & _ by other(166), & _ by that which transcends ones individual self(165), & _ by T who represents the objective power of acceptance & self-affirmation(165-6), & courage of confidence(166-7), & the courage to be is the courage to accept oneself as accepted in spite of being unacceptable(164-5), of despair(175-6), & doubt & meaninglessness(176), & guilt(165-6) |
Accommodation | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & Eros an antidote to(22), & invariant organizing principles resistant to(40), & mutual _ required for relationship eg tango(18), of a new way of seeing & experiencing himself & the other(14), & pathological _(40), & playing w/ one anothers position as way of surrendering strident opposition w/o inducing pathological _(203), & use of dissociation(22-3), & variant organizing principles open to(40) | |
Pathological, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | P 59-60 | & descript. of(59-60), & genesis of(59), & rel. where partner seeks out traumatogenic partner an eg of(60) | |
Acquaintances | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | definition of(204-7), & public self(203) | |
Acorn Theory | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & calling(4)(285), & childhood vs the way we imagine it(4), & children as evidence of(13-4), defined(6)(39-40)(284), & daimon (8)(18), vs family systems therapy(64), & mother(70), & mythical reality(97), vs other theories(22-9), vs. psychological approach(5) (11-2)(31)(38), & reading life backward(7) | |
Acting Out | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & _ what we do not remember(139), vs compulsive actions(284-5), & definition of(138-9), & examples of behaviour(139), & hysterical personality(307)(311), & masochist(261)(263), & psychopath(155) | ||
Antisocial Tendency, and | The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & aims of T of char. disorders(208), as alternative to despair(209), vs liability to psychotic breakdown(210) | |
Borderline, and | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | Chapter 5 | & transference acting out(130-7) (175) | |
My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | on basis of identification w/ analyst(215-223) | ||
Hyperbole, and | The Clinical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | as indicator that transformation associated w/ rivalry, envy & evacuative projection is taking place(112) | ||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | & ascetic vs malignant(114), of caricatures of self & other(110), as communication(108), as erotic theatre(125-6), of maternal secret (111)(113), & maternal substitution of performance(107)(115)(135), of others internal object(118)(120-1), & mother as theatre(119), & performative vs narrative(112), vs perverts theatre(173), & sexual conversion(114-5), & sudden termination of involvement(166), & T reaction to(110)(131), & vested w/ auto-erotic libido(166) | ||
Reenactment vs | Thou Shalt not be Aware | A. Miller | Page 15 | ||
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & analyst understanding of(80), of forgotten past(122), & gratification(113), a mirror reflects an image but does not change its nature(80), & words as adult communication(79) | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & destruction of analyst(177), & identification w/ aggressor(193) | |
Addictive Behaviour/ Addictions | Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | See Index | as anxiety management technique(90), & bearing the unbearable (64) (91), & hope(144), & terror of loneliness(63) | |
New Therapist # 87 | All | ||||
A Million Little Pieces | J. Frey | All | |||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | & always an addiction to frustration(14), as unformulated frustration, frustration simply met(14) | |||
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | p. 188-9 |
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Couples, and | Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & anticipate pleasure from getting high & escaping from anxiety & depression→ persistent state of semi arousal(142), & avoidant more susceptible to(144) | |
Depression | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & acute self-loathing(239), & addiction comes from 4 problems (224), & addiction=substitution of comfortable pain for uncomfortable & incomprehensible pain(225), & addictive behaviours no different than substances(222), & alcohol(226), & cycle of depression & substance abuse(217)(292), & depressed person likely to become addicted much more rapidly than non-depressed people(223), & depression a search for invalidation(241), & does not involve volition(225), & 4 stages to freedom from dependence(224), & genetic predisposition(218)(224), & isolation of(220), & marijuana(229), & 1/3 rd of substance abusers suffer depression(221), & pathways in the brain(223), & smoking(225), & taking away original motivation for substance abuse does not free someone who has developed a pattern of substance abuse(219-20), & treating both depression & addiction(218-9) | |
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | & childhood sexual abuse(268-9), & getting high(262), to Internet (263), & men vs women(398), & multiple(263-4), to love(263), & quest for intensity(264), to romance(263), to sex(100)(262) | |
Internet Porn, and | The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | See Index | & brains reshaped by(103), & dopamine(106-7), & exciting pleasure vs satisfying pleasure(108)(114), & loving being in love(114)(116), & novelty(116), & periods of sexual dev.(111-2), & sensitizing vs tolerance(108), & wanting vs liking(107-8) | |
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | in survivors(109), as numbing behaviour(110), sexual(129) | |
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | as attempt to correct ego flaws(275), covert depression &(Ch 3) (22)(101), as cultural norm(271), & intensification of feelings(147), vs recreational drinker(191), & responsiveness to others(274-5), types of(270) | ||
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | as auxiliary regulators(110)(165), & being in control of whatever soothed them in early childhood(112), & definition of(116), & intolerance of delay(112), & kind of parenting that creates _(110-1), & link w/ narcissism(84), & meeting needs w/o exerting any psychic effort(112), & particular drugs creating particular moods(114-5), & rage(111), & rejection(111), & seen as beneficial by N.(116), & shame(84)(107)(111), as substitute ideal(111), & tendency to grandiosity & omnipotence(111), as triggers for N. fantasies & feelings of grandiosity & omnipotence that provide relief from shame & depression(110) | |
Practical Aspects of | Addictions Workshop | CTP97-98 Binder | All | 12 steps, bibliography, Epitaph, gambling, glossary, Hole in Sidewalk poem, referral service | |
Replacing Mother by | Thou Shalt not be Aware | A. Miller | Page 85 | ||
Shopping, and | Even as I bought it I knew it couldnt work | A. Baker | TPR Jan00 Page 18-20 | ||
Women, and | Appetites | C. Knapp | All | ||
Adolescence | Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & balancing restraints & gratifications(164), & body image(161), & to be different is to be inferior(162), & firm/flexible sense of self (164), & friendships(196), & going away to college(168), & identity confusion(165), & impossible dreams(165-6), & love (204)(223), & metaphorical murder of parents(160), & mourning of childhood/ evading of(167-8), & prolonged(169), & responsibility (170-1), as 2 nd separation/individuation(169), & separation from parents(166-7), & Who am I?(164-5) | |
The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | & major complaint = no one listens to them(210), & only period in your life when youre expected to do all things well and age getting lower(43) | |||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment, and | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & baby love left behind(50), & emotions of(165), & dev. of cherishment in(176), & friend as transitional object for adventuring into adulthood(204-6), & friends as main source of ego ideal providing everything adolescent cannot find inside or in parents(204), as idealists(205), & parents usually deidealized(204), as 2 nd chance to repair what went developmentally wrong in childhood(164), & sexual instincts on overdrive and cherishment needs almost totally hidden(171), as time of upheaval(164), & the world as infinite vs just caretakers in childhood(171) | |
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | & acting out(238), & anger(107-8)(187)(247), & dev. path from _ to adulthood thrown out of sync(37), & drugs/alcohol(188), & exp. several losses of new attachments not just one(28-9), & family alliances(115-6), & feeling that rel. failure is inevitable(34), & feelings of resentment(278), & mother/daughter(283-6), & need for good int. image of parents as couple(34), & no closure to normal process of separating(37), & preoccupation w/ morality of parents behaviour(242)(287), & protracted(37), & reinstalling caregiving role as adults(9)(13)(31)(69-70), & respon. for parent(9), & step-fathers(243-4), & step-mothers(274-6), & vision of adulthood frightening(38) | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & being more special(93),& essential task of(95-6), & invincibility fable(92), & N. parents(99), & regression to N.(96), & seduction/ relief of drugs vs active mastery & adaptation(112), & self-esteem (94), & 3 things that arrest healthy identity dev. & perpetuate adolescent N.(96-8) | |
Adult Life Cycles | 20's-40's | Passages | G. Sheehy | Ch 8-25 | |
40's plus | New Passages | G. Sheehy | Ch 3-19 | ||
Males, of | The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | All | ||
Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | ||||
Mid-life, and | Churchills Black Dog . . . | A. Storr | Chapter 6 | & fear of death/fear of life(138), & Jungs approach(142-3) | |
Affirmation | Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | See Index | & activated by & involves exp. of having an important aspect of ones self affirmed, recognized, understood & appreciated eg recognition of ones achievements, underlie the others actions toward self, involves deep recognition of ones self-transformation (171), & affective reaction to 1) feeling moved, touched & strongly emotional 2) love, gratitude & tenderness(171), & recognition of change for the much better, intrinsic to(171), & source can be self or other(171) |
Agape | Psychology and the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 119 | definition of | |
Denial of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | vs Eros: the urge for more life, for exciting experiences, for the dev. of self-powers, for developing the uniqueness of the individual the urge for individuation(153), as feeling of kinship w/ the All as wants to be delivered from his isolation, become part of a greater & higher whole & feel that he belongs in the universe(152), & if given in to risks failing to develop himself & if expands Eros too much risks cutting himself off from natural dependence(153), & idea of God logical fulfillment of(153) | |
Original Idea of | Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | Page 399 | ||
Rogerian Psychotherapy, and | Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | Page 30-47 | ||
Toward Partner | Getting the Love You Want | H. Hendrix | Page 168 | ||
Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | Page 294-8 | vs Eros(294) | ||
Agency | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & agents of free will we can choose(10),& birth of threatens to betray & annihilate lifelong identity(127), & captures a nascent sense of personal authorship(50), & claiming victimization vs investigating ones agentic role(128), & crucible of found in our conflicting needs as humans to be effective ie be impactful while also feeling safe & secure in our attempts(11), & dissociated aspects that undermine(118-9)(127), & empowerment in relationships comes from each partner embracing own sense of _ & not holding other responsible(51), & functions well when feel least constrained in how we determine & pursue personal goals in work, love & play & founders when used for defensive purposes(51), as illusion w/o which we cannot live(10), & incapable of recognizing others as being subjects of _ = self-as-subj. only(140), & innate motivational sphere of self-actualization through articulation & expression of sense of agency constantly threatens A(20), & living out in terms of self-actualization perpetually renegotiated in intimate relationships (11-2)(51), & much that undergirds it is Unc(10), & mutual negation of(53), & pertains to our capacity to reflect on our experience(10) (34)(96), & perversion of(51)(118-9)(128), & requires others confirming response which tells us we have created meaning, had an impact, revealed an intention(11)(51-2), & selfobj. Dimension of transference seeking responsiveness to vs repetitive dimension scanning for how it will be thwarted(51), & self-as-obj only→ no sense of(149), & taking responsibility for vs requiring other to(51), & very relationally oriented phenomenon(11), & within intersubj. field of mutual need, responsibility & recognition(11)(68), |
Aggression | Biological Basis of | The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | See Index | & anti-contact behaviour(125), & appeasement signals(110-13), & attacking methods(118-20), & displacement activity(104-5)(114-5), & facial expressions(109-10), & ritualized combat(102-4), & signalling of in infants(85), & submissive displays(106-9)(121-2), & territory(123) |
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | & aggression arising from parental failure(148-50), & internalise a persecutory obj., an aggressor w/ which we identify in both directing rage against ourselves & others neg. talion(66), & moral masochism(84), & 3 options to inhibit: repression, suppression & sublimation(84), & return of repressed in guise of punitive SEs anger @ ego(84), & Unc. need for punishment = Unc sense of guilt(84-5) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & bullying(221), & inability to sustain tension between love & aggression(20), & invocation of humour & aggression that stimulates vitality, repair & renewal(41), & involved in self-assertion(13)(16), & ruthlessness(14-5)(254), & supressing of to feel safe(20), & T frightened by clients _(119) | ||
Development, and | Hope & Dread | S. Mitchell | Ch.6 | & analysis as threat to self-integrity(167), as assertion vs destructiveness(159), as biological response(161)(163), as embellishing experience(165), as experience of unpleasure(161), & multiple self-organizations(170-1), as response to endangerment or threat(162-3), as response to others(160-1), & universality of(162) (170) | |
Generative, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | See Index | As part of essential play of being human(56) | |
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | See Index | as bolstering our own narcissism(28), as effective weapon(22), as factor in what is funny(23), & grimace of mirth same as grimace of suffering(22), & irony(86), as malice towards people who are perceived to be powerless(25), as pleasurable & safe release of destructive impulses(24)(26)(34), as protective shield against something happening to us(26), as repressed hostility & sadism(22) (86), as social regulation of sexual & aggressive drives(37), as sublimation of sexual/aggressive feelings(47), & teasing(86) | |
Love, and | Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & dependence(134-6)(138), & desire(138-42), as healthy(134), & love(120)(141)(143-4), as key ingredient of passion(141)(143), & object of revenge(141), & oedipal vs pre-oedipal(133), as reflection of endangered state of would-be lover(132), vs safety & predictability (140)(143), & segregation of in couples(142-3), & threats to integrity of self(129) | |
Males, and | The Hazards of Being Male | H. Goldberg | See Index | & aggressionless female(74), & fear of towards women(74), & self-hate(74) | |
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | & hiding impulse to connect(92-3)(109), & identification w/ aggressor(102), & inhibition of(234), & sense of self(103)(111), & shame(93-5) | |||
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | depression as assault on self as(54)(198) | |||
Psychopathy, and | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWiliams | See Index | & acting out instead of talking(153), & inborn(152), & the problem child(157-8), as stabilizing sense of self(158) | |
Psychotherapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | identification w/ aggressor as (193)(328) | ||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & Oedipal self(24-5)(43)(53-4), at selfobject vs obj(137-8), as selfobject need vs instinctual wish(5)(84)(208), | |||
Schizoid Withdrawal, and | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & ALE(195), as aspect of libido(422), classic depr. as defensive top layer of(149), as defence against ego-weakness(129), leading to depression & ambivalence(101), & regaining contact through(101), & turning in of against own weak ego(146), & withdrawal of libido(101), & world of internal fantasised objs(129) | |
Transference/Coun- tertransference, and | Transference and Countertransference | H. Racker | & concordant/complimentary identification(135), & countertransf. _(165-8), & law of talion(139), & liberation of(185), & T annoyance or guilt(147-8), & T as(73) | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | See Index | & _ exp. serve many of same functions as sexual ones(90-1), as antidote to shameful exp. of powerlessness(59)(100), & homophobia(91), as response to trauma in childhood as way of organizing exp.(88), as way of reducing uncertainty(59) | |
Aging | New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & brain(353), & childlessness(171-2), & denial of(59-62), & dying of youth(145-6), & every day as an awakening(429), & exercise (426), & how we look(179), & positive attitude(388-9)(419-20) (425), & state of mastery(142)(149), & testosterone(327-8) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | as what we imagine it to be(290), & justifying existence vs fulfilling destiny(297-9), & living from soul(294), & melancholy(295), & mentoring(293), & regret vs remorse(296) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | Ch. 18 | & ego transcendence(332-3), & good(331), & our life as our respon. (333), & mourning of losses(318)(320-1)(328)(340), & personality(334-5)(339), & sex(323-4), & work(324-5) | ||
Cognitive Decline, and | The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | See Index | & learning something new(252), & therapy(241) | |
Males, and | Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & concerns of 60s(218), & danger zone 45-65(247), & less conquests(146-7), & marriage(255), & multiple selves(140), & passion(223)(247), & sex(184-7), & trophy wife(138) | |
Agoraphobia | The Will to Live | A. Hutschnecker | as inner fear turned outward(82) | ||
Cognitive Behavioural Approach, and | The Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | definition of(54-5), vs social phobias(272) | ||
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & defect of idealized selfobj(31-2), & failure of oedipal selfobj milieu(30), & structural deficiency of self(29) | ||
Alchemy | The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | & Jung(167)(265{his doorway quote}), & Mars(167-9), & Mercury(332), & ruins(95), & scintilla(35-6), & stone(32) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & anger(239), & role of T(75), & rel.(153)(159-61), & smith in our soul(97) | |||
Androgyny | J. Singer | Chapter 12 | & discovery of contrasexual(139-41) | ||
Alcoholism/ Alcoholics | Alcohol and Drug Treatment in Ontario | ARF | All | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | As fastest-acting tranquilizer for abating shame(252) | |
Family, and | Toxic Parents | S. Forward | Chapter 4 | & fear of closeness by adult children of(83) | |
Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & hidden depr.(22)(61)(80), vs recreational drinker(191), & shame cycle(60)(79) | |
Older Adults, and | Older Adults and Alcohol | ARF | All | ||
Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | & collusion in(195)(389), & compulsion to repeat(47)(53-5), & interdependent relational system(116) | ||
Women, and | Women and Alcohol | ARF | All | ||
Aletheia | Definition of Truth as | Everything is Broken | TPRAug99 | Page 113 | |
Alexithymia (Numbness) | Love & War | S. Tatkin | P. 260 | & inability to detect &/or name internal somatoaffective states in oneself | |
Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & depression(55)(146), states vs feelings(285-6) | |
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | See Index | & anger(84), & benefits of curing(227), definition of(50-4)(63), exercises to help identify(64-79), & marital pattern(92)(278-9), as secret(145), & verbal abuse(97) | ||
Psychosomatic Illness, and | Recent Developments in Psychosomatic Medicine | P. Shoenberg | TPR Sept99 | (171-4) | |
Alienation | from Self | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & active moves away from RS(159-60), & autonomy of pride system (123)(162)(173)(187), & avoiding respon.(171), & being sincere w/ oneself(151)& compliance(168), & confusion(21)(296), & demands on self(123), & denial/externalization of shoulds(123) (160), & driven vs driver(21)(159), & feeling of futility(285), & idealized image(13) (22), & importance of safety(21), & lack of inner direction(167), & need for identity(21), & prevention of self-hate(115)(123), from real self(157), as relief from tension(177), & remoteness from feelings, wishes, beliefs & energies(21)(123) (157)(182), & self-destructive impulses(149), & self-sabotage(151), & suicide(149), & tyranny of shoulds(159), & unc. interest in not having a clear perception of himself(151)(160) |
Aloneness | Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & creativity(28)(32) (35-6)(69), & imagination(17)(62)(106-7), & inner security(18-9), & introversion(93), & learning(23), & self-realization(21), & sleep(22), w/ therapist(21), & TS(95-6), & transitional obj(70-6) | |
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & belief in benign env.(32), & ego relatedness(31), in presence of Mother(30), as sign of maturity(29), & unintegration(34) | |||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | & exp. of in face of what is experienced as psychically dangerous @ core of psychopathogenesis(37), & fear-fostering _ arises in response to the unresponsiveness & unavailability of other when self is in need(30)(37), & transforming by support & empathy(155), & unwilled, unwanted, dreaded vs sought after, willed, restorative(30) | ||
Alter Ego | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & selfobj. needs(194) (200), & selfobj. trans.(192-3), & therapist as(206) | ||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | as firstly familial(143), & intrafamily conflict putting an end to(146), & partners as(89), as primary in rel. to establishing a basic sense of security(40), as providing a sense of belonging as well as a sense that ones inner world is knowable(40) | |||
Ambivalence | The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | & assertion against int. prosecutors(152), & lack of close contact w/ loved ones(150), & unification of good/bad obj.(144) | ||
Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | w/ partner(201)(398-402), & projection(201), vs splitting(200) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | towards the dead (268-70), in friendships(187-9), & hatred(65-9), & love(226), towards siblings(84-102), & obj. constancy(43), vs splitting(42-3) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & concern(75-8), & guilt(16-7)(21), & splitting(98) | |||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | & dependency entails(223), & negating hating side of _ can cover up the positive love(223), & split internally, loving your hate = safety, familiar do not risk frustration from a person(227) | ||
Couples, and | What is this thing called Love? | S. S Usher | & keeping negative repressed in relationship(61), & love & hate 2 sides of very thin coin(61) | ||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | about growing up(82), in love-making(76)(167), in maternal/ paternal order limbo(76-7), & Mothers towards infant as sexual being(46-8), as negative hallucination(49-50) | |
Sequential, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p. 312-3 | sequential vs simultaneous | |
Amnesia | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | Pg 297-302 | ||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | & blind spots(228), & group(226) | ||
Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H Watkins | Chapter 4 | & dissociation(Ch 4), & MPD(39), & immediate adjustment problems(39), as symptom(41) | ||
Androgyny/The Contrasexual | Androgyny | J. Singer | All | definition of(6) | |
Anger | Feelings | W. Gaylin | See Index | & being used(154), & fear(18), & feeling upset(89-91), & guilt (55)(187), & hurt(185-6), & obligation of group living(11), & survival(11) | |
The Consolations of Philosophy | A. de Botton | & entitlement(83), & forces indifferent to our desires(11), & Goddess of Fortune(86-7)(99), & holding possibility of disaster in mind @ all times(87)(89-91), & Not everything which happens to us occurs w/ reference to something about us(93), & rage & the contract of life(84), & a subjects agency(91), & target of hurt(102), & use of and vs In order to(100), & violation of our sense of the ground rules of existence(83), & We will cease to be so angry once we cease to be so hopeful(85), & wisdom(107) | |||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | & child being punished for→ strategy of passivity & withdrawal(40-3) | |||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & avoidance of, affecting all emotions & rel.(234), & masochism (246-7), & passivity vs receptivity(245), as quality & emotion(239) (248), & reflecting on vs chronic(237-8), & repression of(234)(239), as S/M(241-3), & standing naked in the storm of life(247), & submission(241), & taking place of sexuality(187), as telling us what is wrong(234), & transformed into violence(236)(243), & turning against self(238)(244), & venting vs expressing(235-6) | ||
Notes in Favourites Binder | N. Diamand | All | |||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & abandonment depression(64-6), & panic(66-7) | ||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | as aversive emotion that functions shortly after birth especially when those we depend upon fail to fully satisfy our needs & desires(165), as familiar plane, underlying propensity(177), & more prone to experience anger in response to events in life vs distress or fear (160), & need to feel valued & protected includes notions of respect, power & control, congruence, comfort & harmony found in Anger group(165), & patterns of developmental pathways toward anger, separation distress/sadness or fear(160)(165-7) | |||
Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | See Index | & migraine(171-2), & stress(106) | ||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | & adaptive action tendencies released by fully experiencing(140)(158), & can function as core affective exp. or defense against grief & vulnerability(120)(156)(331), & typical anxieties associated w/ exp. & expression of(140) | ||
Males, and | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | & suppressing of(336-7), & volcano effect(335) | ||
The Hazards of Being Male | H. Goldberg | See Index | towards women(5-6)(16)(51) | ||
Victims No Longer | M. Lew | of abusers(50), & power(50), & recovery(282-3), of survivors(50)(142)(152)(257), | |||
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | Chapter 3 | & connecting to other men(109)(302-3)(309), @ Father(266), of fathers(151)(239), & father wound(67)(84)(263), & having value(111), & humiliation(116), & independent action(122), @ Mother(183), & shame(42)(56)(93)(95), @ wish to be mothered(183) | ||
Techniques to deal w/ | Toxic Parents | S. Forward | Page 224-7 | ||
Therapy, and | Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | & corresponding body behaviour(476) | |
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold et al | See Index | of daughters(69), & loss of(68)(107)(113) | |
Dance of Anger | H. Lerner | All |
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Angst | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & FS(29), & Primal Other(95), & survival strategies against(24) | |
Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | See Index | & addiction as defence against(90-1), vs anxiety & fear(103)(107), & defence of obsession(110), & freedom(126), & guilt as defence against(28), & rituals against feeling(110), & same root as anger, anxiety & angina(93) | ||
Anima | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & archetypes(22), & collective universals(49), & Cs(45), & Jung (21-2), meaning of(43), & obsessions(211), Persephone/Hades(208), & personifying(3), & soul(51) | |
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | as counterpart of persona(52), definition of(40), & diagram of(51), & female(52-3)(487), & inferior function(484), & Logos/Eros(487), as peculiar feeling reaction(80), & primitive (485), & real women(693-4), & shadow(55)(58)(67)(258), & symptoms of(57) | ||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & affect(103), vs animus(111)(113), & archetypes(91), & autonomy of(116-7), & coll. unc.(223-4), as complementary(101), & complexes(122), & persona(96)(100), as projection of soul image(imago)(103-10)(114), in relationship(112), & woman(102) | |||
Androgyny | J. Singer | & Feminine/Masculine(193), & Jung(32)(157), & Self(233) | |||
Animus | Women who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | as bridging man(310-2), description of(58) | |
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | definition of(40), Logos/Eros &(487-8), vs persona(75), & shadow(258), of woman(96) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & archetypes(91)(117) (222-6), & collective unc.(116), in relationship(112), of women(102(113) | ||
Father spirit, and | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | Page 36 | ||
Love, and | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | Page 141-2 | ||
Annihilation | Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | See Index | & defect vs organizing principle of experience(13-4), & delusion of influencing machine(55-61), & description of(49), & diagram of experiences of self-loss(48), & 2 forms of selfobject transference(15) | |
Going on Being | M. Epstein | & feeling of I am not(85), & feeling of being infinitely dropped (84), & going on being as uninterrupted flow of authentic self(11-2), & sense of disconnection(83), & sense of personal insecurity(83), & threat of _=interruption in continuity(11)(83) | |||
Anorexia | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold et al | & ills of culture(252), & looking good=being good(91) | ||
Appetites | C.. Knapp | All | |||
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | See Index | & desire to be self-sufficient(4) | ||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | & ascetic hysteric(126), & pleasure in anti-ingestion(165-6), & recovering maturational processes(105), & saying no(165) | ||
Antilibidinal Ego | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & attachment to rejecting obj.(72), as contributing cause of failure of ego dev.(216), as element of psychic experience(387), & ego kept in being through(72)(78), & fear of dissolution of(202), & fear & hate of weakness(72), & hidden self of schizoid citadel(283), & internal saboteur(188), & joining forces with CE(163), & overactivity(216), & persecution of LE(72)(163), & resistance to therapeutic regression(94)(238)(287), & superego(182), & therapy(195) | |
Antisocial Personality/ Tendency | The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | in adolescents(134), & 2 kinds of behaviour(27), & character disorders(204-10), & deprivation(204)(226), & Freud(28), as hope (103-4)(204)(208), & psychopathy(22-7) | |
I Dont Want to Talk about It | T. Real | & personality disorder vs neurosis(81) | |||
Notes - Winnicott Concentration | CTP97-98 | Pg 28-end | |||
Anxiety | Feelings | W. Gaylin | Chapter 1 | & castration(26) , & defences-rationalization(34), phobias (displacement)(35), somatization(36), oral/sexual gratification (37-8), & same defences for breakdown(115), & disapproval(32), & existential(115), vs fear(21), generated by change in sense of self vs environment (25), & separation(27), s as signal of potential distress(39), symbolic(22), & vulnerability(31), & worry(21) | |
Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & allaying by move toward, against or away from others(19), & basic of child(18), & drinking(189), & emerging in T(340), & passive externalization(225), as reaction to actual & anticipated humiliations (100), & self-idealization(22-3), & shoulds(74), in work(322) | ||
The Will to Live | A. Hutschnecker | See Index | & depression(17), as internalized fear(73-4), as signal that will to live is threatened(22), & symptoms of(15-6) | ||
My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | All |
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Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | & attention(41)(43)(52), & bad-me(103), & denial as antidote (palliative)(43)(52-3)(126), as extreme end of ordinary continuum of arousal(44), & groupthink as minimizing(181), & info. that threatens the self ie self-esteem(98)(100), as intrusion of distress(41)(45), as melding of emergency response w/ cognition of threat(41),& not-me(104), & obj. Vs subj. Anxiety(125), & orienting response(41-2), as panic(41), & self-system organized to avoid (104), & stress(52), & types of anxious intrusion(45-6) | ||
Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | See Index | & migraine(171-2), & stress(136)(205-6) | ||
Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | & emotional trends(153)(155), & narcissistic(382) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & displacement(131), & the paranoid(212), & phobias(131) | |||
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | & anxiety as strategic value(37), as a state we can learn to induce (37), & defense of(37), & fear of dev. of emotional life(38), & fear of letting anxiety dev. into more fully formed emotions(33), as selective attack on capacity to form salient thought(63-4)(68) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & castration(137), & defences against(87), & inner vs outer world(245), & loss of loved one(87), & midlife loss(306), & same sex relationship(190)(194), & separation(22)(168)(228), & symbiosis(130) | ||
Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | & defenses against primary: loss of affect, stilted speaking, false congeniality ie partial withdrawal(28-9), & primary as form of panic as response to sense of helplessness brought on by loss of ego functioning, as if self engaged in last-ditch effort to ward off breakdown(28), & primary occurs after signal fails to perform its function(28), & primary as self losing its way of being(27), & signal as specific & limited threat to self(28), & signal common in adolescence(28) | |||
A Brief History of Anxiety | P. Pearson | See Index | & anxiety sensitivity harbinger of anxiety disorder(23-4), & anxiety sensitivity ie apprehension of panic attack itself-cannot predict it (23), & anxiety @ work(122-131), & both unbearably vivid yet insanely abstract(11), of cancer(105), & to cease wishing is too inhabit the land of the dead, for w/o faith, we cannot want anymore, we cannot wish(76-7), & compels obsessive contemplation(12), & confronting danger w/ a clarifying rage(171), as cosmic as it invades us totally, penetrating our whole subjective universe(48), & courage (169)(172), & cued fear(19), as desire for what one dreads(12), vs depression as expresses a grim & slender hope that one will manage to prevail vs fuck it(7-8), & disgust vs fear(104-5), & dread of non-being-possessing neither purpose nor impact, of failing to be in the world ie threat of meaninglessness(40-1), & Effexor(146-8) (150), as fear in search of a cause((3), & fear invoked by immediate threat & galvanizes a response(9)(22), & fear of falling apart(105), & fear of losing control(113), & fear that one cannot cope(109-11), & fear sharpens the senses, anxiety paralyses them(9), & fears are primitive, arbitrary, idiosyncratic & very often masked(4), & healthy anxious readiness, the alarming possibility of being able(24), & helplessness(19), & how we interpret significance of our acts(122), & hypothetical analytical planning(8)(100), & high reactive temperament(16), & illusion we can be in control vs growing up (14), & intolerance of uncertainty, a need for absolute predictive control(6), & lack of community centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety(83), & mindfulness(167-8), & most prevalent mental health problem across globe(13), & normal response to real danger(9), & objectless(9-10), & OCD(115-7), & parents underestimate intensity of childrens fears(17), & pathological anxiety cued off by threat to some value that individual holds essential to his existence as a personality(40), & paying selective attention to threat(7)(63), & phobias as coping mechanism(100-3)(107)(109), & popular narrative for kids dont sooth fears by denying them but by acknowledging them(25-6)(79), & providing kids w/ a way to cope, a recipe for dealing w/ their dread, of knowing what to do(27)(89)(171), & rages undetected in the mind, both secretive & wild(4), & rationalism(96), & religiously observant less prone to as lives shaped by narrative larger than themselves vs we can assume total mastery of our fate(88)(119), & retroactive w/ intrusive thinking(43)(47), & startle reflex potentiated by darkness yet expected to fend for ourselves as infants(21-4), & 20% suffer from, 13% of kids(2), & wakeful anguish(4), & women vs men(106-7), & what ifs & if thens(6), & worrying vs generalized anxiety disorder(29) | ||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | See Index | vs alarm(35), & being held as antidote to(154), & defenses against(83), as a defining quality of unbearable exp.(81), & exploring cognitive, fantasised & experiential aspects of(254), & exploring physiological correlates of(252-3), & fear, helplessness & primary depressive reaction hallmark of anxiety disorders(81), = fear of inaccessibility or non-responsiveness of caregiver = driving force of A system(35)(37)(41)(43)(47)(108), & knowing connection between defense, anxiety & core affect patterns(265)(269), & learned early in life when real emotional danger existed & ind. felt alone w/o benefit of reassuring presence of trusted other(252), & power of to motivate behaviour central to all psychodynamic understandings of pathology(114), as powerful aversive state(154)(252), as red-signal affect(114), & rooted in feeling of being alone in face of psychic danger(47), as signalling defenses have been broken through(252), & specific to particular interper. env.(265), & triangle of conflict(104), & true sense of well-being vs absence of(35), & unthinkable(154) | |
Countertransference and | Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | & description of countertransf. _(161), & possibility of failure (141-2), as T resistance(40), & T superego(115) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & developing sense of self independent of family of origin engenders(264), & highly differentiated adults less prone to(113), & how management of, modeled in family system(112-3), & over abandonment(249), & spontaneity compromised by(33)(204) | ||
Death, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & death (29-74, 110-2, 163-4, 187-203), & neurotic conflict(146-7), & separation(101-3) | |
Denial of Death | E. Becker | & _ lures us on, becomes the spur to much of our energetic activity(56), & enter into symbiotic rel. to get relief from but rel. also binds us(56), & cannot be lied about(88), & fall into self-Cs, emergence from uncomfortable ignorance in nature had one great penalty for man = dread or anxiety(69), as function of his ambiguity & of his complete powerlessness to overcome that ambiguity ie either animal or angel(69), & impossible to stand up to terror of our condition w/o _(58), & once admit you are a defecating creature you invite the primeval ocean of creature anxiety to flood over you(87), & results from human paradox that man is an animal who is Cs of his animal limitations(87), as result of perception of the truth of ones condition(87), as a school that provides man w/ the ultimate education, the final maturity better teacher than reality because reality can be lied about, twisted & tamed by tricks of cultural perception & repression(87-8), & underneath the most bland exterior lurks the universal anxiety, the worm @ the core(21) | |||
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & alcohol(226), & anxiety element of depression tied to fear of being object of attack & excluded from group(405), & anxiety when you want something you know you shouldnt have &, therefore, dont attempt to get, depression=want something, try to get it & fail(324), & depression a response to past loss, anxiety to future (65)9323), & depression occurs when hate interferes w/ individuals capacity to love love rejected=world has turned against them=hate the world→ repressed sadism→ pleasure from depression(324), & exercise allays(138), & genes(65), & lifting anxiety to see depression more clearly(51), & much depression incorporates anxiety symptoms(65), as precursor form of depression(65), & suicide(65), & useful in preventing trouble(410) | |
Development, and | Attachment | J. Bowlby | & attachment(338-9), vs fear of strangers(223) (324)(329-30), & separation(209) | ||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | as desire to survive(147), & ego breakdown (87), & persecutory (147), & separation(128), & unthinkable(202)(238) | ||
Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | aroused by aggressive impulses & fantasies(5)(28)(41)(58) (75) (136), of being annihilated(5)(48), at birth(61)(95), of death(174), & death instinct(4)(28-31)(41-2)(57)(277), defences against as function of ego(57)(70)(85)) (216)(239)(273), & depressive(34-5) (44-5))(50) (56)(66)(71-2)(79)(83)(113), & feeling of danger(26) (32), & greed(73), & guilt(12)(27-8)(36)(38)(194), & hypochondriacal(63) (84), & interpretation(21)(123)(129)(137) (232), & leading in men & women(45)(133)(135), & loneliness (301-4), & neurotic vs objective(38-40), & object relations(49)(58), & obsessions (84-6), & Oedipal(80), & oral, urethral & anal(84), persecutory(32-5)(43) (49)(64)(76)(238)(253), & phobias(84), & projection/introjections(5-6)(9)(11)(63))(69)(277), & projective identification(69)(143), & repetition compulsion(51)(56), & splitting(6)(65)(74)(253), & unsatisfied libidinal excitation(26), & weaning(108-9) | ||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | See Index | & annihilation(179-80), as central theoretical tenet(28), & change from part to whole object(118), & depressive(124-5)(127)(139-1) (151), & ego development(98), about internalized parents(167), & mourning(156), & Oedipus tendencies(71)(92), & paranoid(140-1) (117-8)(143-4), & persecution(124), & psychotic(176), & repetition compulsion(153), & sadism(96-7),& situations of(124), & splitting(181), & therapy(88), & understanding inner world(149) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & annihilation(86-7), & clients greatest _ from experiencing interface between overvalued & disavowed domains of self(296), as clients reaction to inquiry(157), & feelings of not-me(101), & forms of infantile _, beginning of dev. line to adulthood(44)(86)(88), & gradient of _(50)(89), vs shame(295), & strangeness(87), vs traumatic dread(328) | ||
Existential, and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | See Index | as best teacher(179), & creativity(81), & drugs to relieve(81-2), vs. fear(107), w/ freedom(21)(67)(178-9), & growth(80-1), & Kirkegaard(49-50)(55)as neurotic shrinking of Cs(40-1)(68-9)(80) (105), & normal(67)(80)(105), & self-Cs(102)(104), & sexuality as security(42-3), as sign of conflict(179), as threat to values(51)(72) (74 )(76)(79-80) | |
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | as biologically useless(80), & cannot remove anxiety by arguing it away(13), & courage(45)(66)(78)(158), & definition of(35)(64), of the demonic(122), & despair(54-7)(140)(189), & doubt(48)(121) (173-4), & emptiness(47-8), & existential(35-6)(139), & fate(43-5) (169), vs fear(36-7)(39)(45)(65-6), & guilt & condemnation(51-3) (122)(163-4), & helplessness(36-7), & inability to preserve ones own being(35), & meaninglessness(47)(77)(121)(158-9)(173), & misplaced fear(75), of narrowness & openness(62), as negation of every object, only the threat(36-7),& neurosis(66-70)(74)(76), & pathological(65-6)(69-70)(74-5)(77), & self-affirmation(66)(69) (120-1), & threat of nonbeing(death)(13)(35)(37-9)43)(45)(48)(158), as self-affirmation on its guard(78), & 3 types according to 3 directions nonbeing threatens being: 1) fate & death 2) emptiness & loss of meaning 3) guilt & condemnation(41), & the unknown(37) | ||
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | See Index | as assuaged by comic routine(34), & making anxiety more bearable (55), & managing anxiety through play/humour(63-4)(70), & managing incongruity(39-40) | |
Social Disorder, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | See Index | & anxiety about doing something wrong that will lead to social humiliation(114), & associated w/ feelings of inferiority & extreme sensitivity to any kind of criticism or negative evaluation(123), & biggest fear that others will perceive his true inadequate self→ projecting an image that feels false, of confidence, competence, even perfection(23), & blushing(103)(116),& CBT for(111), & control issues(87), as evolutionarily adaptive(35)(103)(116-7)(119), & extreme avoidant behaviour(109), & highly prone to alcoholism & drug abuse(102), & impression management as both symptom & cause(112), & link between _ & depression/suicide(102)(107), & living on razors edge between success & failure(110)(112), & look downward, avoid eye contact, blush, submissive behaviours, seeking to please & actively deferring(119), & negativity & poor self-image + desperate desire to conceal textbook for _(122), & shame(103-4)(115)(120)(123), & specific phobia in childhood leads to _(230), & Unc neurobiological stress response to social stimuli(116), & unduly confident about negative conclusions they draw(113), & unusually attentive to other peoples feelings(113)(325) | |
Therapy, and | Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | Ch 11 | & awareness exercises for(17-19), & cognitive approach to(29), & common symptoms(216), & confronting problems(215)(249), definition of(38), vs depression(38), diagnostic categories of(50-56), & drugs for(470-8), & performance(340-359), & procrastination (169), & public speaking(297-318) & repressed anger(213), & test(340-359), & thoughts of danger(5) | |
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & castration(14)(21-3), & disintegration(16)(19)(21), & Oedipal selfobject(14), & primary/secondary(16), & selfobject needs(84), & therapeutic failure(188) | ||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | & breathing(56-7) | |||
Terrors and Experts | A. Phillips | P. 59-62 | as defence against fear(59-62) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & agitated depression(301), & anger(95-8), vs fear(94), & guilt (113-4), & maintenance of security(11)(56), & obsession(211) (232-4 ) (239), & paranoia(340), & selective inattention(56-7), as warning signal(56)(93) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & annihilation(41), & disintegration(44), & guilt(16-8), & TS/FS (46), & unthinkable(57-8) | |||
Treatment Approaches, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | & behaviourist(52), & biomedical(53), & experiential(52)(58), & 4 categories of(51), & meditation(54), & psychoanalytic(51-2)(54)(59) | ||
Apathy | Schizoid Phenomena, Object relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & dangers to ego(83-4), & manic state(154)(216), & regression(68) (77)(79), & schizoid state(62-4), & suicide(81-2) | |
Existential, and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P.35-6 | ||
Aphrodite (Venus) | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & love(184-5)(187), & rhetoric(213-4) | |
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.21,50-60 | & anasyrma(53-60), & the body(21), & passion(150-1), & seduction away from habits(53-4) | ||
Soulmates | T. Moore | P.164-6 | as scandal & grace(166), & vanity(164-5) | ||
Appetites | Women, and | Appetites | C. Knapp | All | & anorexic vs bulimic(100), & anorexics(8)(23), & appetite for appetite(16), & body loathing(85)(126), & description of(14)(18) (108)(138-9)(163), & desire(165)(176-7), & displacement(140-1), & entitlement(4), & family(5)(41), & longing vs constraint(4)(10), & mastery over body(26)(31)(92-3)(114), & mother/childhood(65-6) (69)(73)(75)(78)(80)(168-9)(173-6), & naming it(158), & need vs want(28)(35), & obsession(47)(49)(187), & parent as calligrapher (102), & primary narcissism(166), & rage(74)(150), & self-contempt (88), & self-denial(77), & sense of agency(106)(186), & sexuality (128-30)(137)(144)(160), & shopping/things(143-4)(146)(148), & starving/hunger(9)(29)(42)(48)(192), & therapy(164), as transforming anxiety(8)(17)(23-4)(43)(45)(47)(51)(53), & tyranny of freedom(45)(50), & women & culture(9)(12-3)(32)(36-7)(86-7) (90-1) |
Approval | Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | & anger(265), & anxiety(199) | |
Archaic Mother/Father (Pre-Oedipal) | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | vs phallic Mother(104)(116-7), & primitive terrors(7)(56)(91)(275), & reality principle(118), & separation from(12)(275), & sexual fusion(112) | |
Archetypes | Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | Ch. 13/14 | & creativity(265-76), definition of(252-3), & ego vs soul(257), & eternal child(252)(255)(258), & infants in exile(266)(268)(286), & father/mother(280), & finding our bliss(285), & quote re: annihilation/indestructibility(263), & wonder/wounded child(252-8) (261-3) | |
The Analytic Encounter | M. Jacoby | See Index | & Great Mother(82), & healer(23-4)(29-30) | ||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & archetypal psychology(99)(104)(148), & emotions(176), & fantasy(23)(170), as gods(139), & imagination(151), as metaphor (156-7), & myth(99)(157), as persons(17)(22)(36)(128-9), as psychic premise(131), & words(9) | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | definition of(145), & functions of(121), & Magical Other(120), & quest for wholeness(61) | ||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | of boy(679-80), & cauldron(128)(536), definition of(132-3), & dreams(130)(525)(537), of hermaphrodite(592-3), as instinctive natural man(129), & mind(178-9), & myth(550), as symbol(540-1), & words(538-9) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | as autonomous factors(117), & Christ(248)(343), & collective unc.(16), compared to instinct(382), definition of(16), & big dream(65), as equivalent of religious dogmas(266), as existing outside space/time(25-6)(337), & God-image(260)(329), of horse(187-8), & individual vs eternal life(248), & influence on ego(91), & mandala(236), as organizing influence(16)(25)(337), & origin of(70-1)(263), as persons(222-3)(292-2), as representations (84), & sun(70), & synchronicity(26), & wholeness(236) | ||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | as collective component of perception(347), & dreams(161), & karma(318), & life addressing a question to him(318), & life after death(302) | |||
The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | See Index | definition of(210-1), & mid-life(215), & immortality(215), & Young/Old(210-1) | ||
Males, and | King, Warrior, Magician, Lover | R. Moore | Ch. 4-8 | vs ego(106-7), & the King(Ch 5), & the Lover(Ch 8), & the Magician(Ch 7), & magnet analogy(44), & mandala(54), & the Warrior(Ch 6) | |
Self-Relations, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | vs cognitive self(15), as helping human development(154-6)(164), & human/archetypal partnership(156)(162), & inflation of(15), & King /Queen(165), & Lover(166), & Magician(167)(171), & person vs archetype(163), & positive/negative archetypal energies(172), & relational self(15), & rituals(179-80), & self(167-8), & social constraints(158), as somatic self(14-5)(152-3), vs stereotype(159), & therapy w/(xviii)(157)(172)(174-5), & transformation(161), & value of(161), & Warrior(166-7)(170) | |
Women, and | The Robber Bride | M. Atwood | All | ||
Arrogance | Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & better than vs worthless(11)(13-4), & competition(13), & controlling the audience(14), & craving admiration(13), & emotional detachment(12), & shame(11) |
Art | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | Ch.13 | & contemplation(286), & daimonic living(298), & dreams(291-7), & imagination(287)(289)(300), & living artfully(286-8), & pausing(286-7), & soul(285)(287)(290-1)(304-5) | |
The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | P.46 | as improper/proper | ||
Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | Ch.19 | & invisible/visible(206), & past/present/future(206) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & creativity(75-80), & lost/new unity(123), & style(151), as objects(152) | ||
Artemis | The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.63-7 | vs Aphrodite(64), & gays(63), & reserve(67), & solitary sex(63-7), & solitude(63) | |
Soulmates | T. Moore | P.166-8 | & reserve(167) | ||
Assertiveness | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & agoraphobia(30), & fragmented/integrated(24), & oedipal self(16)(24-5)(43) | |
Attachment Theory and Behaviour/ Disorder/Styles | A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | Ch. 2 | description of(60-1)(120), & FS(34-5), & human personality(64-5) (135-6), & mourning(31-3), & parenting behaviour(18)(50)(83) (133-5), & pathogenic situations(147-51), & patterns of(124-8) (172-3), & secure base(11), & separation anxiety(29-31), & therapy(53) (71-3)(138-141)(151-7), & transference(142-6), & working models(129-32) | |
Attachment | J. Bowlby | ALL | |||
Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | & Avoider(68-70(72), & Clinger(66-8), & coping mechanisms of diminishing or exaggerating affect in the world(65)(117), & Minimizer/Maximiser(70-4), & romantic love(228)(230), & sense of security(65) | ||
Love & War | S. Tatkin | & adult primary A partner(4), & attack & defend(181), & 1 st 18 months influence relationship trajectory throughout life(87) | |||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | as dev. system in which mutual & self-regulation are concurrent & complementary processes(74-5), & importance of affect(27), & language of(74), & 3 principles of salience(74)(121) | |||
The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | & def. of(131), & description of(133),& early emotional frustration(133), vs sociopathy(133-4) | |||
The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | See Index | at midlife(197), vs separation(239-43) | ||
The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | See Index | & evoked companion(111-9), vs RIG(112), & working model(114) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | & alone w/ therapist(21), vs aloneness(13-5)(18-21)(70), & creativity(69)(107), & placation/avoidance(95) | |||
| EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | & ability to tolerate doubt & uncertainty(52), & major determinant of style=mothers communication(59), & separation distress(10) (46-7), & 10 central tenets of(38-41), & tranquilizing the nervous system(44), & working models(40-2)(50-1) | ||
| Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & adult love=sexuality, caregiving & A(114), & adult romantic love an A bond as w/ mother & child(20), & bonding @ a vulnerable moment(154), & criticism(190-1), & affairs(197-8), & decreases in pos. connection create disillusionment→ conflict & destruction of emotional safety(187-9), & depression(165), & emotional dep. our greatest strength(21)(24), & fear(73-4), & foremost instinct to seek contact & comforting connection(19), & innate tendency to feels w/ & for others(24), & loved one can be physically present but emotionally absent(52), & marriage(155-8), & monogamy our natural state(21)(39), & panic & pain of separation distress(52) (270), & parenting(160-3)(166), & passion(153), & propinquity (182), & repairing bonds(221)(226)(229), & sex impels us to mate, love assures our existence(19)(21)(112), & 4 steps of separation distress(53), & stonewalling(192-3), & strong emotional connection sign of health(22-3), & violations of human connection(196)(237) | |
Adult Attachment Interview, and | Love & War | S. Tatkin | See Index | & angry-resistant(56), & avoidant(56), & distressing for those who have denied their dependence needs(70-1), & doing it w/ other partner present(8), & each partner having owners manual on the other(70), as history-taking instrument, intervention & memory stress test(54), & interpretation of(67-8), & learning how to relate to each parent by seeing each through the other parents eyes(69), & partners more alike than not(54-5), & persons way of speaking during(53), & probing into how attachment history re-emerges in present moment(11-2), & provide couple w/ expanded sense of continuity, trajectory & destiny & of attachment as process that antedates their relationship(71), m& remembering things meant just for us(59), & revealing individual partners models for experiencing the world(8), & role reversal(66), & seeing how couple fits together(8), & shedding light on how parents regulated each other(63-4)(69), & social referencing(69), & under 12 years old(8)(55), & what we remember as ideas vs experience(55)(70) | |
Affairs, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | & anxious(fearful/preoccupied(271), & childhood(272), & dismissive(271-2), & monogamous infidels(secure)(270) | ||
Anxious (Preoccupied, Ambivalent, Angry-Resistant), and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | & anger/use of coercion(54), & communication(54), & description of(50), & disclosure(54), & empathy(54), & info. processing(52) | ||
Love & War | S. Tatkin | & finds ways to end relationship (Its boring) if does find someone available(95), & fussiness(96), & guilt @ feeing a burden(96), & history a constant reminder of failed relationships(95), & I cant do it myself(95), & like antilibidinal ego that defends against disappointment by sabotaging positive expectations(96), & loses listener(120), & move forward to reunion then rapidly stiffens or moves back(95), & overly verbal, expressive emotionally & digressive in speaking style(56), & partners experienced as distancing despite their insistence on proximity(95), & physical separation→ distress→ becomes overstimulated or withdraws→ inability to explore environment when caregiver returns immediate reaction is resistance→ frustrates caregiver ie Im glad to see you but also angry @ you(96), & tends to be irritably preoccupied & unavailable→ makes demands to regulate her but w/o reciprocation→ pressure on partner→ further distancing→ sense of helplessness & rage & increase in blaming(96)(120) | |||
Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & appearing hyperemotional & melodramatic(226), & assuming others similar to them & see evidence of actual traits of their own in others(263), as clingy & immature & tend to be indulged & infantilized(23), & communication of needs @ high vol.(21), & comm. style of(134)(209), & connecting through helplessness vs anger(226-7), & continuously searching for int. & ext. cues to amplify distress(225)(263), & controlling-caregiving strategy(324), & dev. a strategy for amplifying awareness & expression of attachment related feelings & need to ensure continuing care(35) (92)(225), & expressing feelings to get attention vs expressing themselves(229), & externalizing or interpersonalizing int. struggle as way to manage & communicate feelings(239), & fearful preoccupation w/ traumatic events(235), & too fearful to assert themselves & too willing to please(227), & filled w/ self-doubt & fearful of being too independent(224), & fundamental fear of abandonment(225), & greatest threats separation, loss & being alone(225), & hypervigilant for actual or imagined signs that partner might be disapproving, withdrawn or rejecting(225), & infant actively seeks contact, hyperactivating attachment system & inhibiting exploration(36), & infants distress upon separation & negligible relief upon reunion(21)(226), & letting feelings drown out thoughts(230-1), & linked to hysteric, histrionic & borderline personalities(24)(224-5)(235), & little awareness of own intentionality(239), & little capacity for compassionate understanding of themselves(239), & little confidence their exp. can be managed(239), & lively & vivid but overwhelmed by feelings & absorbed in avoiding distance from others(224), & living in mind of others(227), as merger hungry(225)(231), & mothers of as being unpredictable & occasionally available(20)(205), & mothers discouraging autonomy leading to inhibition of exploration(20), & mothers insensitive responsiveness to(20), as often victims(23), & parental model adopted by children(93), & parents of deeply absorbed in own concerns about attachment(abandonment & helplessness)(236), & preoccupied w/ other & vague about own needs, views & ambitions(238-9), & projecting malevolent other onto partner(239), & promise of closeness on one hand & likelihood of its loss on the other(93)(205), & relentless hope & refusal to mourn(324), & repr. models of contradictory experience(92-3), & splitting, embeddedness in exp., failures of mentalizing & metaphor of self overwhelmed by powerful, malevolent other(237-8), & subj. world characterized by physical vs psych. realities, actions vs words, bodies vs minds(239), & tendency to read hostile intent in partners behaviour when cues suggest intent is absent(263), & trouble believing they can rely on themselves(224), & trouble harnessing left brain to make sense of disorderly exp.(224), & underest. of strengths & resources(230), & undermining potential for emotional bal., self-esteem & trust in others(225) | ||
Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & amplifies effect of both good & bad sex(120), & depression(162-3), In dreams, portray themselves as apprehensive & unloved(45), & gripped by own suffering vs compassion for other(103)(291), & haunted by spectre of abandonment(48), & perceived rejection triggers violence(49), & portray themselves as humiliated & helpless(119)), & sexual satisfaction constricted as preoccupied w/ being loved(121), & solace sex(118), & taught that cannot rely on another to respond & reconnect after momentary disconnection (216), & tend to idealize others & doubt own value→ obsessively seeks approval & reassurance(45), & women(162-3) | ||
Avoidant (Dismissing), and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | & blaming of self(121), & emotion(50), & empathy(54), & fearful(27)(49-50)(55-7)(118)(165), & info. processing(51-3) | ||
Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & absence of neural connections linking thinking w/ feeling, lang. w/ experience & sense of self in rel. to others(222), & appearing low on life & affectively muted, limited in capacity for excitement(306), & avoidant infant=dismissing adult=avoidant children(37), & _ infants actively ignoring mother, restricting attention to toys(35-6), & behaving as if little interest in closeness yet preoccupied w/ prospect of pressures from emotional demands of others(182), & children seen as sullen, arrogant or oppositional (23), & compulsively self-reliance(211), & Cs model of sense of self as good, strong, complete & others untrustworthy, needy & inadequate(90), & defensive overestimation of own value(211), & detachment from others & own feeling responses to hopelessness about being cared for(205), & difficulty trusting others enough to be genuinely intimate w/ them(211), & dwelling mostly in left-brain (222), & eliciting controlling responses(23), & emotionally distant parents(205), & evolutionary design of need for comfort in face of pain(90), & hovering over their lives, never really landing in their bodies(222), & ignoring or suppressing infants attachment needs (90), & justifying emotional isolation of childhood(89), & lack of emotion merely apparent(89), & learning to live as if no attachment needs(90-1), & living in heads w/ bodies that do vs feel(306), & minimizing attachment behaviour, max. exploration of non-human environment(37-8), & mothers of showing inhibition of emotional expression, aversion to physical contact & brusqueness when it occurs(20), & narrative rigid & incomplete(134), & never allowed to be babies(205), & projection of disowned needs, vulnerability & anger(90), & protection against further loss In present & sadness of past loss(205), & purpose of _ strategies=minimizing awareness of int. or ext. attachment-related cues in order to deactivate attachment behavioural system(36)(90), & radical restriction of attention to attachment-related matters(90), & rejection of early overtures for comfort & connection(205), & reluctant to feel & express emotions that might spur them to connect deeply w/ others(211), as tied to obsessional, narcissistic & schizoid problems(24)(211), & unable to freely access attachment memories(134), & Unc feared model of self as flawed, dependent & helpless & others as rejecting, controlling & punitive(90-1), as victimizing others(23), & w/o anxiety about abandonment yet behaviour is _(98) | ||
Love & War | S. Tatkin | See Index | & alone time = autoregulation(92-3)(95), & becoming physically ill(155), & dependency will yield only disappointment, gross misattunement, insensitivity, emotional pain & shame(92)(94-5), & dismissive & derogating of A values & behaviours(92), & dissociates from breaches in A system(93-4), & easily incorporates partner into fantasy world when dating as resemblance to primary A relationship out of awareness(93), & external disruptions of autoreg. state experienced as shock to nervous system(93), & gravitates toward things(92), & inability to shift states rapidly(94), & maintains pseudo-secure relationship internally based on fantasy of partners omnipresence(92)(94), & memories of self & family superficial & idealized & formed on ideas vs experience(56), & misappraisal of bid to reconnect as aggressive demand to surrender autonomy(94), & need for continual but implicit proximity to primary A figure-minus problem of explicit proximity(94), & needs must be met perfectly by other else w/d(95), & physical affection awkward(142), & physically deprived of hugging, cuddling & stroking during infancy & childhood(92)(142), & product of dismissive/derogating parenting dominated by neglect or intrusiveness(92), & real autonomy never developed(92), & reside in 1-person psychological system(92), & strong reaction to partners touch, smell & taste(93) | ||
Love Sense | S. Johnson | & avoidant children learn that no one will come when needed no matter what they do so better not to bother trying to connect all(216), & dampen effect of physical intimacy(120), & in dreams see themselves as distant & unfeeling(45), & endorse harsher methods of discipline & expect children to become separate & indep. earlier(163), & maintain certain detachment(120-1)(291, & less available & responsive to children(161), & more susceptible to addictions(144), & neg. view of others as inherently unreliable & untrustworthy(45), & parents tend to be ambivalent about becoming parents(161), & `sealed-off sex`(116-7), & view as worthy of love, self-doubt suppressed(45), & women suffer less depression & more detached(163) | |||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & A constantly threatened by need to self-actualize(20), & A as defensive strategy against fearful vicissitudes of love(19), & A an illusion(19), & A illusion in place to ward off very elements of danger & risk that romance invites(19)(120), & A kills romance & desire(18), & either preoccupied w/ self-regulation @ expense of sensitivity to partner or excessive monitoring of partner @ expense of own self-regulation(92), & Eros(22), & fantasy of permanence frequently trumps that of passion(120), & lust(23-4), & potentially opposing multiple states(27), & romance & A in contention w/ one another(18), & romantic love vs A love(19-20)(22), & selfish vs selfless aspects(19)(23), & sex(120) | ||
Disorganized (Unresolved, Fearful-Avoidant), and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & attachment figure as safe haven & source of danger(22)(95), & borderline(24)(247), & child caught between contradictory impulses to approach & avoid=biological paradox(22-3), & children of _ parents vulnerable to belief they are to blame for parents fear, withdrawal or dissociation(96), & children of _ parents @ severe risk of disorg. attachment(96), & children taking on parental role (94), & communication of marked by lapses in the monitoring of reasoning or discourse(209)(242), & confusing the part w/ the whole(247), & contradiction in inhibition of action or freezing as if no alternative sol.(95), & creating secure rel. & confronting trauma intertwined(245), & defenses provoke re-creation in present(245), & defensive projective identification(245)(249), & desomatization w/(305-6), & disidentifying w/ range of subj. unbearable exp., past & present(248-9), & dissociation(209-10)(243)(245)(247-9), & dissociation of parents(96), & empathy & limit setting(252), & experiencing emotions as somatic sensations or physical symptoms vs feelings(248)(303-5), & experiencing feelings as overpowering & chaotic(103), & failure of integration(247), & hard time taking care of bodies(249), & history of trauma(103)(242), & help in bearing painful feelings felt as unhelpful(252), & infant experiencing fright w/o solution(23), & internal world of(248), & keeping exp. of feeling endangered or dangerous @ bay(95), & lack of resolution of trauma/loss key(94-5), & lack of resolution vs painful exp. itself has disorganizing influence(242-3), & living life as ongoing emergency (96)(248)(304), & memories frozen in time(253), & mentalizing limited(96)(246)(254)(307-8), & model of self/other as victim, persecutor, rescuer & incompetent(250), & naming feelings associated w/ trauma(253), & oscillating between strategies of hyperactivation & deactivation(1010)(103), as outcome of interactions w/ parents who are frightening as well as frightened (23)(103), & parental rage(95), & parental response as physical withdrawal or trance-like state(23), when parents fear arises in response to child(23), & parents of _ experiencing trauma &/or unresolved losses(94), & projection outward of unbearable int. experiences(96), & promoting integration(243), as reflecting a collapse of strategy(23), & rel. w/ others & T as unstable, stormy & diff. to count on(244-5)(247-8), & rigid, brittle attentional strategies(307-8), & self-mutilation(249), & sense of helplessness against intrusive memories(253), & somatic equivalence(304-5), & splitting(247), & stance of embeddedness(246)(308), & torn by conflicting impulses to avoid others out of fear of attack & to turn desperately to others out of fear of being alone(103), & unable to interpret exp., instead defined by it(308), & vulnerable to sudden shifts from ordinary to overwhelming state of mind(248), & working w/ body of(249)(305) | |
Injury/Critical Incident, and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | & abandonment(15), & attachment theory as theory of trauma(182), & avoidance & numbing(134)(187), as betrayal(186), & dealing w/(180), & definition of (15)(176)(180-1)(184), & existential vulnerability(186), & helplessness(182)(186), & hypo/hperarousal (141)(187-8), & internal models of relating(186), & interpretation of by partner(185)(187), & isolation(15)(22)(36)(57)(182), & PTSD(187), & resolution of(192-3) | ||
What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & occurrences that had effect of changing the course of the rel. & may or may not be known by couple(40)(44-5) | ||
Secure, and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | See Index | & balanced assertiveness(54)(109), & fostering communication competence(53), & integrated sense of self(205), & safe haven/ secure base(36), & toleration of trauma(27)(36-7) | |
Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & associated w/ reflective stance toward experience(4), & balance of interactive & self-reg.(49)(109), & behaviour of mothers of reflect sensitivity, acceptance, cooperation & emotional availability(29) (37), & benign circle of sec. attachment fostering affect reg., optimal arousal & mentalizing(49)(143-4), & collaborative & contingent communication(21), & containing infants distress(48), & degree of bidirectional coordination(109), & earned security(134), & felt security(36)(48), & freely access & collaboratively reflect upon attachment rel. memories to construct & present coherent narrative (134), & healthy dev. dependent on both parties enjoyment of attachment rel.(17), & infant experiences attachment rel. as context in which affects can be effectively regulated(100), & internal registration of connection to others as source of relief, comfort & pleasure(100), & internal registration of self as good, loved, accepted & competent(100), & key to in pattern of communication (16), & metacognitive monitoring(4)941), & neither avoidant of closeness/dep. or anxious about abandonment(98), as neither victims or victimizers(23), & open to T(27), & recognizing childs emerging intentional; stance(48-9), & response of caregiver help both to alleviate infants distress & amplify pos. emotions(100), & _ infant becomes secure adult(37), & _ infants communicate their feelings & needs directly(21)(35), & _ infants reassured by reconnection(19), in school treated warmly & age appropriately(23), & show greater self-esteem, emotional health, ego resilience, positive affect, initiative, social competence & concentration(23), & single model of attachment(39-40), & window of tolerance(144) | ||
Love Sense | S. Johnson | & attuned mothers(216), & emotional balance(102), & learned that momentary disconnection is tolerable & that another person will be there to help us regain emotional balance & reconnect(216), & required before move into compassionate action(103)(290), & sex(14)(130), & show fewer discrepancies between actual & ideal traits(288) | |||
Secure Base, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & allows child to freely explore(12)(144), & based on certainty about availability of protective & supportive other(12)(161), & benign circle of attachment, secure base, mentalization & affect reg.(144), & capacity to mentalize(144), & exploratory behaviour system(12)(65), & internalized(6)(65)(144), & internal secure base of mindfulness(6)(161), & internalized _ allows us to restore emotional equilibrium through obtaining symbolic contact w/ security enhancing attachment figure w/o seeking actual proximity(65) | |
Styles, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & AAI(207-9), & affect regulation(100), & attachment figure need for physical & emotional survival(48), & attachment rel. w/ T(85) (100)(187), & 3 behaviours in attachment behavioural system(12-3), & childs appraisal of availability critical(13), as defined by relational prominence of avoidance & anxiety(96-7), & even when dev. cost is exorbitant, young children will respond in ways that preserve parents psych. status quo(39)(99), vs exploratory(12)(36), & healthy neural dev. hinges on attuned responsiveness(69), & insecure parents=ambivalent, avoidant children(37-8), & intersubjectivity(187-9), & key to security or insecurity=patterns of communication between infant & caregiver(16)(80), & long term effects of(23-4), & loss(205), & memory-driven expectations often trump new exp.(76), & mirror neurons(77), & most of what we perceive generated by int. memory model, not senses(76), & neural plasticity(79), & neurons that fire together wire together(69), & own 1 st rel. of attachment provides organizing blueprint of the mind(84), & parents as frightening & frightened=disorganized children(38), & recognizing clients prevailing state of mind w/ respect to attachment(206-7), & rel. connections become neural connections (70), & rules infants derive from earliest exchange govern how they behave & what they will allow themselves to feel, want, think & remember(84)(100), & secure parents=secure children(37), & structure of brain(70-79), & style tied to disorder(24), & synergy of affect reg., secure attachment & mentalizing(218-9), & working models of(27)(31) | |
Trauma, and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | & complex PTSD(56-7), & depression & anxiety(140-1), & dismissing avoidant(55), & fear(21), & fear of closeness(128), & How can we accept love if, to survive, one has had to give up on it & adopt a sense of self as unlovable?(125), & lack of mirroring (148), & making sense of(21), & need for secure attachment(8) (10-11)25)(36-7), & partner as source of solution to alarm(48), & recovery(35), & relaxing into pleasure as suicide(128), & retraumatization(23-4), & self-mutilation(56), & sense of self(57-9), & shame(124)(142), & significant other(23), & stressors(47), & styles of attachment(43)(55), as violation of human connection(27-9) | ||
Attention | Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & dimming to numb pain(36), & endorphins as hampering(38-9), & fear(82), & paranoia(138), & roles(106-8)(209-14)(216-7), & schizophrenia(33-4), & tact(222) | ||
Attention Deficit Disorder | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & Acorn Theory(107) | |
Attunement (Selected) | The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | & FS(209-10), & mirroring(210), & parental bias(207) | ||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | See Index | as act of focussing on another person or ourselves to bring into awareness internal state of other in interpersonal attunement-or self in intrapersonal attunement(54), & compassionate(47)(84), & feeling felt(34), & 1 st phase of=focus of attention on signals from another(34)(39), & internal states needed for(43), & interoception (39-40)(44), & limited by any preoccupations(35), & mirror neuron stimulation(37)(39), & need to be fully receptive(35)(42-3), & not necessarily intentional(38), & perceptual array being as open as possible(35), vs presence=state of being open(35)(43)(54), & projecting feeling of impending chaos or rigidity(53), & shame when needing but not receiving(47-8), & stimulation of integrative regions of brain(228) | ||
Couples, and | Love & War | S. Tatkin | & communication(188), & empathy(209-10), & feeling of being on same page, in alignment or in sync the feeling that launches primary attachment relationships(103), & micromoments(103), & produces a sense of safety & security as well as attraction & sustained by couples capacity to remain predictable & friendly(103), & when partners take care of each other, both of their needs are met(190) | ||
A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & even most sensitive caregiver is insensitive to childs state of mind 50% of time(96), & failing of selfobject _(42-3), & lack of to others emotional reaction over disappointment of primary selfobj. Function(49), & Ts _ to each partners subjectivity instils hope, perspective & new possibility(37), & T using to mollify aggression(119) | |||
Authenticity | Hope & Dread | S. Mitchell | Ch. 5 | & balance of internal & external(137-8), & body(140), as construction(131), & expression vs management(139-40), & gendered identity(140), & inauthentic experience as natural(133), & lying as extreme form of inauthenticity(130), & question of meaning in therapy(132-3), & secret experience(138-9), & spontaneous self-expression(133), in T(79)(84)(146-50), & true vs false experience (131) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & how do two authentic selves co-exist?(237), & improvisational moments capture most heightened moments of relational _(36)(159), & multiple states of _ vs hypocrisy(48), & preserving sense of by being unresponsive to each others longings(49), & submission vs surrender(171) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & alternate versions of reality denied to self dealing w/ world(197), & authenticity of T(211), & clients use of potential space(199), as a construction(195), & dissociated self-states(197-8), & hysteria (223-4), & one dimension is absence of full range of interpersonally organized self-experience(197), & incompleteness of answers(228), & internal saboteur(196), & oscillation between preserving self-state & restructuring it(199), & T experiencing clients diss. voices as discontinuous but individually authentic expressions of selfhood (199), & true self(197), & working w/ in T(199-200) | |
Automatisms | Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & automatic writing(70), & coughing(75), & dissociation(70), & stuttering(75)& tics(74-5) | |
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & definition of(123) | |||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | of behaviour(229-30), of decisions(321-8), of responsibility(262-4) | ||
Avoidance | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & borderline(76-7)(154), & creativity(209), & narcissist(183) | ||
Awakening Experience | Staring at the Sun | I. Yalom | & although the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death saves us(33),& catalyst for(36-7), as a confrontation w/ death that enriches life(32), & everyday(how things are) vs ontological(that things are)(33-4), & mindful of being(35), & the more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety(49-50) | ||
Awareness | Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved by You? | J. Paul | & evolving of through learning(237), of partners intent(244), & self-respect(206) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & dissociation(65-76), & schizophrenia(13)(185)(361), & selective inattention(38-58), & self-system(4)(12), & sublimation(14-18) | ||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | of awareness & attention to intention(28)(224), & body scan exercise(44-6), & differentiating what we are aware of vs experience of awareness itself(93)(109), & inner critic(150), & mindful(29)(110), & objectivity(109-10), & permeable boundaries of you & me(127), & shared(134), & 4 streams of sensation, observation, concept, knowing(135-6)(138), & transpiration(254), & triception(126), & wheel of(93)(209-10)(224)(265) | |||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & anxiety when too much info. enters _(65), & capacity to know w/o awareness of what is known(67), & censors(59), & filtering perception(90), & hidden observer(88), & influence of info. that never reaches_(86), & memory(63), & most consequential activity outside of(68) | |||
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | & ecstasy(197), & self-relatedness(197) | |||
The Natural History of the Mind | G. Taylor | & body(157), & cognition(199), & consciousness(73-7), & unconsciousness(75)(86-7)(90)(318) | |||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | characteristics of(xv), as chief aim of therapy(281), & contact-boundary(267-8), & emotion(112), vs introspection(88) | ||
Awe | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | P.137 | & courage(137), & love(137), as respect for the Other(137) | |
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Basic Fault | Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & each human being wants to return to all-embracing harmony w/ environment, to be able to love in peace(4), as failure to feel primary love or an unrepaired, even irreparable rupture of it(4), & no sense that others might have wishes & expectations not our own, therefore, no need for seeking power or making effort(4), if unconditional dependence of primary love disturbed more than normal, baby responds desperately. If unwanted, neglected, abandoned, attacked, hatred & aggression is born(4) |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & anxiety around(21), & avoiding omnipotence by T(167-8)(171), & characteristics of(16-7), & clients expression of(88-9), as deficiency (21-2), & fault vs complex, conflict or situation(21-2), & frustration as intentional(19), & harmonious mix-up(57), & importance of every gesture(18), & interpretation as attack(18), & interpretation as demand for gratification or need for object rel. (162), & interpretation as gratifying(18)(161), & knowing too much about T(18-9), & mixture of emptiness & determination(19-20), as more primitive than Oedipal(16), as new beginning(165-6), & object rel. as primary love (168), & origin of(22)(82)(125), & provisions of T taken for granted (20-1), & reaction of client when T fails to respond appropriately(19) (112), & regression(156), & satisfaction vs frustration(17)(168), & T as primary substance(167), & Ts danger of subjective emotional involvement(20), as 2-partner relationship where only 1 partner matters(23), & vagueness of language(17)(111), & wide influence of (22) | |
BASK | Psychoanalytic Diagnoses | N. McWilliams | & B ehaviour, A ffect, S ensation, K nowledge(331-2), & dissociative personality(331-2) | ||
Beauty | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & the daimon(39-40), & life(38), & neglect by psyche(35) | |
The Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | p. 104-5 | |||
The Art of Travel | A. de Botton | p. 220 | & 5 central conclusions about | ||
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | Ch.2 | & the body(21-4), & the face(25), & the hair(27-30), & sex(33-5), & soul(30-3) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & art(220), & dark side of life(210-1)(222)(228), & definition of(209)(223), & depth of perception(211-2), & images(213)(215-7), & own beauty(225), & rel. to love & pleasure(216), as relief from distress(211), & self-interest(224), vs truth & fact to the mind(223) | ||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.277-280 | contemplation of(279), definition of(279), & lack of soul disturbance eg depression(277-8), & passion(280) | ||
New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | Emersons definition of a successful life &(157), vanity crisis &(182-5) | ||
Males Attraction to | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | & attractive infants(71), & beauty contests(70), & beauty power vs performance power(100-2), & desire for attention(116), & marriage (103), & mens need to prove themselves w/ a beautiful woman (74)(111), & power(66-70), & self-confidence(75), & sexual distance(76) | ||
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | See Index | & boys social power over(239), & cult of(238), as grounded in pleasure of girlhood(248), & internalizing males standards of(241), as passion(255), & shapely body(240), & shifts from feeling to observing body(241), as survival strategy(237)(244) | |
Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | & compliments(189) | |||
Being | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | vs doing as therapist(312), & fear of collapse(259) | |
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | All | |||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | See Index | & being in the world(25)(32), & body(130)(161-2), & denial of in psychosis(150), & ontological security(41-2), & relatedness(26), & sense of identity(139) | ||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | & doing infused w/(208), & love, joy & peace as deep states of(29), & merging of subject & object(107), vs mind(111) | |||
Conversations with God | N. Walsch |
| & action of body(185), vs doing(170), & soul(170)(185 ) | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott |
| & doing(85), & female element(80)(82), & I am vs I do(130), vs male element(80-2), & play(57) | ||
Being-Itself, and | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | & being affirming itself against nonbeing(179), & courage to be as self-affirmation of(24)(180-1), & doubt & meaninglessness(176), & embracing nonbeing(34), & faith(172)(176), & fate & guilt(176), & nonbeing(180), & participation vs individualization(156-7), & religion(156-7), & subjective/objective split(25), & threat of nonbeing (156)(158), as transcending every finite being infinitely(172-3) | ||
Body, and | Fear of Life | A. Lowen | Ch.3-5 | & activity as flow vs push(101), & authenticity(80), & body(86) (90-1), & breakdown/breakthrough(157), & breathing(105), & castration anxiety(166-7)(169), vs doing(82)(98-9)(101)(103), & fear of death(120), & fear of insanity(137)(161), & feeling(100) (106)(125), & growth(99), & harmony between ego & body(103), vs having(97-8), & helper(77), & holding(104)(124), & me, myself & I(85), & orgasm anxiety(123-4), & pleasure(100), & release from fear & anger(146-7), & roles(73-5)(103-4), & self(85-6), & sexuality(84-8)(96-7)(121-2), & sexuality vs sexual activity(90-6), & social roles (79), & spontaneity(102), as state of aliveness in body(107), & therapy(147-55), & therapy; learning how not to do vs how to be (104), & unity(89), & voice(84), & will to live(120), & wish to die (112)(119) | |
Therapy, and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 156 | ||
Bereavement | Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & creativity(129)(134)(143-4), & depressives(126-7), & meaning of life(12), as private(31), & writing(128) | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p. 170-1 | of parents for children | ||
Betrayal | Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | See Index | & denial(49), & forgiveness(48), & generalization(49-50), & individuation(50-1), of innocence, trust & faith(47), & isolation(49), & message of(51), & paradox of trust & depth(48), & revenge(49) | |
On Flirtation | A. Phillips | See Index | & letting people down by refusing to be only one version of oneself(169), as one way we get to know people by betraying them(169), & suffer most as adults from not being able to let people down(169) | ||
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | See Index | & anger(68-9), & culture(101)(299-300), cycle of (65-9)(170), by mother(39)(44)(46), & trusting each other(305), & voice(300-1) | |
Bioenergetic Analysis | The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | All | ||
Biofeedback | Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | All | ||
Bisexuality | Androgyny | J. Singer | See Index | & Adam & Eve(80), & androgyny(32)(111-2), & anima/animus(32) (257), definition of(16-8)(31), & Freud(254-7) | |
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & friendship(187)(189-90), & negative Oedipus complex(111), & wish for(121) | ||
Women, and | Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, Ed. | & creative process(167-8), & Oedipal situation(81) | ||
Blame | Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | & paranoid schizophrenia(87)(146)(148)(304)(335-341), & unworthiness(345) | ||
Body | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | Ch.8 | & context of cultural numbing(165), & cultivating bodys soul (172-4), & desire of as issue of pleasure(164), as expression of soul(155), & illness of as god wounds(166-7), & imagination(175), & organ eroticism(163), & world/human(171) | |
Conversations with God | N. Walsch | See Index | & 3 aspects of Self(196-7), vs mind(175), vs soul(81)(175)(196) | ||
Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | Ch.2 | & 2 factors associated w/ good health(30), & stress(28-9) | ||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | See Index | & attention in _=Now(117), & Cs(121), & rooted in_=observer of mind(118), & transformation as through, not away(114) | ||
The Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | See Index | & embodiment(153)(157), & evil eye(155), & humiliation(154), & schizoid(152), & sensuality(152-3)(155-6) | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, Ed. | Ch.16 | as hidden(84-5), & personal biography in(84), as shadow(armour, Reich)(83)(86-8) | ||
Bioenergetic Analysis, and | Betrayal of the Body | A. Lowen | All | ||
Fear of Life | A. Lowen | ||||
Body Dysmorphic Disorder, and | The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | p. 188 | & body vs body image | |
Development, and | Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | & grasping/sucking(105-6), & hands(106), & holding(93-4)(131), & manipulation of outside world(107), & moulding(100-1), & mouth as inner/outer bridge(101), & pleasure from(212)(224), & products from inside(225-6), & stiffening(102-3), as subject matter in 1 st 12m(104), & sensations of @ 16m.(55) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & aliveness of as antidote to depersonalization & deadness(191), & body as thing in absence of symbolization(191), & disconnection of mind from(232), & inauthentic use of in diss. processes(190) (232), & the sorrow that has not vent in tears makes other organs weep(317) | |
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | & inappropriate touch in T(204-5), loss of control of(70-1), as ugly(122) | ||
Mindsight, and | Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & blanking awareness of feelings, body reveals anyway(125), & the bodys feeling underneath panic(141), & body scan(95-6)(134), & creating mental models from(73), & fight, flight or freeze(131)(199-200), & interruptive awareness of(127), & neural networks throughout interior of body = gut feeling or heartfelt senses(43) (63), & safe place(135)(137), & saying yes & no re: reactive & receptive states(199)(214-5), & 5 senses(43), & vertical integration(72-3), & walking meditation(96), & window of tolerance(137-9) | |
Self-Relatedness and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | p. 197-8 | ||
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & ego(348-9), & erection(13)(383), & importance of father(266), & masturbation(67), & importance of mother(117)(204-5)(266)(274), & penis(19)(181)(303), & phallus(19)(189), as remaining unwritten (347), & reproductive techniques(21), & symbol(348-9), & vagina (20)(68)(303), & womb(199), & womens awareness of(261) | |
Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | See Index | & adolescence(14), & attractiveness to boys(240), & desire(14)(204) (207-8)(262), & eating disorders(252), & loss of living in(59-60), & neg./pos. image of(162)(241), & pleasure in(44), & reclaiming of (248)& sexualization of(192)(210) | ||
Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | & fairy tales(204), & love(162) | |||
Body - Mind Connection | The Will to Live | A. Hutschnecker | All | ||
Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | All | |||
Healing Yourself | S. Pennington | ||||
Getting Well Again | C. Simonton | ||||
Body Consciousness, and | Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | Ch 8 | & cancer(169-71), & psychosomatic health(156)(164), & techniques for(164-71), & travelling through(159-61)(167), & voluntary control(157-8), & yoga(156)(158-61) | |
Development of | Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | @ 2m.(170-1), until 15/18m.(262), @ 5m.(103), @ 15m.(179), & cycle of breaking free/returning(57-8), vs empathy/devotion(50), & growth(182), in tune w/ sensate world(159), & 2 nd birth(29)(54), & separation(172) | |
Bodywork | Exercises in | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | Pg 136-46 | & affect(94-108), & awareness focusing(100) |
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | Pg 298-302 | evaluation of(298-300), types of(300-2) | |
Borderline Personality | Women Analyze Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & narcissism(131), & treatment of(292) | |
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & countertransference w/(189), & parental projection(164) | |||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & attunement to therapist(139), & child abuse(123)(125-6), & traumatic transference(136)(147) | |||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & analyzability of(71)(183), & NPD(9), & nuclear self(8), & transference(9) | ||
The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | etiology of(203), & rapprochement(229) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | Ch 5, 8-9 | in adolescence(Ch9), & borderline therapist(198-9), & intimacy(110) (112-20)(127), portrait of(Ch5), & therapy w/(Ch8, 102-3)(175) (202-4) | ||
My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | All | |||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & asking the clients help(86)(88), & characteristics of(61-5), & consistent conditions of T(82-3), & countertransf.(32), vs dissociative (344), & enmeshment vs abandonment(51-2), & expressive T(81), & interpretation of primitive defenses(84-6), & lack of observing ego (84-6), as level vs type of pathology(51), & preoccupation w/ separation/individuation(53), & projective identification(85)(112), & promoting individuation(88-9), & talk of suicide(14) | ||
Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | Ch 8 | & intersubjective viewpoint(116-131), & idealization/grandiosity (115-6), & projective identification(111-5), & splitting(107-111) | ||
Borderline vs Narcissistic Characteristics | N. Diamand | All | Masterson Seminar | ||
Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | See Index | & countertrans(130), & FS(133-4), & feelings as object(127-8), & marriage to arousing person(130), & mind-fucking(128-9), & outbursts(131), & screen-objects(129), & turmoil(131-2)(134) | ||
Attachment Theory, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | & acting out vs articulating feelings(240), & the angry client(238-9), & anxious style(234), & appearing desperate for help but tyrannized by conviction that their needs will drive help away(235), & empathy w/(235), & equating feelings w/ reality(141), & experiencing life as ongoing crisis(235), & fearful preoccupation w/ traumatic events (235), & feeling chaotic inside & empty(235), & the helpless client (102)(238), & history of disorganized attachment(24)(224), & hyperactivating attachment strategy(102)(225), & hypervigilance for actual or imagined signs that rel. partner might be disapproving, rejecting or withdrawn(225), & lacking a reflective self(239), & lives shaped most fundamentally by fear of abandonment(225), & making own distress too conspicuous to ignore(225), & merger hungry(225), & parents as unpredictable & angry/unavailable in ways that were scary(236), & rel. stormy ending in betrayal(235), & setting T limits(238), & splitting, embeddedness in experience, failures of mentalizing & metaphor of self overwhelmed by powerful, malevolent other(237), & T w/(225)(235)(237)(239), & torn between terror of dep. & bottomless need(235) | ||
vs Hysteric | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | & bonding w/ T(131), & countertrans.(55)(174-5), & creating distress (55), & groups response to(176-7), & mother of(41), & narratives (174-5), & parental projective identification(109), & suicide of(175), & turbulence(9-10)(149) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | p. 62 | & inability to make use of interpretations for fear of being taken over by T | |
Boredom | Feelings | W. Gaylin | Ch 7 | & defences against(115-6), description of(112), vs ennui(111)(113), & existential anxiety(115), & fantasy(120-3), & learning(124), & play(120)(124), & pleasure(119) | |
On Kissing, Tickling and being Bored | A. Phillips | Ch. 7 | as defence against waiting(76-7), & desire(72), as developmental achievement(69), & fantasy(75), as opportunity(70), as protest(76) | ||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | & avoiding dependence on T(169), & emptiness of associations(140), & intellectualization(169), & mastering anxiety(170), as talion response(169), as Ts Unc response(139), & withdrawal of client (169) | ||
Sociopaths, and | The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | P. 185-6 |
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Boundaries/ Boundary Situations | Death as | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | 159-87 | and decisions as(319) |
Highly Sensitive Person, and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | P. 61 | & poor | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & allowing child to feel too important(28-9), & assertion(169), between partners(138), between Self & other(27-8), & fusion w/ all-powerful caregiver(75), & inflated sense of self-importance(28), & labile vs rigid(29), & not being manipulated by guilt & shame (170), as obstacle to control(143), & others as separate vs extensions(28), & parental(193), & predisposition to fusion(142), & sense of entitlement(176), & sexual(195) | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | & analytic space(143)(340), & containment((Ch6)(114)(128)(288), & interpretation(154) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & the therapeutic contract(147)(149-51) | ||
Boundary Transgressions in the Psychotherapeutic Framework | AJP Fall 98 | P.489-99 | & therapeutic guidelines(492), & types of therapeutic(490-2) | ||
Brain | New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & ageing(8)(353), & estrogen(326-7), & mid-life(328), & plasticity of(174) | |
Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | & experience as constructed(197-8), & grounding vs exploration (39), & sexuality(59-60)(67), & strange loop phenomenon(73) | |||
The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | All |
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The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | See Index | & contingent communication(76), & dominated by top-down cortical constructions(106-7), & flexibility to move back to plane of open possibility essence of tranquility(13)(250), & meaning(92), & mind uses brain to create itself(263), & 2 modes of representing reality: verbal & imagery(104), & mood(201), & music(107), & neuroplasticity(200), & physical & mental sides of reality equally real & mutually influence each other(8)(12), & rigidity/chaos(235), & self-engagement systems(23), & social engagement systems(23), & social rejection & physical pain activate same region of(140), & state of mind(200), & state of receptivity(76), & struggle/mistakes required(221-3)(225), & training of through deep practice(110) (221)(250), & transitions from peaks to plateaus(16)(22)(201) | ||
Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & come into this world wired to make connections w one another & neural shaping of brain based on these intimate exchanges between infants & caregivers(10)& creating mental models that shape our expectations(73), & directly shaped by interaction w/ world esp. relationships(41()125), & emotional arousal activates(85)(128-9)(140), & engrained states(199), & epigenesist-changing the reg. of genetic machinery through early exp.(42), & exercise benefits learning(84), & hardwired from birth to make maps in our brains of the intentional stances of others(60-1), & horizontal integration(72)(108), & input from body to(43)(63)(125)(127), & left-brain(72)(106-9)(113-6)(177)(182)(226), & me, you & we maps(8), & mental activity stimulates brain firing(39), & mirror neurons(59-61)(63), & novelty promotes growth of new connections(84-5), & open to learning from exp.(40-1)(84), & neurons that fire together wire together(148), & neuroplasticity(42) (83-5), & power to direct attention can shape brains firing patterns (39-40)(42)(84), & regulatory circuits(86), & resonance circuitry (28)(62-3)(86)(222(257), & right-brain(72)(107-9)(112-4)(181-2) (226-7), & same part of brain deals w/ phy. injuries & social ruptures & rejection(6), & using sensory info. to create representation of others minds as they use sensory input to create images of physical world(8)(60)(62), & vertical integration(72-3) (181) | ||
Anxiety, and | Mt Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | See Index | & anxiety a reminder governed by physiology(30), & anxiety as truest route to self-discovery(221), & autonomic system same whether neurotic anxiety or responding to real threat(45), & correlation between brain activity & subjectively experienced levels of _(273-4), & genetics(142)(270(276)(278)(294)(333), & mental illness caused by biological imbalance in (166)(221), as signal that something needs to change(221-2), & as soon as brain becomes capable of apprehending future, becomes capable of being apprehensive about future(310), & sensitive minds in sensitive bodies(77), & startle response(54), as state that evolved to keep us safe & alive(43)(221)(278), & stomach as `second brain`(77)(80), & talk T changing(53)(154), & uncertainty activates anxiety circuits of(306) | |
Attachment, and | Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & bond of love is safety & survival mechanism(95), & insecurely A have strong physiological reactions to any uncertainty & avopidants make more errors reading partners signals(92), & mirror neurons(97-9), & need for connection shape neural make-up(78), & neural overlap in way we process & experience physical & relational pain(77), & oxytocin(93)(95), & reappraisal vs suppression(73), & RB to RB signalling @ 4 months 1 st & most basic language between child & parent(88), & survival of the most nurtured(90), & womens brains pair safety w/ lust(132) | |
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & agitated depression(415), & anti-depressants(330), & best shot promoting genetic material is combination of loving & attentive mother & jealous & protective father(413-4), & brain doing more than it evolved to do(415), & decrease in serotonin(57)(253), & depression often precursor to sever impairment of(192), & depression touches cognition(55), & depression ultimately changes structure & biochemistry of(56), & 80% wellness rate w/ medication, 80% relapse rate w/o(80), & ECT(120), & endorphins (138), & evolutionary advantage of capacity to make commitments (413), & freedom from guilt attached to chemical(20)(102)(330), & 1/10 on SSRIs(25), & psychosomatic complaints(20), & too many episodes of(56-7), & when instinct, emotion & cognition out of sync(414-5), & will to communicate(419) | |
Ego Defence, and | Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | P.70-75 | & gating system(75), & tripartite(70-4) | |
Men, and | Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & depression(234-5), & Prozac(235) | |
Mirror Neurons, and | Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | & brain as intrinsically relational(21), & involuntary & automatic response to what another person is doing, feeling or intending w/o requiring thought or verbal language(21), & mirroring actions, sensations, emotions, intentions & motives(21), & more than observe another-create internal representation of their sensations, emotions & motives within our own brain, as if we are the ones that are sensing, feeling & intending((22),, as neuroscience version of relational theory of psychological functioning based on a self-state model of mind(21), & similar to implicit relational knowing(21) | ||
Music, and | Music and the Mind | A. Storr | & emotional effects of music on(39), & music originating from(51), & sensory input(104) | ||
Old | Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | & old vs new(41), & the unknown(145) | |
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & adoptive = bio. parent in shaping structure of childs brain(34), & attachment relationships promote integrative functioning within brain enabling child to thrive(175), & autobio. data(43)(46-7)(132)(135), & brain function creates mind(22), & brain structure shapes brain function(22), & constructed to rely on external social input to regulate its own functioning(215), & dont know how brain activity produces subjective experience of mind(32), & experience directly shapes structure of(22), & experience-expectant vs experience-dependent brain development(114-6), & impaired integrating processes of(78), & interpersonal relationships & patterns of communication children experience w/ parents directly influence dev. of mental processes(31-4), & left mode processing (43-4)(87-8)(132)(135)(137-8)(224-5), as most complex thing in universe(33), & well-integrated (right & left), organized brain creates a coherent, adaptive mind(46)(117), & moving from dyadic regulation to self-reg.(215), & right mode processing(43)(55)(63) (87-8)(135-6)(152)(177-8)(225)(232)(244), & social, emotional & bodily processing of other areas of brain directly shape abstract perceptions & reasoning(75) | |
Right | The Right Brain | T. Blakeslee | All | ||
Sociopathy, and | The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | P. 125-6 | ||
Breathing | Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | & anxiety(150-1), as 1 st step in therapy(468) | |
Bulemia | Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | as cultural ill(252) | |
Bullying | When Victims turn into Bullies | S. Bloom TPR Feb2000 | Pg 59-60 | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Calling | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & addiction to perfection(48), & beauty(35-6)(38), & character (251-2)(255),in children(13)(33)(134-5), & daimon(8)(18)(39-40) (83), & demonic crime(Ch 10)(235-6)(239-42), & the extraordinary (31), & feeling of purpose(203-4), & imagination(33), & loss of(4), & love (144-5), & mystery(10), & obsessions(7), vs other theories (25)(29), & reading life backward(7), & school(104-5), & symptoms (34-5)(53), vs therapy(5)(11)(38), vs traditional approach(134), as uniqueness that asks to be lived(6) | |
The Middle Passage | J. Hollis | & judged by fullness of our courage(74), & Self vs ego(74), & vocation(72-4), & vocatus vs task(74), & What am I called to do? (74) | |||
Catharsis | Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & acknowledging painful truths(55), & aim of(53-5), & the arts (220), & cleaning out(57), & definition of(52), & emotions required for(64), & telling your story(58-60) | ||
Cathexis | Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & aggression(90)(93), & obj meaning(88) | ||
Object vs Ego | Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H. Watkins | Pg 14-16 | & dissociation(43), & energy(17)(23-4), & identification(16), & internal obj(16), & introject(16), & thoughts vs perceptions(21) | |
Change | Change & the Real Self | N. Diamand | Pg 21-37 | what it is(21-5), working model of(25-6), how it happens(26-31), & therapy(31-3), why it happens(33-7) | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | and confrontation w/ death(160-5), and insight(339-42) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & anger(238), & dark night(308)(311), & imagination(308-9), & meaning(310), & resisting(77) | |||
Conversations w/ God | N. Walsch | See Index | & responsibility(36-7), & Who You Are(36) | ||
New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & aging(154-5), & aliveness(153), & the brain(174)(328), & inner discontent(12), & marker events(12), & mastery(271), & play(357), & resistance(62) | ||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | & bringing what is unaware into awareness(38-9), & capacity to maintain one`s composure in face of ceaseless change(77), & going more deeply into our problems(xv-xvi), & happens naturally as we open to truth(38-9), & identifying 100% w/ feelings(77), & learning to be w/ ambiguity(xvi), & moving away from problems & into unknown(xvi), & never getting rid of a single neurosis(38), & seeing attachments(37-9), & sense of spaciousness(38-9), & spiritual=anything that takes us beyond this personality(xiv), & using our capacity for Cs(39) | |||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & change point where client speaks to T about himself vs not speaking to T or not speaking about himself(265-6)(297), & client`s wish to stay the same while changing(170)(307), & continuity of human relatedness while self-change is taking place(19, & negotiating change & stability simultaneously(167) | ||
Males, and | Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | & breakdown(22), & exit events(99)& midlife(134),= loss(5)(13) (238), & passion(144-5), & permission(132) | ||
Why Men are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | Chapter 11 | after a relationship ends(311)(332), & intent of changing the other (285), & magical(57), & marriage(173), & not wanting(313), & fear of loss(331), & partner as therapist(318), & power(314), & quickness of(322), vs women(322-3)(332) | ||
Women, and | Dance of Anger | H. Lerner | See Index | as act of disloyalty(36), & anger as signal for(3-4)(102)(107), & anxiety of(44), & anxiety & guilt over potential loss of rel.(24), & choice between having a rel. & having a self(6)(16)(23)(27)(90)(93), & clarity around(114-5), & countermoves to(25-6)(34-5)(80), & de-selfing(20-3)(28)(106), & equated w/ destructive act(33)(95), & family hist.(118), & feeling of separateness & aloneness(96-7)(198), & feelings of depression, low self-esteem, self-betrayal & self-hatred when change doesnt occur(4-5), & guilt trumps anger →change(7), & indep. vs emotional distance(81), & making I statements(30-1)(90)(104), & moving from ineffective fighting & complaining to clear & assertive claiming(5)(9)(24)(26)(29)(55)(90), & pseudo issues(37), & rage in proportion to degree of submission to sacrifice(20-2)(32-3), & recognizing lack of clarity(106), & self-observation(45)(127-8), & self-sabotage(94), & staying silent(199), & staying stuck(8-9)(33)(43-4), & stepping back vs emotional withdrawal(144-5), & thinking vs expressing feelings(74), & trying to change other person(39)(52)(67-8), & venting anger ensures absence of(4), & wanting other person to like it(35)(39), & we teach what we must learn(99), & wishing, fearing & resisting partners change & growth(52)(63)(65) | |
Cherishment | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | All |
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Child Rearing/ Childhood/ Children | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & counter/codependent(265-8)(279), & dysfunctional families(33-4) (41)(43), & trauma(306) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & being stuck @ certain level of dev.(200), & dark night of(205), & mother withholding affection from, to encourage index.(86-8), & parents who stifle themselves(139), & reconnecting w/(200), & repressing(197), & searching for lost(202) | ||
The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | & changing behaviour vs improve mood(76), & chores(149), & communication w/(74)(76-7)(120-1)(200-2)(204)(206-7), & confusing what they want vs what they need(121), & deed vs creed(123), & disappointing behaviour vs rejection(204), & entitlements vs privileges(12)(206), & exploring cause & effect rarely works(120), & hearing parents dishonour others(87), & logical consequences(207), & making amends(207), & not needing to understand or agree(77), & rebuking vs criticism(201), & shame(201), & talk less, act more(200), & using polite phrases(74), & 3 types of sin(201-2)(204) | |||
Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & child abuse(45), & dependence(134-5), & guilt(152)(154) (158-60), & home(37), & romantic love vs parent/child love affair(101), & secure attachment(46-7)(49), & security vs mystery (87), & self-organization(85) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & 4 assumptions sustaining illusion of safety(313), & attachment (20), & bad fit(241), & clingy Mother(251-2), & consciousness (313), & dependency(126-7), & detachment(16), & ego ideal(151), & Father (73-4), & grandiosity/narcissism(54-8), & guilt(140-50), & identity-girls vs boys(129-30), & intimacy(127-8)(130), & latency (154-6), & love(19-20)(70), & myth of perfect family(250-1), & object constancy (43), & oneness w/ Mother(24-34), & 4 physical differences between girls & boys(125), & rapprochement(39), & separation/individuation (21)(35-7)(41)(130)(255), & superego (140-1), & True Dilemma Theory of Parenthood(240)(243-4)(246-7) | ||
Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | & acorn to oak tree human potentialities(17-8), & alienation from self(21), & attitude toward(68), & basic anxiety(18)(297), & basic conflict of moving towards, against or away from others(19-20) (221-2), & feeling of being unloved(87)(202-3), & living in 2 worlds(40), & revenge(27), & safety(21), & self-effacing(221-2), & self-confidence vs neurotic pride(87), & self-realization(17), & withdrawal from conflict(275) | |||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | & alterego(40), & attachment(74-5), & attuned response to expansive affect states(35), & boundaries w/ parents(145), & idealizing(39-40), & interplay between self & mutual reg.(73-5) (162), & language of attachment(74), & mirroring(39), & misattunement of parent(163-7), & organizing principles(24)(160), & parental T w/(165), & repair of injuries to(145), & role of affect (27-8)(36-7)(163), & self-obj. exp.(37)(160)(162), & Unc of(25) | |||
Lord of the Flies | W. Golding | All | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | All | |||
The Fear of Women | W. Lederer | See Index | & altar still a womens womb & her god & supreme purpose still her child(246), & arresting child @ womans favourite stage eg helpless infant, son-lover(67-70), & girls fare worse than boys →paranoia of women(66), & initiation into manhood(70-1), & women can reject, disown, harm, kill even eat their children(66) | ||
Adult Offending Behaviour, and | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 215-228 |
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Adult Eroticism, and | Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | See Index | & body as purest tool for communicating(111-2), & intimacy (123-4), & ruthlessness(121-2), & sexual self-discovery hampered by parental messages(109)(117), & what excites us most as arising out of childhood hurts & frustrations(109) | |
Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | See Index | & acquisition of language(72), & adults who have not found transformative cures for traumas of _→ fated to breakdown(39)(69) (98), & childhood as essentially unfathomable experience, one that cannot be communicated(38), & freeze-framing disturbing psych. Event(20 & preconception of child that someday they will be able to turn to an empathic other in order to make sense of disturbing event in childhood often appears to be realized when self falls in love(71-3), & suffering from childhood itself(38), & unthought known(68-9)(72-3)(80) | |
Caregiver, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | as active agent(12), & becoming admirable adults(69), & feeling deprived of own childhood(8)(70), & feeling guilty for own needs (9), & feeling respon. for keeping parent alive(7)(9-11)(70), & impact on custody(11), as loyal confidants(11), & parent/child as peers(12), as poor preparation for happy adult rel. choices(13), & providing sense of pride & satisfaction(12)(70), & reinstalling rescue re. in adult rel.(9)(31), & sacrificing friendships(9), & taking respon. for parents moods(8), & upside-down dep.(9) | |
Channels of Psych. Vulnerability, and | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 73 |
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Death, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | and concepts of death in(75-109)(212) | |
Denial of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & adapting to whole desperate human condition not merely to attune to whims of parents(61), & character of(29), & character defenses of are automatic & Unc as child needs to adjust to world, parents & own existential dilemma→ becomes dependent on them to encased in own char. armor unable to see his own defenses, the things that are determining his unfreedom(73), & death a complex symbol, not any particular, sharply defined(19)(22), & experience anxious confusion when parents do not transcend the body(44), & expressing horror @ complete dependence on what is physically vulnerable (89), & fetishizes mothers body as object of global danger(39), & inauthentic men follow styles of automatic & uncritical living, conditioned as children(73), & living w/ inner sense of chaos as forces of nature confused, external & internal→ exaggerated potential power & added terror due to magical malevolent feelings of child toward parents→ guilt & helplessness(18-0), & major task a flight from helplessness & obliteration(36), & mother represents pure source of pleasure & satisfaction, security & a fundamental threat to getting control of his own powers(38), & mothers body reveals a sex that threatens vulnerability & dependence & 2 sexes→ fact that childs body is arbitrary = horror of biological fact→ child saddled w/ impossible project = determining his meaning cannot be achieved by body-sexual means(40-1), & narcissistic project becomes mastery & possession of world through self-control but doomed to failure(37), & no perfect way to bring up child since he brings himself up by trying to shape himself into an absolute controller of his own destiny(37), & parents as living embodiment of cultural world view that child has to internalize(44), & repression of idea of own death fortified by his narcissistic vitality & identification w/ parents triumph over death automatically becomes his(71), & succumbing to desire to flee sex represented by mother 40), & unable to muster stamina & authority necessary to face overwhelmingness of world(62), & using body as machine to magically coerce the body(44), & wants to conquer death by becoming father of himself(36), & witnessing primal scene a complex symbol combining horror of body & betrayal of cultural superego(44) | |
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & ADHD, separation anxiety & conduct disorder(181-2), & anaclitic(183-4), & behaviour of(181-2), as depressed adults(181) (187), of depressed mothers(180-1),& early assertion of power(350), & 5 possible explanations for(182), & high level of physical complaints(182), & homophobia(204), in infants as young as 3m(181), & interventions based on listening(183), & magnify mother`s state(181), & paranoia(182), & physical illness or disability of(187), & prevents personality development(185), & school-age children severely maladjusted(181), & signs of(188), & suicide(187)(257) | |
Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | All |
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Highly Sensitive Person, and | Highly Sensitive People | E. Aron | See Index | & 2 kinds of HSP(66), & difficulty sleeping(24-6), & fears of(74-5), & help w/ overarousal(70)(72), & imagination(27), as peacemaker (170), & risk of anxiety, depression as adult(168)(173), & school (81) (83), & self-loathing(85), & social skills(81), & trusting the others (72-3) | |
Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk about It | T. Real | See Index | & absent Father(143), & adult depression(98), & affection from Father(141), & bullying(116), & closeness to Mother(144-5), & disempowering abuse(166), & false empowerment(166)(175), & grandiosity(161), & initiation rites(76)(132)(162-3), & lost, shame ridden boy(225-6), & masculine identity(130-1), & self-esteem (44-5) (182), & performance(168)(172), & socialization of gender(120-3) (130)(171)(174)(177), & trauma(105-7)(110) (116)(137)(205-9) (290), & violence as # 1 killer of(113), & work w/ inner children (212-3)(276) | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & age-appropriate N. = 2-3 yrs.(45), & development of real competencies(37), & evolving from grandiosity to reality-based Self (41-2), & management of shame(35), & N. personality=failure to complete the S/I process(45), & one w/ powerful parent(37), & recovery from shame(41), & shame as betrayal of illusion of perfect union w/ Mother(41) | |
Society, and | Thou Shalt Not Be Aware | A. Miller | All | ||
Sociopathy, and | The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | See Index | & ethic of care(women) vs ethic of justice(men)(176), & 50% inherited(123-4), & moral reasoning(99-101)(171) | |
Women, and | Women Analyze Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & absent Father(36)(139)(266), & creativity(22)(252)& equally shared(113)(125)(288)(295), & parents cultural fear of(396-7), & reproductive techniques(20), & single parent families(267) | |
Child, Divine | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.49-54 | as archetype(49), & embracing(53), & helplessness(50-1), as soul(54) | |
Child, Inner | The Middle Passage | J. Hollis | See Index | & affairs(57-9), & childish vs childlike(104), & marriage as prime bearer of needs of(57), & mid-life(104), & neurosis as defence of(10), as organic memory of childhood(10), & What would my inner child enjoy? as question of mid-passage(105), & 2 wounds(10) | |
Choice(Decision) | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.302-3, 314-46 | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & capacity to acknowledge one`s mastery is imperfect(293), vs decision(68)(292-3), & dissociation(293) | |
Clinging | Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | 3 types of(278-9), & approach behaviour(247-8), at birth(265), directed towards Mothers body(309)(348), to inanimate objects (309) (311-3), & kissing as attachment & sexual behaviour(233), & man vs primate(216), in monkeys(199)(278), & sequence of behaviour at separation(27-8)(337), & strong attachment or insecurity(334) | |
The Basic Fault | M. Balint | as defence against object loss(69), & harmonious interpenetrating mix-up(74-5), & physical contact w/ T(145), & primary cathexis to object vs space as threatening(68), & primary object(69-9 ) | |||
Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | & boys vs girls(218), & darting away(196-7), & shadowing(196-7) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & borderline(76-7)(79)(85)(113)(119-20), & feeling helpless(71), & guilt(69) | ||
The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | & smiling(83) | |||
Relationships, and | Dancing with Fire | J. Amodeo | & bypassing threatening feelings of hurt or loneliness(56), & clinging to being right(58), & clinging to shame(58)(111), & defensive reactivity(56), & definition of(48), & desire(45), & desire vs craving(45)(50)(52))(87), & fantasy(49), & letting go(46), & longings(52)(56)(64)(87), & shame about our suffering(65), & staying connected w/ our felt experience(51), & we cannot heal what we refuse to feel(65) | ||
Co-Dependence | Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | P.8-9 | & loss of identity(8-9) | |
Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopick | Ch 4 | & controlling behaviour of(41), & description of(40-1), & guilt vs shame(40), & people are always matched perfectly at the level of their common woundedness(43), & relationship between(42-3), & takers vs caretakers(41-2), & T as(145-6) | ||
Toxic Parents | S. Forward | P.39 | definition of | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & compliant employee(105), & neediness(79), & powerlessness(24) | ||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | Ch.5 | & definition of(28-9), & denial of feelings(39-40), & secrets(38), & threat of chaos(39) | ||
vs Counter-dependence | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | Ch 9 | & change(279-91), & description of(267), & mandates of(268), & passive acceptance(267), & self-evaluation(291-300), & shadow self(276-8), | |
Cognitive &/or Behavioural Therapy/ Cognitive Styles | Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | All | ||
Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | See Index | for ego-building(284-91), w. schizoids anxiety(118-22) | ||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | and cognitive dissonance(323), and styles of(153-6) | |||
Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H Watkins | vs insight(158), & phobias(158), & the unc(123)(158) | |||
Coherence | Solitude | A. Storr | Ch. 10 | & avoidant infant(146-7), & capacity to create(154), & disintegration anxiety(149)(164), & interests(151-2), & intimacy (149), & Kohut (148-52), & self-reference(147) | |
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & ABCs of attachment(attunement & balance)(103)(164), & central(243), & _ self neurologically created when response of social env. contingent(82-3)(98), & integrating various domains of exp. 249), as outcome of successful parent-mediated bal. in which brain becomes adaptive, stable & flexible to adjust to changing env. demands coherent, adaptive mind(117)(164), & secure attachments promote(117), as sense of integration where child feels both internally integrated & interper. connected(48)(103)(248), & telling a coherent story of our lives(47)(83-5)(123) | |
Combat Neurosis | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & community(70), & constriction(46), & fixation(37), & hysteria (20-2), & mourning(188-90), & rap groups(27), & relationship of soldier to leader(25), vs sex war(28-32), & shame(192-4), & talking cure (25), & testimony(181), & therapy w/(171)(181-7), & trauma(25-6) | |
Commitment | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & caring(187-8)(194), & Cs(334), & love(214-5), & relationships (91)(331-2), as relationship level(203), vs transitional(94)(214), types of(41) | |
Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & Cs, preCs & Unc(176-8)(192), & imagined vs real intimacy(190), & saying I love you(196), vs spontaneity(199), & will(185-7)(194-5)(198) | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & fear of abandonment(88-9), & fear of closeness(96-7) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | vs loving someone(149-50), & is marriage an affirmation of life or an attempt to constrain it?(148), & security from open-hearted loving(149) | |||
The Road Less Traveled | S. Peck | Pg140-50 | & failure of parents to commit(141), & sex(147), & spiritual growth (140-1)(148), to therapy(147-8) | ||
Adult Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | & anxious about love, commitment & marriage as afraid of failing & being hurt(150), & avoiding(150), & co-habitation(151), & fear of(150-1), & fear of rejection(150), & isolation(150), & men(151-2) | |
Males, and | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & fear of(151)(157)(160)(337), & giving up fantasy(150-1)(160) (162), & intimacy(162-3), & love(161)& power of(151), vs power of sex for women(151), as promise of payment(103), & quality of sexual connection(102)(159)(240), & quote on change(173), & relationship objects(180), & role expectations(171-2), for women(150-1)(157-8) (169)(171)(182), & womens complaint of mans fear of(154), & womens fantasy of(53) | |
Communication/ Listening(Verbal & Non-Verbal) | Attachment, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | w/ anxious infants(21-2)(35-6), w/ avoidant infants(21-2)(35-6), & balance between interactive & self-regulation(109-11), & collaborative(21)(105)(193-4), & containing infants distress through(48-9), & contingent(21)(53)(106)(108), & cross-modal responsiveness(52)(106), & dev. of rules of attachment through _(35), & explicit vs implicit memory(118), & if we cannot _ we enact, evoke or embody(119)(121), & infant patterns of nonverbal _ can predict representational patterns(30)(35), & learn most of significant & lasting rel. lessons by 12 months before lang.(116), & mutually regulating patterns of(108), & quality of non-verbal _ in attachment rel. that determines infants security or insecurity(2) (16)(20), & regulation of non-verbal _ as mental representations & rules for processing info. that influence adolescent & adult(2)(84), w/ secure infants(21)(35), |
Cognitive Behavioural Approach, and | Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | Ch18-22 | & attitudes that prevent listening(444-5), & attitudes that prevent self-expression(443-4), & characteristics of bad communication (365), & help addiction(437), & 5 listening & self-expression skills(401-410) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & affect storms(46), & articulation of self-actualization(147), & dysfunctional patterns of: criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling & contempt(100)(147), & emergence of dissociated states through implicit communication(119), & faces as primary mode of emotional communication(46), & how vs what is spoken(133), & implicit vs explicit processes(99-100)(119)(133), & meta_(166), & morality gambit(105), & mutually inductive scripts(121)(133)(135) (147), & plausible deniability of just kidding(230) | |
HSP and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | P.156-7 | & avoiding unpleasantries | |
Males, and | Why Men are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & problem solving(140), vs women(142) | |
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & attuned, reciprocal, mutual, collaborative, contingent _ describes fundamental universal process that links infant to parent(95), & awareness of primary emotions(57)(64), & being understood takes more than words(67), & coherence(68)(83-5)(93-4)(98)(117)(249), & communication about ext. events of life vs mental life(42), & compassion(68), & considering both child & parents point of view(68-9)(90-2), & contingent(80-1)(83), & emergence of more autonomous self & flexible self-reg.(68), & empathy(66)(88)(186), & exchange occurring in present moment(81), & feeling felt through (64)(66)(83)(108)(164), & giving respect to act of listening(81)(85) (93), as how we engage w/ others in process of connection, not only sharing info.(93), & how we talk to ourselves shaped by how others have talked to us(97), & includes verbal(left) & non-verbal(right) (87), & inconsistent(84-5), & mirror neurons(65), & mismatch between verbal & non-verbal(88), & moments of joining(66)(68), & mutual collaboration(80)(83), & neural representation of the self as-changed-by-the-other becomes a central aspect of our sense of identity(82-3)(89), & non-contingent(69)(91), & reaction dep. on what is actually communicated(81), & reflective self-understanding (69-70), & resonance(64-5), & ruptured connection(70)(186)(193), & secure attachment(103), & self-knowledge through(68)(83)(94), & shame(87)(185)(193), & social referencing(97) | |
Skills, and | The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | & being directive w/ regard to process of helping but nondirective w/ regard to content(148), & 3 different requests of helpers: for action, information & understanding(191), & 3 stages of helping: exploring, understanding & acting(188), & 4 stages in acquisition of: Unc incompetence, Cs incompetence, Cs competence & Unc competence(161-2) | ||
Therapy, and | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | as basic rule of psychoanalysis(103), & creative misunderstanding (186-7)(191), & dreams(109), & spirit(63), & unc(45)(114)(188-90) | |
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | Ch 2 | & listening(23), & T vs client(19) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, Ed | Ch 3 & 6 | & analyst gives back . . quote(58), & client non communicating (34), & FS(29-31), & incommunicado core(33)(35)(37), & interpretation(28)(34-5)(61), & joy to be hidden . . . quote(32), & object relations(27-9) | ||
Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & behaviour as(298)(325), & boredom(67), & clients monitoring of Ts(53-4), & containing(111-2), & form vs content(41)(84)(121), & hope(304), & identification w/ aggressor(193), by impact(64-5)(120) (208), & impulse to reassure(77)(127), & interpretation(47)(128) (181), & projective identification(70-2)(281), & role-responsiveness (66-7)(193), & silence(206), & unc(82-3) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | & hysteria(221-2), & obsessive compulsive(247), & schizophrenia (186)(315)(324-32) | |||
Unconscious, and | Cracking Up | C. Bollas | Ch.1 | as aesthetic(43), & forgetting(30-1), & free association(29)(170-1), & interpretation(17), & intuition(39-40), & misunderstanding(21), & pleasure(46-7), & silence(19)(45), & T as wise fools(20) | |
Companions | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | vs friends(210-1), as relationship level(203)(207-9), & self-assessment(223-4) | |
New Passages | G. Sheehy | vs competition(253) | |||
Compart- mentalization | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | p. 179-80, 190 | as solution to inner conflict | |
Abused males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | Ch 9 | & fragments(114), & isolation(114), & sex(186-7) | |
Affairs, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | & inability to by monogamous infidels(62), & preserving parallel lives(62), & secrets(71-2) | |
Compassion | vs Empathy | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 199 |
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Compensation/ Compensatory Structures | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & dreams(18(181-2), & mandalas(20), & neurotic symptoms(17), & psychological types/functions(18), & self-regulation(178)(181-2), & the unc(117)(167)(219) | |
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | vs primary structures(44), & selfobject(131)(205-6), & selfobject transference(44) | |||
Survivors fantasy of | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | Pg 190-2 | ||
Theory of | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | Pg 22-7 | ||
Complementarity | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & anima/persona(101), & single reality(25) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & each style requires other to exist(179), & preserves binary of opposites by reversing each partners respective position(179), & useful imnage=seesaw(179-80) | ||
Complexes | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & anima(122-3), & Cs(38-9), & definition of(34), & dreams(39-40), & introversion(143), vs persona(34) | |
Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | Ch.8 | & diagram of(119), & feeling charged up(118), & signs of(28) | ||
Modern Man in Search of a Soul | C. Jung | P.78-80 | & conflict(79), definition of(78-9), & parental(80) | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | accept the fact . . . quote(89), definition of(145), & detection of(52-3), & immortality(36), & mother(84)(90), & Magical Other (37), & parental(21)(105) | ||
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.166-9 | definition of(166)(168), & jealousy(166), & sex(169) | ||
The Middle Passage | J. Hollis | See Index | & ability to ask, Who am I at this moment?(63), & career(30), & contract w/ universe(41), & choosing partner(65), & mother/father (13), & nurturing/empowerment(68), & unlived life of parents(29) (71), & Who am I if I am not my ego & not my complexes?(108) | ||
Men, and | Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | See Index | & Father: & absence of positive male energy(69)(91), & anger(57) (107)(110)(118), & dual archetype of(83), & fear as primary enemy (51)(94)(110)(126), & grief(117), & hunger for father(86-7)(96), & Iron John myth(92), & loving the question(95), & mentoring(88-9), & need of father(89091), & need for nurturance(127), & outgrowing vs solving problems(129), & projection on Other(111), & unlived life of (90)(119)(128), & Mother: & acting out(57), as bridge to world of nature & body(109), as cave to retreat to(38), & compensation for (48), & confronting of(54), & Cs(40), & experienced as longing for warmth(31), & hero archetype(40-1), as idea of(31), & incarnation of feminine in male(43)(55), & information from Mother about men(30), & machoism(35-6), & male oppression(35)(47), & mans dependency (51), & mens rage(42-3), & necessary wounding(11)(65)(105), & rage toward anima(60), & regression w/ partner(35)(69), & relationships (41-2)(58)(111), & ritual of passage from(19-20), & unlived life of(34), & 4 ways of developing distorted relationship to feminine (102-3), & wound of too much or too little(56), & parent(129), & power(10-1)(23-5)(35), & Sky Father, Great Mother(84) | |
Compliance | Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | vs avoidance(95)(100), & depression(95)(97), & FS(94-6) | |
Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | & authoritative Inner Adult(69), & children of of compliant men (69), & description of(68), & men(69), & women(69) | |||
Development, and | The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & FS(102)(146-7)(149-50), w/ Mother(145) | ||
Winnicott | A. Phillips | & FS(133-4)(136), & mouthlove(70), vs surprise at oneself(12), & transitional object(122) | |||
Infants, and | The Beast in the Nursery | A. Phillips | P.28 | that which I do because not doing it is too dangerous | |
Passive Character, and | Neurotic Styles | D. Shapiro | Pg 169-74 | ||
Compulsions/ Compulsive Character | King, Warrior, Magician, Lover | R. Moore | P.92 | & Sadistic Warrior | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & compulsive heroism(121-2), as defense against responsibility (225), & description of(313), & meaninglessness of(452)(454), and sexuality(383-5) | ||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | & compulsion to repeat(342) | ||
Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & alienation from self(159), to actualize idealized self(24)(38), & need for vindictive triumph(209-10), & reactions to its frustration (31), & search for glory(24)(29), vs spontaneity(29)(38-9) | ||
Body, and | The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | See Index | & impulses(306), & sex(308), & solidity(308), & submission(310) | |
Males, in | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | & numbing behaviour(109-10), & sexual behaviour(129) | |
Concern | Infants Capacity for | The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & ambivalence(26)(75), & ego integration(26), & guilt(73)(77), & object/environment Mothers(76)(78), & origin of(73-4) |
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | & caring less about self than about damage to other(29), & depressive anxiety reflects(29-30)(87), & depressive or reparative guilt reflects(29-30), & depressive position(130), & leads to creative acts of apology, healing & restitution(30), origin of sympathetic vs empathic ID(61), & prosocial(30), & shame, depression & masochism reflect lack of for the other(29) | ||
Concretization | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | by children of familys subj. exp.(146-7), as dominating when responsiveness absent(26), as encapsulation of organizations of exp. by concrete, sensorimotor symbols(26), especially of particular affect states(26), as fundamental psych. process(26), of individual incidents by partners(57), & objective=dramatize, reify & thereby maintain organization of subjective world(146), as retreat from vicissitudes of rel.(26-7), & working w/ couples(147) | ||
Condensation | Cracking Up | C. Bollas | & dreams(55-6), vs free association(49)(53), as uniting disparate ideas(3)(53) | ||
Being a Character | C. Bollas | & dreams(55)(109), & genera(83), & unc communication(103)(188) (190) | |||
Confession | vs Apology | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P, 152-3 |
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Conflict | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | & ego(122-3), & marriage quote(85), & souls intention(104) | ||
Central Inner, and | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | & neurotic @ war w/ himself(112), & 2 kinds: w/ pride system & between RS & pride system(112), & 3 attempts to resolve: compartmentalizing, streamlining, resigning(190), & T(356) | ||
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | as airing grievances within 24 hr(57), & childs awareness of(277-281), as evoking painful memories & feelings of terror(56), as inevitable 1 st step leading to divorce(56), & fear of abandonment when disagreeing(300), & fear of disaster when content(300), & first response panic then flight(56)(300), & learning about @ home(55-6), in marriage of 2 divorced children(260-1), & never going to bed angry(57), & parents conjugal jihad(269-270), & passively addressing as adults(77), & post-divorce(94), & reaching for worst solutions(56), as spelling danger(56), & stepmothers(175)(274-6) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | between assertion of self & recognition of other(13)(164), between invariant Unc propositions & Cs wishes & desires(109)(159), between security in A & danger of romance(120), between self-interest & biological imperative to relate(13), & bidimensional transf. _(54), & essential contradictions(164), & multiplicity of self-states(173), & mutual inductive identification(135-6), over each partners actual needs & desires(14), over respective systems of meaning(14)(100), & pattern of dominance & submission(107), & playing w/(159), & self-actualization(147), & when perspective versions of what is presumed to be implicitly relationally known are in conflict(100) | ||
Therapy, and | Gestalt | F. Perls | & creativity(52)(418)(420)(428), & neuroses(418)(421) | ||
Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | See Index | of affect states(92-5), & intensity(90), as subjective state(88-90) | ||
The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | & avoidance(206), & emotional issues must be resolved 1 st before content issues(213), as friendly excursions into disequilibrium (208), & I statements ie starting conflict as problem you have vs other person has(213), & mutual discovery vs combative defensiveness(213), & personalizing(210), & in relationship vs person(213), as unmet expectations(211) | |||
Universal, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | P. 361, 278, 405 | ||
Conflict Model | vs Deficit Model | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | P 53,244-7 | |
Confrontation | The Road Less Traveled | S. Peck | P.150-5 | 2 ways to(152), as leadership(153) | |
Parental | Toxic Parents | S. Forward | Ch.13 | & face to face(244), & letter writing(239), & parental responses/ reactions(247-9)(256), of parents(233-8), & sibling reaction(258-9) | |
Congruence | On Becoming a Person | C. Rogers | See Index | in client(63-4), definition of(339-41), in therapy(61) | |
Conscience | The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | See Index | & antisocial personality(6), & authority(60), & courage(53)(68), as creator of meaning(52), & definition of(25-6)(193), & emotional attachment(180), & extreme(194-5), & honour(23), & killing(65-7) (105), & love(216), & love vs will to possess & dominate(191-2),& men vs women(176), & moral reasoning(171), as nexus of psychology & spirituality(215-6), & origins of(168-70), & perception of good & evil(178), & reason for(32)(210), & shamelessness(105), vs superego(31)(33)(35), vs unhealthy shame (193), & universal moral principle(60), & virtue(54) | |
The Till Small Voice | D. Carveth | & arises not from reason but from feeling(71), & associated w/ true self-dev.(77), & clients suffer from conflict between SE & conscience(65-6)(73-4), & elaborated through development of capacity for concern, empathy, sympathy & reparation(65), as expression of Eros(82), & fuelled by A, concern & love(66)(82), & justified guilt(65), & loving SE(74), as obligation to give love for love received(61), & originating in love for & ID w/ nurturing parents(65)(77), & owe moral & social progress to(67), as positive talion: love for love(61), & present from beginning in infants simple preference for pleasure(good) over pain(bad)(77), as reparative morality in depressive position(61), & w/o, subject will identify w/ punitive SE & self-righteously channel aggression away from self on to sinners whom it is his mission to punish(65) | |||
Consciousness | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & anima(45), & archetypes(23)(139), & ego(48), & fantasy images (23), & heroic(81), & multiple centres(26)(35), & myth(17)(23), & style of(135)(138) | |
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | See Index | & gap between perception & thought(97), & God-essence vs form(100), & manifestations of(99). & no-mind(24)9139), & presence(98), & space(139-42), & thought cannot exist w/o _ but Cs can exist w/o thought(23) | ||
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | See Index | vs awareness(96)(124-5), & conflict as essence of(217), & development of(20), & element of rebellion(217), & object/subject split(198), & self-relatedness(198), & uniting w/ behaviour & through values(220) | ||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | & diagram of(51), & dreams(4)(208), & ego as centre(105), vs the eternal things(242)(510)(515), & 4 functions(315)(467)(586)(608), of inferior person(664), & the moon(277), no idea what it is(433), & shadow(50)(584), & symbols(331)(463), & thinking(528), & Trinity(584-5), & Unc(126)(587) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & adaptation(61-2), & archetypes(16)(84)(222-3), & assimilation (80-2)(184), & compensation(18)(117)(131)(219), & complexes (38-9)(122), & divine wind quote(61), & dreams(213)& ego (212) (218-20), & emotions(215), & faith(384), & 4 functions (63)(145), & higher(227), & history of(223), & individuation(19)(22)212) (225), & instincts(382)(390), & intuition(219), & masculine/ feminine(106)(110-1)(113), & memory(219), & mid-life(72-3), & parental imagos(105), & perils of the soul(217), & persona(94) (98-9), & personality(220), as precondition of being(371), & projection(92)(114), & psychoanalysis(54), & regression(60)(63), & self(19), & shadow(91), & soul-image(103), & symbols(186), & symptoms(61), & transcendent function(226), & universal Cs(224),vs Unc(212)(214-7) | ||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | See Index | as illusion(324), & divine(324-5)(338), & longing for light(269), & myth(315) | ||
Androgyny | J. Singer | & androgyny as state of(11), & collective Cs(94), & cosmos(90), & masculine/feminine(32) | |||
Zen Buddhism and Psychoanalysis | E. Fromm et al | See Index | vs awareness(96)(109), & becoming Cs of Unc(129-30(135-6), & candle quote(138), & contents of(98)(106), & cosmic(134), & false Cs(127), & language(100), & socially conditioned filters(99)(195), vs Zen(136-40) | ||
Biofeedback, and | Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | & behaviour(25)(109), & brain waves(119), & diagram of(301), & location of(69), & reverie(123-4), & science of(65-6)(299-300) | ||
Biology, and | The Natural History of the Mind | G. Taylor | See Index | & autonomic functions(319), vs awareness(76-7)(90)(318), & brain (73-6)(318)(321), & emotions(289), & feelings vs facts(321), & location of(110), & mental function(107-8), & process of(187), 2 states of(77) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & descript. of(245), & equilibrium between stability & growth(168), & imaginative perception(316), & mind as configuration of discontinuous, shifting states of_(225), & need for I & You (316), & surrendering diss. to(316) | ||
Consensual Validation | Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & degree of based on maturational level of clients representational world(39), of the emergence of a new reality vs clarification/ correction(49), & empathy(156), & negotiated modification in the face of contradictory perceptions arising from social interchange(41) (174), & T not creating when recognition vs understanding required(25) |
Container/ Containment | Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | P.76-7 | & perceiver | |
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & holding environment(24), & intimate relationship providing _ for individual based on individuals own degree of internal _(39) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | as part of projective identification(54)(65-6), & masochistic interpretation of(56), & when process fails(54), & suicidal clients(57) | |
Contempt | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | as attack on other as self-as-obj.(151), & inflicting wounds through(38), & infusing criticism w/ sarcasm(100), & irony as humour vs sarcasm & contempt(71), & nonverbal(100), & partners state of terror vs actual contempt(222), as sulphuric acid of love(61)(100)(122)(151), & vulnerable to profound narcissistic injury when ones partner conveys what you believe about yourself is BS(151), & withholding sex generates contemptuous response(254) | |
Contingency | On Flirtation | A. Phillips | & accidents as only way of doing some things(12), & accidents as disowned intentions(12), & accidents meaningful(12), & accidents as reminders of unfinished business(13), & contingency as luck, fortune, accident, coincidence, random agency(20), & contingent self(16)(21), & desiring as creating condition for a coincidence(20), as enemy of fixity(20), & Freudian slip is accident meant to happen(9), & interpretation aims to extend realm of intention & diminish empire of contingency(15), | ||
Existential, and | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & anxiety of having no ultimate necessity(44), & destiny(52-3), & determining causes of our existence have no ultimate necessity - cannot be logically derived(44)(129), & fate as rule of(44-5) | |
Control | Do I Have to Give up me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | & anxiety(199), & expectations(206), & feelings associated w/(192), & guilt/fear(167)(210), & intent(219), & power(137)(195), as protective(7), & set-ups(172) | |
Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | See Index | & authoritative or permissive Inner Adult(72), & description of(70), & men vs women(70-1) | ||
Locus of | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | and defense of specialness(127), and locus of(156-8)(262-4)(267) | ||
Corrective Emotional Experience | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | & being the better parent((95-6)(144)(269-70)(272), vs spontaneous therapeutic experience(288) | ||
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | history of term(78), & removing Kleenex box(107-8), vs sustaining echo of empathic resonance(78) | |
Counter dependence | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | Ch 9 | vs codependent(267-9), description of(265-7), questionnaire on (291-300), & shadow self(276-8) | |
Counter transference | Women Analyze Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & male vs female analyst(66) | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & borderline clients(32)(65)(90), & concordant/complementary(33), & depressive(239-41), & dissociative(336-7), & hysterical(313-6), & manic(251), & masochistic(268-70), & narcissistic(178-80), & OCD (292-5), in neurotic vs psychotic dev. levels(59-60), & paranoid(216-7), & psychopathic(159), & schizoid(197-9) | ||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | All | |||
The Analytic Encounter | M. Jacoby | See Index | & archetype of divine healer(29-30), & being honest(86), & complementary(40-1)(46-7), & concordant(38-9), & feelings of irritation(85), & financial dependence(93-8), & I/Thou vs I/I t (26)(91-2), & illusional/delusional(58-9), & need for power(101), & need for T success(99), & resistance to change(120-1), & response of T as mirror to grandiose self(45), & sharing w/ client(39), & struggle w/ transf. as opus magnum(113), & Ts anger(101-2), & Ts curiosity (103), & Ts erotic needs(108-13), & Unc possessiveness (101-2), & uselessness of T(46-7) | ||
Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & better parent(144-5), & communication by impact(65-7)(108) (251-3)(193), & internal supervisor(103), & interpretation(154-5), & intervening too quickly(149), & openness to otherness of client (82-3), & own analysis(82), & reassurance(77), to theoretical orientation (13), & trial identification(54)(256-7) | ||
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | Ch. 6, 7 | & acknowledgement of loss(97)(114), & impulse to(87), & sleepiness(82), & reactive vs active(95-6), & resistance to(80-1) | ||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | Ch.12,13 | w/ borderline(189), & capacity for introspection(236-7)(239), & client recognition of Ts space to receive transference(248)(253) (255), & counter aggression(252), & creation of potential space(201) (205-6)(213)(233), & disclosure of Ts feelings(230), & disturbed by patient(204), & evenly hovering attention(249), w/ hysteric(198), & indirect use of(210), & interpretation(241), & language of presenting (206)(208)(231-2), & leaving client alone(240), w/ the liar(183), w/ manic(189), w/ narcissist(189), & not knowing(202-3) (253), w/ obsessional(189), & pre-verbal transference(230), to self as object(61-2), & self-analytic activity within(251), & silence(26) (233), & T as transformational object(168)(234-5)(244)(247), & T as wonderful man(253), & transfer of self-analytic function(245), & unthought known(230)(246), use of to reconstruct infantile life (189)(200)(209) (244), & technical difficulty of(207), & use of T through affect(203-4), & Winnicotts approach(206) | ||
Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | Ch. 6 | & 4 forms of(129-30), & obstructive vs useful(131-5)(139), & projective identification(136-7) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | Pg 195-207 | w/ borderline(202-3), & borderline/narcissistic therapist(198-9), & drugs(206), w/ FS disorders(196-7), & identification of(201), & questioning(200), & therapeutic framework(204) | ||
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | See Index | & patient like T(133-4), & perfect client(134-5), & older patient (132-3), & seductive patient(126-7), & supervision(141)(143-5) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | & classification of(16), & hate(Ch 2), & mothers hate of baby(21-3) (192), & sentimentality(267), & seduction(269-70) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | Ch. 14 | & own analysis(160-2) | ||
Attachment Theory, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & awareness of breathing(296-7), & being aware of clients flooding(297), & being comfortable in our body(296), & differentiating empathic resonance from projection of Ts feelings (296), & enactments(123-4)(181-2)(260), & evocations(266-270), & helping client w/ flooding(297), & mentalizing(335), & moment of meeting(125), & process leading content(125), & repeated rel. vs needed rel.(182)(334-5), & setting limits(238), & shared implicit rel.(124-6)(261), & Ts bodily/emotional exp. simulating clients (260)(296), & T rel. as asymmetrical(261), as Ts subjective exp. both as resource & resistance(170-1)(177), & Ts tendency to fall in line w/ clients expectations(178), & using to recognise feelings from which client is protecting herself(334), | |
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & arousing grandiose & saviour fantasies(63)(119), & being in middle of ferocious fight provokes far more intense reactions that hearing about it in individual T(119), & boundary setting(132), & _ reactions more transparent w/ couples than individuals(132), during termination phase(146)(150), & enactments of(27-8), & envy awareness of our own missed ort misused opportunities in life & opportunities we will never have(18)(121-2), & evoking feelings of bliss or intrusion & arrogance by need of couple to have an all-giving, all-nurturing mother(131), & failure to explore oedipal issues(118)(131), & forced into either parental or child role(120-1), & free-floating responsiveness(133), & monitoring of(119-20), & opportunities to meet ones caretaking needs(118), & projective identification(132-3), & risk of overidentification, envy, feelings of exclusion & grandiosity, regression(119), & selective factor in choosing T as career(118), & triads(118), & using _ to help expand understanding & empathy(133), & voyeuristic urges(111)(118)(120), & wishing the T would not work(127) | |
A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & intersubjective conjunctions & disjunctions(74-5), & when Ts organizing principles correspond or differ from clients(74)221-2) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & congenial clients(125), & maintaining illusion that a difficult client is an easy one(125), & Ts need to escape being objectified(209) | |
Hate, and | The Therapeutic Function of Hate in the Countertransference | L. Epstein | All CTP98-99 Binder | & borderline(227), & communication of(229), & ego identity(223-5 ) (227), & schizoid(221-2) | |
Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | Ch 7,8 | & acting out(219)(220-1), & countertransference neurosis(206-7), & envy(216), & expression of incongruous emotions simultaneously (193), & expressions on Ts face(369-70), & fears/wishes of becoming psychotic(216-7), & guilt(212-3)(208-9), & hate(209) (216), & ineffectiveness of interpretations(204), importance of (191-2), & jealousy(111)(238)(246)(248), & laughter(196-7), vs neurotic (198)(201-2), phases of(5), & sadism(194)(214)(221-2), & sense of identity as source of(203)(224-5), & sexualization(209), & suspense (215), & T reaction to as threat(200) | |
Hermeneutics, and | A Philosophy for the Embedded Analyst | CTP99-2000 (Supervision) | All | how psychotherapeutic understanding is informed by the transference/countertransference | |
Intersubjective, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | in cpls T(91-2), & def. of(20), & interplay w/ transf. as intersubj. field of analytic inquiry(20), & moments of conjunction/disjunction (20-1), & resisting immersion in partners experience(100), & Ts balance between self & mutual reg.(91-2), & Ts own Unc organizing principles about rel.(92) | |
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | Pg 140-7 | & grief(144), & identification w/ perpetrator(144-5), & rage(143), & rescuer(142-3), & witness guilt(145) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | as all the Ts responses to the client & the T situation(72), & complementary identification(72), & concordant identification(72), & interpretation of(74), & self-understanding(72-3) | |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & discover of technique of interpretation of(134), & gratifying client (30)(115)(161), as response for particular form of object rel.(161) | |
Courage | Existential, and | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & affirming our own demonic depth(122), & anxiety(65-6), to be as a part(91)(156), & being(2), of confidence(160)(168), & the courage to accept acceptance in spite of the Cs of guilt(122)(164)(168), & the courage to accept oneself as acceptable in spite of being unacceptable (164)(176), & the courage to be as oneself is the courage to make of oneself what one wants to be(150), of despair (140)(175-6)(188-9), & faith(8-9)(160)(176-7), & fate(43)9168), & joy(14-5), & life(29-30), & man directs the vessel of his life although it is driven by the winds of fate(167), & meaninglessness (146)(174-6), & personal encounter w/ God(160), & religion(73) (156), & self-affirmation(4-5)(21)(24) (32)(66)(91), & separation (143-4), & solitude(161), & taking ones death into ones self-affirmation(43)(168-9), & vitality(79) |
Creativity/ Creation | The Right Brain | T. Blakeslee | Ch.3 | & integration of L & R(124), & visual vs verbal thinking(38)(42) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | as being who you are(206), & creator vs creating(195), & growing that life that is present(207), & idealizing(193), & repressing the child(197), & standing firm in life, crazy(258), & taking back adulation(194) | ||
Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | Ch.14 | as answer to violence(276), & childhood memories as seeds of(278), & elements of(265), & finding your bliss(285), & same as childlikeness(265), & wonder child(265)(274) | ||
Conversations with God | N. Walsch | See Index | & Cs(113)(122), & desire(65), & life as vs discovery(20)(90-1), vs obedience(175), & relationships(126), & self vs other-created(154), & Self(32)(36)(100)(113)(196), & soul(175)(182) | ||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | & emerges from integration(252), as natural outcome of complex systems within universe(252) | |||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | & choked off by coping strategies(18), & going on being implies an intrinsic but elusive process of self-discipline & self-creation(12), & sharing of(88) | |||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | & meaning(435-6)(445) | |||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | & cross(403), & shadow(259)(283) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & repression/sublimation(35), & RS23)(44)(208)(22), & self expression(45),as direct result of therapy(23), as therapist(208-9) | |||
New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & intimacy(140), & middlescence(144), & over 50(154) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | & creative apperception(71), & depression(129)(143), & imagination (75), & individuation(198-200), & loss(128)(134)(144), & new unity(123), & play(71)(107) | |||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | All | as defence(Ch4), & manic-depressive(Ch7), & OCD(Ch8), & play(Ch9), & schizoid(Ch5) | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | as approach to ext reality(68), as belonging to being alive(56)(67), & capacity for(68-9)(131), as common to men & women(72), & creative apperception(65), & discovery of self(54-5), & not getting back whats given(112), & play(50)(53-8)(100)(109), & possible destruction of(68), & potential space(102)(107-9), in therapist(57), & transitional object(71)(101(112), & value of living(71) | ||
Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | See Index | & reverie(124-7) | ||
Winnicott | A. Phillips | See Index | & interpretation(146), as primary(102), & ruthlessness(113), & weaning(165) | ||
Area of | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & artistic, insights as eg(24), as containing pre-objects(25), & main concern=producing something(24), & silence(26-7), as subject on own(24), as withdrawal from object to create something better(68) (75)(130) | |
Men, and | The Fear of Women | W. Lederer | & inner creative feminine contained within as does hazard of creation(243), & one of her dreaded powers refuse herself as mans inspiration(243), & only through creation does man approach level of feminine creativeness ie motherhood(242), & tense balance that women presents to man: he can neither give in to her nor give her up but is forever too involved or too lonely(243), & women as Muse(243) | ||
Self Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & compensatory structures(44), as sign of growth((76), & termination (154), & training analyst(166)(169) | ||
Stages of | Churchills Black Dog | A. Storr | P.261-4 | ||
Women, and | Women Who run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | & animus(158)(310-2), & hambre del alma(229), as instinct(230-1), & rage(352-3), & shadow(235), | |
Crisis Intervention | Psychodynamic Implications in | Dynamic Change in Crisis Intervention | AJP Fall98 | P.437-448 | & triangle of conflict(439-40), & triangle of person(439-40) |
Crying | Development, and | Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | & arresting of(291)(294), & different types of(245)(290), & emotion (121), vs food(271)(292), & response to(315)(343), & securely attached(339), & separation(27)(200)(256), as signal(244-5) |
Curiosity | Curiosity: Reflections on its Nature and Functions | AJP Winter99 | P.35-51 | & anxiety(40-5), of body(49)& mother(39), & myths(37), & object relations(38)(45), & secrecy(48), & symbol making(38), & therapist (39)(44) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & cultivating climate of safety for personal exploration & meaning making(73)(86)& cultivating deep empathic engagement w/ each partners experience(73), & successful interpretation(73-4), & unformulated experience hotbed for dissociation(72-3) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | & denial of use of projective identification leading to severe disorder of impulse to be curious(26) | |
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Daimon/Genius | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & acorn theory(39-40), & calling(12)(38)(21)(48)(157), & character (251-2)(255), & childhood(13-4)(18)(50)(54)(84-5)(107)(165), & evil(Ch10), & fate(194-5)(258), & happiness(83)(260), & imagination(189), & legend of(8)(258), & love(144-7), & mediocrity(250)(258), & mother(68)(70)(74), & mysteriousness of(10)(195-6) (206), & nicknames(181)(183), & parents(64), & telos(197)(202-3) | |
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | as guardians(50)(165), & myths(157) | |||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | & archetypes(349), vs ego(346), & Eros(353), & life instinct(349), & Unc(336-7) | |||
Soulmates | T. Moore | P.62-5 | & dreams(63), & irrationality(64-5) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & anger(237-8), & dark nights(19), & definition of(17), & fate(18), & rel.(18) | ||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | See Index | & inspiration(263), & symptom vs art(254)(259)(261) | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, ed. | Ch.38 | & creative/destructive(183)(186), definition of(182-3), & evil(184-5), & Satanism(184), vs symbolic(184), & therapy(185) | ||
Imagination, and | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.297-300 | ||
Dark Nights | Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & addiction(51), & allowing life to proceed(19)(133), & beauty therein(8), & black sun(7), vs depression(xiv-xv)(29)(51)(303), & description of(xv), & destiny(6), & discovering something essential (71), & discovering toughness(79), & dreams(76), & failure & tragedy(304)(308), & honouring(76), & imagination(10)(308-9) (311), & irony(305), & lightness as defense against(226), & linking soul & spirit(55), & luminosity(314), & meaning(310), & mediocrity(313), & navigating(12-3)(302-4), & no ext. signs of progress(4-5), & not solving it(xvi)(311), as opportunity for change (20)(51)(77), & point of staying in(81), & potential for dark thoughts & behaviours(71), & religion(15), & remaining in the present(310), & resistance against(131), & revolution in Cs(304-5), & suffering vs affliction(312), & suppressed qualities(72-3)(80), & therapy(xix-xx) (73)(75), as transformation(xvi) | |
Daydreams | The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | See Index | of hysterical women(52), of men(52), & schizoid(51), & sex(51), & therapy(50)(52-3) | |
Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | P. 120-3 | vs hypnagogic & reverie | ||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | See Index | as our word for getting away w/ it ie object of desire & no penalty(89-90)(92-3) | ||
Seeing with the Minds Eye | M. Samuels | See Index | & directed(201-2), & examples of images(37)(46)(136), & receptive visualization(240) | ||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | as auto-erotic life(36)(167-9), & distracted look(167-8), vs pervert (169), & pre-empting dreaming(168), & seduction as(166) | |
Day Residue | Being a Character | C. Bollas | & dreams(22)(111), & generational Cs(267) | ||
Death/Death Instinct/Death Drive | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & calling(212), & Necessity(213) | |
Darwins Worms | A. Phillips | & acceptance of reality principle=acceptance of death(106), & death instinct needed to explain self-destructive behaviour ie dying in its own fashion(81), & death instinct represents that part of ourselves that determinedly wishes not to know the part of ourselves that is sceptical about our belief in knowledge & truth(73), & death instinct serving aim of undoing connections & destroying life & keeping lives private(71-2), & death instinct as silent unsettler of our lives (74)(78)(80), & finding an efficient way of dying(75), as object of desire(75), as only project(80), & organism wishes to die only in its own fashion(77)(80), & 2 stories that constitute individuals life story: how one dies in ones own fashion & story of ones guilt(88) | |||
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & aging(169), & creativity(128-9), & experience of unity(343-5) (353), & loss of parent/spouse(126-7) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | Ch. 19 | & acceptance of(355), of child(285-7), & denial of(343-5), & earliest separation as(346), & growth(357), of spouse(281)(288-90), & suicide(168)(306)(353), & transcendence(360-2) | ||
Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | See Index | & sublimated fear of masked as anxiety about more trivial things(51)(57-8) | |
Broken Person, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | See Index | & able to be reached vs unable under sway of(129), & not aligned w/ as lack force of hate, envy, denigrating or cynicism(16) | |
Courage, and | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & anxiety as threat of nonbeing to being(14)(41), & death vs fear of death(13), as the negation of that which is negative & affirmation of that which is positive(158), & self-affirmation(28)(169) | |
Denial of, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | & absorbed in life-expanding processes(21-2), vs animals spared reflective & conceptual knowledge of death vs living a whole lifetime being haunted by fate of death(27), as behind all our normal functioning but cannot be constantly present in mental functioning else could not function ie oblivious to Cs(16-7), & char. traits as secret psychoses(27)(70), as expression of instinct of self-preservation which functions as constant drive to maintain life & to master dangers that threaten life(16), & forms of madness to avoid(27), & intent on mastering(17), & man as hyperanxious animal who constantly invents reasons for anxiety even where there are none as fear of reality self-preservative(17)(21), & mans terror always holy terror(150), & mystery & solidity of transf. object will give shelter as long as one lives(148-9), as neutral & present in everyone, the basic fear that influences all others, from which no one is immune(15), & religion solving the problem of(203-4), & repression takes care of symbol of death(20)(22)(24), as the worm @ the core of mans pretensions to happiness(15) | ||
Existential Therapy, and | The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | p. 281 | & Things fade, alternatives exclude(405) | |
Staring at the Sun | I. Yalom | See Index | & act of forgetting a form of(12), & anxiety of as mother of all religions(5)(163), & children as immortality project(25), & dealing w/ through denial, diversion or displacement(116), & death terror as expression of stifled life(49_50)(144), & Epicurus view of(3), & intimate connection w/ others(28)(119)(130)(139)(180), & life situations that evoke(22), as loneliest event of life(119), & only being able to take what you have given not what you have received (134), & sex(212), &`Some refuse the loan of life to avoid the debt of death(109), & state of nonbeing after death=same state before birth(14)(81), & tension between life anxiety & death anxiety(110), & the way to value life is to be aware these experiences are destined to be lost(147)(209) | ||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & anxiety(29-74), & childrens concepts of(75-109), & confrontation w/(335-6), & desensitization to(211-2), & 2 fundamental modes of existing(30-1), & impossibility of further possibility(162), & isolation(356), & life satisfaction(207-10), & meaning(465-6), & 4 postulates(27-8), & psychopathology(110-58), & sexual activity (145)(382), & therapy(159-213), & 4 ultimate concerns(8-9) | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | See Index | & absolute otherness of(113), & Cs of thoughts on death more likely in society which welcomes dialogue about death(120), & death as nothingness is impossible, only horrifying presence in absence (112), & as death obsessed as death denying(111-2)(114), & guilt of surviving partner(118-9), & not death we fear but withdrawal of self-object support in last phase of our life(112), & the living dead (129)(131-2)(134)(141), & our obligation to the dead(118), & relation to death comes by our rel. to the dead(108)(113), & suicide as means of ending excruciating uncertainty(115), & This is the terror, to have emerged from nothing, to have a name, Cs of self, deep inner feelings, an excruciating inner yearning for life & self-expression - & w/ all this yet to die(108), as ultimate uncertainty-endurance of self-hood(112), & uncanniness-contact w/ the dead(121) | |
Defences/ Defensiveness | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | in client(72-3), in therapist(53)(82)(1229)(149)(265) | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | in depressives(231-3), in dissociatives(331-2), in hysterics(304-8), & individual preferences(97-8), in manics(249), in masochists (261-4), in narcissists(173-4), in OCD(283-6), in paranoids(209-11), & primary vs secondary(98-100), in psychopaths(153-5), in psychosis(57), & role of(36)(96-7), in schizoids(191-2) | |||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | as ameliorating discomfort when unable to resolve problems directly(148), as attentional patterns(133)(146)(148), & changing perception when situation cannot change(148), & cognition shapes character(133), vs coping mechanism(148), & etiology of(148), & isolation(121), & lacunas(blind spots)(107)(127)(133)(156)(162-3) (175), & psychoanalysis(123)(132), & self-deception(123)(149), & style of(131-2) | ||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | See Index | as adaptive in idiosyncratic env. in which they arise, maladaptive in emotional world(84)(87)(265), vs affective competence(59)(66)(74), & becomes manifest in ind.s pattern of attachment(40)(318), & benefits of(250), & buying a respite from terror, shame, humiliation & helplessness(86), & consequences of internalizing = pathology (71), & consists of cognitive, emotional & interpersonal strategies (83-5), & costs of(249-50)(325-6), to counter fracturing anxiety generated by caregivers failure to provide responsive, helpful caregiving(41)(47)(83), & dealing but not feeling=Faustian defensive strategy whereby rel. is maintained through minimizing its importance & suppressing its emotional charge(43)(83)(116), & defensive affects(85)(115)(120)(156), & defensive exclusion instituted to deal w/ alarm & fear of rel. loss encapsulated in ind.s defensive structure(40)(47)(84)(116)(118), & defensive self-reliance(177), & designed to prevent psychic disruption & restore exp. of safety(115), & developed to maintain connection & self-reg. & minimize aversive exp.(71)(83-4)(86-7)(115), & difficulty in contacting emotions(272), & emotional consequences of(92), & formal(115), & goal=restoring background of safety(84)(87), & institution of id emotional equiv. of shock; the bodys adaptive response to phy trauma(83), & knowing connection between defenses, anxiety & core affect patterns(269), & loneliness result of(116), & motive for reliance on=magnitude of need to be understood & affirmed(60)(86), & mourning loss of(250), & non-verbal(84)(115), to prevent exp. of both having & not having(177), & reflected in internal working model(40-1)(66)(94), & reflective self-function opposite of defensive exclusion(45)(54)(60), & regressive(118), & relational _(94), & relinquishing becomes equated w/ dreaded obj. loss, loss of identity & terrible feelings of guilt for being disloyal(250), & represents choice to protect 1 area of psychic life @ cost of another(115), & self-at-best(129), & self-at-worst(128), & tactical(24)(115)(325), & soft(112), & ∆ of comparisons(132), & ∆ of conflict(104-6), & ∆ of defensive response(119), & ∆ of expressive response(108), & what also gets buried: a sense of perspective, self-worth & strength(86), & when defenses overwhelmed(116-7) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & accusatory behaviour(46), & adaptive(33), & counter attacks when true intentions distorted(80), & dissociation(166-7), & focus on _ in relationship vs partners(178), & submission(176)(199-200), & surrender of(176)(199-200)(203), & turning complaint back as means of blaming(100)(147), & when agency functions for defensive purposes(51) | |
against Death Anxiety | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | in children(96), combined w/ ultimate rescuer defense(141-2), & decision(319), & isolation(380), & responsibility(230), of specialness(117-29)(152-3), & T as(407), and ultimate rescuer defense(129-41)(152) | ||
Manic, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | P. 206 | ||
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & defensive vs compensatory structures(44-5), & intellectualism (150-1), in psychoses(8-9), vs resistance(14-5), vs traditional approach(113)(142) | |
Transpersonal | The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | See Index | definition of(209), & invalidation(210) | |
Defensive Autonomy | Males, and | Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | See Index | & relationships(130)(278) |
Delusions | Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & schizophrenia vs paranoia(335-341) | |
The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | & bizarre objects(151), & ideas of self-reference(151), & inhibition as mechanism for concealing(94), & significance of external events to psychotic(151) | |||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & cure=seeing things as they are ie unclouded awareness(237), & groups(240), & therapy(238), as unwise attention(237) | |||
Influencing Machine | Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | P. 55-61 | ||
Demeter | Pathfinders | G. Sheehy | P. 252-4 | & Persephone | |
Androgyny | J. Singer | P. 59-60 | |||
Denial | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & evil(239), as fantasy(167) | |
Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | & annihilation of object(7)(65), & anxiety(39-40), & envy(116), & gratitude(270), & loneliness(311), of inner & outer reality(2), & paranoid schizoid & depressive positions(49)(79)(85), & persecutory anxiety(73)(193)(274)(293), & tolerance of others(294) | |||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & mania(102-3)(249), & the Pollyanna(101), as primitive(98-9), & reaction formation(102) | |||
Psychoanalysis of Developmental Arrests | R. Stolorow/ F. Lachmann | Ch. 4 | as prestage vs warding of anxiety(48-9) | ||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | of anger @ parents(152), as antidote to anxiety(53), & definition of(120), w/ displacement as key mechanisms of paranoid style(153), & families(175-6), w/ intrusion as 2 sides of attention(53), as psychological analogue of endorphin tune-out(43), when reappraisal of threat fails(52-3), & reversal(120), | ||
Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & violent innocence(167-8)(180-1) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & borderline(76-7)(80)(139)(154), & narcissist(93)(183) | |||
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | as defence against abandonment(12), & depression(45) | |||
Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | as autonomy struggle(172-3), & differentiation of self & world(70), as major unc. defence in borderlines(69) | ||
of Death | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | by clients & therapists(204), of death(111-3)(589), of fatal illness(118-21), of responsibility(227-9) | |
Male Abuse, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | of abused(101), of perpetrator(237) | |
Dependence | Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | & entails ambivalence(223), & growth promoting vs growth-inhibiting(50-1) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | As conflicting self-state w/ lust, etc.(23), & culture uncomfortable w/(20), & experience of w/ family of origin(24), & N pathology(109) | |
Development, and | A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | vs attachment(12)(25), & mother on children(84) | ||
Attachment | J. Bowlby | vs attachment(228-9), & insecurity(356) | |||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | vs independence(266)(268), & in/out program(290), & intolerance of parents(187), & regression to womb(54), & self-hate(ALE)(187) (196), on therapist(284)(308), & TS(74), & weak ego(113) | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | & absolute to relative to independence(139), & the environment (70-1), & PS(100)(102), & regression to(137) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | Ch.26 | & helplessness(242)(247), & not quite zone(251-2)(255), & play (248-9), on therapist(241)(243) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | 3 categories of(46), & guilt(25-6)(84-91), & mental illness(225-6), & regression to(128), & theory of parent-infant relationship(42), & therapist in contact w/ TS(151) | ||
Males, and | The Hazards of Being Male | H. Goldberg | & masculinity(46), in relationships(12) | ||
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | See Index | & nurturing(117-8), & sex(239), & shame(144) | ||
King, Warrior, Magician, Lover | R. Moore | P.71 | & projection of King energy | ||
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | in relationships(190), on mother(265-6) | ||
Morbid, and | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & appeal of vindictive type(245), & attraction(spellbound) to detached, narcissistic & vindictive partners(243-4), & attraction/ repulsion(249), & compliance(251), & description of(243), & etiology of(222-3), & externalization(242), & feeling exploited (254), & hate(253), & idealized self(241), & jealousy(241), & love as only positive(239)(241), & lovableness as primary value(241-2), of needs & expectations on others(239), & pride(242)(254), & rejection(241) (245)(253), & rigorous shoulds(241-2), & self- effacing person(243), & self-hate(254-5), & sexual rel. of(247) (250), & suicide(234)(256-7), & urge for total surrender(251) | |
Depersonalization | The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | P. 169-70 | description of | |
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | description of(44), & devitalization(152), & dreaming(299), & fear of death(146), & internal objects(82)(342-3), & libidinal ego(212), & regressed ego(97), & separation anxiety(128), & withdrawn self(63-4) | ||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | of others(46-7), & schizoid(76) | |||
The Betrayal of the Body | A. Lowen | Ch.5 | & body image(83), & hypochondriasis(83) , as inhibition of respiration & movement(82), & sexual behaviour(84), & schizoid(88-9) | ||
Psychoanalysis of Developmental Arrests | R. Stolorow | Ch. 7 | & being looked at(140), & continuity of being(138)(142), & death anxiety(125-8), & differentiation(134), & relationship to death anxiety & hypochondriasis(141) | ||
The Natural History of the Mind | G. Taylor | See Index | & identity(112-5) | ||
Depression/ Depressive Personality | Comparison of Hysterical, Obsessional, Depressive, Schizoid and Paranoid Personalities | N. Diamand | CTP 98 Binder | Personality Types | |
On Flirtation | A. Phillips | See Index | & imagination initiated by experience of loss & 1 st loss is Mother(82-3), & realm of unspoken represents, in past, unwillingness to mourn primary involvements(83), as self-cure for terrors of aliveness, of being alive to ones losses &, therefore, to ones desires(82), & through loss that I come to want something(83), & works to delay the possibility of meaning, the release of curiosity(83) | ||
Out of the Blue | J. Wong | All |
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Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & depressive personality(227-248), & psychopaths(163-4) | ||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | P.139 | & normotic illness | ||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & collapse of ultimate rescuer defense(134)(158), & locus of control(262-4) | ||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | as apathy & futility(62-3), as defence against schizoid(58), & fear & aggression(101)(149), & guilt(25)(139-40)(147)(167), & I am bad, a horrible person, guilty(167), as murderous against hateful robber (25), & object as hateful denier(25), as object relational(18)(155), & paranoia, obsessions, hysteria & phobias as defence against(23), as problem of our badness(125)vs schizoid(18)(25)(125)(167) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & child abuse(108-9), & chronic trauma(94-5), & intimacy(111), & self-injury(109) | |||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & abandonment(59-74), & borderlines(75-88)(130-6)(140)(201), & fantasy(4), & FS/RS(61-2), & narcissist(93-4) | |||
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | & FS(39-40)(43)(50)(62)vs grandiosity(38)(43), & loss of self(30) (45), vs vitality(53)(57) | |||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | Ch.7 | as gift(139)(145), as initiation(146), & mystery(143), & Saturn(139-40)(144)(153-4) | ||
The Road less Traveled | S. Peck | P.69-72 | & giving up the outgrown | ||
Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | P. 137 | & cancer | ||
New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & aging(419), & effect on immune system(425-9), & marriage as protection against(133), & men(133)(254-5)(264), & women(192) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | & beauty(136), & creativity(128-9)(143), & extraversion(98), & incompetence(126-7), & placation(95-7) | |||
Churchills Black Dog | A. Storr | Ch.1 | & ambition(25)(48), & death(38-9), & dependence on ext. for self-esteem(17-8)(26), & hostility/idealization(30-1)(33-4), & love (24), & middle age(26), & oral(44-6), & omnipotence(28-9) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & aggression(176)(221)(241), & capacity to mourn& feel concerned (176)(221), & depressive Mother(191-2), & ego strength(231-2) (241), & reactive vs schizoid(129)(222)(241) | ||
Steppenwolf | H. Hesse | All | |||
| The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | All |
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Agitated, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | See Index | & compulsive talking an attempt by the mind to displace reality w/ a mental alternative(29), as form of withdrawal(30), & loss of selfs ability to learn from its own Unc free association(20), & result of structural failure of ego to cope w/ intrapsychic impact(29), & trying to escape out of own mind into anothers(29-30) | |
The Noonday Demon | S. Stossel | & feel like killing yourself(48), & helped by marijuana(229), & intense negativity vs flattened passivity(48) | |||
Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | A. Solomon | & being severely anxious is depressing(40), & bound up tightly w/ self-esteem & control issues(87), & genetics(276), & resilience & acceptance crucial bulwarks against(294) | ||
Breakdown, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | vs agitated depression(48)(71-2), & anxiety(65), & biggest stress humiliation, 2 nd =loss(63), & breakdown crossover to madness(48), & contagion of hopelessness(63), & fear @ being alone(40), & depression breeds destructive impulses(69), & depression of purposelessness(72), & knowledge that there is no self that will not crumble(81), & large depression the stuff of(17), & left w/ no point of view(55), & maniacal depression(48), & mix of reactive & internal factors(62), vs neurotic depression ie anxious sorrow vs madness(46)(51), & normality(73), & not believing in love(68-9), & panic attacks(65), & precursor smaller depressions(44)(48)(56), & recovery(67)(76), & self-mutilation(71), & severely threatening life events(62)(65), & shedding of N(77), & stress(59)(63), & suicide (48)(71), & symptoms of depression cause depression(60-1) | ||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & incredulity @ core of(177), as a kind of power. In it cannot be hurt by rejection, its protective. Why give it up? Miserable to be alone but also powerful. Being w/ people is too hard for me.(98-9) | |
Denial of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & afraid of being himself, of exerting his own individuality, of insisting on his own meanings, his own conditions for living(79), vs allowing oneself to be engulfed & used up, to give up to risks & dangers of world(210), & anxiety of separation(212), & avoids possibility of independence & more life because these are what threaten him w/ destruction & death(80), & choose slavery because it is safe & meaningful, then loses meaning of it but fears to move out of it died to life but must remain physically in this world→ torture of depressive psychosis = to remain steeped in failure & yet to justify it(80-1), & depressive psychosis as too much necessity ie too much finitude, too much limitation by body & not enough freedom of inner self(78), & ends up as though dead in trying to avoid life & death(210), & fear of life→ excessive fear of death(20), & feeling condemned to an eternity of destruction(216), & getting others to respond to him, pity him & value & take care of him con trolls them & heightens his own personality by his self-pity & self-hatred(214), & guilt feelings of(211), & guilt of depressed person = failure to live ones own life because needs to be good in eyes of other(213), & helplessness & dependence of depression last & most natural defense(213), & holds on to people who have enslaved him because these people are his shelter(80), & life of a series of silent retreats(210)(212), & living lives of systematic self-restriction (210), & necessity of life-lie(211), as a problem of courage, develops in people afraid of life, given up any semblance of individual dev. & totally immersed in acts & aid of others(210-1), & resigning oneself to process of aging as crucial project & true maturity(215), & sums up both terror of life & death & hunger for self-perpetuation(212), & Unc tactic to see himself as immensely worthless & guilty(79), & urge to immortalization & self-perpetuation by pleasing & conforming to others(212), & uses guilt to hold onto his object & keep situation unchanged(213-4), & when average person can no longer convincingly perform his safe heroism or cannot hide his failure to be his own hero→ depression & its terrible guilt(212) | |
Holding, and | This Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | p. 98-9 | ||
Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | All | ||
Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | Ch. 12 | & heart attack(83), & immune system(145), & incomplete mourning(230), & marriage(255), & middle age(126-7)(234) (238-9), & Prozac(235), & sex(195-6), &suicide rate(228), & use of substance(230) | ||
Therapy, and | Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | Ch.5-8 | & 4 steps to happiness(92), & confronting fears(130), & doing vs being(109), & exercises for resolving(Ch5-8), & unrealistic thoughts(84) | |
The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | Ch. 10 | & 3 factors prompting recovery(104-5), & 3 hs(103), & aggression (102-3)(106), & approval(100), & being nice(103), & ceaseless striving(102), & day dreams(52-3), & deferring to inferiors(101), & excessive politeness in T(106), & feeling helpless/hopeless(96-7) (101), & hysteria as defence against(93), & making aggression available(96), & objectives of T w/(104), & over activity(48), & pleasing(100), & powerlessness(101), & reinforcing hope by T(96), & self-esteem(97), & suicide(109), & uncertainty about own feelings (101), & vulnerability to criticism(108) | ||
Depressive Position | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & ambivalence towards T(347), & concern(67), & ego paralysis (167), & guilt(67)(167), vs paranoid & schizoid anxiety(57) | |
Melanie Klein | P. Grosskurth | & aggression(223), & anxiety(191)(223), & death instinct(191), & part to whole objects(216-7), & projective identification(373) | |||
Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | & ambivalence(72), & anxiety(34)(50)(70-1), & denial(73), & description of(35)(71-80), & full fantasy life(46), & greed(73), & guilt(36)(44)(1194)(196), & identification w/ good obj(192)(196), & mourning(44)(76-7), & obsessional defence(85), & Oedipal complex (80), & paranoid-schizoid position(14-5), & splitting(139), & superego(241-2)(245)(255)(279), & weaning(44)(109) | |||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | & ambivalence(143)(150), & anxiety(148), & grief(147-8)(156) (165-6)(172), & guilt(20), & internalization(149), & introjection (151), & loss of loved obj(142), & manic position(151), & paranoid-schizoid position(21)(177), & splitting(143-4), & weaning(142) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & ambivalence(21), & concern(22)(176), & Mother(24), & reparation(23)(103), & value vs health(25) | ||
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | & achievement of ambivalence, capacity to see both sides w/o splitting(182), ), & capable of mature guilt(87)(182), & capacity6 for concern(61)(87), & generates reparative drive(61)(182), & persecutory anxiety gives way to depressive anxiety reflecting capacity for concern(29-30)(182, & politics of the possible ie imperfection(183) | ||
Deprivation | In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | P.82 | & antisocial tendency | |
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & antisocial tendency(204)(226)(257), vs privation(226), & psychopath(134)(226) | ||
Derealization | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & schizoid(44)(64)(97) | ||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | & body(5), & dreams(6), & schizoid(5) | |||
Desire | On Kissing, Tickling and Being Bored | A. Phillips | See Index | & boredom(76), & composure(45-6), & obstacle to obj. of(82-3), & perversion(66)vs solitude(29)(40), & waiting(72)(75), & worry(55) | |
The Beast in the Nursery | A. Phillips | P.71 | & curiosity about, & future | ||
Love & its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | in dreams vs real world(72-3), & eccentrics(20), of hysterics(58-9)(66), =motivating force+belief=action(75), & not detectable in isolation(75), & self-help books(19-20), vs wishes(75) | ||
Childrens, and | The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | See Index | & balancing w/ self-restraint(117), & confusing what they want vs what they heed(121), & creed vs deed(123), & cultivating gratitude (125), & directing actions away from(117), & longing(130), & not eliminating(117-8), vs obligations(26), & parents undoing own violations by indulging children(32-3), & things children entitled to(122) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & A kills(18), & birth of threatens to betray & annihilate identity (127), & desire & egalitarianism seldom compatible(20), & sense of lies deeply buried in details of childhood upbringing(20-1), & waning of due to inability to sustain necessary tension between love & aggression(20) | |
Love, and | Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & adult vs childhood(134-6), & aggression(120)(132)(138-9) (141-2), & danger of(86-7), & dependence(46-7)(136-8), & deprivation (56-7), & hatred(120)(143), & idealization(94)(136), & imagination(104-6), & knowing as killing desire(44-5), & long term rel.(44)(140)(142), & love(33-5)(54)(91-2)(192), & Love dies or lovers die(55), & Nietzsches building sandcastles passionately all the time aware of the incoming tide=living life to the fullest=tragedy & romance(55), & pornography(137), & power of object of(132), & revenge(140-1), & romantic passion(56)(136), & sexual(136), for the unavailable(114)(116) | |
Therapy, and | The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | of abused(162)(164), & denial of(1-4), to be self-sufficient(4), & chasing aliveness in form of unsatisfied(5) | ||
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | @ adolescence(219)(224), & beauty(237-8), & definition of(203), & Mother(222), as object of(203), & power of(202), & reclaiming of(213-4)(217), & repression of(204)(211-2), & self-defence(232), & sex(86-7), & sexuality(207-9) | ||
Women Analyze Women | E. Baruch | & ego ideal(124), & mens desire as cause of(92-3), of object vs subject(327-8), & the other as naming(184), | |||
Despair | Fear of Life | A. Lowen | P.186-203 | & the belly(188), & childs denial of(187), as conviction he cannot help himself(186), & crying(187-9), & death(195)(199), definition of(187), & joy as antidote(190), & sense of self(189), & Ts task of letting go(198) | |
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & acceptance of despair as faith(175-6), as absence of power of being(159)(176), & courage(175), & despair as act of life(175-6), & despair of having lost our destiny(53), & doubt & meaninglessness (174-5), & hidden pleasure of(176), & meaning of life = despair about meaning of life(175-6), & the pain of _ as a being is aware of itself as unable to affirm itself because of the power of nonbeing(55) | ||
The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | p.385 | as price of self-awareness(Nietzche) | ||
The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | See Index | & afraid to reflect vs losing time(221), & confronting our fear that we are not strong enough to make changes we need to make(221), & escaping feeling helpless in face of overwhelming problems or inner struggles(221), & keeping busy to ward off existential anxiety(220), & manic defense against(220) | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig | P.240 | as cure for illusion | ||
Destiny | Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | P.89 | vs fate | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & having respect for(28), vs justifying existence(297-8), & relationship(252) | ||
The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | p.378 | & that which does not kill me makes me stronger(Nietzsche) | ||
Forces of Destiny | C. Bollas | See Index | & definition of drive(34), & dreams(47), vs fate(31-3)(41), & FS (33), & the future(41), & mid-life(48), & personal effects(49), & repression of futures(43), & ruthlessness(42), & sense of(34), as task of therapy (35)(40)(44), & transformation(36), & TS(33-4), & use of obj(42-3) (48), & use of unc. projections(35) | ||
Destructive Entitlement | Men, and | Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | See Index | & discussing(278), as relationship ethic(126), & sacrifice(154), & sex (246-7) |
Destructive Impulses | Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | & obj usage(89-90), as part of wholeness(143), & survival of obj(92-3), & T survival of(137) | |
Destruction as an Achievement in the Work of Winnicott | M. Davis | All CTP 97-98 Binder | & father(91), & I am(86-8), of T(89-90) | ||
Detachment | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & absence of striving(261)(271), & alienation from self(159), & childhood origins(275-7), & dread of emptiness(285), & expectations (264), & exclusion of love(304), & exclusion of sex (304), & fear of injuries to pride(107-8), & freedom from involvement(210), & low estimate of themselves(271), as onlooker on life(260-1), & proud of(271), & resignation(280)(234), & retraction of wishes(264), & sexual rel.(301-2), & shallow living (286), & unrelatedness(264)(286) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & choice vs decision(68-9), & converting passive fears of abandonment to active movement away from rel.(67-9), & deep fear of destructiveness of ones love in schizophrenia(65), & earliest function to prevent severe damage to emerging exp. of self(63)(66), & hunger underneath(65), & if you can survive what I do to you while I am hating you, w/o retaliating, then perhaps we can both survive what I do to you while I am loving you(65-7), & lack of feeling real in real world in schizoid(55), in N functions to preserve integrity of grandiose self(67)& operating on real obj. itself vs int. repr.(64), as protection against painful affects of attachment (64), & rigidity of splitting processes in borderline(65-6), & sense of futility & no hope for a good rel.(78), & use of free association w/ detachment defense(58), & working w/ in T(69) | ||
Differentiation | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | & accepting(124), & fear of as either annihilation or abandonment(125), in families(144-5) | ||
| Love & its Place in Nature | J. Lear | & collective mind(200), & the individual vs mass(203), & love(150), from loving environment(207), & original identification an initial _ (161), & primary narcissism(137), & regression to undifferentiated unity through love(137)(199), & scrutinizing autonomy(209) | ||
Attachment, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | as allowing us to function autonomously w/o feeling we are defined by feelings of others(65), as creating psych. boundaries between self & others, internal & external(65), & lack of=psychic equiv. mode of experiencing(65), as process w/ integration to dev. mental representations(65) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & always linked to thirdness(183)(188), vs complementarity(188), & families w/ poor patterns of(113), & femininity withholds approval for(110), & grounded in importance of mutual recognition(182-3)(188), & highly differentiated adults less prone to anxiety(113), & less differentiated adults prone to fuse w/ others(113)(264), & N pathology(109), from oneness by marking(188), & self-actualization(182-3)(188), & surrender vs submission(17), & tango(183) | |
Dionysus | Fire in the Belly | S. Keen | P.99-100 | vs Apollo, & theatre, & wildman | |
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.126-130 | & passion | ||
Androgyny | J. Singer | See Index | as bisexual(76)(80), & myth of(63-4) | ||
Disapproval | Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | & anxiety(199), & compliance(26), & control(27)(166-7), & expectations(172), & infant(132), as rejection(149), & self-image(217) | ||
Disillusionment | Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & illusion(11-2), & transitional obj(11), & weaning(13) | ||
Disintegration | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | as anxiety(16)(19), & faceless Mother(21), vs fear of death(16), & indifference(18), of Oedipal self(16)(21), & transference(22) | ||
Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | P. 39 | & resistance | ||
Displacement | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & personal effects(55), & therapists use of free association(96) (163), & trauma vs genera(69)(84), & unc. communication(188) (190) | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & description of(130-1) | |||
Attachment | J. Bowlby | & emotion(121), & orality(218-9), & redirection behaviour in animals(100-2), & transitional obj(311-3) | |||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | of childhood anger(152), w/ denial as key mechanisms of paranoid(153), & projection(120), vs sublimation(121) | |||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | of death anxiety(44-9), of responsibility(225-7) | ||
The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | & aggression(114-5), & chewing gum(133), as threat signals(104-5) | |||
Finding our Fathers | S. Osherson | P. 177 | of father to child | ||
Transference as | Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | P. 32-3 | classical vs intersubjective approach | |
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | P. 8, 86-8 | |||
Dissociation/ Dissociative Personality | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | P. 104-7 | mild to extreme(104-5), return of(104)(106-7) | |
H.J.S. Guntrip | J. Hazell | See Index | as outside Cs & Unc(268), vs repressed(256), & schizoid(191) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | as a defence(114-5), as personality(Ch. 15), & psychopaths(155) | |||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | P. 255 | of sense of being | ||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.354 | & intrapersonal isolation | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | vs alcohol or drugs(44), & assessment of danger(111), & child abuse (110), & constriction(45), & double think(87-8)(101-3), & Janet (12), & recovery(155), by society(9), & trance(43), from trauma memory (45) | ||
The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | & anomalous exp[.(139-41)(172-3), as anticipatory defence(32), & capacity for conflict(154), & avoiding self-annihilation(180-1), & bypassing mentally disorganizing struggle to self-reflect w/o hope of relieving pain & fear caused by destabilization of selfhood(43)(76), & clients alienation from aspects of self that are inconsistent w/ exp. of me @ a given moment(101), & co-creation of relational Unc(154), & conflict that is unbearable to the mind(101), & desire becomes corrupted & infused w/ shame(25)(43-4), & developmental trauma of nonrecognition(69)(75-6), & dissociated structure designed to operate out of awareness(15), & eliminating outside world(181), & the escape when there is no escape(99-100), & exp. that have been invalidated as real(43), & finding a negotiable interface-enactment- w/ minds ability to utilize interpretation (101)(154), & healthy(48-9)(95-6), & impossible to permanently avoid an internal war between adversarial parts of self simply by trying to increase degree of power held by only one part(31), & inconsistency has no frame of reference as long as dissociation is operating(76), & longing to communicate dissociated self-exp.(49), & maintenance of A-based affective safety is procedural-concretely tied to a pattern of interaction w/ an emotionally significant other that is not org. by thought(58)(139), & me & not me(30-1) (58)(69-70), & minding the dissociative gap(70)(74-5)(180), & mind`s self-state org. linked to brain`s org, of neural networks(98), & normal hypnoid gap between self-states(69)(161), as normal mental function, works in comfortable dialectic w/ internal conflict (69-71)(100-1), & preserving affective safety by monitoring & opposing any sign client is starting to trust feeling safe(hope)(21), & recognizing otherness as more than not me(100), vs repression (101), & sacrifice of interpersonal capacity for creative spontaneity (21), & secrets(42-3), & self-abuse in service of self-soothing(26), & self-continuity vs self-coherence(161), & self-states dissociated when self-continuity is threatened(15)(43)(58)(139)(161)(180-1), & sets up nonconflictual categories of self-exp. as different parts of self(32)(43), & signal to _ comes from other-person or part of self(14-5), & sort of knowing(170-1), & stability(survival through constancy) vs growth(survival through variation)(98-9), & when dissociation in full flower, capacity to structure conflict not yet present(31)(101)(161), & when inability to separate self & other a genuine possibility(180) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | Ch. 8 | & anxiety(72-3)(174), & automatic writing(70), & awareness spectrum(63)(65-7)(76)(173), & dreams(105), & hysteria(203-4) (208-9)(217), & MPD(73), & schizophrenia(6)(187-8), vs selective inattention(65), & tics(74-5) | ||
Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H Watkins | See Index | & 2 energy theory(43-4), & alters(52), BASK theory(39), & differentiation-dissociation continuum(28)(32), & MPD(33-5), & purpose of(38), & trauma(31)(42) | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | & fantasy(27)(29), & schizoid(67) | ||
Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index (A-H) |
& ability to consider Ts perception of him possible only if another state is not being invalidated as a trade-off(265), & If ability to perceive is lacking because it is too traumatic or too alien, can one think of an individual as being truly Cs?(131)(181), & affective shift as signal for(244-5)(255), & aim of T to re-establish connection between diss. psychic functions so that client ceases to feel conflict between imaginative (growth) & adaptive(safety) capacities(130) (134)(219)(256), & amnesic mental state to protect against shock(184)(258), & anorexia(233), & being terrified of losing only escape from madness(326-7), & child: in the client(144), & clients awakening to T as real person(110), & clients cannibalistic need (311-3), & Cs as cocoon(193-5), & creating perceptual gaps between self & other to preserve sanity(191)(256)(327), & creating a `state of eager aliveness in 2 people`(321), as defense against trauma vs int. conflict(173), as defensive impairment of reflective capacity brought about by detaching mind from self(12)(277-8), & depression(245), & dev. of childs exp. of me-ness(10-11)(244), & diss. between domains of self-exp. & between aspects of self- existence (12)(132) (173)(182), & diss. exp. remaining unsymbolized by thought & language(126)(133)(190), & diss. as healthy, adaptive function of mind(244)(270)(273), & diss. process bolstered by compulsivity & obsessional thinking by filling in the spaces & denying they even exist, leads to simplicity of concreteness leads to personality disorders in self-other mental repr. ie identity org. as defensive response to potential repetition of early trauma(182-3) (200-2)(214) (273), & diss. protecting against trauma & restoring personhood & sanity(12)173)(260-1), & diss. split between mind & psyche-soma(190-1)(232)(277-8), & diss. as suspension of linkage between self-states preventing certain aspects of self from achieving access to personality within same state of Cs (182-3)(254-5), & diss. when illusion of unity traumatically threatened= a liability because cannot process input symbolically & deal w/ it as a conflict(182), & distractive activity as signal to T to back-off(200), & dont celebrate, just listen(re: safety vs change (221-2), & engaging clients diss. voices as discontinuous but individually authentic expressions of selfhood(199), & engaging the unspoken self(320), as the escape when there is no escape(173) (216), & existence of cohesive core personality(131)(244), & exit lines(217), & exp. of hope as enemy(194), & fear of a breakdown that has already been exp.(133), & feelings of inauthenticity(190) (195)(198-9), & fitting real person to image of int. obj.(194), & function of interpretation(211)(277)(286)(319-20), & goal of diss. to maintain personal continuity & self-integrity(12(182)(296), & health as capacity to feel like oneself while being many(186) | ||
Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index (I-Z) | & imaginative perception(316-7), & inability to cognitively process early exp.(132), & inability to hold conflicting ways of seeing himself within a single experiential state as valid state of mind worthy of self-reflection(183), & inability to mentally repr. here & now exp.(214-5), & inability to tolerate Ts holidays(171-2), & Insecurity & anxiety breed a quest for other selves(131), & internal saboteur(196), & interper. process of recognition between client & T(145-6)(278), & listening to the clients shifts in self- states(15)(253-4)(279), & loss of will(232-3), & lying(228), & memory replaced by time condensation(252-3)(259-60)(277), & multiple real rel.(142-3), & not knowing(294), & observer as state-dep.(228),& one has info. to the extent that one has communicated ones states of being, ones experience(146), & other exists as object vs. subj center of own reality when diss.(210) (213), & paranoid schizophrenia(201), & parents primary power in shaping childs sense of self(313-5), & process of enactment (170-1)(252), & regression(143), & regulation of potentially traumatic hypoerarousal of affect(12)(295), vs repression(136) (275), & resistance(170) (199-200)(222)(215-7)(275), & schizoid(8-9)(202-3), & security of personality linked to trauma- based reality(12-3), & self as decentered(270), & self-cutting(171), & self-exp. originates in unlinked self-states & exp. of unitary self is acquired dev. adaptive illusion(181-2)(244)(272-3), & self-hypnotic process that attempts to anesthetise & isolate pain(190)(226), & self-reflection(7), & each self-state as island of narcissism(296), & self-states exp. as me & not-me(252)(280)(283), & shame vs routine anxiety(295-6)(328), & the sorrow that has not vent in tears makes other organs weep(190)(317), & source of greatest anxiety & hope=interface between overvalued & disavowed domains of self(296), & Speak! That I may see both of us.(266), & structural shift from diss. to conflict(8)(173)(185)(256)(283-4)(316), & :standing in the spaces(195)(274-5), & staying the same while changing(170-1), & surrendering diss. as defense a serious risk (199)(326-7), & task of T to be usable ie remaining alive & related(210-1), & no thoughts that bridge past & present so as to link the intersubj. world of trauma w/ subj. world of another person (134-5), & T experiences diss. data of exp. in co-created intersubj. world of transf/countertransf.((9-10)(144-5)(183)(185)(199)(258-9) (278) (297)(310)(315-6), & T must remain an obstinate attempt of 2 people to recover the wholeness of being human through the rel. between them(212), & trauma of nonrecognition(145)(258-9)(294) (320), & truth held by diss. states an experiential but not perceptual memory of traumatic origin(15)(226)(260), & use of potential space(170)(199)(217)(253), & useful acknowledgment vs interpretation(315-6)
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Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig | Ch.46 | Doubling vs MPD | ||
The Treatment of Dissociative Disorders | O. van der Hart | All CTP 98/99 Binder | & levels of(3-5), & phobia of(13)(20-4), & stages of treatment(6-11), & types of identities(14-7) | ||
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | & bypassing cognitive modulating systems(176), & cannot be transcended w/o presence of another who recognizes his own(16)(55), & central aspect of diss. subjectivity=insularity & concreteness of each self-state as a B/W island of truth of who one is @ a given moment(65-6), & clearly anchored in an evolutionary response that is equiv. in survival terms to certain genetically coded response patterns of other animals to a life-threatening attack by a predator(3-4)(113)(176), as designed to allow a necessary exchange of info. while protecting against affective shocks that might threaten self-continuity(3)(160), & diss. gap between self-states(5)(9), & limiting possibility of conflictual exp.(5-6)(24), & normal diss. structure of the mind an ability to bridge gaps between multiplicity of discontinuous self-states & engage in healthy exp. of intrapsychic conflict & potential resolution(24)(68), & process of diss. enslaved to a diss. structure(5), & thought w/o a thinker(65-6), & relationship between self-states & diss. is what the mind is(2), & through use of, mind selects whichever self-state config. is most adaptive @ a given moment w/o compromising affective safety(4), & use of by childhood marked by encounters w/ an inexplicably frightening A figure(139)(156), & when enlisted as defense against trauma, brain uses to inhibit potentially discrepant views of reality held by different affective states which, if on stage @ the same time, would be more than the mind could contain w/o destabilizing(4), | ||
Dissociation and Memory: A Two Hundred Year Perspective | A. Crabtree | All CTP 94/95 Binder | & cultural(152-3), & state dependent memory(152) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & affective expressions noticed by others(132), & coherent sense of self(153), & different self-states vs hypocrisy(48), & dissociated multiple self-states(166), & enactments(135), & fitness of interpretation to make contact w/(74), & fundamentally normal human process(22-3), & how our desire was responded to growing up(12), & little things can trigger big reactions(132), & lust as breakthrough of(23-4), & mutual inductive identification(135)(160), & N rage(54), & paradox(166-7), & part of our evolutionary inheritance for managing conflicts between self & other(22), of separateness(120), & sequestering aspects of ourselves, including sex from other aspects more in line w/ accommodation(22), & sex (120)(127), & undermines agency(127), & unformulated experience a hotbed for (72)(96), & unformulated relational experience a hotbed for mutual_(72)(127) | |
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | See Index | & humourous space as mild form of(70-1)(103), & laughter accompanying dissociation of distress(103), & managing a state of not knowing(102) | |
Intersubjective, and | Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | P. 86-8 | ||
Self-Relatedness and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 198 | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | See Index | as characteristic of most trauma-generated patterns of relating(48-9)(53), & compartmentalization(54), & detachment(54), of deviations from stereotypic femininity(96-7), of differences from others(55), of experience of uncertainty(33)(53)(65), as means of simplifying exp. through radical reduction of experiential complexity(54) | |
Distancing | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & borderline(76)(113-4)(120) | |
Distress | The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | & approach-avoidance quality to revealing(97), & desire to maintain ones esteem in eyes of others(97), & interpersonal allergies(40), & offering false hope(194), & relieving other persons _(49), & tolerance of(40), & trivializing as waste of time(193), & Unc desire to avoid(194) | ||
Don Juan Type | Why Men are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | P. 279 | ||
Doubt | Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | See Index | as agency of change & renewal(58), & anxiety(56), & certainty as enemy of truth(57), & fear of change(56), & I respect faith but doubt is what gets you an education(56) | |
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & courage of despair(175), & faith(176), & man is able to ask because he is separated from, while participating in, what he is asking about(48), as necessary tool of knowledge(121), & neurotic anxiety vs existential(76-7), & question of meaning(77), & spiritual life(48-9), & surrendering the right to(49), & truth(158)(174) | ||
Dreams | The Discovery of the Unconscious | H. Ellenberger | & Freudian(450)(493)(519), & Jungian(307)(711)(716-8)& Romanticism(205)(303), & universal symbols(34)(205-6) | ||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | & death anxiety(53), as existential messenger(248) | |||
Youll See it when You Believe It | W. Dyer | rules of(51-2), & thought(52-3)(72), & waking dreams(57-8)(70-1) (195) | |||
The Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | See Index | & maternal/paternal(183), as theory of creativity(170-1), & transubstantial object(173) | ||
Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & analyst(109-11), & days residue(22)(94), & evocative objects (53-4)(71), & genera(83), & generational Cs(267), & infant recognition as own(240), as intelligence(14), & personal effects(55), & psychoanalysis as dream work(99-100), & self-experience(13) | ||
The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | & process of plastic change(238-9), & REM sleep(239) | |||
Staring at the Sun | I. Yalom | & nightmares as death anxiety awakening dreams(264) | |||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & dream aesthetic(73), & dream space as holding environment(47), & early environment(70)(78), & ego(72)(75)(77), & ego memories (64), as object relation(Self & Other)(47)(51)(64-5), & questions about(71) (73), & unthought known(52), | ||
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | & analytic function as extension of dream life(112), & associations linking the minute w/ fundamental life issues(99), & bringing impulses expressed in dream into life of dreams(105), & dreams as royal road to knowledge of Unc activities of the mind(90), & essence of dreaming as the dream-work ie how the dream is put together(91)(103), & interpretation as attempting to answer the question of how to live(115), & interpretation of leading to practical knowledge of split off aspects of imaginative activity & incorporating them into a living investigation of how to live(90)(93), & 3 principles of interpretation(91-3), & process of dream mental activity(108-10), as revealing sources of desire deep within(91), & recognizing dream-like activity & here & now of Cs waking life(112-3), & working through(101) | ||
This Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | & analysis as facilitator of(2)(102-5), & coming to life emotionally =ability to dream ones exp.(8), & the container & contained (101-5), as creating Cs & Unc.(48), & hallucination as opposite of(47), & dream-thought(100), & inability to dream emotional exp.= inability to grow & change(2-3)(23)(47-8)(81)(105), as involving unc. psych. work through linking of elements of exp.(47), & interpretation of(2), & mental indigestion ie a world of undreamable panic(49), & nightmares(4-5), & night terrors(4), & psychosis(48), & undreamt & undreamable exp.(5) | |||
Five Lectures on Psycho-Analysis | S. Freud | See Index | & arrogance of Cs(41), & child in man(35), & condensation/ displacement(37), & distortion(35), & interpretation of as royal road (33), & manifest vs latent content(35-6), & symbolism(37), & wishful impulses(36)(38-9) | ||
Creative Dreaming | P. Garfield | All | |||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & dreaming as defence(211), & dreamless sleep of regressed ego (211), as obsessional thinking(229)(301), vs therapy(298) | ||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | & dream roles(32), & personifying(32) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | as anticipatory(173), & archetypal(65)(291), & assimilation(180) (184), as communication(17), as compensation(18)(167)(181-3), as facts(171), & horse(187-8), & Self(229), & self regulation(17), & sequence of(178), & symbols(184-5)(297), & types of(176), & understanding of(174-8) | |||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | & alchemy(209), & collective(161), as part of nature(161-2), of therapist(133)as warnings(245-6) | |||
Modern Man in Search of a Soul | C. Jung | Ch. 1 | analysis of(2), & assimilation(20)(26), & context of(13), & compensation(17), & Cs situation(18)(21), & content as serious(18), as expression of involuntary psychic process(5), & symbols(21), vs symptoms(16), as utterance of Unc(11), & winning assent of client (10) | ||
Terrors and Experts | A. Phillips | Ch.4 | as communication(74), & compliance in T(71), & interpretation of(72), & questions about dream & dreamer(72-5), as terrors & us the experts or them(66) | ||
Love & its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | & archaic mind(69)(97), as attempt to gratify wish under constraint of censorship(73), & beliefs taking night off(72-3), & emotions experienced in dreams seen to make a demand on us to make sense of them(89-91), & latent content(91), & like actions(71)(75), & primary process(76-7)(92), & rational thoughts have been subjected to irrational treatment(95), & repression(91-2), & understanding of by looking outward to environment & inward to wishes, hopes & fears(74) | ||
Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | Ch.7 | & change(83), as happening all at once(84), & knowing soul world vs finding out about ourselves(85-8), & movement into future(88-9), & what they do vs mean(82) | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | & extraverts(67), vs fantasy(27)(31)(33)(35), & hallucination(67), & play(51) | ||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | & climate of dream often presents the emotional tone, the nature of the affectionate bonds, around the characters, the action(95), & developmental dreaming(29)(144), & dream telling story of dreamers dev. & its obstacles & to give a sign how dreamer wishes to become well esp. those in course of T(144) | ||
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | as arena for expressing & hearing this additional layer of Unc relationship material(84), & brought in spontaneously(84), & co-interpretation of(85)(87), as expressing Unc wishes & fears(85), as source of competition(85), as way of 1 partner communicating w/ other & T(184-5) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & not only bring in the dream but bring in the dreamer(297), & dreams as most familiar special case of diss.(297-8), & moving from story to be interpreted to space for co-construction of transitional reality(298), that reflect clients hope of self-growth vs safety & stability(218), as transitional exp. that allows potential linking of self-states(298) | |
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | as adaptational effort to cope w/ min. levels of affectively disruptive not-me exp. w/o interfering w/ working illusion of central Cs(38-9), as among most routine day-to-day diss. activities of mind(38), & associations emerging affectively vs conceptually(43), & attempting to turn night dream into daydream(42), & being in the dream space vs dream text(43-4), & capacity to re-enter dream space while simultaneously retaining their working reality(40), & dreams as most familiar special case of more gen phenomenon of diss.(38), as a real space in which the client has been(39), & seeing a dream as part of session rather than a thing brought into session from outside(42-3), & use of a transitional exp. allowing potential linking of self-states(39), & when client brings in dreams, T task is to enable him to bring in the dreamer(38) | ||
Neurotic Conflict and | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | as attempt to resolve conflict(349), & feeling of identity(188), & Real Self(111)(348-9), & self-berating(133)(224), & self-destruction (152), & shallow living type(289) | ||
Therapy, and | The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | See Index | & 1 st interview(44), & 4 ways of viewing(46-7), & collective(48), & recurrent(44) | |
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic technique | S. Usher | P. 82-3 | & Unc associations of T | ||
Women, and | Women who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | & animus(58), & contra naturam(36), as portals(63), & secrets(381) | |
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Eating Disorders |
| Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | & appetite makes manifest infants 1 st encounter w/ actuality &, as such, makes actual exp. for the 1 st time as player in the process(119), & degree to which one draws satisfaction from human rel. will keep one from seeking nonhuman solution eg food as means of compensating for exp. of loss(119), as diss. self-state w/ own dominant affect, view of social phenomena & human rel., own moral code, own view of reality that is fiercely held as a truth & own rel. to food & to body(112), & parting w/ requires involved other who can hang in during long process of collision & negotiation (114), & a person is protected from the felt impossibility of responding self-reflectively w/ feelings of fear & security toward the same obj. @ the same moment(11)0), & recognition of insufficiency is unbearable→ choice becomes unbearable(119), & represents basic adaptational function of diss. in avoiding the necessity of holding in a single state of Cs 2 incompatible modes of relating(110), & threatening long-standing pattern of seeking comfort & soothing through food rather than rel.(163-4), & unevolved states of mind in which one wishes & hopes to have everything all the time-greed-attempts to eliminate the potential for traumatic ruptures in human relatedness by replacing rel. w/ food, a solution that isn largely self-contained & thus not subject to betrayal by the other-tarnished by existence of choice(119) | ||||||
Anorexia, and | Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | as hypnoidally isolated complex of phy. events, fears, movements, sensations & ideas that work together as a separate center of attention that is able to be communicated w/ & is in control of the total personality when it needs to be(112), & renunciation of desire hallmark ie loss of faith in reliability of human relatedness(120)(126) | |||||||
Bulimia, and | Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | & binging & purging as a cohesive act done in diss. not-me state(121) | ||||||||
Ego | Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | P.257 | adapted(wounded) vs essential self(wonder) | |||||||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | See Index | & awareness a place of primacy vs(85)(88), & child permits her ego to dissolve @ moment of good contact when parent is present but not interfering-feels a sense of continuity & trust(79), & clinging to being or nonbeing(xix), & clinging to certainty(xix)(79), & disturbed ego interferes w/ healthy contact perpetuating its own reality @ expense of interaction(10), & freeing the ego(8-10), & healthy _ initiates, approaches, makes contact & dissolves only to begin cycle again(10), & intrinsic reality instinct(xix)(81), & need to concretize reality so it can be understood & managed(xix), & undoing of only by knowing itself(10) | ||||||||
Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & development of as transformational regression(242), & evocative obj(45), & genera(84), & intuition(90-1), & Unc communication (188), & Unc ego(42-3), & Unc forms for selected self-expression (43) (64-5) | ||||||||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & aesthetic function of(33), & dreams(64)(72-3)(78)(80), & TS(8 ) (278), & ego memories(27)(50), & ego repair(22), & transitional & transformational objects(15), & unthought known(8-9) | |||||||||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & ego defenses(26)(28), & ego dystonic(alien)/syntonic(45)(55), & ego states(31-2), & ego strength(27), & experiencing(26-7), & observing(26-7)(45) | ||||||||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | & Are you so busy getting to the future that the present is reduced to a means of getting there?(84), & death(44)(46), & denying the Now(33), & descript. Of(181), & identification w/(28)(40)(72)(168), & memory & anticipation(48-9), & mind(48)(56)(60)(226-8), vs Now(51), & observer of(31)(39)(41)(101), & sense of permanence & fulfillment(186), & surrender(205-6)(208), & time(34)(48)(104), & Uncs(47-8), & victim identity(168) | |||||||||
The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | vs basic fault(10), & internalization requiring strong(9-10) | ||||||||
H.J.S. Guntrip | J. Hazell | & ego relatedness(247-8), & ego weakness(63)(119)(186-7), & regression(179)(190-2)(195), & separation anxiety(198) | |||||||||
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Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & anxiety(147), Cs ego(18)(266), definition of(173)(382), & disintegration, collapse of(12)(124)(421), & dissociation(255)(266), & ego loss vs obj loss(67)(143), & ego maintenance system(214) (330)(310), & ego sense(72), & ego unrelatedness/relatedness(220) (223)(225))228-9)(247), & experiencing subject(243)(250), & identification(39)(48), & intellectual(65), & internal & projected fantasy worlds(72)(82), & psyche(96)(249-50)(404), & schizoid fear (55), & sleep(300), & splitting of(31-2)(42)(70)(421), & suicide(39), & therapy(171)(213)(241-2)(359)(391), & withdrawal of libido=loss of ego(101-2), withdrawn(30)(63-4) | |||||||||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | & dissociation(25), vs dreams(32), & ego psychology(48), & fantasy (40)(81)(135), & guilt & forgiveness(66-7)(83), & multiplicity(31), & personifying(31-2), vs soul(xvi)(93)(180), & will power(37-8) | |||||||||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | vs anima(101), & archetypes influence on(91)(222-6), & crucifixion of(300), & emotions(91)(215), & individuation(229), & introversion /extraversion(131), & mana-personality(123), & persona(101), & psychoses vs neuroses(214-5), & the Unc(14)(19)(212-20)(387) | |||||||||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & anxiety about annihilation(41), & adaptation(54)(87)(239), & capacity for concern(26), & consequences of defective ego support (58-9), & disintegration vs unintegration(61), & ego needs(86), & ego relatedness(31)(34), & ego strength(52)(241), & FS(142-8)(152) (183-4), & going-on-being(86), & id impulse(33)(56), & incommunicado core(182)(187), & integration(40)(56), & maternal ego(37)(41)(185), & self(56), & trends of ego development(59-60), & TS(148-9)(187), & unthinkable anxieties(57-8) | ||||||||
Assessment of | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | Ch. 8 | & function of(41-2), & levels of ego support(259-60), & techniques of verbal therapy(254-9), & questions for assessing(249-54) | |||||||
Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | See Index | & capacity for ego transformation, move from defending selfs ailment against understanding(threat to selfs safety)(69)(101), & concerned w/ organization not meaning(74), & disintegration of→ primary anxiety(27), & ego alarm in early stages of mental distress (28), & ego faith(78), & future an aim of(78), & interests of ego (safety) @ odds w/ self (emerging truth) in breakdown(69),& loss of ego functioning→ primary anxiety(28-9), & respecting egos intelligence of presentation(80), as selfs Unc pattern-maker & agency that perceives patterns in life(77), & supporting ego strengths(35)(105-6), & unfreezing sources of mental pain so self is flushed w/ emotional truths(78) | |||||||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & body(60), & caretakers ego interest is in childs dev. she or he wishes the child well(61), & ego functions developing in experimental relationship infant has w/ its own body, others & things(61), & ego instincts vs sexual(156-8), & emergent ego instinct for self-preservative cherishment ie drive for dev.(60-2), & 1 st year of life ego instinctual drives are ascendant period of huge growth & dev. & period of intense affectional relatedness(62), & instinct for mastery(61)(201-2), & mother like an ego outside encouraging emergent ego inside(61), & the same ego instinctual drive, the same cherishing can be directed @ sustaining cherishment or @ sustaining a neg. state like envy, hate, fear, suspiciousness = not cherishment missing but cherishing misdirected(226)(229), in 2 nd year ego instinctual urge an expectation for supportive growth(63)(65) | |||||||
Creativity, and | The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | Ch. 15 | & ego strength(247), & independence(235-6), & sensitivity to outside (245) | |||||||
Males, and | Why Men are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & fragile(326), & impotence(264-5), & paying(275-7), as positive (357), & rejection(269) | |||||||
King, Warrior, Magician, Lover | R. Moore | p.106 | & Magician as observing ego | ||||||||
Weakness | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | 6 descriptive aspects(97), & aggression(146), vs bad(134)(137), vs depression(134), & despair(97), & ego of infancy(113)(175), & ego identity{male & female elements}(270-1)& fear(67)(146)(175), & frightened child(158), & guilt(293), & in & out programme(290), & life of schizoid w/(105)(231), & psychopath(167), & regression(47 ) (86), & regression to womb(54), & relationship(231), & resistance to accepting(214)(341), & shame/humiliation /w therapist(314), & withdrawal(67) | |||||||
Women, and | Women who run with the Wolves | C. Estes | & animus(312), & shadow(235), vs soul(146)(269-71) | ||||||||
Ego, Antilibidinal | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations & the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | as against needs(163), & aggression, hate & anger(195), & hatred of LE(22), & identification(72), & independence(78), & loss of as loss of parents(202), & opposition to therapeutic regression(86)(94) (287), & sadism of(163), & self-punishment(387), & suicide(216), & superego (182) | |||||||
Ego, Central | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & ALE(163), & breakthrough of weakness(180), & devitalization (152), & FS(181)(188), & fear of weakness(193), & hate(193), & integration of natural self w/(195), & obsessional(180), & obj split (71), & projection(71), & split of(70-1)(162)(188-9) | ||||||||
Ego Ideal | Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & being competent(201), can mature into agency that creates harmony between itself & superego(197-8), as drive for cherishment transforming over time & woven into unfolding of sexual instinctual drive & emergence of superego(197), & ego ideal of adult comes to include experience of growth through cherishment(66), & groundwork of is infants sense of being boundaried, having a skin 1 st is body ego ideal(198), if guilty, trouble building ego ideal that says You can be like this because always feeling You will be punished, ought to be, you are responsible(200), as his once-&-future self, his ideal of himself(42), & maturity as the condition in which a person is able consistently & carefully to sponsor other peoples growth(66), & not Cs wanting affection restricts growth & ego ideal(180), our basic sense of why we are in the world(190), as our declaration of how we expect to be loved & how we expect top love(189-90), & pre-adolescent(202-3), & promoting growth into(42), & prone to faults when lack of cherishment(198), & stability of latency(202), & transitional object as prototype of all future forms of _, the touchable version of an ideal based on touch(199), & Unc images of affection from childhood keep it alive(180), & visual(200-1), as the wished for self-image(201-2) | ||||||
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | & failure to live up to results in SE attack(78-9), & generates immature N state of self-punishment & shame(79), & I admit I am not perfect now, but, by god, one day I will be(80), & mostly derived from culture(79), & N form of self-preoccupation rather than concern for others(82) | ||||||||
Ego, Libidinal | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | vs depressive(144), & exciting obj split=active oral & passive regressed(5)(144)(163)(188), & life-drive(182), & manic defence against depression(144), & persecution by ALE(72)(195), & regression(144), & TS(82)(144) | ||||||||
Ego, Observing | Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & ability to ask why am I living this way?(6-7), & client feeling known in diss. non-reflective state(319-20), & diss. limits (7)(12),vs enactments(183-4)(283), & facilitating transition from diss. to conflict to allow repression & self-reflective exploration (275)(283), & goal as accepting _as valid mental state(283-4), & If it wasnt for reality I wouldnt have any problems(319), & inability of client to conceive Ts exp. as obj. worth reflection(183), & preserving self-continuity @ expense of(278), as self-reflectiveness (7), & simplicity of concreteness(182-3), as state-dep.(228), & suspension of as adaptive @ times(273) | ||||||
Ego, Regressed | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and The Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & defences against(64), & dependence on T(307), & fear of dying (163), & inactivity(164), & schizoid breakdown(73), & security(86), & TS(164), & wish to die(164) | |||||||
Ego States | Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H Watkins | All | good exercises to invoke | |||||||
Embeddedness | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & akin to mode of psychic equivalence(136), as if we are the experience as long as it lasts(135), & on automatic pilot(136), & borderline, PTSD & major depr.(139)(141), & bridge from _ to mentalizing built on foundation of affect reg., recognition of intentionality & symbolic play(139)(143-4), as context-dependent for most of us(139), from _ to pretend mode(141-4), & experience known to be real & therefore feel compelled to act(143), & info. about reality felt to be reality(135), & not differentiating between events on outside & how they register inside(136), & inability to maintain multiple views of any experience(139), & mentalizing as freeing us from(309), & only s ingle view of exp. as if no interpretation, only perceptions no beliefs that are not also facts (135), & predominance of splitting(136), as a primary stance toward experience(134), & projection of what is felt inside, outside creating experience of dangerous(140-1), & self felt to be object of experience vs initiating, interpreting subject(136), & subjective experience of internal world=external reality(136)(139-40)(142), & trapped in paranoid-schizoid position(136), & unmodulated feelings serving poorly as appraisals of reality & guides to action(135-6) (139), & whatever happens to us=who we are(136) | |||||||
Ember Days | Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | Ch.11 | & connection to core(125), & energy of(128), & reflection(127) | |||||||
Emotional Intelligence/ Literacy | Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | P. 259 | 3 skills of | |||||||
Towards Emotional Literacy | S. Orbach | TPR Feb 00 P. 66-7 | |||||||||
Empathy | Understanding Empathy and Related Phenomena | AJP Spring99 | P. 232-245 | & 4 levels of personal space(235-6), & 5 qualities of(235), definition of(234), as paranormal phenomenon(234-5), & primary qualities of therapist(242), & relationship between empathy & personal space (236-7), & self-discipline(238-9) | |||||||
Staring at the Sun | I. Yalom | See Index | as glue of human connectedness(123), as part of healing tradition(124) | ||||||||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | as essential to good diagnosis(13-4), & feeling w/ vs feeling for(12), & psychopaths(161) | ||||||||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | as a key ingredient to T rel.(78), & stimulated by direct loving kindness exercises(230), + Ts sensitive ability to understand clients feelings, thoughts & struggles from clients perspective(78) | |||||||||
Action vs Emotional | Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | P.28-30 | ||||||||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | is in service of surviving(103), & T standing together w/ client on edge of suffering when in a regression. Client comes into relatedness.(79-80) | |||||||
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & conflict between love(empathy) & hate(sadistic aggression & revenge(60), & empathic ID vs sympathetic ID(32)(61), & knowing vs caring(32)(53), & language generates _, not sympathy(32), & psychopath well-developed capacity for to understand minds of those he seeks to manipulate(32-3), & purely cognitive capacity(53), & role-taking(32)(53), & sadist must empathise w/ victims in order to enjoy their suffering(33)(53) | |||||||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & listening from subject-centred perspective(57), & motivating curiosity(73)(86), & reflectivity fundamental to(95), & T using empathic attunement for own countertransf. Defensiveness eg anger(119) | |||||||
Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & can be caught not taught(283), & designed to be empathic(24), & 3 elements of adult love include _(114), & emotional balance(88)(102-3), & to feel for someone is root of caring action(63), & insecure A overrides(289), & naturally favour _ unless consumed by fear or rage(269) | ||||||||
Developmental Precursors | Empathy: From Developmental Precursors to Therapeutic Action | F. Lachmann | All (X File Ref.) |
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Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & only change in perceptual reality alters cognitive reality(288), & consensual validation(49)(149)(156-7), & danger of self-state using empathy to further its sense of entitlement to priority(288), & each person shapes responsiveness of other, incl. empathy(155-6), & being emphatic as well as empathic(145), & exploration vs interpretation(159-60), & not blaming client for who he is(160), & the messy parts of T(288), & parental empathic failure(160), & participant observation(159), & T feeling what client is doing to him in order to recognize it(145)(159), & T rel. a negotiated dialectic between empathy & anxiety(288), & tormented mind of client crying to be heard vs contents understood(138)(145) | |||||||
Empathic Resonance and | The Analytic Encounter | M. Jacoby | See Index | & allowing client to use T(38-9), & mirror transf.(43)(46)(50), & syntonic countertransf.(46-7), as Ts decisive gift(91) | |||||||
Development, and | The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | P. 97-8 | & rapprochement 18-24 months | |||||||
The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | See Index | & core-relatedness(125-6), & empathic failure(219), & intersubjective relatedness(125-6) | ||||||||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & maternal(40), & too much(51) | |||||||||
Helpers, and | The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | See Index | & attention other-focussed(39), & in balances state(39), & begins w/ listening(134)(164), & built-in mechanism for mediating helping behaviours, between innate altruism & helping(15), & can be taught(137), & capacity for rooted in own emotional knowledge of loss(137), & deepening of own empathy w/ themselves(135), & empathy & sympathy synergistic(39), & empathy=-driven vs distress-driven helping(49-50), & feeling your way into Cs of other person(133), & good listening leads to surprise(134), & high empathy & caregiving stress go together(30), & involves both cognitive role taking & an empathic emotional responsiveness(15) (39)(51)(134), & promotes helping(39), & sense of we-ness precursor to(16), & sensing clients world as own w/o losing as if quality(47), vs sympathy(39)(158), & test of = capacity to relate to sensitivity of sufferer vs magnitude of misfortune(137), & they-ness as barrier(16)(18) | |||||||
Intersubjective, and | Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | P. 43-4 | & empathic introspective inquiry | |||||||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & allowing for moments of increased self-cohesion(10), & analogy w/ skills of parenting(162), between partners(55-6), & conjunctions/disjunctions(21), as core of intersubj. approach(109), & creating holding env.(117), & failure in parental T(161), in family T(144)(157-8), & interpretation(22(115-7), & investigating each partner`s exp. from within vs outside person`s subjective frame of ref.(93), as investigative tool vs sympathy(100), & modelling for partners(46), & obstacles to in couple T(97-100), & responding w/ _ vs provision when pulled by client to meet their needs(96), & subjective vs other-centred listening stances(113-4), & T actions that create sense of blame or shame(109-10), & understanding clients point of view& noticing own subjective exp.(21)(94-5), & what client`s say is likely true(94) | ||||||||
Males, and | Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | & feeling heard(195)(197) | |||||||
Finding our Fathers | S. Osherson | P.( 212) | vs anger | ||||||||
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & doubling(176), & empathic reversal(204)(212) | ||||||||
Mindsight, and | Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & attunement(28), as essential for success in life(v), & lack of(214), & depends on capacity for mindsight(224), as the imaginative projection of ones Cs into the feelings of another person or object (224), & learning empathy through seeing the ways parents emotionally respond(88), & mirror neuron system root of(59-61), & remaining differentiated (63), & resonance circuits(62), & seeing from mothers point of view(28) | |||||||
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & feeling felt(66), & feeling joined(66), & mirror neurons(76), & primary emotions(66), & survival value of rooted in evolution(76) | |||||||
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | & definition of(69), vs projective identification(69) | ||||||||
Therapy, and | Between Client and Therapist | M. Kahn | See Index | & agape(45-6), & corrective emotional experience(100), & countertransference(139), & failure of(158), & reflecting back(168), & self-empathy(45-6) | |||||||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & attenuated vs total(82), & definition of(82), & the lie(72), & need fulfilment(103-4), as observation tool(111-2)(174-5), & optimal frustration(66-7)(70)(78)(102-3)(107), & regression in service of (170), & self-object experience(21)(50)(66)(70)(78)(208-9), & theory/knowledge(104)(170)(216), & training for(83), & understanding(94-5)(105-6)(176-7), as vicarious introspection(96) (175) | ||||||||
Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | See Index | vs compliant identification(11), & empathic introspective mode of investigation(15)(20-1), & empathic resonance(7-8), & selfobj transference(11), & self psychological contribution(15), & sustained empathic inquiry(10-12) | ||||||||
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | P. 33 | & listening | ||||||||
Enactments | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & alternating between interpretive & personally expressive stance(284)(289-90), as arising @ intersection of Unc needs & vulnerabilities of client & those of T(122)(260)(271), & behaviour as T shaped more by our Unc motivations than Cs intentions(272-3), & client & T embedded in until recognised(271), & demonstrating to client our freedom to move(283), & enactive representations(66-7), as ever-present raw material of productive T technique(271), & expression of T rel. as co-constructed(271), & implicit vs explicit rel. w/ client(126)(241), as involving verbal & non-verbal behaviour(270), & intersubjectivity(124)(188), & loosening the hold of through disclosure, empathy, interpretation, etc.(124)(184)(283), & meaning of lies in nonverbal subtext generated by what words actually do(122)(270), & mentalizing(275), & mindfulness(274), & model effective affect reg. & capacity top mentalize(290), & mutuality of projective ID(123)(181-2)(249)(272), & not whether were participating in but how(260)(273), & 2 patterns of: collusion & collision(274-5, & providing g context within which to exercise reflective function(271)(290), & repeated vs needed reparative rel.(182)(279-80), of T(290-1), & self-disclosure as resource to work ourselves out of_ & work ourselves into_(183-4), & straightjacketing the T(184), of T unthought & unfelt known(272) (323), & transcending w/ corrective emotional exp.(125)(288-9), & transforming into opportunities for exploration(123)(181-2)(275), as translating internal exp. into action(270), & unrecognized(279), & what we enacted w/ attachment figures as infants(122)(260), & working w/ clients as if they were far more subject to influence of the Unc(272) | |||||||
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | & accelerating the enactment by being helpful while abandoning involvement in clients subjective exp. & replacing it w/ total involvement in own(104-5), & aspect of Unc in client & T always present in(49-50), & beginning of(142), & boundary between personal & professional becomes dramatically permeable during(19-20), & capacity to be alone in presence of another(70), & client becomes more able mentally both to play w/ & to struggle creatively w/ exp. that before could only be enacted in the interper. field(70) (136), & collision between intersubjectivities during(35)(95), & counting on to make the analysis of transference possible(95), as dyadic diss. process through which clients trauma-derived emotion schemas make themselves known & potentially available to Cs (136), & enactment of aspects of dream that represents unprocessed real-life exp. w/ highly affective significance(44), as externalization of war within clients internal object world(33), & finding words to get Ts exp. of enacted subsymbolic communication out on the table so client can do the same(16)(137-8), & forcing T to repair the irreparable(94), & increasing symbolization of through creation of transitional reality(34-5), & interpretation stance useless during(8), & inviting the dreamer through _(43), & moving from exp. enacted patterns of behaviour as person he is to something he does→ self-reflection(7), & need for repetition(96-7), & objectification of self & other by client & T(34), & own as genuine past vs enact as substitute for present(49), as part of natural functioning of mind simply doing what evolution has adapted it to do in 2 discrete modes of info. processing 1) subsymbolic 2) symbolic(136), as playing out of diss. subsymbolic representation in both client & T(137)(181), & power of when T diss. some aspect of his exp. of client, depriving client of potential to discover safely her full relational existence(145), & relational absence of intersubjectivity during(34-5), & relevance of diss. as defense against self-destabilization in _(6), & reliving of trauma through(123), & repair of(98), & repression in _ vs diss.(8), & requiring Ts closest attunement to unacknowledged affective shifts in own & clients self-states(6), & results in ones not-me states being experienced as existing in the other, as existing only in the other & sometimes as defining the total truth about the other(8), & shame(25)(89-92)(123)(181), & shift in roles when client relates to T within a more coherent exp. of selfhood vs simply using rel. as means of achieving self-coherence(70-1), & takes place through location of _ in interper. dissociative context vs associative content (34), & T becoming aware of own diss. reaction during _→ increasing knowledge from verbal & nonverbal sources simultaneously(188), & T enacting role of other by becoming player iin what is being relived(90), & Ts ability to survive intense affective confrontations & make use of them(135), & treatment crisis when _ arouses feelings in T not comfortably containable within professional stance→ diss.→ managing rel. vs participating in it ie finding a solution→ escalating the _(37)(88)(95-6)(98), of Unc affect(187), & unrelenting repetitiveness of certain enactments→ both client & T moving to edge of abyss(88)(92-3), & when surprise crosses threshold into shock(87) | ||||||||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | of clash between invariant Unc propositions w/ Cs wishes & desires(109), & curiosity about(136), & engaging in self-defeating behaviour(170), & held hostage to over-determined(160), & history-taking(226), & mutual inductive identification(141)(160)(189), & often occurs in dissociated self-state designed to communicate existence of the truth that client is experiencing about partner that cannot be thought or said @ the moment(136), of prevailing sense or version of reality when capacity for symbolic articulation absent(34), of T when frightened by clients aggression(119) | |||||||
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | & activating brains fear system(55-6)(105), & central aspect of working w/ is risk that it touches area of unprocessed dissociated trauma mentally unbearable & unavailable to cognition(32-3), & characterized by experience of uncertainty(186), & clients experience of must be one in which shadow of destabilizing affect strong enough to be felt but not strong enough to automatically increase use of dissociation(22)(33), & co-construction of new self-meaning always involves some sell-destabilization(80), & co-creation of(109)(148), & co-creation of relational Unc(154), & considers both partners as interpenetrating unit(151), as context for T growth in which something new emerges out of what client & T do in an unanticipated way=safe surprises(56), as dyadic dissociative phenomenon where Unc affect played out(21)(39)(79), & each person insulated from intersubjectivity(59), as effort to symbolize further an episodic memory that slowly becomes cognitively represented in long term memory(22), & generating a process of relational negotiation(59)(149), & goal in working w/ is to help c;lient recognize difference between feeling scared & feeling scarred(24), & happens in transf/countertransf. context(159-60), as intrapsychic phenomenon played pout interpersonally(151), as negotiable interface w/ minds ability to utilize interpretation(154), & not-me states becoming me(133)(149)(151-2)(158), & one cannot step into same enactments twice(148), & perception(160), as perceptually real & unpredictably messy(133), as primary perceptual medium that allows narrative frame to expand(160)(162), & safe surprises=co-existence of spontaneity & safety(105), as shared dissociative event(16)(133)(151), as reliving aspects of A-related developmental trauma in clients past(105), & repetitive collisions (22)(59)(109-10)(133)148), & restoring the wholeness of being human(105), & 2 nd conversation going on while actual conversation in words is happening(42), & takes place in cocoon built for two(21)(39)(59)(110)(151), & T feeling personally impact of dissociated parts of clients self that are trying to find relational existence(133), & through joint processing of, clients sequestered self-states come alive as a remembered present & be constructed as a remembered past(95), as Unc communication process that reflects those areas of the clients self-exp. where trauma has compromised capacity for affect regulation in relational context & thus compromised self-development @ level of symbolic processing by thought & language(16)(21-2), & unsymbolized not-me states making themselves known through(158) | |||||||
Enantiodromia | The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.164 | as extraordinary reversal of standards | |||||||
Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | P. 410 | as initiation | ||||||||
Endopsychic Structure | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & ego-splitting(77)(162)(180-1), & Klein(407), & objects(127), & weakness(184) | |||||||
Engulfment | The Divided Self | R. Laing | See Index | as anxiety(43)(75), & being loved(45), & compulsion to be like another(58-9), & hate(44)& isolation(44), & loss of identity(44), & privacy of the self(163), & schizoid(73)(75), & stealing(83)(92), & understanding(44-5) | |||||||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & 2 categories of trauma: too much & too little(21), & commitment (96-7), & dissociation(71) | ||||||||
Enmeshment | Toxic Parents | S. Forward | P.176-180 Ch.10 | 2 types of(191-9), & coping mechanisms(178-9), & dependence on approval(176), & illusion of love(176) | |||||||
Entitlement | Childrens, and | The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | See Index | & confusing what they want vs need(121), vs privileges(82)(206), & things children entitled to(122), & when . . .then vs If . . .then(206) | ||||||
Dependence | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 220 |
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Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & childhood belief of being the centre of the universe(21), & demanding to live in the fantasy world of the 1 yr. old(22), & forfeiture of power to shape their own destiny(22), & N.s Mother(48-9), & others exist to meet those needs(20), & parental vs childs pain (188-9), & rage(21), & self-esteem(94)(177), & specialness(20)(187-8), & whatever I want I should get(20) | |||||||
Environment | Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | of adaptedness(designed vs evolutionary(47)(50), & adapting to(51-3)(58-9), & attachment(179-80)(204)(247)(250)(265-6), & behavioural systems(instinctive(30)(45)(128)(133)(136)(155), & control systems(49)(155-6), & deviations in current(128), & perceptions of(48), & smiling(280-1), & social(62-3)(166), stable vs labile(129), & survival(49)(53-4), & working models of(80-3)(117-8) (354) | |||||||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | & coefficient of adversity(272), vs responsibility(268-275) | |||||||||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & capacity to use object(89), & creative living(68)(71), & dependence (70-1)(139), & facilitating(139)(141), & failure of environmental provision(56), & functions of(111), & good-enough(139) | |||||||||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & absolute dependence(85), & adaptation(96-7), & guilt(27), & holding(43), & internal(34), & maturational process(85), & primary maternal preoccupation(85), & projection(38), & schizophrenia(135-6) | |||||||||
Envy | Feelings | W. Gaylin | Ch. 8 | & comparison(132)(134), definition of(127), & identification (131-3), & impotence(136), vs jealousy(128)(130-1)(140), & masochism (141), & projection(136-7)(139), & resentment(127)(134)(142) | |||||||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & narcissism(172-3), & paranoia(208-9) | ||||||||
On Flirtation | A. Phillips | See Index | & envy for desired object in earliest relationship & rivalry for in later 3-person relationship(56), = spoiling of what is felt to belong to oneself(55) | ||||||||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | & idealized object unc. felt as destructive & persecutory(86), & what we envy as something we appreciate(86) | ||||||||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.113-7 | & desire(113), & self-denial(113) | ||||||||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | Ch. 6 | & ambition(137), & definition of(129), & hypertension(132), & paranoia(132), & rationalization(131-3, & self-worth(129-30), & sleep(131) | ||||||||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & body(137), & fathers(306), & friendship(182-8), & penis(134-7), of womb(133) | ||||||||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | as direct result of missing cherishment(152), & envy what we dont have & what we assume is being withheld or given to others(152), nurse grudge because this is what you have put in the place of a person & keeps you from being related to any person(227), = nursing a grudge get stuck on a feeling of being slighted, cut short while someone is getting the good things, the relatedness & then you put your effort to cultivating that feeling of envy(227), & perpetuating(152), as primary state of thwarted cherishment(234), & tyranny rooted in(234) | ||||||||
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | & best defence is offense(17), & excessive praise then self-disparaging remark(17), & hate(18), & obsequiousness to those in power(17), in relationships(125), & Unc in N.(18), & weapon used to silence shame=contempt(15-6)(18) | ||||||||
Eros | Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | & anima(45)(487), vs Logos(659)(700-1), vs sex(172-3)(490), & soul(482), & truth(329), vs woman(37-8)(697-8) | |||||||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & anima/animus(111-3), & power as opposite(159) | |||||||||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & desire for connection(33-4), as oldest/youngest god(33)(56), & wounds of(100) | ||||||||
The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | P. 356 | as ingredient for enchantment | ||||||||
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | & attraction to unavailable women as flowing from imagination (150-1), & distortion of reality in wishful ways(149), & dev. & growth(psychoanalysis) through erotic nature(19)(84-6), & dream- activity(110), & importance of maintaining lover as forbidden(150) | ||||||||
Open Minded | J. Lear | as constituting a field across which psych. contents & organization may flow(142), as functioning as obstacle to dev.(132)(140), as linking sublime & mundane realms & investing human life w/ meaning & value(146), as name for our pursuit of wholeness, for our desire to be complete(130-1), & T loving most when most dispassionate & objective(142) | |||||||||
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.13-35 | & beauty(15)(30-5), & body(21-4), & face(25), as guide to knowledge(12-3), & hair(27-30), & sex(13)(16-7), & transgressions (14) | ||||||||
of Form | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & evocative object(42-3), & form of expression(22)(42-3), & genera(29) | |||||||
Transference, and | Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | as affectionate part of client(44), & clients capacity for loving(73), as positive tendencies inherent in resistance(44), as uniting element of T(73), & wish for life(189) | |||||||
Erotomania | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & depression(65)(75)(101), & love addiction(62), & merger & elevation(64-5)(67), & romance(64) | |||||||
Evil | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & child abuse(105), & inner badness(105), & trauma(7) | ||||||||
The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | See Index | & the unlived life(409), & eternal recurrence(409-10) | ||||||||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | & beginning of=beginning of mental life(236-7), & Cs(132), & dreams(279), & relativity of(471), & sin(76-8)(329), & Unc(309)(561) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & identifying w/ virtue only(114-5), & scapegoat(67) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & doing(280), vs good(308), & human nature(308)(396-8), & inner voice(208-9), as judgment(303)(308), & outside vs inside(388)(395-6), & Unc(300)(308) | |||
Everything is Broken | TPRAug99 | P. 108-115 | & choice(110), & contradiction(113), & intrapsychic conflict(110), vs truth(113) | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, ed | Ch.37 | & being vs appearing good(179), & definition of(178), & moral purity(179), & people of the lie(179), & pride(178), & scapegoating(projection)(178), vs sin(176), & unwillingness to tolerate sense of sin(179-80) | ||
Cracking Up | C. Bollas | See Index | & belief in goodness of others(200), as death of self in child(187-9)(195), & death sex(195-6), & functions of perversion (210), as living by transforming others into killed ones(189)(193), & loss of generative innocence(201), & moral vacuum(189), as personally knowable to all(220), & preying on need(197-8), & process of(204) (211), & psychic disintegration while alive(217-8), & sado/ masochism(206)(209-10), & Satan(184), & serial killers(189-90), & terrorist regime(214), as trading on trust(186-7), & transfer of hell into victim(199), & unanswered murder(189), as unsuccessful battle with self(183), & zone of darkness(190-1) | ||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | & cherishing rule-obeying, staying unrelated to people by this means, will do anything that keeps his inner arrangement w/ himself intact(230), envies & attacks any sign of relatedness in the world, anything felt as impingement on his insulation(230-1), only perversion of a basic need, an elemental human need & capacity for applying that need could lead to behaviour so evil(Hitler)(231), as w/o affection(231) | ||
Evocation | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | of experience we are unable or unwilling to claim as our own(127), & facial muscles not only express emotions but activate them(128-9), & humans needing a hook to hang their hat on(128), & influence of _ flows in both directions(128)(266)(268), & mirror neurons(266), & normal projective ID single most important medium of communication in infancy(127-8), & projective ID(127) (129), of that which we cannot verbalize(121-2), & tuning in to our own subj. exp.(129)(269), & upgrading the dialogue(261), & we become what we behold(128), & what we Cs chose to do w/ client vs our Unc needs, feelings & intentions being decisive(270) | ||
Potential Space, of | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & creation of object(241), & musing(272), & reception(239-40), & unthought known(261) | |
Existentialism | The Wing of Madness | J. Burston | See Index | & 6 existential needs(182-3), & choice(158), & existential- phenomenological model(157-8), vs humanist(157-8), & unc fantasy(215) | |
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & anxiety(35), as the attitude of participating w/ ones own existence in some other existence(125), & the essence of man is his existence (Heidigger)(149), as the expression of the anxiety of meaninglessness & of the attempt to take this anxiety into the courage to be as oneself(139-40), & guilt(149), & knowledge(124-5), & lack of ultimate necessity(contingency)(129), & meaninglessness(149), & nonbeing(35-6) | ||
Mans Search for Himself | R. May | All | |||
Sophies World | J. Gaarder | P. 349-54 | proponents of | ||
The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | All | |||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | All | |||
Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | See Index | & anxiety not just a spiritual problem(14), & anxiety reminds us we are prisoners of our bodies(30), & existential approach to(52), & existential crisis @ root of all clinical anxiety(58), & facing hard existential truths vs distracting & defensive anxiety symptoms(57), & phobias displacements of deeper existential concerns projected onto outward things(58), & symptoms act as protective screen against a searing pain associated w/ confronting loss or mortality or threats to self-esteem(59) | |
Dark Night, and | Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | P. 91 | vs depression | |
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & being cannot conceive of not being, can conceive of absence of experience but not absence itself(245), & depressives have seen the world too clearly(434), & existentialism as true as depressiveness (434), & giving up what it is to be human(434), & when the I disappears(329) | |
Paradox of, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | as condition of individuality within finitude(26), & human characterized by 2 great fears that other animals protected from: fear of life & fear of death(53), & leads directly into problem of God & faith(68), & split in 2: awareness of own splendid uniqueness yet goes back into ground in order blindly & dumbly to rot & disappear forever(26) | |
Expectations/ Expectancy Systems | Expectations: Met, Surpassed & Violated | F. Lachmann | All XFile Binder |
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Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & meeting expectation disorganizing(126), & role of expectation in trauma(106-7), & victim/abuser binary(107), & violations of(106) | |
Of Parents | The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | See Index | & achievement by proxy syndrome(42), & child as seed in packet bw/o label-job to provide right environment but cannot decide what flower or when it will bloom(50-1), of adolescents(43-5), of boys (48), of girls(48), & good-enough(55), & letting children taste success(199), & loving children for own sake vs achievements(60), & not using always or never(199), of surpassing parents(42-3), & tolerating low-quality time(57), & true limitations vs problems (41(53-4) | |
Experiencing | Modes of | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & mentalizing(47), & pretend(47), & psychic equivalence(47), as unfolding sequentially in course of dev.(47) |
Exploitation | Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | & deceit/distortions of reality(25), of Mother to child(53), & others as extensions w/o regard to their feelings or interests(24-5), & relationships(125) | |
Externalization | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & countertransference(202-3), & hysteric(194-5) | ||
Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | as active move away from RS(160), & active/passive(116) (121) (225) (231), & definition of(178), & distortion of others(293)(295) (297), of self-condemnation(196)(208), of self-contempt(136), of self-hate(116) (208)(231)(300), of shoulds(78)(81)(123), & yielding to wishes of others(266-7) | ||
Extravert | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & 4 functions((18)(133)(144-5), & compensation/self-regulation (18), & description of(18)(131-2)(140-1), & dreams(21), & inferior function(96)(164), vs introvert(18)(131)(160-1), & marriage(96) (161)(163-4), & objective vs subjective(129)(131-2)(144), & persona(96) | |
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & depression(93)(98), & neurosis(87)(93) | ||
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Faith | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.253-258 | & doubt(253-4), & ignorance(258), & trust(254) | |
Going on Being | M. Epstein | See Index | & w/o wisdom=blind(108), & wisdom w/o=righteous or anxious(108) | ||
Absolute, and | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & the accepting of the acceptance w/o somebody or something that accepts(185), & being grasped by God beyond God(188-90), & being-itself(176), & courage as self-affirmation of being in spite of nonbeing(172)(176), & courage to be as expression of(172)(181), & doubt & meaninglessness(175-6), & divine self-affirmation(180-1), & 3 elements of(177), & embracing mystical participation & personal confidence(160), as the existential acceptance of something transcending ordinary experience(173), & fate & guilt(176), as state of being grasped by the power of being-itself(172-3) | |
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | as belonging in psychoanalysis(146-7), as challenge to accept paradox:If we surrender everything, we gain everything & more (150), & cosmic Cs(148), & cultic(160-3), & experienced when we feel deeply convinced our psychological survival is no longer @ risk(147-8), & involves the acknowledgement & acceptance of the ineluctable uncertainty of life & profound sense of certainty that ones self not in jeopardy(148), & involving surrender of trauma-generated certitude(151), & moments of meeting develop faith that bond will not be broken(151), & mystical state(148), & nonduality (149-50), & surrender as the giving up of autonomy & control(150), as unwavering certainty(144), vs trust(147) | ||
False Self | A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | See Index | & defensive exclusions(34-5)(70)(113), & patterns of attachment (124-5), & therapy(243) | |
Being a Character | C. Bollas | & association(112), & groups(243), & homosexuality(156), & innocence(183-4) | |||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & loving hate(126), & normotic illness(144)(155) | |||
The Wing of Madness | J. Burston | & ego(224), & madness(64), & metanoia(41-2)(97) | |||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & central ego(181)(190)& Cs self(181), & ego of every day living (181)(188) | |||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | Ch.6 | & body as(69), & system of(73-4)(94-5)(126-7), & schizoid(73-4) (78)(82-3)(88), & schizophrenia(148)(174-5), vs self(138)(142) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | Ch. 1 | as defence against experimenting(17), & defensive fantasies(4), & freedom(12), & internal saboteur(7)(11), & phoniness(16), vs RS(19 ) (23), & self-destructive behaviour(18) | ||
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | See Index | & dependent Mothers(14), & grandiosity/depression(43), & Narcissus(49-50), & statement of never being loved for who the child is(57) | ||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | See Index | & afraid of losing when feelings overwhelm us(99), & consolidated for purpose of managing a malignant environment(11-12), & predominantly a mental construction in which secondary process is put to use managing a difficult environment(101), & reactive vs responsive(61)(79)(84), & a self that is too knowable(11-2), & shadow of is disturbing & oppressive negative space: emptiness & unreality can seem even more real than life itself(12)(79) | ||
New Passages | G. Sheehy | & appearance(181), as bad self(151-2), & coalescence(355), & mid-life(33)(146) | |||
The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | & disavowal(227-8), & domain of the private(228(, & exclusion of certain intersubjective experiences(210)(227), & language(227) | |||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | Ch.3 | description of(11-2), poem about(13-5) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | aetiology of(145), & capacity to be alone(34), & classification of FS organization(142-3), as compliant(145-7)(183)(225), as defence(47) (133), as intellectual(144), in normal development(150)(225), in therapy(133-4)(151-2)(231) | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, ed | Ch.8 | & disowned self(47)(49) | ||
Masterson Seminar Presentation | N. Diamand | All | |||
Cracking Up | C. Bollas | See Index | & evil(204), & hatred of difference(98-9), & loss of spontaneity(99-100) | ||
Winnicott | A. Phillips | See Index | & 3 functions of(135-4), & imposed illusion(120) | ||
Family | Abuse, and | Stalking the Soul | M-F. Hirigoyen | P. 37-50 |
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Family Self, and | Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & double-bind theory(154-5), & family self as unspoken shared schemas(165-6)(171), as 1 st model of how to attend to a shared reality)155), & groupthink(180-1), & info.-processing of(167-8), & lacunas of(162-3)(174-5), & Laings example(154)(178), & organizations as recapitulation of(190-1), & secrets of(176), & sharing group self(166)(173)(179), & the too happy family(176-7) | ||
Fantasy/Phantasy | A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | See Index | & models(139), vs real life(78) | |
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & ego(9), & the liar(179)(185), & unthought known(9)(279) | |||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & alienation(355), & anxiety(87), & ego unrelatedness(229)(299), & internal objects(23)(167), & internal vs projected world(82), & Klein (82)(129)(405)(408), vs TS(405) | |||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & compensation(190), & countertransference(140), of forgiveness (190), & ideal self(202), & pornography(76), of revenge(104)(189-90), & suicide(194), & therapy(202-3) | |||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | Ch. 7 | & acorn(169), & denial as(167), & omnipotence(17), & parents of child(160)(163)(165-6)(168) | ||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & archetypes(118), & imagination(135), & medical treatment for(73), & myth(99), vs problems(135), & psychologizing(135)(143) | ||
Love & its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | of emotional discharge(36), as term we apply to an exp. only after we have distanced ourselves from it(36), & within fantasy, distinction between _ & reality does not exist(36) | ||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & childs(381), & dreams(176), & instincts(382-3), & Self(229), & the unc(99)(227) | |||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | vs FS(94)(138)(142-3), & guilt(132), & inner self(94), & phantasy of being anonymous(127), & phantasy of being invisible(113), vs reality (84), & self-in-phantasy(84)(142), & stealing(92), & unreality of inner self(138-9) | |||
Open Minded | J. Lear | See Index | & acting out as expression of(92), as central insight of psychoanalysis(20-1), as disruptive(106), & feeling passive towards it(115), & freedom from rationalizing constraints logos(92-3), as motivational, directed towards some kind of satisfaction & either have some repr. content, expressing a narrative, like a daydream, or express content(92), & not an intended act(115), & phantasy of splitting is activity of splitting(110), & remaining relatively unintegrated(93), as showing a meaning but not saying it(92)(103) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & borderline(76)(79)(154), & denial(80), of FS(18), & healthy vs pathologic(7)(14), of reunion w/ Mother(80), & RS(23) | |||
Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | & biofeedback(294), & meditation(265) | |||
Solitude | A. Storr | as biological endowment(66), & creative imagination(69), & science (67-8) | |||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | & changing to imagination(27), & destruction of object(90)(93), & dissociation(27)(29), & dreams(31)(33), & frustration(10), of murder (144), & omnipotence(30), vs real planning(33) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & destruction of the other_(14), & erotic imagination fuels(21), & fantasy of permanence frequently trumps that of passion(120), & fantasy that anyone in the room can now everything(75), & internal fantasy relationship of other(15)(44)(68), & lust(23), & other as N extension of own fantasy world of needs & desires(14-5), & partners playing w/(21), & ruthlessness(15-6), & protective _(127), & reckoning w/ loss of→ freer to be themselves(237), & redemption/ salvation_(237), & in sexual _ need too use other as vehicle for discerning what we have always felt as fundamentally missing(23), & standing firm despite version of other born out of fantasy(15), & The Jack Story(44), & transformation of childs omnipotent _ organization regarding self & other into recognition of other as subjectively different(14) | ||
Love, and | Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | about what one has in reality vs what one does not have(116-7), & anonymous(116), & passion(86-7)(116), & reality testing(105-6), & sense of safety(43-4)(51), & sexual(51)(76)(116), as vehicle through which world comes to life(105) | |
Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | & aggression(166-7), & collective imagination(156), & definition of(163), & imaginary projection(171), & intimacy vs desire(167), as proof of freedom & separateness(189), vs reality(160), & sexual(156-7), & sharing of(173), & through _ repair, compensate & transform (155), & truths about ourselves(158-9) | |||
Males, and | Why Men are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | See Index | vs commitment(150)(159)(162)(164)(172), & dependence(162), & feelings(253)(336)(339-40), & marriage(103)(168)(173), & overnight change(57), & primary male/female(18)(53)(116)(153) (160)(214), & quote about change in marriage(173), & secondary male/female(55), & sex(159)(161), of sex w/ women if achieved success(64) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | & actualization(168-9), & kernel of reality in(73), & projective identification(11-2), & putting a part of oneself in another & controlling that person from within(13) | |
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow if the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | &n attending to self-state shifts(158-9), & clients are their Unc fantasies & live them w/ T through act of T(148), & development of self-reflection vs(153)(156-7), & enactment(148-9)(151-2)(161), & fantasy as elastic & serves to generate multiple realities & multiple versions of oneself, versions that one may inhabit & may use to make meaning from experience & work through conflicts(154-5) (158), & illusion of clarity increases w/ level of abstraction(146), & possessed by vs possessing(153), & reality cannot be distinguished from fantasy in absolute terms(150), & solely the result of inference (153), & unsymbolized affect t vs(153) | |
Sexual | The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.176-7 | & Eros, as poetry | |
Passionate Marriage | D. Schnarch | See Index | & intimacy(241), & partner replacement(242-3), & role play(252) | ||
Unconscious | The Wing of Madness | J. Burston | & archetypal(214), & definition of(213), & mind(206)(224)& true function of(215) | ||
Fate | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | Ch. 9 | & accidents(203-4)(206-7), & acorn theory(6-8)(203), & analysis of(195), & death(212-3), & definition of(193-4), vs demonic(224-5), vs fatalism(192-4), & moira(194-5), & Necessity(208-11), vs psychology(11), & teleology(196), & telos(197)(202) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & the daimonic in relationship(18), & preparing to make an extraordinary act(298), & rites of passage(28) | ||
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & courage of confidence(168), & man directs the vessel of his life although it is driven by the winds of fate(167) | ||
Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | P.89 | vs destiny | ||
Father | Patrimony | P. Roth | All | Novel about a Father & his son | |
Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | See Index | as advocate(278-9), & daughter(274-6), & power(46), & single Mothers(272) | ||
Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | & active role(222), & danger(138)(223), & difference(139), & father-to-be(66-7), of girl(221), as haven for disappearing Mother(216), & masculine(219-20), & separateness(138) | |||
The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | as extension of Mother-child world(91), & games w/(118), & gender identity(215-6), & identification w/(132)(183) | ||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.33-40 | & animus(36), & father myth(33), & Odysseus(35) | ||
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | & blaming(138), & changing symbolic significance of divorced_(126), & childrens ambivalent feelings for(96, & commitment of _ influenced by new wife(274-5), & divorced childrens opinions about(137), & father-daughter rel.(194), & fathers re-entry into childrens life(175), & healthy, loving rel. w/(135), & impact on mother/daughter rel.(202), & lack of friendship w/ adult children(139), & losing _ @ 6/7(boy)(96), & stepfathers(239), & weakened father/child succession(136)(251-2) | |
Men, and | Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | & aging of(158-64)(261-2), & bitterness of(104-5), & daughter (187-8)(245), & expressing love for(79), & fatherhood(205) (211-2)(222-3)(237)(275), & grief over absence of(260)(270), & hunger for(80-1), & loneliness of(14)(149)(165)(337), & lost childhood of(221)(239), & masculinity(164)(229), & memories of(77), & mentors(193), & Mother inside of(185), & rage(111) (234)(237-9), & reclaiming of (279-80)(316-8), & reconciliation (163), & saving is from Mother(95) (266-9), & separation from (216), & shame(12)(53)(81)(85)(92-3) (224)(228)238), & son(66) (73-4)(79)(242)(269)(358), & wounded (67)(84-5)(194)(255)(263) (272-3) | |
Finding our Fathers | S. Osherson | All | |||
Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & death of(38-9)(168), & good provider(18), & hunger for(166), & midlife(42)(141), & son(37), & success of children(163) | ||
Dad | W. Wharton | All | |||
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & competing w/ Mother(55), & grandiosity/entitlement(56), & idealization(56), & 2 perspectives-1)feeling trapped 2)as means of control(53-4), & remaining bound to Mother(52) | |
Fear | The Aquarian Conspiracy | M. Ferguson | of learning(291), & transformation of(115) | ||
Conversations with God | N. Walsch | & choice(18-9), & love(56-7)(130), as one of only 2 emotions(15) | |||
Feelings | W. Gaylin | See Index | & anger(18)(187), & anticipation vs anxiety(20-1)(202), & delusions (35), & displacement(35), & guilt(41-2)(90), & oral/sexual gratification(37), & somatization(36), & upset(90) | ||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & anger(146)(148), of annihilation(68), vs anxiety(87), & concern (170), of death(146), vs depression(137)(147), of ego breakdown (87), & environment(146), of going insane(101), & guilt(202), & hate(386-7), & infantile(85-6)(170)(186)(285), of loss of contact (101), & love (150)(386), of persecution(283), & regression(148) (212), as ultimate problem(13)(85-6)(212)(237)(239), & weakness (171)(174), & withdrawal(66), of world(68) | ||
Freud | J. Lear | vs anxiety(154), vs dread(154), & fear of dev. of emotional life(38), as having dev. history(53), & implicit claim that it is an appropriate response(33),& mature expression of vs infantile(34-6)(39), as responsive to thought(34) | |||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | as result of too much future, not enough present(61), of something that might happen vs now(43) | |||
Terrors and Experts | A. Phillips | Ch.3 | & anxiety as defence against(59-62), & defences(47), & definition of (50), & fantasy(48), & future set in past(52-3)(57-9), as pleasure (48), & repetition as hope(53)(58), as symptom of knowledge(53) (56-7), & terror(49), & what is missing(52) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | of abandonment(11)(110)(273-4), of death(341)(343)(346), of fantasies(179), of intimacy by boys(130), of Mother for child(237-8), of separation(22), of separation by girls(130) | ||
Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | & anxiety as combination of anticipation & fear(56), & autonomic activity come from both(43)(45)(55), & facial expression can produce, not just reflect(55), & fear produced by real threats, anxiety by threats from within(57), & if we cant control something theres no value in fearing it, since fear accomplishes nothing(12), & pathological anxiety result of physiological fear response that has no legitimate object or is disproportionate to size of threat(44), & startle response(54) | ||
of Breakdown | In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | Ch.4 | as death(45), of emptiness(46-7), & into omnipotent control(43), & 5 primitive agonies(42), as something that has already happened(42-3), w/ therapist(43-4) | |
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | of abandonment(31-2), of being hurt & rejected(31)(150), & blaming self(63), of commitment(151), of conflict(56)(285-6), & fear of repeating parents hist.(31),& hiding upset showing as(271-2), & ideas of mate built on(73), of loneliness(73), of loss(61), & not having feelings(56)(62-3)(263-4)(279-81), & nothing is stable(62-3), & staying part of adult char.(62), when parents broke up(6)(62-3) | |
of Life | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.141-2 | ||
Men, and | Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | See Index | of annihilation in Mother as deepest(51), & controlling vs placating (58), vs external accomplishments(43), of feminine within(58)(60) (102-3)(110), as governed by(24-5)(94), & hero archetype(40), & machoism(36)(40), of men(125), of needs not being met(110), of not being a real man(102), of not truly living his life(126)as opposite of love(125), & therapy(122-3), of unc material(42), of women(35)(43) | |
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | of closeness to Mother (144), & failure(226), & shame(105) | |||
Parents for Children | The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | as basis to overprotect children(93)(95)(108), & believing fear= reliable indicator of danger(107), of insulting dignity of child, dignity far more attuned to than their own(71), & manic defence against(2201-1), & not sparing children ordinary happiness(96), & physical protectiveness=from serious threat or injury, over-protectiveness=against life(106)(108), & shielding from emotional or physical discomfort(32-3)(91), of uncertain future for(43), & worrier parents=worrying children(97) | ||
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | of abandonment(53)(167), of betrayal(90), & daughters(121), of loss of desire(87) | ||
of Women | Fear of Women | W. Lederer | All |
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Feelings/Affect/ Emotion | The Transforming Power of Affect(A-M) | D. Fosha | See Index | & ability to experience & process intense affective exp. fundamental to psychic health(71), & affect facilitating environment(59-60)(68) (71-2)(75)(92)(336), & affects of transformation(19-20)(28) (163) (233)(311-2), & affective competence((42)(50-1)(58-60)(68)(71) (73-4)(92)(142)(156)(263)(296)(336), & affective exp. in interactive context as central agent of change(61), & affective mastery(162) (165), & affective resonance(273), & affective sharing(22)(149-50)(232), & attachment(46)(74)(336), & aversive(111)(113)(117) (120)(154-5)(252), & bearable vs unendurable neg.(66-7)(75)(79-82), & body involvement(17)(279-80), & categorical(15)(138-141) (148), & construction of affective holding env.(62-3), & core(15)(20-4)(26)(28)(72-3)(106)(117-8)(137)(140)(160)(191) (306)(312)(329), & deal & not feel(42)(118), & defensive(40)(85-6)(115)(120)(156), & dealing w/ own affective exp. as caregiver dealt w/ him(85), & developed in transitional space between self & other(22)(71-2), & difficulty in tolerating intense positive _(70), & distinguishing between an emotion, the feeling of that emotion & knowing that we have a feeling of that emotion(238), & emotion vs emotionality(159), & emotional communication(30), & emotional pain(90)(141)(166-7)(176), & emotional-truth-telling narrative(160), of exploratory system(36-7), & failures in regulating(74-5), & feel & not deal(42-3)(118), & feeling deeply & being @ ease=psychic health(311), & feeling understood(17)((55), & green-signal(112) (114)(258), & healing _(153)(163)(171-4)(177)(227)(337), & important motivator & organizer of human behaviour(14), & internal affective holding env.(22)(62-3)(142), & linking core affect w/ shame, anxiety or guilt=out of control feeling(117), & mediate the interaction between individual & emotional environment(14) | |
The Transforming Power of Affect(N-Z) | D. Fosha | & patterns of affective congruence(130-1), & plays primary role in both self-regulation & regulation of exp. of others(14)(23), & positive relational _(67)(70)(177), & preserving integrity of attachment ties vs affective self-experience(71)(83), & receptive affective exp.(151-3), & red-signal(111)(114)(118)(140)(256), as reflecting selfs appraisal of env. & how he is related to what is going on(23-4)(114), & reflective self-function depends on affective competence(45)(54)(57-8), & relative balance of fear & felt security fundamental to the working of attachment(45-6)(74), & releasing adaptive action tendencies(21)(26-7)(113)(143)(147)(158)(289), & relief follows expression of core(21)(120), as royal road to Unc(21), & secondary affective reactions(114), & signal(104)(106)(114)(116-7), & signifying moving out(25), & sources of info. & personal meaning(14), & true other experiencing in state of deep affective contact(176), & 5 types of affective phenomena in any dyadic emotional interaction(125), & underlie exp. of authenticity & liveliness(14), & visceral exp. of(20)(24-5)(129)(137-8)(261)(276) (335-6), & vitality _(142)(146), & vulnerability(147), as wired-in, adaptive, expressive communicative aspect of human exp.(13), & w/o access to not possible to understand another persons intentionality(24) | |||
Feelings | A. Kenny | CTP 97-8 History of Ideas All | vs sensation & perception | ||
Love & its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | & always attached to appropriate idea(91-2), & analysis rescuing rationality of(90-1), & catharsis(36)(53-4)(59), & comes w/ its own justification(49),= discharge of energy caused by an idea or awareness of discharge as expressed in bodily function(87), in dreams(89), & emotion in conflict /w beliefs(32)(50-1), & emotional acceptance & Cs awareness are of a piece(58), & emotional well-being required to transform archaic mental functioning to genuine secondary process(112), & emotionally oriented inward as well as outward(159), & holding oneself responsible for vs accepting(66-7), & hysterics(33-4)(45)(56)(58-9)(66), & identification as emotional tie w/ another person(161), & journey from appropriate to inappropriate idea(92), & love as emotional orientation to world (153), & not reached full dev. until able to express an explanation & justification of its own occurrence(50), as, in part, orientations(58), & providing a framework through which the world is viewed(32) (50)(92), & putting _ into words=unification of a Cs appreciation of a significant past exp. w/ an emotional response that is a genuine response(33)(46-7), & re-enactment of(68), & relief in experiencing overcoming the divorce between thought & appropriate feeling(46), & repression as transformation of(68)(88)(91-2), as that which the idea would bring about if it could(88), & 2 failures of rationalizing emotion(50-1) | ||
Conversations with God | N. Walsch | See Index | vs knowledge(83), & love as summation of all _(83), & soul as sum total of(74), & what is true for you(3) | ||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | & anger as perversion of love transformed in crucible of frustration (101), & anxiety=restricted excitement(101), & certain powerful reactions have capacity to take hold of us & drive our behaviour(77), & disappointment(100), & enduring frustration(100), & fearing(99), & envy contracted form of empathy(101), & fearing loss of self(99), & feeling of I am not(85), & follow the affect|(100-1), & knowing ourselves via our judgments(94), & not questioning reality (77), & psychological emptiness(86-7), & restraining by restraining reaction to emotion that leads to impulsive action(99), & skilful & unskillful(101), & using _ to trace a path back to those moments in time when our natural openness, excitement or self-expression was frustrated(101) | |||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | & attuned response to childs expansive_(31), & crucial role in nonverbal communication between child & caregiver that forms basis for attachment(27-8), & family providing meaning for(143-4), & partner successful or unsuccessful regulation of(37) | |||
Dancing w/ Fire | J. Amodeo | See Index | & continue to recycle same emotions when fail to unearth underlying feelings & longings(139), & curious paradox is that when I can accept myself just as I am, then I can change-Rogers (208), & keeping company of=focussing(215), & present moment only moment in which our experience can be encountered & transformed & it is transformed only through its acceptance(208) | ||
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | & affective aliveness generated by mutual spontaneity(138)(146), & affective honesty must be balanced w/ affective safety(108)(134) (140-1), & direct link of addictive behaviour to affect dysregulated relationship to attachment disruption(157), & failure to provide needed soothing leads to profound impairment in affective self-regulation(156), & linking dreams w/ surprise(42), & speaking w/ affective honesty in human relations not possible nor desirable(141), & switch in self-state vs change in affect(141), & when traumatic remains unsymbolized cognitively(136)(181) | ||
Feelings | W. Gaylin | All | |||
Affect Blindness | Love & War | S. Tatkin | P. 210 |
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Affect Contagion | Love & War | S. Tatkin | P. 211 |
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Attachment Theory, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & affect attunement(53-4), & affect attunement vs mimicry(106), & primary function to help us evaluate experience of the world & guide our actions in adaptive fashion(136), & reading the body for(295), & translating body language into feeling(295) | |
Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | & affect vs emotion(81-2), & flooding of self(118), as indifferent, passive & resigned(16), & rarely show affection(16), & unrealistic plans(16), & unthought known cannot be historicized when powerful emotion arrives(80) | ||
Couples, and | Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & become emotionally intelligent in secure rel.(79-80), & bypassing A emotions & messages(226), & can spur us to act even when survival does not appear to be immediate issue(67), & designed to deal w/ emotion in concert w/ another esp. in midst of distress & fear(63), & effective dependence(21)(24)(65), & emotional commitment in marriage(155-7), & empathy(24)(102), & erosion of emotional responsiveness(157-8)(185-8), & fear most fascinating & powerful of(23)(74-5), & to feel for someone is root of caring action(63), as great communicator(67-8), & hurt a composite of anger, sadness & fear(77), & 6 innate & universal emotions: fear, anger, happiness or joy, sadness, surprise & shame(68-70), as info.-processing & signalling system(66)(76)(79), & isolation(22)(64)(77) (270), & learn nature of in 1 st A(78), & learning to love=learning to tune in to our emotions(65), & positive(81), & reappraisal vs reactive emption(73), & suppression of(73), & surest way to destroy people is deny loving human contact(22), & tend to focus on neg. emotions as relevant to survival(80), & transform existence into experience(62) | |
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | as aberrant form of grief(412), & action appears to the human eye to reflect _(403), & depression linked to emotional sensitivity(414), & disentangling depression & grief(402), & disjunction of instinct, emotion & cognition(414-5), & emotion as weather & mood as climate(403), & illness as extreme state of & emotion as mild form of illness(22), & selective advantages of(403)(413-4), & sensations tend to trigger_(402) | ||
Dysregulation, and | Love & War | S. Tatkin | See Index | & ability to accurately represent & sequence events highly compromised & ability to appraise intension(113), & attending to each others eyes & faces(115), & breach of safety & security system(107), & cannot hold & wait(112), & content spreading(112), & couples as regulatory team(116), = freaking out, & goes together w/ A insecurity(106), & high arousal(angry-resistant) couples(108-9), & hyperarousal behaviours overly expansive-mania, rage, terror, aggressiveness, grandiosity(108), & hypoarousal behaviours overly constrictive-dissociation, anaclitic depression, incapacitating shame, deadness(108), & insecure couples(115), & intensity & duration correlates w/ _(107)(134), & kindling effect (108-9), & low arousal (avoidant) couples(110), & matching(125), & neg. emotions become amplified(108), & no sense of play(112), & occurs in response to intense &/or lengthy breakdown of interactive reg.(107-8)(112), & parents anger(106), & slow recovery from spikes in arousal system(112), & survival vs prosocial values & behaviours(108), & tensing & relaxing(134-5), & well-reg.(secure)couples(112)(114-5)(134) | |
Men, and | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & avoidance of(340), & crying(346-7)(350), & fear of(342), & mid-life(351), & negative(337), & powerlessness(351), & suppression of (336-7)(353), & therapist as feeling hero(352), & volcano effect (334-5) | |
The Hazards of Being Male | H. Goldberg | Ch.4 | & asking for help(47-8)(59)& crying(50) | ||
Mindsight, and | Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & attunement w/ childs primary _(129), & defenses that shut down(131-2), & emotional arousal activates neuroplasticity when we participate[ate in an activity that is important or meaningful to us(85), & fight, flight or freeze=emotional reactions to emotional responses(131-2), & grief(6-7), & impairments to emotional well-being=movements of mind away from integration(67), & learning to track internal states(129), & melancholic depression(10), & narrating facts w/o autobio. detail(106), & primary emotion is subtle music of the mind(128-9), & reversing flow of(99-101), & shutting off awareness of _, but continue to affect us anyway(124-5)(127) (131), & universally recognized ie categorical(168-9), & using left language centers to calm excessively firing right emotional areas(116) | |
Not Getting It, and | Missing Out | A. Phillips | & anxiety as warning of any feeling impulse or action that could threaten primary bond w/ caretakers→ not getting them(39),as determined avoidance(57-8), as an essential, self-protective project → estrangement from emotional core & others(41-2), & getting it as avoidance(57-8), & humiliation always a form of not getting it(47), as malign helplessness(54), & parents inability to get childs full range of emotions(42), & real feeling replaced by defences(41), & selective recognition(43), & superego command You must get it! (in order to qualify as member of our group)(47), & the idea of replacement(42), & wanting to be understood(59)(61) | ||
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & brings self-organization to the mind(59), & categorical(59), & communication that involves an awareness of(57), & creating meaningful connections through sharing feelings(248), & emotion, meaning & social connection created by same neural processes(60) (226), & emotional connections create meaning & affect self & other understanding(58-9), & emotional resonance(60-1), & influence reasoning(75), as a process that integrates distinct entities into a functional whole(59)(77-8), & regulates the mind & are regulated by the mind(77), & sharing & amplification of positive _(57), & soothing & reduction of neg. _(57-8) | |
Regulation of | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & benign circle of(143-4), as bridge to reflective mode of exp.(48), as connected to body(63), & contingent & marked mirroring(49-50), & deactivation/hyperactivation(103), & deactivation when parents responses to childs _ aversive(101), as driving action(63), as fundamental to developing sense of self(63-4), & hyperactivation when parents response to childs _ unpredictable(101-2), & interactive(48-9), as intuitive appraisals of own states or exp.(63-4), & legacy of misattuned(50-1), & linking w/ bodily states(130), & mentalizing(49)(144)(324-5), & mindfulness(325), & primary attachment strategy based on(101), & providing int. value system (64), & representation of(147), & secondary attachment strategy based on(101), & secure attachments(48)(100-1), via talking cure(147), & trauma(103), & window of tolerance(144) | |
A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & affect storms of(46), & affective resonance(57), & expressing agency(101), & family modeling of(112), & going from hurtful to harmful(256), & impairment in mentalization undermines capacity for(94)(100), & lack of safety(100), & mutually traumatizing relationship(54), & shame, blame & guilt(52) | |||
Love & War | S. Tatkin | See Index | & alternating tension & relaxation(134-5), & for angry-resistant periods of noninteraction lead to intense dysreg. state=high energy expenditure(102-3), & attack-defend(181), & autoreg. can=difficulty in tracking time & space(212), & autoreg. as do-it-yourself management strategy for calming & stimulating oneself(102), & for avoidant style=energy conserving(102), & couple as reg. team(116), & excitement as unreg. state(101), by internal automatic(Unc) & voluntary(Cs) means & external through intervention of significant others(99), & interactive(103), & N appear as reg. interactively but actually autoreg. & using others(103), & 1-person psychological system of nonmutuality(102), & primary partners as(101), & self_ based on effectiveness of caregiver to regulate their arousal(100-1), & strong intensity @ long duration recipe for rel. trauma(134), & taking a deep breath, use distraction, meditation, exercise, talking to someone, alcohol, drugs, sex, violence, etc(101) | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | See Index | as emergent, self-organizing processes of relational systems-fluid, context=sensitive, nonlinear & contingent(26), & emotional convictions as conditions under which we believe our relationships are subject to orderly mutual influence(37), & intensity of leads to a sense of certainty that our interactions w/ others will or will not conform to our need for orderly, reciprocal engagement(27), as transforming experience of uncertainty & certainty(26) | |
Femininity | Men, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | & crying as weak(49), as feminized man(57), in male as victim(41), & proving masculinity(35) |
Women, and | Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | & being(139-43), & body(360-2), & boy vs girl(28)(267), & Father (191), & Freud(15)(89), & integration(256), & maternity(390-1), & pathology(258-61), & playthings(255), & psychoanalysis(11), & repression of unc(12-3), & vagina(95)(259-61) | ||
The Robber Bride | M. Atwood | All | |||
Feminism | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & 3 forms of(9), & culture(9-10)(283)(289), & language(133-5), & militance(302), & Oedipal Father(345), & psychoanalysis(13)(213) (283)(347)(400), as radical(357-8), as separation from Mother(342) (344), & sexism(359), & Unc(11)(321) | |
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & PTSD(28), & rape(129-32), & study of hysteria(16-7) | |||
Males, and | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & dependence(359-60), & intimacy(200), & killing(227-8), & men as enemy(355-6), & sexism(223-4)(249)(259) | |
Fetishism | Fear of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & all cultural contrivances self-hypnotic devices ways a sorely limited animal can dream up to fascinate himself w/ powers of transcendence over natural reality(236), & desire has to be fetishized to strip partner of awesomeness & power & so overcome our general helplessness in face of her(242), of the foot(237), as the manageable miracle, while partner is not(241), perversion(241), & pills form of, ways of overcoming anxiety, terror of body, in a reassuring magical way(236), & the secret ritual, club, formula = power to control the given by the hidden & thus power to transcend the given nature, fate, animal destiny(237-8), & the secret as mans illusion par excellence, the denial of the bodily reality of his destiny(238), & transvestism(238)(240), as universal(236), as way of transforming reality(235) |
Firstborns | Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | & favourite child(97-8), & jealousy(86) | ||
Fisher King | Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | Ch.4 | & legend of(51-4), & males(52), & mid-life(53) | |
Men, and | Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | P. 77-8 | ||
Flooding | The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work | J. Gottman | See Index | & harsh set-up(27)(160-1)(163-6), & men vs women(37-9), as predictor of divorce(34-6), & questionnaire about(177-8) | |
Focusing | Focusing | E. Gendlin | All | ||
Self-Relations, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | & centring(5), & definition of(4), & development by T(5-6), & disconnection of language from(40), & experience of something greater(22-3)(45-6), & humour(45), of life flowing through(8), & narrational state of Cs(45), & not-doing/not-knowing(105), & not too loose, not too tight(41), & tender soft spot(5) | |
Forgiveness | Women who run with the Wolves | C. Estes | P. 370-3 | 4 stages of | |
Toxic Parents | S. Forward | P. 186 | & absolution(186), & revenge(186) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | P. 189-90 | & compensation(190), & mourning(189-90, vs revenge(189) | ||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | See Index | & destiny(179), & every moment(178) | ||
How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | All |
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Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | P. 186-8 | & archetypes(187-8), & ego(186), & guilt(186-7), & humanism(186-8) | ||
Cognitive Errors, and | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 78-83 |
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Men, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | P. 254-8 | & 7 suggestions about(254-6), & revenge(257), & self-forgiveness (258) | |
Self, and | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 173-4 |
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Fragmentation | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & neurosis(24), & Oedipal self(14)(16)(24), & self(70)(24-5) | |
Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | See Index | & affects(67)(91), & definition of(21-2), & sex/aggression(22) | ||
Frames | Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & brackets(201-2), & culture as bracket of(209)(213), & definition of(197), & language(200), & laughter(212), & managing anxiety (214), as official main focus for attention(201), & the reality we attend to(199), & roles(206-8), & scripts(198), & social sets(200) (209-11), & steering attention away from compelling events(217) | ||
Free Association | The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | P. 15-6 | & intimacy | |
The Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | See Index | as clients creating themselves(173)(175-6), description of(65-6) (68), as fostering mystery(2), as the informatively incoherent(1-2) | ||
Freud Volume 9 | S. Freud | P. 20-1 | & resistance to(21), vs suggestion(20) | ||
The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | See Index | & law of association by simultaneity(223-4), & memory retranscription(224)(229-30), & neural fire together wire together(224)(231), & reliving vs remembering(225), & storage of trauma events as 1-2 yrs(237) | ||
The Freudian Moment | C. Bollas | See Index | & abandoning observing ego(13), & avoiding reflection, expectation & memory(13)(61), .& chain of ideas(9), & client resistance to(19), & destroying by selective listening(9)(66-7), & dreams (9-10)(20)(72-3), & explicit question answered by v. next topic(18), & free talking(8)(79)(90), & hearing from the everyday(11)(20) (43), & interpretation of(19), & silence(45), & practical reasons for(56), & talking about irrelevant revealing Unc. ideas(11)(96), & theory of(78-9), as theory of mental life(16-7), & transf.(52)(92) (94-7)(99), & Unc. to Unc.(13), & the work of the negative(97) | ||
Cracking Up | C. Bollas | See Index | & complex(60), & condensation(49), as creative destruction(53), & dissemination(55-7), & dreams(4)(57), & freedom(69-70), & knowing(169), & play(17-8), & pleasure(46-7), & self-abandonment(156), & silence(29), & unc communication(11-3) | ||
of Analyst | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & denial(181), & dreams(109-11)(113), & errors(112)(132), & inner free association(107)(110)(129), as impingement(116), vs interpretation(113-4), & narcissistic investment in(104)(115), & projected by client(97), & questions(111-2), & selective disclosure (113), & simple vs complex self(102-3)(106), & transference/ countertrans.(187) | |
Freedom | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | See Index | & anxiety(67), & Cs of(134), & limits of(177-8), & social respon. (177)(212), & to say no(215), & structure(141) | |
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | P. 146 | & true salvation | ||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | See Index | as already present within us but we allow it to be obscured by our own clinging(xx), & bringing our A into awareness(38-9), & comes when mind can recognize its own nature, beyond clinging, influencing the everyday w/ wisdom(82), & coming from restraint of minds tendency to grasp or push away, to reify things or deny their reality(25), & depends on awareness(134), & nirvana Buddhas word for=capacity to maintain ones composure in face of ceaseless change(77), & pleasure of being counters tendency to seek freedom from somewhere outside ourselves(70-1), & a sense of space(38-9) | ||
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | & capacity for self-Cs reflection(11), & self-Cs reflection as manifestation of unfreedom(12-3), & thinking that subverts(14) | ||
Existential, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & avoiding(323-4), & isolation(357-8)(360-1), & meaninglessness(466), & responsibility(218-85), & 4 ultimate concerns(8-9), & willing(286-350) | |
Freud, Sigmund | Attachment | J. Bowlby | & anxiety(329-30), & attachment(179)(211)(216)(224)(229), vs behavioural systems(18)(83)(172-3), & energy model(15-6), vs ethology(102), & infantile sexuality(144)(158)(230), & instinct theory(146-7), & traumatic theory(10-1), & working backwards(4) | ||
The Discovery of the Unconscious | H. Ellenberger | Ch.7 | life × of, personality, contemporaries, his work, his sources, his influence | ||
Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & denial(167), & dreams(12-3)(22)(83), & father complex(238-9), & free association(107)(109), & homosexuality(149)(155-6), & illusion (186-7), & self traumatization(241), & unc communication(95) | ||
Feelings | W. Gaylin | See Index | & conscience(50), & incest taboo(69) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & hysteria(10)(12-4)(18), & repetition compulsion(41), & sexual exploitation(30)(188-9), & traumatic memory(175-7), & traumatic neurosis(37)(50) | ||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & archetypal psychology(131), & depth psychology(20)(65)(139) (160)(216), & infantile sexuality(155)& libido(185), vs mythical(20) (100), & pathologizing(55-6)(70-1)(81)(108), & personifying(18), & psychologizing(117), & religion(228) | ||
Between Client and Therapist | M. Kahn | Ch. 2 | & comparison to self psychology & intersubjective, & psychopathology(54-6), & transference/countertrans.(Ch. 2) | ||
Eating Pavlova | D. Thomas | All | Novel about last days | ||
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | as being seduced(190), & body ego(349), as Darwin of psychology (293), & his fear of women(176)(191), & feminine(180), & gender difference(100)(218), & libido(178), vs masculine(180), & parents fear of children(396-7), & phallic Mother(116-7)(192), & superego (32), & US(5), & vagina(118)(348), & women(9), & women analysts (211)(249) | |
Friendship | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & primary elements of emotional bonding(219), & questions on(105), as relational level(203)(210-1)(240), & romantic love(211) | |
The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | & Nietzsches definition(404) | |||
New Passages | G. Sheehy | & fifties age(154-5), & male(253)(277) | |||
Soulmates | T. Moore | Ch.5 | & community(106)(109), & convivium(104-6), & cultivation of(96-7), & intimacy(93-4), & loss of(93), & not-doing(95), & paranoia (101), & soul-making(98-9), as a world(92-3) | ||
The Consolations of Philosophy | A. de Botton | P. 147 | & mingling of souls | ||
Pathfinders | G. Sheehy | See Index | & men(121)(210-5), & passages(208-10), & women(21)(212-3) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | Ch. 12 | & 6 categories of(197-9), & adolescence(196), & ambivalence(187), in joy(188), & loss of ideal(201-2), & male/male, male/female, female/female(193-6), & personal growth(199-201), & sexual feelings(189-92) | ||
Marriage, and | The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work | J. Gottman | See Index | & accepting influence(106), as basis for happy marriage(17)(19-20), & positivity vs negativity(20-1), & repair attempts(22) | |
Men, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | & intimacy(171-3), & listening(253-4), & reactions(281-9), & recovery(275-81) | |
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | P. 266 | & side by side intimacy | ||
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | & absence of(301)(331), & alienation(299)(310), & asking(297) (344), & authority(302), & discomfort w/ male(290-1)(302), & dominant/subordinate(303), & hunger for(298)(304), & manliness (297)(302), & rage(293), & sexuality(304)(306-7), & shame(297) | ||
Fromm, Erich | The Wing of Madness | J. Burston | See Index | & authenticity(158), & deviant sexual practices(180-2), & roots of human violence(225), & social filters(96), & socially patterned defects(155) | |
Mans Search for Himself | R. May | See Index | & anonymous authority(25), & boredom(260), & dreams(115) | ||
Frustration | The Maturational Processes & the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & ego-capacity(141), & not-me world(181) | ||
The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | & alpha function(70), & definition of(69), & dreams(78), & evasion of as crucial decision for mental growth(6)(67-8)(70), & mating of realization & pre-conception(117), & PS to D move(80), & psychotic part intolerant of(69)(117)(158-9), & risking emotional engagement vs extracting facts from T(28), & tolerance of(117) | |||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | See Index | & decision to evade our modify(13)(25), as essential preparation for desire(xx), & failure of imagination=unwillingness to bear w/ _(25)932), & filling void w/ conviction(12), & finding a place where your needs work for you(27), & 1 st false solution to feeling frustrated-invention of an ideal object of desire w/ whom we will never feel the frustration we fear(19), & hate satisfaction ever more (29), & if someone can satisfy you they can frustrate you(15), & 4 kinds of(20), & madness about _(169), & need to bear w/ to sustain our sense of reality(29), & at our most self-deceiving in states of(12-3)(31), as optimistic, a form of faith(8), & people become real to us by frustrating us (29), & our possibilities for satisfaction depend upon our capacity for frustration(xix)(14), as problem that desire discloses(29), & reality only thing that can satisfy us(25-6), & satisfaction begins & ends w/ _(26)(31), & self-cure for= omniscience(26), as temptation scene(13-4), & the thing we are least able to let ourselves feel(27), & thought makes bearable by figuring it out & doing it & frustration makes thought possible(24), & turned into revenge(21), as unbearable form of self-doubt(12), & wish to frustrate ourselves(28), & would rather destroy everything than let other people change us(10)(13), & you know someone matters to you if they can frustrate you(15) | ||
The Consolations of Philosophy | A. de Botton | P. 80 | & At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish w/ an unyielding reality | ||
Playing & Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | & anger(80), vs being(81), & good-enough Mother(10), & infants experience of(10-1)(98), & intermediate zone(105) | ||
Functions, psychological | Modern Man in Search of a Soul | C. Jung | P.91-3 | ||
Fusion | Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | & defences against(319-220)(342-5) |
Existentialism, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | case example(114-6), as dependent(378), & isolation(380-1), & masochism/sadism(382), w/ therapist(405 ) | ||
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | & Abandon Self all Ye who enter Here(121), & developmental arrest @ fusion w. caregiver(75), & feeding need for admiration(125), & idealization(128), & interpersonal boundaries(142-3), & maintaining obliteration of loved ones separateness(127)(134), & others seeing partner in idealized way(124), & partner as means to negotiate different parts of himself(123), & partner as mirror(127-8), & people as extensions(75), & rapprochement(42), & 2 types of people of use to N-1)they can pump up 2)they can put down(123-4) | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Gaslighting | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & inability of child to sustain belief in her subjective reality because perceptions contained info. threatening to caregivers(3), & trying to convince someone theyre going insane(3) | |
Gender | Keeping the Love you Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | & contrasexual self(188-96), & exercises for early sexual experience (204-6), & gender energy balance exercise(202-3), vs role(192), & sexual relationship vision exercise(207-8) | |
Men, and | Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | & anger(81)(83)(89)& death(210), & intimacy(227-8), & masculinity (226), & sex(233)(239)(244-5), & sickness(210-1)(227), & talking (228)(278), & work(152)(175-8) | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | & aggressive/sexual exp an expression of disavowed qualities(88) (90-1)(100), & children slowly acquire a sense of themselves as masc. or fem. only after they know themselves as sexed beings (89), & dichotomous gender as trauma-generated relational patterns to transform unbearable exp. of uncertainty(92-3), & experience of sameness w/ opposite sex may cost children relational basis for psychological survival→ trauma(91), & the gender-secured self(90), & homophobia(91), & notion of core gender unnecessary(89), & trauma when deviated form stereotypic femininity(96-7) | ||
Women, and | Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | & boys vs girls(32)(431-2), & core gender identity( m & f)(20)(27) (278-9)(287)(430-1), & crucial age for(167)(283)(313), & differentiation(428-9)433), & homosexuality(23)(166-7), & identity (283-4), & Mother(429)(431), & relational notion of difference(421) (432), & self-designation(314), & separateness(423), & sex-typing (431), & sexual development(262-70), & sexual experience/orgasm (238-40)(311-2) | ||
Genera | Being a Character | C. Bollas | Ch. 4 | & analysis(93), & creativity(71), & definition of(67-70), & destiny drive(70-1), & dreams(83), & ego(84), & intuition(78)(89-94), & play(76), & steps in formation of(88-9), & trauma(66-9)(79-80) | |
Genetics | Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | See Index | & ability of mind to change(333), & account for 30% of individual difference in vulnerability to anxiety disorders(264), & anxious temperament innate, genetically determined phenomenon(268), & cannot be predicted by(294), & combining genetic susceptibility w/ life-stressors that overwhelm individuals ability to cope(142)(286) (333), & genes encode anxiety as well as self(278), & if born highly reactive & inhibited tend to stay that way(268), & instinctive fears evolutionarily selected for(278)(280), & link between brain activity & subjectively experienced levels of anxiety(273), ­ gene (270), & susceptibility to anxiety strongly determined by(264)(276), & worriers vs warriors(274) |
Genogram | Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | Ch. 2 | & definition of(41), & generational themes(47)(55), & intimate relationships(51-2)(56), & marriage(83), & triangling(7) | |
Grace | The Road Less Traveled | S. Peck | P.281-312 | & adulthood(305), & God(281)(283)(300)(312), & laziness(301), & mental illness(282-3)(290)(293)(296), & serendipity(308)(310), & the unc(282) | |
Grandiosity | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & depression(102), & humour (96), & identification(103), & narcissism(91-3)(103)(182-3), & therapy w/(175-6) | |
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | & admiration(40), & depression(43)(45), & envy(41), & fantasy(16-7), & mourning(85)(103) | |||
Psychoanalysis of Developmental Arrests | R. Stolorow | Ch. 5 | & analysis w/(80-1), & envy/rage(84-5), & harnessing in service of realistic goals(73), as idealization of others(69-70), as idealization of self(64), & narcissistic pathology(85-6), as serving detachment(78-9)(83), & therapist as self-object(81) | ||
Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | P. 81-3 | vs archaic expansion | ||
The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | p. 303 | & existential therapy | ||
Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & addiction(161), & conditional(180), & depression(65)(83), & masculinity(171-2), & merger/elevation(65), & performance(168) (183), & shame(55-6), & violence(65)(69) | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & closet N.(8-9), & addicts(111)(115), & N. Father(53)(55), & N. Mother(48-52), & rapprochement phase(42), & symbiosis phase(50) | |
Gratification | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | instant vs long term(67)(69), in relational styles(66-8)(84-6) | |
Greed | Missing Out | A. Phillips | P. xix | as despair about pleasure | |
Gridlock | The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work | J. Gottman | See Index | & cause of(133)(217-8)(220), & dreams as desires vs threats(236), & humour(241), & 3 levels of honouring partners dreams(233-4), & removing the hurt(234), & solvable vs perpetual problems(134-6), & uncovering hidden dreams(224) | |
Grief/Mourning | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | P. 52-9 | & abandonment depression(59), & healthy(58), & unhealthy{3 phases}(58) | |
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | See Index | & depression(43)(85), & guilt(85), & illusion of childhood(101) | ||
Terrors and Experts | A. Phillips | P.78 | & attachment | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & avoidance of(109), & depression(109-10), &shadow of the object fell upon the ego(109) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | Ch. 16 | & anger(269), of childhood(167-8), & chronic(279), of dead child (285-7), & death(267), & definition of(265), & delayed(280), & dreams/hallucinations(272), at an early age(285), & guilt(269-70), & idealization(270), & identification(278), & internalization(278), of marriage(289-90), & mummification(279-80), of parents(294-5), & phases of(266-75), & repetition(79), of sibling(291-2), of spouse(288-9), & stress(281), & symbiotic union w/ Mother(73) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & combat neurosis(25), as countertrans.(144), & groups(222-4)(228), of moral integrity(192-3), & recovery(155)(188)(195), & resistance to(188-9), of stolen childhood(193), from telling of trauma story (188), & trauma resolution(69) | ||
Darwins Worms | A. Phillips | & ability to mourn whole notion of permanence ie God or Truth(28), = acknowledgement of transience s/b a release & a benefit(123), & changing ones habits(131), & fate of being alive has to be deemed more satisfying that fate of being dead(123), & free-association akin to(132), & if nothing else lasts, mourning can(28), as necessary suffering that makes more life possible(27), & the past influences everything & dictates nothing(29) | |||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | Ch.11/12 | as active work(92-3), & anger(99-100)(103-5), & definition of(85), & forgiveness(104), & protecting parents as block to(101-3), & unresolved(85-6), & ungrieved loss as alive in unc.(89) | ||
Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | of dead parent already psychotically dead(304), inability to(296) (343), as murderous in unc(314), & parents inability to(343-5), & splitting(310-1), & therapy to release(345) | |
Death Awareness, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p. 167-8 | ||
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & depression an aberrant form of(412), & grief depression in proportion to circumstance, depression=grief out of proportion(16), in grief the world becomes poor & empty, in depression the ego becomes poor & empty(324), & most important function of in formation of attachment(412), & putting an end to→ license monstrous behaviour(434) | |
Development, and | Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | of childhood(268), & depressive position(3)(14)(46)(76-7)(112)121), & guilt(4)(77), & mourning vs melancholia(77), & reality testing (112), & reparation(44)(74) | |
Eye Disorders, and | Blepharitis and Grieving | TPR June 99 | P. 23-25 | as physical expression of grief | |
Helping, and | The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | See Index | & helper _(44-5), & loss of control central exp. of(146), & Rilke live the questions(179), & trivialization of(193-4) | |
Males, and | Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | & anger(257-8), & Father(257-8)(260)(272)(318), for Mother(270), the past(130), & rescue(260), as resistance to real contact(302) | |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & giving up hope of ideal(183), & interpretation(182), & long period of(184), vs loss of actual person(183), & omnipotent response of T to (184), about original defect & loss(183), in 2 person relationship (184), & witnessing of(184) | |
Therapy, and | Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | & happiness lost(268-9), & illusion(107), as mode of life(110), & morbid us of(111-2)(268), as obsessional repetition of He is lost (107)(109), as protecting us from making a retreat(108) | ||
Grief Workshop | CTP97-8 | All | & anger, & bibliography, & caregiver, & children, & violent death | ||
Groundlessness | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & decision(319), & responsibility awareness(221-2) | |
Groups | The Clinical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | Ch 4 | study of | |
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | & boss of(192), & ethical blinders(188), & group Unc.(186), & illusion of invulnerability(186), & illusion of unanimity(186), & mindguards(187-8), & stereotypes(188-9), & suppressed personal doubts(187) | ||
Fear of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & abandoned egos, identified w/ leaders power, tried to function w/ him as ideal(132), & allows us to express forbidden impulses & secret wishes(135), & becoming dep. children again, blindly following inner voice of parents under spell of hypnotic leader(132), & each man seems an omnipotent hero who can give full vent to his appetites under approving eye of father→ sadism of group activity(133)(135), & groups satisfy deep-seated erotic longings that people constantly carry around Unc(132-3), & how N help draw sharp line between those who are like me or belong to me & those who are outsiders & aliens(134), & the infectiousness of the unconflicted leader(135), & the magic of the initiatory act from swearing to sex to murder 1 st one only is the murderer, rest followers as one who initiates takes on risk & guilt→ transform the fact of murder→ holy aggression(135), & man has an extreme passion for authority & wishes to be governed by unrestricted force(132), & not fearing danger as members not alone w/ own smallness & helplessness as have powers of hero-leader(133), & reinforces natural narcissism the person next to you will die but not you(133), & timid heroisms of(131), & using leaders as an excuse, imagining themselves as temp. victims of the leader(137) | |
Growth | Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & balance between need to preserve self-meaning & need to construct new meaning(168), & capacity of human personality to negotiate stability & change simultaneously under the right relational conditions(167)(268), & change as process not state(272), & clients growing ability to become to himself what he exp. the T is to him(6)(90)(149), & compromised by drastic means to protect stability(6), as dialectic vs unidirectional process(271), & enabling the exp. of self-growth, not just outcome, to be rewarding transition vs traumatic force-feeding(170), & excitement of being fully alive stress-point in(218), & growth=maturation, mastery, actualization, etc.(36), & maturity to ask, why am I living this way?(6-7), & meeting egos earlier & more basic need for affirmation(90), & regression(37), & need to identify w/ ones own growth potential(20), & not possible w/o facing & owning hated, disavowed parts of self(6), & reorganizing existing pattern of self-repr. to make room for(38), & resistance as dialectic between preservation & change-a need to preserve the continuity of self-exp. in process of growth by minimizing threat of potential traumatization(206-7)(214) (222), w/ stability, the central qualities of the self(36), & T as interper. condition to facilitate(36-7), & the wish to stay the same while changing(170) |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | P. 130 | ||
Guilt | Feelings | W. Gaylin | Ch. 2 | vs anger(51), & ego-ideal through identification(50)(62), as exclusively human(40), & when extreme(45), & feeling upset(90), & guilty fear(41-2), & ideals(7), as internalized(46)(50), as most personal of feelings(46)(50), vs pride(83), & psychopath(40), & self-disappointment(50), vs shame(54-6)(66)(83), & social good(53) | |
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | of abuser(101), & depression(94), & intimacy(56), & normal developmental conflicts(53), & realistic judgement about(66)(68), & self-esteem(56), of survivor(53-4)(105)(192), & witness guilt(145), & witnessing of(69) | ||
The Awakening Heart | Insight | P.53 | action vs image, vs resentment. | ||
Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | Ch. 1 | & acceptable quote(33), as defence against greater anger(28), & existential(33), & forgiveness(33), & hamartia(25)(32), & mature vs inauthentic(34), as protective, reactive state(29), & question Against what am I defending myself?(29), & recognition, recompense & release(26-7) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & depressives(237), & hysterics(307), & masochists(263-4), & narcissists(183), & OCD(287-8), & paranoid(209), vs shame(172) | ||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | See Index | at being & not being(157), & destruction in fantasy(85), & hysteria (97), & killing self out of sense of(153)(176), & schizoid(93), at wishes remaining fantasy(132) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & abandonment depression(61), & clinging(69), as internalized disapproval(68), & self expression(69) | |||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | See Index | & child analysis(61-3), & depressive position(148), & epistemophilic instinct(72), & Oedipus conflict(70), & remorse(125), & sexual relations of children(82) | ||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | See Index | & source of = betrayal of giving up on ones desires(147), as our word for not getting away w/ it(93) | ||
Envy & Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | & analyst as persecuting(195), in adults(257), from aggressive impulses(27)(36), & ambivalence(72), & anxiety(38)(50), in child analysis(127), & compassion(293), & denial(293), & depressive anxiety(34)(44), & depressive position(14)(35)(50(196), & envy (194-5), & integration(56)(65), & Oedipus complex(50), as persecution(194)(278), & projection(12), & reparation(36)(74)(133 ) (259), & splitting(20), & superego(255)(321), & symbol formation (277), as vital to infants emotional growth(3) | ||
On Flirtation | A. Phillips | & a capacity for guilt seems to define our sense of what it is to be human(141), & client needs symptoms as punishment(141), & 2 fears constitute our sense of: fear of direct disapproval for transgressing moral laws of our world & fear of our potential for harm(141-2), & sequence of damnation & redemption fulfills an enduring human desire(142), & turning pain into meaning(144), as way of controlling ourselves & others(142) | |||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | Ch. 9 | & death of loved one(269-70), over death of sibling(291), & deficiencies(147-9), & ego ideal(151), & excessive{neurotic}(142-4), as fear of our consciences wrath, the loss of its love(140), & healthy (143)(150), vs helplessness(142-4), & idealization of dead(270), & punishment(147), & remorse vs self-hate(150), & separation from parents(160), & sexual fantasies(177), & superego{tasks of}(140-1), & thoughts vs deeds(141), & the unc(145-6) | ||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & affect that comes w/ efforts to re-establish lost cherishment unions by overcoming a boundary, transgressing, committing the child equivalent of crimes of passion, of envy(200) | |
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & achieving ambivalence(42)(91-2)(97), & addictions as soothing persecutory _(98), & authentic _ or self-torment that defends against it(91-2), & capacity to bear & deal w/ sign of health(35-6), as capacity for concern vs self-directed hate=punitive SE(87)(94-5), & if Cs guilt unbearable as constitutes unacceptable insult to N→ repressed or projected→ self-punishment by SE or scapegoated(37-9)(90), & de-guilting(91), & depressive guilt as evidence of love that threatens N, schizoid & psychopathic clients by bringing to their attention their separateness, love & consequent dependence & vulnerability(97-8), & depressive vs persecutory(29)(88)(94), & difference between subjects self-torment & capacity for concern for object(92), & emotional growth when N subject feels ashamed of self-absorption long enough to exp. genuine concern & guilt(36), & entails idea of debt one is obliged to pay(28), & evade feeling guilty by going directly to self-punishment & thereby precluding rational evaluation of ie accept & repair or reject as unjustified(94), & existential(42-3)(78), & guilt as depressive anxiety(29-30)(87)(95), & guilt-substitute(28-9)(86), & the guilty7 must suffer either Cs or self-punishment(39)(88-9), @ heart of emotional suffering stemming from wrongful acts, antisocial wishes & emotions of hate, revenge, envy, greed & lust(34-6), & inducing guilt in others(43), & judged to be wrong by conscience & SE(34), & moral defence against bad object ie guilt after trauma as attempt to reduce helplessness(41), & N cannot bear acknowledgement of any fault→ projected onto others(36)(92), & objective guilt(44-5), & pangs of conscience vs acts of conscience(93), & persecutory _ as defense against depressive _(30)(36)(88-9)(93), & persecutory @ core of our discontent(95),), & shame w/o _ vs shame & co0ncern((98-9), & survivor(42), & tendency to conceive of as self-punishment vs anxiety regarding effects of ones real or imagined destructiveness upon good object or good self one loves(94-5), & Unc. vs Cs guilt (84-5), & unbearable because to admit wrongdoing or badness= poisonous all-bad obj.(97)(100), & when conscience can be worked through via reparation & repentance(34), & when repressed generates the torment of the damned ie self-punishment(34)(94), & when Unc sense of guilt is borrowed ie Unc ID w/ guilt of significant other(40), | |
Development, and | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | vs apathy(139-40), & badness(125), & concern(170-1), & contempt (284), & depression(25)(139), & depressive anxiety(57), at enjoying life(170), & love/hate(155), & parting w/ internalized bad obj.(342-3), & resistance to treatment(189-90)(284), schizoid(25), & unc= punishment(135), over weakness & fear(284)(293) | |
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | Ch. 1 | & ambivalence{love/hate}(16-7)(26), & antisocial behaviour(27), & concern(26)(73)(77), & contribution to Mother(77)(102), & definition of(16)(21)(73), as development(15)(24-6), as ego health(19)(23), & individuals value(25), & intention(15-6)(18), & masturbation(18), as matured anxiety(18)(77)(102-3), & melancholia (20), & Oedipus complex(17), & psychoanalysis(17)(21)(24), & reparation(26), & superego(18) | ||
Existential, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & decision(319-21), & exploration of past(348), & responsibility(276-85), & therapy w/(349), vs traditional(147)(170-1) | |
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & confidence(168), & existential anxiety(41), & fate(167-8), & meaninglessness(149), & self-affirmation(166) | ||
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | See Index | & normal vs neurotic(105-6), & shame(107-8), & unfulfilled respon. (180) | ||
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | & asking about(209), as deterrent only when perceived before acting(256), as felt even when no one else knows(256), & giving vs giving in out of(178-9), vs self-recrimination after the act(256), (vs shame(256-7), & single women(303-4) | |
Love, and | Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & aggression in love(155), & the blues(171), for childhood crimes that never happened(158-9), & contrived guiltiness(155)(165)(169-70), & pathos(155)(167-71), & pushing parent off(159-60), & reparation(152), & romance(147)(170), & self-indulgence(164), vs self-pity(147)(155)(167)(169-70), & surrendering claims for pity in the other(154), & taking responsibility(155) | |
Relationships, and | Do I Have to Give up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | vs actions motivated by love(201), & being wrong(306), vs caring (217), & control(27)(167)(210), & feeling bad & not guilty(306), & saying No(207), & threats(168) | |
Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | & caretakers(147), & loyalty to family(348-9) | |||
Therapy, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & lying(72-3), & needs vs wishes(84) | ||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | & clinging(145), & confluence(144), vs resentment(150), as resistance to contact(150) | |||
My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | P. 212-3 | at not being fully committed | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & anxiety(112-4), vs rationalization of anxiety(114-5), & sleep disturbance(115) | ||
Transference, and | Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | & desires of T(165-8), & oedipal countertransf.(110), & projection onto T.(65-6), & T being late(147-8), & Ts hatred(117-20)(123), & Ts withdrawal(139-40) | |
Women, and | Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | w/ desire to identify w/ sadistic Mother(103), toward Father(150), & masochism(125-6)(221), & Oedipal(113-4), origin of(84), during pregnancy(103), & sexuality(91) | ||
Dance of Anger | H. Lerner | & anger(3)(6-7)(114), nice body &(6-7), & others trying vs making us feel(112-3) | |||
Greed | Missing Out | A. Phillips | P. xix | as despair about pleasure | |
Guntrip, H. | H.J.S. Guntrip | J. Hazell | All | bio, analysis w/ Fairbairn, analysis w/ Winnicott | |
Guntrip Article | Carter et al | All CTP97/8 Winn Con. | comparison of Fairbairn vs Winnicott & Guntrips chapter on his analysis with both | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Habits | Darwins Worms | A. Phillips | See Index | & creates illusion of predictability(130), & disabling when assume future will be like the past(130), & every time we relinquish a false conviction we connect ourselves to the world(130), as evidence of adaptation(130), vs free-associating(132), & mourning vivid example of changing(131), & survival based on capacity to change (130), & symptoms = _, ways of living in the p[resent by holding on to the past(131)(134), & we familiarize vs reason, assume a knowingness vs bearing the unknown(130) | |
Hallucination | Forces of Destiny | C. Bollas | See Index | as act of violence against ones subjectivity(146), & death instinct (147-8), & ego(146), & endopsychic perception(154), & illusion of transformation(152-3), & loneliness/isolation as child(147), & seeing/ feeling split(148-9), & sense of death(150-2), & therapy w/(154-7) | |
The Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | as opposite of dreaming & Unc. thinking in waking state(47), & undreamable panic(49) | |||
The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | & contact barrier(65-6), & definition of(160), in depressive vs PS position(162), vs interpretation(115-6)(163), as sensory organs in reverse(115-6)(160), & tolerating frustration(54-5)(115), & transforming emotional experience into(115-6)(163) | |||
Hamartia | Tracking the Gods | J. Hollis | & hubris(124), & tragic hero(68), & wounded vision(67-8)(136) | ||
Open Minded | J. Lear | & def. of(210), vs disgust(210) | |||
Hate | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | of analyst(128), vs compliant self(126), & construction of object through(127), as defence against emptiness(130), & destruction by vs love(119), vs generative introjection(127), & loving(118), & negative selfobject(128-9), by parents(130), & perversion(133), to preserve self & object(118)(130)(133), & retrospective mirroring(131-3) | ||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & ALE(195), & depression(24), as love made angry(24)(26), as object relation(26), & power in(206), & satisfaction of(338) | |||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | of FS by inner self(100)(104), & impersonation(100) | |||
The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | vs anger(380), as frozen love(381), of Mother for child(379) | |||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | & algolagnia(85), & dreams(105), & interpersonal activity of(99), & paranoid(121-3), & security(100) | |||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | & aggression(67)(222-3), & ambivalence(42)(188), & borderline(53), & childcare(217), & daimonic(68), & love(65-7)(222)(226), & marriage(206-7)(212)(221), of mate(69), & sentimentality(66), & Unc & Cs(221) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & death(191), & obsessive thinking(20), of analysis(187), of analyst(258), of object(181) | |||
Winnicott | A. Phillips | of analyst(89), of object(17) | |||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | as an inability to be cherished or to be receptive to cherishment. A refusal of love or a loving gaze even to the extreme of a belief that no love can be, that there is no love. An idea equivalent to death.(79) | |
Kindness, and | On Kindness |
| See Index | aggression as form of(48), & child can only believe in being loved after reaching being hated(88)(92), & fear that hatred is stronger than love(51), & hate & alienation experienced as more comfortable than(108), & hatred as rejection of everything in ext. world that doesnt work for us, that endanger our well-being(62-4), & kindness entails acknowledgement of(90-3), & neurotics vs psychotics(88-9), & origins of self-hatred often found in failures of kindness(60), as our means of sustaining our pleasures & a pleasure in itself-if we cant hate we cant be happy(64)(78), as primal form of self-protection, of survival(62-3), & sexual jealousy(58-60), & sexual satisfaction dependent upon capacity for sadism, getting pleasure form our cruelty(64-5), & something about how we loved destroying the v. things we value most(61) | |
Therapy and | In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | Ch.2 | & countertransference(15-20), & Mothers of child(21-3) | |
Healing/Health | The Aquarian Conspiracy | M. Ferguson | See Index | & bodys mind(252-6), & bodywork(255),& holistic(248)(257), & learning(282), & perceived threats vs real(251), & placebo effect (249), & stress(251), & transformation of medicine(241), & wholeness(250) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & beauty(222-3), & dark nights(280)(303), & humour(283), & illness(272)(280), & images(215), & our insanities(257), & self-interest(224), & sufferer/healer(285) | ||
Hedonism | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & Happiness ensues; it cannot be pursued(414), as solution to meaninglessness(437)(439)(444) | |
Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | See Index | & culture(95), & himbos(97), & importance of sex(97), & reasons for erotic alienation(88-9), & sex vs irresponsible sex(92), & sex & T(97)(213), & sexual intimacy(104-5) | ||
Helplessness | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & child abuse(96)(100-1), of chronically abused(114), & countertrans.{rescuer}(141-3), & depression(94), & dissociation(45), & intoxication(45), w/ isolation as core experience of psychological trauma(197), & lack of balance(47), & recovery(134), & revenge fantasy(189), & self-esteem(56), & transference(137), & unrecognized PTSD(49) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & abandonment depression(61)(70-1), & impaired RS(69), in relationship(71), & therapy(71) | ||
Anxious Attachment, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & abiding fear of Ts unavailability(232), & being alert to T overeagerness to rescue or be idealized(227), & body of(301-2), & chronic compulsion to comply(302), & connecting through _ vs anger(227), & desire to merge(231), & desperate to avoid abandonment, too fearful to assert & too willing to please(227), & emerging mistrust, fear of abandonment, anger, ability to say no, sadness & authentic need & ability to yes, often in sequence(229), & erotic transf.(233-4), & expressing feelings to get attention or help vs to express themselves(229), & fearful of developing sense of confidence & independence(231), & _infant becoming hysteric adult(226), & let feelings drown out thoughts(230-1), & helpless passivity root of much trauma(301-2), & living inside mind of others vs own(227), & making ourselves a secure base for by generating a rel. that offers more to & asks more of client(229), & modeling mentalizing(231), & must maintain appearance of while helping T feel good(227-8),& preoccupied w/ other & vague about own needs, views & ambitions(278), & subjective exp. of internalized other looming so large as to take up most of mental space leaving little for self-def.(238), & style of T(232-3), & underestimation of strengths & resources(230) | |
Infancy, and | Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | & fat pads in mouth(73), & helpless physical appearance(72-3), & infants stimulation of mothering(72-3), & Mothers response to(113-4), & Mothers psychological need for baby(72), & smile(74) | ||
Hermes(Mercury) | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | & psychologizing(160)163), & schizoid(35)(109) | ||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & alchemy(276)(328)& tree as symbol of(278) | |||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | & alchemy(276)(328), & meaning as life addressing a question to him(318) | |||
Soulmates | T. Moore | P.161-3 | & herm(161), & sex(161-3) | ||
Hero/Heroism | Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | as archetype(537), & fate(101), & myth of(595) | |
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | as archetypal personality(222), & everyday demands(154), & mana-personality(123), & sun-hero myth(70)(208) | |||
Tracking the Gods | J. Hollis | See Index | & celebrities(66), definition of(69), & the Great Round(77), & individuation(75), & inner(73-4), & journey of(71-2), & Lethargy & Fear(74)(76), & ordinary people(71), & tragic(68) | ||
Compulsive, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.121-2 | ||
Fear of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index (A-L) | & accepting cultural definition of heroism in the beyond of others, not their own(170), & the artist(172-3), & the body(226-7)(234) (262), & breaks through bounds of cultural heroism→ possibility of cosmic heroism→ life acquires ultimate value by linking to very ground of creation, the invisible mystery = meaning of faith(91), & by definition = defiance of safety(156-7), & central calling is the heroic(1)(7), & Christianity made creature Cs the very condition for his cosmic heroism(160), & complexity of _, not a simple reflex of the death-anxiety but reaching out by ones whole being toward life(152-3), & cosmic heroism must transcend human relationships (169), & courage to face anxiety of meaninglessness as true cosmic heroism(279)(281), & culture in its most intimate intent a heroic denial of creatureliness(159), & dep. on object(156)(165-6), & embracing death more easily because failed in life(258), & faith(90-1), & fix urge to cosmic heroism onto another person in form of love object vs God(160-1), & fusion of psychology & religion(273-5), & the genius(109-10)(119), & guilt as a result of self-Cs adult reality, of real overwhelmingness(261-2), & having courage to absorb into ones own being the max. amount of nonbeing(47)(279), & heroic transcendence vital motive & what gives human animal his nobility even in face of his animal fears(268), & heroism is 1 st & foremost a reflex of the terror of death(11), & hope(275), & how Cs is he of what he is doing to earn his feeling of heroism(5-6), & human feels agonizingly unique yet knows doesnt make any difference as far as ultimates are concerned(269), & in order to have a truly human existence there must be limits & culture/superego sets such limits (265), & the knight of faith as ideal of mental health, the continuing openness of life out of the death throes of dread(258), & legislating grotesque out of the world(283), | |
Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index (M-Z) | & man must desperately justify himself as object of primary value in universe, must stand out, be a hero counts more than anything or anyone else(4), & masochist ready-made(154), & maturity = ability to see tragic limitations in life & possibility in some kind of balance into which we can fit creatively(266), & meaning of the body, terror of living w/o a body(164), & mental illness as failure of heroism(209-10)(248-51), & narcissistic personality(128), & natural N(3)(7), & need to spiritualize human life, to lift it on to a special immortal plane, beyond cycles of life & death(231), & needing somebody (love obj., parent, T), some individual ideology of justification to replace the declining collective ideologies(162), neurosis normal when we accept the truly desperate situation man is in(269), & overcoming badness by developing a really valuable heroic gift, becoming extra-special(154), & if partner becomes god, can also become devil(165-6), & perception of reality that is alive to the panic inherent in creation(282), & prison heroism(87), & projection(158), & the psychopath(263), & the real man is one who has transcended himself by realizing truth of his situation, by dispelling lie of his character, by breaking down that which he needs in order to live(86)(89), & redemption can only come when we lay down our individuality, give it up, admit our creatureliness & helplessness(168), & repression allows child to act w/o anxiety, to take experience in hand & develop dependable responses to it(262)(264-5), & sex(162-3)(231), & sex represents species Cs &, as such, defeat of individuality, of personality but needs to dev. this as idea of cosmic hero w/ special gifts(163), & sexual taboos(163), & shadow of imperfection of partner falls over our lives & w/ it death & defeat of cosmic heroism→ feeling diminished, empty, lives valueless→ attack loved ones→ deflation of loved ones→ creative act necessary to correct lie, to reaffirm inner freedom of growth that transcends the particular obj.(167), & society as vehicle for earthly heroism(4-5), & taking life seriously = what ever man does on this planet has to be done in the lived truth of the terror of creation, of the grotesque, of the rumble of panic underneath everything(284), & T(270-3), & transference(273-4), & transf. heroics(158), & true heroic validation of ones ;life lies beyond sex, the other, private religion(174), & turn to love partner for experience of heroic, for perfect validation we expect them to make us good through love & they cannot do this(167), & to want too little from love obj. as self-defeating as wanting too much(168), & wants to be a god w/ only equipment of animal so thrives on fantasies(59)(107), & when evolution gave man a self it split him in 2, gave him an added burden = price to pay to attain more life & development of life forces(263) | ||
Males, and | Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | & being a man(166), & Fathers(257-8), & failure(130)(166) | |
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | & triumphant return of(179), & violence(69) | |||
Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | See Index | as Cs(40), as energy that serves life(40), & Eros(41), & knowing inner vs outer battles(106), & leaving Mother(105), & therapy(122-3) | ||
Hiding | The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & communication(188), & isolation vs insulation(187), & private self(186), & schizoid(189), of secret self(187), & solitude(190), & TS/FS(46-7), & waiting vs interpreting(189) | |
Highly Sensitive People(HSP) | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | All | ||
Hinting | The Beast in the Nursery | A. Phillips | Ch.3 | & analysis(87)(109), & interpretation(75)(89-90)(105), vs orders(96-7), & Unc(88)(105-7)(112) | |
Histrionic PD | Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | P.113 | & attention | |
Holding | The Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | See Index | & capacity to be alone(97-8), & depressive position _(98-9), & experience of being alive(97), & going on being(94, & maturation as capacity to self-generate continuity(108), & mother as holding env. vs holding obj.(98), & mother insulating infant from otherness of time(4-5), & omnipotent fantasy(97), & a place for infant/client to gather himself together(96-7), as Winnicotts concept of mother/Ts role in safeguarding continuity of infant/clients exp. of being & becoming over time(108) | |
Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | & combination of maternal care & paternal structure (52)(106), & each interpretation part of(37)(48), & failing to organize(33-4), & never assume role of parental figure @ expense of clients ego health(106)vs years of defence analysis(99) | ||
Development, and | Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | definition of(91), & excited Mother(97), & illusion(92-3), & Mother (93)(95), & mutual cuing & empathy(98), & separation(123)(131), & sexual differences(212), & yes-saying(131) | |
Therapy, and | In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | Ch.28 | & analysts techniques(277), & countertrans.(275), & interpretation (273-4)(283), & NPD(274-6)(279-83)(285-7) | |
Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & clients security(265)(272), & containment(112)(128), & impingement(279), & inner supervisor(28), & interpretation(125) (127-8), & period of hesitation(278), & pressure on analyst(129) (139), & reassurance(127), & survival of clients worst(128), & transference experience(265), & Unc role-responsiveness(279) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | in analysis(240), & annihilation(47), & defects as a result of failure of(59), definition of(43), & dependence(46), & ego-needs(86), & experience of falling in analysis(113), functions of(49), & good-enough Mother(49), & integration(60), & parental care(43) | |||
Homophobia | Origins of Homophobia in Males | AJPFall98 | P.425-435 | in adolescence(433), & anxiety(427), & core sense of gender identity (429), & defences(427-8), definition of(426), in gays(426), & sadistic attacks(429), In school-age children(431-2), sources of(427) | |
Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | definition of(56), & male survivors of incest(57), & shame=sex(58-9) | ||
Homosexuality | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & trisexuality(82)(87) | ||
Feelings | W. Gaylin | & displaying affection(175)(177) | |||
The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | & imprinting(64-5), & sources of(282-3), as substitute object(63-4) | |||
Gay/Lesbian Workshop | CTP97-8 Binder | ALL | & heterosexual service providers working w/, & reading references | ||
Cruising, and | Being a Character | C. Bollas | Ch. 7 | as exceptionally aware(153), & falling in love w/ people he didnt know how to meet(150), as FS created by Mother & child(156), & heterosexual objectification of(162-3), & love from sex(161), & mastery over erasure of self(154), as object of discharge(149), & preoccupation w/ Mother in T(151-2), & rejection(155), & seeking love(157), & seeking psychic double(157), & transformation from self to it(160), & TS(156), & youthful appearance of object(155) | |
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & affliction of a terrible loneliness(203), & high amongst(202-4), & homophobia(204-5)(207), & negative self-evaluation of(205) | |
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & autoeroticism(162), & lesbianism(82-4)(344), as normal(308), & penis envy in men(308) | |
Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | See Index | & attitude to Father(23), & bisexuality(160)(182), & creativity(167-8), & Mothers(182)& narcissism(23)(167), & preoedipal phase(63), & psychic representation of parental couple(160), & psychoanalytic theory(22-3), as temporary strategic necessity(30), & trauma(166) (182) | ||
Hope | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | & infants basis of(294), & Unc(294), & needs vs wants(295-8)(301), & projection of(72)(304-8), vs sadistic behaviour(306), & security to feel unsafe(345), & suicide(305) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & anti-social tendency(103-4)(204), & psychotic regression(128) | |||
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | & absence of-trauma of nonrecognition ie self-exp. shaped around being valueless as source of pleasure to a needed other→ not-me self-states remaining filled w/ darkness, unreality & fear(93-4), & client will not have cause for hope if not accepted on his own terms by T while not settling for them(93), & comes not from just being acceptable as you are but from being needed as you are-from the recognition that, in some genuine way, being w/ you as you are brings pleasure despite your problems(93), & provided by identifying w/ own growth potential as seen in the eyes of a parent(93) | ||
Hubris | Tracking the Gods | J. Hollis | P. 31 | definition of | |
Humiliation | Feelings | W. Gaylin | See Index | & anger(66), & being used(152)(155), & embarrassment(67), & exposure(71), & paranoia(149), & projection(71), vs shame(66)(71) | |
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | & contempt(67), & Mothers(90), & power(69)(75), & respect for child(76) | |||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | & when we entrust ourselves to people who dont care for our well-being-people who need to render us helpless, who abandon us(54) | |||
On Flirtation | A. Phillips | & we are not humiliated by our acts but by our ideals(167) | |||
The Beast in the Nursery | A. Phillips | P.122-140 | & anger(122)(125), & being ignored(128), & exploiting dependence (129), & hope(125)(128-9), & morality(122-4), & revenge(122) (126), & self-ideal(122) | ||
Humility | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 43 |
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Humour/Jokes | The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | See Index | & cosmic(283), in therapy(183-4) | |
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, ed | P.304 | & shadow | ||
On Kissing, Tickling and Being Bored | A. Phillips | See Index | & obstacles to pleasure(85-6), & psychoanalysis(4), as saboteurs of repression(86) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & dark nights(304-5), & irony(100)(305), & literalists(00), & moralists(100)(103-4), as nature of spirituality(102)(104), & wit(99-100) | ||
Cracking Up | C. Bollas | Ch.8 | & analyst(253-4), & client as straight man to his Unc(224), & Cs/Unc (225), & court fool(225), & dreams(232-3), & hate(243), & jouissance(231-2), & laughter(231)(252-3), & Mother the clown(242-3)(256), & mundus inversus(251), & the parapraxal(222)(231), & pleasure in inadequacy(241), as preceding sense of self(241), & sick jokes(250), & timing & spacing of comics(235-7), as transitional state(244-5), & trauma(234) | ||
Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | All | |||
Steppenwolf | H. Hesse | All | |||
Therapy, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | P. 196-7 | recovering healthy laughter as response to craziness | |
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | P. 125-6 | as defence | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | p. 218-220 | & psychopaths | ||
The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | vs fundamentalism(34), & relational logic(45) | ||
Hyperarousal | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | & betrayal(128)(136)(321), & eating(149), & emotional(149-50), & hypervigilance(150-4), & nervous system(148), & physiological(148) | ||
Hypnagogic/ Hypnapompic Images | Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | & creativity(124), vs daydreams(120)(159-52) | ||
Seeing with the Minds Eye | M. Samuels | artistic examples of(47)(137)(240)(248), definition of(47) | |||
Hypnosis/Trance | The Natural History of the Mind | G. Taylor | See Index | & access to Unc(106), & anxiety(177), & diseases cured by(137), & inhibition(105)(108)(123)(137), & levels of Cs(91)(106-8)(110), & memory(235)(246), & pain(166)(177), & placebo effect(145) | |
Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | See Index | & Cayce(165), & medical use of(323)(327-8), & mind training(316-22), & pain control(284), & Unc(164-5) | ||
The Discovery of the Unconscious | H. Ellenberger | See Index | & age regression(117), & artificial somnambulism(71)(121), as central to 1 st dynamic psychiatry(119), & double ego(168), & Freud (538), & history of(111-20), & hysteria(142-3)(149), & magnetism (78)(116), & mythopoetic Unc(150)9318), & post hypnotic suggestion(318), & rapport(76)(119-20)(152-3), & therapy(155) | ||
From Mesmer to Freud | A. Crabtree | See Index | early definitions of(160)(164)(166-7), & Freud(360), & hypnoid states(355), & hypnotic sleep(158)(163), & Myers(335-6), & subjective mind(278-9), & suggestion(164)(254), uses of(165) | ||
Trance Zero | A. Crabtree | All | & culture, & group mind, & immanence | ||
Therapy, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | & client discovering her own way(25), & life flowing through(8), & mindfulness(94), & neglected self(131), vs trance(93) | |
Using Trance States in Psychotherapy | A. Crabtree | All, CTP 98-9 Binder | definition of trance/hypnosis(6-11), & essence of(2), & induction(4-5), in practice(12-55), & signs of(3) | ||
Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H Watkins | See Index | & amnesia(39)(41), & bypassing defences(153), & contacting ego states(35-6)(108-10), & dissociation(39), & hidden observer(36)(87) (94-5), & MPD(33), & preverbal(242-3), & regression(201)(223-4) | ||
Hysteria/ Hysterical Character | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | Ch. 11 | & countertrans. w/(196-7), & externalization(194), & forms of communication(192-3), & language(199), & Mother of(194-5), & possession of analyst(190), & the repressed(198) | |
Hysteria | C. Bollas | All | |||
The Unsayable in Hysteria | M. Luca-Stolkin | P. 73-8 TPR Feb00 | & intergenerational secrets | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & description of(Ch. 14), vs dissociative(345), vs manic(254) | ||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & clinging(126), & demanding(287), as defence against schizoid(23), & physical pain vs mental(339) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & actual abuse(14)(187), & case of Dora(14), & dissociation/trance (43-4)(87-9)(101-2), & Freud(13-4)(18-9), history of(10-20), as PTSD(126), & recovery(155-6), & shellshock in men(20)(22-3)(25-7), & women(10)(14)(16)(28-32) | ||
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | & accepting vs holding oneself responsible(65-6)(176), & always has an idea too terrible to contemplate(56)(58)(65), in essence a disclaimer of responsibility for Unc(66), & lacking balance of proximity & distance(54)(58-9), & mass(200), & no firm sense of boundary between self & other(200), as pathology of individuation (175), & putting emotion into words(33-4)(38), & relief from by honestly experiencing own emotions(45-7)(58), & so afraid of own desires he represses them(53-4), & theory of catharsis(36)(53-4), & tyrannized by values which treat desire as unacceptable not by Unc desire itself(66) | |||
Neurotic Styles | D. Shapiro | Ch.4 | & cognition(109)(111), & emotional outbursts(125-6)(128)(130-2), & playacting behaviour(119-24)& romance/fantasy(118-9), & traits of(113-7) | ||
The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | Ch. 9 | & attachment(90-1), & attention(100)(129), & countertrans.(87), & daydreams(52), as defence against depression(93), vs depressive(100) (129), & extraversion(129), & need to please(85)(135), Vs obsessional(129)(135), & playacting(86), & physical illness(88), & purpose of symptoms(85-6), & repression(86-7), vs schizoid(135 ) (160), & sexual irresistibility(88), & the stage(89), & therapy(88-90) (92-3), & transference(89) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | Ch. 11 | & amnesia(217), & conversion(216), & dissociation(203-4)(207-9), & dreams(223-4)(226), & emotional lability(213), & fantasy(210), & language of(221-2), & lying(209-10), & marriage(214), & schizoid partners(215), & self-absorption(211-2), & sexuality(215), & therapy w/(225)(228) | ||
Women analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & male equivalent of(55-6), & sexuality(55) | ||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | & always seeking warmth of warm moments(133), & assume they have done something wrong when get Unc communication(132), & baffles w/ her stop & start manner(133), & duck & cringe(132)l, & hyper receptive in some ways - to changes in environment, body, others emotional states & unreceptive in others fearful, phobic & expectant of disaster, anxiety levels high(132), & often plays scapegoat in family(134), & some kind of physical trauma in childhood(133), & tend to pursue people who are hurters(133), & try to communicate her expectation to be loved bodily(133), & usually child of depressed caretaker who was inconsistent sometimes cherished & most often treated w/ oblivion(133), & world is full of intrigue & mystery(132) | ||
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & agents as well as victims of hysterical & psychosomatic misery(105-6)(113), & central place of Unc aggression, envy, hostility, malice, destructiveness & resulting persecutory guilt & need for punishment(108), as defensive alternative to facing & bearing depressive or reparative guilt(108)(111), & fusion paranoia(126), & hallmark to mimic culturally permissible forms of distress(103)(107)(111)(116)(119), & hypochondriacal anxiety(129), & psychosomatic illness(110-1),& individuals that have split off & disowned own aggressive & destructive impulses→ suffer from fantasies of attack & abiding sense of being made ill by hostile forces within or outside body(128), & regard symptoms as residing in body but not oif self ie foreign invading force(128), & schizoid-paranoid functioning produces _ symptoms(127-8), as social communication(110), & Unc need for punishment→ repression of guilt→ symptom formation→ satisfies SE & evades unbearable Cs guilt→ loss of opportunity to assess, accept or reject Cs guilt(105), & why are you trying to destroy me? ie destructiveness is seduction(125) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & burden of chronic anxiety by mistrust of others(223), & dramatizing feelings lest they not be taken as real(223), & dramatization as not an act but view of reality of particular self-state(229), & loss of will as outcome of diss.(232-3), & ordinary exp. of surprise becomes phobically associated w/ shock(229-32), & particular propensity for diss.(229), as suffering from I condition(229), & suffering from tragic inability to convince others of authenticity of own subj. exp.(224) | |
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Idealization | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | of abusive parent(116), of partner w/ denigration of self(111), & splitting(106) | |
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & agoraphobia(31-2), & healthy development(206), in analysis(77), & merger w/ archaic in T(66)(70), & selfobject(167), & successful analysis(77), & transference(192-3), & transference in training analysts(166) | |||
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | & contempt of parents(102-3) | |||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & depressives(233), & narcissists(173), & primitive(98)(105-6) | |||
Contexts & Connections | D, Shaddock | & being a small part of a greater whole(39), as regulating activity such as soothing or containing(98) | |||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | & adolescent love(223-4), of beloved(223-4), of the dead(270), & gratitude(224) | |||
Psychoanalysis of Developmental Arrests | R. Stolorow | &n anxiety(85), & autonomy(85), as based on developmental arrest vs defence(64)(85-6), & detachment(78-9), as failure to perceive reality accurately(63-4)(82), & NPD(81), & rage(77-8), of self as grandiosity(64)(80-1), & therapist as idealized selfobject(81), as transference(69)(71-2))(80) | |||
Envy & Gratitude | M. Klein | & breast vs persecutory(7)(64-5), as characteristic of love relations (193), to counteract persecutory anxiety(50)(73)(193)(274), as early ego defence(2)(64)(70), & envy(193), & feelings of love & gratification(71), vs good object(192-3), & greedy desire(64)(193), & integration(305), & losing the glamour(305), & Mother as ego-ideal (9), & object relations(71), & paranoid/schizoid position(143), & superego(70), & turning good object into(9)(49), & unassimilated ideal object(9), & universal longing for pre-natal state(179) | |||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | & denial(152), as early ego defence(177), as essential part of manic position(152), & mourning(157) | |||
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | & acknowledging ambivalent, rageful feelings about each other(64), & devaluation as justifying need to separate(63), & idealized siblings(58-9), & lovers as projection ego-ideal onto object of their love, a seeking to re-encounter a paradisiacal state of lost childhood narcissism(51-2), as main defense mechanism in couple relationship as it makes love blind(60), & may have to strain it if great deal of discrepancy between real person & ideal else disappointment & devaluation may set in(60)(62), & the mental process by means of which the objects qualities & values are elevated to the point of perfection(51), & splitting(62-3), & threat of de-idealization makes partners feel hopeless(62) | ||
Existential Therapy, and | The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | p.289-90 | ||
Love, and | Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & degrading of(28)(118), & description of(96)(113), & destabilizing influence of(112), & healthy(108-9), & imagination(104), vs knowing the other(114-5), & lovers(113), & romance contingent upon(94) (114), & romantic obsession(96)(136) | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & addiction(111), & drugs as substitute ideal(111), & healthy(137), & idealized Self(111), & madonna/whore(129), in relationship(128-31), & splitting good & bad(128)(161) | |
Women, and | Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | of Father(91)(116), & guilt(91), & ideal love(468)(471)(473), & masochism(474-5), & ideal Mother(474), & sublimation(93) | ||
Identification | Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & adolescence(164-5), w/ aggressor(48), & building a self(46-8) (61), as defence(88), & de-identification w/ Mother(90)(130)(136), & gender(119) (122)(129), & integration(49), & internalization (278), & loss(47-9), & MPD(49), in Oedipal(131-2), & recognizing of w/ parents in 30s (255) | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & description of(135-8), w/ aggressor(108-9) | |||
Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H. Watkins | See Index | of ego states(96), vs introject(116) | ||
Freud | J. Lear | as earliest expression of emotional tie w/ another(179), & fantasy to be father/mother(172)(177-8), & introjection(177), & projection (178), & when shadow of obj. falls on ego(180) | |||
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | & archaic(199), as earliest expression of emotional ties w/ another person(161), & development in complexity→ _ w/ ever more complex love objects(162)(220-1), & hysterical _ as hallmark of oedipal period(163), & ideal-I vs I(168)(199), & loved one becoming part of melancholics own I as outcome of disappointment in love(159-60)(169), as most primitive form of psychic response to a loved world(161)(169-70), as regression from object-love to most primitive form of emotional attachment, primary narcissism(160-1)(199) | |||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | & w/ body, feelings, perceptions, thoughts or Cs(50), & creates sense of self(50), w/ fear(51), & like food colouring in water(50), & minds tendency to identify w/ experience as separate from experience itself(49-50), & questioning(7) | |||
Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Religious Beliefs and Self-Disclosure | AJP Summer98 | P.274 | & assimilation | ||
Aggressor, with | How Did They Survive? | AJP Winter99 | P.115-6 | & passive adaptation | |
Development, and | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & dissolving of(48), & ego maintenance(39), & female element of feeling(261), & know others by because we know ourselves(371), & oneness(267), & primary w/ Mother(421), & schizoid avoidance of(374), & understanding of object(349) | |
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & cross-(119)(139), & object relating(88) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & FS(143), & mother/infant(53-4), & primary(44), & therapy(70) | |||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | as caricature of self & others(110), as empathic skill(120), as essential act of matriculation into the world(107), w/ imagined others desire (54-5)(113), w/ Mothers imagination(54)(107)(120), & perfect little people(75), & sexually adventurous(38), as solution to sexuality(81) | ||
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | & defensive(107-9), & introjection(36), & projective(175) | ||
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | as change in ego(62), & idealization(4), vs introjection(4), as secondary(62), & super-ego(4), & undoing of(4) | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | w/ aggressor(193)(378) | ||
Transference/ Countertransference | Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | & active _ w/ client(30), w/ clients impulses & defences(131)(175), & concordant/complementary(134-7)(176), & countertransference (131), & intellectual vs emotional(124), & intention to understand (134), w/ internal objects(131)(175), w/ persecutor(162-6) | ||
Women, and | Women analyse Women | E. Baruch | & autonomy(116), & incorporation/introjection(116), & learning (110), as residue of incestuous love(51), & superego(34) | ||
Identity |
| Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | & assignment of fixed in families(146-7), & delegation of in families(165-6) | |
| Going on Being | M. Epstein | & attachments(38-9), & ability to tolerate uncertainty(37), & change(38-9), & desire for things to be different(29), & fending off threats to hard-fought security(29), & identify w/ awareness vs object of(39)(136), & interferes w/ going on being(29), & intrinsic(10), & never getting rid of a single neurosis(38), & psychological emptiness(135), & restraining the thinking mind(36), & spaciousness(38-9), & taking possession of ourselves through acceptance vs(135), & Ts identity as helper felt as implicit demand(29-30), & understanding limitations of ie the name of something not the same as the experience of it(19), & you are not what you think you are(32) | ||
Sense of | The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | See Index | & being-for-oneself vs for-others(184), & madness(185), & other (178), & ontological insecurity(185) | |
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & adolescence(61), & alters(102-3), & contaminated inner badness (94)(105), & contradictory(106), & dissociation(102), & prolonged captivity/release(93-4), & recovery(133), & religion(106), & superb performer=FS(105) | |||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | See Index | & continuity(39)(42), & embodied(67), & engulfment(44), & FS (138), & I w/o me(172), & inner(139-40), & isolation(44), & loss of(44)(83), & need for(44), & need for another(138-9), & non-being(111)(139), & schizophrenia(174), & schizoid(139), & security(39)(42), & subjective(95), in time(109) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & adolescence(164-5)(223), definition of(61), & gender(119)(122) (127)(130), & group(156), & love(223), w/ oneness(Mother)(30) | ||
A Symposium on Psychotherapy in the Age of Managed Care | AJP Winter99 | P.10-1 | Ericksons definition | ||
Identity and the Good | C. Taylor | All, CTP97-8, History | & becoming(46-7), & connection to the good(41-2)(44-5)(47), & language(37-8), & life story(50-1), & moral/spiritual matters(36), & self-consciousness(49) | ||
Ego- | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & being-in-touch-with(270), & inner core(268), & loss of(270), & ontological insecurity(291), & start of ego(246)(248)(270) | |
Loss of | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 40-1 | ||
Oppositional, and | The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | P.15 | & defiance of authority | |
Idiom | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & analysands thinking(44), & being a character(59-60)(62)(64-5), & choosing a form(40-1)(43), & day as potential space(24-5), & destiny drive(71), & dreaming into being(21-2)(53-5), & encounters w/ evocative objects(19)(29)(51)(61), & Eros of form in being(22), & inter-knowing(189), & internal objects(59), & the it w/ which we are born(64), & jouissance of TS(11), & neurosis(24), & Oedipal child(238), & the other(28), & personal effects(55)(65), & self-experiencing(25)(38)(58), & trauma/genera(68)(70-1) | |
Illness | Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & dark nights(280)(287), & each man is ill in his own way(39), & humour(283-4), & irony(305), & karma(271), & limits(281), & medicine as wife of (287), & soul as body(271-2)(274-5)()281), & the way we live(272) | |
Illusion | Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | & adaptation to reality(11-2), & disillusionment(11), & good-enough Mother(11-2), & omnipotence(11), & transitional phenomena(11), & weaning(13) | |
Being a Character | C. Bollas | P.186-91 | of understanding | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, ed | P.240 Ch.62 | Of connection w/ parent(291), & despair only cure for(240) | ||
Winnicott | A. Phillips | See Index | & desire(84)(101), vs disillusionment(121), & FS(120), & imposed (120), & reality(83)(85-6), & shared reality(119), & weaning(165) | ||
On Kissing, Tickling and being Bored | A. Phillips | P. 34 | & FS | ||
Open Minded | J. Lear | See Index | a belief, set of beliefs, or worldview caused by a wish rather than by perception of how the world is(6), & contradictions inherent in(10), & mistaking a bit of ourselves, our imaginative activity, for the world(12) | ||
Contraction, of | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | P. 27 | vs of release as defence, & trauma | |
Release, of | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | P. 27 | ||
Image/ Imagination | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & archetypes(23), & daimons(50), & dreams(8)(17)(23)(86)(92), & ego(38)(135), & emotions(177), & fantasy images(23)(135), & glass as metaphor(142), w/ the heart(14), & hypochondria(82)(92), & love(186), & meaning of(39), & morals(178), & myth(17)(23)(100) (154)(171), & pathologizing(74)(92), & personifying(14-7), & psychological faith(50-1), & psychologizing(135)(152)(203), & soul(23)(92), & soul-making(23)(51)(92)(189) | |
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & beauty(216), & conversation(217), & dark nights(309), & emotion(107), & feeling stuck(308), & healing(213), & imagining your life into existence(117), & internal diversity(152), as remembrance(217), & poetry T(215) | ||
The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | & anxiety(201), & archetypes(194-5), & the arts(197-8), & divination(365), & dreams(173-8), & edification by puzzlement (364-5), & gardens(96-7), & the sacred(282), & sex(162-3), & unknowing(360) | |||
This Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | See Index | vs fantasy(26), & not knowing as precondition for(26) | ||
The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | & action(204), & mental practice for learning physical skills(202)(207)(213) | |||
Solitude | A. Storr | Ch. 5,8 | & active(198), vs attachment(15), & capacity to be alone(19), & childhood(106), & creativity(71)(75), & discontent as biological (62)(64), & discrepancy between inner & outer worlds(66)(69), & hunger of(64), & incompleteness(197), as retreat(107), & solitude (106), & state of being in love(187), & transitional objects(70-1) | ||
Winnicott | A. Phillips | See Index | & psyche & soma(78-9)(155) | ||
Hope & Dread | S. Mitchell | P. 221-8 | to facilitate inquiry(224), & hope(221)(228), & hope at bottom of Pandoras box(228), & psychopathology as failure of(222-3) | ||
Fracture of | The Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | p.166 | ||
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | See Index | & ability to pretend(64), expanded by(35), & failure of dev. of=failure of dev of sense of humour(68), & humour as creative act(76-7), & play(63-4) | |
Neurosis, and | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | in changing beliefs(34), & daydreams(32-3), & denying reality (mistaking mirage for real thing(36), & distortion of reality(33-4), as instrumental in process of self-idealization(31), & love & sex(305), & narcissistic type(312), & neurosis vs psychosis(34), & pride(91), & productive vs unproductive(32), & search for glory(34-6), in service of neurotic needs(32), & supreme value of(91) | ||
Imago | The Discovery of the Unconscious | H. Ellenberger | See Index | & anima(795), & Jung(544)(705)(708), & love-object(705), & Mother(795), & Nietzsche(277)(505) | |
Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | definition of(21), ingredients of(212-4), & partner choice(216), & unmasking exercises(220-3) | ||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | & phantom figures(77)(84)(143) | |||
Impatience | Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | P. 233 | as primitive aggression | |
Implosion | The Divided Self | R. Laing | See Index | & emptiness(45), & fear of liking anyone(58-9), & impingement of reality(45-6), & isolation(83), & persecutory impingement(138), & schizoid(75), & schizophrenia(163) | |
Impotence | The Hazards of being Male | H. Goldberg | P. 24-5 | & fear(24), as lack of power(24), a pair specific(25) | |
New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & male menopause(292-4)(296)(298), & dependence on physical stimulation(303), & the habit of(305), & mind/body link(303-5), & the new(302), & performance(298)(305), & solutions to(309-17) | ||
Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & aging(184), & alcohol(195), & anger(196)(208), & cholesterol (194). & control(187)(209), & depression(187)(195-6), & fantasy (183), & habit of(192), & intimacy(178)(206-7)(210-1), & MANopause(14)(185-6), & Prozac(208), & smoking(193), & testimonial women(209), & testosterone(183)(187)(199)(201), & treatments(202-5) | ||
Improvisation | On Kissing, Tickling and Being Bored | A. Phillips | P. 3 | & therapy as profession of improvisers | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & allows for responsiveness to unpredictable elements of spontaneity(40), & enabling humour & aggression(41), & exercise in setting aside own version of reality w/o discarding it(55, & improvisational moments capture the most heightened moments of relational authenticity(36), & invariant organizing principles constrain(40), & involves playing off the always ready Unc minds of partners & T(32)(159), & mutual inductive identification vs _(138), & optimal improvisation condition ie thirdness vs mutual negation(33), & private improvisational state of reflectivity by T (140), as relational(246), & scriptedness of everyday human relationship vs spontaneous co-creativity(138)(159), & if unable to be _ means one of self-states within one partner takes over & compromises non-Cs p[lay(33), & yes/and relating vs yes/but blocking(32) | |
Winnicottian Therapy, and | In Ones Bones | D. Goldman | Ch. 23 | & ambiguity(188), & illusion(188)(198), & office as theatre(185) (188), & therapy(188-9) | |
Impulses/ Impulsive | Neurotic Styles | D. Shapiro | Ch.5,6 | & action w/o clear motivation(136-7), & charm(147), & externalization of responsibility(137-8), & failure in integration (142), & intention(142), & lack of goals/planning(140)(143)(146), & lack of judgment(147-50), & morality(158)(162)(164), & passive character, impulsive or submissive(169-74), & passive, concrete cognition(151-2), & psychopath as variation of(157)(164-5)(167-8), & qualities of action(139-40)(143), & whim(136-7) | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | as disorder of wishing(311-3), & will(294-5) | ||
Incest | Toxic Parents | S. Forward | Ch.7 | definition of(139-40), & depression(162), & headaches(163), & jealousy(150-1), & myths about(140-2), & overweight(163) | |
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & abandonment(101), & child abuse(101), & hysteria(13)(32), & PTSD(213), & recovery(203) | ||
Forces of Destiny | C. Bollas | Ch. 9 | & analytic silence(177), as attack on dream & dreaming(175-6), & confused relationship w/ Mother(173), & experience of analysis w/ (176)(179-80), & not good-enough inner container(176), & reversal of childs sexual desire(174), & talk of Mother vs Father(174) | ||
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | definition of(16-7), & families of survivors(22-4)& list of adult effects of(14-5)(130-3), & resources to help(307-9), & secrecy(22-3) (148-51), & sexualized caring(127-9), & statistics on(19), & taboo (19-20), & trust(18)(130) | |
Incongruity | Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | See Index | as challenge to our wish for orderly world(39-40)(170), & criteria determining emotional outcome of confrontation w/(40), & definition of(39), & definition of laughter as perception of incongruity between ideals & actuality(39)(80), & humour as juxtaposition of incongruous images or ideas(155), & inability to deal w/(74), of music(40), & novelty(170), & problem-solving(101), & resolution of(40), & responses to(41), as underlying structure in most jokes(39) |
Independence | Males, and Womens | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & commitment(72)(108-9)(169), & independent women(169), & marriage(168), & men as oppressors(355-6), & money(174), & paying(276-7), & sharing males risks(355) |
Individuation | Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | See Index | & anxiety vs depression(103)(115), & betrayal(50-1), & definition of(60), & ego vs Self(12)(139), & goal of(14), & meaning(12), & purpose of life(12), w/ therapist(144), & what is task client will not accomplish?(15), & work of soul as insight, endurance & action (16) | |
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | P. 188 | & realizing psychopathic potential | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & definition of(146), & dialogue w/ Other(140), & loving Other as other(57-8), & projection of(74)(94) | ||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & conflict between Cs & Unc(212)(225)(328-9), & consciousness of community(22), & definition of(212), & mandala(20)(234), & Self (19-20)(234), as spiritual journey towards wholeness(19), & Unc(19) (22)(212) | ||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.261 | & the path of the fool | ||
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | & accepting respon.(195)(220), in adolescence(205-6), & autonomy (209-10), & crime of _(203-4)(206), & differentiation(209), & freed to become an individual or freed from that possibility(21-2)(188), as great promise of the West n& perpetual threat to mass bonds that bind us together(203), & healthy rel. between individual & his drives ie one that promotes growth & dev. of individual(23), & identification(199)(220), as manifestation of love(23)(27)(177)(207-8)(210)(219-20), & mass psychology(24)(200), & process of forming ones values, testing & evaluating them & of making them ones own(207)(213), as psychological achievement(22-3), as pursuing the meaning by which a life is lived(21-2)(205-6), & radical evaluation a part of(212), & sublimation(179), m& taking up archaic life into higher levels of organization(23)(195-6), & T committed to(22)(27)(211-2) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & creativity(198-200), & description of(193), & unity(193) | ||
Anxiety, and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 68 | & self-awareness | |
Fear of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & isolation(153)(171), & opposing the rest of nature(153-4), & sheer terror of(211) | |
HSPs, and | Highly Sensitive People | E. Aron | See Index | & discovering question you were meant to answer(118), & relationship(161-2), & vocation(118-21), & wholeness vs perfection (218-20) | |
Infant, and | The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | @ 6m(54), & aggressive momentum of(216)(226), & definition of(3-4), & effect of Mothers(79)(154)(161), & infantile psychosis (7) (13)(157)(208), as innate(198)(206)(208), & normal autism & symbiosis as prerequisite(47-8), & pre-ego precocity(205), as prerequisite for sense of identity(11), & rapprochement(78-9)(101), as 2 nd birth(10), vs separation(4)(63) | |
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | as basic assumption(7), & FS(13-4), & narcissistic disturbance(34-5) | |||
Men, and | The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | & 4 tasks of mid-life(196-7), & attachment/separateness(239-43), & destruction/creation(222-5)(228), & masculine/feminine(228-36), & transition(195), & young/old(209-21)(335-6) | ||
Steppenwolf | H. Hesse | All | |||
Nietzsche and | The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | p.376 | . . .loves his fate, embraces his suffering, & turns it into art & beauty . . .Our task in life is to perfect nature & our own nature. | |
Women, and | Women who run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | & asking proper question(48)(53), & collective Unc(59-60), & dreams(63), & major theft(262), of Wild Woman(40)(254) | |
Inertia | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & aversion to change(267), & aversion to effort(262), vs idleness(60), & neurotic claims(59-60), in thinking(283), & sensitivity to coercion (266), & suspicion of T influence(267), @ work(325) | |
Infant Development | Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | All | ||
The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | |||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & awareness of death(89-90) | ||
The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | See Index | |||
HSPs, and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | See Index | & attachment(45), & avoiding stimulation(51), & caring for body(46-7), & dissociation(46), & overarousal(41), & overprotection(46) | |
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | & experience of existential uncertainty continually transformed by means of regulatory processes that affect expectations regarding orderliness of the relational exchange(23)(25)& experience of uncertainty & certainty as to availability of self-sustaining relational exchange continually transformed within living systems(21), & game of peek-a-boo(24), & infants intrinsically motivated to order info., detect regularity & generate & act on expectancies(22-3), & 5 motivational systems organized around fundamental needs in neonatal period 1) physiological 2) attachment 3) exploration 4) aversive reaction 5) sensual & sexual pleasure(24-5), & relationship between predictability of observed behaviour & experience related to that behaviour(22), & self object experience(25), & self-regulation as self-predictability ie predictability of persons own behavioural rhythms(22), & supraordinate motivational principle: the need to maintain the organization of experience(25) | ||
Inferiority | Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & envy(128-30), & jealousy(141-2), & paranoia(145)(156) | |
Initiation | Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | & brutality of(76), vs girls(162-3), & wounding(132) | |
Women, and | Women who run with the Wolves | C. Estes | & loss of sense of soul as(262), & tasks of(77-110)(454) | ||
Inner Child Work | Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | All | ||
Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | All | |||
Wounded, and | Inner Child Workshop | J. Bradshaw | All | Separate Binder | |
Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | Useful self-help for clients. Concepts in laymans language. | |||
Inner Reality | Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | vs external(51)(106), vs intermediate area(2)(106), & location of(2) (53), & object relating(131), & playing(51)(106), & potential space (41) | |
Innocence, Violent | On Being a Character | C. Bollas | Ch.8 | & denial(167-8), & FS(183-4), & illusion of understanding(186-7), & recipient of(181-3), & therapy(180-1), & transference(175-6)(178) (191), & unc. communication(188-90) | |
Insecurity, Ontological | The Divided Self | R. Laing | See Index | vs security(39), & self-consciousness(108-9) | |
Insight | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | & decision(338-40), & leverage-producing(340-6) | ||
Instincts | Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | & adult vs infant behaviour(84)(146-9)(155), & approaching(247-8), & behaviour system approach(ethology)(18)(45)(134)(144)(172-3), & cause of(87-90), & changes in life-cycle(141-4)(162), & 4 characteristics of instinctive behaviour(38)(136-7), & displacement (101-2), & environment(45-6)(129), & familiar/unfamiliar(150-1), & feeling(104-5)(110-2)(121-3), vs Freud(15-7)(22)(101-2)(128) (172-3), & functions of(125-30)(133)(224-5), & imprinting(167-70), & needs(138), & outcome vs function(128-9)(161), & pleasure/pain (146), vs psychical energy(173), & regression(102), & sensitive periods(147), & sensory input(95-7)(111)(116-8), & separation/ attachment(29)(140)(179-80)(225-6)(240-1), & sexual(158)(160-1) (163)(230), & social behaviour(166), & sorting into categories (113-4), & survival/adaptation(51)(53-4)(100), & symbols(153), & wishes(138-9) | |
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & 2 main aspects of(386), & archetypes(117)(382-3), & Cs activity rooted in(382), & dreams(188), & fantasies(382), & feminine/ masculine(105), & form as image(382), & horse(188), & learning (387-8), & nutritive(51), & one-sided attitude(140), as original & hereditary(382), & preservation(386), & relationships(112), & shadow(389), & Unc(211) | ||
Steppenwolf | H. Hesse | All | |||
Women, and | Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | & complexes(499), & creative(231), & La Loba(31), & Latin for(231), & loss of(219), & predator(59-60)(481), & shadow(53) (235), & source of(230), & surrendering to them(397), & Wild Woman(4)(6-10)(40)(189)(193)(219)(254)(295) | |
Integration |
| The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | See Index | & altruistic sense of taking joy in others pride(233-4), & chaos/ rigidity reveal impaired _(85-6)(205)(234-5), & character-flexible, adaptive, coherent, energized, stable(FACES)(31)(262), of Cs(30) (239), & created by sharing within awareness across divide between 2 people(133-4), & development of security(164), & 9 domains of(30)(263), & embodies kindness, compassion, altruism & gratitude(23-4), & horizontal(240), & interpersonal(245), & _ compromised in trauma(199-200)(205), & involves linkage of differentiated parts of a system(142)(262), & kindness/compassion integrative(85), & making sense of your life involves _(71), & memory(71)(243), & mindsight(179-181)(234)(237)(264), & narrative(71)(244), & outcome of _=treasure our traits vs feeling compelled to jettison them(164)(172)(182), & promotes well-being (264), in relationship(263), & river of(263), & sensation of harmony subjective side of physical state of(31)(85-6), & state(211)(245), & temporal(206)(246-7), & tracking blocks to(134)(142), & transformation of personal life result of(233)(235), & transpiration l(254-5)(259), & trauma(189), & vertical(242), & when truth emerges, _ flourishes(92), & window of tolerance(50-3), & wisdom, happiness & compassion products of(256) |
Mindsight, and | Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & attachment betrayals & traumatic experiences produce impairments to _(161), & horizontal(72)(181), & integration of Cs(71)(83)(181), & 8 domains of(71), & FACES=flexible, adaptive, coherent, energized & stable(70), @ the heart of well-being(55), & impairments to emotional well-being=movements of mind away from _(67), & integrating integration(256), & interpersonal(75), & ipseity ( itself )=our suchness(208-9), as key mechanism beneath both absence of illness & presence of well-being(xiii)(64)(68), & memory(73)(154)(161-5)(181), of mind, brain & relationships in ∆ of well-being(76), as the minds natural state(118), & narrative(74) (165), & shame(205-6), & SIFT-sensations ,images, feelings, thoughts(226-7), & state(74)(198)(203-4), & temporal(75)(239), & vertical(72-3)(132), & wheel of awareness(162)(181)(206), & when differentiation is blocked, system moves away from complexity into rigidity(64)(66), & when _ is blocked system moves into chaos(64)(66) | |
Intellectualizing | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | P.250 | as achievement | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & description of(123-4), & OCD(283), & schizoid(192) | ||
Males, and | Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | P.127-31 | & control | |
Intention | Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | & adolescents(138), & anger(7)(265), & behaviour(56), of communication(48)(198), & definition of(5), & feelings(56), of parent(136), w/ partner(51-2)(219)249)(254-5), & Path of Protection vs Evolution(5-9)(13)(25)(54), & safety(55), & self-questions(50) (61)(248), & Unc(5-7) | |
Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | See Index | & acting lovingly to get love(120), & anger(107), & belief vs truth (33)(37)(49)(102)(114), & connection(46-7)(49), & FS(31-2), & fear greater than desire(128), & fear of losing control(116), & fear that core is unlovable(122-3), & getting unstuck through intent to learn (105), of Higher Self(29), & importance of knowing truth vs hiding (108), & Inner Adult/Inner Child dialogue(87), & judging (77), to learn about Inner Child by Inner Adult(110), to learn vs protect(5)(19 -20)(126-7), of loving Adult to Inner Child(23), & sex(150-1), & staying unc.(124), & taking responsibility of unloving Adult to Inner Child(20) | ||
Intermediate Area of Experience | Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & cultural experience(5)(100)(107), vs external(106), & good-enough Mother(13), & inner reality(106), & play(47)(107), & potential space(53)(100)(107-10), & transitional objects(2-3) | ||
Being a Character | C. Bollas | & childs room as(257), & object in as compromise formation(18) (20), & playing w/ reality(244-5), & self-experiencing(31) | |||
Internal Space | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & countertransf.(248)(251)& lack of(56), & normotic(137) | ||
Internal Supervision | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | Ch. 2,3 | & communication(41), & external supervisor(27)(31-2), & flight to the past(47), as holding the T(25)(28), vs internalized(26)(32)(103) (194), & interpretation(44), & island of contemplation(31-2), & playing(35), & regression in service of ego(34), & trial identification (34)(51)(154), & Unc supervision by client(53)(63)(107)(198) | |
Internalization | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & introjection(153), of object(110), of self states(110-1), of transference object(110-1) | |
Development, and | The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | & identification(101), & object constancy(109), & rapprochement (101), & separation(211), of superego(101) | |
Males, and | Victims no Longer | M. Lew | P. 42-3 | of victimization | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | & projective identification(18), of representations of self in relation to objects vs objects or object-representations(210), & transf.(210-1) | |
Relationships. And | Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | vs fact(190), & imagos(188), & narcissistic vulnerability(382), of partner(36) | |
Therapy, and | Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow |
| & definition of(23), & transmuting(23)(104) | |
Interpretation | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & Bions phrase, w/o desire, meaning or understanding(20), & bridge to(44), of clients form of communication(41), & clients monitoring of(53), as containment(127-8), & halfway step to(197), as holding(127-8), as indication of understanding(291), & language of (182)(291), & linking past & present(331), & not knowing vs firmness(326-7), & period of hesitation(183)(278-9), & reassurance(114-5)(127), as re-enactment(327), & silence(206), & using theory(203) | |
My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | of clients identifications(19)(21-2), & hours of silence before(140-2), as oriented to clients view of things(13), & post/pre ambivalently-symbiotic phase(5), & premature(276-8), as unc defense(142), & using clients vocabulary(13) | ||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | & active(37), & aggression(141-2)(155-7), & clients relation to(93), & counterresistance(186)(188-191), from countertransf.(42)(105) (108-11)(176), as defence(38), & facial expressions(27), as food (38-9), & hatred(116), & _ when client is in positive transf(39), & _ when T knows what client does not know, needs to know & is capable of knowing(41), as manifestation of affection(73), & need for reparation (34), of objects as parts of ego(59), & projection(138), of repressed impulse w/o defence & vice versa(44), & returning to the client what he has placed in T(37), & revengeful silence(138), of tendencies(153), & Ts masochism(179-80), & T resistance(40), & twofold role of T(105), & what is close to Cs(42) | ||
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | & acceptance & internalization of part of an emotional reorientation toward ones inner & outer world(214)(216), as conceptualization lovingly directed toward & in touch w/ its object(8-9)(213), as expression of wish @ higher level of organization(215), & good-enough_ must manifest a loving acknowledgement of the instincts which fill it w/ life & meaning(213), & only a step ahead if it is to be therapeutic(118), & premature(118), as relieving pressure of (providing satisfaction for) instinctual wish & informing content (215-6), as representing end of a developmental process which begins w/ archaic attempts to say the same thing(8)(114), & structured like an emotion(213-4), as transforming primitive mental activity(7), & validation of must be internal(119)(216) | ||
Open Minded | J. Lear | See Index | as creative & explication(125). as offering opportunity to integrate newly found understanding into ones overall organizational structure(125) | ||
The Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | as act of aggression(31), as dissemination/cohesion(33-4), as destruction(29)(33), & Klein vs Freud(189-90), & Kleinian use of (187-8), & listening(186), & repetition of words(184)(186), & use of object(70), & Winnicott(191) | |||
The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | & emotional experience(91), & interpretations as proof of meaning to clients words(114), & last weeks interpretation as blocking receptiveness(42), as personal myth(39), & realization(91), & removing meaningfulness of(113), & silent reflection as disapproval (114), & use of Grid in classifying(33)(43) | |||
The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | Ch. 5 | & empathy(42), & functions of(32-5)(38), & origin vs here & now (39-40), & silence(30) | ||
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | See Index | & cause(19), as criticism(74), & definition of(18), of dreams(80), as observation(18), of resistance(25)(74), & understanding(73) | ||
This Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | See Index | & Bions quote . . . you wouldnt bother about an inadequate interpretation. I have never given any other kind that is real life not psychoanalytic fiction(92), & concept of action of(21), as directed to T & clients exp.(91), & purpose of(68), & every analytic idea as _ as it addresses the rel. between Cs & Unc exp.(109), & reality of emotional exp. independent of _(64), & respecting ways client has found to protect his sanity(21), & what is true(21)(63-4)(66)(68) | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | & cross-identifications(119), =limit of therapists understanding(86-7), & play(57), & therapist as outside clients area of subjective phenomena(87) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & deep(111), of environment(38)(113)(128), & projection/ introjection(232), & resistance(167), in terms of clients love & ambivalence(37), & transference(158-9), & waiting(38)(189) | ||
Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | & act of offers new ideas to be thought in terms of content & giving form to what has been disclosed from clients UNC(74), & containment & organizing of anxieties as formal effect of interpretative understanding(73), as form of love ie being known (48), & loosening up clients ability to engage in generative self-reflexivity(122), as most important feature of containing environment(48), & speaking the truth(49) | ||
Change, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.343-5 | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & accepting words or concepts as subst. for feeling real(320), & being used as obj. vs exploited as person(211), & client feeling understood vs accuracy of(92-3), & client not being blamed for who he is(160), & clients need authenticity not a saint(211), & clients uncommunicable state of isolation & alienation(319), & clients who are congenial(125), & destroying Ts conception & own self-image (249-50), & engaging clients capacity for perception-a shift from what is behind his eyes to what is in front of them(211), & exploration vs interpretation(160), & focus on what client does w/ what he has, not on what he lacks internally(160), & goal= reactivation of clients concern w/ mental state in himself & his obj.(91)(275), & Help! Im going out of your mind(319), & I dont have an illness; I am my illness & I wont let you cure me of being who I am(208), & illusion that a difficult client is an easy one(125), & interpretation as not-me(208), & interpretation as Ts formulation of his exp. of client not correct formulation of content or cause of optimal failure in empathy(159-60), & interpreting trauma based on quality of client/T rel.(260-1), & mode of listening(159), & participant observer(159), & persuasive _ vs wanting to know traumatic diss. self-states(259-60), & resistance to(91)(275), & smuggling interpretations across N lines(93), & T being unaware of diss. self-states(319), & T concealing his own subjectivity(250), & T feeling ordinary perceptions of clients envy, meanness, etc(159), & T maintaining dual citizenship in 2 domains of reality w/ passports to multiple self-states(137), & Ts sense of failure to understand(319), as translation of Ts personal view of client(250), & traumatic state unmodifiable by(185)(259), & use of transitional space(90-1)(137), & whats going on around here vs what does it mean(161) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | & acceptance of by client as becoming T & losing sense of separateness(77), (vs bearing w/ (containing) the projected feelings (27)(30), & focussing on distorted reality(53), & hair(52), & projective identification as form of communication(60), & silent (31)(68), & understanding projective identification(31), & verbal interpretation of projective identification(40-2) | |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & accepting all complaints(182), & analyst as well-polished mirror (9), as attack, etc(18), & basic fault(108)(165-6), & conveying understanding through atmosphere vs _(182), as devaluing grievance (182-3), & Freudian approach to(8-9)(13-4), as gratifying(18), & importance of every word(18), & insight vs relationship(161), & internalization(8-9), & need to organize complaints(108-9), & new beginning(166), & Oedipal(14), of phenomena as a demand for gratification or form of relationship(162), as reinforcing repetition compulsion(178), & requirement of intelligent ego(9), & 2-person relationship(9-10), as verbal(160)(174-5), & working through(14) | |
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | vs confrontation(75)(173), & empathy(67)(96)(174-5)(182-4) (206-7)(216), as experience near(187-9), w/o moral or educational pressure (208)(210), & oedipal stage(5)(68), & optimal frustration (78) (96) (102-3)(207)(210), & psychic structure(96)(98-9)(103) (107)(174), of self-object transference(67)(173)(192-3)(206-7)(210), as understanding & explaining(94-6)(104-6)(176-7)(185)(191)(206) (209), & working through(75)(106)(173-4)(206)(210) | |
Intersubjectivity | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | P.48-9 | & relation to self as object(48-9), & self-management(48-9) | |
Between Client and Therapist | M. Kahn | See Index | & countertransf.(85)(162, & definition of(70), & description of(158-63)(174), vs the past(78), & values of(128) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & agency within intersubj. field of mutual need, responsibility & recognition(11)(40)(48)(91-2)(127), & alcohol(252), & concerns regulating psychological belonging vs aloneness(12), & _ conjunctions(74-5), & curiosity about(86), & degree of playfulness available in(138)(246), & _ disjunctions(74-5), as developmental achievement @ 8/9 months of age(12), & discovering subjectivity in the other(12)(149), & dominated by one self-state(33),& embeddedness(153), & history-taking as holding promise of _ engagement(91), as one of major motivations that drive T forward (12), & other-centred listening(57), & the other in fantasy vs how that other actually experiences her subjective sense of reality(68) (127), & principles vs positional negotiation(170)(200), & reflection requisite condition for(153), & subject-centred listening(57), & subject-to-subject relating(12)(35), & where objects were, subjects must be(12)(235) | ||
Primary, and | Love & War | S. Tatkin | & parallel play(151), & primary(151), & secondary or joint attention(151) | ||
Intimacy | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & active listening(303)(328), & apathetic/compulsive relationships (44-5)(53)(70-1)(77), & boundaries(79-80), & 4 levels of communication(34)(69-71)(189-91), & comforting ourselves(350), & dysfunctional(33-4), & 5 primary elements of emotional bonding (218-20), & encounter as here & now intimacy(91)(96)(214), & exercises for intimate communication(312-22), & expectations (91-2), & high intensity(201), & long term gratification(69), & self-disclosure(191) (317), & skill questionnaire(329-30), & sexuality(212) | |
Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | See Index | as act of fruition vs love as act of imagination(21), & aggression (35-6), & capacity not to worry(29), & comfort love(32), & coercion, intrusion & control(45), & couples creation myth (19-20), & creating distance(32)(37), & eliminating otherness(36-7), vs erotic (34), & fear of engulfment(28), & flaccid vs dynamic safety(36), as fusion(46), & good intimacy vs good sex(23-4)(26), vs intimate bids(51), & lack of autonomy(30), & laws of sexual desire(31), & love vs desire(37), & men & sex(43)(48), & sense of selfhood vs distance(37), & women & speech(46) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & child abuse(101), & countertransf.(143), & groups(28-9)(215-6), as presenting problem of survivor(123), & reconnecting(205-6), & recovery(133), & regulation of(clinging/isolation)(56), & sexual (206), & survivors(110-1)(174), & violence(31) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | Ch.7 | & borderline(107)(110-4)(116)(119-20)(127), & definition of(107), & engulfment/abandonment(112-3), & love(109-10), & narcissist (107)(110)(112)(122-4)(127), & Oedipal(108-9), & RS(45)(107) (109-11)(118), & schizoid(111)(121)(127-8), & separation/ individuation(108), & sexual(111)(118-9)(123) | ||
Soulmates | T. Moore | Ch.2 | & Cs(26), & death(35), & defense(39-49), & foolishness(31), & imagination(41-2), as Latin for profoundly interior(23), & love of soul(26-8)(31-3), & parents(33), & personal mythology of(33-6), w/ self(28)(32)(40-1), & Unc(26), & vulnerability(30) | ||
Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | & control(115), & feeling accepted(103), vs infatuation(107), & joy (124-5), & loss of(114), & love(10)(107), & risking rejection(116), & sex(121), & sharing of pain(117) | ||
Men, and | Why men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & being needed by her(162)(359-60), & fear of intimacy=fear of looking inward(200), & his neediness(162)(359), & commitment (151)(161-3), w/ one woman(162), towards women vs men(359), as primary unfulfilled need(161) | |
Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | & sexual as only possibility for abused(72-3), & survivors(172-3) | ||
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | & commitment of(74)& emotional flooding(40), & Mother(64-5) (179-81)(265-6), & responsiveness(19), & shame(37)(40) | |||
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | & defensive autonomy(130), & family(228-9), & male friends(228), & sex(239)(248-9), & side by side(266) | |||
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | & depression(22), w/ other vs self(317), & turning away from(144) | |||
Relationships, and | How Do I Get Through To You? | T. Real | See Index | & boys wounds(60-1), & falling in vs staying in love(199), & healthy sexual passion(226-7), & mature love(225), & men vs women(40-1), & mens disillusionment w/(198-9), & mens fear of(245), & preconditions for(199-201), & relational esteem(258), & relational skills())258-9), & scanning for the positive(245), & self-esteem(43), & the shadow(173), & solitude(257-8), & transmutation of pain into rage for men(59), & you can be right or you can be married(243) | |
What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & couples colluding an impingement if both fear intimacy(10-1), & full face-to-face erotic _ too blinding(69), & how resolution of oedipal issues affects choice partner & capacity for intimacy(6), & one of the main sources of tension is conflicting needs for autonomy & intimacy(2-3)(21-2), & oppositional couples interfere w/ emotional intimacy(113), & sexual activity expressing need for(47), & successful couples manage right amount of ability to be dependent & tolerate dependency needs in other & capacity to separate from original family to be able to form new bonds & be autonomous from each other(22), & symbiotic couples interfere w/ sexual intimacy(113), & the third threatening _(10-1), & use of parents to avoid(8) | ||
Sex, and | Passionate Marriage | D. Schnarch | All | ||
Introjection/ Introject | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & definition of(153), & generative(127), vs incorporation(153) | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & borderline(112), & definition of(32), & description of(108-12), & paranoid(210), & psychopaths(154) | ||
Melanie Klein | P. Grosskurth | & definition of(100), & depressive position(217), & ego(331), & phantasy life(317), & superego(217)(331) | |||
Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | of breast(6)(30-1)(50)(58)(67)(99)(117)(136)(178-9)(188)(238), & death/life instincts(30-3)(59)(69)(138-9), as defense against anxiety (6)(58)(273-4), & definition of(250), & depressive anxiety(34-5), & depressive position(2-3)(35)(50)(72)(76-8), & ego development(2) (6)(9)(11)(58)(70)(72)(144)(178)(239), & envy(189)(218), & excessive(253), & excessive withdrawal(11), & father(32)(50)(79), as forceful entry from outside(11), of good & bad objects(2)(9)(32 )(34) (50)(58)(69)(72)(189)(251), & gratitude(67)(188-9)(311), & greed (165)(181)(188)(320), & guilt(34)(50), & identification(69) (72-3) (141)(309), of idealized object(9)(50)(274), & integration (14), & loneliness(309)(312), & love/hate(2)(50)72), & Mother(44) (72)(90) (251), & object relations(2-3)(9)(11)(49)(138-9), & Oedipus stage(2) (50)(79), & persecutory anxiety(32), & phantasy (32)(50)(58)(250), w/ projection of external hostile world(11), & schizoid(153)(170), & schizophrenia(2)(11), & splitting(2)(11) (238), & superego(30)(32) (50)(59)(67)(72)(133)(136)(292-3)(320), & weaning(44) | ||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | & ambivalence(143-4), & anxiety(119)(124), & definition of(20), & depressive position(127), & disturbances of function of(119), & excessive use of(21), of good object as defense(120), & greedy love (178-9), & guilt(70-1)(142), & M-D states(142), & mourning(166) (173), & Oedipal(70-1), & paranoia(126-7), of parents(62-3)(92) (140)(143)(148-9)(173), & sadism(116)(124)(144), & scotomization (117), & splitting(143), & superego(70-1), & weaning(70)(142-3) | |||
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | See Index | as defense against feeling of abandonment(12), & dependent on parents through(14), as heirs of parents(14), & isolation(14), & TS (14), & valuation of feeling(84), & valuation of impulses(84) | ||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | & aggressiveness(236), & definition of(222), & disgust(237), & elimination of(224)(237), & fixation(239), & impatience(233), vs retroflection(222), as unfinished business(238-9) | ||
Ego States: Theory and Therapy | H/J. Watkins | See Index | & abreaction(118), & development of ego states through(31), & identification(16), & object vs ego cathexis(14)(16)(18), as stone in stomach(16) | ||
Freud | J. Lear | & bodily fantasy of taking mother inside(177), & control of ego over id(185), & dev. of sense of self-of inside vs outside(178), & identification(177-8), & projection(178) | |||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & being(80)(82), & female element(80-2), & merged w/ & use of therapist(137), & self-discovery(82), & T when introjection restricted (119) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & control of persecutory elements(232), & eating(174), as foreign goods(99), & guilt(18), & incorporation(99), vs internal environment (34), & Klein(174), of moral codes(99-100), & Oedipus(18), & psychosis(131), & superego(18) | ||
vs Interject | The Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | P.113 | ||
Introjection, extractive | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | Ch.9 | & borderline(164), & definition of(158)(163), of guilt(163), & law of talon(166), & normotic(164), & paranoia(167-8), by parent(159), vs projective identification(163-4)(167), as theft of affect(165), as theft of ideas(165), as theft of mental structure(165), as theft of self(166), & transference(168) | |
Introjective Identification | Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | P.136-7 | as therapeutic experience of form of projective identification | |
Introversion | Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | & compartments(210-1), & shadow(258-9) | |
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & compensation(18), & definition of(18), & description of(129-33) (141-3), & dreams(21), & 4 functions(18)(132-8), & Jung as introducer of(18)(129), & marriage(161)(163-4), & self-regulation (18), & subject vs object(131), & task of therapy(21) | |||
Solitude | A. Storr | & avoidance behaviour(98)(115)(146-7), & being alone(98), & neurosis as exaggerated(87)(93), & schizoid(98), & self-realization by self-referencing(147)(154) | |||
Fear of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | & → feeling of slavery in ones safety(84), as impotence(84) | ||
Intrusion | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & arresting normal development by(37), & dreams(39), & medication (161), of memory(37-8), & reenactment(39-42), as PTSD symptom (35), & therapeutic flooding(183) | ||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | as caregivers failure to provide attuned responses to childs changing needs & affect states(53), as experiences that impede childs emerging, self-delineation & autonomy(52-3), & presence of pervasive requirement to comply w/ another persons expectations & to meet their needs(59), as psychological usurpation(59), & results in self-org. prone to shame, fragmentation, depressive accommodation to needs of others & rigid defensiveness(53) | |||
Intuition | Being a Character | C. Bollas | as desire(91), & ego(90), & genera(89)(106), & play(106), & therapy (90), & Unc. exploration(87)(93) | ||
The Aquarian Conspiracy | M. Ferguson | See Index | as whole brain knowing(107)(295-7) | ||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & acorn(104)(107), & anecdote(102), & calling(104-5), & description of(98-100), & mythical thinking(98), vs tuition(102) | ||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | & body(288), & Cross as symbol(363), & definition of(315), & 1/4 functions(315-6)(590), & Logos/Eros(698) | ||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & definition of(144)(219), as function(18)(21)(133), & Unc(219) | |||
The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | & divination(367-8), & uncertainty(368), & un-knowing(360) | |||
The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | See Index | =analyst becoming psychic reality(167)(178), & Archimedes eg(167-8), vs inference(167), & memory/desire{including for a cure}blocking (167-8)(170-1), as occurring through inner creative act of thought (167), & psychic reality known only by(167), & senses blocking (167), & shame as eg(167), & state of reverie(168-9), & truth(178), & understanding(170) | ||
Seeing with the Minds Eye | M. Samuels | See Index | & right brain(63), & transliminal mind(245), & visualization(313) | ||
HSPs, and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | See Index | & intuitive type(7)(221-3) | |
Women, and | Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | & asking the right questions(48), & body(204) | |
Irony | Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & longings & fears(114), & moralists/literalists(100-1)(103-5)(110), as nature of spirituality(102), as promoting complexity(107), vs tragedy(100), & virtue(114-5), & wit(99-100) | ||
Isolation | Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & creativity(107)(155), & helplessness(46), & imagination(17), as therapy(33)(106), & uncertainty(46) | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & description of(122-3), & OCD(283) | |||
Staring at the Sun | I. Yalom | & existential(121), as existing in isolation vs shared(145), as 1 of 4 ultimate concerns(201), & 2 kinds of loneliness(120 | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & adolescence(190), & FS(47)(183-4), vs insulation(187), & Mothers depression(191-2), & schizoid(189), & silence as communication(183-4)(186)(188), of TS(46)(187) | ||
Couples, and | Love Sense | S. Johnson | & is clear danger cue, registers as physical threat to survival(77), & feelings of designed to move us to repair our social ties(270), & isolation for planets not people(23), & surest way to destroy people is to deny them loving human contact(22-3), & is traumatizing & exacerbates our perception of threat(64) | ||
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | & depressed alcoholics(220), & depression a disease of loneliness(214), & helping connect w/ people around him(103)(220), & isolation caused by crowding(214), & psychodynamic T(103) | ||
Existential, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | & death(356), & defamiliarization(358)(360-1), & definition of(355), & growth(361-2), vs interpersonal/intrapersonal(353-4), & psychopathology(373-90), & relationship(363-73), & responsibility(357), & therapy w/(393-415) | ||
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | & abused child(72), & adult survivors(114), & loss of social contact (69), in relationships(130)(171), & secrecy(149)(157) | ||
Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & depression(126-7), & mid-life(61), & social(126), & stonewalling(85) | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Jealousy | Feelings | W. Gaylin | See Index | about people as rivals(130-1), of attention, love & recognition(131) (140), as bound to family structure & early childhood(140), & definition of(130), vs envy(128)(130), as fear of loss of loved object to another(130), & survival(131), & suspicious(sexual & romantic relationships)(130) | |
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.99-112 | & attachment/separation(108), & complexity of(102), & Hera (106-9)(112), & love(105), & initiation(105), & obsession(108), as serving the soul(102)(107), & unexplored territory(101) | ||
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Churchills Black Dog | A. Storr | Ch.5 | & character type(116-7), & delusions(130), vs envy=wishing anothers possession(114), as fear of loss of possession(113-4)(130), & hate(114), & impotence(122), & love(114)(131), & obsession(128) | ||
Therapy, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | Ch.6,8 | of analysis vs analyst participation(125), & childs jealousy of parents body parts(107), of clients attachment to nonhuman things (238), of clients hallucinations(103)(144)(248), of clients & analysts healthier selves(119-20), & clients use of therapist as diary to prevent therapists murderous _ (136)(138), vs envy(130-1), of mental image(108)(110), & negative therapeutic reaction(119), of ones own body part(105), of parental attention to breasts by female (106), of parents relationship(114), of parents self(109), of penis by impotent men(105), & process of internalization(150), & reality- based by therapist(135), & reporting of to client(139-40), & schizoids _ of own intimacy w/ outer world(144), of self at heart of psychopathology & resistance(100), & use of silence to access in therapist(141-2), toward spouse(113), & splitting/dissociation(124), & therapist defended against intrapsychic(143), of aspect of therapist that enjoys close contact w/ client(135), of therapist as analyst vs friend or lover(111), of therapist over schizoid persons(87-8), of therapists towards clients body part(107), & trans. _(125), & unc jealousy of client of whole body 1 st experienced by therapist(106-7) (246) | |
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | P.138-44 | & definition of(139), & emptiness of value(141), & paranoia(141), & sleep of(143), & unworthiness(141), & valuing partner(142) | ||
Joy/Rapture | Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | See Index | & devoted to own(175), vs feeling safe(175), & healing planet(175), & working on _ vs issue(175) | |
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | P. 187-8 | as uncaused & arising from within | ||
The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | P. 171 | Mark Twain-Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it w/. | ||
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | as the affirmation of ones essential being in spite of desires & anxieties(14), & courage(14-5), as the emotional expression of the courageous Yes to ones own true being(14) | ||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | See Index | & contaminated w/ self-hatred when things go wrong in childhood(70), as indispensable in establishing a foundation in mindfulness(109), & joy inhibits worry & restlessness(110), & meditation(136), as natural expression of mind that is relaxed in concentrated awareness(108), & not lost in childhood(101), & preservation of capacity for joy depends on & supports ability to tolerate surprise & unpredictability in ones life & ones partner(111), & rapture=link between concentration & mindfulness(109), & rapture functions to suppress hatred(110), & serves as foundations for faith, energy, mindfulness & concentration→ successful introspection & relationships & creates climate of mind in which wisdom can flourish(111), of spontaneous discovery(90), as supportive of investigation & freedom(111) | ||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | See Index | as any sudden mastery of a source of hitherto incompletely mastered fear will also produce joy(165), as categorical emotion(165), & expression of healing affects(172-3), & following experiential process whereby unbearable becomes bearable(165) | |
Therapy, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & experience of vs absence/presence of pleasure(211), in achievement (14)(188), & analyst response(189), & oedipal phase(14) | |
Jung, C. | The Discovery of the Unconscious | H. Ellenberger | Ch.9 | & biography(657-79), & contemporaries(682-7), & influence of(731-7), & opus(687-726), & personality of(679-82), & sources(727-31) | |
The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | See Index | as compared to Laing(22), & ego/FS(224), & Laings openness to (57), & psychotic regression as self-cure(227), & schizophrenia (238-9), & sins of the parents revisited(217), & trickster(3-4), & unc. fantasies(214-5) | ||
Pilgrim | T. Findley | All | Novel | ||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & daimon(181), & intuition(99), & love map(141-2) | ||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & anima(21-2)(45), & archetypal persons(22), & archetypes(131) (156), & as-if interpretation(156-7), & daimons(50), & depth therapy(65)(74)(104)(117)(228), & differences(88), & dreams (33-4), & ego dissolution(40-1), & errors of attention(160), & fantasy images (22-4), & personality Number One(32-3) | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | & archetypes(127), & children(22), & conflict(122-3), & family history(22), & God(121)(136), & neurosis(79)(111)(122), & Other (129), & personality of therapist(107), & projection(53), & the reconciling third(58), & religion(117)(124), & Self(31)(122), & tension of opposites(140-1), & Wholeness(122)(140) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | All | |||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | ||||
The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | See Index | & anima(109), & archetypes(210-1), & deflation(247-8), as father of study of adult development(4)(323), & four functions(33), & individuation(33)(196), & mid-life(4)(32-3)(196), & Puer(211), & Senex(211) | ||
The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | See Index | & alchemy(167)(266), & archetypes(193-5), & art(199), & dreams (172-3), & enchantment(190), & gardens(97)(102), & incantation on doorway(265), & Mercury(332-3), & the numinous(38)(393), as outstanding magician(265), & persona(210), & puer(15), & scintilla (35), & seizure as expression of archetype(197), & sex(158-9), & stone(32-3)(283-4), & synchronicity(361), & therapy(186) | ||
Androgyny | J. Singer | & alchemy(139-40), & archetypes(6), & Christ as androgynous man (125-6), & closed system(251-2), & contrasexual(anima/animus) (29)(31-2)(157)(256-7)(266), & ego(269-70)(331), & God(78), & introvert/extravert(250-1), & psychological functions(251), & Self (157), & shadow(119), & therapy(134), & women(42)(164)(317) | |||
The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | See Index | & advice(28), & dreams(46)(48), & goal of therapy(156)(198)(201), & imagination(198), & practice of therapy(68)(196-9), & regression (79), & transference(71-2), & unc infection(187), & unc interpretation(38) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & active imagination(198), & creativity(199), & definition of personality(191), & expressing feelings through painting, etc.(129), & imagination(197), & individuation(193-7), & mid-life(190-1), & neurosis as extreme introversion/extraversion(87), & numinous experiences(40-1), & Self(194), & Unc.(194), & unity(200) | ||
Churchills Black Dog | A. Storr | Ch.9 | & adult development(192), & compensation(195), & creative imagination(200), & dreams(196), & individuation(197)(201), & mental illness as disunity(186), & neurosis(191-3), & Self(198-9) | ||
Seeing with the Minds Eye | M. Samuels | See Index | & active imagination(37)(185-6), & art(245-6), & creativity(248), & mandalas(28), & participation mystique(248), & psychic reality(246), & Self(72)(148), & symbols(82)(84), & synchronicity(270), & unity (13), & visualization(184-6) | ||
Women, and | Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | & animus(58)(310), & collective unc.(27), & complex(& constellation of)(438)(499), & ego(270-1), & enantiodromia(410), & God(59-60), & instincts(230-1), & mana(483), & mid-life(224), & Mother structure(482), & participation mystique(387), & the Self (29), & self(503), & spiritual vs sexual issues(345), & tension of opposites(426) | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Kairos | The Middle Passage | J. Hollis | See Index | as childhood vs mid-life body(25), vs linear succession of years(18) | |
Kissing | On Kissing, Ticking and Being Bored | A. Phillips | Ch. 9 | as blurring distinction between giving & taking(97), as devouring object(97), & kissing oneself as ludicrous(94), & kissing reflecting character(96), as softened hint at sexual act(97), & teeth as educators(96) | |
Klein, Melanie | Melanie Klein | P. Grosskurth | All | ||
Hope & Dread | S. Mitchell | See Index | & aggression(162), & experiencing world as Mothers body(112), & hope(212), & hopeful attitude towards analysts understanding (211-2), & projective identification(222) | ||
Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | & achievements of civilization as sublimation(265), & analysis as creation(43), & breast(77), as central in UK(5)(214), & countertransf. (255), & depressive/paranoid-schizoid positions(253), & epistemophilic instinct(257), & the father(255), & good/bad Mother (7)(12)(254), & Klein as analyst(244-6), & latency(118), & love/hate of parts of Mother(51), & object relations(218-9)(291), & penis envy (69), & phallic Mother(57), & pre-Oedipal(40)(118) (301), & reparation(22), & superego(40)(122)(247), & using little toys(246) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | Ch.16 | & capacity to be alone(31-2), & child analysis(119)(126)(173-4), & concern/guilt(21-5)(103)(176), & death instinct(191), & depressive position(21)(24)(30)(112)(129)(176), & environmental factor(177), & individuals value(25), & inner psychic reality(174)(185)(232), & introjection/projection(50)(174)(185), & paranoid/schizoid position (129)(177), & pre-Oedipal(42)(172)(175), & reparation(23), & study apart from child care(126), & summary of contributions(178), & superego(128) | ||
Kindness | On Kindness | Phillips | All | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Laing, R.D. | The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | All | ||
Language | This Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | See Index | & cannot say a feeling but can say what an emotional exp. feels like(9), & form of self-awareness mediated by verbal symbolization as one of most important aspects of successful T exp.(9), & needing to know what one is feeling(9), & tying directly to clients emotional growth reflected in action(25) | |
Brain, and | The Right Brain | T. Blakeslee | See Index | & children(88), & creative problem solving(124), & dreams(32-3), & expressive(133), & left brain(6)(9)(124-5)(167), & nonverbal Cs(72), & reading(89-91), & removal of hemisphere(17), & right brain(130-1)(135), & stuttering(93)(96), & Unc(26)(38) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples T | P. Ringstrom | & what language conceals is said through my body. My body is a stubborn child; my language is a very civilized adult(27)(252) | ||
Death, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | & childrens development of(82-4)(90) | ||
Development, and | The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | & body(15), & gender difference(214), & gestural(116), & I(101), & individuation(101), & preverbal communication(15), & rapprochement(77)(90)(116), & separateness(128) | ||
The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | & accountability(180-1), & being-with experience(228), & constructing narrative(162), & deniable form of communication (180), & discontinuity in experience(176), & domain of verbal relatedness (174), & experience that transcends words(176-7), & FS/TS(227-8), & negotiating shared meaning(170-4)(178)(182), vs nonverbal global experience(175-6), & repression vs disavowal (227-8), & self/other (162)(168-9), as soil of neurosis(182), & space between lived & represented(181-2), & split in experience of self (163), & symbolism (182), as transitional phenomena(172), & Unc(181), & who owns meaning(169) | |||
The Beast in the Nursery | A. Phillips | Ch.2 | & inarticulate self(51)(53)(57-8), & noisy silence(42-3)(57), & psychoanalysis(63), & speech impediments(55), & talking w/ children(54)(58)(64), & transformative vocabularies(63), & who decides what you have to say(47) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & building blocks for constr. of personal meaning(246), & centrality of expressing linguistically who one is(174), & consensus on words meaning(140)(174)(176)(178-9), & meaninglessness of words in diss.(246-7), & perception(180), & speaking as action in interper. context(2)(246), & T allows act of recognition where words symbolize vs substitute for exp.(25)(128)(146)(247), & words as carriers of personal feeling in childhood(246), & wrongness of verbal picture(128)(145) | |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | of basic fault(16-7)(96-7), & clients learn analysts to be understood (93), & Oedipal vs pre-Oedipal(15-6)(174-5), & T as interpreter & informer of non-verbal(96-7)(111), of Unc(97), as unreliable in regression(177) | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & being understood(291), & interpretation(291), & learning clients(291) | |
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | See Index | & felt rightness of spoken word affects out exp. of uncertainty that self-containing relational experiences will be available(31), & unspoken word may heighten exp. of uncertainty(31), & use of narrative to give us illusion that our life stories make sense & are marked by orderliness & unity(32) | |
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & gender difference(100)(104)(133-5)(180)(218), & masculine domination through(15), & pattern of similarity/differences of history vs prehistory(217), & phallic(18), & separation(103) | |
Laughing/ Laughter | The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | P.77-81 | & commonality of(77), & danger(79), & parental recognition(79), as play signal(80), & similar to crying(78-9) | |
Humour on the Couch | Al Lemma | See Index | as enhancing social bonds(104), as an essentially human characteristic (44), as instinctive & primitive(44), as not being alone psychologically (14), & physical expression same in all humans (44), & play developing from(13), vs sense of humour(45), as sustained by oscillation between flexible & inflexible behaviour(29), as violation of taboos(37) | ||
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | & allowing more of ones selves to get into the act(116), as mechanism by which shame can be reduced or eliminated(116), & providing opportunity for transgressing person to join others in viewing the self ie the self moves from site of shame to site of observing shame w/ the other(116) | |||
Learning | Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | in animals(223), & babbling(287-9), & consequences of behaviour (115), & development of attachment behaviour(179-80)(224-6), & environment(45-6)(50-3), & exploratory behaviour(238-9), & exposure _(297), face differences(222-3)(270)(297), & familiar / unfamiliar(150-1), & imprinting(167)(169-70)(211)(223), & instinctual vs learned behaviour(38-40)(48)(160)(172-3), & protection of young(63)(226)(375), & sensitive periods of(147)(223) (322), & smiling(280-1)(284)(286), & social interaction(166)(269) (314-5) | |
The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | & autoregulation of emotions(227), & bad habits(60)(170), & childhood trauma(240), & critical periods for(227), & feeling fully alive(116), & grief(118), & learning something new(252), & multitasking(68), & neuronal reorganization when we fall in love & parent(118), & oxytocin(119-121), & positive bonds(233), & talking to neurons re: T(220-1), & therapist as microsurgeon of the mind(221), & unlearning associations(232-3)(235-6), & unlearning existing memories(117), & unlearning when falling in love(117) | |||
The Aquarian Conspiracy | M. Ferguson | Ch.9 | & definition of(427), & different reality(373), as health(282), & learner as open system(294), & outgrowing someone(320), & transpersonal education(287) | ||
Libido | Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | & anima(59-60), & dreams(307), & energy(427), & intense situations (288), & life not lived(266), & rebirth(334), & sexuality(265) | |
Locus of Control | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | & choosing a therapist(267), & depression(262-4), & description of(156-8) | ||
Loneliness | Envy & Gratitude | M. Klein | Ch.16 | & adaptation to reality(310), as being alone w/ bad part of self(302), & confusion(304), & defences against(311), & definition of internal (300), & de-idealization(305), from depressive feeling of irretrievable loss(301), & fear of death(304), & harsh superego(313), & impossibility of complete self-understanding(302), & interplay of internal/external factors(312), as longing for understanding w/o words (301), & not belonging(302), as painfulness of integration (301)(312), as part of illness(300), from paranoid/depressive anxieties(300-1), & phantasy of twin(302), & projection of split off & lost parts(302), & relation to good object(310), & schizophrenia (304), & suicidal tendency(305), as universal phenomena linked w/ fear of parting(13), & yearning for perfect internal state(300) | |
Staring at the Sun | I. Yalom | See Index | & dying as loneliest event of life(119), & existential isolation(121), & 2 kinds of(120-1) | ||
Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | See Index | & bearing the unbearable(64), & If you are a friend of loneliness dont get married(61), & the Other as solution(65) | ||
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | & awful to be alone in a mind that has gone against you(436), & depression a disease of(214)9436), & learning value of intimacy from(436-7) | ||
Existential, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & avoiding(376-7), & being ones own parent(357-8), & existential(221)(230), as interpersonal isolation(353), & isolation(398) | |
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 77 | as special form of anxiety | ||
Men, and | Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | & connecting w/ self & others(336-7), as failure(15), & shame(337) | |
Longing | Dancing with Fire | J. Amodeo | See Index | & = being human & having capacity to notice how pursuing affects others(179-80), & carry wish to move life forward(28)(52), & clinging(25)(48)(52)(58), for connection(30), vs craving(71-2)(87) (181), & defense against(26-7), & depression(28), & desire(27)(45) (147), & desire to be seen & understood(26), & distorted(24-5), & having no preferences(68), & isolation(99), & infants not ashamed of(21-2), & longings crash & burn in inferno of mutual contempt & disgust(56), for love(22-3)(52), & longings of parents vs child(23), & mindfulness(29)(51), & N(181), for respect & kindness(72), & sense of helplessness in satisfying(89), & shame(22)(58)(111), & shuts down through birth of shame(22), & suffering(45)(98), & turning against ourselves(26), & unmet _ entangled w/ fear, shame & old wounds→ harshness(39)(64), & withholding(25) | |
Loss/Losses | Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | All | ||
Borderline, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | & analysts experience of loss of non-differentiated Mother(146) (347)(353), & dissociated feelings of _ revealed in casual comment (348), & giving up illness(316), & guilt @(318), of non-integrated world of early childhood(146), & relinquishing bad introjects (347-8), & sadistic defence of leaving session(315), & unc resistance to(146) | |
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | & childhoods filled w/ hist. of new attachments & losses(29), & many transitions(28), & safe if only nothing to lose(61) | ||
Men, and | Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | of control(187), & denial of(83), of dreams(62)(127), of father (38-9)(168), & heart attacks(82-3), of idealized self(127), & impotence (187), of job(125-6)(143)(259-61), & midlife(41)(61) (99), & mourning of(230), of self-respect & dominance(187), & starting over (139) | |
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | & anger(68-9), & compensation through romance(217), of control of body(60), & devaluation(107), & idealization(107), of integrity(65) (73)(104-5), of intimacy(114-5), of joy(114), of power of love(74), & powerlessness(40-1)(55), & rage(107-8), of self-esteem(92), & shame (64-5), of voice(64), of vulnerability(114), & world of male desire (15) | ||
Love | Youll See It when You Believe It | W. Dyer | See Index | & commitment(139), vs control of another(156)(177), & definition of(85), & detachment(160-2)(175)(179), & forgiveness(236-7)(244) (254)(256), of form(102), as giving not taking(163), & needing more (112-3)(160-2), & self-love(201)(236), of someone w/ undeveloped part of us(105), of work(126-7)(132)(139) | |
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | & accepting respon. as active _(172-3), as basic dev. force in nature tending toward higher & more complex unities(12)(150)(157)(169) (199)(210)(215)(221), & concern w/ how we should live a product of love & loss(186-7), & description of the ways of(219), as dev. thrust within individual toward rational orientation to world(51) (177), & disorganized(169-70), as emotional orientation to world to present itself as worthy of our love(142)(153-4)(184), as force for individuation(27)(177)(186)(207)(220), as force for unification wherever there is life(147), & human sexuality as incarnation of (147), & I as manifestation of(184)(219-20), as impelling us to abolish boundaries between individuals & pulling in opposite directions(149-50)(177)(199), & individual comes to be as manifestation of(23), & interpretation a manifestation of(213-4), & `living means the same as loving`(154-5), & loves faithfulness to past loves(196), & loving responsiveness of parents to infant(154) (169), & melancholic`s identification w/ lost love as outcome of disappointment in(159-60), & outcome of love affair w/ world is a dev. in psychic structure(165)(185), as promoting autonomy(209-10)(220), & radical evaluation of values a ,manifestation of(207-9), & regression(199), & science of subjectivity because love is basic force in nature(221), & therapy as part of love`s developmental history(28), & when in love projects characteristics he values onto his love(197-8) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | as always involving a transgression(141), & being stuck(133), & choosing not to love=not living(123), commitment(149), & imagination(133), & impossible(133)(136-8), & inherent hysteria (121-2), & involving desire to couple & uncouple(137-8), as ladder to divine(125)(145), & meaning is love(124), & not guaranteeing good sex(173), & paradox of person & partner(138), & passion for life(127-8), vs practicality(125), as primary source of dark night (121)(123), & the unknown lover(140)(142), & waiting for it(134) | ||
Freud | J. Lear | & attraction from position she holds in imaginative life(150), & distortion of reality(151), & importance of maintaining lover as forbidden(150), as regression to earlier forms of mental functioning(176), & unavailable woman(150) | |||
How Do I Get Through to You? | T. Real | & aloneness(208), & disillusionment(knowledge w/o love)(173) (178, & flexibility/responsiveness(211-4), & growth-in- connection(166), & love w/o knowledge(171-2), & mother/child bond(164), & patriarchal(161), & 3 phases of healthy(170), & relational empowerment(246), & repair(knowing love)(180)(207), & revenge(189-90), & survival of disconnection(167-8) | |||
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & anxiety(36), & the courage to be(24), & fear(36), & participation in the universal or divine act of self-affirmation(23) | ||
Feelings | W. Gaylin | See Index | & anger(187), & behaviour(158-60), & being touched(165)(177-9), & guilt(179)(187), & humanness(53), & hurt(178-9), & unlovability as danger(30-1) | ||
The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | P.135 | & definition of, of other | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & capacity destroyed(194), as demanded by perpetrator(75), & fantasy of forgiveness(189-90), & groups(215-6) | ||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & anima/animus(141), as daimonic necessity(144)(245), & falling in (141-2)(144-7), & fate(141)(145), & love map(141)(145), & parroted I love you(166), as projection(141) | ||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | & anima(43), & Eros/Psyche(102), & humanizing(188-90), of images (50), & personifying(14-5)(19), & ritual(137) | |||
The Will to Live | A. Hutschnecker | See Index | as creativity(26), as Eros(26), & fear of(162), as healer(44), & incapability of(162), vs possessiveness(162), & secure in parents (163), & ulcers(102-3) | ||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | Ch.4 | & death(91), & divine(81)(95), & divine imagination(81), & dream state(81), & eternity(79)(82), as an event of soul(78)(84), & friendship(94-5), vs reason(81), & relatedness(94), & shadow qualities of(85)(89)(91), & taboo(85), & tragedy(85), as ushering in community of people(79) | ||
The Road Less Traveled | S. Peck | P.81-182 | as act of will(83), & acting vs feeling(88), &n attention(120-1), vs cathecting(117-9)(133), as choice(83), & collapse of ego boundaries (96-7), & commitment(118-9)(140-1), & confrontation(150-4), & definition of(81), vs dependency(98-100), as effortful(83), as extension of self(94-5), vs falling in love as regression(84-5)(87-90 ) (95)(97), vs a feeling of(116)(118-20), & listening(121)(125-8), & marriage(118)(128-9)(167-8), & masochism(110)(115-6), & myth of romantic(91)(93), & passive dependent people(100-5), & peak vs plateau experience(95), of pets(108-10), & risk of loss/rejection (131)(133), & self-discipline(155-6), as self-evolution(82), & sexual component(90), & spiritual growth(106-7)(120)(140-1)(158), & therapy(118)(147-8)(173)(177)(179)181) | ||
The Art of Loving | E. Fromm | All | |||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | See Index | & begins in dependence(162)(165), & can never be between equals because makes people unequal(162) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & being in(186-7), & compliance vs avoidance(100), vs egotism (182), & Mother as source(125), & pursuit of the whole(186-7), & self-esteem(125), & transitional vs impersonal objects(70-1) | ||
Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & aggression(141-4), & chemistry vs choice(194-5), & degrading of(28), & dependency(133-5), & desire w/o love(32-4), & destabilizing effect of(27)(57), & grounding vs unpredictability(39), & hate(32-3)(120)(192), & idealization(94)(188)& imagined vs real intimacy(190-1), & in love w/ being in love(86), & long term rel. (140), & Nietzsches sandcastles(55), & oedipal vs pre-oedipal(133), & otherness as form of self(82-3), & partners presenting features as defenses against opposite(83), & passion(84), & romance requiring love & desire(34-5)(54)(65)(91-2), & sexual passion(42)(86)(192), & spontaneity vs commitment(35)(199), & Unc vs Cs vs preCs (176-8)(185)(192), & unrequited(44)(96)(113), w/o desire(34), & will(186-7)(194)(198), & Yeats love has pitched his mansion in the place of excrement(91) | ||
Anaclitic, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | P. 7 |
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Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | See Index | & childhood preconception will be able to turn to empathic other, one day, to make sense of frozen self-states→ belief in arrival of & search for such a person→ realized when self falls in love→ powerful disclosure to lover→ both privileged & disturbed by previous secrets→ needs to be experienced in presence of an other→ transform into meaning→ too much for lover→ break-up→ deeply let down, repetition by lover horrifying→ life of psychic retreat(128-9) | |
Cherishment | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & the affectionate current as egos drive(23)(57), & baby love(48-50), & Creativity & Receptivity(17)(32), & expectation to be loved(7)(10), & if you cannot expect love, you cannot give it or get it(10), & Infants w/o love . . . will end as adults full of hate(65), & need to be loved a biological given @ birth & not something created in response to anxiety & danger(54), & receiving love & being able, because receiving, to be benevolent, kind, considerate, indulgent(9), & shifting gracefully back & forth the roles of wishes & gratifier of wishes learned 1 st in infancy(12-3), & splitting of affectional & sexual currents(155), & spontaneous affection(9) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & conflicting self-state of(27), & contempt as sulphuric acid of _(61), & deeply known person we love & need(26), & degradation of romance not due to contamination of love by aggression but inability to sustain tension between them(20), & to feel sane I must forego love & to feel loved, I must forego my sanity(65), & forever seeking a completeness through our involvement in others(25), & love by its very nature is not secure, we just keep wanting to make it so(25), & love is giving something you do not have to someone you do not know(24), vs lust(23-4), & mothers interpretation of infants desires forecasts w/ whom we fall in love(25), & myth of romance & A(19), & paradox of(20), & romance vs attachment(18-9)(120), & romance/A as defensive strategies against _(19), & romance riskier over time(120), & sex vs(120), & there can be no genuine love where there is no possibility for hatred(20)(120) | ||
Dancing with Fire | J. Amodeo | See Index | & allowing to ensue vs pursue(159), & cannot receive if not open to raw & tender esp. of wanting it(105), & freedom to(37), & intimacy an invitation only event(159), & self-intimacy(148) | ||
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & chemistry of loss & love may lead to chemistry of depression(23), & depression as loveless state→ feeling of insignificance(15), & depression mechanism of despair @ what we lose(15), & depression the flaw in(15), & experience of love incorporates sadness into its intensity & range(412), & furnishing vital sense of purpose that is opposite of depression(15), & functions on a reward & punishment model gratification of love is enormous, loss of love is traumatic (414), & love cushions the mind & protects it from itself(15), & love prevents us from abandoning our A too readily(412), & to love is to be vulnerable; to reject or deny vulnerability is to refuse love(412) | |
Development, and | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & agape as true parental love(348)(351), & agape in therapy(345-6), & ego-weakness(170-1)(416), & female element(270), made angry (hate) vs made hungry(fear(24)(31), & need for love relation(45), & schizoid vs depressive(24) | ||
Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | & clinging/mirroring _(43-4), of 5 month old(116-7), & infant fear of losing parents(228-30, & psychological birth(27)(228), & reconciliation of constancy(27)(44), & toddlers love affair with the world(170-3) | ||
Existential, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & agape(414), as attitude, not encounter(377), as need-free(364-73), as psychotherapeutic Eros(408) | |
Males, and | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | & making it(41), & mans vs womans(78-9), & paying(314), & primary fantasy(357), & success as tool to get(78-9), & survival(371) | ||
Mindsight, and | Mindsight | D. Siegel | P. 188 | & qualities of curiosity, openness & acceptance essence of | |
Neurotic Pride, and | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | & being unlovable(242-3), & enforcement through shoulds(241-2), & exclusion of from life(304), & fear of rejection(241), as 1 st in determining self-evaluation(241), & glorification of(239)(305), in imagination vs reality(305), & increased need but decreased capacity for(300), & loveableness as independent of existing likeable qualities (242), & pride(108)(242), & the right person(242) | ||
Relationships, and | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | & chemistry(220), & commitment(203)(214), & feeling of(45), & hurt(27), & romantic(211), & self-love(82) | ||
(For those in) | Getting the Love You Want | H. Hendrix | All | Cs vs Unc marriage, exercises for | |
(For those looking) | Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | & agape(294)(296-7), & guarantee of partners safety(294)(298), & healing(219)(228)(298)(301-2), & passion(Eros)(293-5)(297), & 4 phenomena of language of(217-8), & romantic(219-20)(228)(230), & unconditional towards partner(47)(228)(243) | |
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & disinterested(143), & fascination(40), & fear as opposite(70), as flow of energy(39)(143), & intimacy(40-1), & marriage(85), of Other as Other(56-7)(137), & power of(73), vs power(24), & projection(30) (57), & romantic(43)(61), & St. Augustines Love is wanting the other to be.(57), & wholeness(140-1) | ||
Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | See Index | & illusion of committed love(211), as overburdened w/ expectations (9), as panacea for existential aloneness(9), & power(62-3) | ||
What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & co-existence of love & hate for same person natural(54), & confluence of the tender & the sensual(68), & converting an Unc, instinctual choice into a Cs commitment(67), & danger of desiring someone you love is that you can lose them→ early inhibition of excitement for partner(69), & de-idealization of lover(62-3), & disappointment(67), & every new love contains a triumphant overcoming of incest barrier(55)(57), & falling in love w/ person they hope will heal the wounds the parents have inflicted(63), & hate constant companion of(54)(61), & idealization(51-2)(60-3), & love is merely a madness(50), & love vs being in love(50-1), & men seeking sexual object women they do not need to love in order to keep sensuality away from one they can love(57), & merging(53), & obsessive preoccupation of lover w/ face of beloved(53), & passion as mixture of sacrifice & potential pain(54)(67), & passion as yearning to be w/ loved one which implies there has been a separation - & it is infused w/ ambivalence(53-4), & sexual excitement incorporates aggression in service of _(54), & Unc contradictory wishes involved in choice of partner(62-3), & Unc location of oedipal object(60) | ||
Therapy, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & disintegration vs fear of loss of(19), & experiencing fragments of(25), & indifference vs fear of loss of(18), & object(47)(53)(197) (208), & selfobject(47)(208), & selfobject vs narcissism(47)(208), & self=preservation(143), & self-psychological approach to(208) | ||
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | & capacity to desire(184), & Lacans definition(93), & limits between Ego & Other(142), & narcissism(40), & opening of self to symbolic dimension(144), & sexuality(272-3), & tragedy of(124) | ||
Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | & daughters for Mother(74), & loss of(74), & obsessive(217), as process of redefining truth(169)(174), & sexuality(63)(86-7), & speaking of as shameful(299-300), & true(74), & Virgin Mary(32), for women(307) | |||
Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | as not being enough(153), as deaths & rebirths(159-61), & giving of body(161-2), from soul vs ego(146-7)(162-3) | ||
Love, Primary | Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | of adult partner(74-5), as aim of erotic life(135), & basic fault (68) (112), & birth as trauma(67), & description of(70-1), & expression of in adult language(70-1), & fish in sea eg(66), & harmonious mix-up of foetus(66), & harmonious 2-person relationship(70), & hatred(71), & infant libidinal cathexis(67-8), & narcissism(72), & new beginning (71)(135), & ocnophilia(68-70), vs passive object love(135), & philobatism(68)(70), & primary object(68-9), & reasons for theory of(65), & regression as(75), & relationship to air eg(66-7) |
Lust | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & drives(84)(208), & Oedipal complex(5)(14)(43) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | vs A(24),& fetishes(178), as fortuitous breakthrough of dissociated process(23), & objectifying ourselves & others(23), & opposite from love(23), & other as holding key to unlock our _(24), & selfish(23), & shame & humiliation of having discovered prurient manner in which we lust for each other(23), as unwitting reparative venture to ruptures of our developmental A system(24), | |
Lying | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | P.71-3 | & confronting vs recognizing as test of independence(72-3), & NPD(72), & undetected(71-2) | |
Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | Ch.10 | to actualize dissociated self experience(175), as articulation of truth(174), & avoiding violation of TS(186-7), & core of liars distress(185), & etiology in parental interruptions(179), as expression of liars psychic reality(174), as illusion of omnipotence (175), to keep liar alive(180), as metaphor(174-5), & 2 orders of(176), & sharing madness when breached by truth(181), & psychopathics(175), & undoing trauma by(182-3), & use of deception(186) | ||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | & believing ones own(242), & Deprive the ave. Man of his vital lie & youve robbed him of happiness as well.(246), & face as channel for(219), & social(218)(221-2), & tact(222), & ugly collusions(224)(248), & voice(220), & white(218), & women vs men re: reading non-verbal cues(220) | ||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | & childs 1 st successful = 1 st moment of independence & abandonment as proof that parents cannot read his mind(87) | |||
The Road Less Travelled | S. Peck | P.59-63 | as deprivation(60), & energy for self-discipline of honesty(63), & parental avoidance of kids challenge(60), & rationalizations(60), & rules for(62-3), & white(59), as withholding of essential information(59) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & diss. being accused of lying vs limited access to self-states that had additional memories(228) | |
Fear of Death, and | The Denial of Death | E. Becker | & lie of character built up because child needs to adjust to the world, parents & own existential dilemmas(73)(75), & men who avoid developing own uniqueness = inauthentic(73) | ||
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | & clues of(22-3), of commission vs omission(60-1), & compartmentalizing(62)(71), & denial of(79-80), as distancing (59),& double liar(61), & forgiveness of(343), & gaslighting(80), vs ingrained dishonesty(60)(278), & keeping a secret as act of thought suppression(196)(324), & malevolent vs humane(60), & motivation for(60), & self-deception(63), & truth bias(44)(71-2) | |
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | & anger @(46), by perpetrator(44-6)(72) | |
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
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Machoism | Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | See Index | & absence of father(91), & the batterer(74), as little boy(30), as fear projected onto women/gays(36), & oppression(35), & power(103), & pride(40), & therapy(122) | |
Madness | Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & compulsions(253), & dark nights(249)(257-8)(262), & healing (256-7), & insanities as defining self(257-8), & insight(250), & love as(122), & marriage as(147), & self-forgetfulness(264), & theatre vs theory(251-2) | ||
Magic | The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | & amulet(208)(210), & art(204)(213), & Jungs incantation(265), & nonsense(260-1)(263), & religion(xiv-xv), as requirement of soul (213), & talismans(211)(213), of words(258) | ||
Fear of Women, and | Fear of Women | W. Lederer | & controlling fertility(200)(204-5), & curse of a woman accounted far more potent than curse of a man(193), & destruction of feared or hated womanhood by fearful & hating men(199), & miscarriage result of womans evil magic(200), as witch, woman using magic arts for affairs of the heart or vengeance(149), & witchcraft→ fear of women→ hated of women(208), & witches a woman-thing & persecution of a man-thing(199), & witches supposed to posses to the highest degree the feminine quality of changeableness or metamorphosis(194), & woman as prophetess suited to divining what is hidden & to predict what will be(149), & woman as source of all evil, starting w/ arousal of carnal passion & ending w/ impotence(209) | ||
Magical Other | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | & Eden(50), & fantasy of(37)(119), & freedom/responsibility(78), & growing up unaided by(120), & hope(119), & Princess Diannas accident(119), & projection(37), & Unc(37) | ||
Magical Thinking | Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | & controlling events w/ mind(178-9), & fantasies(179) | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | & characterized by grandiosity & paranoia(19), & internalization(26) | |||
The Mid-Life Passage | J. Hollis | & experience interpreted 3 basic ways(11-2), & Mid-Passage as _ not congruent(22) | |||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & Castanedas quote re: repeating same int. talk(54), & important for _ to give way to shared rules through which reality is constructed & judged(55), imposing of laws governing mental life upon real things vs allowing real world to shape mental life(54) | ||
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | & N.(7), & avoiding feeling defective & insignificant(10), & drugs(112) | ||
Male Menopause | New Passages | G. Sheehy | Ch. 14 | & definition of(292), & desire to be young(293), & habit of impotence (305)(309), & hormonal changes(294)(298), & loss of sense of self-worth(304), & mid-life potency crisis(292-3)(296) (303-4), & shame (305), & smoking(313)(315), & solutions to(309) (311-3), & someone new(302), & virility & performance(292)(298)(304) | |
Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | Ch.9,10 | & testimonial women(209) | ||
Mandala | Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | as centre(105), & w/ only 3 corners(453), & 3 forms of(304), & 4 functions(467), & magic(120), & meditation on(126), & Unc(120) | |
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | as archetype(236), as circle(235), as integrating factor(20), & Jungs diagram of(231-3), & Self(20), & synchronicity(292), as synthesis of 4 elements(236), as wholeness(236) | ||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | & creative works(290), as primary pattern of psyche(288) | |||
Manic - Depression/ Manic Character | Schizoid Phenomena, Object relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & overactivity/giving up(216), as stage of therapy(246) | ||
Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | & capacity to wait for what is desired(as manic defence(311), & dealing with depression(196), as fixation point(12), & loneliness (311), & manic defence of denial(39)(73)(75), vs schizoid(18), & stifling of love as manic defence(223), & success of depressive position(78) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | P. 143 | & creative writers | ||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | See Index | & aggression(106), & creative activity(105), & emptiness(106), & fear of withdrawal of love(103), & human relationships(108) (110-1), & loss of self-esteem(103), in ordinary life(119-20), & overspending (117), & promise of future vs reality of present(116), & restitution through creation(110), & ruthless self-seeking(manic defence)(104) (112), vs schizoid(103)(110), & submission(104) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & acting out(249), & affect(248-9), vs compulsive(255), & defence of denial(102-3)(248-9), & flight from T(14-5), & having a depressive organization, vs hysterical(254), & the manic self(250-1), vs narcissistic(254), & object relations(250), & T implications (251-3), & transf./countertransf.(251) | |||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | & agitated vs deep depression(300-1), & constant thinking(287), & depression(296-7), & euphoria(286), & excitement(293), & foresight (292), & homicide/suicide(297-9), & hostility(289), & paranoid states(299-300), & parents of(303), & physical activity (286), & sexual relations(290), & speaking rapidly(295), & target of self-destruction(298) | |||
Manipulation | Toxic Parents | S. Forward | P.58-71 | & capitulation or rebellion(63), & children of(59), & guilt(62) | |
Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | & affairs(221), of behaviour vs loving feeling(201), & set-ups(172) | ||
Marker Events | The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | & definition of(55), & wedding & birth of children as(106) | ||
New Passages | G. Sheehy | vs developmental stage(12), & menopause(204) | |||
Marriage | Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | & 10 characteristic of a Cs _(245-7), & Cs(238-47), & healing our partner(239), & mate selection(20), & Unc(228-32) | ||
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | Ch.10 | as guardian of others solitude(207), & marriage bed(212), as rite of passage(209), & sex as religion of(204)(209)(216), & soul-making (201), & touching(217) | ||
The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work | J. Gottman | All | |||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & conflicts as spiritual(150), as crucible(129)(153), & Cupid as blindfolded(150), & the daimon(18), & dark nights(43)(158), & ending of(162-3), & emotional masochists(78)(157), as form of madness(147), & love(165)& lovers as mystery partners(150), & moving beyond self-regard(156), & raw material of=vinegar, urine , excrement & chaos(161), as rite of passage(148), & sacrifice(154-5), as taking place in Hell(151(154-6), & triangles(142), as upheaval in the soul(149-50)(160) | ||
Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | See Index | & act of longing(211), & dependence(207), & eroticism(216-7), & expressing sexual excitement(206), & freedom involved in choosing that keeps rel. alive(81), & illusion of committed love(211), & intentional sex(213-6), & intimacy vs passion like inhaling vs exhaling-you have to do both(84), & play(217-9), & in what ways more free, less free(77) | ||
Soulmates | T. Moore | Ch.3 | & dualities(67), & fate(60), & the genius(62)(64), & humour(55), & magic(49), & the mischievous(51), & soul in(66) | ||
New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & avoidance of(133), & men in their 50's(266), as predictor of high well-being(133), & remarriage(127) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & no aggression, no love(223), & balance of love & hate(206)(221), & complementary(213), & expectations(207), & gratitude(224), & idealizations(223), & intimate enemies(210), & lost expectations (224)(226), & male/female differences(220), @ mid-life(307-11), & parenting together(217), & projective identification(219), & unc vs Cs goals(212) | ||
Adult Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | & anxiety about(300), vs children from intact families(74-5)(78-9), & cohabitation vs(289), & coping as adult w/ feelings a child could not(63), & courtship(150-1), & expecting failure of(76)(160), & fear of loss when content, fear of abandonment when disagreeing(300), & fear of repeating parents hist.(31-2)(61)(191-2), & finding calm & kindness in partner(60-1), & 40% never marry(289), & inability of men to feel=inability to recognize feelings of wife(263-4), & importance of father-daughter rel.(194), & lack of inner image of stable rel.(83)(299), & lacking self-confidence to think of choice as theirs(72-3), & men immobilized by(77)(151, & men`s habit of silent withdrawal(152), & more troubled than parents(192), w/ other children of divorce(260-4), & reinstalling caregiver role in(31), & rushing into(31-2)(38)(151)(192), & searching for partners from intact families(60), & separating emotionally from parents(59), & still valuing marriage(315), & trapped between wish for love & fear of loss(32)(290), & trouble w/ conflict(260)(300), & wanting an iron-clad guarantee(149), & wedding as triumph over fear(315) | ||
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | Ch. 9 |
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Males, and | Why Men are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | & female primary fantasy(53)(168), & male fantasy(172) | ||
The Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | p. 189 | & womens crime of marrying | ||
Masculinity/ Masc. Behaviour | Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | & hormones(142), & life-cycle change(143) | |
New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & fatherhood(284), & fathers(279), & mid-life(274)(328)(331) | ||
Males, and | Fire in the Belly | S. Kean | All | ||
Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | & abusiveness(43-5), & anger(50), & illusion(43), & inferiority(35), & man as victim(survivor)(41-2) | ||
The Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | See Index | & fear of womans love(460), & teaching men to love(438-4) | ||
A Mans Journey to Simple Abundance | S. Breathnach | All | |||
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | All | |||
King Warrior Magician Lover | R. Moore | archetypes of | |||
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | See Index | & adolescence(66), & desire shaped by mens wants(40)(203), & patriarchal reality(265), & powerlessness(46)(54-5)(70) | |
Masochism/ Masochistic Character | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & female equated w/(256), & libidinal ego(72)(146)(163)(213) | ||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & belief in ultimate rescuer(134-5), & fusion(370)(381-2), & guilt & decision(319-20) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & control(241-2), as disguised control(132), & emotional(78), & passivity(244-6), & relationships(131-3), & submission vs being receptive(241) | |||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & acting out(139), vs depressives(247), & description of(Ch. 12) | |||
Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | & brief description of(37-8)(51-2) | |||
The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | See Index | & ambivalence(220), & anxiety(195), & body structure(104-5)(212) (230), & central problem of(211), & distrust(206), & energy production(237), & fear(231), & hatred(211), & humiliation(268), & pattern of repeated failures(153), & (237), & sexuality(225), & smile(126), & superego(211), & therapy(227)(229)(235), & understanding of others(226) | ||
The Natural History of the Mind | G. Taylor | P. 167 | & pain | ||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | See Index | & you can do what you like to me as long as you never leave me(66) | ||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | P. 404 | & brutal lover | ||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & accepts the pain of nursing his pain in order to avoid pain of being hurt by anyone other than himself if he asked for his need to be met(229), & a harm you have come to want, a harm you cherish in yourself(237), & nursing a negative state for lack of a love object, for lack of relatedness(227), & nursing own growth stoppage as self-preservative ego instinct turned in on itself(227) | |
Developmental Arrest, and | The Psychoanalysis of Developmental Arrests | R. Stolorow | Ch. 3 | & aggression(35-6), & body image(33-4), & decompensation(39), & early preoedipal traumata(31), & idealized maternal object(35), & identification w/ sadistic partner(37), & illusion of magical control (38), & not being ignored(34), & paranoia(36), & primary anxiety of(30), & reflection of audience(34), as representing abortive efforts to restore precarious self representation(30-1), & search for acute experience of pain(32-3), & sexual intimacy(33), & submissiveness (39), & victory through defeat(38) | |
Moral, and | Open Minded | J. Lear | P. 145 | ||
Therapists | Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | P. 174-80 | ||
Women, and | Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | See Index | as defence against psychosis(232), & feminism(16)(19)(458)(460), & gender identity in rapprochement(462-8), & guilt(125), & hate (223-4), & ideal love of father/phallus(461-2), & identification w/ therapist (231), & illusion of mother love(232), & moral _(26)(221) (223), & mothers of(224)(228-9), & passive oral gratification(227), & self-depreciation(224)(229), & submission(460), & symbiosis (230), as way of avoiding anxiety(222), & weak ego(232) | |
Meaning | The Aquarian Conspiracy | M. Ferguson | See Index | & level of Cs(112), & responsibility(110), & vocation(108) | |
Solitude | A. Storr | & loss of loved one(12), & search for truth(164), w/o intimate relationship(32)(146-7)(154) | |||
Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | Intro. | & egos need for security(12), as goal of life vs happiness(8), & individuation(12)(14), & purpose of therapy(10)(15), & Self(11-2), & soul(9)(12-3)(16), & swamplands as context for(8), & task client will not accomplish(15) | ||
Open Minded | J. Lear | See Index | & cultures image of human soul ie depth or transparency( (27), & humans as inherently makers & interpreters of _(24), & humility in face of meanings that remain opaque to human reason(30), & meaning=ideas, desires, beliefs & hopes(24-5), & psychoanalysis as most successful attempt to make obscure _ intelligible(19), & significant meanings obscured from immediate awareness(18), & Unc motivation(27)(54) | ||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | & info. flow moves meaning(129), & make associations, have beliefs, generate cognitions, influenced by developmental phases & evoke emotions in response to experience=make meaning(91)(129), & takes coherent shape when truth is present, when absent distorted by maladaptive associations, restrictive beliefs, rigid & inflexible cognition, outdated ort distorted developmental needs & flooding or blunted emotional reactions(92) | |||
Logotherapy, and | Mans Search for Meaning | V. Frankl | All | ||
Loss of | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | Ch. 2 | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Un certainty | D. Brothers | See Index | & forming categories(28-9), as integral to uncertainty transformation as can only emerge under conditions of stability, coherence & order(28) | |
Meaninglessness | Existential, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & cosmic vs terrestrial(secular/personal) meaning(423046), & dereflection(472-4), & engagement(478-83), as existential neuroses(421), & loss of meaning(447-54), & triad of meaning categories(475-6), & other ultimate concerns(465-6), & values(463-4), & Western vs Eastern(468-70) |
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & act of accepting meaninglessness is in itself a meaningful act (176), & courage to be(174-5), & despair(139-40)(177), & doubt (48-9)(76), & emptiness(47-8), & enthusiasm for the universe(121), & the essence of man is his existence(149), & existential anxiety (41), & guilt(149), & living creatively(46), & meaning which gives meaning to all meanings(47), & sacrifice of self to ensure meaning (49), & the spiritual life(47), & threat of nonbeing(48) | ||
Medications | The Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | Ch.23 | & description of various psychiatric drugs | |
Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & containment(111-2)(338) | ||
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | & antidepressants(89), of dominance(231), & Prozac(99)(288), & self-_(80), & therapy(225) | |||
HSPs, and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | See Index | & antianxiety(197), & antidepressant(198)(202)(204)(206-7), & benefits of(180) | |
Meditation | Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | See Index | & anxiety(206), & attention(193), vs Autogenic Training(231), & benefits of(198)(200), & biofeedback(212)(264), & changes during (191), & habituation(205), & 2 methods of(192-3), & physiological change(209), & satori(192-3), & Shavarana(215), & stress(192)(201) (203)(208), & Transcendental(213), & Zazen(220) | |
The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | P. 75-6 | & breathing | ||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | See Index | as ability to live in an uninterrupted flow of authentic self(136), & all phenomena constantly in upheaval(121-2)(131), & awareness a place of primacy vs ego(24)(85), & balancing faith w/ wisdom(108), & bare attention-learning how to be w/ ambiguity while learning to be fully aware(xvi)(108), & bringing back mind when it wanders vs keeping focussed(43), & centring but masking tyrannical demand that life not be life(53-4), & concentration _(109), & enabling going on being(69)(136), & & encouraging patience, acceptance & trust (135), & enduring frustration(100), & fear-based self(102), & free from attachment(25)(60)(129), & gentle use of investigation & curiosity of self-discovery vs urgency of action(100), & groundlessness(122)(129), & intrinsic reality(6)(24), & knowing ourselves as spirit(18)(128), & mental factors strengthened by(136), vs mindfulness(109), & not pushing away unpleasant & holding on to pleasant(135), & observing identifications & letting go(50), & path of concentration(108), & paying attention to present(7)(23-4), & perception of death changes(122), & pleasure of being vs reacting(6)(61)(70-1), & psychological emptiness(86-7)(135), & reactive mind gives way to holding capacity→ insight(135), & reclaiming platform of joy & rapture(136), & staring something straight in the face(126), & starting to notice we are no longer necessary(120), & taking possession of ourselves through acceptance(60)(135), & theres always another train(100), & training in following the affect(100-1), & training mind not to interfere or abandon(18)(107)(135) | ||
Melancholia | Freud | J. Lear | See Index | & anxiety(171), & becoming worthy of self-criticism(172), & covering up of rage & anger(170), & devastating self-regard(168-9), & difference between mourning(168), & fantasies of being parent (identification)(172), & inflicting sadism on self vs others(187), & psychoanalytic conversation to change psychic structure of(173), & question of how I should live(170)(173), & self-criticisms fitting someone else(169-70), & 4 stages of(171-2), & superego(169) (186-7) | |
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | & lying @ the heart of every I(160), & lover takes loved one into himself-identification as outcome of disappointment in love(159), & a lowering of self-regarding feelings(158-9), as mourning directed inward(159), & in mourning the world has become poor & empty; in melancholia it is the I itself(158), & self-reproaches fir someone else(159), & take on personality traits, mannerisms, aspects of character of their love object(159) | |||
Memory | Trance Zero | A. Crabtree | Ch.5 | & explicit & implicit(95-6), & false(97)(100), & suggestion(98) | |
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & child abuse(110-1), & combat neurosis(25-6), & dissociation of(155), & intrusion of(37), & reconnection(213), & reconstruction (175)(177), & transferring of traumatic(181-7), & traumatic(34)(37-8)(175) | ||
The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | P. 282 | & a shrine for | ||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | P. 201 | of early childhood in old brain | ||
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | & being in the moment is to allow new experiences to interface perceptually w/ episodic memory thus optimizing potential for integration of unprocessed experience into narrative memory(123) (188), & memory state-dependent when things matter too much (198), & remembering only details of events that are compatible w/ self-state(198), & that which is too overwhelming to be processed cognitively is held, unprocessed, as affective (nondeclarative or procedural) memory(182) | ||
On Flirtation | A. Phillips | & forgetting precondition for symbolization(36), & 2 forms of forgetting: spit it out or eat it(23), & individual has to forget because consequences of remembering too painful or dangerous(35), & a memory is repressed which has only become a trauma by deferred action(34), & memory reprinted in accordance w/ later experience (33), & no cure for(23), & memories repressed because of impulses expressed in the events(24), & repetition what happens when something cannot be remembered(36), & screen-memory as disguised representation of Unc desire(66), & symptoms unsuccessful attempt @ self-cure for memory(23-4), & we can only desire because we can hide things from ourselves(24) | |||
Ego States: Theory and Therapy | H/J. Watkins | See Index | & abreaction(118-9), & dissociation(51), & regressed(20) | ||
Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & autobiographical(106)(153-4), & constructing implicit mental models by generalizing from exp.=schema(73)(150)(152-3)(164), & dissociation from traumatic explicit _ but implicit still encoded(158) (161)(185-6)(206), & 6 domains of implicit-perception, emotion, bodily sensation, behaviour, mental models & priming(150), & an experience becomes encoded by firing of neurons in groups-neurons that fire together wire together=memory(148), & explicit (149), & fight, flight or freeze response in implicit(182)(185), & 2 forms of explicit-factual & episodic(153-4), & impact of rage & other high emotions eg terror on(155-7), & implicit(73)(149-52), & implicit asd intuition vs garbage from the past(165), & implicit vs Unc(151-2), & influencing attitudes & beliefs(73)(152)(165)(225), & integration of(73)(153-4)(161)(164-5), & memory-blocking stress hormones(157), & memory retrieval is a memory modifier(162), & priming(150), & providing a place for children to express their feelings & recall what happened after an overwhelming event ie implicit→ explicit else just implicit(161), & retrieval of implicit in presence of attuned. safe other(162-3), & retrieval of not necessarily accurate(160), & retrieval of not necessarily in our awareness as something from past(148)(154-5), & retrieval w/ reflection & release(73)(163-4), & search engine of memory=hippocampus(154), of self-states(199), & sensations as recollections vs part of a new event(164-5), & shaping our current perceptions by creating a filter though which we automatically anticipate what will happen next(148)(154-5), & traumatic(157-8), as the way an exp. @ 1 time influences us @ a future time(147), & triggered by internal or external event(148)(185) | ||
Love & War | S. Tatkin | See Index | & angry-resistant(56), & autobiographical(230), & avoidant(56), & difference between what we remember as ideas & what we actually remember as experience(55), & episodic(228), & explicit, declarative(227)(230), & flashbulb(223)(229), & implicit procedural (227-30), & problems w/ under stress(228), & procedural(229), & shaping present & future behaviour (8), & through AAI(7) | ||
Attachment Theory, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & amygdala as organ of & appraisal(72-3), & body(293), & emotional outside awareness(72)(117), & explicit ie knowing that, recollection(118), & implicit ie knowing how, familiarity(118), & implicit knowing as foundation of int. working model(11*0, & memory-driven expectations trump new experiences(76), & most important implicit _ involves procedures for being w/ others & being w/ oneself ie implicit relational knowing(118), & most of what we perceive generated by int. memory model not senses(76), & neocortex as organ of _ by registering repeated experiential patterns as _ that shape predictions(75), & neocortex _ as autoassociative, invariant & hierarchical(75), & registers w/ help of hippocampus as explicit, linguistically retrievable & contextualized(73), & trauma(72)(117)(244)(253-4) | |
Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | & experiencing the basic elements of being human, the thing-in-itself of their existence sound, light, colour, scent, images(72)(83), & inability to recall recent events(28), & language(72), & self suffering from arrival of frozen(27) | ||
Brain, and | The Right Brain | T. Blakeslee | See Index | & concrete vs abstract words(70-1)& left & right brain(27-9)(36), & thinking(39)(52), & verbal vs visual(38)(42)(69) | |
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | as autobiographical(96), & denial(52), & filters(63-4), & memory= what we pay attention to(63), & longterm(63), & multiple personality(84), & primary(awareness)(63), & schemas(79) | |||
The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | See Index | & analysis(229-31)(241)(243), & dissociation(232-3), & dreams (238), & free association(223-4), & infants(237), & 2 major memory systems: procedural(implicit-unc) & declarative(explicit-Cs)(228-9), & transference(225), & trauma(229)(240), & unlearning of(117) | ||
The Natural History of the Mind | G. Taylor | See Index | & amnesia(245-6), & categories of(236-7), & condensation(242), & engram(243), & forgetting(234), & hierarchy of(243), of pain(178), & purpose of(241), & recall(235)(249), as recorded in a context (244), & short term vs long term(238-40)(252), & state dependent (244), & theory of(250-1), & visual(248) | ||
Development, and | The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | & affective(93), & agency, coherence & affect(90), & episodic (94-6), & generalized episode(97), & going-on-being(90), & motor (91), & perceptual(92), & recall(117-9), & recognition(92), & RIGs(98), & sense of core self(99), & therapy(245) | ||
Historical Sets, and | Forces of Destiny | C. Bollas | Ch. 11 | & conservative process(196), & definition of(196), & dreaming (200-1), & essential aloneness of(208-9), & link to prior selves(199), & mid-life _ in therapy(210), vs other memories(206), & process of creating(207), & purpose of(197), & recollection of in therapy(203) (205), & reliving experience(205), & TS(197)(203) | |
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & attachment exp.(23), & explicit(23-4)(167-8)(228), & autobiographical explicit(20)(23)(41-2)(167)(221)(228)(242), & coherent internal sense of self(163)(228), & emotional arousal or lack of it(42)(150-1), & flashbacks(167), & flooding(161), & forgetting(150-1), & impaired(162), & implicit(22-3)(148)(161)(167)(228), & memory talk(228), & mental models(22-3)(51-2)(148)(228), & recency(146), & reflecting on(168), & reminiscence(146), & retrieval of(19), & self-understanding(53), & semantic explicit(23)(228), & unresolved trauma(19-20)(161)(167), as the way the brain responds to experience & creates new brain connections(22)(33) | |
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | & affective(22)(160), & declarative-belonging to me(43), & client who does not remember sessions personally because self who is here now was not participating in it-needs both self-states that participated & self-state that observed it(77-8), & enactment an effort to symbolize episodic so that it slowly becomes cognitively representable in long term _(22)(79), & episodic(22), & event remains excluded from narrative _ because of dissociation of personal interactive context upon which perception depends(160), & implicit not-me memories(42-3), & more intense unsymbolized affect, more powerful the dissociative forces that prevent isolated islands of selfhood from becoming linked w/ working _(79-80), & T must provide an experience that is perceivably different from clients narrative _(162), & working(22) | |
Trauma based, and | The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | See Index | & recall(286), & what we choose to remember(436) | |
Menopause | New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & definition of(201), & mourning(212), & other characteristics(Ch. 9), & pregnancy after(110-3), & 2 nd Adulthood(204) | |
Mens Issues | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & being seen & blessed(122)(163), & books as(164), by ex-cons (246), & falling in love w/ fantasy of another(121)(163), & gift of sight(122-3), & imagination vs genitals(121)(124-5), & perception (127), & perceptual relations(120), as requirement of acorn(116) (123-4), & what soul does not want to attend to(126) | |
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | & deal w/ by withdrawing into noise of violence, substance abuse or workaholism vs silence of dependency(178)9180), & emotion w/o action negates manhood(179), & 4 times likely to commit suicide than women but report depression half as less(173)(175)(178), & gay men(202-7), & gender difference in rates of depression a consequence of role differences(173)(175), & wife battering(178-9) | ||
Men, and | The Hazards of Being Male | H. Goldberg | All | ||
Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | ||||
Mens Intimacy, and | Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | |||
Wild Man, and | Iron John | R. Bly | fairy tale about 3 rd possibility of being | ||
Mentalizing | Attachment Theory, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | as absolutely central to attachment(46)(311), & allowing us to envision multiple perspectives(136)(308), as antidote to embeddedness(165), & anxious(134)(230-1), & avoidant(134), & borderlines who are terrified of looking into their own mind or minds of others(44)(46)(254)(307-8)(372), as contributing to affect reg., empathy & trust(44)(165), & contributing to deautomization (309), & creating potential for affective, cognitive & behavioural flexibility(136), & depression as accurate reflection of reality vs interpretable(332), & depression, unresolved trauma & all personality disorders understood as examples of the mind misperceiving & misrepresenting the status of its contents & its own functions(331-2), & disembedding(309), & enhancing our ability to identify & modulate affects(136), & evolutionary survival advantage of enabling individuals to understand, interpret & predict behaviour of others as well as own(46), & experience has interpretive depth (47)(137), & experience has meaning that can only be fully grasped in context of underlying mental states(137), & facilitating mental time travel(309), & implicit vs explicit(134)(311-2), as key route to establishment of coherent self(133)(158), & key to integrating diss. exp.(134), as marker of own attachment security & ability to raise children as secure(4)(45-6)(133-4)(307-9), & mentalized affectivity (46), & metacognitive knowledge(40-1), & metacognitive monitoring(41), & metacognition as grounded in appearance/reality distinction, representational diversity & representational change(4) (40)(137), & overlapping w/ mindfulness(158), as a primary stance towards exp.(47)(134), & the process by which we realize that having a mind mediates our exp. of the world(44), & promoting internal freedom(5)(307), & recognizing mental states as expressed through behaviour(165), & recognizing our subj. exp. largely a psychological construct & much of our suffering Unc self-generated(158), & recognizing that mental states are only mental states, subjective rather than objective, fluid rather than fixed, something we have vs something we are(165)(307), & reflective self as internal observer of mental life(5)(118), & synergy of affect reg., secure attachment & _(49), & thinking about feeling & feeling about thinking(46), & tuning in to nonverbal realm(134), & = using a telescope(158), & w/o _ simply embedded in subjective exp. confused w/ ext. reality & remain blind to ways we construct & construe reality of our own exp.(158)(308-9) |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & assessing each partners capacity to(94), & bullying(221), & creates potential for affective, cognitive & behavioural flexibility (156), & disorganization of self-structures revealed w/o(96), & embeddedness(153), & enables us to see both ourselves & other in psychological terms beyond mere behaviours(95), & enactments of reality when no capacity for(34), & fundamental to our capacity for insight & empathy(95), & imagination constricted w/o(34), & impaired by embedded constructions of culture & gender(110), & impossible when in hyper-arousal mode(53), & lack sense of agency w/o(34), & pretend mode(167), & psychic equivalence(167), & reflecting on own contribution to mess & that partners feelings are independent of own(53), & shame reaction disables(106)(115), & trauma(104), & using _ to bring alien parts of self into Cs(96), & w/o, impairs capacity for affect regulation & impulse control, that he has a mind of his own & his perspective on reality only one perspective(94) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | as ability to think about another persons thinking about her w/o becoming an object reality that defines her(322), as capacity to symbolize Cs & Unc mental states in oneself & others(289), & distortion of mental repr. of obj. through projection(289), & inability to mentally repr. the here & now(214) | ||
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | & capacity for derives from achievement of intersubjectivity (47) (50)(134-5), & caretaker who is openly hostile toward child will severely undermine childs capacity for _ because child no longer feels safe to think about her objects thoughts about her(83), & core issue underlying T action in psychoanalysis(53), & enactment central ingredient in facilitation of(56), as experiencing another mind experiencing her mind experiencing their mind(45), & inevitably entails collisions & negotiations between clients & Ts subjectivities(59-60), & = reflective self(156), & reflecting on disjunctions between own self-experience & the way he seems to exist in the mind of another w/o having to automatically enlist dissociation to protect its stability when confronted w/ otherness (52)(135), as unfreezing the developmental process(45)(52) | |
Mentoring | Men, and | The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | See Index | in early adulthood(99), & functions of(98), & lack of(334), & mid-life transition(253-4), as parent & peer(99), from receiving to giving(147) (237), w/ women(238) |
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | vs fatherhood(141), & other characteristics of(140-6)(199-208), & turning to men for help(303) | |||
Finding Our Fathers | S. Osherson | & emotional holding(79), & paternal feelings of love(76), & surrogate sons(53)(55) | |||
Mercury | The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | See Index | & commerce(125), as feminine face of world(333), & food(64), as spirit in language, poetry, money & business(332), & trickiness(205) | |
Metanoia | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | as change of orientation(31), & encounter w/ Other(73) | ||
Metaphor | Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | P.79-80 | & contemplation of(79), & fairy tales(79), as literal language of soul(80) | |
Development, and | The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | P.258 | as organizing therapeutic | |
Therapy, and | In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | See Index | & regression as(219), & Winnicottian approach(xii) | |
The Use of Metaphors by the Ambulatory Inpatients of the Managed Care Era | AJP Spring 99 | P. 188-200 | can apply yo any client, describes how to identify & work w/ | ||
Mid-Life Transition | Modern Man in Search of a Soul | C. Jung | Ch.5 | & culture(110), & religion(111) | |
New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & actual age vs inner image(61), & brain passage(174), & coalescence(140), & FS(83)(151), & 50 as 40(4), & generativity vs narcissism(110), & identity(59), & mastery(142)(229), as middlescence(63)(140), & mortality(120)(151)(154), & multiple identities(71), & progress vs decline narrative(170-2), & Real Self (150), & reproduction in(112-3), & 2 nd Adulthood(139), & spiritual (141), & time(117)(142), & women in(189-97), & work(37) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & aging parents(302), & a assumptions of childhood Cs(313-4), & change-resisters(303-5), & change in sexual balance(311), & depression, disappointment, despair & guilt(306), & divorce(309), & feminine/masculine qualities(313), & illusion of absolute safety(313), & integration(316), & loss of young self(298-9), & mutuality(302), & questioning(302-3), & roots(260), & work(310) | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, ed | Ch55/56 | & destruction/creation(262), & shadow(260-1), & tragedy(264) | ||
The Middle Passage | J. Hollis | All | |||
Death, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p. 172, 197 | ||
Men, and | The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | See Index | & attachment/separation polarity(239-43), as basis for new life(205-6), between 40-45(19)(191), & culminating event(191) (201-4), & de-illusionment(192-3), & description of transition(51), & destruction/ creation polarity(222-8), & disparity between dream & reality(30) (92)(245-59), & individuation(195), & 4 tasks of individuation(197), & legacy(218-21), & masculine/feminine polarity(228-39), & mortality(26), & questioning(60-1)(1922), & settling down preceding(139-40)(153)(158-9), & stagnation/ generativity(25)(30), & struggle(199-200), & suspended animation(51), & 3 tasks of (191-7), & young/old polarity(209-18) | |
Finding our Fathers | S. Osherson | & adolescent children(111), & family rage @ father(94), & naming our fathers(20) | |||
Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | from competing to connecting(148), & delinquency(41), & metabolism(186), & sex(155), & transformative woman(43) | ||
Steppenwolf | H. Hesse | All | |||
Therapy, and | The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | P.52 | & adolescent day dreams | |
Mind | The Aquarian Conspiracy | M. Ferguson | See Index | & body/mind(252-5), & 4 ways of changing(71-2) | |
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | & anxiety(111), & awareness(65)(68), & bias in perception(62)(90), & capacity to know w/o awareness of what is known(67)(73), & censors(59)(61), & Cs/Unc(65)(71), & the familiar(86), & filters(64) (107), & group_(226)(228), & the hidden observer(88), & lacunas (107)(228), & mindguards(187-8), & scanning info. for meaning(64) (86), & schemas(75-82)(106) | ||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | & dislodging its need to concretize reality(31), & as easy to conceive of nothing as something(47), & the mind creates the abyss & the heart crosses it(97), as reactive(61), & restraining minds tendency to grasp or push away, to reify things or deny their reality (25), & tendency to identify w/ its experience(49-51) | |||
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | & archaic thinking(193)(195), & collective(200), & divine(193), & emotion(50-1)(91-2)(112), & instincts(124), & internalization of parents values & active operation within individual psyche that helps constitute individual mind(204), & interpretation(114)(118-9)(213-4), & intrapsychic transference(105-7)(109)(118), & irrationality(50-1), & mind actively contemplating forms is the form itself @ its highest level of activity(215), & mind learning how to think(85), & outcome of primary process a concrete, imagistic representation of conditions that would satisfy wish=that from which concepts emerge(77)(85), & primary process as earliest form of mental functioning(76), & primary process represents infants primitive sense of similarity & relevance(85), & secondary process=conceptual thinking(76) | ||
Open Minded | J. Lear | & the cunning of unreason(84), as differentiated unity capable of growth(90), as directed towards relief of its own anxiety(315), & displacement & condensation(85)(121), & drive(121), as embodied (85), & experiencing mind as active but not under control(115), & living w/ permanent possibility of falling apart(89), & losing of in psychosis(86), & mental activity too primitive to be understood as outcome of belief n& desire(106-7), & mental tropism(118)(120), & mind as disrupting its own rational functioning(84)(87)(122), & minds as restless(84-5)(117-20), & must have potential for creativity (85), & reflexive breakdown as disruption of capacity to be self-interpreting minds(81), & reflexive breakdown: inability to give full or coherent account of what one is doing(81) | |||
The Natural History of the Mind | G. Taylor | All | |||
Mindsight, and | Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & ability to modify neural firing patterns to create what we need(125), & clinging to familiar, established expectations(6-7), as created within relationships including the one we have w/ ourselves (55)(63), & creating info. from flow of energy→ motivation & exertion of energy in new & adaptive ways(53-4), as embodied(54), & empathy(28), & energy & info. go hand in hand in movement of(53)(128), & feeling felt-when we sense our minds are held within anothers mind(189), & images of own mind & others use right brain(107-8), & impairments to emotional well-being are movements of _ away from integration(67), & knowing the _(63) (129), & maps(8), & primary emotion as subtle music of(128), & receptive hub of(93), & receptive vs reactive(199), as a relational & embodied process that regulates the flow of energy & info(52), as relational process(55), & safe place in(135), & states of _(197-8) (202-4)(208), & two minds-left & right(108-9) | |
Parenting, and | Parenting from then Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & attempt to make sense of the world & regulate its internal emotional states through relationship of child w/ parent(4), & attitudes as elements of(229), & beliefs as elements of(228-9), & brain function creates mind(22), & creating generalizations of repeated exp.(22), & dont know how brain activity produces subjective exp. of mind(32), & dyadic regulation(215), & elements of(223), & feelings as elements of(225-6), & intention as element of(230), & language(239), & memories as elements of(228), & mental models of(22-3), & metacognition(241)(243), & mindsight abilities(243), & movement toward complexity of(204)(214), & needing connection(215), & perceptions as elements of(42-3)(227-8), & primary emotions(60), & reading mind of others(241), & secure attachments(23)(117), & sensations as elements of(226-7), & shame(196), & theory of(239)(241)(243), & thoughts as elements of(222-5), & well integrated, organized brain creates a coherent, adaptive _(117) | |
Therapy, and | The Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | See Index | & critical voice(94)(101), & delusion vs hallucination(78), & depression(102-5), as endangering(77), & fighting back(96)(100), & infants experience of(84-6), & mind-object(80), & mindlessness (79), & obsessive compulsive(83), & 2 parts of(79-80), & pleasures of(99), of psychotic(77)(81), & schizoid(81-2), vs self(79)(86)(103), as split off(102) | |
Mindfulness/ Mindsight | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | as antidote to embeddedness(138)(158)(165)(310), as attentional; agents to here & now exp.(68)(81)(161)(310)(326-7), & associated w/ internalized secure base that makes resilience & exploring possible(6)(67-8)(161)(310), & avoidant style(222), as aware of reflective self(165), & compassionate awareness of exp. as it is, including painful exp.(325), & diminishing discursive thinking about past & future(327), & directing our attention to moment-by-moment process of experiencing(6-7)(137)(309-10), & disidentifying from troubling emotional states(163), & distinction between what happens to us & what happens in us(328), & double sense of freedom & urgency(310), as enhancing empathy(139), as enhancing mentalizing(31`0-1), & feeling more alive-more connected to themselves & others(312-3), & glimpses of the selfless, universal self(6), & identifying w/ awareness itself(68)(165)(310), & includes awareness of both depth & breadth of selfs experience & fact that self is ultimately a fiction(6)(309), & key to transcendence of self(158)(310), & marked by profound feelings of security, acceptance & connection w/ ourselves & others(6), & meditation(137)(160-3)(330), & mindful awareness a nonconceptual, present-centred, nonjudgmental, intentional, participant observation, nonverbal, exploratory, liberating(5)(137) (159), & mindful body(7)(79)(81), & mindful focus on breath(86) (160-1)(163-4)(296-7)(325), & _ stance is welcoming & allowing & gentle(161), & modulating distress associated w/ traumatic past & feared future(81)(294)(297), & nonattachment(6), as nonjudgmental observation of the ongoing internal & external stimuli as they arise (135), as only potentially accessible(67), & @ once a secure self & no(personal) self @ all(6), & open presence(310-1), as pathway of psychological liberation(67)(310)(312), & practice of(160-1), & present-centred awareness less burdened by weight of past & future, less encumbered by shame & fear(68)(310), as present for our experience vs submerged or dissociated from it(68)(294), & realization of no-self(164-5), & removes felt necessity to protect ourselves(161), & requiring acceptance, surrender & faith(310), & surrendering our need to reject suffering(161), & thoughts & feelings are fluid, ever-changing mental events vs concrete, unchanging `realities`(331), & turning toward difficult feelings, thoughts w/ an attitude of `radical acceptance`(7)(325)(327), & using as microscope(158), & who is it that is thinking the thoughts about thinking?(6) | |
| Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & allows us to examine closely, in detail & depth, the processes by which we think, feel & behave(x), as basic skill underlying social & emotional intelligence(x), & becoming their own best friend(86), & body scan(134), & bolstering self-regulatory circuits in brain (246), & can be cultivated through practical steps(xii), & 3 components of: openness, observation & objectivity(31-2)(94-7), & controlling flashbacks(182), as cultivating the integration of Cs (83), & enabling us to voluntarily change a firing pattern that was laid down involuntarily(xii)(42), & focusing on breath(89)(94), & w/ focussing skills, see what is inside, accept, let go & transform(x), as form of mental activity that trains the mind to become aware of awareness itself & to pay attention to ones own intention(86)(94), as foundation for resilience & flexibility(42)(86), & helping brain achieve & maintain integration(xiii)(55)(76), & helping us see how past adaptations are restricting current relationships(75), & knowing own internal world before mapping clearly mind of another(231) (257), & mindsight approach to couples T(214), & mindsight maps-me, you & we(8)(231), & mirror neurons provide foundation for mindsight maps(61)(63)(231), & reflection(33-4), & requires paying attention to present moment from a stance that is nonjudgmental & nonreactive(86)(217), & representations of our mental world= mindsight maps(8), & sensing internal flow of energy & info. essence of(129), & shift in brain toward an approach state moving toward rather than away from challenging situation(99), & standard of honesty & humility(37), as 7 th sense(xi), & stimulates growth of resonance circuits(86)(138), & teaches self-observation(86), & using _ to help brain achieve & maintain integration(xiii), & wheel of awareness(88)(187), & when on autopilot, no mindsight(202-3), & widening window of tolerance(138-9)(187)(227), & w/o _ people become objects(257-8) | |
| The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | See Index | as aspect of integration of Cs(30)(258), & attitude of kindness & compassion(97), & awareness & intention(28)(96-7), as basic training of T mind(29), & capacity for self-observation(97), & created state becoming effortless trait(180), & cultivating altruism(233-4), & definition of mindsight(261-2), & differentiating different streams of awareness(105)(110)(112), & enables us to be flexible, receptive & have presence(1), & entails awakening the mind to the ever-changing nature of inner & outer reality(197), as essential relational component of how we offer a secure A relationship for our children(154), as form of mental training that strengthens our capacity to monitor & modify energy & info. flow within brain & interpersonal relationships(25)(200)(229)(233), & grounded in sensory experience(113), & harsh inner critic(150), & maintaining integration of neural circuits(233)(264), & mindfulness traits(180-1), & mindsight includes being mindful + integration(237), & missing in avoidant style(67), & misuse of(113), & moving toward difficult situations(1)(258), & noting transitions in states(199)(209), & openness, objectivity & observation(102)(109)(135)(236-7)(264), & practices(25-30), & reducing stress(75), & self-compassion(84)(233), & sensing the present & knowing the past(70), & separating hub from rim in wheel of awareness(93)(96-7)(109-10)(234)(258), & tracking(134-6)(141-2)(146-7), & tranquility(250-1), & triception(122-3)(126) | |
Couples, and | Dancing with Fire | J. Amodeo | See Index | & anger(175), & connecting w/ bodily felt exp.(219), & elements of(213), & feelings about past & future vs regretting & worrying (176), & having no preferences(68), & keeping your feelings company(215), to our longings(51), & longings(29)(179-80), & noticing is a practice of love(175) | |
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & the ability to perceive the internal exp. of another person & make sense of that imagined exp.(222), & allows us to focus on elements of mind(249), & avoidant attachment style(135), & being aware of our emotions(69)(54-5)(222), & conversations that reflect internal processes of peoples minds(230-1)(234-5), & culture of compassion (234-5), & depends in large part on nonverbal processing as well as language(232), in emotionally distant families(42), as high order mental process(221), & infants born w/ capacity for but dev. of shaped by exp.(223)(230-1), & intentionality(221)(231), & metacognition(243), & mirror neurons(65)(76), as right-brain function(55), & seeing the minds of others as well as our own(55) (249), & theory of mind(243), & undeveloped in families w/ high degree of parental control, neg. emotion or frightening ways(232) | |
Mirroring | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & hate(133), & narcissism(91), vs normotic children(143)(151), & reflective(130-3) | ||
Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | & competitive child(95), & exercises in(283), & invisible child(89), & partners(240) | |||
Attachment Theory, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & awareness that childs mind is her own(49), as basis for childs 1 st representation of own affects(49), & child discovering own emotions as mental states that can be recognized & shared(49), & child experiences herself as a feeling, believing, desiring & mentalizing individual(49), as contingent & marked(49), & dismissive mother(50), & giving back to the baby the babys own self(49), & laying foundation for affect reg. & impulse control(49), & markedness(49-50), & mirror neuron system(77), & if mothers face unresponsive then mirror a thing to be looked @ but not looked into(50), & noncontingent=pretend mode & narcissism(51), & precursor of in mothers face(49), & unmarked=psychic equivalent mode & borderline(50-1) | |
Couples T, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | as adequate as source of healthy ambition, inadequate of depletion & shame(61)(139), as attunement to responsiveness of affect states involving pride, expansiveness, efficacy & pleasurable excitement (39), & complete lack of leads to hopelessness & helplessness(39), & _ that reinforces emerging, long-sequestered expansiveness vs sanctioning defensive grandiosity(87), & inability of partner to provide(34), & parents requiring of child(166-7), of parents success in parental T(164)(171), & provision of by T(47)(118-9), as regulatory behaviour(40), & repressed longing for(155), & trauma (56), & yearning for _ of individuality vs selective as children(135) | ||
Development, and | Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & mothers face(111-7), & therapy(117) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & adaptive spiral(216), & trauma groups(215-6) | |||
Narcissist, and | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & narcissist(92-3)(99)(101)(175-6)(184) | ||
Therapy, and | Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | & Kohut(105-6), & transference(119) | ||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & definition of transferential(192), & healthy self(70), & needs of man(194), & psychoanalytic cure(77)(206), & selfobject transference(66) | ||
Misattunement/ No Attunement | The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | & affective state of infant(221), & authenticity(217), & evidence of(147-9), & infant response(213), & intersubjective disjunction (219), & nonattunement(204-7), & social referencing(223), as template shaping childs psyche(211)(213), & unattunement(218-9) | ||
Mistakes | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | & internal supervisor(103), & silent trauma of therapy(110)(265-6), & transference(303) | ||
Models of Human Nature | The Wing of Madness | J. Burston | P.151-160 | & mental health field | |
Moods | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & conservative object(110-4), & definition of(102), & generative vs malignant(100-1), & likened to dreams(102), & normotic illness (137), & self-states(103) | |
Moralization / Moralism | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & description of(125-6), & masochists(126)(259)(263), & modelling of(288), & OCD(126)(283), & splitting(126) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & humour(104), vs irony(100-1), & speaking from anxiety(103-4) (110) | |||
Mothering/ Mother/ Motherhood | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & aesthetic of(34), & clients passivity w/ therapist(26), & hatred for(127), & the hysteric(194), & self as object(51)(57), as transformative object(14)(21-2)(29)(36) | |
Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | as container(140)(190-2), & development of projective identification in infant(22-4), & projective identification(108), & unc. fantasy of in T(79) | |||
The Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | p.142 | She can walk through the produce dept of a grocery store& even the Brussel sprouts have schizophrenia when she leaves. | ||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & daimon(64)(70)(74), & mother myth(72)(77), & parental fallacy (68)(77) | ||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.40-9 | & complex(45), & Demeter/Persephone(42-3) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & failure of adaptation(234-5), & fit w/ child(241), & identification w/(46), & loss of love of(87), & object constancy(43), & Oedipal complex(105-20)(131), & oneness w/(25-34), & original loss of(24), & separation/attachment(19-21)(234), & sibling rivalry(91-102), & unconditional mother love(63-4) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | & capacity to be alone w/(228), & face of(216-8), & potential space (228), & premature disruption of Mother-infant unity(230), & reasons Mother hates baby(22-3), & regression(258-9), & reliability of(29), & seduction of child(269-70), & sentimentality(23), & therapy as maternal holding environment(187)(277) | |||
Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | & abandonment→ chronic vigilance(257), & 1 st anxiety about loss of mothers care(239), & insecure A(257), & loss of love throughout life(239), & overprotection & withheld affection(259), & separation anxiety(235)(239) | ||
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | & biggest loss in divorce(171-2), & child as a burden of(165-7), & child acutely aware of _ loneliness & longing(273), & children blaming themselves for Mothers loss(168), & children remaining faithful to(170), & drop in income of(164), & evoking mix of love, compassion & frightened rejection in daughter(284), & fear of success of daughter where mother failed(284), & 40% of _ living below poverty line(163), & inability to maintain structure post-divorce(166-7), as intermediary between father & child(244), & mother-daughter rel.(202)(283), & remarriage of doesnt help trauma of divorce(169) | ||
Dead Mother Complex, and | The Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | See Index | & depression(119), & description of(118)(123-4), & evil(117), & inner voice(122), & laughing(121), & missing(108), & mutational change(114-6)(119-20), & schizoid(116) | |
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & children of depressed mothers(181), & failure to respond to their children(180-1), & selection favours loving mother(413-4) | |
Fear of Women, and | Fear of Women | W. Lederer | See Index | & eternal Mother using man only as her tool, eternal priestess before shrine of her own sex-her altar still her womb & god & supreme purpose her child(246), & fear of women related to mystery of(245), as magical vessel of life & death(115)(133-4), & going home to Mother through sex(230-1), & mystery of=mystery of mysterious source of our concepts of taboo & sacred, hence of all religious feeling & awe; source of life itself & all its burdens(245), & ominous inevitability to(245), & relationship between mother & son as if a participation mystique between mother & infant had never been surrendered-only this relationship can bring mother unlimited satisfaction-the most complete, the least ambivalent of all human bonds(229-30), & so receives love husband once strove to win for himself(230) | |
Infant Development, and | Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | & attachment(38), as catcher of men(219), & envious(231), & excitable(97), w/ fantasies/memories of own infancy(116), & fantasies about child(61), & 1 st dialogue(87-8)(95), & girls femininity(215-6), & infant conversation(112), & infant smile(74), & mutual cueing/ empathy(95-8), & oneness w/ infant(89)(93-4) (113-5), & psychological need for child @ birth(72), & response to visual baby (82), & sense of self-worth as(85), as shadower(196-7), & shadowing of(194)(196) | |
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & adaptation/deadaptation(10-1)(109), & destruction of(92), & face of(111-2), & good-enough(10), & mirroring(113-8), & playing(47) (52), & potential space(100)(109), & separation(108), & transitional object(13)(81) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & adaptation(87)(96-7), & auxiliary ego of(60)(75), & depression of(191-2), & devotion of(148), & environment(75-8)(80)(182-3), & infant destructiveness(102), & infant FS(145-6), & good-enough(49) (57)(145), & like therapy(70-1), & need for actual(88), & object(75) (78)(80)(182-3), & primary maternal preoccupation(53-4), as subjective object(57), & too-good(51) | ||
Men, and | Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | & daughter vs father(188), vs father as beacon to world beyond(216) (268), & help dealing w/(95)(161)(266)(268), & hopes for as burden on son(269), & grieving for(266)(270), & male emotional involvement(63)(185), & memories of vs father(77), & men in mid-life(179)(185), & mens relationship struggle w/(179) (181) (266), & mens wish to be mothered(87)(183), & mother wound(85) (180), vs need for father(263), & passive _(183), & responsibility for(265), & shame(65)(180-1)(183), & shame in being surrogate husband for (264), as sole repository of comfort(63), & son(179) (183), of spouse by male(198), vs wife(183-5)(269) | |
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | & fear of closeness to(144), w/ female vs male infants(117-8) | |||
Phallic | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | & archaic(7), & girls separation from(275), & phallic(35)(116), & pre-oedipal(12) | ||
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | & anger of(69), as intimate allies(265)(287)(289-90), & blaming of(25-9)(123), & guilt of(34-5), & lies of separation(37), & matrophobia(29-31), & 3 patriarchal institutions(204-5), & perfect t(31-6)(136-7), & perfect daughter(32), & separation from daughter (20)(22), & Virgin Mary as epitome(32), & voice lessons(165) | ||
Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | & internal(172), & Jungian mother structure(482) | ||
Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | See Index | & ambivalence towards(403)(407-10), & castration by(61), & child care system(31), & children as narcissistic extension of(167), & Earth Mother(414), & ego development(223-4)(228-9)(231-2), & feminist movement(390-1), & formation of Self(414-6), & imago of(107-8), as it(411), & masturbation(60-1), & moral masochism (223-5)(228-30)(232)(456-7), & nature(409)(413-4), as object(425), & her omnipotence(109), & penis envy(111-2), & phallic(52-3) (456), & pre-oedipal(45-6), & siblings(60), & submissive women(201-3), & weaning(60) | ||
Motivation | Freud | J. Lear | & assumption of rationality(5), & motivated irrationality(4-5), & repression(6), & wish vs fantasy(6) | ||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & 3 primary _ related to need to maintain organization of experience(23-4), & psychopathology as conflict between _(24) | ||
Fear of Death, and | The Denial of Death | E. Becker | & failure to fully meet twin ontological needs of man(205), & 2 motives part of creature Cs & point in 2 opposite directions 1) identify w/ cosmic process, comes from mans horror of isolation→ @ peace when gives in to cosmic dep. 2) wants to be unique(151-2) | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | See Index | & basic _ for human behaviour is need to deny death(108), & infants intrinsically motivated to order info., detect regularity & generate & act on expectancies(22-3), & motivational effect of emotion(27), & supraordinate _ principle: the need to maintain the organization of exp.(25), & 5 _ systems that are organized around fundamental needs in neonatal period 1) need to fulfill physiological requirements 2) need for attachment & affiliation 3) need for assertion & exploration 4) need to react aversively through antagonism or withdrawal 5) need for sensual *& sexual pleasure(24-5) | |
Multiple Personality Disorder | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & hysteria(123), & link to PTSD(126) | |
Ego States: Theory and Therapy | H/J. Watkins | & alters(49)(50-1), & amnesia(39), & child abuse(42), & differentiation-dissociation continuum(32-3), & dissociation(43), as ego state(29-31)(66)(78), & hypnosis(78), & pain(74), & splitting/ repressing(68), & therapy w/(34-5)(73-5)(97) | |||
Sybil | F. Schreiber | All | |||
The Discovery of the Unconscious | H. Ellenberger | See Index | & 19 th century classification of(131), & personality clusters(139), & possession(111)(127-8), & simultaneous(132), & successive(134) (136)(138), & unity of personality(141) | ||
Music | The Right Brain | T. Blakeslee | P. 167 | & right vs left | |
Solitude | A. Storr | P. 200 | & unity | ||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | See Index | & creativity(276), & external/internal bridge(294), & inner world (292-3), & unity(294-5) | ||
Music and the Mind | A. Storr | All | |||
Mutual Inductive Identification | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & compromises field of non-CS play(33), & context dependent issues(48)(135), & dissociation(33)(118-9)(135), & each partners Unc attempts to induce the other to think, feel & behave in terms of some preset system of scripts, to take up a part of their agenda that they cannot see, tolerate or recognize(135), & enactments(48)(118), & money(135), & mutual negation(33), & partners inducing each other into keeping them safe from feeling something about themselves(141), & perversion of agency(118-9), & process begins on implicit nonverbal register leading to plausible deniability of meanings(135), & sex(135), & working improvisationally w/(138)(160) |
Mutual Recognition | Couples, and | QA Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & absent _ couple remains frozen in highly incorrect though protective fantasies(127), & accepting others separateness & difference vs intent to control or coerce(17), & agency(11-2)(20) (52), & cannot fully appreciate being recognized by the other if the other only experienced as object ie N extension of own fantasy world of needs & desires(14-5)(149), & claiming victimization (128), & complementarity(179-80)(188), m& contempt(151),& differentiation grounded in(182-3), vs dominance/submission(16-7)(23)(53)(110), & embeddedness(153), & how recognized each partner felt growing up(92), & I must ruthlessly be who I am but in order for me to fully realize who I am, I need you as a separate subjectivity to recognize me(175), & involves a developmental process of finding the subjectivity in the other(14-5)(67), & love (23), vs mutual negation(20)(52)(147), & negating the object(15), & non-recognition equivalent to relational abandonment→ you dont know me(52), & paradox involving conflict between assertion of self vs recognition of the other(113)(167), & is perpetually ruptured requiring repair(16)(20)(204), & principles vs positional negotiation (170), & repetitive transference organization(15)(53-4), & seeing that beliefs are just beliefs(67), & standing firm while not retaliating or abandoning or pulling rank(15), vs subject-to-object relating (16)(20), & subject-to-subject relating(12)(20)(80), & surrender makes negotiation possible(16-7), & the tango(181-3)(188), & Ts interpretations model(48), & thirdness(16-7)(27)(147), & transformation of childs omnipotent fantasy organization regarding herself & other into recognition of other as subjectively different (14), & through history-taking(91)(226), & truth as possible understanding(69), & undermined by articulation of self-actualization(147)(240), & when relationship cannot be negotiated from position of _ they must be on basis of power(193) | |
Myers-Briggs | Myers-Briggs Notes | CTP97 Jung Concentr. | |||
Mystical Experience/ Mysticism | The Aquarian Conspiracy | M. Ferguson | See Index | & direct knowing(373), & 2 key principles of(379-80) | |
The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | See Index | & absolute truth(177), & intuition(178), & psychoanalysis(178), & truth(178) | ||
Mystification | The Wing of Madness | J. Burston | P.12 | & disavowing of experience(12) | |
Sanity, Madness and the Family | R. Laing | See Index | & family(118)(168), & negation of personality(41-2)(136) | ||
Mythology/Myth | Tracking the Gods | J. Hollis | All | ||
The Discovery of the Unconscious | H. Ellenberger | See Index | & brain(284)(480), & ceremonial healing(28)(30), & collective Unc(734), of hero(696), & libido(696), & mythopoetic function of Unc(81)(150)(314)(318), & source of anima/animus(204), & stages of evolution of society(223) | ||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & acorn(97), & daimon(39), of Er(8)(135), of growing down(62), & intuition(100), & lip indentation(46), of mother(68)(71)(77)(79), & mythical thinking(98), & nicknames(181), & soul(45-6) | ||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & alchemy(274), & archetypes(16), & art(402), & collective Unc(16), & dreams(65), & horse(188), & shadow(93), & sun-hero(70) | |||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.40,219-224 | & definition of(220), & imagination(224), & memories of family (220), vs mythology(220)(222), & own myths(223) | ||
Androgyny | J, Singer | See Index | & collective Unc(60), vs history(57) | ||
Man, Myth and Magic | Various | All | Encyclopaedia | ||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & archetypes(99), & dreams(33) , vs humanism(190), of I(48), & metaphor(101)(155-7), & pathology(99), & personification(16), & psyche(154), & psychologizing(143), vs theology & science(158) | ||
The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | See Index | & Aphrodite(162), & Artemis(98)(234), & Asklepios(& therapy) (185), & Circe(179), & definition of each(235), & dreams(179) (236), & Hermes(32)(332), & imagination(237), & Mars(168), & Muses (199-200), & Odysseus(nostalgia)(68)(140-1), & sex(158), & stone (31), & therapy as entry into(236), & trees(27), & Venus(234), & Zeus(27) | ||
Men, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | of the hero(68-9), & Narcissus(43-5), & rupture of effeminising connection to Mother(137)(140), & tripartite cycle of renunciation of mother, challenging ordeal & triumphant return(179) | |
Iron John | R. Bly | All | |||
Women, and | Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | P. 31 | & La Loba(31), & fairy tales(All) | |
Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & devouring female(7), & oppression of women(11)(158) | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Narcissism/ Narcissistic Personality | Freud # 9. Case Histories II | S. Freud | See Index | as between auto-eroticism & object love(197-9), & homosexuality (198-200), & identification(256-7), & paranoia(211), & sublimation (199) | |
The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | p.308-9 | & individual vs group therapy | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | vs depressives(256-7), & description of(Ch. 8), vs hysterics(320), & idealization(106), vs manics(254), vs OCD(299) | ||
Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | All | |||
The Art of Loving | E. Fromm | P.107-109 | & humility(109), & love(107), vs objectivity(107-9) | ||
The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | P. 126-8 | vs sociopathy | ||
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | &_ identification(162-3), & primary(137), & primary as most primitive form of emotional attachment(160-1), & primary as undifferentiated psychic field from which the I & a distinct world of objects emerges(161) | ||
Thou Shalt not be Aware | A. Miller | P.295 | & Kafka | ||
The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | See Index | & angels(347), & community(120-1), & elimination of as goal of therapy(188), as failure in love(119), & information gathering (252-3), & modern culture(347) | ||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | Ch.3 | & discovery of self-acceptance(60-1)(70), & ego(67-8)(73), & false humility(73), & love of self as object or ones soul(63)(68)(73), & myth in symptom(65), & Narcissus vs narcissism(64), & need for self-preoccupation(56), vs polytheism(67), & self-love(58)(62), as shadow quality(56)(70-2), & story of Narcissus(57-65), in wanting to be a therapist(64), & yearning(62) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & adolescence(164-5)(223), & confident self-love(54), & depression (58), & ego-ideal(151), & etiology of(37)(54-5)(59-60), & grandiosity(57-8), & healthy(54), & infantile(55-6), & lack of healthy(53) | ||
Abuser, and | Stalking the Soul | M-F. Hirigoyen | Ch. 6 |
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Aging, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | & caretaking of(166-7)(169-70), & denial(159), & malignant(168), & paranoia as defense against psychotic depression(162), & regulator of Ns internal state(164), & splitting(161), as ultimate N. injury(159) | ||
Anti, and | Forces of Destiny | C. Bollas | Ch.8 | & destruction of actual destiny w/ therapist(160)(163), & envy of own talents(167)(169), & mothers worship of(166), & negative FS(166), & refusal to use object(159), & seeking conflict w/ therapist(165-6), & seeking father(165), & therapy w/(168-70) | |
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & efforts to get cherishment turn into efforts to get other people to serve them(124-7), & infant resolves need to get away from intrusion by assimilating mother(127), & mother who was very narcissistically involved w/ child(127), & N disidentifies w/ mother within(127), & world full of mirrors(132) | |
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & admission of any fault blackens total self including suicide risk→ denial→ projection onto scapegoat(92), & authentic guilt moves beyond N towards object love(92), & description of N disorders w/ schizoid, borderline & hysteric(204), & level of affects ability to bear awareness of badness that inevitably accompanies our goodness (92), & N characteristic of PS position(92), & N psychopath vs sadistic psychopath(204), & pretended compliance in T%(148), & Unc self-punitive activity is N(92) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & cannot be fully recognized by another if other N extension ie if I only see myself in your eyes in the manner I have coerced you to see me(14)(149), & improvisation an antidote to(32), & intractable position of self-as-subject→ grandiosity & entitlement(149), & N injury through contempt(151), & N islands within each partner(74), & N rage(54), & N organized adults become bored quickly(14), & omnipotent fantasies about how things are supposed to be(15), & pathological _(109), & recognizing other often entails threat to own sense of selfhood(15), & transference convictions(15), & trauma(15) | |
Development, and | The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | & lack of penis in girls(102), & practising phase(71), & primary(42), & secondary(47)(216) | |
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | See Index | & admiration vs love(40), & cathecting an object(31), & characteristics of successful narcissistic development(33-4), & compulsion to repeat(82-3), & defences(12), & depression(39) (42-6), & disturbance(34-6), & etiology of(9-14)(84), & FS/TS(12) (50), & guilt(85), & intellectual vs emotional capacities(38)(114), & legend of(49-50), & legitimate(32), & mirroring(32), & mourning (85), of parents(7-8)(14)(22-3)(35-6), & rage(31), & self-esteem(33) (39), & suppression by society(101), & therapy(15)(55)(81-2) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & controlling vs internalizing reality(88), & defense of detachment against unmasking of illusion of self-sufficiency(64-5)(67)(78), & description of(74), & diminishment of grandiose self as need for diss. surrendered(204), & ending a rel. as decision vs choice(68-9), as essential form of madness to ward off ongoing knowing of mortality(76)(78), & etiology of(88), & existence a search or waiting for real Life & true love(75), & experience of accomplishment becomes manipulation(75), & not feeling himself @ centre of his life(75), & grandiose self(75)(78), & growth can come about only under conditions that will allow a person to exp. himself in some way that is different(96), & interpretation as disqualifying their reality(91-2), & lack of inner resources to give meaning to life simply through living it fully(76-7), & lack of observing ego(83-4), & managing self-esteem @ expense of growth (96), & modifying sovereignty of the grandiose self enough to permit another person to exist as a separate entity in repr. world(85), & need for affirmation & being understood(89-90), & omnipotence as state in which one doesnt even need to need(78), & other as need-satisfying obj.(76), & performing for T & being cured (81-2), & psych. birth inherently traumatic & security of self never fully stable(77), & replaced by intrapsychic conflict experience & resolution(288), & self robbed of life & meaning its own diss. protective system(196), & smuggling interpretations across narcissistic lines(93), & stuck between mirror & mask(75), & T works w/(69)(84-5)(89-96), & triad of vanity, exhibitionism & arrogant ingratitude(74), & underneath an empty self(75) | |
Fear of Death, and | The Denial of Death | E. Becker | & childs narcissistic project of self-creation doomed to failure(37), & doesnt feel he will die, only feels sorry for man next to him(2), & feel practically everyone is expendable except ourselves(2), & hopelessly absorbed w/ ourselves(2), & N neurosis(182-3), & N personality(127-8), & natural(3), & working level of inseparable from self-esteem, a basic sense of self-worth(3) | ||
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | See Index | & capacity to recognize our own shortcomings(92), & definition of (93-4), & fusing feeling of superiority w/ insignificance(93)(96), & hatred of self-knowledge(94), & healthy N as constituting matures sense of humour(93), as inflation of N self(152), & laughing @ others vs ourselves(92), & laughter of recognition(94), as protective of narcissistic equilibrium(27), & quality of N humour = butt vs wit (94), & self-directed humour as opposing N indulgence(96), & self-mocking humour(94) | |
Intersubjective, and | Psychoanalysis of Developmental Arrests | R. Stolorow | Ch. 2 | & attempts to repair damage to self representation(12-3), & definition of narcissistic object relations(14-5), & disturbance(12), & earliest object relations as(19), & empathy w/ _ clients(26), & healthy vs unhealthy(25), & Kohut vs Kernberg(22-3), & love of image vs self(13), & mental activity as(10), & object relations of(13), & object as selfobject(13), & overt attachment to external objects(17), & withdrawal(16) | |
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & biting the hand that feeds them(54), & family T(145), & healthy through attuned mirroring(35), & inadequately structured nuclear self(54), & N rage(54)(63)(99)(168), & parental N(28-9)(164-8), in partnerships(55-6) | ||
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & alcoholics(55-6), & description of(55), & formation of ego-ideal (48), & Freud(40)(45)(47), & mother of(55), & need for harmony (58), & non-narcissistic partner(55), as pretence(55), & primary _ vs regression(50-1)(72), & schizophrenia(54), & sleep(49-50) | |
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & narcissistic injury(54)(63), vs object love(140)(143)(185)(208), & transference(166) | |
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | & love(272-3), & superego(34) | ||
Narcissistic Disorders | Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | P.11-12 | & needs of | |
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & countertransf.(189), & search for transformational object(50), vs trisexual(91-3), & trisexuality(84)(87) | ||
Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | & character of(34-7)(48-51), & humiliation(50) | |||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | Ch.6,10 | & closet(124), & FS(112), & love(110), & intimacy(122-3), & phase of(30), & portrait of(Ch. 6), in relationship(127), & sexual difficulties(123), & therapy(Ch. 9)(207) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | Ch. 28 | & countertransf.(274-5), & holding environment(285-7), & psychoanalytic process w/(279-83), & seduction by therapist(269-70) | ||
Masterson Seminar-Borderline vs Narcissistic Characteristics | N. Diamand | All (CTP) | |||
Men, and | King, Warrior, Magician, Lover | R. Moore | P.67 | & shadow King(Tyrant) | |
I Dont Want To Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & addiction(59)(275), & myth of(43-5), & shame(55-6) | ||
Phallic | The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | Ch.14 | & aggression(296)(298), & crying(293), & morality(303), & sexuality(305) | |
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & analyzability of(71), & attitude of therapist towards(90), & lying (72), & nuclear self(9), vs psychosis(9), & successful analysis of(76), & transference(4) | |
Needs/Neediness | Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | See Index | & being mothered(130), & difference between(129), & giving vs getting(135), & non-demanding touch(138-9), & placating touch (138), & smothering touch(137) | |
Men, and | Finding our Fathers | S. Osherson | P.143 | & rage | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | for consistency by client(280), & growth needs vs libidinal demands in clients(142)(273)(301), & insufficiently met before, now sought in therapy(276)(288), for omnipotence over therapist(277), for space (277), to be fed(278-9), & training therapists for professional holding (25), & Unc hope(294)(296-8), vs wants in children(142) | |
Neglect | Neglect of Neglect | S. Bloom | P.208-9 TPRMay00 | definition of, vs physical & sexual abuse, statistics on | |
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & children of parents rage(167), & failing to provide container for childs affects or so solicitous of childs affection(167), as profound empathic failure(167) | ||
Neurosis | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 95, 117 | & definition of | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & characteristics of _ level personality(54-6), & neurotic paradox (120), vs psychosis(43-4), & symptom vs character(45-8), & T w/(69-71) | ||
Freud | J. Lear | & conflict(221), & false self(221), & creation of uncertainty(13), & establishing active lines of communication between warring parts (187)(222), & getting good at it(152-3), & question How shall I live?(220), & psychic unity as self-description(222), & repetition (152(159), & restrictions on speaking for oneself(222), & transformation of self-understanding to incorporate forbidden thought(68), & turning away from reality(147)(149), & understood in terms of structural conflict(187), & undoing restrictions through psychoanalysis(222) | |||
Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & aggression(56)(99)(205-6), & alienation from self(13)(21) (159) (277), & aversion to change(267), & basic anxiety(18)(297), & being superior(134), & claims(41-2)(46-9)51-5)(57)(60)(62-3)(92) (121) (228-9)(264), & compulsion(24)(29)(159)(210), & conflict (19-20) (113)(172)(187)(190), & death(109), & denial(105), & detachment (106-7)(264)(275)(280)(286), & the devils pact(39), & dreams (289), & drive toward vindictive triumph(26-7)(103)(197-8) (209-10), & emphasis on appearing vs being(38), & etiology(202), & externalization of(278)(293)(295), & fear(101), & feeling abused (230-2), & feeling unlovable(299-300), & freedom from vs for(274) (280), & frustration(55-6), & healthy striving vs neurotic drives (37-9)(377), & honesty(206-7), & human relations(195)(245)(247) (291-2)(298)(307-8), & humour(106), & imagination(32)(51)(90-1), & inertia(261-2)(325), & insecurity(295-6), & need for perfection (24-5), & neurotic ambition(25), & neurotic vs healthy imagination (32), & not being a moving force in ones own life(166), & prestige(89), & pride(86)(88-90)(93)(100)(103-4)(108-9)(211)(223) (297), & pride in intellect(91-2)(204), & resignation(259-60)(263) (268-73)(276) (281)(283)(285-6)(324), & the right person(299), & responsibility (62), & search for glory(24)(39), & self-confidence (87-8)(310), & self-contempt(102)(134)(136-7), & self-hate(110) (121)(208), & self-minimizing(319), & sensitivity to coercion(266), & sex(264-5)(301-2), & shallow living(288), & shift of energies from real to idealized self(23-4)(166)(194), & shoulds(77)(84)(118) (159)(278-9), & suffering(229-30)(234), & suspiciousness(56), & therapy(233)(262-3)(267)(283)(306)(337-8), & two worlds(40), & vulnerability(95-6) (205), & work(310-2)(314-6)(321-2)(327) | ||
Open Minded | J. Lear | & exploration of registering only in clients Cs(72), & lack of intersubj. reflection & testing(72), & rigidity of repressed conflict being acted out over & over again(72) | |||
Fear of Death, and | The Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & allow him to take control of his destiny(181), & alternating between extremes: I am everything & I am nothing(197), as another word for describing complicated technique for avoiding misery but reality is the misery(57), as any life style that begins to constrict too much, that prevents free forward momentum, new choices & growth that a person may want & need(179), & 3 aspects of 1) people having trouble living w/ truth of existence universal 2) private 3) historical, modern ideologies too thin to contain it(177), & character as a neurotic defense against despair(57), & criticizing himself to excess→ glorify himself in fantasy→ vicious circle because experiences the unreality of fantasised self-glorification (185), & cure for = need for legitimate foolishness(202), & essence of normality is refusal of reality(178), & exhausts himself in body fears, fantasies & others(184-5), & faith as neurotic(200), & guilt(179-80), & having trouble w/ balance of cultural illusion & natural reality vs average man secure in cultural games as unshakeable truth(188), & hyperCs of the v. thing he tries to deny: his creatureliness, his miserableness & unworthiness(197), & instead of living experience he ideates it the danger of a symbolic animal whose body is a problem(183-4), & knows Truth & Reality(201), & the more he separates & inflates himself the more anxious he becomes(197), & most welcome a living illusion(199), as much nearer actual truth psychologically(176), & narcissistic _(182-3), & neurosis = miscarriage of clumsy lies about reality(178-9), & neurotic vs natural creature guilt(192), & neurotic isolates himself from others, cannot live by their deceptions about human condition(188), & neurotic symptom a communication about truth: that illusion that one is invulnerable is a lie(188-9), & neurotic who has had T like member of AA can never take cure for granted & best sign of genuineness of cure is he lives w/ humility(58), & no embracing world-view to depend on or merge w/ to mask his problems(198-9), & obsessions & compulsions(180), & person seeks to avoid death by isolating & diminishing himself then becomes as though dead(181), & psychotic(183), & repression as normal self-protection & creative self-restriction(178), & represents creative power gone astray & confused(180), & sin(196-7), & symptoms serve to reduce & narrow, to magically transform the worlds so that he may be distracted from his concerns of death, guilt & meaninglessness(181), & T as neurotics product due to his illness(194), & tranquilize themselves w/ the trivial(178), & type that has vivid imagination, takes in too much experience & loses own claim to life or cuts off from life & loses ability to live & act(181-2), & unable to marshal creative response & so chokes on his introversion(184-5), & wants guarantees about satisfaction & safety tries to cheat nature(183), & widespread problem because of disappearance of convincing dramas of heroism(190), | |
Jungian Perspective, and | Tracking the Gods | J. Hollis | See Index | & burden of meaning(108), & complexes(104), & gap between Cs & instinct(112)(129), & Great Round(64)(76), & most want knowledge =vulnerability(145), & narrowness of myth(64), & self-loathing as Cs (41), & suffering(112), vs trauma of change(41), & Zeus in solar plexus vs Olympus(98) | |
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | when goals are not consonant w/ souls intention(104), as offended god(16)(91), as reduced vision of life(111), as suffering of soul that has not discovered its meaning(79) | ||
NonBeing | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & anxiety(40)(45), & being embracing nonbeing(34), & courage to be(30)(32)(34)(45)(66)(155), & dependent on being(40), & despair (54-5), & emptiness/meaninglessness(47-8), & facing absolute threat of(39)(43)(86-7)(155), & fate(45), & finite being=nonbeing(158) (179), & God(180), & neurosis(66-9), & power of being-itself(176-9), & self-affirmation(89), as threat to spiritual life(48), & threatening mans moral self-affirmation(51-3) | |
Non-Experience | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | & absence of projective identification(148), & addressing resistance vs need to limit capacity for experience & thought(179), & no emotional significance(178), & all experience as emotionally equivalent(147), as failure to attach meaning to perception(177), & inability to learn (178), & meaninglessness(148-9), as phase of T w/ schizophrenics (187-9), vs repressed meanings(179), & representational vs non-representational aspects of psychological life(174), & spider as death of love(196), & symbolic representation(179), & use of projective identification(150) | |
Normotic Illness | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | Ch.8 | & breakdown(146-8), & inner world of(136-7)(153), & origin of (142-5)(151), & personality(137-40)(152)(155), & therapy w/(153-4), as unborn person(140-2) | |
Numinous | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & god-images(127), & relationship w/ Cosmic Other(126) | |
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | & archetypes(347), & emotional quality of(336), & God-image(335-6), & imagination(336), & mandala(336), & sexuality as(154), & Unc(336-7) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & archetypes(16), & definition of(239), & numinal accent of object/function(144-5), & religion(240) | |||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & dark nights(313-4), & mediocrity(313), & numinosity entails luminosity(313) | |||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Object, Affectionate | Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | P. 154 | & breast as 1 st cherishment object |
Object, Bad | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | as duplicating external environment(22)(25), vs fantasy(22-3), & Hartmann on(405), & internalization of(22), & libidinal cathexis of (341), & repression of(22), & schizoid vs depressive view of(24-5), vs therapist as good object(345)(352) | |
Object, Bizarre | The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | & delusion(151), & destruction of perceptual apparatus(150), & expulsion of vision(150), as hostile(150), as personalized beta elements(158), & projection(150), & psychotic vs non-psychotic part of personality(150), & use of, in thinking(157) | ||
Object, Conservative | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | P.110-5 | & definition of(110), as experience beyond comprehension(246), & moods(112), as preserving childs relationship to parents(113), & self-states(110-1), & therapeutic potential of(112-3), & trauma(111), as unthought known(111)(246) | |
Object Constancy | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | See Index | as basis for real love(21-2), & differentiation(270-3), in oral character (177), in rigid character(39), as 4 th stage in separation/ individuation (21) | |
Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | Ch 1 | & adult vs child(39)(50), & definition of(30)(35)(41)(252), & lack of (42-5)(47), & mourning(46), vs separateness(27)(31), & wholeness (30-1) | ||
Object, Evocative | Being a Character | C. Bollas | Ch. 2 | as communication of 2 egos(45), & eros of form(42-3), & experience of self-expression(38-9), as inspiring(83), & interpretation as(44), & selection of(36)(40-1), & 6 ways of stimulation by(34), & the unselected(37) | |
Object, Generational | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & adolescent culture(257)(261)(266-7), & childs room as(257), as dear internal object(270-1), & definition of(255)(260), & generational consciousness(267)(272), & mid-life(269), & potential space(265), & schizoid(274-5) | |
Object, Good | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | P. 20 | & denial of need for(20), & quest for as real problem in life(20) | |
Object, Internal | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & cause of withdrawal into(75), & grief(152), & guilt(201), & Hartmann(405), vs memory(21), & narcissism(42), & retaining ego-sense(72)(82), vs therapy(213)(302) | |
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | & aggression(155), & clients relationship to interpretation(93), & countertransf.(62)(149-50), & hatred of(116-7)(122-3), & making something Cs(78), & rejecting(72), & T as expression of _ relationship(131), & Ts identification w/ clients(189) | |||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | & abandonment of TS(55), as anti-libidinal object(101), as erotic object of desire(100-1), as evidence of analysts desire(55), & identification w/ others(120)(162-3), vs interject(129), as kept alive by auto-erotic libido(100), & malignant hysteria(129)(132-3), & mothers projection of(6), & terminal object(132) | |
Object, Psychological | The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | as aim of T(34), & being @ one w/(122), as O(10)(12)(32)(34)(181), & revealing of, in T(95)(98), as truth(176) | ||
Object Relating / Relations | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & dreams(64-5), & hate(130), & intrasubjective space(44), & object setting(230), & schizoid(63), & spirit of(30-40), & subvocal conversation(42), & transference/countertransf.(244-5) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & borderline(50-3), & depressive(233-7), & dissociative(332-4), & hysteric(308-10), & mania(250), & masochist(264-7), & narcissist (264-7), & OCD(286-9), & paranoid(211-4), & psychopath(155-7), & schizoid(193-4) | ||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & cancelling of in schizoid(19)(37)(39)(57), as defence against impulse to withdraw(51), & Fairbairn(127)(156), & fear & guilt as (202), & fear of being exploited by(238-9), & Hartmann on(405), & hate(386), & Klein on(409), & libidinal drive towards good(19)(91) (174), & male/female(259-60), as meaning of life(20), & persecutory /depressive anxiety as(57), & splitting(70)(82)(193), & unthinkable anxieties(202), & weak ego(231), & womb fantasies(53)(70) | ||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | & conflictual(73)(76), & dependence/independence(182), & inner saboteur(177-8), & resistance(76) | |||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | & anxiety(179), from partial to whole(118), & manic-depression(116-45) | |||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | as based on interchange of internal & external(131), & experience of being(80), & female element(80-3), & 3 human states(106-7), & instinctual backing of(130), & male element(80-3), & merging(130), vs object usage(88-90), & playing(101), & survival of object(90) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & communicating(179-88), & compliant(183-4), & compromise (47), initiated by ego(59), & Klein(185), & living with(44), w/ object-mother(182-3), to object objectively perceived(181), & object presenting(45)(60), & silent(184), to subjective object(57)(180) | |||
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | & couple interactions understood in terms of how each individuals Unc internal objects are involved & in each partners perception of & reaction to them(17), & earliest object relations reactivated in interaction between partners(52)(58)(218), & hope that marriage will heal old wounds even though burdened w/ template of bad object relations(20), & internal objects may reflect stories, often traumatic, from early life & include marital relationship of parents (17), & oedipal sibling triangles(58-9), & partner as transference object(5), & projective identification as primitive form of(18), & splitting(18), & reliving history of object relations in couples T vs reporting it(102-3), & tensions within relationship = internal conflicts externalized & acted out in partnership(19), & Unc location of oedipal object(60) | ||
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | & ocnophilia(69), & philobatism(69-70) | ||
Object Relations Theory | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & elements of psychic experience(386-7), & love(423) | ||
Melanie Klein | P. Grosskurth | See Index | as existing from beginning of life(372), vs A. Freud(321-2), & 1 st reference to(98), & good & bad objects(216-7), as parent of(372), & projective identification(373) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & countertransf.(33), & ego states(31-2), & introjects(32), & nonverbal communication(33-4), & T/client emotional connection(31) | |||
Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | in laymens terms(186-90), & projective identification(191-4) | |||
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & the artist(154), & creativity(154), & imagination(15), & interests (152), vs Jung(193-4), & Kohut(150), & old age(168-9), & relationship seeking(7), vs work(151-2) | ||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | & abstraction(182), vs creativity for schizoid(83)(182-3)(284), & Fairbairn(181-2), & Jung(284-5), & omnipotence of thought(87) | |||
vs Attachment | Attachment | J. Bowlby | w/ inanimate objects(309)(311-2), & new type of instinct theory(17), & oral symptoms(218-9) | ||
A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | P. 24-5 | vs Klein | ||
Women, and | Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | P.321-2 | & effect of internalization | |
Applying Fairbairns Object Relations Theory to the Dynamics of the Battered Woman | D. Celani AJP Winter99 | P.60-73 | & dynamics of battered woman(67-70), & internalization(64-7), & maternal deprivation(61), & psychological consequences of deprivation(62-3) | ||
Object Selection | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & being a character(59-61), & before we can know why(51), as crucial to self experiencing(25), & day as potential space(24-5), & days residue(21-2)(24), & deep knowing(29), & destiny drive (70-1), & dreams(21), & endowing with psychic meaning(12), & evocative effect(22)(31), & genera(71), & object as potential form of transference(4), & pathology in ego(43), & personal effects(55) (65), & 4 stages in self-experiencing(30-1), to stimulate our idiom (17)(53), by trauma evolving persons(79), & the unselected(37), by Unc(42) (58)(70)(244-5) | |
Object, Terminal | Cracking Up | C. Bollas | & anti-relating to(87), vs transitional object(75) | ||
Object, Transformational | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | Ch.1 | & adult seeking of(14)(18)(27)(40), & disillusion from(21), & maternal presence of therapist(22), & mother as process(14-5), & religious faith(16), in schizoid & narcissistic character(22), & search for _ as ruthless & impersonal(27), & sense of fusion w/(16), & therapist as (23)(25-6)(234-5)(247), & transference(22), & transitional object(15) | |
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | p. 55-7 | ||
Object, Transitional , Transitional Space, Transitional Phenomena | Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | & attachment behaviour(311-2) | |
The Seasons of a Mans Life | D. Levinson | P.92-93 | & adult transition | ||
The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | P. 355-6 | as disguised intimacy | ||
On Kissing, Tickling and being Bored | A. Phillips | See Index | as acknowledgement of threat of merging & isolation(89), & dream space(64)(66) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & being alone(71), & creative imagination(69-71) | ||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | P. 221 | as earliest example of investing passion in something other than person | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | Ch. 1 | & good-enough mother(13)(81), as intermediate area of experiencing (2-3)(14), & object used as(4), & paradox(71)(89), & playing(41) (101), & qualities of object(5), & question never to be asked(12), & relation to internal object(9-10), & survival of(90), & symbolism(6), & 5 theoretical comments about(9), & use of illusion(11) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | See Index | & analytic object as(214), as symbol of separateness in unity(228) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | @ 6-12m(110), & symbol formation(110) | ||
Cracking Up | C. Bollas | & passionate engagement w/(88-9)(91) | |||
Winnicott Concentration Notes | N. Diamand | P.12-26 CTP97/8 Winnicott | & play(15), & object relating(12), & 3 rd area of experiencing(14) | ||
Object Use | Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | Ch. 6 | & aggression(93), of analyst(91), & capacity to use(89), & destruction of object(89-91)(93), & interpretation(87), vs object relating(88), & survival of object(90) | |
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & countertransf(248), of therapist(203-4) | ||
Obsessional/ Obsessive Compulsive Disorder | Freud # 9. Case Histories II | S. Freud | See Index | & commands & prohibitions(123), & Cs vs Unc(56-8), & displacement(78)(120)(123), & distortion by ellipsis(107), & dreams (103), & etiology of obsessive thought(125), vs hysteria, amnesia in(76), & impulse vs protective measure(44), & infantile sexuality (124), & love vs hate(114)(119), & meaning of obsessional idea(67) (101)(104), & money(308), & obsessive acting(124), & obsessive thinking(102)(124), & rage(69), & regression(123-4), & resistance (64), & smell(127), & successive compulsive acts(72), & uncertainty (112)(116)(120-1) | |
Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | & creativity(86), & description of(84)(113), & hypochondria(109), & projective identification(87-8), & rituals(110-1) | |||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & description of(Ch. 13), & healthy vs unhealthy(43)(129), vs hypomanic(255), vs paranoid(224-5), vs schizoid(203) | |||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | as defence against schizoid(23), & doing w/o being(254), vs hysteria (126) | |||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.48-9 | & death anxiety | ||
The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | See Index | & checking compulsions for doubters(167-8), & compulsive act to diminish worry(167), & laws of plasticity(174), & mistake making (169), & obsessive worrying(166), & resisting compulsion(168), & therapy for(170-3) | ||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & acorn as(170), & bad seed(246), & courtesy to(161), & early _ as preformation of behaviour now(7) | ||
Soulmates | T. Moore | P.219-222 | by object of desire, as soul | ||
Neurotic Styles | D. Shapiro | Ch.2 | & activity(31-4), & affective experience(30), & decision making(45-8), & doubt vs dogma(51-2), & fear of loss of control(45), & higher authority(39-41), & relaxation(44), & rigidity(24-9), & ritualistic behaviour(52), & roles(38), & satisfaction of duty(41), & should(34-6)(43), & wilful directedness(37) | ||
The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | Ch. 11 | & aggression(118)(129), & aspects of(114-5), & authority vs submissive(119), & compliant behaviour in therapy(119-20)(135), & critical behaviour(120), as defence against schizoid(121), & task of therapy(121-3) | ||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | Ch. 8 | & control of self & environment(122), & creativity(134)(137), as defensive(127), & disgust w/ bodily functions(123), & etiology (126-7), & hate(140)(144), & intellect(140), & living in future(124), & phantasy(141-2), & positive aspect of(127-8), & ritual(126)(138-40) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | Ch. 12 | & being busy(32), & communication(234)(247), & doubt(250-2) (254), & fear of suicide(257), & grief(107), & insecurity(29)(233), & interpersonal relations(238), & lust(235-6), & over-conscientiousness (232), & schizophrenia(36)(256), & stuttering(237), & therapy w/ (264-83) | ||
Cracking Up | C. Bollas | See Index | & conventions(97), & definition of(76), & experience of therapy w/ (72), & FS(99-101), & hatred of life as object(93-4)(97-8), & integral object(87-8), & object use(86-7), as obstruction to freedom(71)(91), vs passion(81-2)(89), vs preoccupation(77-9), & reluctance to surrender to unc experiencing(79), & terminal object(75)(78), & transformational object(90-1), & transitional object(88-9), & use of life as object(94-6)(101-2) | ||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | & caregiver caused great deal of stress w/ cold, perfectionist, mechanical handling. Over manages every detail of infants existence. Dust & polish vs cherish. No indulgence.(127-8), & child turns to external regulation as unable to control internal agitations. Rigid & repetitious behaviours or thoughts become normal.(128), @ extreme person becomes paranoid(128), & receptivity impossible & fear of idea fills him w/ panic(128), & world full of conspiracies(132) | ||
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | & forgiveness(342), & hiding old romances(196), & info. about(205), & intrusive thinking(139), as need to hear the story(136)(138), & rejection fuels(140), & secrecy fuels(140), & techniques for controlling(142-3), & unfaithful partner suppresses & betrayed partner obsesses(139-40), & unresolved issues in the past(346), & writing obsessive thoughts(141), | ||
Mindsight, and | Mindsight | D. Siegel | & embracing checker vs destroying(248), & mindsight w/(246)(248) (250), & observation of & engaging in dialogue w/ checker(247), & overactive checker during adolescence(244), & the checker(243), & SAM-scan, alert, motivate(244), & transforming checker from prison guard to friendly internal sentry(251) | ||
Obstacles | On Kissing, Tickling and being Bored | A. Phillips | Ch. 8 | as concealing unc desire(81-2), & falling in love w/(85), & 1 st relationship w/ _, not object(85), & jokes(85-6), & possibility of object(89-90), as reminder of what to forget(83), & removal of, in dreams(92), & resistance as(87), & symptoms(83-4), & the wish(91) | |
Oedipal Stage, Complex/Oedipus | Five Lectures on Psychoanalysis | S. Freud | P. 51 | & description of | |
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | as defence against withdrawal(129), vs infantile dependence as cause of psychopathology(36), vs schizoid problems in therapy(278)as stage in ego formation(246), as stage in treatment(276) | ||
The Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | p.110-1 | |||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & Freud(155), & Freud vs Jung(21), & myth(224) | ||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | & desire to bind the client(108), & erotic T(108-9), & too much positive countertransf.(110-1), towards male client(11-2) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | vs Freud as source of neurosis(17)(48), (& libido(51) | |||
Freud | J. Lear | & ambivalence towards important people(183), & formulation of(181), & how do I enter society?(181), & morality(196) | |||
Fear of Life | A. Lowen | Ch.1 | & description of complex(26-33), & development of neurotic character(14), & legend of(24-6), & physical characteristics of conflict(22-3)(34-5), & sexual desire(19), & superego(33) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | at age 3 start, 5 finish(103)(106), & castration anxiety(137), & fear of success(109-10), & Freuds thesis(105), & incest(112-3), & losses & gains of(119), & mens impotence(107), & negative complex(111), & parents sexual attraction to child(112), as passionate triangle(105), & sexual choices as expression of(109)(118), & womens adaptability(131-2) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & castration anxiety(130), & depressive position(176), & guilt (17-9), & pregenital(172)(175), & psychoneurosis/psychosis(234), & superego(18) | ||
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | & broaden concept to include rivalry w/ any third, anything that constitutes a No a barrier, boundary, prohibition or obstacle to exclusive possession of love & attention of object of desire(139) | ||
Fear of Women, and | Fear of Women | W. Lederer | & actual mother a proxy for mother archetype, the Unc, the dark realm of the emotions, the Goddess(232), & incestuous A to mother cannot be made to vanish, cannot teach man that a woman he loves is not his mother, rather learn to recognize & to love the mother in any woman he may love(231-2), & Oedipal battle must be fought out-each must slay his father-as-authority if he is to become an authority & father himself(231), & w/ any woman we love we commit incest by proxy(232), & woman always all 3-Madonna, Prostitute & Mother(232) | ||
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | vs basic fault(16), & characteristics of(15-6) | |
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & agoraphobia(28-30), & analysis of conflict(5), & boys primary fears(24), as breakup of healthy oedipal self(24-5), & girls primary fears(24), & response of therapist to(68), & self-selfobject disturbance (5), & self psychological approach to(7)(53)(97)(107), & sequence of transference(22), as structured neurosis(10), & therapy w/(43)(68) | |
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & crisis of(73), & fear of castration(38)(116), & Freud(32-3)(90) (100), of girl vs boy(67), & idealized father(322), & identification w/ mother(51), & jouissance(100), & language(100), & male sexualization of mother(363), & mothers castration(90), & Oedipal father(345), as structure of law & order(73), & struggle of reality & pleasure principles(118), & superego(33-4), as time when identify as male/female(100), & traditional analysis(9-10), & Winnicotts disinterest in(225) | |
Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | Ch. 2,3 | & castration complex(44), & depressive anxiety(69-77), & desire of a child(19), & early stages of(76-80), & fear of femininity(5-6) (341), & Freud(43), & girls development(46)(80-1), & guilt(9) (113-4), & Klein(17)(83-5), & negative complex(48)(63), & penis envy(14)(17-8)(85), & triangles(44) | ||
Omnipotence | The Divided Self | R. Laing | See Index | & death-in-life(176), & schizoid(75), & the self in phantasy(84) | |
The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | & disillusioning of(213-4), & narcissism(228), & secondary narcissism(216) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & examples of(182-3), & narcissist(91-2)(94)(96)(102-3), & therapist as(175) | |||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & compulsive behaviour(285), as defence(98)(104), & psychopaths (153-4), & undoing(127-9) | |||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & illusion(11), & mirroring(112), & object use(89-90), & play(47) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & change in analysis(37), & creation of object(180-1), & facilitating environment(38)(180), & good-enough mother(57)(145), & identification(90) | |||
Winnicott | A. Phillips | & destruction of object(132), & transference phenomena(121) | |||
Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | & machine vs human(178), & own & therapists _ creative thought-processes for evil(63)(199), & reaction to threatened loss(329), & subjective _ as defense(337), & therapist not subject to uncontrollable loss(328), & threat of relatedness(330)(337-8), & transference(199) (328-9) | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & addicts(111), & closet N.(8-9), & one w/ powerful parents(37), & rapprochement phase(18-36 mths)(42), & retaliative rage @ loss of(180), & specific drugs(114-5) | |
Opposites | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & alchemy(287)(289), & Cs vs Unc(60-1)(328), & Christ symbol (300), & damming up of libido(60), & etiology of neurosis(60), & good/evil(308), & reflection(60), & life born out of(159), & mandala (292), & same reality(25), & shadow(159), & striving towards unity (18), & synchronicity(292-3), & tension of(159) | |
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & individuation(140), & God(122), & the Other(50), & the Other within(141), & wholeness(141) | ||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | & God(338), & growth of(345), & mandala(335), & psyches polarity (350), & shadow(335) | |||
Optimal Frustration | Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | & classical use of(7), & Kohuts eg of(107-9) | ||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & definition of(102-3), & essence of psychoanalytic cure(77-8)(103-4)(210), vs gratification(103), & healthy self(70), & psychic structure (98-100)(107), & recognition of by therapist(207), & self-object trans. (66-7), & therapy compared to normal development(206), & transmuting internalization(70)(96) | ||
Intersubjective, and | Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | & affect(75-6), & critique of(102), & optimal empathy(24) | ||
Orality/Oral Character | Feelings | W. Gaylin | & anxiety(37-8), & boredom(120) | ||
Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | Ch. 5-7 | & active techniques w/(208-15), & abandonment(31), & addictive compensation(170)(177-8), & affirmations for(189-90), & assimilation vs accommodation(46), & assertion(31)(174), & being let down(234), & behavioural strategies for(192-3), & Cs vs Unc beliefs(188), & core issue=need(164), & countertrans. w/(195-6), & depleted life force(174), & depressed caretakers as prime creators of (165), & despising natural neediness(179), & displacement/ identification(45-6)(178), & ego-ideal(25), & etiology of(30-1)(164-8)(173), & exercises w/ affect(198-201), & the eyes(184), & FS(226), & getting by giving(172)(205), & good/bad split(190), & hyper-irritability(174-5)(231), & integrating collapsed & compensatory aspects(236-40), & jealousy(176), & learned helplessness(31), & loneliness(176), & low level depression(167) (173), & lower back (175), & M-D quality(32)(174)(206), & muscular structure(184), & need for attention(178), & patience w/ in therapy(46), & over work (175), & polarity of clinging/ independence(164-5), & rage(181), & reaching(25)(31), & relationships(175-6)(188-9), & resentment @ growing up too soon (174), & restricted breathing(182), vs schizoid (181)(184-5), & self-hatred(179-80)(185-7), & sexual problems (176), & sickness (174)(185), & 5 stages of character formation in (31), & treatment w/(179)(195-7)(222-3)(230), & waiting(172) | ||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | See Index | & aggression(180), & eating difficulties(118-9), & Oedipus complex (76-7) | ||
Fear of Life | A. Lowen | Ch.6 | & body of(175-6), & body tension(181), & crying(188-9), & deprivation(177), & despair(185-7)(190), & fear of being alone/ abandoned(176), & letting down(194-5)(198), & nursing(174), & Oedipal(178), & reaching out(179), & sexuality(177)(179), & therapy w/(182-5) | ||
The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | Ch. 9 | & aggression(172)(178)(183), & bitterness(186), & clinging(172), & depressed sternum(165), & depression(171), & description of(150), & dreams of(185), & hyper irritability(172), & lacking energy(173), & love relations(167)(170), & need for love(268), &n physical characteristics(173-8), & talking(171), & therapy w/(169-70)(187-8) | ||
Organizing Principles | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & awareness of in cpl T(77-9)(112), & changing in parental T(161), & dev. in particular child/caregiver contexts(24), & fear of retaliation a product of Unc _(120), & functions like self-fulfilling prophecies(112), & obscuring selfobj. needs(67), & pathological(67), as patterning & thematizing of events that uniquely characterize personal reality(24), & remain context-dep. & become operative when relevant(24), & remain Unc in the absence of reflection(24), & Ts Unc _(92) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & clash of invariant Unc _ w/ Cs wishes & desires(109), & collectivism(108), & individualism(108), & intersubjective conjunctions & disjunctions(74-5), & loyalty gambits(111), & masculinity/femininity(109-10), & pathological accommodation (40), & prereflectively invariant _(39-40), & psychic equivalence (39), as thematic patterns of experiencing(39), & Unc cultural _(108), & variant _ open to process of accommodation(40) | ||
Otherness | Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | & bringing certainty to experience(56), & cultic faith relations(161-2), & death as absolutely other(163), & denial of(57), & experience of difference inextricably connected to a sense of enduring childhood(41), & imitating vs matching(39-40), & psychological survival never a sure thing because of(12), & relational perspective inescapably uncertain because of(7), & sameness within difference (42), & search for difference intimately connected w/ search for sameness(56), & search for sameness(39) | |
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Pain | Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved by You? | J. Paul | See Index | as under anger(266), as calling attention(143), & emotional(42-3) (145)(148), & intimacy(117-8), & learning to survive(144), & nonblaming(143), & protesting against(144)(146), & responsibility for others(209), & tears(143) | |
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | & acceptance of(220-3), & addiction(152), & complaining(82), & identification w/(66), & problems create(65), & relationships(152) (154), & time & pain as inseparable(226), & wanting/craving(76) | |||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & denial as analgesic to(43), & endorphins as numbing _ & lessening attention(35-9)(43), & mental anxiety(41) | |||
Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | & learning vs being rescued(139), & open vs closed(139) | |||
Brain, and | The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | as created by brain & projected onto body(190), & determined by brain & mind(191), & gate control theory of(190-1), as opinion vs reflexive response(192), & pleasure vs pain centers(114) | ||
Men, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | & externalization of(82-3), & initiation rites(162), & manhood(35-6) | ||
Panic/Panic Disorder | Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | P.108-9 | & attack | |
Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | See Index | & autonomic system(45)(55), & choking(127), & CBT(82), & internally cued(76), & intrapsychic conflict(177)(186-7), & need to present untroubled appearance to others(23), & neuroticism personality trait of(76), & stomach as 2 nd brain(77), & strong stimuli(203), & tranquilizers(177-8)(188) | |
Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | & increase of when client not held(33-4), & primary anxiety as form of(28), & response to sense of helplessness brought on by loss of ego functioning(28), & secondary _ over fact they are having a breakdown(49), & sets off powerful defences to ward off breakdown eg apparent loss of affect, stilted speaking, false congeniality, agitated depression(28-9), & trying to escape out of their own mind into someone elses but it fails as panic is endopsychic→ return to selfs panic(29) | ||
Cognitive Techniques for | The Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | Ch. 12 | & definition of(53-4) | |
Paradox | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & agency vs A(20), & assertion of self vs recognition of other(13), & cannot be resolved by choice, only by surrendering to state of irreconcilability(165)(171)(199), & collapse of → psychic equivalence or pretend mode, dominance/submission, 1 version of reality(167), of desire & egalitarianism(20), & destroying the other vs needing to locate ourselves in relation to external reality shared by others(164), & essential separateness vs essential relatedness (164), & fathers lap paradox→ not-me experience(166-7), & multiplicity of self-states(173), & need for personal privacy vs human relatedness(164), & negation of other linked to ultimate recognition of other(167)(171)(175), & paradox that one cannot fully appreciate being recognized by another if other only experienced as object(14), & paradox of partners keeping the other safe from feeling something→ affective reactions ie not safe(141), & paradox of romantic love & A love to be managed vs a problem to solve(19-20), & ruthless self-interest vs caring & conscientiousness (164), of our sense of selfhood deeply embedded in that of the other, hard to know where we begin & end in human relationships (29), & tolerating, a phylogenetic achievement(164) |
Paradoxical Intention | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.247-8, 477 | symptom exaggeration technique | |
Paranoia | Freud # 9. Case Histories II | S. Freud | See Index | & delusion(175), & homosexuality(196-200), & loss of libidinal interest(211)(214), & projection(204)(208-10), & symptom-formation(201) | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | & displacing responsibility(227), as evasion of death anxiety(150-1) | |||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | & countertransf. anxiety(161), & persecutory objects(116), & superego(115-9), & Ts fear of deteriorating client health(164), & Ts love thwarted(120-3), & Ts masochism(178-80) | |||
Feelings | W. Gaylin | & envy(141-2), & social humiliation(149) | |||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | as attentional pattern(153)(155), & being right in perception & wrong in judgement(139), & cycle of suspiciousness(153), & denial(151)(153), & displacement(152-3), & double restrictions (151)(154-5), & the family(155), & hypersensitivity to anything out of the ordinary(136-7), & little difference between perception & thought(139), & parental injunction that they are blameless for feelings of hurt & anger the child feels(153), & rigid sense of right & wrong(152), & suspicion(137), & threat of being spontaneous (152), & training child to deny feelings of rage & hurt towards parent(151-2), & twisting facts to accommodate theory(136)(138) | |||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | as defense against depressive position(129-32), & defense against persecutors(117-8)(151)(153), & fixation point of(110)& lack of identification w/ whole object(126-7), & melancholia(119) | |||
Soulmates | T. Moore | P.101 | & definition of | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & anxiety(150)(340), & attack on security(87)(149)(151), & blame (146)(148)337-41)(345), & Christ identification(338), & conspiracy (148), & delusion of persecution(304), & dreams(160), & envy (132-3), & first born(344), & grandiose explanation(148)(304-5), & hateful projection(161), & home environment(343), & hypochondriasis(86), & intimacy(87)(158)(161), & jealousy(141), & M-D(299), & myths(335)(348-9), & prostitutes(155-6), & referential operations(307), & rooted in(145), vs schizophrenia(337), & school (344), & self-system(89), & shame(341), & sleep(159), & speech (339), & stupor(321-2), & therapy w/(347)(350-1) | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, ed | Ch.41 | & blame(200), & description of(200), & escape from guilt(200), & sadism/masochism(207), & warfare(199-200) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & concrete state of mind(200-1), as ego-syntonic diss.(201), & preserving diss. @ any cost to prevent return of unbearably traumatic self-exp.(179-80), & propensity to make brilliantly perceptive mistakes & to be absolutely right in his perception & absolutely wrong in his judgment(180), & self-narrative virtually immune to inconsistent perceptions(179-80)(201), & self-states that hold traumatic exp. & others that hold ego resources to avoid repetition(201), & thought w/o a thinker(200) | |
Paranoid/ Paranoid Personality | Neurotic Styles | D. Shapiro | Ch.3 | & affect(78), & autonomy(81)(83-5), & behaviour of(76-7), & the clue(60), & compared to OCD(105-7), & directedness of attention (58-9), & hyper-alertness(62-3)(102-3), & impulse(87)(101), & interest in mechanical things(78), & projection(68)(70-3)(93), & sense of proportion(65), & sexuality(78), & shame(81), & state of total mobilization(73-5), & subjective world of(66-7)(77)(93)(95), & suspicious thinking(56-7), & the unusual(62-3) | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams & Seminar Notes | See Index X Files Ref. | & description of(Ch. 10), & projection(108), & reaction formation(132-3), & self-defeating people(266-7) | ||
The Treatment of Aggression - The Paranoid | R. Brickner, CTP 97-8 Pers. Types | All | & groups(403-5), & paranee(405-6) | ||
Swamplands of the Soul | J. Hollis | P. 112 | & betrayal | ||
Paranoid-Schizoid Position | Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | & defences against(85)(191), & description of(70-1), & failure to work through(2)(164-5), & 1 st 3-4 months(49), & persecutory anxiety (62-9), & projective identification(143), & regression to(73)(76) (279), & splitting(191)(241) | |
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | & persecutory anxiety(21), & splitting(20) | |||
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & ambivalence(206), & clinical depression occurs in(182), & destructiveness split off & projected→ persecutory anxiety & Unc masochistic need for expiation through self-punishment(130), & hate & paranoia predominate(182), & kill or be killed(182), & N predominates(182), & 1 st orientation to world in loving expectation of encountering love→ inevitable frustration experienced as persecutory, as attack→ hate→ fear of retaliation→ further hate→ projected outwards→ intensifying sense of persecution→ more hate(206), & paranoid anxiety prevails(182), & profound split between good & evil(182), & politics of perfection(182-3), & schizoid in that both self & others split into all-good, idealized or all-bad demonised figures(182-3), & shame & other forms of self-punishment predominate(182) | |
Parapraxis (Slips) | Five Lectures on Psycho-Analysis | S. Freud | P. 38-9 | & examples of | |
Parenting/ Caregiving | A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | See Index | vs childs internal representation of(44), & inverted relationship to children(18)(31)(86)(130)(144), & mothers childhood(16), & programming of(83), of secure/insecure infants(133-5), & separation (17), & treating others as weve been treated(91) | |
Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | & adjusting behaviour in partnership w/ child(355-6), of apathetic vs over reactive babies(341-2), & attachment(242)(260)(315-6)(345-6), vs attachment(377), & babbling(287-9), of boys vs girls(340), & complementary behaviour(141-2)(377), & crying(290-3)(343), & deviation from environment of evolutionary adaptedness(166), & distance between parent & child(236-7)(255), & diversion of, by manipulation of environment(130), & effect on infant capacity to tolerate frustration(345), & effect on infant smile on(246)(280-1) (283-4), & feeding(347), vs food(271), & holding(319), & holding mothers attention(247), as instinctive(39), & interactional pattern of(348-9), & overlaps w/ attachment & sexual behaviour(233), & phases of proximity(243-4)(266-8), & regulation of(356-7), & retrieval behaviour(240-1), & signalling to(244-5), & specificity of (244), & substitute mother(306), & watching mother(273) | ||
Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | All |
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The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | See Index | & neuronal reorganization(118), & oxytocin(119-20) | ||
Toxic Parents | S. Forward | All | |||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | vs alerting(20), vs ancestors(88-90), & fantasy of(163-70), & Mother myth(70-1)(77-9), & selection of by daimon(64), as therapeutic approach(88), vs the world(86-7) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | in depressive(235-6), in dissociative personality(332-3), in hysterical (309), in OC(286-8), in paranoid(211-2), in psychopathic(156-7), in schizoid(193-4) | |||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | as healing our own wounds(256), & limits to power(246-7), by male vs female(72-3)(312), & re-enactment of own history(237-8), & separation from as murder of(160), & separation from children(230-1) (234), & True Dilemma Theory of Parenthood(240) | |||
The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | All |
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Adult Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | & being protected by child(9-13)(269-70)(272-3), & childhood home as symbol of continuity for what has been lost(81), & children would vote to maintain marriage(51)(307), & childs awareness of(33), & divorce=parents failure @ one of central tasks of adulthood(34), & divorce of older parents(83), as external model of stability(83), & fighting as harmful to children(270), & giving message to children not to express their feelings(280-1), & help from children for elderly divorced parents(203), of infants(217), & invisible structure of(24),& joint custody(215-6)(219), as less stable in post divorce family(10)(51)(311-2), & need for good internal image of _ as couple(34), & new meaning of children to after divorce(10)(235), & observing parents struggle over the life course (83), & parallel vs cooperative(24), & parent/child alliance(115-6), & parent/child rel. as unreliable(298), & plasticity of parent/child rel.(200)(203), & presenting a united front(71), & sex as way of getting even w/(189), & telling child of troubles(43-6) | |
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | See Index | & acknowledging lapses & failures(59), & affective competence of involves 1) tenderness & careful holding 2) sensitivity & responsiveness(50), & being mindful of childs & own emotional exp.(57)(59), & caregiving as parenting behavioural system(1 of 3 attachment systems)(34-5), & child deals w/ affective exp. as caregiver dealt w/ him(53)(85), & 3 copy processes in relationship to caregiver(85-6), & creating an affect-facilitating environment(36) (59)(62-3)(68)(72), & enormous opportunities to make an impact t(40), & errors of commission(71)(79), & errors of omission(71) (78), & giving beyond mirroring to dealing w/ distress(51)(58) (68), & good-enough(68)(72-3), & high reflective self-function in(54-5)(57-60), & inaccessibility of mother activates attachment (35), & omnipotent defense of(333), & parenting fulfilling needs of caregiver(36) | |
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | & caretaker cultivates in the child his or her capacity to be receptive to cherishment(61), & gets satisfaction from childs good development(61), & pathologies of caretaking are pathologies of being unable to sponsor good dev.)61)(64) | ||
Eroticism, and | Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | & appreciation vs objectification(147), & boundaries(140), & children as compensation(141-2), family life vs eroticism(129), & female eroticism(132), & lack of sex(135-6), & parental sex on list of things children need(138) | ||
Narcissists, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & building childs healthy self-esteem(195), & conscience as internalizing values of realized parent(192), & feeling special as N. entitlement(187-8), & managing childs rage(222), & good parental boundaries(193-4), & N. Father(52-6), & N. Mother(48-52), & overidentification w/ child(188-9), & pseudomature child(56-7), & pursuit of own happiness(186), & raging parent(21), & sexual overstimulation of children(195), & sparing childs suffering(188), & transformation of childs infantile fantasies(21), & whats good for me is good for my child(190) | |
Patterns of | The Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | p.100 | ||
Physical Abuse, and | Shes Come Undone | W. Lamb | All | ||
Only Son | J. Johnson | All | |||
Step, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | & adolescent acting out(238), & adolescents reaction to(243), & attitude of bio. father to stepfather(245), & betrayal of bio. father(245), & children leaving early from(247), & children less well educated(253), & children masking feelings towards(280), & demanding more from mother(242), & easier w/ little children for step father(240-1), & elderly less care from step children(203), & fantasy that parents will reconcile(237)(242), & father siding w/ new wife(274-5), & fathers feel differently towards children after divorce (251-2), & 40% of marriages involve one or both(239), & gender differences(242-3), & high potential for conflict(246), & jealousy between stepparent & child(274), & lacking passionate commitment from children(169-70), & new couples desire for privacy(242), w/ older children(240-1), & other stepchildren(275-6), & stepdaughter/ stepfather erotic fantasies(244), & step fathers not welcomed by child(241-2), & step parenthood as earned, not given(240), & 25% of children in(239), & step mothers vs step fathers(239), & visiting patterns(175) | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & therapist as parent(347), & therapist as better parent(144-5)(271) | |
Participation Mystique | Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | & definition of(31), & gods(179), & relationships(63)(600) | |
The Eden Project | C. Hollis | & definition of(146), of Other(54), of Primal Other(37)(40) | |||
Transference, and | The Analytic Encounter | M. Jacoby | & concordant countertransf.(39), & I/Thou relationship(63), & projection(35), & sexual drive as concrete physical side(34-5) | ||
Passion | Cracking Up | C. Bollas | Ch. 4 | & change of subjective being through(82), & hatred of life as object (93-4)(97), & integral object(87-8), vs obsession(89), & principle of universal use(91-2), as related to Winnicotts ruthlessness(81)(95), & source of word(81), as transfer of hate(97-8), & transitional object(88-9) | |
Conversations with God | N. Walsch | See Index | vs attachment to results(101), & definition of(101), as love of doing (101) | ||
Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | See Index | vs addiction(63), & Inner Child(62), & meaning of(62) | ||
The Middle Passage | J. Hollis | See Index | & 4 axioms of(106), & Leave nothing for death to take, nothing but a few bones(105), & seizing not asking permission @ mid-life(106) | ||
Passive-Aggressive | Aggressor, and | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 19-20 |
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Men, and | The Hazards of being Male | H. Goldberg | as defence(57), at partner(14-8) | ||
Passivity | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | vs antilibidinal ego(161), & regressed ego(77)(144)(164)(212) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & accepting help(159), in face of terror(43) | ||
Pathogenesis/ Pathology | Intersubjective, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & arises when conflict between 3 motivations to maintain organization of exp.(23-4), as arising from intersubj. contexts of dev. failures(28), & conflict(29), & families(159-61)(164-5), & intersubj. doesnt pathologies or blame(157-8), & pain as not pathology but absence of adequate attunement & responsiveness to childs painful emotional reactions(56), as part of a dynamic & ongoing g dev. system(129), & pathological accommodation(59-60), & psychosis(30), & sense of annihilation(30), & sense of self(23), as severe disjunctions or asynchronies between parent & child(28), & spectrum of(28-9), & 4 types of parental failure(165-8) |
Penis/Penis Envy | Fear of Women, and | Fear of Women | W. Lederer | & castration threat(217), as expendable(218), as invention of & legacy from 19thC, the emancipation of women(217), & penis as metaphor for power & freedom(217), & women did not envy men their little tool that was so easily borrowed when it was needed(214)(217) | |
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | amongst men(308), & castration(14), & envy of men(284), & feminine world of change(181), & homosexuality(308), as non-performing instrument(405), as penetrating & enveloping(189), as water toy vs little purse(303) | |
Perception | Attachment | J. Bowlby | & discrimination(199)(244)(266), & increase in range of(204), of patterns(218)(271), & working models(354) | ||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & bias in(75)(80-1), & changing _ when cannot change situation(148), & info. that never reaches awareness(86), as not necessarily Cs(62)(90) | |||
Mindsight | D. Siegel | See Index | & always a blend of what were sensing now & what weve learned previously(201)(258), & implicit memory encodes _(150), & no immaculate perception(201), & shaped by memories(148) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | vs believing an alternative version of self-truth(179), as dynamic process that includes interplay between 2 subjectivities(170), vs enactment(26), & facilitating clients access to broadest possible range of Cs, through _(256), & imaginative _(316-7), as involving an interactive process of responsiveness to the world that operates on behalf of the motivation & behaviour of the perceiver(179), & meaning through language(246-7)(257), & shift in _ to the exp. of observing & reflection(283-4), & T as process designed to enhance _ as 1 st act(179), & T providing an exp. perceivably (not just conceptually) different from client`s narrative memory(176) | ||
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | & compromised by trauma & dissociation because thwarts the cognitive capacity to play w/ images thus interfering w/ use of to construct meaning(160), & dissociation alters perceptual experience & drains interpersonal context of personal meaning(52), & dissociative experience 1 st noticeable to T as perceptual phenomenon(52), & to generate an act of meaning, relational context must be constructed that includes realities of both T & client(160), & perception where the action is(159), & perceiving anomalous experiences(71)(138), & power of self-truth remains unchanged unless challenged by(160), & psychic reality sensed not only through belief but through _(157), as relational process-personal interaction between mind of individual & what is out there(160), & T attempts to facilitate clients access to broadest possible range of Cs through enhancing _(159-60) | |
Perceptive Identification | The Freudian Moment | C. Bollas | See Index | & allowing us to love obj. maturely for itself & not for oneself(66), & perceiving obj. as thing-in-itself(66), & separation of obj.(66), & use of in T vs projective ID(65)(67-8)(82), & use of obj.(60) | |
Perfectionism | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & arrogant contempt(196), & claims(197), & feeling superior(196), & ill fortune(197), & needing respect(196), & shoulds(196), & standard=actualities(196), as a way to control life(197), @ work(315) | |
Darwins Worms | A. Phillips | & caught up in 2 false beliefs: redemption & stopping time(129), & ideal can become another excuse for punishment(115), & lives dominated by impossible ideals experienced as continuous failure (115), & suffer from our ideals(17), & unforgiving attachment to _ that consistently humiliates us(129), & use ideals to deny reality, to stop us living in the world as it is & finding out what we could be like in it(17) | |||
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | & concealing attractiveness(122), in order to survive(119-21) | ||
Performance | Males, and | Why Men Are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | See Index | vs beauty power of women(110), & boys(113), & commitment(154), to earn females(39-40)(112), & insecurity(109), vs support(349), & war(363) |
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | & esteem(182-3)(275) | |||
Persephone | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | & anima(43), & Hades rape of(208-9) | ||
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.147 | & depressive side of sex | ||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.40-49 | & childs susceptibility to dark people & places(42), & Demeter(43), & mothering/maternal(43)(45)(47), & myth of(40-1) | ||
Persona | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | vs anima(101-2), & compensation of(96)(100), as mask(94-5), & personal vs individual(98-9), & projection of(104-5), of single in search of relation(136-7), & soul-image(103-4) | |
Personal Development | Relationships, and | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & relationship as assignment for(345), & 4 stages of(282-3) |
Personality | The Right Brain | T. Blakeslee | & effect of right & left brain(29-31)(151-2)(179-80), & removal of hemisphere(17), & right & left eye movement(178-9), & split(163) | ||
Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | & Freud(10), & ontogenesis(4) | ||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | as circle(50), & 4 functions of(453-5), vs individuation(106-7) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & adult ideal of(193)(205), as achievement(18-9), & centre of(19), & complex(39-40), & definition of(195), & destiny(196), & development of(197-8), & dissociation(14)(60)(97)(220), & domestic vs public(98), & eternal child(194-5), & individuation(19), & inner voice(207-10), & neurosis(207), & paranoia(40-1), & shadow(87), & souls as(97), as Tao(210), & not a unity(31), & vocation(199)(202-3) | ||
Relationships, and | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & co-dependent(267-8), & counterdependent(265-7), & counterdependent/co-dependent(264)(270-6)(332), & counterdependent/co-dependent questionnaire(291-300), & shadow of w/ counterdependent(276-8) | |
Types | Comparison of Depressive, Hysterical, Obsessional, Schizoid and Paranoid Personalities | N. Diamand CTP 97-8 Per. Types | All | ||
Perversion | The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | See Index | as re-enactment of drama(87), & rejecting mother(88) | |
The Institutionalization of Perversion | TPR May 2000 | P.216-20 | & individual vs state torturer | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | of agency as undermining our pursuit of work, love & play(51), & fetishization of some form of lust(128),& intrusion of dissociated states because initial complaints attended to(118-9), as pathological when represents pact between partners against personal growth & intimate connection(128), & seeking recognition for victimization vs finding their role(128), & submission/masochism perversion of surrender(171)(199-200), as Unc attempt @ experimentation to find ways of facilitating real personal & relational actualization(128) | |
vs Hysteria | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | & anxiety & alienation as predominant states(171), & countertrans. (175), & day-dreaming(169), as erotic form of hate(172), as form of auto-eroticism(169-70), & fulfilling maternal desire through expressing sexual contents(172), & intimacy(173), & lack of boundaries between inner sexual life & real(170), as master of instinct(10)(172), & maternal violence(10-1)(171-2), & mothers use of body of(172), vs normal(170-1), as repression of sexual contents vs acting out(10), as reversal of hysteria(170), as sexual expert(169), & theatre of(173) | |
Phallus | The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.39-43 | vs big penis(39), & fascination(41), as representing life(41-2) | |
The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | See Index | & Christian cross(240), & masculinity(238-9), & middle finger(241) | ||
Phobias | On Kissing, Tickling and Being Bored | A. Phillips | Ch. 2 | & looking at symptom by how you would teach someone to have it(21), as protection against curiosity(14-5), & rationality of(13)(15), & situation vs object(19), as taboo(23), & terror v terrorizing(22), as the unspeakable(25) | |
Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | See Index | & certain phobias common because come from instinctive fears evolutionarily selected for(278)(280), & child who develops specific phobia 5 times more likely to develop social phobia & depression (230), & cognitive restructuring(52), as displacements of our deeper existential concerns projected onto outward things(58), & first developed between 6-16(231), & 1 st presenting symptom of adults w/ anxiety disorder is specific phobia as child(230), as person who retains his ability to love(147), & phobic person a loving person (147), & signature characteristic of=need & ability to present a relatively placid, untroubled appearance to others, while suffering extreme distress inside(23) | |
Cognitive Behaviour, and | The Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | See Index | & conflict(443), & cost-benefit of(239-40), vs generalized anxiety (51), & simple(53), & social(52-3)(Ch.14), & techniques for overcoming(252-3) | |
Pity | Open Minded | J. Lear | as defense against terror(185), & fear(185)(212) | ||
Play/Playfulness | Solitude | A. Storr | P. 71-2 | & creative living | |
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | Ch. 9, 10 | as adaptive(170), & aggression(169), & boredom(157-8), & definition of(156), & exploration(154), & games(153)(171), & order (151), & parties(173), & ritual(159-61), & sexuality(169-70)(172-3), & similarity w/ animal play(155), & social activity(159)(164) | ||
Adult, and | New Passages | G. Sheehy | P. 357-9 | & permission to | |
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | & blunting of childhood memories about(19), as critical aspect of childs social & moral dev.(19), & giving up when having to think about others(20), & imaginative(20), as something one does for pleasure, for oneself(20), as unstructured(19-20) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & capacity to play critical to quality of our lives & ability to be creative(31), & if couple cannot play something needs to be done(31-2), & enabling invocation of humour & aggression)41), & fundamental question hovering over every treatment regards relational degree of playfulness available inter & intra subjectively (138), & improvisation(31-2), & listening in a manner that recognizes what has been asserted & then play off that(32), & meta-communication that partners have lost their sense of(140), & partners playing w/ their sexual fantasies(21), & playing w/ one anothers position w/o relinquishing own(203), & playing w/ repetitive transference states(160), & ruthless, destructive play in fantasy of child(14), & taking on exaggerated versions of themselves → new possibilities(160)(204), & tango occurs in play space(181-2), & T being playful(246), & if T cannot play not suitable for work (31), & w/o _ reduced to scripted engagement(138)(159), & yes/and vs yes/but play(32) | ||
Development, and | The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | & achievement of individuality(116), & castration(214), w/ Father (118)(125), & rapprochement(77)(92), & symbolic(101) | |
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | All | |||
Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | as extension of exploration(239), & inhibition(308), & playmate vs attachment figure(307), & smiling(281) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & bodily excitement(35), & concern(77), & Klein(174) | |||
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | See Index | & both as adaptive inventions of ego(64), & denial(87), & humour as evidence that the child has survived in Unc.(66), & humour as similar bridge between Unc. phantasy & reality(64), & humourous/ potential space(65)(68-70), & pretend mode(64-6) | |
Inner, and | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & genera(76)(78)(106), by other(28), w/ reality(245), & surprise (37), & understanding of other(186-7)(189), & violent innocence(190) | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & as if relation(265), & capacity to be alone(342-3), & internal supervisor(35), & a period of hesitation(183) | |
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | Ch. 8 | & boundaries(124), & closeness(124), & communication(118)(125), & danger of, by therapist(121), & discovery of capacity for(118-9), & games(111), & kinds of(118), & messages of(122), & paradox(117-8), & relief(123) | ||
Pleasure | Going on Being | M. Epstein | See Index | being rather than doing or being done to(70-1)(103), & fear of (70), & intrinsic happiness(67-8)(103), & pleasure that has nothing to do w/ sensual desires=a pleasure inherent to what is(67-8) | |
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | All | ||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | Ch.7 | & list of psychosocial stresses(50), & mourning(58), & psychic numbing(57) | ||
EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | See Index | & chronic fear(19), & depression(19), & description of(17), & lack of secure attachment(165), & primary symptoms of(17-8) | ||
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | & ambivalence(134), & panic attacks(373), & PT reactions(136-7), & revelation of infidelity as traumatic event for betrayed partner(9-10)(65), & trust(134)(373) | ||
Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & depression(290), & Serotonin(288), & trauma memory(286-7) | |
Potential/ Transitional Space | Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & cultural experience(100), & description of(107), vs inner & outer world(41)(53), & living experience(108), & play(41)(47), & separation(108-9), & symbols(109), in therapy(107), & trust in(109) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | Ch.25 | & delusional trans.(231-2), vs fantasy(229), & 4 forms of failure of creation of(230), & state on non-experiencing(235), & threeness (229), & understanding(231-2) | ||
Potential Space-The First Frontier | N. Diamand | All | & biology(10-1), & collective space(5), & dance(18), & humour(19-20), & inner(12-4), & Jung(7), & mourning(17), in relationship(15-7), & sex(18-9), & spirituality(29-32), & therapy(24-8) | ||
| Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | & @ night no potential space to play w/ boundaries but rather risk of depersonalization-takes on presence of malevolent other vs holding other threatening to disintegrate boundaries & selfhood(62), & in _ each party allows himself to experience the others working reality as if it were his own dream(40) | |
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & absence of indicator of pathology(281), as area of illusion(233) (279), & employing symbolic function of human psyche to generate image of consolation & affirmation to resist negation of self(278), & Love(249), & mediates or transcends binary oppositions such as reality/fantasy, subject/object, belief/disbelief(234)(278), & originates in childs 1 st not-me/me possession(278-9), & primary vs secondary process(234), & similarities/differences neither fully registered nor denied(233-4), as temporary madness (279) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | as co-created intersubj. playground(28)(253), as dialectic between clients ability to preserve self as is while allowing symbolic communication to be accommodated into repatterning of repr. mental structure(199)(217), & diss. as basis for use of _ to further self-growth(285), as intersubj.(9)(278), in which client not pressured to choose between which reality is more objective(199), & judgment of authenticity moot(199), & maintaining dual citizenship in 2 domains of reality-inside & outside(137)(193)as mental space that allows selfhood & otherness to interpenetrate(9), & objectifying of(209), as room for relatedness(217), as space for thinking between & about the client & T(278), as transitional point between surrendering diss. & shifting to more conflicted one(217), as undisturbed, intermediate area of communication through illusion(137) | |
Power | Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | See Index | vs pseudo power(56-7), & softness(54-5), vs weakness(55) | |
Men, and | Why Men are the Way they Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & beauty power(66-76)(103)(111), & 5 components of(9-13), & impotence(264), & feeling needed(360), & obtaining from opposite sex(134)(359), & performance _(39-40)(109-10)(112), & powerlessness(129)(215)(314)(351), & success(78), & women from children(35) | |
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | & identification w/ aggressor(102)(224), in leaving(10), of mother (268), & powerlessness(17), & womens(64) | |||
Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | vs building relationships(147-8), as influence of next generation(118), & social isolation(126) | ||
Narcissists, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & admiration-seeking(149), as antidote for shame(141), & cannibalization of private lives(146), & constant state of agitation (148), & controlling appreciative audience(14), & envy(148-9)(156), & exploitation(147), & fatherhood(53), & idealization of useful (146-7)(153), & rage(155), & shame dumping/scapegoating(144), & violation of personal boundaries(143) | |
Preoccupation | Cracking Up | C. Bollas | w. conventions(94-6), & hatred of life(93), vs obsession(77-9), as schizoid reluctance to unc. experience(79), as transformation of hate (97-8), & use of object world(91) | ||
Pride/ Pride System | Feelings | W. Gaylin | Ch. 4 | & accomplishment(81), & doing well vs good(83), & feeling of use (145-6), & feeling form of(78), & maturation(85), & public recognition(81), & self-respect,-esteem,-confidence as ingredients of (75) | |
Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & actual vs proud self(112), & alienation from self(123)(173), & autonomy of(123)(178), & basic anxiety(297), & compulsion(210), & conflict w/(112-3)(187), & egocentricity(291-2), & fear of people (296), as governing feelings(162-4), & human relations(244)(291-2), & increased vulnerability(296), & maintaining a confusion(178), & self-contempt(210), & self-deception(164), vs self-realization(166), & suffering(163),in T(174)(340)(347)(353), & vulnerability of(209-10) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & lack of as humiliation(116), & lack of praise in families(123-4), & selective inattention(120-1), as self-deception(117)(119-20) | ||
Procrastination | Cognitive approach, and | The Feeling Good Handbook | D. Burns | Ch9-10 | & action then motivation(170), & being unassertive(181), & coping model(172), & cost benefit analysis of(187), & lack of desire(181), & passive aggressiveness(180), & sensitivity to coercion(181), & test for (171) |
Projection | The Middle Passage | J. Hollis | See Index | & acknowledgement of lesser qualities(44), & affairs(57-60), & asking how much of the unknown me was tied up in that person or role?(103), & emancipation from childhood(32), & illusion of ego supremacy(41), vs insurgence of Self(25)(35-7), & Middle Passage as dissolution of(26), & relationships(46-52), & 5 stages of(31), & 3 steps to transform marriage(60-1) | |
The Analytic Encounter | M. Jacoby | See Index | & adult/child in both partners(37), & complementary countertransf. (40-1), of enemy image(71), of healer archetype(23)(29), & I/Thou relationship(62-3)(71), & I am only myself if I fulfill the expectations mother has of me. If, however, I am as I feel, then I am not myself(21), & identity(35), & the more we are Cs of ourselves the more we can relate to the otherness of another person(63)(70), & taking back(51)(63), & T as Great Mother(82-3) | ||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | & denial/displacement(120), as operating in isolation, rationalization & sublimation(122), & 3 attentional steps of(122), & 2 stages of(142-3), as what is inside cast outside(120) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | p. 107-12 | |||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | of clients split-off ego(65), of rejecting ideas(65), of Ts ambition (27-8) | ||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | P. 142 | & romance | ||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & anima/animus(116), & science(242), & shadow(92-3)(242-3), & soul-image(104-5) | ||
Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | of badness(69), & definition of(250), & deflecting death instinct (5-6) (238)(312), of 1 st object(breast)(2)(31)(63), vs introjection (252-3), of love feelings(69)(312), of love & hate(250), & phantasy activity(58), & relations w/ others(49)(58)(253), & splitting(8-9), & superego (313)(321) | |||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | & aggression(116)(150)(180), & paranoia(117)(126) | |||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & borderline(76), & countertrans.(195-7), & narcissist(183) | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & female element(82)(137), & object relating(88)(90), & feeling alive through(134), in therapy(91) | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & Klein(174), & psychosis(131), & therapy(38) | ||
Intersubjective, and | Psychoanalysis of Developmental Arrests | R. Stolorow | Ch. 6 | & arrest vs conflict(112-3), vs incorporation(92), & process of(91-2) | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & absorbing shame(65), & envy(125)(149), of N. parent onto child(10), & vulnerability to(64) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | & digested(18), vs projective identification(13-4)(34-5)(175), & variations of within family(16-7) | |
Relationships, and | Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | Exercises to reclaim(286-8), & owning(240-1) | |
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & asking what projection says about you(57), & definition of God (136), & definition of marriage as transformation(85), & falling in love w/ Love(61)(67), & fivefold process of(51-2), & 4 principles of relationship(74), as inevitable(61), & Love is wanting the other to be(St. Augustine)(57), & loving our reflection(55), of Magical Other (37)(48)(50)(120), & need vs caring(64), onto Princess Dianna(118-9), & standing guard over autonomy of other(60), & suicide(49), & tending to our own individuation(74), & 3 ways to detect(52-3), & 2 conditions for growth: responsibility & ability to internalize(78), of unc(35)(53), & wholeness w/ You(58)(140-1) | ||
of Shadow | Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, ed | Ch.58 | & exaggerating symptoms(276-7), & informing vs affecting as(274), & re-owning opposite(276) | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | of hope(304-5), & interpretation as(154-5) | |
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | Ch. 8 | & definition of(248), vs environment of needs(261), & jealousy (251), & perfectionism(258), & prejudice(252), of rejection(249-50), & requirements for(248), & screen of conscience(257), & screens for(256) | ||
Freud # 9. Case Histories II | S. Freud | See Index | & paranoia(204)(208-10) | ||
Neurotic Styles | D. Shapiro | & paranoia(68)(70-1)(89-90)(93)(95)(97)(102-3) | |||
Projective Identification | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & definition of(239)(243), vs extractive introjection(158)(163-4) (167-8), & grief(281), & normotic(142)(164) | |
Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | All | |||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & description of(107-12), & paranoid(210), & psychopath(154) | ||
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & definition of interper. PI(271-2), & top extent we refuse to integrate childhood pain we visit it upon others through _(275-6), & evil as leeching life from others in order to fill an aching absence in oneself(209), & identification w/ the aggressor(180)(271-2), & identification w/ victim(272), & N & sadistic subject projects split-off anxiety, helplessness & dependence into an object whom he then induces to play the anxious, masochistic, depressive & dependent part(272-3), & other person actually made to feel like a victim(272), & @ root of many chronic marital, interper. & intergroup conflict (272), & scapegoats(274)(276), & sympathetic ID(276), & taboo on tenderness(269-70)9274) | |
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & example of separation vs togetherness(21-2), & is 1) a type of defence keeping a distance from unwanted aspects of self 2) a model of communication putting ones feelings into another person 3) a primitive form of object relations 4) a pathway for psychological change when frightening feelings can be re-internalized(18), & individual has to find partner who will contain their projections & whose projections theyre able to contain(19), & roles of partners = Unc contract(83), & tensions within relationship thought of as internal conflicts externalized & acted out(19), & Unc partner choice made on basis of others responsiveness to projected aspects of self(18-9), & where 1 individual projects a bad or unacceptable part of the self into another(18) | |
Development, and | Melanie Klein | P. Grosskurth | & anal/oral instincts(395), & countertrans.(442), & definition of(374-5), & ego-splitting(373), & schizophrenia(459-60) | ||
Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | & good object(192), & greed(155), & greed/envy/jealousy(181), of hostile inner world(11)(171), & introjection(11), & loneliness(14) (302), & oral/anal(68-9), & paranoid/schizoid position(143), & psychotic disorders(8), & schizoid(12-3), & weakened ego(11) | |||
Males, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | P.206-8 | & shame | |
Relationships, and | Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | & ambivalence(200)(355)(398), vs change(360), & collusive loving (356-7)(361-3), & definition of(22-3)(64)(191), of dependency(192) (238-9), & differentiation(389), & distancer/pursuer(207)(214)(319), & external conflict w/ spouse vs internal conflict(192-3)(201), & 5 ways of relating(390-9), & hysterical marriage(235-45), & inner model(190), & intimacy(213)(361), & intimacy/autonomy(401-2), & knowing who is angry(64)(394), & never angry individual(65)(191-2), & obsessive(241-3), & rage(241)(357), & resolving inner conflict (195)(197)(358), & taking back(185-6), as trade-off(194) | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | as affective communication(71-2), & communication by impact (208), & containment(121)(281), & hope(72)(304), & identification w/ aggressor(193), vs projection(71), & role-responsiveness(193) | ||
Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow |
| & borderline(111-2), & defensive vs developmental arrest(34)(112-5) | ||
Psyche, the god | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | as butterfly(68), & Eros(43-4)(68)(102)(185), & movement of ideas (148), & soul(127), & therapy as serving(120), as unc(21) | |
Psychoanalytic Practice & Theory | Has Freudian Psychoanalysis been Killed by Pills? | P. Fonagy, L. Wolpert | TPR May00 P.221-4 | a debate | |
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | Ch.4,10,14 | & analysis of ALE(85)(213), & ego-theory(124)(126)(398-9)(402), & experience vs explanation(375), & hating(193), & Klein(127-9) (413), & meaning(378), & mind vs psyche(385), & movement of (123), & psychic vs sensory reality(370-1), & psychodynamics(380), w/ schizoid(231)(289), & 3 variables of(275), & TS(182), & ultimate problem for therapy(78)(171)(220), & understanding of therapist (316)(353)(356) | ||
Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | See Index | & clients knowing what they need(110), & defensiveness of therapist (121), & Merton Gill(Ch.4), & history of(5-19), & humanism(Ch.3), & intersubjective(Ch.8), & Kohut(Ch.5), & relationship as microcosm (63), & 2 ways of damaging: seduction & punishing(147) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | w/ borderlines(50-3)(81-90), w/ neurotic level clients(69-71), w/ psychotics(72-80) | |||
Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | See Index | & creative process(171)(175), & goal of(60)(62)(64), & listening from agape(194), & maternal vs paternal attitude(41-4)(183), & one-person vs two-person psychology(52-3)(55), & reverie(64), & 2 types of knowing(36-7)(43), & voice as transitional object(163-4), & way we word & speak(160)(162), & words & sexuality(163) | ||
On Flirtation | A. Phillips | See Index | & aim of _ to produce a story of the past that makes past available as a resource to be thought about rather than a persecution to be endlessly re-enacted(37)(69-70), & category of unbearable target for interpretation(22), & client is not cured because he remembers, he remembers because he is cured(67), & clients come to T because way they are remembering their lives has become too painful(69), & cured in _ when he continues to plan for future knowing he is unable to do so(102), & desires of childhood target of interpretation(66), & encourage us to take seriously those things we are inclined to dismiss(134), & free-association integral to remembering(67), & free-association is memory in its most incoherent & fluent form(67), & 2 implicit aims: to release persons internal radar for finding objects he needs for self-transformation & elicit & enable person to use their essential complexity(160), & love is a problem of knowledge in _(40), & the most disabling insights are ones he cannot forget(153), & people come to _ because they are remembering in a way that does not free thought to forget(22), & project of _ to turn pain into meaning(144), & _ as encounter between 2 people vs 1 person treating another(147), & _ cannot begin w/o a forgetting(29), & psychosomatic symptoms(145), & repetition is forgetting in its most spellbinding form(36)(69), & teaching people a way of hearing what they say that enables them to speak in new ways(131), & Ts ability to forget(29-30), & is torn between helping people to conform & helping them to create revolutions(131), & transference(71-2), & turning what feels like contradictions into paradoxes(50), as a way of understanding the obstacles to symbolization & memory(36)(69)(83) | ||
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | & boundaries between _ & philosophy fades as turn their attention to growth & development of individual(183-4), & committed to overcoming the values of the mass ie omnipotence, de-individuation & lack of responsibility(212), as committing a crime against the mass(206), as discovering that being an individual is a psychological achievement(22-3)(26)(156-7), as encouraging a person to work through the particular meaning by which he lives his life(206), as existing because repression unable to carry out its task(89), as history of series of battles fought & refought within human soul (16)(27)(203), as manifestation of mans erotic attachment to the world(181), meets w/ philosophy in idea of a radical evaluation(205-10)(212), as part of loves developmental history(28), & promotes individuation(22)(27)(206)(211-2), as promoting healthy rel. between individual & his instincts(23), as serious attempt to work out relationship between self-reflection & freedom(22)(183), & shows that our concern w/ how we should live is itself a product of love & loss(186-7), & will stand or fall based on cultures commitment to individual(22)(26), as a wisdom won from illness(157) | ||
The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | See Index | & anti-growth(113-4), & arrogance, curiosity & stupidity(154-6), & attachment to memory(42)(167-70), & decision whether to avoid pain or to tolerate/modify it(6)(15)(28-9)(61)(67)(70), & desire for cure as obstacle(170-1), & destruction of hope(121)(146-7), & dreams(7)(39) (60)(78), & emotional knowing vs obtaining a piece of knowledge (28), & excitement vs truth(41), vs Freud(6-8)(55) (77-8), & Grid(Ch 4), & hatred of learning(29), & hatred of psychic reality(69)(148-50) (152-4), & hyperbole(112)(119), & inferring vs intuiting(167), & Keats quote, being in uncertainties . . .(169), & key emotional link of each session(27)(29-30), & knowing vs becoming psychic reality (167)(176), & language(45)(86), & phantasies(88), & plant growing in dung heap(179), & psychotic part of personality(47)(103-5)(118) (144)(149-50)(157-9), & resistance(122-3), & the selected fact(10) (92-3), & sensory vs emotional content(86-7), & tone of interpretation (160) | ||
Open Minded | J. Lear | See Index | & analytic rel. recreating @ higher level of org. of mother-infant field(134)(136)(142-3), & analyzing human destructiveness(181) (186), & attitude of T one of profound humility(26)(52), & beginning w/ idea that the mind must be sometimes irrational(90), & bringing unpleasant meanings to Cs & dealing w/ resistance(26), & client communications w/ others actually interaction w/ own projected phantasies(142), & coming to know our own beliefs & desires(274-5), & danger of unwittingly collaborating w/ rationalizing defenses(96), as determining the method in madness(30), & disorganizing psyche re: unanalyzability(145), & distinguished from other forms of talking cure by avoiding suggestion(22), as engagement w/ source of irrationality(30), & everyone is creative from _ view(31), & exploring question, How shall I live?(28)(57-8)(162), as extension of our ordinary psychological ways of interpreting people(25), & freedom as its goal-leave to clients what their goals are, if any(22), & making T over into various images of clients other half)132), & motivated irrationality=commitment to there being some form of Unc meaning(54)(64), & neg. T reaction (144-5), & objectivity as T presenting himself as object to client (140-1), as peculiar form of mental activity, speaking & listening & form of life(34), & philosophy(272), & Socrates as ancestor of _ method(56), & symptoms as causal outcome of a persons motives(126-7), & taking apart a private world that has held clients captive(78), & taking away neurotic distortions(141), & T serving as spiritual being bringing a message from the depths of a persons soul to Cs awareness ie T as manifestation of eros(138), as unnecessary if people always acted in rational & transparently explicable ways(25) | ||
The Beast in the Nursery | A. Phillips | All | |||
Terrors and Experts | A. Phillips | ||||
A Shining Affliction | A. Rogers | All | |||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | of adolescents(190)(244), & aim of(166), & annihilation anxiety (130), & castration anxiety(130), of character disorders(208-9), & not communicating(188-9), & deep vs early(112-3), & ego- support(168-9), & FS vs TS(134)(151-2), & finding client in ourselves(250), & guilt(20-1), & hatred of(182)(187), & holding (240), & Klein(25) (129), & making individual ill(206), w/ neurotic/depressive / schizoid(2401-1), & no trauma outside omnipotence(37), & professional attitude of(160-2), of psychoneurosis(220), & regression to dependence(128), & reliability of analyst(38), & repression(219), as specialist in history- taking(132), & succeeding by failing(258), & unc cooperation(167), & waiting(38) | ||
Psychoanalysts Theories | R. Michels CTP 97-8 Hist of Ideas | All | |||
How We Become What We Are | W. Gallagher CTP 97-8 Hist of Ideas | All | |||
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | as conversation where one can succeed in genuinely taking oneself into account(16)(18-9)(84)(173), & establishing lines of communication between warring parts(187)(222), & Eros(19)(84), & erotic longing to resume dev. process(85-6), & exploring the question: How to live?(10)(16), as form of practical commitment (86), & formulating a good interpretation(51-3), & free speech= taking respon. for self(222), as interpretive science of motivated irrationality(6), & nothing is beneath notice(9), as response to human suffering(9), & the right way to connect to emotions & thoughts(17), as satisfying view of the mind(6), as science of subjectivity(273), & teasing out the recurring structures(99), & undoing restrictions on speech(222), & working through(50)(101) | ||
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | Good History Questions | |||
Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & analytic genera(93), & associations vs interpretations(107)(113-4) (116)(130), & being played by(28), & being traumatized by(78), & co-construction of internal object((92), & complex self(103), as dream work(99-100), & evocation/dissemination of self(45), & interpretation (44)(77), & intuitive grasp of client(97), & misunderstanding of client (100), & questioning(111), & response to analyst errors(112)(132), & simple self experiencing(102-3), & unc communication(111)(114), & unknowing clients(132) | ||
This Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | See Index | & ability of T to be changed by his exp. in & out of room(9), & ability of T to grow emotionally along w/ client(7), & aim of as not resolving Unc conflict but facilitating growth of capacity to do Unc psych. work & generate thoughts, feelings derived from lived exp.(104-5), & analytic third(6-7), & attending therapeutically to clients human dilemma vs doing T(22), & being responsive to the truth of what happens in & out of the room(22)(86), & capacity not to know(8)(25-6), & clients inhumane treatment(20), & creating potential for a new exp. of what is true(66), & difference in emotional maturity between client & T(7), & engaging w/ client in Cs thinking to facilitate Unc. work(7), & experiencing the T in a dream-like way(87), & facing the truth(21), & feeling known in T context unique(10), & forms of relatedness not viewed as standard as facilitative of significant Cs & Unc psych. work(21), & getting to know the client(8), & having strong feelings as well as thinking(80), & holding tension of clients need for safety & need for truth(21), & honouring human dignity(19), & imagination(26), & importance of client getting to know T & what T is becoming(8), & interpretation (21), as lived emotional exp.(1), & living w/ emotional exp. vs evacuating or deadening it(21), & loss of capacity to be alive to ones exp.(23), & Ogdens central concepts of(125), & practice of as effort on clients part to say something that feels true to emotional exp. of a moment in T & utilizable by both for psych.. work(61) (63-4)(68), & psych. growth as involving expanding clients capacity to exp. full range of his emotional exp.(8)(23), & psychoanalytic truth(64-5), & reinventing for each client(6)(67), & not remembering(87), & 3 subj. in Unc conversation w/ one another(6-7), & taking the client seriously(113), & T being humane(20), & T making himself available to become every one & no one(67), & T/client responsibility(22), & T as effort by client/T to put into words what is true to the clients emotional exp.(21), & traces of exp. of T vs identification w/ T(68), & transformation from having emotional exp. to saying what it feels like(9), & truth of emotional exp. independent of T/client interpretation(64), & tying what is said to clients emotional growth reflected in action ie actual changes(25), & use of language that is alive vs sounding like a T(11)(24-5) | ||
Analytic Psychology, and | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & assimilation(180-1)(184), & compensation(181-2), & connection of Cs to Unc libido(54), & energic viewpoint(50-2), & enthusiasm as secret to success(44), & free-association(178), & growing up to truth (175), & necessary task to be accomplished(52)(172), & neurosis(53) (207), & present vs past(49), & progression/regression(59-64), & reasons for termination(254), & sexual etiology(53), & understanding (175)(354) | ||
Modern Man in Search of a Soul | C. Jung | Ch. 2,3 | & age of client(58-9), & extravert vs introvert(59-60), & 4 stages of (36-52), & meaning of individual life(69), & secrets(31-3) | ||
Attachment, and | A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | Ch. 3,4 | as art & science(39-76) | |
Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | & appraising processes(104-5)(116)(122-3), & behavioural systems (18)(99)(125-7)(143-4), & dependence vs attachment(228-9), & displacement activities(101-2), & ethology(98), & families(349), vs food(210-1), & Freuds concept of trauma(10-1), & function vs cause (125-6), in individual vs population(128), & instinctive behaviour (136), & learning(224-5), vs object relations(17), & oral symptoms (218-9), & outcome vs function(128-9), vs psychic energy model(15-6)(172-3), & separation(28-9)(329-30), & sexual instincts(158)(230), & simple vs goal-directed systems(153), & tie to mother(179-80) (208), & time frame for attachment theory(5), & transitional object (311-2), & working backward vs forward(3), & working models(82-3), & young vs adult(141)(146-8) | ||
Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | All | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | P. 81-91 | expressive T | ||
Brain, and | The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | See Index | & critical periods of learning(227)(237), & defences(235), & dissociation(232-3), & dreams(238-9), & flexibility(243), & free association(223-4)(231), & memory(224-5)(228-9)(240-1), as neuroplastic therapy(217), & positive bonds facilitate neuroplastic change(233), & producing changes in gene expression(221), & _ as changing implicit to explicit memories(229-30)(243), & regression (99)(235-6), & talking to neurons(221), & therapist as micro- surgeon of the mind(221), & turning ghosts into ancestors (243), & turning off emotions ie autoregulation(237), & working through(232) | |
Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | All | ||
Classical/ Contemporary Compromise, and | Hope & Dread | S. Mitchell | All | ||
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & cured when we are no longer only either masculine or feminine (226), & deliteralising & relatitaving associations & dissociations that characterise fixated & regressed individuals mental functioning(222-3), & existentialist recognition in which symbolic processes open us to absence, the not-yet & no-longer, Cs of both self & other, awareness of both freedom & mortality→ existential anxiety→ unavoidable mental pain that is nobodys fault→ rage & wide range of demonic reactions(152), & goal of relative dominance of love over hate(68), & T know how hard it is to be a hysteric(160), & T task as displacement of SE in favour of conscience(68)(256-7) | |
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & articulation as release(419), & accusing self that threatens & accused one that cowers(325), & anger @ ambivalence of love object→ revenge→ turns anger inward to avoid punishing loved one=sadism=splitting of ego & internalizing loved one(325), & best treatment for is belief(137), & categorical models of(327)(398), & choice(432-3), & each client an experiment in nature(328), & Freudian model(102), & the I disappears(329), & illness an excess of something common, not introduction of something exotic(398), & ;lifting anxiety to see depression more clearly(51), & medication + T complementary therapies(101)(103-4), & more accurate view of world by depressed people(433-4), & psychodynamic approach(103-4), & psychopharmacology(101), & repressed sadism(324), & sadness as ;last shield against madness(435), & self-accusatory N(325), & sense of humour(105), & separating illness from personality(343)(432), & treatment based on this specific client (328), & unexamined life(103) | |
Dialectic of Difference, and | Forces of Destiny | C. Bollas | See Index | & analyst as subject(74), & associations(67-70)(72-3)(98), & interpretation(64)(71), & steps to(65-6), & unknowing(62-3) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index (A-L) | & ability of client to see himself through eyes of T as ongoing aspect of feeling himself validated & understood in terms he sees himself=growth(149), & act of communicating understanding vs content(25)(145), & adapting to clients dev. level vs roles to modify(84)(90), & admitting T doesnt know(294), & aim of T to re-establish connection between diss .psychic functions so client cease to feel an inherent antagonism between imaginative & adaptive capacities(130), & benign regression(141-3), & buttressing ability to take in aspects of the other that the client can reflect upon & process symbolically in the here & now(303), & capacity to negotiate stability & change simultaneously(167), & clients absorbing errand(57-8)(61), & clients are (vs reveal) their Unc fantasies & live them w/ T through act of T(153-4), & clients dev. maturity to conceive of asking the question:Why am I living this way?(6-7), & clients need authenticity not a saint(211), & clients needing to be a mess w/ T & T becoming part of the mess(25)(288) (303), & collision of subj. reality of client & that of T @ heart of every therapy(224), & dont celebrate, just listen(222), & dont just attend to the words; try to see the diss. speaker who is relating to you at that moment, the part of the self that lives on, hidden, ceaselessly endeavouring to make itself felt(264)(285), & emancipatory murder(247-8), & enactment as communicating existence of a truth client is experiencing about T but cannot be thought or said(171)(256), & engaging the unspoken self(320), & experiencing T as someone who both accepts validity of clients inner reality & participates in here & now constr. of reality discrepant w/ it(179)(307), & every client as difficult for a period of time(124-5), & the feeling that the more he tries to understand his client the more he abandons him(319-20), & felt existence of preverbal empathic bond w/ T(47-8), & finding out who the client is vs knowing in advance what he needs(155), & genuineness(262), & giving up understanding for knowing(25)(27)(138)(247)(258) (320), & gratification as only way client can trust Ts concern(264), & gratification & empathic abandonment as a substitute for more painful effort @ recognition(264), & I dont know where to begin =which self to speak(284), & importance of distinction between T being used as obj. vs exploited as person(15)(211), & increasing clients capacity for one aspect of self to exp. & hold in single field of Cs other aspects of self(316), & infantile conversations(144), & interpretation being made ie constructed in interactive exploration of multiple realities of opposing self-states held by client & T(219), & knowing client through direct relatedness(258), & knowing too much too soon(294), & listening to client as speaking from diff. self-states vs single centre of self -focus on the telling itself (254), & listening to process vs content(150-1)(253)(279), & listening for shifts in self-states & own self-reflection(279) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index (M-Z) | & making shell more flexible(146)(32), & need for client to exp. himself as whole through Ts exp. of him as whole(212)(312), & playing along(10-11)(90-1), & self-disclosure(261-2), & stance of participant observer(151-2)(159-60)(192-3), & surviving destruction of T self-image(249-50), & a state of eager aliveness in two people(321), & talking cure a negotiated act of meaning(231), & Ts ability to relate to several selves simultaneously while maintaining authentic dialogue w/ each(137)(256), & T as emphatic as well as empathic(145), & T avoiding imposing meaning so client can feel free to enact new ways of being w/o fear of traumatically losing the continuity of who he is(171)(250)(318), & T as interper. process of recognition, regression, confrontation & understanding (145), & T as need-understanding obj.(89)(145), & T as a process designed to enhance perception(179-80)(211)(256)(288), & T as requiring client to continue to symbolize in an interper. context, previously unformulated aspects of self(57), & Ts ability to recognize the thing that cannot be said in words(26-7)(247), & T feeling ordinary perceptions & attributions in order to recognize them & use them w/ client(159)(32), & Ts imaginative perception (316-7), & T not avoiding being pulled into the enactment (26-7), & T as holder of clients potential(20), & T provides usable T matrix & client provides hunger for new beginnings(83)(89)(146), & T. rel. as dialectic between attunement & confrontation or empathy & anxiety (288), & Ts refusal to grant access to his own diss. selves(250) (312), & T struggling w/ his confusion w/o inflicting need for clarity(288), & theres more to me than meets the eye(128), & uncommunicable state of isolation & alienation in diss.(319), & verbal mirroring(51), & whether to share self-reflection(279) | |
Genetics, and | Genetic Conflict | TPRAug99 | P.116-122 | & paternal vs maternal genes | |
Historical Figures of | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | ||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | & assuming possession of therapy(142-3), & collusion w/ erotic transference(153)(159), as figure inside mad family(142), & interpretation w/(96-7), & intimidation by(110), & malignant hysterics(133), & resistance to naming selfs sexuality(60), vs schizoid(160-1), as silent witness(156), & transforming scenes into speech(156-7) | |
Intersubjective, and | Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | All | ||
An Infants Experience as a Selfobject | AJP Spring99 | P. 177-187 | & mutuality(182-3), & narcissistic parent(178), as reparative selfobject(182), & therapy w/185), as traumatic for infant(179-80), & twinship(185) | ||
Working Intersubjectively (Contextualism) | D. Orange | See Index + Con. Notes | & approach(4-8), & description of(67-9), & dissociation(87-8), vs isolation(72-4), & myth of neutrality(35-43), & practice vs technique (27-8), & self-disclosure(28-34), vs self-psychology(64), & shame & self-loathing(79-83), & theory vs sensibility(9), & understanding(22-6), & Winnicott(90) | ||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & annihilation(30), & conflict as unintegrated affect states(29), as contextualists(13-4), & def. as study of intersubj. field created by 2 differently organized subjective worlds for purpose of helping to articulate & render unto Cs control the clients subj. world(7)(18-9), & emergence of motivational systems(20)(71), & expressing thwarted developmental yearnings through corrective emotional environment(20, & goal of couples T(92-3)(126), & goal to illuminate org. principles that prereflectively shape a clients exp. conduct to enable client to recognise his world as partially constituted by structures of own subjectivity(11)(18-9), & individual vs conjoint T(10), & interpretation(18)(22), & psychotic states(30), & spectrum of pathogenesis(28-9)(129), & T frame(11-2)(128-9) | ||
Psychoanalysis of Developmental Arrests | R. Stolorow | All | |||
Models of the Mind, and | Models of the Mind Workshop | A. Crabtree | All | 9 models | |
Neurotic level clients, and | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | P. 69-71 | ||
Psychotic level clients, and | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | P. 57-60 72-80 | ||
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & aim of T(4-5)(126), & being in tune w/ client(53), & child in client (88-90)(182), & classical approach(107-9), & frustration vs gratification(17)(29-30)(115), & hate(107)(182-3), & inequality of relationship(84-5)(171), & meeting client expectations(140), & mirror as reflecting image but not changing its nature(80), & new beginning (131-2)(135)(141), & omnipotence of T(173)(186), & 2 types of regression(81-2)(127)(144-6)(153-4), & regression as interpersonal & intrapsychic(147)(156), & request for extra session(83), & 2 types of satisfaction(185-7), & satisfaction vs interpretation(134), & schizoid (12), & states resembling regression(130), & T & client as harmonious mix-up(57), & T as informer(97), & T as need-understanding object(181), & T as primary object love(135), & T as primary substance(136-7)(167), & T as provider of time & milieu( 179-80), & T response to regression(83-5)(168), & T as safe object (134), & T as unobtrusive(173) | |
Self-Deception, and | Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | & egos function(126), & evenly suspended attention(238), & free association(126), as method of pursuing defences in operation (123-4), as providing the mirror for defences(125), & repression (127), & resistance(127), & transference(126) | |
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & analysts influence(37-8)(41), & attitude of(81-2)(90), & contribution of(95-6), as empathic selfobject(84)(192), & experience near/distant theory(187-9), & explaining(185)(206-7), & explanation as barrier(125), & fighting 2 orthodoxies(7), as following normal maturation(186), & here & now(68), & hypnosis(112), & good analysis(152)(209), & interpretation(106)(210), & the lie(72), & like pianist(143), as master(170), & mistakes(67), & modern mans primary need(61-3), & no objective reality(36), & not blaming(25), & process of cure(64-7)(70-1)(209)(217), & safeguarding the self(141), & termination(154), & theory of structure building(98-9) (107-8), & therapeutic progress(152-3), vs traditional(41)(75-6) (113)(208)(216), & unanalysed narcissistic trans. of analyst(166), & understanding client(77-8)(94)(176-7)(191), & use of theory(67) | |
Women Analysts, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | All | ||
Psychology | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & accidents(207), & actual vs how we imagine childhood(4), & born w/ character(7), & caging invisible by visible methods(92), & children as best evidence for psychology of providence(13-4)(17-8) (33)(107), & concretism(240), & connecting pathology w/ exceptionality(31), & delusion of insight(122), & environment (152-4), & family systems therapy(64), vs fate(11), & form vs growth(7), w/ imagination as base (37), & leaving out actual world(88), & 8 models to describe bad seed(230-6), & neglect of beauty(35-6), & parental fallacy(77-80), as promoting anxiety(38), & reading life backwards(7), & recovering destiny(5), & symptom as accidental happening(34-5)(53)(202), & task as growing down(43)(76-7)(243), & theories of(22-9), & theories of genetic aspect of individuality(137-9), & trimming life to fit a frame(5) | |
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | & anima(485), & anticipation(558), & astrology as 1 st from of(413), & autonomy of psychological phenomena(222)(570), of children (624-5), & Chinese philosophy(404)(416), & compartments(209) (213-4)(219)(234)(641), & effect of archetypes(129), as empirical science (511), & equivalent of, in all times(414-5), & 4 functions (608), & inner child(623), & integration(92)(453-4), & Logos/ Eros(659)(698), & process of _ not meant to mature(250), & relationship _(559)(563), & snake(233)(326-7), & unc(530), & why we have(542) | ||
Soul, and | Revisioning Psychology | J. Hillman | All | ||
Psychopathy/ Socioapthy/ Psychopathic Personality | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & absolute certainty as sign of(224)(246), & daimon(226)(240-3), & 8 explanations(227-36), & Hitler(216-23), & innocence as greater mystery than evil(216)(239) | |
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & description of(Ch. 7), vs dissociative(345), vs hysterical(319), vs paranoid(224) | ||
Without Conscience | R. Hare | All | |||
The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | All |
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Neurotic Styles | D. Shapiro | See Index | as impulsive(157), & lying(164-5), & morality(158)(162)(164) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | P. 134-5 | as uncured delinquency | ||
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & all wrongdoing entails some degree of both N & psychopathy(194)(201-2), & cannot bear existence of anything outside the self(204), & even psychopaths have conscience(180), & evil as outcome of human action vs characteristic of person(203), & hated for being as such(204), & malignant N a defining feature of(194), & N vs sadistic _(204), & no A, underarousal & minimal anxiety as factors(194), & one must intend to do evil & enjoy it, an element of obscene enjoyment(203), & pure autonomy a dream of evil(204), & what moves evil man is love of injustice, delights in impotence & humiliation of those subjected to him & relishes being recognized by them as the author of their degradation(203) | |
Psychotherapy Practice/Theory Psychotherapist (Analyst) | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | All + Reflect. | ||
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | All | |||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & 2 essential contributions(62), & how we feel used(203-5), & making use of therapists subjective states of mind(200-2)(230-1) (242), & maternal presence of therapist(22), & play(205-7), & reception/evocation(240-1)(245), & taking pleasure in new self states (43) | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, ed | Ch.23 | & double shadow of(111-2), & unc as problem of(113-4) | ||
If You Meet the Buddha on the Road Kill Him | S. Kopp | All | |||
Assessment of Suitability for Psychotherapy | AJP Fall 98 AJP Winter 99 | P.397-411 P.17-35 | & conducting assessment(407-9), & countertrans.(31), for depression (401-2), & introspection(23), & motivation(18-9), for personality disorders(403-4), & quality of therapeutic alliance(20-1), & relational history(21-2), & trial interventions(28-31) | ||
The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | See Index | & dreams(172-5), & focusing on world(121)(373), & nonsense(263) | ||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.xiii | & bringing imagination | ||
Attitudes Towards Psychotherapists, Psychologists, Psychiatrists and Psychoanalysts | AJP Fall 98 | P.463-484 | & 2 interaction problems(475), & male vs female(474)(476)(481-2), & 4 types of therapist(473), & wishes of public(483) | ||
The Freudian Moment | C. Bollas | See Index | & being surprised by something in particular(31), & character of client(58), & client as creating the T(56), & clients psychic pace(31), & comparison to listening to music(49-50)(62), & conceptual engineering as acquisition of theory(77-8), & facilitation of lines of thought(43), & occupying a place perhaps more complex than any other human rel.(99), & order of presentation of thoughts as oral text(57), & theory as ethical decision(78)(81), & use of interpretation(8) | ||
Forces of Destiny | C. Bollas | See Index | & affective response of therapist(86), & celebration of TS(82-3)(86-7), & clients experience of therapists celebration(87-9), as generative container(81), & ghostline personality(Ch.6), & insight(96-7), & intermediate object(109), & life instinct of client(89)(98), & link of outer & inner(85), & pleasure in therapy(91), & use of personality of therapist(101-3)(105-6)(113) | ||
What is Psychotherapy? | N. Diamand | All CTP97 | my definition | ||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | & anxiety(31-2), & desire of T(190-1), & envy & hatred of client (111), as idealized object & persecutor(66), & masochism of T(116-8)(123)(175-80), & positive transf./countertransf.(30-1), & Ts ambition as split off clients(27-8), & T attitude(33), & T fear of dependence(125-6)(181-3), & T irritation(125), & understanding(29-30)(32)(124)(174) | ||
Mental Health-Does Therapy Help? | Consumer Reports | All CTP97 | Consumer Reports Survey | ||
The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | All | |||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | See Index | & couples always having a relationship w/ partners unlived life(xvii), & each stage of development turns on a disillusionment (160), & good life proposed by = just the right amount of frustration(30), & knowing other people a defence against acknowledging their actual existence & what we need their existence for(74), & living a double life(xvii), & our unlived lives (xvii-xix), & madness as form of self-cure(194), & overinterpretation as getting it w/ a vengeance(66-7)(70), & psychiatric diagnosis to ensure there are no people we dont get(60), & symptoms always a form of self-cure(194), & transforming knowledge into acknowledgment(74-5), & what kind of pleasures can sustain a creature that is nothing special?(xv-vi) | ||
The Tools | P. Stutz/ B. Michels | All |
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Abuse, and | Stalking the Soul | M-F Hirigoyen | Ch. 12 |
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Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | All |
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Anxiety of Therapist, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & _ in response to bad-me & not-me(98), & failure w/ a client can elicit(99), & good-me = successful experience in avoiding _(97)(99), & paranoia inversely related to curiosity(28), & shame/ anxiety feel we must be able to do something that we cannot do(61) | |
Attachment, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index (A-L) | & actively initiating repair(111)(186)(196-8), & affective lexicon(295), & aim of interpretation to encourage clients own interpretive process(332), & 4 aims of collaborative comm.. w/ client(194), & anger of avoidant client(216), & assessing predominant mode of exp.(148)(333-5), & attachment enhances T ability to generate a dev. facilitative rel. w/ clients where we are reworking old exp. & co-creating new ones(3)(59-60)(85), & attending to implicit rel. w/ client(124)(126)(148)(152)(259)(264)(290), & avoidant clients needing self-reg.(109-10)(225), & avoidant clients resistance as communication(214), & balancing empathy & confrontation(200-1)(212-3), & being attuned to avoidant clients body & Ts psychobio. states & bringing that to T(211-2)(262-3), & being fully present(107)(162)9196), & benign circle of affect reg., attachment & mentalizing(143-4)(157), & bringing to light representations that have remained in shadow(66-7), & client feeling understood & accepted(157-8)(196), & client needs experience not exploration ie a rel. more than a reason why(126), & clients addressing distressing feelings while they are actually feeling them(82), & clients discourse about attachment(207-9), &collusion vs collision(224-5), & contingent communication(125)(154), & control pattern of avoidant client(219-21), & corrective emotional exp.(288), & countertransf.(4)(170-1)(177-8)(260)(334), & countertransf. w/ anxious clients(231-4), & creation of new synaptic connections when awareness repeatedly focussed on linking aspects of clients exp.(82-3), & democratizing T(174), & desomatization(304-6), & devaluation pattern of avoidant client(216-8), & dev. in T facilitated by collaborative, attuned & contingent communication(125)(154), & developmental gradient(229-31), & dissociation(152)(154)(157)(173-4)(242)(247-50)(293)(304), & empathy w. manifest & hidden feelings(334), & enactment, evocation & embodiment as primary means clients comm.. unthought known(121-2), & enabling dismissive client to allow therapist to matter(212)(217), & enactments(4)(124)(188)(270-6)(279)(283-4)(289-91), & evocations(266-70), & facilitating dismissive clients capacity for mindfulness(222), & facilitating integration w/ unresolved clients(103), & feeling Ts presence as separate person(215), & focus on process vs content of communication(125), & fostering exp. of embodied mind & mindful body(79-86), & generating secure attachment w/ unresolved clients(103), & generating a T rel. that is inclusive(80)(116)(194-6), & identifying unresolved clients(242), & improvisation of relational moves(125), & indulging pattern of avoidant client(218-9), & inevitable involvement w/ enactments(47)(57)(181-4)(260), & intersubj./attachment approach(169-70)(187-9), & level of self-integration(157)(172-3) | |
Attachment, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index (M-Z) | & making dialogue inclusive(171)(173-4)(204)(229)(266), & making possible dev. of reflective self(146), & meditation(160-4), & mindfulness(58)(81-2)(107)(162)(222), & minding the b ody(128-31)(294-5)(297-391), & model of T that involves transformation of self through rel.(2-3), & moment of meeting(125), & multiple selves/contradictory working models(172), & mutual reciprocal influence(108)(111)(168), & nonverbal comm..(81)(262), & not letting ourselves be pushed away by borderline(235)(239), & preoccupied clients needing interactive reg.(108-10)(225), & preoccupied helplessness(227), & projective identification(127-8)(182)(272), & promoting integration w/ disorg. clients(243-6), & providing another perspective(154)(335), & providing empathy & limit setting to BL(235)(237-8), & pursuit of meaning short-circuiting deepening of exp. esp. between T & client(58), & real or feared loss of T(203-5), & recognizing clients attachment style(187)(206-7), & repeated rel. vs needed rel.(182)(279-80), & representational redescription(155), & resistance(170)(178-9)(214), & restoring or kindling clients capacity to mentalize(82)(332-5), & scaffolding(198), & seeing self-destr. behaviour of unresolved clients as representing their past & present attempts to be self-protective(103), & self-disclosure(154)(183-5), & somatic countertransf.(296-7), & strengthening clients ability to attend to nonverbal cues(148)(264), & strengthening the clients narrative competence(3)(148)(155), & T as new attachment figure(3)(57)(85)(187), & T as affect-regulating rel. in order to articulate feelings((82)(147)(196), & T as observer while interpreting(284), & T as participant while expressing(284), & T as relational/emotional/reflective process(3), & Ts mindfulness(7), & T playing their cards face up(180), & Ts state of mind re: attachment(260), & T works by generating a rel. of secure attachment within which clients mentalizing & affect reg. capacities can develop(2-3)(57)(187-8)(198-9)(290)(333-4), & T rel. as both mutual & asymmetrical(261), & T rel. as lived vs analyzed is primary T intervention(58), & T w/ pretend mode(142-3)(150)(336-7), & T w/ psychic equiv. mode(335-6), & thinking aloud useful but insufficient(81), & training the client to make best use of rel.(201-3), & transf.(176), & transforming insecure models to earned secure ones(260), & translating lang. of body into lang. of feelings(155)(253), & treatment modeled on parent-child rel.(174), & tuning in to nonverbal expression of exp., the unthought known(116)(188), & upgrading the dialogue(198-200)(266), & what do we show vs say w/ BL(239), & willingness to engage & struggle(200-1) | |
Bioenergetic analysis, and | Fear of Life | A. Lowen | Ch.5 | & breakthrough/breakdown(153-5)(157), & castration anxiety (166-71), & containing flow(156), & freeing body from defensive posture (146-7), & psychic death(161) | |
Borderlines, and | Dialectical Behaviour Therapy Workshop | L. Korman | All X File Ref. | ||
Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & each participants identity up for grabs(125), & dreading to be w/(126), & emotional intensity(126), & hard to discern who does what to whom(125), & jockeying played out around concrete aspects of frame of treatment(125), & making us into the people they most fear we will become(126), as relational pattern that helps us bear what we cant have(127), & treatment perfect microcosm for _ issues(126), & uncertainty about who bad guy is(126) | ||
Buddhism, and | Going on Being | M. Epstein | All |
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Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | All |
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Burnout, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | as form of very severe depression(141), & hostile form of(141), & loss of resilience when we no longer feel a sense of purpose in our work(212), & partially a reaction to overwhelming loss(141), as a willed death(141) | |
The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | & 3 central defining characteristics: emotional exhaustion, diminished caring & profound sense of demoralization(32), as cost of caring(29), & destructive consequences of avoidance as coping style(90), & high empathy & caregiver stress usually go together (30), & self-diagnosis of(243) | |||
Cancer, and | Psychotherapy with Cancer Patients | AJP Fall 98 | P.412-423 | & countertrans.(420-1), & denial(419-20), & 8 illness related issues (416-7) | |
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | & absorbing aggression(110-2)(219), & being good to you so that you may grow(14)(27), & cherishment as underlying Unc motive in seeking T(13), as collection of metaphors made by client & T wearing away clients stone(30), & 2 contrary states of human soul joy & sorrow, innocence & experience, fear & no fear being undefendedly, receptively dependent & being anxiously, unreceptively dependent(118), & creating a cherishment climate (95), & effects of lack of cherishment on children who have trouble establishing object relations in the 1 st place live quite incapable of loving ie completely unreceptive to cherishing. Fear of self-fragmentation rises up constantly. Say they arent human or real. Danger of repeated loss to great.(121-2), & expectation of rejection (48), & expectation to be loved(7-8)(13)(36)(43)(192), & explores being w/ others for sex & pleasure & also for cherishment & growth (32), & giving the help that helps them not need help(47), & key task w/ N is to get him to hear & practicing wu wei(129)(131)(219), as helping client overcome identification formed in ego dormancy w/ caregivers lack of cherishment as the T action T offers an alternative. Dev is restarted.(153), & learning a sustained pause through(239), & learning to express helplessness & recognize how early childhood dependency needs gone unmet(46-7), & learning what you dont want by playing out all your relationships in the transference→ discover what you do want(239), & must be able to cherish hungry & hurt baby inside the hysteric & cultivate her receptivity so that she becomes more discriminating(134), & must resist seductiveness of hysteric, not take a role in the drama(134), & in neurotics experience of infant sorrow not so traumatic(122), & w/ OCD promote discovery of feelings that have been layered over w/ ritualistic & repetitive actions & thoughts(130-1), & practicing wu wei not doing(107-8)(112), & psychological helplessness as lack of receptivity to cherishment that results from lack or loss of cherishment(87-8), & regulating T action(227), & story of an unfolding T = recap of clients developmental story(143), & symptoms as clients developmental story presented in allegory, as storey is in dreams(143), & T as indulgent from fear of expectation to be loved being awakened, & in T Hatred is disconcerted & relents(79), & 3 types of clients: 1) disguise desire for cherishment w/ self-abnegation or self-reproach = hysterics 2) preoccupied = OCD 3) selfish = N(135), & while cherishing clients have to get cherished(111) | |
Choosing a | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | Ch.16 | w/ abused(200-1), & choosing(206-9), & misuse of(203-6), & paying for(196-7), & power(197-8), & reasons for avoiding(191-4) | |
Client-Centred, and | On Becoming a Person | C. Rogers | See Index | & attitude of therapist(76)(80-1)(84)(90), & experiencing the self (104-5), & internal locus of evaluation(119)(122), & stages of therapeutic process(131-54) | |
Confidentiality, and | The New Informants | C. Bollas | Ch.3 | & accountability for thoughts(76-9), & acting in(80), & dependence on therapist(92-3), & drugs vs talking freely(103-5), & managed care approach(100-2), & no mandated intrusions(71), & priority of psychic life(66), & therapist as representative of police(84-5), & therapy vs advice(64) | |
Couples, and | Becoming an EFT Therapist | S. Johnson | All | ||
Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | All | |||
The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work | J. Gottman | All | |||
What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | All |
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Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | Ch. 7, 8 |
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EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | All |
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How Do I Get Through to You? | T. Real | See Index | & failure of empathic listening(117), & 1 st move as T to empower woman(126), & lack of full engagement(200), & male vs female T agendas(124-5), & mens privilege to flee from(120-2), & 3 obstacles: addiction, violence & disorders(200), & relational skills (202)(268), & most reliable predictor of LT marital success(117) (268), & shame & grandiosity(132-4), & spreading pain over less dependencies(200), & wife-mandated referrals(120), & 1/4 where woman is offender(192), & womens dissatisfaction(133) | ||
A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | All |
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Love & War | S. Tatkin | All |
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EFT Externship & Core Skills Notes in Binders | EFT | All |
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Dark Nights, and | Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & aesthetic T(23), & beauty of expression(211-2), & darkening the personality(73), & not joining forces w/ daimonic powers(106), & poetry T(215), & telling stories(58-9), & what does the soul want?(59) | |
Dissociation, and | Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index (A-M) | & ability to complain(69), & act of recognition vs understanding(11), & addressing each self-state as standing for something that is necessary & required for survival(195), & affective honesty achieved through Ts struggle to communicate, not buy a self-granted license to tell it like it is(134)(140), & always an increasing shift in clients experience toward his own mind as object of attention regardless of specific real-life issues he enters treatment w/(73-4), & attunement to clients safety experienced from within relationship vs providing it(191), & becoming part of the dissociative process(96)(142)(144), & capacity to be alone in the presence of another(70), & central goal of any treatment to enable client to move from experiencing his enacted patterns of behaviour as the person he is to experiencing those patterns as something he does→ development of self-reflection(7), & changing what is ego-syntonic to ego alien(7), & clients response to interpretation when diss. is operating-bewilderment, consternation & sense of having been ,misunderstood totally, being misrepresented, attacked or never understood(8), & competency in regulating affective states w/o fear of retraumatization(33), & clients w/ trauma use sessions to process the nonprocessible exp. from prior sessions & T makes this safer & safer(122), & creation of transitional mental space(196-7), & developing an increased ability to surrender the safety afforded by diss. & a simultaneous increase in the capacity to bear & process internal conflict(69-70), & dev. of self-reflection must precede any attempt @ investigating conflict(7), & discerning the dissociative gap(9), & dynamically oriented T constitutes a radical rupturing of patterns of responsible interaction that have had their fundamental structuring way back in infancy→ exp. T as an unfathomable stranger whom he does not trust(154), & experiencing the dizziness of intersubjectivity(77-8), & giving up attempt to understand client & allow himself to know his client through ongoing intersubjective field they are sharing @ the moment(11), & goal to enrich self-narrative by allowing new affective exp. to interface perceptually & linguistically w/ episodic memory thus optimizing its potential for symbolic integration into narrative memory(188-9), & heart of work negotiation between subjectivities, not interpretation(72-3), & incompatible & unbearable self-states in T(143), & managing relationship vs participating in it due to dissociation(96), & model of T organized by shifting equilibrium between need to preserve self-meaning(the organizing exp. of safely being oneself) & need to construct new self-,meaning in service of relational spontaneity & creativity(131), & must be balanced w/ affective safety & thisd balance (w/ honesty) organizes Ts stance(4)(140-1) | |
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index (N-Z) | & optimal use of diss. as an interpersonal process by both cliernt & T(172), & a person cannot transcend his dissociation w/o presence of another who recognizes his own(16), & the presence of absence(9), & primary task to contribute to illusion of staying the same while changing(53), & process-based conception of T action-joint processing of collisions between client & T subjectivities(134)(138-9), & process of communication(implicit relational knowing) vs content that is foundation for T action(196), & relating to T within a more coherent exp. of selfhood rather than using rel. as means of achieving self-coherence(70), & relational collisions between client & T(95)(97), & role not to avoid personal participation in process but monitor & use immediate & residual effects of participation as inherent part of his stance(131), & safe but not too safe(4)(24)(95)(189), & safe surprise(12), & shaking up the Ts sanity(107), & shift in role of T because clients capacity for internal processing of conflict(70-1), & speaking as a relational act that shapes the content of what is spoken about(11), & spontaneity & surprise(86-7), & surprise(77), & therapeutic change takes place because T inevitably goes beyond clients capacity to feel safe in the room(24), & T action as organized affectively vs material told, through enactment between client & T where it can be symbolized by the verbal meaning attached to the affective perception of what is taking place(172), & Ts existence as real person necessary to jointly process dissociative aspects of client/T dyad(131), & Ts job to generate emotional exp. that allows self as agent to be present simultaneously w/ self who experiences event(199), & T thinking he had a good session but client not(105-6), & Ts use of his subjective experience critical factor in promoting clients self-growth(72), & transition from dissociation to capacity for conflict(147), & treatment never finished but facilitates internal communication between states as a nonlinear, repetitive process(26-7), & watching for signs of dissociated shame(25), & when dissociation in client, usually in T(96)(106)(187) | ||
Ego States, and | Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H. Watkins | All | ||
Empathy, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & analysis as process of structural change not just amelioration of painful feelings(9), & capacity to be transference object(9), & emotional resilience @ heart of(8), & recovering balance(8), & 3 requirements for doing T: ability to serve as contrast, relationship challenge & catalyst(9), & spending less resources defending against experiences & more having them(9), vs sympathy(8) | |
Existential, and | The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | See Index | & affect integration(429-30), & art of therapy(338), & assumption of responsibility(313-4)(316), & the creative process(307), & cyclotherapy(425), & freedom(411), & life(405-6), & recall(286), & relationship to client(413-4)(420)(428), & Sullivans definition of T(399), & therapist as guide(379), & transparency(418), & what do you want? exercise(343-4) | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & affect block(307-11), & action(286-8), & altruism(433-4), & death(Ch5)(159-213), & decisions in(314-7)(328-38), & decisions delegated to T(324-6)(331), & disciplined naivet(25), & general characteristics of(8-26), & inattention to death(54-9), & isolation(392-415), & meaninglessness(Ch.11)(461-413)(442-54), & responsibility(223-269), & willing(292-303)(339-350) | ||
When Nietzsche Wept | I. Yalom | All | |||
The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | All | |||
Lying on the Couch | I. Yalom | All | |||
Staring at the Sun | I. Yalom | See Index | as alternating sequence of interaction & reflection(215), & being an accurate observer(230), & being consumed w/ everydayness(261), as cyclotherapy(75), & death anxiety(209(213), & dissecting fear of death(213), & distinguishing between content & process(203), & distrustful relationship(220-1), & here & now questions re: space between T & client(221-3)(228-9), & am human, & nothing human is alien to me(215), & life issues in here & now(228), & locating self in all clients experience(216), & major internal shifts (229-30), & making every session memorable(224), & preparing clients for(243), & relationship-driven vs theory-driven(204), & rippling(164-5), & self-disclosure(241)(244)(262), & synergy of ideas & relationship(204)(217)& therapeutic act far more effective than therapeutic word(215) | ||
The Gift of Therapy | I. Yalom | All | |||
Creatures of a Day | I. Yalom | All | |||
Loves Executioner | I. Yalom | See Index | & anxiety of not knowing(36), & boundary experiences eg death (139), & client scoring of self-revelation(96), & chronic grief(126) (129), & client as psychotic(def.)(209), & contract w/ client (91) (224), & curiosity(238), & the dead & really dead(190-1), & defenses(81)(154), & disindentifying care from non-care attributes(85), & dreams(128)(140)(242)(251-2), & fear of death (111)(135)(149)(260), & first statements of clients(16), & forgetting /remembering last session(84), & guilt(139-40), & help-rejecting complainer(174-5), & impossibility of seeing T as they really are (33), & its the relationship that heals(91-2)(155)(170)(227), & limitations of language(180-2), & love(39)(100)(184), & object vs project loss(132)(142)& obsession(24)(61), & overactivity vs client unfolding(197), & process vs content(95), & reality of past as illusion(172), & refusing the loan of life in order to avoid the debt of death(100), & sharing w/ client(163-4), & if something big is not being talked about(by either client or T) then nothing else of importance will be discussed either(114), & symptoms in respect to relationship w/ T(99), & task of T to make himself obsolete(219), & T act vs T word(220), & therapeutic change & responsibility(94), & T as truth-seeking(154), & thermostat regulating self-esteem metaphor (219), & thinking about client after hours(203), & treating clients as equals(221), & 4 ultimate concerns of existence(4-14), & the unexamined life is nor worth living(Socrates(154), & Which will you have: wise madness or foolish sanity?(65) | ||
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | See Index | & becoming(137), & centredness(94-5)(117)(120)124)(176-7), & contribution of T(152), & courage & destiny(94)(131), & decision & truth(129)(134-5), & denial of power needs(205-6), & freedom(174-7)(204), & goal of(80)(105)(126)(135)(211), & intellectualisation vs anxiety(149), & interpretation(115), & knowing by doing(129)(132), & lack of sense of tragedy(133), & levels of T relationship(120-1), & lie w/o the liar(145), & limited understanding of T(155), & loss of being a person(133), & neurosis more interesting than health(116), & phenomenology(88)(155), & premature getting over symptoms (211), & sickness(95), vs technique as agent of change(132), & T as encounter(108)(119)(121), & verbalisation(150) | ||
Expressive Arts, and | Expressive Arts W/S | All CTP99/00 | creativity, drawing as assessment, writing | ||
Facial Expressions, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | Ch. 12 | & central role of(359), & client access of own dissociated & projected emotions through(369), & exchange of looks(389), & finding a bridge out of autism into relatedness(360), & gazing @ therapist(392), & other individual to look @ to feel safe in own identity(394), & retrieving what client lost or might lose(394), & therapist masking or revealing(370), as transitional phenomena(360) | |
Family, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | Ch. 9 | ||
A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | Appendix A | |||
Fear of Death, and | The Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & all T in world doesnt allow person to find out who he is & why he is here on earth, why he has to die & how he can make his life a triumph(193), & anality(32-4), & awareness all by itself will be some kind of magical cure for his problems(284), & cannot exp-lain inner forces of evolution that led to dev. of animal capable of self-Cs ie mystery of meaning of organismic awareness(soul)(191), & deepening w/ religious & metaphysical associations→ religious belief system(273)(275), & even w/ highest dev. & liberation, person comes up against real despair of human condition(269), & fetishization of(272-3), & found out about neurotic or personal guilt but not natural creature guilt(192), & hour of T as ritual experience(272), & man condemned to seek meaning of life in T introspection but wants to focus his love on an absolute measure of power & value but T tells him all reducible to early conditioning (194-5), as the modern religion(272), & the myth of paradise through self-knowledge(271), & narrows cause for personal unhappiness to person himself & then he is stuck w/ himself(193), & not so much a question as to whether we are able to cure a client, but whether we should or not(270), & real self(274), & replaced soul w/ self(191), & T can allow people to affirm themselves & lift load of neurotic guilt, can clear away neurotic despair→ experience real joy of finding more of himself, release from armor & binding reflexes, throwing off chains of uncritical & self-defeating dep., etc(270), & T has to give way to theology as man cannot endure his own littleness unless he can translate it into meaningfulness on largest possible level(196)(198), & T as new confessor(194-5), & T gurus(194)(273)(275), & T neurotics product due to his illness (194), & T only finding part of the reason for feelings of inferiority, badness & guilt the part caused by object trying to be good for them, fearing them, fearing leaving them, etc = great liberation from false badness→ level of honesty & maturity that puts one more in control of oneself & certain level of freedom & happiness that goes w/ it(192), & T revealed complex penalties of denying truth of mans condition, costs of pretending not to be mad(29), & T as self-knowledge is self-deception(271), & transference(23-4), & what joy & comfort can T give to fully awakened people?(269) | |
Focusing, and | Focusing | E. Gendlin | All | ||
Gestalt, and | Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | & creative adjustments(273-4)(291)(328), & criteria of progress(17), & description of(278)(281), & meddling social forces(45), & psychological health(271), & urgency of unfinished situation(275) | |
Grief, and | The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | All | ||
Group, and | The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | Ch.1-3 | ||
Hopelessness, and | Gordion Knot | T. Broll | New T, Issue # 72 |
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HSPs, and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | See Index | vs body work(181), & curiosity about inner life(174), & depth work (185), & description of(183)(185), & interpersonal vs cognitive (178), & Jungian approach(183-4), vs medication(206-7), as sacred space for(183), & tips for working w/(233), & transference(179) (185) | |
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | All | ||
Humour & Therapy W/S | N. Diamand | All | |||
Hope, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | as active, motivating force(115), & arises from giving up waiting for someones limitations to disappear(116), as gift 1 person gives another(115), & hope for the wrong thing eg continuous narcissistic gratification & giving it up(115), & requires willing suspension of disbelief(115) | |
Idealization, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & narcissistically vs non-narcissistically invested in the work(26) | |
Inner Child, and | Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | Ch. 12 | & anxiety disorders(159-60), & co-dependent T(145-6), & depression (160), & eating disorders(155)(158), & group(161), & long term T as addiction(146), & personality disorders(154), & role of T(146) | |
Integrative, and | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | See Index | & objective as coping w/ anxiety(278), & primary task of supportive therapy(279), & resistance(280-1), & technique of supportive therapy (254-70), & 2 triangles of insight(216-8) | |
Internet, and | Counselling via the Internet | N. Pelling | P. 68-71 TPR Feb00 | ||
Interpersonal, and | IPT for Depressed Patients W/S | All CTP99/00 | description of IPT, cases | ||
Intersubjective, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | All |
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Loss, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | of belief in magical harmony(170), & countless stories remain unfinished(158), & every moment in session a retreat from or advance toward greater connection(160), & fantasies disconfirmed by frame(173-4)& impact of _ on client dissatisfaction w/ partner (172), & limits of T frame evoke(164-7), & loss of ability to think clearly(159-60)(162-3), & loss of illusions about who we are(159), & miniscule brushes w/ shame(161-2), & termination represents all accumulated losses(159)(174), & T is diminished by loss of client (178), of what never existed(172) | |
Managed Care, and | The New Informants | C. Bollas | Ch.4 | & blaming parents(112-3), & evidentiary desire(124-5), & false expertise(136)(138), & inner child(110-2), & move from analysis of internal to strategic intervention in external(118-9), & order forms for the treatment of classified souls(136), & practice guidelines(143), & requirement to inform(146-7), & social therapy(147) | |
Psychotherapy, Managed Care and the Economy of Interaction | AJP Summer 98 | P.332-350 | & efficacy of(335-7), & narrative of(339-45), & statistics on mental illness(332) | ||
Men, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & medication(225), & 3 phases of(269-70), & Prozac(288), & reciprocity of psychology & physiology(103), & reparenting(278), & therapy as nurture & guidance(319) | |
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | All | Emotional Response Log | ||
Mindsight, and | The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | All | ||
Moments of Meeting, and | Non-Interpretation Mechanisms in Psychoanalytic Therapy | Stern et al X files Ref. | All | ||
Narcissism, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & being a fool for love(124), & intention to be useful to the client(17), & N wounded by clients(109), & not N invested ie worried about how treatment makes us look to ourselves(17), & other side of N is depression(214), & own unmet N needs, as educator, play significant role in our limited effectiveness(11), & publicly displaying defenses(18), & seeing our own N(125), & shame(125), & T dependence on positive feedback from client(26), & Ts pride(123-5), & time enemy of N(214), & treating frame as measure of worth(125), & to what degree are you concerned w/ yourself vs, as T, concerned w/ the other person(17) | |
Neurosis, and | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & alienation from self(352), & anxiety(340), & avoidance of conflict (335), & avoiding insight(335), & avoiding premature interpretations (340), & clients intent(348-9)(351), & compartmentalization(355), & conflict of pride vs RS(346)(356-7) (361), & defenses(339-40), & dreams(349), & externalization(353), & importance of client/T relationship(306), & importance of specifics(342), & inherent curative forces(348), & knowledge as emotional experience(342)(344), & neurosis as a process(333)(348), & obstacles(347), & resigned type (288)(335-6), & self-effacing/ expansive types(335-6)(356), & self-hate(357-8), & self-realization (364), & T as magician(339), & Ts influence(267), & whether pride or self is disturbed(336) | |
Paranoia, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & affects our own sense of being good(123), & assumption of a cover-up(122-3), & bearing frustration when client externalizes responsibility(120-1), & being less transparent(122), & co-created paranoid coping w/ T frame(121-2), as effort to deal w/ human condition by insisting on absolute certainty in areas of life where certainty is impossible(117)(122-3), & envying Ts hope(117), & hope feels dangerous in _ environment(117-8)(120-1), & how training can evoke(28)(123), & inversely related to curiosity(28-9)(123), & loss of trust(119)(123), & not uncommon for both participants to play out paranoid style of living in treatment(123), & suspicion about motives of the other & overreliance on theory to explain it completely(119)(123), & tempting client to relax their vigilance(118-20), & T trying too hard to know what they are doing(118), & wanting to live in a world where total trust is possible(119) | |
Parental, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | Ch. 10 |
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Psychobiological, and | Love & War | S. Tatkin | See Index | & alert to stillness(123)(131), & automatic psychobio. motor reflexes toward or away from primary A figure(43), & bottom-up processes(50-1)(83), & centres on experience via T provocations & conflict enactments(48), & compassion fatigue(194)(197), & deficit vs conflict model(119), & discouraging triangulation(123), & discovering individual & collective deficits in couples social-emotional capacity for interactive reg.(44)(168)(191), & encouraging moment-to-moment awareness of each others faces, voices, bodies, etc(23)(47)(49)(160-1), & expanding tolerance for uncertainty(199), & ext. regulatory role of adult primary A partner (100-1), & eye-to-eye contact(29), & fear of being shamed or blamed by partner & T(6), & focussing on couples collective nervous system(47)(116)(122), & home as couple(2-person psych.) system(44), & humour(128), & identifying underlying core needs, patterns & defenses(46-7), & individual T(47), & interest in music vs lyrics(47), & left-right processes(50), & linking past, present & future through AAI(1), & matching(125), & memories of things meant just for us(59), & mini-psychodramas(158)(178), & movement exercises(72-83)(178), & mindsight(23)(25), & moving toward & away(74-9), & needing the other to hear, understand & do something to reduce pain(39)(183)(189), & nonresponse not neutral (131), & partners reaching limit of coreg.(146), & partners responsible for one anothers care(47)(121)(168)(190), & perception, not intent, that matters(122)(157), & preoccupation & frequent contact w/ T(120), & relies on primacy of implicit mechanisms-nonverbal, nonCs, procedural & somatic(43-4), & resonance circuits(33), & revealing workings of individual partners models for experiencing the world, themselves w/ others & anticipating how others will respond to them(8), & right-left processes(50), & scheduling of long sessions(49), & seizing control of T(6)(22), & self-reg.(197-8), & shift attention away from content & toward implicit processes(47-8), & sleeping & waking transitions (150), & still-face(165), & taking things out & putting them back (135), & tensing & relaxing(134), & top-down processes(50), & use of short, emotionally relevant & unexpected verbal declaratives(82), & welcome home exercise(187-8), & window of tolerance(16), | |
Real Relationship, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | See Index | & description of(125), & humour as eg of(142-3), & humour vs anger/sadness(164), & illusion of observers(142), & moments of meeting(147)(164-5), & natural responses by T(129)(143), & neglect of(125)9144), vs prescription of neutrality(141-2), as providing humour framework for emergence of Unc.(145) | |
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index (A-L) | & ability of T throughout course of each therapy to negotiate & renegotiate meaning of what constitutes useful self-state sharing (136), & accepting client on own terms & not settle for them(93), & affective safety(16-7)(53)(106)(108), & asking to speak w/ part of client that had strongest feelings previous session(78), & asking what is it like(79), & avoiding collisions eventually experienced by client as disconfirming(59), & basis of T action, the development of intersubjectivity in areas of the mind held captive by dissociated mental structure through ability to attribute mental states to others & experience the reciprocal alive responsiveness of others to existence of their own mental states(134-5), & being attuned to clients shifting equilibrium between affective safety & affective overload (22)(53)(59-60)(129), & change always precedes insight(24), & client sees T as part of act of listening to us(159), & clients are their Unc fantasies & live them w/ the T through the act of T vs revealing them to the T(148), & cocoon built for two(59)(151-2), & detailed inquiry(162), as dialectic between seeing & being seen vs being seen into(159), & dual role of T as psychobiological regulator & co-participant(120-1), & enactments(16)(22)(24)(27) (33)(55-6)(59)(70)(79-80)(105)(129)(133)((148)(151-2)(159-61) (186), & enduring personal growth in T interwoven w/ ability of T/client relationship to increase clients threshold for affective hyperarousal(33), & essential ingredient of is spontaneity(143), & facilitating clients access to broadest possible range of Cs through enhancing perception(159), & focus on content creates collisions between client & T that leads to searching for what seems to be hidden within the client & masks what is absent between them in the here & now(103), & focus on shifting states of mind that organize content vs content per se(70)(158-9)(161), & helping client distinguish what is disruptive but negotiable from dissociated truth that all ruptures in A are relationally irreparable(185), & hope from recognition that, in some genuine way, being w/ you as you are brings T pleasure despite your problems(93-4), & I lost you(77), & impossible to unravel what is personal from what is professional (131-2), & improvisation(18), & increasing clients capacity for mentalization(59-60)(156), & interpersonal novelty-what happens next(104), & interpretation(24)(70)(156-7)(161-2) | |
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index (M-Z) | & new forms of relational organization emerge somewhat unpredictably from mutual searching of client & T for new forms of recognition(102)(149), & not-me self states(70)(151), & nothing I have ever offered has been the truth & neither have I lied(121-2), & not-knowing & sort-of-knowing(160)(186), & ongoing process of boundary-negotiation in which T & client are permitting, as well as inviting, increased permeability between their separate selves & are jointly constructing a relational Unc in which anomalous knowing might be possible(18)(123)(129)(141), & 3 postures of T: interpretation of conflict, detailed inquiry or empathic attunement (159), & process of collision & negotiation(17-8)(27)(53)(57)(59) (70)(106)(121)(133)(149)(185), & reducing clients fear of otherness(70), & relational listening stance(127-8), & it is in the relational process of exploring content that change takes place not in the discovery of content per se(103)(149), & relationship primary source of T action, not something created through it(104)(123), & remembering the sessions personally(77-8), & safe but not too safe(17)(33)(55)(104)(106)(185), & safe surprises(56)(105), & sessions as kind of ongoing process of personal reunion(131), & sharing of mental states that are essentially private is what T is all about(27), & shift from primacy of content to primacy of context, from primacy of cognition to affect(126), & source of T action is synthesis of affectively alive interpersonal engagement w/ shifting self-states that organize internal object worlds of both client & T that begin to allow previously unformulated self-state truths to be cognitively & linguistically symbolized in involved minds of both partners(103), & state sharing(27)(32)(70)(106)(136), & technique (126), & T as alive other-alive to his own internal experience of relationship w/ client vs listening too long to material else→ dissociative cocoon enveloping both(39-40)(124)(133), & T being himself while being a usable object(156), & T must provide an experience that is perceivably different from clients narrative memory(162), & T sharing his subjective experience because he wants it known vs wanting it to have a preconceived impact on clients mind-felt by client as affective honesty(103), & T struggle to concentrate clue to disruptive interpersonal field(40), & Ts affective honesty=effort to be w/ client-to keep their dissociated fear & shame in mind while doing the work(24)(33)(59)(80) (103) (185), & Ts own destabilization & anxiety(81), & therapy=an obstinate attempt of 2 people to recover the wholeness of being human through the relationship between them(17)(104-5)(108) (134), & therapy the interpersonal/relational crucible in which opposing subjective truths can come to co-exist(92), & there are important things to learn about how to do T provided you can forget them while you are w/ your client(144), & thirdness(134), & transf-countertransf. field where action takes place(159), & trauma(16-7) (22)(32-3)(105)(161) | |
Relationships, and | Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | & functional quarrels(375), & taking back projections as task(205-19) | |
Resilience, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & to begin anew(210), & burnout as loss of(212), as the capacity to recover emotional balance(8)(210-1), & emotional _ @ heart of empathy(8)(210), & finding a way to use my rage rather than worry about having it(207), & knowing what we can bear rather than pretending to ourselves we can figure out which choice will bring best results(209), & learning in childhood may need to temporarily head directly away from goal in order to get to it(201), & often born out of marriage of curiosity & love(209-10), & privileging T purpose over pride(205), as a regaining of access to a wide range of feelings(210) | |
Schizoid, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & characteristics of _ functioning(128), & getting stuck in never-ending, only moderately productive treatment relationship(128), & limited intimacy in treatment microcosm of schizoid issues(127-8), & need to disrupt schizoid, complacent calm(129), & power to elicit profound sense of professional & personal inadequacy(130), & schizoid T & clients feeling right @ home(128), & tendency to glide through the hour rather than live it fully(7-8), & womb-tomb(128) | |
Self-Esteem, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & challenging good-me personification long held dear(99), & challenging self-perception of being empathic(99), & getting our own back w/ colleagues(100), & integrating disowned or unknown aspects of self(99), & limiting self-exploration(53), & so many ways to feel we have failed a client(108-9), & T undergo more frequent questioning of our worth(107), & training effecting(15-6)(53), & ways to boost our sense o9f self limited w/ clients(100) | |
Self-Relations, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | All | ||
Shame, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & accompanying pain of loss(53-4)(146), & being aware of in candidates(40), & dying of _(48), & encountering the bad-me & not-me(48-9)(98-9), as the essential pain, the fundamental disquieting judgment of ourselves as failing, flawed, inferior, unworthy & falling short(147), & expressing helplessness inherent in human condition(61), & feeling inadequate about ability to help client &, w/ supervisor, isnt doing enough to analyze(41), & have to agree w/ low estimation in order to really be ashamed(205), & inculcates a vulnerability to(21), as inevitable & adaptable(50), as integral to our daily clinical practice(98), & motivating childs development of object self-awareness(50), & motivating desire to hide, to disappear(33), as only negative feeling that intensifies when pointed out(162), & our knowledge of our limitations(109-10), & potential to interfere in ability to mourn loss of client(145-7), & producing feeling of ineptness, incapacity & feeling of not belonging(33)(92), & seeing our own narcissism(124-5), & self-betrayal(42), & sense of shameful inadequacy(32)(150), & shame about shame(34)(50), & shame/anxiety earliest form of(61), & training poses shaming possibilities(33)(42-4)(51), & typically occurs in context of an emotional relationship(33)(98)(205), & we are our work(49)(93), & when dont remember & dont admit(162), & when impossible/necessary requires us to deal w/ a human situation for which we feel ill equipped(89), & when own pride is highlighted(113), & the wish to do over(146) | |
Soul-Centred, and | Soulsmiths - Forging a Bridge | N. Diamand | All | ||
Spiritual Psychotherapy | AJP Spring99 | P. 143-161 | & soul vs spirit(143-7), & 6 tenets of transcendence(147-54), & therapy as spiritual(154-8), & what it is not(159-61 | ||
Status Dynamics, and | Status Enhancement: A Further Path to Therapeutic Change | AJP Spring 99 | P. 201-214 | association with Improv status exercises, examples of therapist assigned status(206-7) | |
Stories, and | Stories and Theories | CTP X Files | All | ||
On the Couch | E. Kates | All | |||
Supportive vs Exploratory, and | Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Religious Beliefs and Self-Disclosure | AJP Summer 98 | P. 273-86 | & categories of self-disclosure(283), & identification w/ therapist (274-5), & principles of(277-84), & supportive vs exploratory(279) | |
Suspense, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | & choice of insanity or health(217), of fear of client leaving treatment (215), of fear of clients psychosis/suicide(215), as prominent feeling in therapist working w/ borderlines(215), & therapeutic symbiosis (218), & therapists envy of clients psychopathology(216), & therapist falling victim to psychosis/ suicide(215)(221-2), & therapists fear that clients acting out=his own proclivity(219-22), & therapists hateful wishes to be rid of client(216), & therapists fear of/ wish to become psychotic(216), & therapists magical thinking(222-3) | |
Systems Perspective, and | On Snowflakes & Psychotherapy | TPR Sept 99 | P.166-70 | & fractals | |
Termination, and | Still Practicing | S. Buechler | See Index | & actual death of client(135), & in common w/ a death(133), & countless stories remain unfinished(158), & facing saying goodbye an enormous # of times(142), & has major impact on us(174), & illusion of predictability ruptured(135), & life ruled by chance & seems arbitrary(164-5), & lose a bit of ourselves, never being exactly that kind of T(135), & mourning(134)(136)(138)(145), & no death as final as death of T, no loss as complete or ironic given that both people are still alive(183), & no rituals for(183), & shame(145) (150), & traumatic because senseless & we are meaning makers (135-6), & treatment an ongoing steady statement on part of 2 people that says, Yes we can vs _ that says No we cant(136), & violates beliefs essential to our work(135) | |
Trainee, and | Letter to a Young Psychotherapy Trainee | TPR June 99 | P. 16-22 | & empathy(21), & 3 types of clients(16-8) | |
Still Practicing | S. Buechler | All |
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Travel, and | The Art of Travel | A. de Botton | P. 246-7, 251-2 | travel as metaphor | |
Types of | Article on Different Therapies | CTP 97 | All | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | See Index | & burn-out(178), vs certainty of Freudian scientific approach(3), & clashing relational patterns between T & client(139), & courting uncertainty through call for greater spontaneity, play & mutuality (197), as the discipline most practiced in the art of uncertainty (182), & dread of a retraumatizing loss of certainty as setting stage for burnout(181), & dreadful, hopeless hope(133)(183), & exile from certainty ended through(82)(177), & faith in(190), & healing (81)(83), & horror of T when becomes aware of falling short of own standard of goodness(184)(190), & inability to appreciate clients otherness(185), & increased interest in faith(146), & labyrinth a symbol of wholeness; the T goal(198), & language of hope as invitation to disaster(80), & making exp. of existential uncertainty more bearable(177), & moments of meeting(189-90), & only certainty of some clients is own suffering(183), & recognition of fittedness(81-2), & self-sustaining relational exp. in(44)(180), as someone who heals faith(195), as trauma-centred enterprise(61-2)(65)(177), & turn toward psychology of uncertainty(3)(12)(146) | |
Winnicottian, and | In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | Ch.23 | & ambiguity, openness & creativity(188), & errors(189-90), & going-on-being(193-4), & illusions(198), & improvisation(188), & obsessive intellectualization(204), & play(198)(208), & Potential Space(203-4), & therapists hatred(192), & transitional process(195), & using maternal situation as model(187) | |
Puer Aeternus | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | P. 97 | & definition of | |
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | & boy in man as beast(674), & dreams(217-8)(222)(279), & homosexuality(489), as personification of infantile side of character (175), as representation of self-renewing aspect of man(174), & seeing own shadow(283) | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
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Questions | Function of | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 215 | |
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | P. 338 | about clinical situations | |
Quotes | You Cant Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought | John-Roger | All | ||
Index Cards from Book Reviews | Various | ||||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Rage | Feelings | W. Gaylin | See Index | & envy(136), & impotent(187) | |
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & depression(34), as expression of abandonment depression(61), w/ fear/panic(66-7), & homicide(65), & psychosomatic disorders(67), as undifferentiated(65) | |||
The Beast in the Nursery | A. Phillips | Ch.4 | & betrayal of ideal(122), & humiliating someone(129), as insistence, refusal & hope(125)(127), @ person who creates intolerable conflict (121-2), & potential for humiliation(122-3)(128-9), & revenge(126), & self-idealization(122), as sign of life(128) | ||
Development, and | Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | against world(135), & destruction(134-5), & empathy of parents w/ infants(136-7), @ loss of wholeness(135), & temper tantrums(208-10) | |
Men, and | Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | & depression(82)(107), & desire to retreat(38)(81), & displacement of(107), as energy for change(107)(130), as Eros driven underground (28), @ not living own life(80), & power complex(25), & projection onto other men(125), & torn between rage & fear(121), towards inner feminine(60), against women(42-3)(47), & wounding others(25) | ||
Therapy, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & narcissistic(5)(138) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | & definition of(98), & hate(99-100), & intolerance of same in others (102-3), & manic(294), as part of early environment(101) | |||
Women, and | Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | & creating out of(352-3), & hope(353) | ||
Rape | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & adolescent girls(60-1), & compared to Vietnam vets(59), & constriction(46), & crisis intervention(165), & disclosure to family (65), & doubt(53)(67), & feeling responsible for(68), & groups (215), & guilt(53-4), & idea of saying no as inconceivable(112), & intimacy (56), & justice system(72), & loss of control(53), & loss of security (51), & loss of self(56), & naming it(67), as paradigm of womens movement(30-2), & secrecy of(28-9)(73), & shame(53), & state of surrender(42), as traumatic event(33), & victims safety(62), & violation as essential element(57-8), & vulnerability to(69) | ||
Rapprochement | The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | & aggression(117), & ambitendency(107-8), & 3 anxieties of childhood(144)(229), & beginning(90-5), & boys vs girls(102)(104-5), & connection w/ infantile neurosis(227)(230), & crisis(95-6), & diminishing @ 21m.(101), & fixation @(230), & identification(98), & indecision(96), & individuation(101), & leave-taking(99), & mood of(213), & mothers love & acceptance(77)(79-82)(84-5), & oedipal period(227)(230), & origin of(229), & 3 periods of(89), & range of affects(97), & separateness(228), & separation anxiety(76), & separation reactions(211), & shadowing/darting away(77-8), & splitting(99)(229), & stranger reaction(96)(209), & superego development(107), & taking possession of body(222-3) | |
Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | & fall from grace(463), & female gender(46), & identificatory love (468), & male gender formation(462-3)(465), & role of father(463-8), & wish for penis(466) | |||
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & adolescence(96), & birth of me(42-5), & N. Mother(51) | |
Rationalization | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & intelligence/creativity(125), as mature defence(99) | ||
Open Minded | J. Lear | P. 92 |
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Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & groups(188), as I give myself a cover story(121), & projection(122) | |||
Reaction - Formation | Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | & definition of(519-20) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & description of(131-3), & OCD(283)(286), & paranoia(210-1) | |||
Reception | Being a Character | C. Bollas | & aim of(74), as nuclei of genera(74), vs repression(73), & therapist working w/(74) | ||
Reframing | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | & description of(110-5), & ego support(254), & schizoid(114-5) | ||
Childrens Negative Traits, and | The Blessing of A Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | P. 194 |
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Regression | A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | vs attachment behaviour(12)(120), vs developmental pathways(136) | ||
The Basic Fault | M. Balint | All | |||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & borderline(88-9), & description of(120-2), & hysterical(315), & somatization(121) | ||
Attachment | J. Bowlby | of attachment behaviour(208), & ethological explanation of(102), & oral behaviour(218-9), & reasons for persistence of immature behaviour systems(143-4) | |||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | Ch.14 | & 2 factors in analytic setting as promoting(258), & benign vs malignant(269-70), to dependence(259)(261), & musing(271-2), in therapist providing solution(24-6) | ||
Freud # 9. Case Histories II | S. Freud | See Index | from acting to thinking(123-6), & flight to illness(79), as one cause of neurosis(288-9), & psychosexual development(199-200), & scenes from early infancy(282-5) | ||
The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | See Index | as attempt to heal split(41-2)(227-8), & madness(97) | ||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | vs aggression(148), & attitude toward life(79)(211), & compulsive sleep(94)(211), & dependent passivity(79), & dreaming(211), & drugs(92), & ego(73), as escape from internal bad object(208), & fear(211-2), vs guilt/depression(139)(144), & healthy(96), & insomnia(211), & manic defense(144-5)(154), & pathological(96-7), & physical symptoms(211), & pull on personality(80), & split w/ active oral ego(144), & therapeutic(94)(213)(276)(282)(296)(307), & ultimate problem/aim for therapy(78), to womb(44)(68)(210-1) | ||
Freud | J. Lear | & certain aspects of adult life as(175), & falling in love(176) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & adaptation of libido(51)(58-9), & conflict of opposites(60), as confronting Cs(63), & 4 functions(62-3), as germs of new life(62), in hysteria(87), as necessary phase of development(64), & neurosis(52-3), vs progression(59-60), & unc contents(60-1) | ||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | P. 75-6 | self-psychological vs classical approach to | ||
Terrors and Experts | A. Phillips | P.103 | as revision | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & hypochondria(81-4), & obsessional(29-30)(81), & paranoia(87) (89) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | Ch.27 | & capacity for concern(260), to dependence(265), & hope(264), & intermediate space(267), & need vs wish(261), & sleep(263), in therapy(259), & therapy termination(258), & unintegration(265), as way to progression(258) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | vs classical(127-8), to dependence(128), & psychosis(128), & self-cure(128), in service of ego(258), & too-good mother(51), &TS(151) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & benign(141-2), as bridging of inside & outside(139), & creation of T environment that permits(37)(143), & ego allowing itself, voluntarily, to become less intact(37), as fundamental component of T(37), includes, in transf., early & dev. fragmented modes of thinking, feeling & behaving(37)(143), as intrapsychic & interper. (142), & pathological _=when T knows too much too soon(294), as real state of mind of client(144), as raw state of cognitive disequilibrium allowed by client as part of restructuring of self & obj. repr.(37)(132)(143), & sever diss.(143), & T relating directly to regressed state(144-5), & through act of recognition(144), as a time of great dep. & true risk(37) | ||
Ego States, and | Ego States: Theory and Therapy | J/H. Watkins | P. 222-4 | & object relations | |
Regrets | Staring at the Sun | I. Yalom | See Index | & How can you live now w/o building new regrets?(101)(146), & willingness to live past year over & over(103) | |
Rejection | A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | See Index | & attachment(55), & defensive numbing(55), by Mother of infant(50) (53), in therapy(56) | |
Relational Systems/ Complexity Theory | Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | & adaptive self-regulation maximizes _(215),as applied to couples, families(217), & enmeshed families(217), vs experiences & interactions that impair movement toward complexity defined as stressing the system & move either to rigidity(shame-based withdrawal) or chaos(rage)(214-6), & families where integration is absent(217), & integration of differentiated components(216-7), & self-organizing processes move towards complexity when flow of states is stable, flexible & adaptive(213) | |
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | See Index | & all psychological life is held to be emergent & context sensitive (108), & categorization(28-9), & concerns the problems of emergent order & complexity: how structure & patterns arise from the cooperation of many individual parts(15), & death(108-9), & emotions as emergent, self-organizing processes of relational systems(26-7), & fantasies(36), & infants intrinsically motivated to order info., detect regularity & generate & act on expectancies(22-3), & language(31-2), & meaning(28), & metaphor of labyrinth(16), & mutual healing(81), & the need to maintain the organization of experience(25), & PTSD(52-3)(65), & regulatory processes(23), & relative stability of relational patterns lends a sense of order & predictability to relational world(23)(25), & systematically emergent certainties as specifying conditions under which we believe our relationships are subject to orderly mutual influence(37)(46), & systems are self-stabilizing & self-organizing(45), & time as regulatory process(34-5), & unpredictability & disorder inevitable aspects of evolving dynamic systems ie uncertainty is implicit in human dev.(15) | |
Relationships | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | All | ||
Getting the Love You Want | H. Hendrix | ||||
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus | J. Gray | ||||
Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | ||||
Conversations with God | N. Walsch | See Index | & being Self-centred(124), & expression of Self(121-2)(126), as holy ground(126), & long term(138), & obligation(138)(141), & purpose of(122-3)(126)(141), & seeing others as more(142) | ||
Hold Me Tight | S. Johnson | All | |||
Love Sense | S. Johnson | All | |||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | All | |||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | See Index | & being dead to remain alive(150), & creative(82), & engulfment (44), & guilt(132), & isolation(44)(83), & loss of identity(44)(139), & ontologically insecure(42-3), in phantasy(84), & psychosis(149-50) (158), & sadomasochistic relationship w/ self(83-4)(139-40), & schizoid(75)(83)(91)(175), & self-consciousness(74), & theft(92), & therapy(26), & TS/FS split(74)(82-3) | ||
The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work | J. Gottman | All | |||
Soulmates | T. Moore | All | |||
Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | Questions for Exploring(268-306) | |||
Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | All | |||
Abandonment, and | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 217 | & exp. of affecting offenders behaviour in 3 ways | |
Abuse, and | Stalking the Soul | M-F. Hirigoyen | All |
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Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & emotional hunger(43), & types of abuse defined + questions (47-50) & types of relationship(44-5 )(56-7) | ||
How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | & boundaries(107)(218), & channels of psych. vulnerability(73), & forgiving too easily(66), & mistrust(218-9), & offenders(218-9), & refusing to forgive(41) | |||
How Do I Get Through to You? | T. Real | & Are enough of my needs being met in this rel. that it is worth my while to grieve those needs that are not?(214-5(224), & disillusionment(216), & grief(224), vs resentment(191), & resignation(190), & revenge(190) | |||
Alcoholism, and | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & co-dependency(267-8), & compulsive relationship(54-6)(192) | |
Anger, and | Getting the Love You Want | H. Hendrix | Pg 174-8 | & containment(178), & exercises in containment(179-181), & love(177) | |
Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | in Cs relationship(246), exercises to express(277-8) | ||
Do I Have to Give up Me to be Loved by You? | J. Paul | See Index | vs feeling weak(157), & intent(54) (265-6), w/ mate(112), & pain(147), as 2 nd feeling(53) | ||
Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | & collusion(360-2), of love addicts mate(236-7), & meeting needs (214), & obsessional personality(241-3), & projective identification (64-5(191-2)(195-7)(357-8)(394) | |||
Attachment, and | Notes in EFT Couples Binder | Various | All |
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Blame, and | Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | & disapproval(166-7), & guilt & fear(167)(210), & honesty(24) | ||
Boundaries, and | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | & codependence/counterdependence(273), & compulsive relationships(79), in healthy relationships(80), & taking on emotional state of other(79) | |
How Do I Get Through To You? | T. Real | See Index | & accurate vs inaccurate descriptions(239), & appropriate childhood(204), & internal boundary violations(254), & internal/ external(237-8)(241)(258), & mature(205)(239), & men vs women (238), & shame vs grandiosity(205), & unhealthy(205) | ||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & enmeshed families(145), & provision of self-delineating experiences in parental T(166), & self-delineation(146), & strong but flexible in families(145) | ||
Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | & invisible child/adult(89-90), & rigid child/adult(87-8) | ||
Childhood Wounds, and | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | P. 215-228 |
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Children, and | How Do I Get Through To You? | T. Real | See Index | & accommodation by girls(54), & code of masculinity(60-1)(78 ) (281), & core self-skills(203-6), & disempowering abuse(93-4), & explode or corrode(53), & false empowerment(93-4), & growth-in- connection(166-8), & shame/grandiosity process(95), & trauma(61) | |
Communication, and | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | 4 levels of(188-91), & active listening(303), in apathetic relationships (71)(73), before caring(187), & commitment(331-2), + commitment + caring=foundation(193), in compulsive relationships(70-1)(192), of emotions(162)(211), exercises for (Ch10), & feeling heard(322)(328), & honesty(25)(69-70), & intimacy(34)(219), questionnaire on(329-30), & self-disclosure(317) | |
How Do I Get Through To You? | T. Real | & empathic listening(117), & point of listening=relational repair (241), & revenge as perverse form of(189-90), & scanning for positive(242-6) | |||
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus | J. Gray | All | |||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | P.82 | Share/Check/Share approach | ||
Compliance, and | Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You | J. Paul | See Index | as protective behaviour(7)(26) | |
Compulsions, and | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | & apathetic relationships(53)(57), characteristics of(54-6)(84), & control(73), & emotional hunger(44), & expectations(63), & gratification(67), & isolation(81), & trust(77) | ||
Conflict, and | Do I Have to Give up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | & asking why(60-1)(230), & compliance(26), & control(27), definition of(4)(22), & fear of learning(13), & intent(24-5), to protect or learn(5)(7-8)(10)(18), & resolving of(14)(17) | |
The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work | J. Gottman | See Index | & being accepted(149-50), & questionnaire about(140-8), & resolvable vs perpetual(130-5), & stonewalling(33) | ||
How Do I Get Through To You? | T. Real | & 70% initiated by women(38), & disengagement as predictor of(190), & resignation(190), & revenge(190) | |||
Contempt, and | The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work | J. Gottman | & belligerence(31), & criticism(27), & fondness/admiration as antidote(65), & types of(29) | ||
Criticism, and | Love Sense | S. Johnson | as low-grade punches to the brain(190), & partners no clue as to real impact of neg. judgements(191), & rings survival alarm bell, sets off fear that will be rejected & abandoned(190-1) | ||
Dependence, and | The Road Less Travelled | S. Peck | P. 98-111 | definition of(98), description of(105), etiology of(104)(109-11), vs love(98)(105), & passive dep. relationship(99-104), & pets(108-9), as unconcerned w/ spiritual growth(106-7) | |
Desire, and | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | for connection(34), = de sidus=of the star(33), & Eros(33) | |
Differentiation, and | Passionate Marriage | D. Schnarch | See Index | & anxiety(116)(302)(374), & borrowed functioning(146-7), critical mass &(366-8), definition of(51)(56)(62-3)(67-8), & emotional gridlock(118), & eyes-open orgasm(232), & foreplay(197), & hugging till relaxed(162-4), & level same as parents(69), & level same as partners(69), & reflected sense of self(59), & sexual role-playing(255), & spirituality(395-403) | |
Dissociation, and | How Do I Get Through To You? | T. Real | See Index | as central disorder plaguing troubled women(101), & doubts about our experience(205), & relational skills(259), & self-awareness(203), & womens truth(102) | |
Expectations, and | Do I Have to Give up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | & control(206), & exercises for exploring(283-6), & responsible for others happiness(209-10)(215), as set-ups(172) | |
Fear, and | Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | of abandonment(82), of absorption(77-9), of being alone(104), of failure(96-7), of being ignored(89), as jealousy(82), of rejection(68-9), of being shamed(87) | ||
Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | of being unlovable(158), of conflict(199), & control through(167) (210), & Inner Childs(145), of knowing(157-8), of loss of love(149), of separation/desertion(155), & sexual issues(151)(174), & threats (168), & weakness(157) | ||
Fidelity, and | Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | See Index | & affairs(181-5), & commitment(192)(197), & desire(196), & fear of loss & abandonment(180), & final aim of all erotic striving(179), & fundamental fear of partners freedom(190), & marriage(187) (190), & sexual exclusivity(180)(197), & the third(188)(194)(198-9) | |
Fantasy, and | Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | & partners differentness(13-4)(21), & projective identification(118-9)(201) | ||
Femininity, and | How Do I Get Through To You? | T. Real | & growth-in-connection(166), & psychological patriarchy(73)(161), & speaking their truth(134) | ||
Forgiveness, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | & accusatory suffering(347-9), by betrayed vs unfaithful partner (343)(346-7)(355), & compassion for other(349), & definition of(341-2), as essential for healing(339), & evidence of intent to change(339), & feeling safe(346), & forgiving w/o reconciliation (356), as fostering own well-being(342), as gradual process of increasing compassion & reducing resentment(339)(349), & humour as measure of(353), & indifference rather than hate(378), & pseudo (344-5), & timing of(344), & transformation from victim to survivor(342), & what it is not (341) | ||
How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | All |
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Grandiosity and | How Do I Get Through To You? | T. Real | See Index | & amplifying the consequences in T w/(132-4), & burying of hurt boy in hurt man(95), as empathy deficiency towards others(132-4), & false empowerment(93-4), & homicide(99), & impairing judgment (131-2), & male lack of stable sense of self-worth(143), & masc. vs fem.(95)(295), & psych. patriarchy(84), & self-esteem(203)(205), vs shame(93)(132), & transmutation of pain to rage(59), & omens fear of mens(95) | |
Hero, and | How Do I Get Through To You? | T. Real | & relational(243-4), & You can be right or you can be married. Whats more important to you?(243) | ||
Infidelity, and | Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | Chapter 8 | & clear-cut boundaries of(176), & frequency of(20)(136-7), & intimacy(141-3), & love triangles(14)(113)(151), & lying(171), & reasons for(140-1), & stabilizing lover(157), as symptom(141) | |
After the Affair | J. Spring | All |
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A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & disclosing(242), & secrecy of, greatest damage(250), & shaming effect of(106), & trauma(105), & using trauma as kind of moral authority(105-6), & usually about getting the acceptance missing in the marriage(249-50), & violation of expectancy(106) | ||
Love Sense | S. Johnson | & A injury when loved one called upon to provide responsive care & does not come through(198), & level & extent of deception that matters ie implication for A & trust(198), & most affairs not about sex, about hunger for connection & not knowing how to satisfy w/ partner(197) | |||
Not Just Friends | S. Glass | All |
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Intersubjective view, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | Ch. 5 |
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Listening, and | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | See Index | as act of healing(196), as act of intimacy(136), & compassionate witnessing(142)(185), w/ empathy & compassion(199), & forgiveness(135)(197)(199-200), & hard vs soft emotions(141-2) (197-9), & holding her/his pain(138-40), & nonverbal communication(141), & paying attention to pain of hurt partner (137), & were listened into being(142) | |
Masculinity, and | How Do I Get Through to You | T. Real | See Index | & contempt(84), & discrimination(78), & mother wound(113), as negative identity(79), & psychological patriarchy(73), & vulnerability triggers attack(79) | |
Men, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | of abused(128-34)(172-3), & co-dependency(279), as partner of victim(279), during recovery(171)(276-89), & sexual(60)(187), w/ therapist(203-4) | |
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | between aging parent & son(158-66), between Father & adolescent child(151), between Father/son(143), as caretakers in vs protectors (128)(152), & mentoring(141), & sex(155) | ||
Mens Issues, and | How Do I Get Through To You? | T. Real | See Index | & contempt(84)(90), & grandiosity(99)(205), & hidden boy(99), & lack of stable sense of self-worth(134), & mother wound(113),& porn(153), & results based esteem(210), & sexual mother(154) | |
Mind of its Own, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & complementarity(179)(181-2)(188), & couples fail when fail to build 3rdness(27), & creating a living relationship greater than the sum of 2 of them(17), & designed interdependence(27), & differentiation of self always linked to 3rdness(183), & drainpipe (180), & for a relational mind to emerge requires surrendering to thirdness of rel.(16)(147)(185), & mentalization(110-1), & mutual recognition(17)(193), & mutually traumatizing(54), & negative third=invariance & rigidity of patterns of interacting(17)(147), & one-in-the-third eg tango, sex(181), & perspectival realism(85), & playing allows for an emergent property of _(32-3), & positive third=more degrees of freedom, openness to possibility & variance(17), & relationship behaving as if it had a mind of its own→ curiosity about contribution(178-9), & seesaw(179)(181), & something creatively co-authored that neither can take exclusive ownership for(33), & surrender position of dominance while not engaging in submission(17)(186)(200), & T must embody thirdness (17-8)(209), & third-in-the-one crucial to self-actualization(188), & This relationship is telling us . . .(178), & when articulation of self-actualization a threat(147) | |
Mindfulness, and | Dancing with Fire | J. Amodeo | See Index | & capacity to discern whether person is safe impaired when lack secure internal base(80)(106), & clinging so tightly to what we dont need(161), & emotional safety(239), & empty self is a relational self(107), & fears brought on by intimacy(162), & freer when longing for contact is met(36), & how emotional flare ups reflect burning desire to connect(147), & intimacy requires vulnerability (162), & mindful affirmations(135), & most people are only as needy as their unmet needs(78), & price we pay to protect ourselves from unavoidable hurt of rejection is suffering of isolation(99), & radical acceptance(169), & relationship as spiritual practice(161), & try to overpower others when feel overpowered by difficult or uncomfortable feelings within us(157-8) | |
Mirroring, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | & partners positive_(170), as provided by emotional affair(45)(213)(260) | |
Passion, and | How Do I Get Through to You? | T. Real | & being w/ vs being over(258), & mate selection(169), & patriarchy as disordered desire(149), & its power to mend or consume(258), & sex(225-7), & sexual longings as infinite(227) | ||
Passive-Aggressive, and | Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | in adult(78-80), in child(78) | ||
Perception, and | How Do I Get Through to You? | T. Real | P. 231-6 | & perception battles | |
Perfectionism, and | How Do I Get Through to You? | T. Real | See Index | & self-awareness(203), & owning reality(204-5) | |
Recovery, and | How Do I Get Through to You? | T. Real | See Index | & addressing addiction, violence & disorders(200), & adjusting behaviour(213), & bearing solitude(236), & being w/ vs being over (258), & detachment from outcome(122)(256), & full engagement (200), & male vs female(40-1)(197-8), & my truth vs the truth (235)(258), & handling mens reactions(121-2), & negotiation(247-50), & 1 st phase-bringing couple back into connection(137)(156) (229), & 2 nd phase-reclaiming real passion(137)(156), & 3 phases of intimacys erosion(186)(189-94), & relational heroism(243-4), & relational skills(202-5)(250)(255)(258-60), & self-esteem(43), & selling past the sale(235), & staying connected(213-4), & template for rel.(176), & warm regard(258) | |
Responsibility, and | Do I Have to Give Up me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | See Index | & affairs(221), & benevolence(225), vs caring for other(217), for what we do, not others reaction(213), & whose fault(213) | |
Self-Esteem, and | How Do I Get Through to You? | T. Real | & cherishing the child(204), & definition of(203)(207), as existential, spiritual truth(43), & girls loss of(54), & internal boundaries(239), & men(134), & relational(207-9)(259), & results-based(210), & shame (84), & sustaining intimacy(43), & unhealthy(205) | ||
Sex, and | Passionate Marriage | D. Schnarch | All | ||
Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | Ch. 8 | & AIDS(251), & being turned off/on(230-1), & levels of sexual involvement(236-40), & questionnaire on(254-61), & relationship built on(212), & safe sex vs safe partner(250), & spirituality(233), & 3 levels of sexual abuse(49) | ||
Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | All | |||
Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | See Index | & lack of fun(199), & physical vs emotional pleasure(198) | ||
She Comes First | I. Kerner | All |
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Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | & childhood labels(67), & clitoral stroking(264)(289), & control of (11)(419), & controlling ejaculation(285), & desire(301), & indifference(302), & lack of trust(250-1), as negative cycle(249), & orgasm(279), & outside marriage(20)(137)(140-4) | ||
Shame and | How Do I et Through to You? | T. Real | See Index | & disempowering abuse(94), as empathy deficiency towards oneself (132), & fear of by women(95), vs grandiosity(94-5), & relational (209)(259), as self-esteem dysfunction(84)(203-5), & suicide(99) | |
Socio-emotional skills & deficits, and | Love & War | S. Tatkin | & affect blindness(210), & affect contagion & overresponse(211), & alexithymia(210), & all have deficits but able to circumvent ie getting others to do what we are not skilled @(114), & awareness of can shift a couples sense of what is wrong(114), & believing certain attunement failures are deliberate(114), & deficit model vs conflict model(119), & deficits can rapidly lead to misattunement, poor error correction, dysreg., misappraisal & threat response that anticipates trauma(207), & emotional IQ(208), & empathic attunement(209), & failures of interactive reg.(207), & holding & waiting(213), & reading facial cues(209), & sequencing, detailing & tracking time & space(211), & somatosensory awareness(212) | ||
Spirituality, and | The One | K. Freston | All |
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Splitting, and | Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | See Index | & ambivalence(200)(399), in relationship(395) | |
Unconscious, and | Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | & childhood exercise(225-6), & creativity(298) | ||
Women, and | How Do I Get Through to You? | T. Real | See Index | & accommodation(54), & collusion of silence(152), & disparity in intimacy between men & women(40-1), & dissociation(101-2), & 70% divorces initiated by women(38), & empathic connection to vulnerable in other(99), & loving rel. in the service of maintaining rel.(54), & option of explode or corrode(53), & need vs want(248), & romance for women, porn for men(153), & sacrificing needs for the rel.(198), & shame(205), & vitality mixes poorly w/ inauthenticity (53), & willingness to speak(134)(229), & women in one-up positions(192)(194), & womanish values (161) | |
The Dance of Anger | H. Lerner | All |
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Relaxation | Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | See Index | & Autogenic Training(Ch.7), vs fragmented response(291), & meditation(Ch.6), & respiration(186) | |
Exercises, and | Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | P.136-40 | ||
Religion | Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & mystical experience(37-9), & reaching unity(196-7) | |
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | as arising from earliest exp. of helplessness(205), & belief as illusion if derived from human wishes(203), & unexplained by imagination, culture & rituals alone(215) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & liminality(39), & tendency to sentimentalize the light & demonize the darkness(15) | ||
Fear of Death, and | Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & best existential analysis of human condition leads directly into problems of God & faith(68), & doctrine of soul showed man why he was inferior, bad, guilty & gave him means to get rid of badness & be happy(192), & faith that ones existence has meaning in some ultimate sense because it exists within an eternal & infinite scheme of things brought about & maintained to some kind of design by some creative force, else one lives unprotected, exposed to his aloneness & helplessness, to constant anxiety(90) & fixing urge to cosmic heroism onto another person vs God(160-1), & gives hope because holds open dimension of unknown & unknowable, fantastic mystery of creation that human mind cannot even begin to approach & relieves absurdity of earthly life(203-4), & idea of God outgrowth of genuine life-longing, a reaching out for a plenitude of meaning (153), & love relationship of modern mana religious problem(161-2), & man want to focus his love on an absolute measure of power & value to find & experience the marvelous but left only w/ T(195), & need for truly religious ideology is inherent in human nature & its fulfillment basic to any kind of social life(174), & neurosis as sin, not disease, therefore, only cure to become part of larger & higher wholeness = religion(198-9), & no human partner can offer assurance = Gods greatness & power as something we can nourish ourselves in, w/o its being compromised in any way by the happenings of this world(166-7), & to project ones problems onto a god-like figure, to be healed by an all-embracing & all-justifying beyond as only way to get beyond natural contradictions of existence(285), & psychology has to give way to theology(196), replacing soul w/ self, yet havent explained inner forces of evolution that led to an animal capable of self-Cs(191), & sex(163-4)(168), & result of loss of spiritual ideologies(165-6), & sin as attempt to force nature, as blowing himself up larger than true size, refusal to recognize his cosmic dependence, whole meaning & miraculousness of creation limited to himself but is doomed to failure(196-7), & solves the problem of death gives the possibility of heroic victory in freedom & solves problem of human dignity @ highest level(203), & traditional religion turned Cs of sin into condition for salvation(160)(197), & want redemption when elevate love partner to position of God(167-8) | |
Relationships, and | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & autonomy of Other(123)(133), & awe as highest religious emotion (134), & control(128), & cultural artefacts(117)(119), as direct & personal(124), vs ego(112-3), & God as things that upset plans(136), & god-imago of Self(122)(127), & image vs Mystery(128-9), & indices to define relationship to Cosmic Other(125-6), & Latin religare=to reconnect w/(17), & longing for, as instinctual(117-8), & w/ the Other(117)(119-20), as progressive or regressive(116), & questions about(131), & religion as religious search(17), & symbol-making(127), & transcendence(117) | |
Remorse | Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & endings(162), vs regret(296) | |
Reparation | The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | See Index | & failure of(153), & guilt at success/triumph(154), & introjection of part to whole object(144), & manic omnipotence(133)(153), & obsessional(153), for sadistic attacks(120)(124) | |
On Kissing, Tickling and being Bored | A. Phillips | P. 38-9 | vs survival of hatred | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & concern(77), & destructive aim(80), to environment mother(77), as freeing instincts(77), & guilt(77), & lack of opportunity for(78), & oral sadism(23) | ||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | & drive for healthy & healing(67), & interactive(65), & openness to based on positive affective core(66), as powerful drive active from infancy that seeks to restore optimal conditions ie responsiveness & attunement in other(67), & powers risk-taking, hope-driven mode of functioning(106), & self-righting tendencies(65), & Ts responsiveness to key factor in healing(68) | ||
Repetition Compulsion | Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | & countertrans.(131-2), & Freud(25-6) | ||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | See Index | in analysis of children(66), & manic defence(153), & sexual development(82) | ||
The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | P. 45-6 | & pleasure | ||
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | See Index | & choosing partner for(82-3), in perversions & obsessions(87), & wound of not being loved as oneself(85) | ||
Freud | J. Lear | as failed attempt to master a trauma(158), & mind disconnecting itself=anxiety defense(158-9)(161), & neurotic creation of an idiosyncratic & limited world(repeated gratification of a fantasy)(152-3)(159), & turning away from reality(153) | |||
Thou Shalt not be Aware | A. Miller | P.81, 160, 175 | & Don Juan figure(81), vs experiencing(135), & sexual abuse(160) | ||
Terrors and Experts | A. Phillips | See Index | in children(53), & fear(58), & hope(53) | ||
On Kissing, Tickling and Being Bored | A. Phillips | See Index | & phobias(21), as resistance(86-7) | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & attachment(22), as attempt to restore past(75), & denial of dependence(76), in parents(237-8) | ||
On Flirtation | A. Phillips | & client repeats what he has forgotten & repressed as action(69), & clients dominant story is a repetitive one(69), = forgetting in its most spellbinding form(69), & only repeat the unrepeatable(36), & past frozen in(69), & replication is a self-cure for loss(35), , & T makes emotional experience from the past available for kind of forgetting that would out it beyond the repetition compulsion(37), & staying away from the future(153), as Unc limiting or coercion of repertoire of life-stories(153), & what happens when something cannot be remembered(36) | |||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | P.50-51 | |||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | See Index | & avoiding by leading w/ corrective emotional exp.(331),& departures from(264), & dominates only when dread is pervasive (87), of interpersonal patterns, both painful & affirming(264), as mode of functioning that is conservative & dread-driven(106), vs reparation(106), vs resilience(107), & ∆ of comparisons(266) | |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | @ level of basic fault(115), & regression to something existing at least once before(129), & repetition of something done at least once before (129) | |
Repression | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | of hope(306), & release in therapy(284) | |
Freud # 9. Case Histories II | S. Freud | See Index | & homosexuality(267)(279)(351)(356)(358), in hysteria(76), of infantile hatred(117), & negation in unc(319), & obsessional ideas (101), & paranoia(210), & 3 phases of(205-6), of pleasure in smell (127), & Rat Man(58), of sensuality(127)(325), & withdrawal of affect(111-2)(210), & wolf phobia(317) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & description of(118-20), & health(54), & memory(305-6), as motivated forgetting(28), & problems w/(119) | |||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & act of _ repressed w/ content(115)(119-20), as buffering pain by skewing attention(113)(115), as cognitive device for tampering w/ reality to avoid pain(118), of feeling(117), & penalty of=repetition (116), as quintessential lacuna(113), & sound of as thought evaporating(114) | |||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & failure of ego-development(216), & Klein(405), of libidinal ego (283), & lost heart of total self(283), of natural self(143) | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & recovery(175-6), & social _ of psychological trauma(9) | |||
Freud | J. Lear | & physical pain(67), as selective attack on capacity to form salient thought(64)(67), & transformation of self-understanding(68) | |||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | & anima(694), of split-off parts(109)(693) | |||
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | =archaic activity by which I deny that certain instincts are part of me ie an active self-alienation of instincts(173), & essence= transformation of emotion(58)(68)(88)(90-2), & hysteria(53)(58-9),of orientation to world, not just an idea or wish(92), & point of to keep ideas out of Cs that would generate unpleasure(88), as primitive way to just say no to desires(53-4), & therapy exists because repression unable to carry out its task(89) | |||
Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | & Freud(30-1)(54-5), of grandiose-exhibitionistic needs(93) | |||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & search for responsive selfobject(71), & successful analysis(159) | ||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | & forgetting(172), vs suppression(137)(173), & therapy w/(293) | ||
Neurotic Styles | D. Shapiro | See Index | & hysteria(109)(111) | ||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | See Index | as if ego already knows exactly what will disrupt secure identity (122), & ego in continual state of performance anxiety(123), & phobia(123), as what we do w/ experience we cannot let ourselves have(121) | ||
Fear of Death, and | The Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & allowing the child to act w/o anxiety, to take experience in hand & dev. dependable responses to it(262), & Cs of death is the primary _, not sexuality(20)(96), & = normal self-protection & creative self-restriction(178), & _ is truth the only truth that man can know, because he cannot experience everything(265), & tranquilizing themselves w/ the trivial(178) | |
Resilience | Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | & genes(276), & resilience & acceptance bulwarks against anxiety & depression(294)(332), & self-efficacy(336), & 10 critical elements of(332) | |
Resistance | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | to good therapeutic experience(288-9), & silence(206)(208), & therapists(20-1) | |
Freud # 9. Case Histories II | S. Freud | in analysis(238)(377), to importance of childhood(282), & satisfaction in suffering(64), as theory of mind(21) | |||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & ALE(198), as denying need for treatment(176)(185), to dependence on therapist(284), & dreams(300), to level of child(314), & obstacles constituting(339-48), & preserving closed system(198), as schizoid compromise(296) | ||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | to analysis(144)(148-9), & marriage as(63) | ||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | See Index | & acceptance(214)(218)(220-1), & identified w/(211), as Unc(211) | ||
Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | & Freud(101), & Gill(84), & Kohut(89)(103-4)(110)(167), to transference(61-2)(75-8) | |||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | to becoming Cs(147), vs defensiveness(114-5), & intellectualizing (150-1), as not having to be overcome(148), as move to safeguard self(141)(148), as phase in transference(22), & traditional view(73) (141-2) | ||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | See Index | & interpretation of(44), & positive transf.(30)(39), & provoking annoyance & hatred(121-3), & Ts resistance=negative & sexual (40), & therapy as resistance & the resisted(47)(50)(76), & whenever one is blocked in any piece of work to which one is devoted, one always becomes angry(121) | ||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | & anxiety(46), & conflict(52), & Freud(xxi), to growing(426-7), as ours(49) | |||
Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | See Index | as affect-dissociating defensive operations(92), as central to intersubjectivity(13), & dread to repeat(39), as evidence of thwarted strivings for self-demarcation(51), as evoked by therapist(14)(51), & relationship w/ trans.(39-40), as repetitive aspect of trans.(92) | ||
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | See Index | & affective involvement as clue(22), & 3 areas to think about(22-3), & being late(24), & definition of(20), & silence(76), & telling clients (24) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | as addressing the diss. structure of the mind itself(me/not-me)(215), @ change points(217), as clients ability to feel safe while restructuring(199)(209),of cure an intrinsic part of T(207), to curing a clients depression(245), as defense against undermining old world vs effort to ward off new insight(91)(209), & distractive activity as(200), as enacted communication that Ts efforts to interpret meaning being exp. as requiring client to trade off some domain of own self-exp. that is not-me(208)(275), @ end of session(217), & motivation of as dialectic between preservation & change(206)(222), & negativity of as dialectic tension between realities not yet amenable to self-reflection(206), & resistance-as-obstacle as guardian of self-continuity(209)(217), & searching for the adaptive purpose of(304), of self-states to change(287), as statement of work going on(217), to T when involvement in change GT recognition of clients need to cope(200), as way of making existence of diss. aspect of self that has to be accessed & consulted(217), & wish to stay the same while changing(170) | |
Inner Child Work, and | Healing Your Aloneness | E. Chopich | See Index | & description of(73), & overly responsible(74), & permissive Inner Adult(73) | |
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | as clients opposition to change in capacity for thought & experience (211), & joining(85-7) | ||
Resonance | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | P. 125-7 | & spirituality | |
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | See Index | & between infant & caregiver(74), & bringing the inside out(57), & core component of how we make mindsight maps(223), as coupling of 2 autonomous entities into functional whole(54), & creating condition of trust(75), & creation of we through(60)(74), & feeling felt(55)(57), & left to left & right to right hemisphere(62), & narrow window of tolerance(60), & requires vulnerability & humility(56), & _ circuits permit joining long before self-awareness initiated(60)(75), & _ w/ positive regard→ deep feeling of coherence & harmony(54-5), & result of being receptive, present & attuned(60), & uncertainty(56) | ||
Responding vs Reacting | Toxic Parents | S. Forward | P.206-213 | ||
Responsibility | Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | & accepting responsibility=1 st person stance(66)(176), & accepting _ is active love(172), & accepting _ as constitutive of process of individuation(195), & accepting _ not an act of will(67), & cost of failing to accept _ for instincts & incorporate them into the I, I become liable to hold myself responsible for them in a pathological way(174), & holding oneself responsible=3 rd person stance, deciding whether ones character, actions, etc worthy of praise or blame(65-6), & hysteria=disclaimer of _ for Unc(66)(173), & hysteria/obsession as pathologies from failure to accept _(174) | |
Children, and | The Blessing of a Skinned Knee | W. Mogel | & Bions definition of slavery as _ w/o authority(146), & motivation through discipline(147), & motivation through positive reinforcement(147) , & tuning in to desires but not obligations(26) | ||
Existential, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & acceptance of decisions(325-6)(333), & avoidance of(224-30), & description of(218), & existential guilt(276-85)(349), & freedom (220), & limits of(268-75), & responsibility awareness(221-2), & T (231-53)(261-8), & willing & action(286-93) | |
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 31-2 | |||
Women, and | The Dance of Anger | H. Lerner | See Index | & anxiety(138-9), & balancing separateness & togetherness(138-9), & circular patterns(133)(140-1), & determining through observation(127-8), & knowing family history(118), & moving from fused to more mature rel.(121)(198), & overfunctioning -underfunctioning pattern(128)(136)(139), & responsibility for others problems vs own(124)(139)(150-1), & right to be angry does not mean other is to blame(201), & stepping back vs emotional withdrawal(145), & stopping being helpful(142-3), & Unc goal to safeguard rel.(133), & use of anger w/o holding other responsible(123), & women as emotional rescuers(137)(141) | |
Revenge | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | See Index | as emotional dependence(59), & forgiveness(186), & getting back or even vs getting well(59-60), & goal=to crucify the offender(59), & No one is immune to the joys of victimhood & revenge(46), as other-directed(59), & our thirst for revenge is really a need to reclaim power, to shed the role of victim & substitute action for helplessness(186), & punishing offender vs process punishing you(60) | |
Reverie | Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | See Index | & creativity(124-7), & imagery(140-9), in therapy(149-52) | |
This Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | See Index | as analytic third; a creation of an Unc intersubj jointly but asymmetrically created by T & client(2)(6-7)(75-6)(91), & def. of(124), as form of unmediated exp.(91), & mothers(102), as pre-Cs dreamlike thinking(5)(101), & significance of lack of(56)(59), & similar to state of writing(117) | ||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | & alive in Mothers(52). & malignant hysteric(132) | |
Reversal | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | P. 133-4 | ||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | also called reaction formation(120), as denial then transformed to opposite(120), & paranoia(143) | ||
Rippling Effect | Staring at the Sun | I. Yalom | See Index | & definition of(83), vs meaninglessness(83), & transiency(90-2) | |
Risk Taking | Pathfinders | G. Sheehy | Ch. 5 | & avoiding(97), of inner change(96), & loss(111), & magicthink (98), & major life change(96), as master quality for pathfinders (120), & repression(104-5), & sense of internal control(106-7), & somatization as need to(97) | |
On Kissing, Tickling and Being Bored | A. Phillips | Ch. 3 | & adolescence(31-2), in destructiveness(39), & 1 st risk of development(38), & solitude(29)(39), & values(33) | ||
Rites of Passage | Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & dark nights as(27-8)(46-7), & definition of(28), & definition of ritual(45), & facing every minute decision to live or die(35), & fate & destiny(28), & grief as re-imagining whole existence(25), & growing like a skyscraper vs caterpillar turning into a butterfly(24), & I can bear to die . . . I cannot bear to leave her(John Keats)(28), & marriage as(148), & negative capability(29), & phases of(38-43), & philosophy of life(32-3), & psychological vs spiritual view of(36), & ritual as compulsion vs transformation(45), & a single moment shaking soul to its depths(24), & Unc. like junk food. Its an easy way to go through life but it doesnt give the nourishment you need.(31) | |
Ritual | Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.224-229 | & lack of soul(227), as maintaining worlds holiness(226), & mythology(225), & neurosis(225-6), & relics of family(227), & spirituality(228), & tradition(226) | |
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | See Index | & behaviour eg tennis(159-60), & beginning of autonomy in children (128), & childrens(127-8), & making order out of chaos(177), & obsession(127), & play(159)(161)(170), & putting in touch w/ inner life(128), & religion(128), as taming primitive impulses(161), & technique of psychoanalysis(130) | ||
Men, and | Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | See Index | & definition of rite(16), & doubting masculinity(77), & fear of trial (24), & initiation(16), & lack of, for men(20-1), & passage(16-7), & stages of rites of passage(17-20), & therapy as(73)(122-3), & wounding rites(66-7)(105-6) | |
Self-Relations Therapy, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | as all or none process(194), as archetypal(179), & ceremony(180), & cognitive understanding(187), & concrete symbols(185-6), & definition of(179-80), & description of(180), & dissolving symptoms(186-7), & helping w/ crisis(178-9)(182), & performance of(191), & planning of(188), & problem as ritual=solution(181-2), & somatic self(180), & therapist as ritual specialist(195), & transforming identity(186), & witness to(190) | |
Ruptures | Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & acknowledging own role in disrupted connection(194)(201), & anger(199-200), & avoiding repair because of shame(198), & benign _(189), & disruption in balanced & coherent functioning(186), & feeling misunderstood & alone(186), & limit-setting _(189-90)(203-4)(208), & listening(201), & not sensing our own mind within mind of the other(186), & oscillating needs for connection & solitude (188), & repairing through joint reflection(194), & shame(195-8), & toxic _(193-4)(205), & w/o repair→ prolonged disconnection→ shame & humiliation(193) |
Ruthlessness | Winnicott | A. Phillips | & compliance(70), & creativity(113), & gender difference(6), & Mother(82), & play(86) | ||
On Kissing, Tickling and Being Bored | A. Phillips | P. 38 | & claiming solitude | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
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Sacrifice | Tracking the Gods | J. Hollis | See Index | & Great Mother(56-7), & myth of eternal return(55)(61)(63), to receive(58), & suffering(63) | |
Indulge Cycle, and | Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | & entitlement(154), & fantasy of achieving(154), & sex(246-7) | ||
Sadism/ Sadomasochism | On Kissing, Tickling and being Bored | A. Phillips | P. 45 | & composure | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & isolation(381-2), & symbiotic love(370) | ||
Missing Out | A. Phillips | & I can do what I like to you because we both know that you will never leave me(65) | |||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig | Ch.20 | & demonization of sexuality(99-100), as expression of destructive side(98), & fantasies of, as expression of individuation(97), & intoxication w/ power(98), & masochism(98), & objectifying partner (98), & shadow(98) | ||
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | P. 227 | & when nursing a negative state, lashes out | |
Development, and | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & ALE(72)(163), & divided self(124), & ego(72), & fantasy life(72) (163), & oral ego(74)(163), & persecution of LE by ALE(189), & repression of(148), & self-hate(190), & sex roles(256), & superego (182) | |
Envy & Gratitude | M. Klein | & aggression(41), & anxiety in children(41), towards the breast(2) (63)(68)(183), & destructive impulses(133-4), & envy(176)(183) (186), & greed(62), & guilt(44), & incorporation(6), & introjection (67), & male castration fear(45), on mother(8)(68), & Oedipus complex(80), & oral vs anal(68), & projective identification(69) (143) | |||
The Selected Klein | J. Mitchell | & anxiety(96), & defence against(97), & destruction of Mothers body (96), & introjection(116)(124), & Oedipus(110-1), & oral/ anal(96), & phantasy(96), as source of danger(97), & splitting(181), & symbol formation(101-2) | |||
Fear of Death, and | The Denial of Death | E. Becker | & being bound to object in dependency whether one needs object as source of strength, in M way or needs it to feel ones own self-expansive strength, in S way(165), & both techniques for experiencing forceful self-feeling, gives intensity(246), & M comes naturally to man as is naturally a sufferer small, pitiful, weak, a passive taker who tucks himself naturally in a beyond of superior, awesome, all-embracing power(244), & M doesnt want pain, wants to be able to control it as way of taking anxiety of life & death & terror of existence & congealing them into small dosages(246), & most people respond secretly to S/M fantasies because represents perfect appropriateness of our energies as well as limitations to dominate nature or surrender to it(245), & S natural activity drive toward experience, mastery, pleasure, need to take(244), & S/M combo perfect formula for transmuting fear of death into source of pleasure(246), & S/M a natural complementarity of polar opposites reflects the general human condition, normal mental health(245), & S/M ultimately belittling because in power of another who cannot be like God(247) | ||
Intersubjective, and | Psychoanalysis of Developmental Arrests | R. Stolorow | See Index | & empathy w/(41), & feeling if being alive by identifying w/ pain of victim(39), & grandiosity through exercise of extravagant power(39-40), & masochist as victim or trouble maker(41), & narcissistic vulnerability(40-1), & orgasm(41-2), & primitiveness of aggression (40-1), & restoring ideal Mother imago in victim(39), & self-authentication(39) | |
Normal Marital, and | Passionate Marriage | D. Schnarch |
| when avoiding own development(305), & denying hateful side(310) (321), as emotional fusion(301), & enjoying inflicting problems on partner(312), & gifts that arent quite right(313), & mercy fucking (313), & withholding while acting like we want to please(309) | |
Therapy, and | The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | P. 162 | & victims of abuse | |
Satisfaction | Missing Out | A. Phillips | See Index | & development as ongoing transition from sensual satisfaction of vital needs & accompanying pleasure to questions of fairness, fidelity & knowledge(154), & 2 disillusionments: what satisfies you is in gift of someone else(→ envy) & is available to someone else before you(→ jealousy)(167)& fantasies of _ where we hide from possibility of real _(140-1), & frustration borne only through a picture of(166-7), as happened in our minds before we are satisfied as form of truth(137), & need pictures of to make bearable our desiring(141), & a picture of = a flight from wanting(139-40), & revenge(158-9) | |
Saturn | The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | See Index | & depression(207), & desire(106-8) | |
Men, and | Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | See Index | & absence of fun(104), & compensation(25), & confronting anger (118), & fear of not measuring up(24), & longing for father(85-6), & loss of self-esteem(75), & myth of(10-1), & power complex(23)(25), & repeating fathers pattern(119), & shadow of(13), & work(14), & work, war & worry(15) | |
Scaffolding | Attachment Theory, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | of childs emerging abilities to communicate eg putting into words & then asking to use own words(105)(108), & upgrading T dialogue to higher levels of awareness & complexity(198) |
Scanning | The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | & checking back(55)(61), & games w/ Mother(221), & hyper alertness(153) | ||
Schemas | Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | of anxious persons(111), as basic unit of experience(78), as building blocks of cognition(75), as censor(106), & determining what will & will not be noticed(80)(106), & diversionary(107), & family self (165-8)(171), & fear as activating(82), as filter of perception (106-7) , & groupthink(158)(162)(164)(186), & language as audible schemas(200), as organizing dynamic of knowledge(77), as packets that organize info. & make sense of experience(75), of paranoid (139), as our private theory of the nature of reality(76), & reaching an understanding(156), & scripts/frames(198), & self as set of(96), & sharing defensive schemas(156), & social acts as visible schemas(200), & social roles(207), & stereotypes(188-9), & threat to self-concept(100) | |
Schizoid Personality/ Compromise | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | All + Con. Notes | ||
Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | Ch. 2-4 | & affect, behaviour & cognition of(59-67), & aggression(147-8), & anxiety(151), & bodywork w/(136-46), & countertrans. w/(83-4), & dealing w/ defences(108-22), & energetic expression(68-72), & etiology(56-8), & games of(129-35), & sadness(153-9), & therapeutic objective(65)(72-80), & therapeutic techniques w/(86-9)(94-108 ) (126-9) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & description of(Ch. 9), & withdrawal(100) | ||
Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | & defences(18-20), & depressive position(76), & object relations(12-4), & splitting(10)(66) | ||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & defences(119), & mental world of(63), vs normotic(152), & regression in analysis(24), & search for transformational object(22) | |||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | & anxieties of(75), & creating external world within(75), & description of(17), & FS system(73), & indifference(76), & inner self of(94), & petrification(112), & self as unembodied(73), & self-consciousness of(107), & self-scrutiny(112), & vulnerable to look of other(76) | |||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | vs borderline(121), & compromise(121), & fantasy as defence(121), & love(111), & overriding anxiety(121), & relationships of(121) (127-8), & self-in-exile(121), & symptoms of(121) | |||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | & connection between inner & outer(221), & creativity as defence (80-3), & deprivation(68), & description of(72-3), & divorce between thinking & feeling(73), & emotion pertaining to(67), & exhibitionistic trends(81), & fearing love as much as hate(81), as introverted(75), & loving/being loved(73)(83), & meaning in things(73), & phantasy(75-6), & remoteness(69), & sense of futility(73)(83), & weakness/ omnipotence paradox(74) | |||
Churchills Black Dog | A. Storr | Ch.2 | & Kafka | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | See Index | & dissociation(67) | ||
Body, and | The Betrayal of the Body | A. Lowen | All | ||
The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | Ch.17 | & behaving as if(369), & body of(372-3)(378)(383), & body-mind unity(372), & eyes of(378), & hate(380-1), & hatred of Mother(379-80), & internal tenseness/external quiet(374), & relation to reality (371), & resistance in therapy(386-7), & response to affection/ freeze(371), & sex(376), & therapy w/(387) | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & as-if masking perpetual longing to be released from demands of living & to be @ peace(100), & char. detachment(102), & dialogue about client rather than analysis of client(58), & Cs becoming a cocoon(193-5), & ext. world as preverbal horror(101), & feeling real in a real world(107), & frame of ref. as int. dialogue(59), & generating a single concrete reality(9)(55), & helplessness(104-5), & generating sufficient anxiety to allow clients sense of mastery in regulating it w/o client detaching(100), & int. or ext. exp. that could not be regulated felt as threat to self-esteem & stability of core identity(101), & keeping int. world from being ext. rearranged & making it personally interesting & cozy(9), & lack of dev. of initiative & assertiveness ie passivity(102), & lack of spontaneity & sense of continuity(9)(55), & manipulating fantasy in service of securing a sense of control over inner world(99), & manipulating perception of ext. reality w/o the exp. of actually participating in it(55), & mental state a chronic hopelessness about feeling real in the world of the here & now(59), & need for an absorbing errand to bring him out of inner world(56-9), & participant observation(56-7), & play-acting to conceal ever present helplessness & dread(109), as psychopathology of stability(202), & raw feelings exp. as not-me & anxiety provoking(101), & regression as threat(102), & risk of loss of definite selfhood through depersonalization & derealisation(202), & schizoid compromise as fundamental quality of working alliance(99-100)(203), & security of feeling able to prevent or escape from threatening exp.(102), & showing rather than giving(108), & T trying to extract client from inner world(61), & T underlining moments of detachment (110), & theres nothing new to talk about today(68), & a tightly regulated bal. between relatedness & detachment(99), & trauma (100), & turning away from full emotional involvement(109), & use of free ass.(58-9) | |
Depressive vs | Comparison of Depressive and Schizoid Aspects from a Guntripian Perspective | N. Diamand | Papers | ||
Ghostline Personality, and | Forces of Destiny | C. Bollas | Ch.6 | & abortion that includes womb(133), & alternative object vs transitional object(118-9)(130)(134)(141-2), & alternative object world(129-30), & description of(125)(140), & destiny drive(139), & eviscerative projective identification(136-7), & inner world as secret (132), over exploitation of imagining(128-9), vs normotic(132), & paranoid schizophrenia(133), & 3 pathways to alternative world (130), & shock @ being cathected(135), & transference(130)(138-9), & TS as phantom(128) | |
Therapy with | The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | Ch. 12 | & alienation from body(138), & autonomy through isolation(132) (141), & avoidance of spontaneity(142), & day-dreams(51), & intellectualisation(138), & intimacy(3 types)(131-4)(141), & lack of capacity to identify(107), & long term therapy(160), & masturbation /pornography(51-2), & mood of apathy/futility(130), & needs as unimportant(140), & persona of(140), & phantasy(136), & phobias (137), & sadomasochistic sexual fantasies(137-8) | |
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & hysteric attracted to(215), & selective inattention(62) | ||
Schizophrenia | The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | as automaton vs scientist(166), & evil(173), & family systems(71) (240), & identity development(240), & intensification of symptoms by standard psychiatry(71), & loss of conventional social filters(97), & metanoia(97), & parental infantilising(99), & social intelligibility of symptoms(71), & theories of(238-9) | ||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | & anima/animus(224), & big dream(65), & collective unc of(15-6), & fantasy world(55), & Jung as one of 1 st to treat(15), & mandala (235-6), & paranoia(40-2), & personality fragmentation(14)(40), & sexuality not only etiology of(16-7) | |||
Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | See Index | & inability to make use of verbal interpretations(62-3)(65-6), & origin of(141-2), & mothers refusal to contain projective identifications(140), vs neurotic conflict(143, & non-experience (147-50)(186-92), & projective identification(140), & theory of(166-9), & T stage of psychotic experience(157-61), & use of symbols to create meaningful experience from perception(140)(202), & violent projective identification(152-5)(197) | ||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & abnormality in endorphin system(34-5), & avoiding eye contact & face-to-face engagement in infancy, earliest symptoms of(147), as distracted by own background thoughts & mental associations(33), & double-bind theory(154-5) | |||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | P.108-9 | |||
The Divided Self | R. Laing | All | |||
Sanity, Madness and the Family | R. Laing | ||||
The Language of the Body | A. Lowen | Ch.16 | & attitude of terror(355), & death of body(360), & depersonalization (340-1)(365), & eyes of(366-7), & feelings of deprivation(356), & fundamental split between aggression & eros(348), & hallucination (351), & hate(385-6), & id/ego reality(343-4)(347), & incorporation (355), & intense need for contact(355), & lack of aggression(351) (355), & lack of ego identification(349), & motility(383), & sexual discharge(354), as victim of homosexual(355-6), & warmth of therapist(356)(387), & weakness of muscular system(349) | ||
Envy & Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | & confusion(304), & defences of early ego(2), & defences against envy(219), & disintegration(5)(10), & excessive envy(192), & loneliness(300)(304), & paranoid/schizoid position(253), & persecutory/depressive anxiety as fixation point for(120), & persecutory fears(2), & primary anxiety of annihilation(5), & projection/introjection(11), & splitting(9-10), & use of symbols(138), & withdrawal(304) | ||
Death Anxiety, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.148-52 | ||
The Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & attempt of symbolic self to deny limitations of finite body(76), & burdened w/ extra anxieties, guilt, helplessness(63)(217), & deprived of neurological-cultural security against death(219), & feelings of magical omnipotence & immortality a reaction to terror of death(218), & feels dread of death more than anyone else because not been able to build confident defenses person normally uses to deny them(63), & has to be a hero almost entirely ideationally(76) (219)(221), & has to contrive extra-ingenious & extra-desperate ways of living that will keep him from being torn apart by experience(63), as not enough built into his world(76)(78), & not surely seated in body, no secure base(63)(218-9), & persons character a defense against despair, an attempt to avoid infinity because of the real nature of the world(63), & psychotic uses blatantly same thought-defenses most people use wishfully(218), as a result of inability to shut out terror, failure to confidently deny mans real situation on this planet(63), & the right reaction to horrors of organismic life on this planet is the psychotic one(217-8), & in _ symbolic self & physical body uninterrupted(76)(218)(220), & _ takes risk of evolution to its furthest point in man(219) | ||
Screen Memories | Cracking Up | C. Bollas | See Index | & definition of(135), & small details(141)(144-5) | |
Secrets | Helpers, and | The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | See Index | & ambivalent approach-avoidance quality to revealing(97), & burnout-prone individual(116), & concealing personal information that we perceive as neg.(99), & concern about ones competence(111), & confiding as healing effect(95), & decision to conceal or reveal reflects our feelings about other person & relationship(97), & desire to maintain ones esteem in eyes of others(97), & discrepancy between Ts real & idealized images of self as helper(118), & distancing from clients(110), & every child proud of having one(96), & fallacy of uniqueness(109), & feeling like an imposter(112), & high self-concealers report more depression, anxiety & physical symptoms(95)(191), & one-way giving(114-5), & secrets strengthen identity & add sense of excitement(96), & stress, avoidance, guilt sequence(111), & terror of error(112), & unspoken anger(113) |
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | as act of thought suppression(196), as char. of emotional affair(31), from children(330), & creating barriers(13)(25), as evoking feelings of being shut out(324), & feeling isolated(46), as fuelling obsession(140), & hiding old romances(196), & hiding past trauma(269), & internet infidelity(35-7), as measure of rel. as friendship or affair(46) | ||
Self | Hope & Dread | S. Mitchell | in analysis(59)(78-9)(83)(121)(137)(210), & authentic/inauthentic (130-1)(138), & capacity to be alone(112), & continuity of(107-9), & false(23), as integral(107-10), & language(105)(111-2)(120), & memory(76), & personal(111), & regression(141-2), & self as subject t(112), & self-definition(113-4), & self-expression(132-3)(147), & self-reflection(111)(132)(146), & singular vs multiple(101-2)(104-5 ) (107)(114-7), & spacial metaphors in experiencing(138-40), & true/ core(130)(134)(150) | ||
Cracking Up | C. Bollas | Ch.6 | as aesthetic intelligence(166), & belief in(163), of client in analysis (157)(170-2), & dreams(178), vs ego(167), & God within(165), & inspired ideas(162), & kernel of(151), & knowing by forgetting(156) (169), & linguistic partnership(150), & me(152), as object to sense (spirit of place)(164-5), & self-experiencing(154)(157)(160), & sense of(154)(162-3), & sources of sense of(173), & theory of internal objects(147-9), & unthought(176) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & anger against(278), as big obstacle to spiritual life(49), & deeper imagination of(10), & eternal unfolding & practical _(35), & interest in(224-5), & justification of(298), & self-destructiveness(244) | ||
The Art of Loving | E. Fromm | P.111-2 | & unchangeable core | ||
Going on Being | M. Epstein | See Index | & depressed people think they know themselves but maybe they only know depression(xv), & feeling bad about oneself a bottomless pit(xv), & feeling of I am not(85), m& intrinsic reality instinct-to see a false & absolute identity in people & things(xix)(24)(81), & learning to be(6), & nobody=clinging to nonbeing-self-abnegating, empty(xix)(6), & = not something or nothing but unique, singular & relational process-spontaneous, creative & responsive(6), & problem lies in self-certainty(6), & psychological emptiness(83)(86-7)(135), & reacting as somebody or nobody obscures awareness(6), & splitting(9), & somebody=clinging to being-self-centred, proud(xix)(6), & spontaneous sense of going on being provides home base feeling of self, a basis of normal feeling & feeling normal(90), & unworthiness(66), & when people believe they are their problems, often a desire to pick away @(xv) | ||
Abused, and | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & compassion for traumatized(204), & connection w/ caretaker(52), & damage to basic structure of(56), & debased vs exalted(106), & developing sense of, in abusive environment(101), & false(110)(205), & fragmentation of(107), & injury to(109), & methods of psychological control(77), & mourning of(197), & performing self (105), & rebuilding of, w/ others(61)(65-6), & re-creation of ideal (202-4), & secret, true(105), & self-blame(103-4), & self-esteem(63) (213), & self-soothing(166), & traumatic life events(51) | |
Archetypal, and | The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | as archetype of unity & totality(20)(242)(332), as centre of gravity (19), & Christ as nearest analogy of(299-300), & Eastern vs Western view(258)(267-8), vs ego(237), as goal of psychic development(234), as God within(20)(229)(329), as integrating factor(229), & mandala (20)(235-7), as paradoxical(269), & self-knowledge(91)(113)(351-3) (369)(372), & self-regulation(17-8)(167)(181) | |
Breakdown of, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | & aim of ego=get self through the present into whatever is to come(78), & alliance w/ healthy parts of(44)(105-6), & attack on (84), & both forms of provision external from parents & internal from growing ego essential to development of(44), & collapse of false(55), & hidden ideal(17), & interests of ego & those of self @ odds(69), & moment of self-fragmentation=moment of coming together inside self(69), & past as raw lived experience of(68), & reconstructing the many histories of(68-9), & signal/primary anxiety (28), & thought saturated in selfs truth(59)(78) | ||
Development, and | The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | See Index | & agency(76-84), & differentiation of self & other(69-70)(75)(101-2)(104-11), & emergent self(37-68), & 4 experiences needed to organize a sense of core _(70-2), & integrated sense of(69-70), & language(171-4), & progression of sense of(26-34), & self-effectivity (89-94), & self-coherence(82-9), & sense of core(10)(70), & 4 senses of self(11), & subjective self(124-61), & verbal self(162-82) | |
Dissociation, and | Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | & capacity to feel like one self while being many(61), & essence of evil assaults on(177), & function of self to anticipate & avoid evil(177), & highest priority for human survival as a _(177), & new words about(52-3), & selfhood id life & overrides all else(177) | ||
Domains of | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & emotional(63-4), & mindful(67-8), & reflective(67-8), & representational(64-7), & somatic(62) | |
Ego State Theory, and | Ego States: Theory and Therapy | H/J. Watkins | & cathexis expenditure(23-4), & dissociation(43), & executive ego (26)(33), in utero(223), & introject(16), & object vs ego cathexis(14) (16)(19), & splitting(68), & resonance of analyst(215)(227), & self-concept(80) | ||
Genera , and | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & analysts simple/complex(102-3)(106), & being a character(64-5), & cruising(154)(156-7), & doubling(199), & dream life(13), & evocation of(45), & expression of(48), & the Fascist mind(198) (203), & interpretation(44), & jouissance of(17)(53), & object selection(4) (19)(29)(58), & preserved self state(19), & self-experiencing(25)(94) (110)(138-9), & self-preservation as response to genocide(216), & self-traumatization(241), & simple/complex (15)(27)(53)(153), & solitude of(45), & 4 stages of self-experiencing(31), & transformation of _ to it(160) , as unc(51), & unc ego(42) | |
Intersubjective, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | as particular subjective organization of exp. characterized by a sense of coherence & continuity(23), & positive as characterized by a sense of unity & cohesion, continuity over time, agency & affect states of vitality & healthy self-esteem(23) | ||
Men, and | Why Men are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | & self-listening(140-3), & self-sufficiency(299) | ||
Narcissistic, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & bad self(shame)(107), & false(98), & 1 st expression of shame(41), from grandiosity to a reality based _(41-2), & lacking a realistic sense of(xvii), & managing feelings @ 10-12 & 16-18mths.(40-1)(45) (110), & pseudomature child(56-7) | |
as Object | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & dreaming self(76-7), & ego structure(50-2)(59-60), as history of internal relations(9-10), & intrasubjective vs dreams(46-7)(52), & intrasubjective space(43-5), & intrasubjective space as maternal care system(45)(51)(59-60), & law of talion(166), & narrative relation to self(60-1), & psychoanalysis w/(42)(62), & schizoid(63), & self management(43)(48-9), & subvocal conversation as object relation (42), & unthought known(46)(60) | |
Relationships, and | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & definition of(16), & diminished sense of(26), vs ego(31), & false (29)(106), & love of Other(70), as unknowable(16) | |
Schizoid, and | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & ego(194)(241)(382)(395)(397), & freed from internal persecutor (195), & grown-up self in therapy(297)(337), & inner core of, in isolation(238), & schizoid lack of real(129)(238), & self-realization (194)(267), & self-sufficiency(43) | ||
Schizoid/ Schizophrenic, and | The Divided Self | R. Laing | All | ||
Therapy, and | The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | See Index | & playfulness(118-9), & self-mystification(15) | |
Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | P.167 | & self-justification | ||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & attributes of(99), & compensatory structure(44), & conflicts(45), & defect in(4)(70), & fear of destruction of(18), & healthy(70), & nuclear(8-9), of oedipal child(24), & relation w/ selfobject(52), & self analysis(154-5), & self development through therapy(6)(45) (77)(99-100)(207)(209), & self-esteem(67)(77), & self-preservation(143), & structural completeness(5)(217), & structure of(78)(99) | ||
Gestalt Therapy | F. Perls | See Index | as actualization of potential(437-8), a contact boundary(276-7), & creative adjustment as essential function of(291), & resistance of(426-9) | ||
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | See Index | as difference from Mother(160-1), & sacrifice of parts of(12)(23) (35), & self-authentication(49), & self-awareness(91), & self-confidence (190), & self-consciousness(91), & self-control(164), & self-criticism (91), & self-defence(232), & self-discipline(164), & self-doubt(31), & self-esteem(92), & self-knowledge(203), & self-loathing(65), & self-perfection(65), & self-protection(91, & self-respect(203), & true(93) | |
Dance of Anger | H. Lerner | & anger preserving g integrity of(1)(6-7)(90)(102)(104), & defining as he defines her(28), de-selfing(20)(28)(70)(199), & expert of _ vs other(102), & family history(36)(118), & guilt & self-doubt(6-7) (112-3), & having a rel. more important than(6)(16)(20)(24), & I messages(88)(90), & position of relative weakness(23), & protecting stronger sex from strength of weaker sex(22), & responsibility for other(30), & self-assertion & separateness(26)(35-6), & self-sacrifice(28), & underfunctioning/overfunctioning(21-2), & urge to merge(30) | |||
Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | & how many in psyche(503), & separation from Wild Woman(9-10), & soul-self(293)(295) | ||
Self-Acceptance | Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & health as not integration but as capacity to feel like oneself while being many(186) | |
Self-Actualization | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & guilt(279-80), & isolation(399), & meaning(437-40) | |
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & agency(20)(50)(10-12), & cannot always accommodate one another w/o violating own needs & wishes(5), & constantly threatens A(20), & degrees of freedom within relationship(41), of desire(254), vs dominance/submission(37), & experienced as both thwarted & fulfilled w/ intimate others(9), & hope to become who they have not yet become & emancipation of selfish perspective(8-9), & how do 2 authentic selves coexist in which _ is respected? (237), & impact of culture & agenda on(110), & invariant organizing principles(40), & listening for selfobject longings & their failure(43), & longing to accomplish something incomplete in their upbringing to fulfill what has felt deficient or repair what has felt fundamentally broken(8)(237), & paradox of ie selfhood embedded in selfhood of other(29)(146), & pathological accommodation undermines(40), & perspectival realism(11), & perversion of agency as deviation in agency that undermines(128), & perversion of agency as way of facilitating(128)& press of enlivens marriage(9), & repetitive, dreaded, resistive dimension of each partners Unc models of transference(43)(50)(127), & results in bursts of self-assertion necessitating ruthlessness(15), vs self-truncation(146), & T captures what is @ stake in(48)(240), & thirdness(183)(188), & threat that undermines mutual recognition through pervasive mutual negation(147), vs unburdening a guilty conscience(242), & understanding relationship between Unc organization & Cs apprehension of inner & outer world experience formative in developing sense of(34), & unearthing unformulated versions of self that interfere w/(96)(127), & working out strategies to protect from family & culture(163) | |
Self-Affirmation | The Courage to Be | P. Tillich | See Index | & affirmation of death(169), & anxiety of non-being(66)(77), & compulsive(151), & courage as the universal & essential _(3)(20) (32), & despair(55)(66), & divine _(180-1), as essential nature of every being(23), & faith(172), & fate(120), & fear(36-9)(78), & healer representing objective power of _(165), of individual self (120-1), & joy(14), of life(26-8), & love(22), & moral(52-3), & neurosis (66-9)(79), & overcoming something that threatens or denies the self (25-6)(45)(155), as participation in the universal act of _(23-4), & power of being(181), & 2 sides of(86-8)(91)(155), & spiritual(47), & subject of(86-7), vs submissive self(29), & virtue(21) | |
Self-as-Object | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & contempt an attack on the other as _(151), & experienced in dialectical tension w/ self-as-subject experiencing oneself as subject & reflecting on oneself as object(149), & Me= _, constituted by the persons self-concept. all that one could know about oneself though ones own observations or though feedback from others (148), & stuck in extreme position of _=unable to experience own sense of agency or vitality, consumed w/ accommodating others (149) | |
Self-as-Subject | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & stuck in extreme position of _ presents w/ a great deal of grandiosity & entitlement, incapable of recognizing others as also being subjects of agency & initiative, just extensions(149), & when we speak from position of I(149) | |
Self-Assertion | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & fear of retaliation as obstacle to(120), as grounded in conviction that ones thoughts, needs & feelings are valid(120), & indirect transf. of rage into _(64)vs rage(63), & self-delineating selfobj. exp. precursor of(120) | |
Self, Authentic | Going on Being | M. Epstein | & going on being=uninterrupted flow of(11-2)(136) | ||
Self-Awareness | The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | See Index | & being present(212), & bodys state(40), & differentiating mental activity from awareness itself(258), & earning security(71), & experiencer vs observer/narrator(113), & making sense of your life(63)(70-1)(113), & memory(63-4), & mindfulness(71)(113)(212) (258), & narrative(65), & receptive vs reactive state(35)(81), & reflecting on A history(67)(71-2), & requires integration(71)(211-3), & resonance(60)(71)(212), & self-compassion(47)(84)(212)(233), & sharing(47)(196), & trust(75), & wheel of awareness(258), & window of tolerance(51-3)(60)(69-70)(212) | |
Self, Caretaker | Going on Being | M. Epstein | See Index | & childs awareness held hostage to mothers need(79), & feelings break open(101), & interrupts childs own continuity(11), & overly mental, super-rational approach to life(101), & papers over empty, unworthy self(87), as reactive mode that removes her from her own experience forcing her to cope prematurely w/ needs of others(11), & reacts to the needs of the parents but gets in the way of self-knowledge & self-discovery, spontaneity & daring(79) | |
Self-Cohesion | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | as 1 characteristic of self(23), as 1 motivator to maintain organization of exp.(23-4) | |
Self, Cognitive | Self-Relations, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | & accessing(136-7), & centering(10)(64), & development of(14-5), & flow(9-10), & functions of(60), & impotence of language(40), & intensity level of(144-5), & neglected self(136), & problem-defined self(67), & relational self(15-6)(152), vs somatic self(15)(21)(152), & 3 types of relationship w/ relational self(152-3) |
Self-Contempt | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & alleviate w/ love of others(136-7), & apologetic behaviour(133), & attractiveness & intelligence(137), & 4 consequences of(133-7), as directed against any striving for improvement(132), & dreams (224), as expression of self-hate(132), a frustration of self-respect (141), & regarding others as offenders(136), & self-destruction (152), & sexual activities as vehicle to drain(301), & taking too much abuse(136), as undermining self-confidence(132), & weakness(137) | |
Self-Continuity | Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | & need to maintain in context of moment-to-moment change in env. through normal diss.(4), & parental failure to render strange into what is engagingly novel or familiar traumatically disrupts infants continuity of being(154), & process of diss. becomes dissociative structure to preserve self-continuity in face of pending traumas(5) (68), & psychological _ plays a role that is as central for survival of humans as biological self-continuity for animals(405)(113), & self-continuity preserved within each state vs overarching patterning of me-ness(5), & self-unity, the mysterious force that holds selfhood together & permits the coexistence of self-continuity & self-coherence across self-states, is made possible by what happens between people(27), &, in trauma, surrendering self-state coherence to protect _(68), & when threatened turns future into version of past danger(5) | ||
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | & change(39), & dissociated self-states when experience invalidated as real by mind of significant other→ rupturing a relational connection that organizes childs sense of(43), & w/ dissociation, self-continuity is preserved within each state but self-coherence across states is sacrificed(161), & enacted reliving of past developmental trauma experienced as threatened loss of _ in present(139), & evolutionary function of dissociation to assure survival of _ by limiting reflective function to a minor role(15)(43) (49-50), & experience of loss of needed person as separate other provoking annihilation anxiety(180), & minds fundamental ability to shift between different self-states w/o losing self-continuity makes it possible for someone to use anothers self-states as part of their own(169), & preservation of as highest evolutionary priority (58), & risk to _ of hope(21), & sacrifice of creative spontaneity in service of(21), & self-reflection underwrites self-continuity through fostering the illusion of something emerging(153), & staying the same to preserve(38-9)(139), & trauma disrupts or threatens(13)(49-50) | |
Self-Deception | Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | All | ||
Self-Defect | Intersubjective, and | Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | P.61-6 | |
Self- Destructiveness | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & accidental body damage(150), & alienation from self(149), & bad habits(148), as culmination of self-hate(148), & directed against body(148), & dreams(152), & imaginative impulses(148-9), & inopportune accidents(150), & moral determination(151), & organic illness(150), & reaction to realization of(153), of shoulds (118) (120), & spoiling every chance(151), & suicide(148), as Unc. & actualized in recklessness(149), in work(317) | |
Self-Differentiation | Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | & depends on extent to which our emotions meet w/ attuned responsiveness(45), & denying to make connection possible(133), as replacing the more abstract notion of independence or autonomy as goal of T(41), & transient loss of in self-transcendence(149) | |
Self-Discipline | The Road less Traveled | S. Peck | P.15-78 | & balancing(64-7), & dedication to truth(44-6)(51)(56)(63), & delayed gratification(19-20)(25-6)(29)(31), & discipline of parents (23-4), & feeling of being valuable(24), & honesty(63), & responsibility(36-9)(43-4), as self-caring(24), & self-examination (37) (51), & time(28), as tool to solve lifes problems(15-8) | |
Self-Disclosure/ Self-Revelation | Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | P.148-58 | of feelings(151-2)(156), & guidelines for(150) | |
On Knowing and Being Known | L. Aron | All, CTP99-00 | as act of freedom, & concrete vs symbolic, & expression vs elusiveness, & self-revelation, & suggestion, & varieties of | ||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | See Index | & acknowledging errors, vulnerability & limitations(230)(333), & affective(230), & clients impact on T(230-1), to counteract T omnipotence(231)(333), & demonstrating Ts willingness to share difficult, intense affective exp.(333), & exploring reactions to(232), & used to short-circuit clients defensiveness(333) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | as act of freedom(261), & degree to which T is free of int. pressure to prove honesty or trustworthiness(261)(265), as genuine relational negotiation(264-5), & gratification(264), & I need you to be yourself while recognizing what I am feeling(263), & living with the clients state of mind in whatever form it presents itself (267), & potential as act of meaning(261)(294), & quality of its genuineness as a human act(261-2), & T admitting he does not know(294), & Ts act of recognition is embodied in his willingness to make his own state of mind explicit by putting it into words(265)(294) | |
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index (A-M) | & actively inquiring into clients reactions to T self-revelation= responsibility of _(105), & addressing moment-to-moment impact of Ts efforts & not disregarding here-&-now effects of T behaviour (104), & being candid id a natural part of negotiating what constitutes useful acknowledgement &, in the process, the 2 partners learn that their confrontations do not lead to their breaking apart & relational ruptures are reparable(149), & boundary between personal & professional becomes dramatically permeable during enactments & must become so for self-growth(19-20), & cannot know ahead how much is enough vs too much but growth comes from painful effort to relationally negotiate its usefulness(20)(139), & client confrontation w/ Ts self-revelatory exp. as affectively safe only within the window of the clients capacity to process the evoked affect cognitively(135), & clients pressure to force T to give up his right to privacy organized not only by need to know T but by wish to know what T knows about client but has dissociated(104)(145), & implications of not revealing as significant as when T does(144), as ingredient in source of T action that advances T climate of affective honesty(134), & = intrusiveness only if frame of reference is that of T trying to change client vs T sharing his exp. to facilitate goal of intersubjective negotiation(132-3)(135) | ||
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index (N-Z) | & not trying to get client to accept T subjectivity as substitute for clients reality(105)(135), & respecting clients need for privacy & clients new ability to take charge of it as his own as client relates to T within a more coherent exp. of selfhood(78)(147), & revealing personal biographical info. in response to a deeply felt sense it will deepen an ongoing affectively alive relational context (vs creating one)-it must spontaneously arrive in the Ts mind as part of the moment(145-6), & right to reveal T subjectivity is earned by struggling w/ own limitations ie he cannot, alone, find the right response(135), & self-revelation not a self-granted license to tell it like it is-Ts subjective experience does not tell him what is really going on(140-1), & stance of avoiding collisions of subjectivities eventually experienced by client as disconfirming (134), & T must authentically believe clients knowing will facilitate clinical process(135), & T not feeling personally impact of the dissociative parts of clients self that are trying to find relational existence(134), & T shown to be involved w/ affective impact of his openness & demonstrates the involvement as an intrinsic aspect of what he is revealing in his _(129), & Ts availability to having the client enter his mind in a personal way is soothing vs technique (104), & Ts existence as a real person necessary(131-2), & Ts feelings about his client are not his personal property because part of an unsymbolized context within which T & client hold pieces that are linked subsymbolically but not yet by language(137-9), & the Ts revealing is often a relief to the client even if it opens up rage & painful feelings, because it makes things clear & leads to increased self-reflectiveness(136), & value of hinges on whether it is an act of authentic sharing-showing where one stands-rather than a means of exerting control over relationship & what client is feeling or thinking(104-5) | ||
Existential T, and | The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | See Index | & T as infallible(324), & T transparency(417-8)(420)438-9) | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & here & now feelings(411-5) | ||
Intersubjective, and | Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | P.28-34 | ||
Religion, and | Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Religious Beliefs and Self-Disclosure | AJP Summer 98 | P.273-285 | & 4 criteria for evaluating therapeutic technique & aims(275), & frustration/gratification continuum(284), & identification(274-5), & 4 principles of therapy(277), & religion(280), & supportive vs exploratory therapy(279), & types of(283), & 4 types of disclosure questions(.283) | |
Sexuality, and | Between the Disclosure and Foreclosure of Erotic Transference-Countertransference | J. Davies | All, CTP99/00 | & Oedipal | |
Self-Effacement | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & accepting defeat(236), & no Cs feeling of pride(216)(223), & cultivation of helplessness & suffering(215-6)(225)(236), & deep feelings(222-3), & dreams(224), & etiology of(221-2), & expectations of others(226-8), & externalization of self-hate & self-contempt (116) (215-6)(231), & fear of ridicule(220), & fear of triumph(217), & feeling abused(230-2), & genuine vs fake friendship(226), & guilt (215)(223), & idealized lovable qualities (222), & love of aggressive qualities in others(220), & martyrdom (222), & morbid dependency (243-5), & need for others(226-8), & own opinions(320), & refusal to believe in intent to deceive(227), & resolution of conflict by moving towards(221), & selfishness (218), & self-minimizing(225-6), & shoulds(76-7), & suffering as basis for claims(228-9)(234-5), & suppression of expansive drives(216), in T guilt(228)(233), & unavowed hostility(219)(233-4), as unlovable, stupid, underdog(223), & value in currency of love(220)(227-8), as victimized(223)(231), & work(316-7) | |
Self-Esteem | The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | See Index | & authenticity based on feelings vs qualities(39), & character of(33-4), & definition of(33) | |
The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | P. 97-100 | & depression | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & defensiveness(97), & hysterics(311), & limits on personality change(148), & manics(250-1), & narcissism(168)(177)(180), & neurotics(69), & OCD(291), & Of what is this person afraid? & How vulnerable is this persons self-esteem?(36), & schizoid(196), & self-psychology(35-6) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & absence of Mother(125-6), & compliance(96), & creative work as source of(154), & depression(96), & external sources of(96), & feeling competent(126) | ||
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | & idealization by lover as ST remedy for low(260)(271), & infidelity as quest to fix internal problem(259), & lack of basic trust(98), & low=greater difficulty recovering from(97), & need to prove worthy of being loved(98)(259), & positive mirroring(170), & previous trauma(98), & sibling rivalry(98) | ||
Men, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & addictions(59), & areas of self dysregulation(276), & covert depression(44), & external props(45), and healthy(44)(181-2), & Narcissus(44-5), & performance based for boys(181-3)(275), & 5 self functions(278), as shame state(18), & unconditional regard for caretakers(182) | |
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | & adolescence(95), based on mastery vs wishful thinking(94)(195), & development of real competencies(37), & equated w/ feeling good vs doing good(177), & need to be in control to maintain _(57) | ||
Self-Forgiveness | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | for allowing self to be hurt(111-2), for hurting someone(168), & releasing from self-contempt(174), & refusing(112-3)(169), for self-destructive behaviours(111), as spiritual convalescence(165), & 5 stage model of (173-4), & too quickly(170-1) | ||
Self-Hate | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & active/passive externalization of(116-7)(208)(231), of actual self vs glorified self(110)(112)(114), & alienation from self(115)9123), & becoming Cs of(234), & drive to be tormented/humiliated(255), & 6 expressions of(117), & maintenance of self-glorification(114-5), & pact w/ devil(154), & power & tenacity of(114), & prevention of(121) (123), & pride((109)(207-8), of real self(112-3), & results of(116), & sadism(147), & self-accusations(123)(128), & self-destructive impulses(148-9), & self-torture(145-6)(148), & sex(147), & shoulds (85)(188)(120), & system of values(109), & taboos on enjoyment (141), in T(115), as Unc. process(116), & why we hate ourselves (114) | |
Self, Idealized | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & abandonment of RS(376), & the absolute(34-5), & actualization of(38)(109)(123)(377), & alienation from self(13), from being to appearing(38), & compulsivity of (38), & definition(158), & idealized image as idealized self(23), & if it were not for reality, I would be perfectly all right(37), & neurotic claims(62)(64), & neurotic pride (90), & no limitations(36), as need for feeling of identity(21-2), & need for perfection(24-5), & neurotic ambition (25), & personal character of(22), vs real & actual(112)(158), & self-glorification(22) (34)(109), & self-hate(112), & shoulds(72) (109)(215)(241), of solution to basic conflict(22-3), & system of values(109) | |
Self-Idealization | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & actualization of(24)(38), & attainment of glory(38), & compulsive character of(24)(29)(38), & feeling of identity & unity(22), & identification w/(23), & imagination(22)(29)(31), & lovable qualities(222), in love w/(194), & need for perfection(24-5), & neurotic ambition(25), & self-glorification(22)(24)(29), vs self-realization(38-9), & shift from being to appearing(38), of his solution of conflict(22-3)(176), in T(362), through idealizing others(292-3), as what he really is(23) | |
Self, Neglected | Self-Relations, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | & breathing(121), & cognitive self(136), & description of(133), & dissociation(131), & experience of, as out of control(108)(133), & false sponsors of(110), & identification w/(136), & identifying age of(133-4), & intensity level of(144-5), & localizing(133), & naming of(109-11), & relational self(131), & somatic centre of(132-3), & somatic self(110-1), & sponsoring of(68)(137)(147), & symptoms (130), & therapy w/(79)(108)(110-1)(129), & trauma(133) | |
Self Object | Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & degree of each partners ability to provide selfobject functions for the other to make for achievement of intimate, satisfying, interdependent relationship(26), & feeling of being alike twinship(114-5), & longing for minutely attuned _(52), & if not provided for individual may become hostile or depressed, feelings of fragmentation, rage & acting out(26), & 1 partners narcissistic need to make the other fir their perception of a perfect match(115), & T modelling(26-7) |
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & analyzability(71), & archaic(76)(193)(197), vs cathected object (197), & definition of(49), & empathic(18)(192), & experience in depth(49-50), & experience of You as(52), & healthy selfobject processes(47)(70)(76), & functions of analyst(70)(185), & idealizable (77), & marriage partner(220), & mature(193), & mirroring(77), & NPD(5), & oedipal(5)(14)(16)(43)(68), & pathogenic(6), & relationship between self &(52), & 2 nd attempt @ good response from (6), & successful analysis(77)(160) | ||
A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & failing of selfobject attunement & provision under all marital comp[lai8nts(42), & idealization(43), & listening for longings & repetitive dimension of 1 partner that triggers the other(43)(45)(47), & longing for developmental experiences that were missing or insufficient during formative years=challenged by dreaded repetitions of experiences of thwarted development(42), & mirroring(42-3), & not necessarily disappointment of selfobject function but lack of attunement over disappointment(49), & partners unresponsive to _ longings because do not fit w/ their normal self-centred agentic need not to provide them(49), & same longings & needs instrumental to childs development become some of central functions of couples relationship(42), & seeking responsiveness to sense of agency while scanning for how it will thwarted(51), & twinship(43) | |||
Intersubjective, and | Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | See Index | & affect tolerance(71), & analyst as(73)(86), & borderline(116-7), & caregivers affect signalling capacity(72), & caregivers verbal articulation of affects(73), & definition of(16-7)(20-1), & depression (75-6)(83), & dread to repeat(74), & failure of vs conflict(26), & integration of affect(20)(66-7), as necessary foe self love(48), & need for attuned responsiveness(66-7)(69-70), & parental misattunement (50-1)(70-1), ,k & self-consolidation(90), & self-differentiation(48)(51) (90), & self-fragmentation(21-2)(91), vs separation(48), & transmuting internalization(23), & trauma(72) | |
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | & abandonment(52-3), & admiration(5), & affect reg. function(42), & alterego(40), & centrality of affect(36-7), & couples T(28-30)(33-4)(79)(98-100), & dependency(35), & development enhancing via interpretation(22)(118-9), as experience of being deeply connected to another person who helps maintain emotional equilibrium &/or facilitates dev.(37), & family as supraordinate selfobj.(143-5), & grandiosity as hiding selfobj. longings(155), & idealizing(38-40), & inner conflict(29), & intimate rel.(36)(44)(47), & intrusion(52-3), as kind of transf. that either creates self-structure or maintains strength of a self throughout life(36), & marriage(42)(44), & mirroring(35)(38-9)(118-9), & needed transf. vs repeated(22), & parent self(160), & pervasive selfobj. failure in childhood(54), & refers to an object experienced subjectively as serving certain functions(37), & requiring _ functions from child(166-7), & self-delineating function(3-4)(42)(119)(166), & selfobj. systems vs repetitions(79-81), & shame(61), & tolerating selfobj. failures while remaining open to intimacy & growth(54)(118), & universality & normalcy of _ needs(36) | |||
Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | P.65 | & transference | ||
Self, Observer | Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | P.134-137 | ||
Self-Pity | Love, and | Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | vs assuming responsibility for the other(154), & culpability as exchange for(155), vs guilt(155), & implicit accusations of(167), as interpersonal coercion(170-1), & pathos(167-70), & pitifulness as victimology & self-pity(169-71), & pity as tension between identification & differentiation(166), as private arrangement(167), & split of ourselves as subject & object(165)(167), & taking responsibility for ones failings(155), as victimization in romance (147 )(155) |
Self, Real/ Realization | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & acorn to oak tree(17)(308)(377), vs actual self(158), & alienation from(13)(21)(155)(157)(171)(173), & conflict w/ pride system(112) (166), & description of(17)(157-8), & feeling of identity(21), vs idealized self(23-4)(39)(107)(377), & self-hate directed @(112), & T(348)(364) | |
Self-Reference | Dissociation, and | Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | & in order for what is dissociated to become symbolized in Cs awareness a link must be made between the mental representation of the event & a mental representation of the self as the agent or experiencer(183), & key to Cs in _(183) | |
Self, Reflected | Relationships, and | Passionate Marriage | D. Schnarch | See Index | & differentiation(59-61), & foreplay(197), & hugging till relaxed (163)(167), & Jung:To become acquainted with oneself is a terrible shock.(341), & other validation(106)(109-10)(120), & partners sexual fantasies(242), & Someone may be a fool & not know it-but not if she or he is married.(337), & women making own eroticism for partner(279) |
Self-Reflection | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | in couples T(111-2), as recognizing patterns inherent in mobilization of old, constricting organizing principles(111) | ||
Affect, and | The Transforming Power of Affect | D. Fosha | & affective competence fundamental to(58)(60),& allows for caregiving lapses & their reparation(59), as being able to experience & regulate affects(59), as being able to shift back & forth between self & other(59), as critical in experiencing security(57), & good-enough _ engenders in child powerful sense he is deeply & lovingly understood→ developing his own capacity to reflect(51), & heightened awareness of multiple states(2162-3), as important tool of integration(268), & incorporating green-signal affects into(258), & informed by empathy & caring vs cool, detached(58), & lack of→ inability to experience Ts connection to him(89-90), as offering affective holding(58), in parents(51)(54-5)(57), & precludes need for defensive exclusion(45)(54)(60), & results in making space to feel & be, both for other & oneself(58), & shifting between reflection & experiential work(93)(100)(177), & taking ownership of process of transformation(177), as undoing of pathology(311) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & affect dysregulation→ absence of(100), & enables us to see both ourselves & other in psychological terms that go beyond mere behaviours(95), & listening to another from subject-centred listening perspective(57), & listening from other-centred perspective(57), & when what is presumed to be implicitly relationally known argued as objective truth→ absence of(100) | |
Dissociation, and | Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | & facilitating development of by enabling client to move from experiencing his enacted patterns of behaviour as person he is top experiencing these patterns as something that he does (7), & inability to _ on subjective pull of opposing affects when coherence surrendered for self-continuity→ experience of immediate subjective exp. as truth(68), & least likely to be present @ beginning of treatment when trauma pervasive(122), & must precede any attempt @ investigating conflict(7), & relaxing dissociative hypervigilance in order to _(182-3)& Ts self-revelation leading to _(136) | |
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | & development of, pat of what is achieved in T(45)(47)(153), & dissociation allows person to bypass mentally disorganizing struggle to self-reflect w/o hope of relieving pain & fear caused by destabilization of selfhood(43)(76)(140), & dissociation diminishes capacity for cognitive _ in favor of automatized emphasis on safety (15)(52), & enhancing of requires more than accurate mirroring, it requires T being himself while being a usable object(156), & experiencing another mind experiencing her mind experiencing their mind(45), & healthy suspension of(48), & inch by inch development of in areas of experience that previously foreclosed reflection vs uncovering a hidden fantasy(153), & interpretation(156-7), & mentalization(52)(156), & not-me parts must become amenable to(58), & observing ego(51)(156), & requires an ongoing dialectic between separateness & unity of self-states(48), & standing in the spaces(51), & underwrites self-continuity through fostering illusion of something emerging(153), & un thought known(153) | |
Self-Regulation | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & childhood attachment as dev. system in which mutual & _ are concurrent & complementary processes(74-5), & healthy vs unhealthy(75), & intimate rel.(77-9), & mental models of attachment, self & other formed by patterns of interaction between infant & caregiver esp. between _ & mutual reg.(73-4) | |
Self, Relational | Self-Relations, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | & agency w/ communion(58), & beingness(64), & change(22), & cognitive self(14-5), as field(23)(57), & loving sponsorship of life (43), as non-local(57), & ordinary experience of self-transcendence (23)(55)(57), & principles of(50), vs problem-defined(42)(46), as shared w/ others(16), & simultaneous existence of multiple truths (42)(45-6)(100), as somatic + cognitive(15)(152), & somatic self (152), & symptoms(74), & 3 types of relational connection(63-4), & 3 types of relationship within(152) |
Self-Respect | Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved By You? | J. Paul | via change through awareness(206), & partner(217) | ||
Self-Sacrifice | How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | & description of(21), & natural selfishness(22-3) | ||
Self, Somatic | Self-Relations, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | as archetypal(14)(109), vs cognitive self(14-5), & felt sense of(7), & How do you feel about that vs how do you feel about feeling that? (109), & identification w/(15), & identifying problem(129), & impotence of language(40), & neglected self(67)(108)(129)(147), & relational self(15)(21)(152), & self-identity(15), & sponsorship of (108), & symptoms(65), & therapy w/(15)(98-9)(152-3) |
Self-States | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & anticipation of misfortune _(132), & changes in(132), & chaos attractor state(33), & the committee of ones mind(162), & context dependent issues provoke different _(48)(135), & dissociated multiple _(22-3)(118)(127)(132)(135-6), & distributed multiple vs dissociated multiple _(166-7), & enactment of(34)(118)(135-6)(160)(192), & gender/cultural(110), & integrate experiential & observing functions(175), & intrusion of dissociated _(118-20), & meta-cognition & meta-communication create linkages between _(166), & multiplicity critical to relating to ones relational world (173), & no longer capable of maintain multiple(167), & principle of criticality triggers _(132), & principles vs positional negotiation between(170), & reflects evolutionary strategy for negotiating within oneself, tensions around separateness/relatedness, self-interest/concern(173), & repetitive transference _(74)(118-9)(160) (209), & rigidity attractor state(33), & static states of adaptive defensiveness(33), & undermine sense of agency(118-9)(127), & when one _ takes over system(33-4)(127)(162) |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & access to forms of _ to allow authentic interchange w/ subj. of others(193), & affective shift signals presence of(255), & anxiety when experiencing interface between overvalued & disavowed selves(296), & becoming integrated into a clients configuration of me-ness as a cohesive human exp.(15), & broadening perceptual range of reality(256)(284)(288), & capacity to symbolize & communicate to another person through use of language who you are vs what you want or need(57)(174), & child as(144), & dissociated(182-3)(273), & each as island of narcissism w/ own truth(296), & each w/ its own truth(278)(288), & enactment of(183)(256)(283), & feeling like one self while being many(10), & feeling of inauthenticity(198-9), & fixed patterns of relatedness (310), & genesis of(10-11)(86-8)(181)(313), & guarding against losing ones mind(35), & healthy as standing in the spaces between _(186)(195)(256)(274-5), & humanely impossible to become alive in present w/o facing & owning all hated, disavowed parts(6), & hypnoidally inaccessible(225-6)(285)(296),& internal saboteur as example of(196), as not memory but reliving past as frozen replica(259), & multiple realities(265)(270)(288)(315), & narcissistic(288), & no single real you or true self(255-6), & need to cope w/ existential anxiety(76-7), & ongoing dialectic between _ to live life w/ authenticity & self-awareness(35)(272-3), & own truth not @ risk through act of listening to another(318), & preventing hope that good rel. is attainable(194), as protecting against shock(184), & reality is normally generated as we participate in it(55), & reflecting upon(7)(283), & regressed(37)(143), & regulation of anxiety(35)(86-8), & schizoid(55-8), & self-exp, originating in relatively unlinked _(181-2)(273), & a sense of being someone needed for Cs thought(316), & simultaneous existence of opposing _(219), & stability vs growth(6)(35-6)(206), & trauma (12)(184)(194-5)(259-262), & undermining me in here & now(195-6), & unitary self as acquired dev. adaptive illusion (182)(273), & use of language(265), & view of mind as a configuration of discontinuous, shifting states of Cs w/ varying degrees of access to perception & cognition(225)(270), | |
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | & configuration of mental states we call selfhood must be @ once fluid & robust-transitions between self-states must permit spontaneity & novelty w/o threatening stability of self-continuity, self-cohesiveness & secure attachment to others(2)(5)(32)(68), & difficult clients=rigid self-states, lack of reflection & engagement (108-9)(114), & discontinuities between ones _ are, for most people, subjectively concealed by the developmental adaptive illusion of being one self(113), & the insularity *& concreteness of each _ as a B/W island of truth about who one is @ a given moment=thought w/o a thinker(5)(65-6)(68), & most people able to bridge the gaps between their multiplicity of discontinuous self-states & are not exiled from the healthy experience of intrapsychic conflict & its potential resolution(68), & no one will ever allow themselves to be cured of who they are(110), & no part of self ever disappears-it will make its presence known in 1 way or another that will be experienced as not-me(67), & they are what the mind comprises(2), & when any self-state switches to a new one, all the variables constituting the former self-state are changed in the new self-state (15)(141) | ||
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | & allowing self-state evolution to modulate rigidity of self-state truth(100), attending to shifts in(1`58-9), & becoming traumatically discrepant, triggering defensive dissociation(49-50)(58)(98), & cannot permanently avoid internal war between by increasing power of one(31). & coherence across(48)(52)(55-6)(73)(100), & collision & negotiation of between client & T(133)(149), & disconfirmation of(57), & dissociation(15)(30-1)(43)(48-52)(69), & each aspect of self has own degree of access to various domains of psychic functioning(48), & effect of trauma of nonrecognition on(22)(69), as ego-syntonic @ start of treatment(51), & fantasy(154-5), as highly individualized modules of being, configured by its own organization of cognitions, beliefs, dominant affect & mood, access to memory, skills, behaviours, values, actions & regulatory physiology(73), & illusion of ongoing self-unity(96), & inability to experience internal conflict between(31), & life of authenticity & self-reflection requires ongoing dialectic between separateness & unity of self-states w/o foreclosing communication & negotiation between them(95), & linked to brains organization of neural networks(98), & mind organizes as anticipatory protective system that tries, proactively, to shut down experiential access to self-states that are disjunctive w/ state experienced as me(15)(32)(58)(157-8), & minds ability to shift between different(169), & not-me(30)(58)(69-70)(75)(94) (97)(100)(133)(139)(157-8), & overarching experiential state felt as I(48), & secrets(43), & state-dependent memory(77-8), & state-sharing(18)(27)((32)(70)(87)(136)()169), & truth(15)(30)(42)(69)(96-9) | |
Self, Unitary | Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | as an acquired, dev. adaptive illusion w/ origin in relatively unlinked self-states(182)(273), & diss. as defense when illusion of _ threatened w/ unavoidable precipitous disruption(182)(195)(243), & finding wholeness in the other(312)(314), & goal of diss. to maintain(182), & health=capacity to feel like oneself while being many(186)(195), & healthy diss. enhances integrating functions of ego by screening out excessive or irrelevant stimuli vs pathological diss.=defensive(273), & illusion of someone taken for granted by most but for some absent partially or totally(182)(273), & impact of disconfirmed domains of self on(313-5), & multiplicity is our 1 st char., unity our 2 nd (270), & no such thing as a real you(195), as overarching & experiential state felt as me(273), & replaced by compulsivity & obsessional thinking to fill spaces of(182-3)(200), & self as interper. entity rel. structured as a multiplicity of self/other configurations dev. integrated by illusion of(192)(270), & sense of authenticity always a constr. & always relative to other possible self-constructions(1`95)(272), & a sense of being someone(needed fort Cs thought(316), & T recognizing client not as a unitary self(307), & T refusing to grant access by recognizing own diss.(312)(315-6) |
Separation/ Separateness | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & abandonment depression(59), & clinging(76), as crucial for developing RS(57), & denial of(76), & ego functions(75), as internal _ & capacity of self(57), & intimacy(76)(108)(113), from Mother (31) (54), & Mothers issues w/(54-5), & narcissist(101), & peekaboo(30-1), & turning 40(38), as universal struggle(83) | |
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & adolescence(166-9), & anxious attachment(21-2), & boys(130), & defences against pain of(23), as a grievous loss(80), & guilt(160), & love(64), & Mother of oneness(24)(26)(31)(64), & parental, from child(228), & severe in early life(19), & stages of(36-9)(41), as unfolding(36), & womens identity(127-8)(130), vs yearning to merge (35) | ||
Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | & fear of abandonment→ chronic vigilance(257), & 1 st anxiety about loss of mothers care(239), & a great source of terror in infancy is solitude(229), & missing someone who is loved & longed for is key to understanding anxiety(231)(235), & mothers presence =safety & comfort, absence=danger & discomfort(239), & overprotection & withheld affection→ feeling unloved, incompetent & helpless(259), & throughout life, loss of love becomes a new & far more abiding danger & occasion for(239) | ||
Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | Ch.10, 11 | & amnesia(297)(299-301), & analyst minimizing feelings of, at end of session/vacation(388-9), & client as parents trans. Mother/ Father(299)(309)(343-5), & dedifferentiation(342), & difficulty integrating(287), & double threat of loss of individuality/human relatedness(288)(330), as ever-present(287-8), & grief work w/(296) (304), from illness(316-7), & loss(318)(328-9)(343), & paranoia (337-8), & sadistic leaving of session(315), & splitting(310), & therapist working through own loss(347-53), & vengeful determination(302-3)(308-9) | |
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & core anxieties of absolute incorporation or engulfment & absolute separation or abandonment(232), & T deconstruction of(233), & unsuccessful resolution of rapprochement crisis by borderline in need/fear dilemma underlies all psychopathology(232) | |
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & expressing guilt & responsibility toward abandoned parent(13), & issues of prime importance w/ couples(11), & leaving parents a psychological achievement(15), & oppositional & symbiotic couples(113), & parents impinging on relationship(13), & partnership attempt to leave dependent parents(12), & relationship suffocating to striving partner & insecure w/ fear of abandonment for partner less separated(12), & separation from parents in 20s, 30s & 40s(12), & separation-individuation(113), & separation panic(13), & sp[lit by couple of separateness & intimacy(21-2), & unseparated parents often breed unseparated children(12) | |
Love Sense | S. Johnson | & experience same way children do(52), & loved one can be physically present but emotionally absent(52), & 4 steps of: anger/protest, clinging/seeking, depression/despair, detachment(52-3) | |||
Development, and | A Secure Base | J. Bowlby | See Index | & abused children(17), & anxiety(130), & patterns of attachment (124-5), in therapy(153) | |
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & anxiety(107)(128), & birth as(222), as danger-point in development(421), vs unity(267) | ||
Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | & boys(218), & clinging/darting away(196), & constancy(27-9), & darting away(195-6), & dialogue w/ Mother(131), & differentiation (264), as equated w/ pain(28), @ 15 m.(172-3), @ 5 m.(118-23), & girls(212), & illusion that Mother is world(29), & individuation(265-6), & Mothers response to(196-7), as origin of disturbance(264), & peekaboo/catch me(49-50)(143-7), & personal wholeness(30-1), & physical space(191-4), & representation of Mother as _(184), & 2 nd birth(29)(229-30), & shadowing(194-5), & sharing w/ Mother(188), & strangers(141), & tossing-away(151), @ 2 m.(100), & walking (175) | ||
The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | & anxiety(9)(82)(89)(186-7)(228-30), & boys(213-4), & darting-away(214), & definition of(4)(7-8), & delusion of omnipotence(228), as dependent on Mother-child relationship(103), & early practising phase(70), & 4 th subphase(112)(116), & girls(214), & individuation (63), & mothering principle(7), & Mothers reactions to(78), & object constancy(110), as precondition of true object relations(6), & rapprochement(78)(93)(101)(209)(211)(228-9), & realization of (213), & self vs object representation(8)(78)(213), & severe reactions to(208-9), & symbiotic psychotic children(7)(12) | ||
Playing and Reality | D. Winnicott | & male/female element(80), & potential space(107-9), & separation as union(97-8) | |||
Fear of Women, and | Fear of Women | W. Lederer | & 1 st individuality, 1 st being different is being different from mother (both sexes)→ rugged he-man-ism & executive-managerial activism or sphere of spirit, as male frigidity & wholeness & integrity are lost-both positions of almost desperate loneliness(270), & must slay mother as she represents to him his inner longing for return to security of her bosom(273), & needing father as guide & model, teacher or sparring partner, friend & even enemy(273), & secretly yearns to be seduced back & dreams of such seduction as their salvation(270) | ||
Individuation, and | Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | See Index | & gender identity(424-9)(463), & girls(467), & power of father(462) (465)(467-8) | |
Oneness and Individuation: The Eternal Dance | N. Diamand | All | |||
Men, and | Finding our Fathers | S. Osherson | See Index | as incomplete(10), & terror of abandonment(143), & violence(43) | |
Objectivity, and | The Analytic Encounter | M. Jacoby | as becoming Cs(66)(70), & happy neurosis island(67), & I/It vs I/ Thou(66)(71), & individuation(67), & transf. in human relations(66-7) | ||
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | & fear of castration(38-9), & feminism(342), as prime difficulty(275) | ||
Dance of Anger | H. Lerner | See Index | & anxiety(26)(139), & balancing w/ togetherness(138-9), & countermoves against(34-5)(80), as destructive act(33), vs distance & isolation(31)(81), & emotional divorce(30), & fear of(96-7), & feeling responsible for emotional well-being of other & hold other responsible for ours(30), & fighting & blaming as defense against (33), & independence(73), & learning how not to be helpful(143), & mourning old stuck bonds(198), & overfunctioning for another(21)(139), & pseudo-harmony(30) | ||
Serendipity | The Road less Traveled | S. Peck | P.257 | ||
Sexuality/Sexual Behaviour | The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | All | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & adolescence(164-5)(223), & aggression(67-8)(222-3), & change @ mid-life(299)(311), & 4 differences between male & female (125), & difference in marriage(207-8)(210)(220), & fantasies (177)(180), & all start as female(124), & friendship(187-91), & homosexuality(194-6), & lack of penis(134-6), & oedipal(103-7)(109-13)(118-9)(131-2), & old age(323-4), & oneness(25-6) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | & anger(187), & the body seen(184), & inhibition as important as freedom(185), & love not guaranteeing good _(173), & marriage based on sensual experience of couple(170), & purpose beyond own pleasures & passions(171), as representing life(170), & sexual emptiness as form of depression(175-7)(187), & soul(171)(173) | |||
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & compulsiveness in(191-4), & death(87-8), & death anxiety(145), & isolation(382-5) | ||
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 42-3 | & impersonal as security against anxiety | ||
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | See Index | as abolishing boundaries between individuals(149-50), & essence of human life that lovers desire must be frustrated(151-2), as incarnation of love, a force for unification present wherever there is life(147), & life is possible because erotic relationships between a person & the world he lives runs 2 ways(155), & primitive expressions of sexuality give life to the concept of sexuality(120), & sexual drive distinguished by its end ie to preserve the species-the one deathless & eternal element in our mortality(127), & tendency to idealize in men can occur only when united affection & sexual desires(197), & world as fir object of sexual investment(139) | ||
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | & imagination endowing w/ life sexual life even if none(69)(73-4), & imitating & mocking nature(70-1), & parents as zoning commission(80), & physical pain vs sexual thought(63)(65-7), & thinking as pleasure(14), & variability of dream-activity same as(110) | ||
Sexuality Workshop | Leading Edge | All, CTP97-8 | & assertiveness questionnaire, & definition of, & history questions | ||
Biology, and | The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | See Index | & body contact as return to infancy(406-8), & body reaction in orgasm(39)(53), & breasts(47), & 6 basic changes as hunting ape evolved(43-4), & 3 characteristics of(35-7), & civilization(57-61), & 12 stages of courtship(387-94)(403), & curiosity(62), & erection as display of male dominance(238), & erogenous zones(45-7), & frequency/activity(42-4)(403-7), & 10 functional categories of(221-37), & human, as invitation to intimacy(359), & the hymen(55), & imprinting(64-5), & male vs female orgasm(41), & phallic symbols (240-4), & postures(49-50), & sadism(245), & sexual signals(47-9 ) (51)(360-7)(375-83), as shaping civilization(34), & smell(51), & tyranny of orgasm(396) | |
Brain, and | The Brain that Changes Itself | N. Doidge | See Index | & acquired tastes vs tastes(101), & instinct(96), & libido(95), & mirroring of childhood traumas in fetishes(129), & period of sexual plasticity(130), & pleasure centers(113-4)(126), & pornography (103)(108)(111-2)(131), & sexual abuse of children(98), & sexual masochism(124), & sexual sadism(125), & shame as pleasure(129) | |
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | & adolescence(187), as arena to play out unfinished business w/ parents(189), & early sex in girls(37)(129)(188-9), & love w/ sex( strange idea(279), & motivated by vengeance(189) | ||
Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | & Eros antidote to over accommodation(22), & illusion of security in A vs illusion of danger of excitation & arousal(120), & imagination central agent of eroticism(21-3), & learning to play w/ fantasy(21), & lust(23), vs need to feel safe(20), & occurring in one-in-third manner(182), & refinding of the deeply known person we love & need & the thrill & relief that they are also reaching out for us(26), & requires vulnerability & dependency(20(182), & ruthless desire vs accommodative potential(19-20)(120), & self-actualization of desire(254), & separateness & selfishness precondition of intimate _(120), & sequestering our thoughts about through dissociation(22-3)(120), & in sex & sexual fantasy use the other to discern what we have always felt as fundamentally missing(23), & subject-to-object relating(20), & talking about in T(254), & through _ that we engage in the most literally pronounced act of interpenetration(27), & too easily neglected as problem(28), & too much democracy makes sex boring(20), & unlocking our emotional intelligence(21), & what turns us on or off has roots in childhood(20-1)(120), | ||
Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & adult love 3 elements: sexuality, caregiving, A(114), & anxious A amplifies effect of both good & bad sex(120), & avoidant A dampens effect of physical intimacy(120), & centred on physical sensation=sealed-off sex(114)(116-7)(121), & link between oxytocin & sex→ bonding→ LTY rel.(127), & mainly emotional consolation=solace sex(114)(118)(121), & passion as combination of sexual connection & A longing(153), & safety(121), & secure A leads to hot sex(21)(112), & synchronous(114), & sexual satisfaction & excitement for both men & women increase w/ emotional commitment & sexual exclusivity(130), & sexual satisfaction constricted: anxious A preoccupied w/ being loved & avoidant A determined to stay detached(121), & sexual dissatisfaction bellwether of whats truly wrong in relationship(123), & women pair safety concerns w/ lust(132), & wired to prefer mating & bonding w/ 1 partner for LT(125) | ||
Development, and | Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | & adolescence(207), & behavioural systems(130)(147-8), & 5 affectional systems(232-3), & hormone levels(142-3), & imprinting (167), & infantile(158)(230), & preferences(163), & preventing function of(161) | |
Fear of Life | A. Lowen | See Index | as being(85-97), & fear of(121-5) | ||
Erotic vs Security | Mating in Captivity | E. Perel | P.4-18 | ||
Fear of Death, and | The Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & cult of sensuality to deny ones lack of control over events & powerlessness(84), & difficult to have sex w/o guilt because body casts shadow on persons inner freedom(42), & horror of sexual differentiation is horror of biological fact(41), as inevitable component of mans confusion over meaning of his life(44), & love(42), as much a problem for adult as child as represents determinism & boundness(42), & primal scene(44) | |
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | & addiction to(100)(262), in beginning vs delayed(57), & casual(291), & combined w/ love(50)(58)(221-2), & commitment vs permission(48), & compulsive as consequence of early trauma(268-9)(307)(346), vs emotional connection(42)(49)(54), as forbidden (48), & the internet(35-8), & men sexualize, women romanticize (57), & occupational vulnerability to(42), & permissiveness(254), & sexual chemistry(31)(48), & sexual flings(71-2), & sexual side of marriage(222-3), & threshold for women vs men(53)(101)(224) (257)(398), & unprotected(214) | |
Kindness, and | On Kindness | A. Phillips | See Index | & affectionate vs sensual current(83), & attached to our own gratification not primarily to other people(74-5), & being sufficiently unkind for gratification to be possible(80)(82), & debasement(84-5), & kind to objects of our desire in the hope they will go on satisfying us(76-7), & kindness instinct as part of sexual instinct(87), & @ odds w/ capacity for kindness(71-2), & people extraordinary because we love them, not vice versa(74), & sex not exciting if people too kind & if not kind enough, too frightening to enjoy(70), & unkindness makes desire possible(85-6) | |
Love , and | Can Love Last? | S. Mitchell | See Index | & allure of surrender(84)(86-7), & attraction of opposites as inversion of each other(81-3), & dependence(46-7)(134-5)(138) (192), as de-stabilizing sense of self(51)(92), & emergence of within relational & linguistic contexts(67-8), & excess vs security(84)(86-7), & fantasy (80)(116-7), & insecurity/jealousy more profound for men(78), & knowing that kills sexuality(44-5)(79), vs longing (191), & love vs desire(34)(91-2), & masturbation(63), & needing a particular other (136), & obstacles to as own construction(62), & oedipal vs pre-oedipal(133), as organizer of boundaries & self-responsibility(59-60), & pornography(77)(137), & romance(75), & self reflected through (42), & tension/boundaries between personal & social, self/other(76-7) | |
Men, and | Why Men are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | See Index | & beauty power(66)(68-70)(73-6)(110-1)(122), & desire for attention (116), & double standard(259), & equality(248), & expressing sexual feelings(130), & impotence(264), & incest(223-4), & love(249), & male/female conditions for wanting(13)(262), & neurosis over(125), & paying for(117)(121), & power(9)(134), & primary fantasies(104-5)(214)(253), & railroad _(130), & rejection (122)(129)(250), & roles in advertising(78-9), & sex object(129), & sexism/new sexism (194), & thinking of(118), & vulnerability(129), & watching women love(265), & women & commitment sex(158) | |
The New Male Sexuality | B. Zilbergeld | All | useful exercises for erectile dysfunction | ||
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | Ch.9 | & beliefs(226), vs closeness(233)(244-5), & destructive entitlement (248-9), & hunger for(234), as intimate communication(249) | ||
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | as only experience of comfort(63)(155), & father/daughter(247), & fathers role in teaching son(73), & shame(37) | ||
Techniques of | The Joy of Sex | A. Comfort | All | ||
The School of Venus | M. Millot | ||||
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & interpretation(327), & need vs want to seduce therapist(301) | |
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | & abuse(161-2)(164-5) | |||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | & driven sexuality as breakdown product of a fragmenting self(88), & intense passion of provides a sense of great certainty(73), & preoccupation w/ in children due to trauma as organizer of exp.(88), & uncertaintytransforming possibilities as help to create a powerful sense of oneness(165) | ||
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & aging(271), =challenge of mans superiority by women(385), & ego ideal(124), & fusing(120), & incorporation/introjection(119), & masculine/feminine(181), & maternal feelings(272), & menopause (270), & mens fear of erection(13), & Mothers attitude towards (274), & power(272), & psychological bisexuality(119-20), & young woman/old man(310) | |
Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | See Index | as adult play(227), & desire(86)(203-4)(207-9)(211), & discussion w/ Mother(230), & disembodying(63), & exploring(62), & girls as objects of desire(203), & harassment(61), & learning roles(43-4), & power of flirting(44), & relationship w/ Father(274-5), & violation of integrity(210) | ||
Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | See Index | & boys denial of inside tension(261-2), & changing theories(311-2), & clitoris vs vagina(246-7), & defences against excitation(258-61), & dependency(196), & differences(264-70), & ego-regression ( 261), & last doll as turning point(246-7)(250), & masochism(221-2), & origins of sexual identity(166-7), & origins of sexual knowledge(159-60), & perversions(335), & primacy of genital stimulation(242)(276), & similarities in pregenital phases(262), & superego(196), & vagina (256-7) | ||
Sexual Abuse | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | & betrayal(83), & countertrans. w/(143), & humiliation(83), & justice system(72), as passively experienced(112), & rage(104), & safety (166-7), & self-mutilation(109-10), & sense of badness(104-5), & sexual intimacy(65)(206), & silence about(83), & studies of(9)(30-2), & survivors nursing abused(112), of wife/children(83) | ||
Thou Shalt Not be Aware | A. Miller | Ch.11-14 | & children asking questions(154), & children awakening in adult (121)(147), & feeling of giving too much(159), & guilt(178), & impairment of self-development(160-1), & infantile sexuality(119) (171-2), & need for separation(126), & privacy(125), & sensuality as maternal(154), & sexual fantasies(156), & symptoms of(121-2) | ||
How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | See Index | & attempt to convince it never happened(30), & crying after sex(58), & forgiveness(66), & self-forgiveness(111-2), & separating how you feel about yourself from what you were made to feel(210), & victims doubting the truth(30) | ||
Males, of | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | All | ||
Nonverbal Learning Disability, and | Severe Childhood Sexual Abuse and Nonverbal Learning Disability | AJP Summer 98 | P.367-381 | & isolation(371), & vulnerable to(369) | |
Self-Psychology/ Object Relations Approach, and | Child Abuse and Neglect: Influences of Qualitative Research and Clinical Practice on Child-Care Legislation | AJP Summer 98 | P.313-331 | & attachment to perpetrator(319), & dissociation(322), & enactments as self-configuration(317), & family development(317-8)(320), & therapy w/(323-5)(327), & use of victim as selfobject(315), & victimized daughter(319) | |
Sexualization | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | P. 140-2 | ||
Shadow | The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & denial(239)(268), & self-control(266) | |
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | & anima(52-3)(67-8)(258), & creativity(259), & diagram of(51), & dreams(663), & the genius(283), & inferior man(67)(255-8), & Unc (51-2) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | vs anima/animus(93)(114), as archetype(91), & collective unc(281-2), & definition of(87), & description of(88), as e.g. of unc personality (87), & evil(388), as 1 st archetype in therapy(87)(91), & humanitys (395), as inferior(90-1)(93)(159), as instinctual nature (389), & making Cs(87)(89), & mistakes(87), & moral efforts(91), as neurosis(88-9), & personal unc(91)(93), & positive childish qualities (90), & possessive quality(91), & power vs love(400), as projection (87)(92-3)(398-400), as qualities we condemn in others(87), as same sex as subject(93), & tension of opposites(159) | ||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | P.16-18 | & absolute(16), & art(18), & moralism(17), & normality(18), & personal(16), & perverse(17), & soul(18) | ||
Meeting the Shadow | C. Zweig, ed | All | |||
Steppenwolf | H. Hesse | All | |||
Lord of the Flies | W. Golding | All | |||
Women, and | Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | & the divine(235), & repression(235), & typical impulses of(235) | |
Shadowing | Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | as assault(196), & boys(218), vs darting away(195), & girls(215), & Mother as shadower(196-7), as suspicious lover(194), & undoing separation(194-5), & wish to be free of Mothers(195) | ||
The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | & Mother(79-80), & object constancy(80), & rapprochement(77-9), & separation anxiety(82)(89) | |||
Shame | Feelings | W. Gaylin | Ch. 3 | vs embarrassment(67)(71), & exposure(56)(71), & feeling vs sense of (67), & group survival(8)(56), & heros(62), vs guilt(54-5), vs humiliation(66-7)(71), vs pride(83), & privacy(67), & projection/ paranoia(71), as public exhibition of wrongdoing(54), & pudenda = ashamed(69), & sexuality(69) | |
How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | See Index | & being violated(188-9), & forgiveness(111)(170-1), vs guilt(133), vs humiliation(189), as prompting self-protective responses(133), & replacing w/ empathy(68), & revenge(186) | ||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | Ch. 6 | & blocks against healing(52-3), & defending against(45)(49-50), & description of(44), vs guilt(44), & list of negative rules/messages(47), & low self-esteem(43), & secrets(48), & shame-based family(48-50), & source of(46) | ||
Anxiety, and | My Age of Anxiety | S. Stossel | See Index | & anxiety as source of(327), & blushing(103), as engine that underlies anxiety(103), & has a biological address(115), & impression management to hide(112), & more susceptible to ie self-Cs, worse you will perform(132), & need to inure yourself to needless _ to overcome social anxiety(111)(123), & social phobic always feels(104), & in weakness & shamefulness is also the potential for transcendence, heroism or redemption(327), | |
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | See Index | as affect that arises w/ failure in efforts to get love & failures to establish good-feeling separateness & boundaries(199-200), as 1 st level of reaction to thwarted expectation to be loved & guilt comes w/ further frustrations & the feeling I must be responsible→ shyness→ shyness turned on herself ie fear(200) | |
Development, and | Early Superego Development: The Emergence of Shame and Narcissistic Affect Regulation . . . | A. Schore | All CTP95-6 Neurobio. | & adults internal regulation of(213), & affective mismatch in state of excitation(201-2), as arousal blocker(194)(196)(198), & associated w/ competence(196)(229), & behaviour of(207-8), as break in mirroring selfobject & grandiose self(206), & caregiver response to (208-12), & contempt for others(230), as crucial for autonomy(218), & earlier origin than guilt(191-2)(238), & ego-ideal(227-9)(232), as 1 st experience of narcissistic injury(206), & genital sexuality(221), & internalized(206-7), & low-keyed state (203-4), & narcissistic disorder (223-7), & object relations(198-9)(232), & occurring @ point of re-attachment(199-200)(202-3), & physiological expression of(193), as preverbal(192), & recapturing exciting relationship(208), as requirement for resolution of rapprochement crisis(217-8), & self-consciousness(196)(230), & self-esteem(228), & separation/ individuation(201)(206), & separation induced stress response(204), & shame regulator(232-3), & strange face of Mother(201-2), & successful merger(197), & superego(235-6), & unexpected quality of(202) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & creating T env. to avoid(295), & experiencing interface between overvalued & disavowed domains of self greatest source of(296), & pathological diss.(296), & reliving through enactment so can be known by other(296), vs routine anxiety as signal of problem in self-image regulation allowing learning as diss. not needed(295), as signalling a traumatic attack on personal identity leading to diss. to preserve selfhood(295), & Ts contribution(297) | |
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index | & accessing shame has to precede accessing need(25), & attempts to speak about unsymbolized trauma activates the intense shame typically dissociated to preserve the bond w/ the T(80)(98)(180-1), & childs own need for loving recognition because despised & shame ridden through parental non-recognition(140), & client feels Ts lack of awareness & seeming indifference to reliving unprocessed traumatic affect & leaves client needing relief & unable to communicate the need(89-90)(98-9)(180), & destabilization of self experience relationally as shameful→ shame for being hungry fo soothing triggers its own dissociation-client cannot communicate directly either his need or his shame about it & it goes unrecognized by T(180-1), & double shame 1) because of original episode & 2) because we feel so deeply about something so slight(25)(191), & experience of can be altered or transcended only in so far as there is some change in the whole self(190), & failure in who none is leads to shame, the signal of impending self-destabilization, the shock of no longer being :me(140), & feeling shamed by desperate need for recognition of shame(90-1), as a horrifying unanticipated sense of exposure of oneself to oneself, of what I am(190), as the most powerful affect a person is unable to modulate in experience of(89), & not-me states generate shame when they emerge in client-T relationship(154-5), & parents dissociated shame makes it impossible to take pleasure in being w/ child to provide recognition of qualities in the child that parent has discovered &, in turn, leaves parent unable to modulate shame child feels, in face of his nonrecognition=as traumatizing as pain caused by parent who is actively abusing & sometimes it is more debilitating(139-40), as signal that self is or is about to be violated(190), & Ts dissociated shame for causing clients pain(91-2), & threat of potential retraumatization looms large when dissociated shame goes unaddressed(90), & threat of shame,=to that of fear, necessitates the early warning system designed to prevent a reoccurrence of the affective flooding originally created by trauma(181)(190), & use of laughter to reduce(116), & when shame felt buy both client & T(25), & when T does not attend sufficiently to the arousal of(25)(80-1) (123) | ||
Intersubjective, and | Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | P.79-83 | ||
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | as arising out of continual selfobj. failure(39), & avoidance of intimacy as hallmark of shame-based rel.(61), as causing one to hide, avoid interpersonal contact as protection against rejection & conceal affective exp. from ones own awareness(61), & dependency needs for soothing for sad affects as source of(61), as developed in context of selfobj. failure(61), & fear of being exposed to in couples T(95-6), & grandiosity as a cover for(155), & interpretation of in couples T(63), & a life plagued by when inadequate mirroring of expansive states(39)(61), & manifestation of in rel.(61-2), & physiological connection between mirroring failures & dev. of _(39), & produced by discipline that withdraws empathy (99), & regulating of in families(144), | ||
Men, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | & feminization(57), in enjoying sex(58), & separating from sexuality as goal of therapy(58) | |
Under Saturns Shadow | J. Hollis | & compensation(25)(102), of fear(24-5)(94)(102)(110), & hunger for Father(96), & power complex(25), & therapy(122) | |||
Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | Ch.1 | & asking, What are you feeling?(41), & anger as language of(95) (234), & assaulting others(119), & control(131), & emotional flooding(43)(45), & Father(53)(67)(81)(222)(263), & feeling defective(31)(33), & feeling needy(33), vs guilt(33), & identification w/ aggressor(224), & integrity(312), & intimacy(6)(38)(40)(257-8), & low self-esteem(53), & making public(343), & Mother(65)(180-1) (183), & primary(33), & resentment of children(238), & resistance to contact w/ men(85)(302), & secondary(33), & sexual failure(37), & silence as language of(56-7), & solving problems(122), & tertiary (34), & wish for connection(12)(56)(81) | ||
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | See Index | & being unmanly(143), & definition of(84), & 5 top failures(143-5), & feelings that are(105), vs guilt(146), & ideal(146), & pathological (148), & rage(84), & shame phobia(163) | ||
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & appropriate(76), & carried(206-7), & cycle of(79), & definition of(55), of depression(22)(35)(76), as failures in self-esteem(181), & grandiosity as compensation(55-6), & manic-depression(65), & oppression(181), vs shamelessness of grandiosity(76) | ||
Mindsight, and | Mindsight | D. Siegel | & belief that self is defective(196), & compelling us to succeed (196), & freeze response combined w/ rage(195), & helpless in dealing w/ when not integrated(196-8), & I am bad preferable to Parents unreliable & may abandon me(196), as isolated state of being-shame intensified by humiliation(195), & to meet w/ exp. of feeling invisible or misunderstood(195), & physiological responses of(195), & preserving illusion of safety & security @ core of his sanity(196), & preventing others from hidden truth of other self(196-7), & shame as organizing self-state in related but distinct clusters eg protective, punitive, conquest(205-6), & shame state common in children where parents are repeatedly unavailable or who habitually fail to attune to them(195), & toxic humiliation=shame + potential hostility(195), & trying to ignore that a meltdown has occurred(25) | ||
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | See Index | & addiction(107)(110-1)(116), & bypassed shame(5-6)(24)(65), & compensation for(5), & contempt(15-6), & emotional detachment (12), & feeling bad=being bad(5), & 1 st experience of(41), vs humility (xvii), & inability to process(6)(35), & lack of empathy (24), & positive experience of elation, shame & recovery(41-2), & retaliative rage(180), & shame-dumping(9-10)(144-5) | |
Parenting, and | Parenting from the Inside Out | D. Siegel | See Index | & activating the shame dynamic(196-7), & belief that self is defective(138)(193)(195-6), & disconnection @ times of heightened emotion & need for connection produces(87)(198), & evoked by being misunderstood or ignored(168), & feeling bad vs misguided (205), & feeling impotent to effect a positive outcome(195), & inability for collaborative, contingent communication(195), & insecure attachment(137), & joint reflection to repair(194), & layers of defense covering(137-8)(195-6), & limit-setting nos as healthy (203), & outside awareness(196-7), & parent-in-shame state(195-6), & parents anger inducing both shame & humiliation(196)(205), & physiological reaction of(193), & repair left undone(198), & toxic ruptures between parent & child evoking(193-5), & triggered by experience in which we feel vulnerable or powerless(197), & turning away from direct eye gaze(168)(197), & understanding(168) | |
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | & childs healthy desire to communicate her subjective experience to needed other infused w/ shame because needed other cannot or will not acknowledge childs experience as legitimately thinkable (43-4), & double shame 1) original episode 2) feel so deeply about something so slight(23), & feeling undeserving of consolation or solace(44), & helping client recognize difference between feeling scared & feeling scarred(24), as horrifying unanticipated sense of exposure as no longer the self that one has been(23), & secrets(44), & 2 sources: 1) belief that what she feels will not be real to other 2) fear that she will lose the others A because believes other will not attribute validity to her desperation that he know what she is feeling (49), & sudden shame signals self is or is about to be violated→ dissociation(23), of what I am vs something bad that I have done(23)(43) | ||
Relationships, and | Dancing with Fire | J. Amodeo | See Index | & anger(175), as infants not ashamed of our longing(21-2), & clinging to(58), & longing shut down through birth of(22), & prompts us to seek affirmation & approval vs connection & intimacy(111), & shame we feel about our suffering(65) | |
Therapy, and | The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | P. 82 | & self-display | |
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | See Index | & exposure of ones certainty as naive & erroneous(48), & feeling of being expelled from relational homeland(48), & feels inferior, deficient, unworthy & so exposed in this mortifying condition that feels compelled to hide from view(47), & often felt among those who experience traumatizing betrayals of trust in themselves(47), as one of most painful of all human emotions(47), & resort to acts of aggression as means to transform shameful experience of powerlessness that attend destruction of certainty(100), & results from rigid inhibition of excitement or interest(47-8), & shame as form of trauma insofar as shamed individual loses ability for self-reflection(47), & shame in infants 12-18m. accompanies disconfirmation of expectations that selfobject needs will be met w/ attuned responsiveness(47-8), & shameful disregard & neglect (soul blindness) & shameful breaking of childs will (soul murder) experienced as traumatic(47-8), & trauma engenders in terms of feelings of helplessness, inadequacy & vulnerability(47-8) | |
Shoulds | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & aim=extinction of individuality(118), & anxiety(74), & 3 attitudes of experiencing(76-7), & characteristics of(65-9), & coercive character of(73), & commands for moral perfection(72-3), & conflicting inner dictates(75), & creation of make-believe feelings (83), & description of(65), & determined by self-hate & pride(85) (118)(123), & disturbances in human relations(81), & externalization of(78-9)(123)(278), & feeling of strain(81), as frustration of freedom of choice(141), & harm to feelings(84), & hypersensitivity to criticism(81), & imagination(76), & impairment of spontaneity(81-2), & lacking moral seriousness of genuine ideals(72), & pride(93), as protection from choice(172), & retribution when not met((74), as self-destructive(118)(120), & spirit of arrogance(73), & T(122)(263) | |
How Can I Forgive You? | J. Spring | See Index | & choosing reaction to way we are treated vs dictating how we should be treated(82), & converting demand to wish(83), as fixed idea of how you or others should behave & you overestimate how bad it is that these expectations are not met(81), & musturbations (81), as own rules, morality, needs, values not the worlds(82), & self-righteous blaming(82), as set-up for disappointment(82), as unenforceable rules(81) | ||
Shyness | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 43-4 | as edge of new relationship | |
HSPs, and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | See Index | & definition of(91), vs extraversion(104), & fear(91-2), in groups (109-10), & over stimulation(97), & playing politics(133), & remembering names(108), vs sensitivity(91), & social discomfort (94), & work(134-5) | |
Sibling Rivalry | Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & adult repercussions(91-4)(96)(99)(292), & anxiety(87), & de-identification(89-90), & favouritism(97-8), & jealousy(86), as loss (87), & loyalty between(70)(101-2) | |
Silence | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | as abandonment/retaliation(268), vs resistance(208)(338), & starting session w/(206) | ||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | as form of acting(36), & revengeful(138), & Ts Unc. dependence leads to silent submission to resistance or not frustrating client w/(34) | |||
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | P. 95-6 | & countertransference | ||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | See Index | & paying attention to vs sounds(136), & presence of Unmanifested(136-7) | ||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & aiding speech(233-4), & experiencing analytic environment(263), & regression to dependence(259), & unthought known(246) | ||
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | See Index | & letting client break it(77), & nonverbal access(77), & patterns of (77), & resistance(76), & toleration of(76) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & active non-communication(184), vs interpretation(189), & knowing too much(189), & 3 lines of communication(188), & schizoid(189) | ||
Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | & accessibility to therapists unc(141-2), & changes in therapists nonverbal participation(18), as most reliable therapeutic tool(17), & listening as taking verbal contents from client(41), as requirement for experiencing therapist as separate entity(140), & therapists, experienced by client as 1) therapist being dead 2) psychotically immersed in own fantasy world 3) senile 4) inanimate object(15-6), & verbal interpretation as defence(142) | |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | & interpretation of(143), & meanings of(175-6), as running away & running towards(26), as source of information(27), & tolerating incoherent material(177), & understanding of(143), & work of creation(26-7) | ||
Sleep | Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | as detached from threats to security(19), & dissociation(176), in envy (131), & grief(111), & guilt(115), & hate(105), & hypochondria(80-4), & jealousy(143), & obsessional(30), & paranoid(158-9), & schizophrenics(189-90), & selective inattention(59), & tri-partite personality(4)(12) | ||
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | & depressed people tend to have low sleep efficiency(145), & depressives w/ normal sleep more responsive to T, those w/ abnormal require medication(146), & grief→ depression disrupts sleep one way, falling in love→ mania disrupts in another way(144), & insomnia a predictor of suicidality(145), & older depressed tend to be insomniacs in grip of paranoia(190) | ||
HSPs, and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | See Index | & feeling safe(36), & too tired to _(24-5) | |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | as approximation of primitive state of peace(50-1), & mothers womb (49), vs narcissism(49-50), & sleeping w/ good introjected object(50) | ||
Smiling | The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | as clinging substitute(83-4), & common to all cultures(77), & high intensity as greeting(82), as indication of fear(82), & mutual(82), = please stay vs crying=come here(352), as secondary form of laughing(82), as signal to Mother(352), as supported by babbling & reaching(353), as turning up of mouth corners(83), as unique among primates(352) | ||
Development, and | Attachment | J. Bowlby | & affect on Mother(246), & babbling(284)(287-8), & change in range of stimuli eliciting over time(149)(280)(283), vs crying as influencing Mother(245), & development of attachment(265)(280), & eyes in eliciting(285), as fixed action pattern(66), to human face(286), as instinctual(147)(280), & 4 phases of during 1 st year(280-1), as prolonging interaction(246)(280), as signalling behaviour(244-5), as social signal(121), & stranger vs Mother(291) | ||
Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | as discharge of tension in 1 st week(75), @ 4 weeks+, other responses (76), as indication of bond(74), as most pleasure for Mother(74), & surprise(76-7), @ three weeks alert _(76), @ 2 weeks, different, & voluntary @ 3 m.(77-8), stimulus(75), as universal(74-5) | ||
Socialization | Keeping the Love You Find | H. Hendrix | Ch. 9 | & belief systems(145), & brains need for stability(145), & diagram of 4 functions of(141), & premises of(138-9), & price of(139-40), & Social Self(161) | |
Solitude | On Kissing, Tickling and Being Bored | A. Phillips | Ch. 3 | & absence of body in(40), & adolescence(31), & claiming of, in hating object(38), & desire(29), & infant waiting too long(28)(75-6), & phobia of(27), & reconstituting in therapy(41), & risk(29)(32), & risk of, as risk of potential freedom(39) | |
The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | See Index | & Jung(198), & R.E.S.T.(200), vs therapy(192) | ||
Solitude | A. Storr | All | |||
Women, and | Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | & alone vs all one(292), & ways to call up soul(293-4) | |
Soul | Homecoming | J. Bradshaw | P.257 | as essential self/wonder child | |
Trance Zero | A. Crabtree | Ch.10,11 | & divine(238)(246)(254), & faith in(224), & higher selves(225-6), & I(218)(224), & immanence(238-9), & Inner Healer(2222), vs personality(220), & time & space(221), as Ultimate Self(215)(220) (223), as unifying principle(212) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & active/withdrawn(55), & living from rather than your self(294), & love(125)(127)(134)(143), & lovemaking(173), & spirit(55), & photographs(60), & telling your story(59), & what does the soul want?(59) | ||
Conversations with God | N. Walsch | See Index | & being(170), vs body/mind(172)(175)(196), & definition of(74), & desire of(22)(83), & destiny(114), & higher choices(47), & opportunities(174), & purpose of(43)(83)(126), & seeking experience (22), & Self(196-7), & unc living(77) | ||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | See Index | & accidents(203-4)(206-7), & dreams(153), & emergenesis(138), & eyes as mirror(223), & growing down(43)(62), & mediocrity(250), & Necessity(208-9), & selecting the image we live(45-7) | ||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & archetypes(23)(189), vs body/spirit(69)(137), & dehumanizing the psyche(181), & description of(69), & fantasy(23), & fictions(152), & hunger for ideas(117)(119)(122), & image making as soul-making (23), as imagination(69)(189), as not ours(175), & obsessions(211), & personifying as soul-making(3)(13), & philosophy(2010), & problems(148-9), vs psychology(145), & psychopathology(56)(92) (110), & reflection as activity of(117), & ritual(137), & seeing w/ eyes of(201), & soul-speech(217), & souls belief in us(50), & therapy as soul-making(77)(145) | ||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | & becoming unc(96-7)(106-8), vs body(288), & body/mind(20), & compartment psychology(213), & Logos/Eros(488) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | as feminine in men(96-7)(106-8), vs psyche(97), & religious life(259) (262), & soul-image(103-5)(109-10) | |||
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | All | |||
Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | Ch.1,8,9 | & art(17), & awe vs understanding(16), & care of, as active(15), as bound by, & outside time(94), as depth, passion & authenticity(14), & desire(19)(98), & destiny(98-9), & eternal & temporal(16-7), & extremes(16), & fairy tales(95), & food(18), as joy & grief(94)(96-7), & laughter(95), & living the question(96), & love(95), & meditation (107), & only the shallow know themselves(15), & pleasure vs improvement(16)(18), & questions re: loss of(106), & respect for mystery(14), & 4 rivers to navigate(105), & rules for living(108-9), & soul-work(104), & thinking(97), & work as ensuring self-worth at least as strong as self-critic(110), & working w/(14) | ||
Relationships, and | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & artefacts of culture(119), & definition of(61), & falling in love w/ Love(61), & love of Other(70), & neurosis(79)(104), & numinosity (126), & psyche(112-3), & psychopathology(76), & relationship as avenue for(61), & soulmate(37), & suicide(49), & task for 2 nd half of life(131), & tracking movement of(128), & transcendent experience (124), & transformation(85), & well-being(104), & wholeness(140-1), & wound to(22)(100) | |
Spirituality, and | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | P.125-32 | & depth(125), & god image(122), & Mystery(128-9), & numinosity (126), & questions about(130-1), & resonance(125), & symbol-making(127) | |
Women, and | Women Who Run with the Wolves | C. Estes | See Index | & alter(421), & animus(310-2), & body(204), & calling up(293-4), & cycles(255-6), vs ego(146)(269-70), & hambre del alma(214)(228-30), & La Loba(31), & loss of(224)(262-3), & love(159-63), & love of(189), & questions for(295), & Self(503), & shadow(234-6), & spirit child(271), & Wild Woman(193) | |
Soulmates | Soulmates | T. Moore | P.xvii | ||
Space | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | Ch.20 | & analytic(195)(206)(212)(277)(339-44), & creativity(342), & freedom(342), & lack of infant privacy(143), & potential(29)(265), & traumatic similarity(265), & unbiased(159)(176-7) | |
Spirit/Spirituality | The Aquarian Conspiracy | M. Ferguson | Ch.11 | & flow & wholeness(379-80), & other reality(373) | |
Care of the Soul | T. Moore | Ch.10,11 | & definition of(232), & the divine union(soul/spirit)(259)(261)(263), & eating(205), & emotional problems(203-5), & faith(253-4)(258), & fundamentalism(234)(252), & goal of souls path=feel existence (260-1), & growing old(216), & information vs wisdom(207)(246-7), & insight vs truth(246-7), & intellect vs soul(233-5)(245-6), & making the everyday sacred(215), as nourishing the soul(233), & place in house for(209), & puer(247-8), & retreat from world(210-1), & ruminating(235), & sex(242), vs soul(203-4)(231), & soul path as path of fool(261-2), & suffering(258) | ||
Way of the Peaceful Warrior | D. Millman | All | |||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | All |
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Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | See Index | & creativity(206-7), & essence of as an enlargement of vision(227), & humour/irony(102), & link w/ soul(55), vs psych. view(36), & spiritual activities(55), & sublimating the darkness(207) | ||
Nourishing the Soul | A. Simpkinson | Ch.12 | & being still(140), & opening self(138), & self-acceptance(138), & self-blessing(138) | ||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | Ch.15 | & definition of(127-8), & expanding Cs(134-7), & love(133-4), & serenity(137-9) | ||
Passionate Marriage | D. Schnarch | Ch.14 | & desire out of emptiness vs fullness(396-7)(399), & 4 dimensions of expansion: self-preservation, adaptation, transcendence & dissolution (392-3), & evolution as drive of Spirit toward Spirit(394), & loneliness anxiety vs existential loneliness(402-3), & sin as refusal to desire(400), & urge to differentiate(395), & wanting to want(398) | ||
Conversations with God | N. Walsch | All | |||
HSPs, and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | See Index | & experience of(224), & healing(181-3), as priest class(213) | |
Relationships, and | Dancing with Fire | J. Amodeo | & affirmations(135), & attraction & spirituality = longing for connection(30), & awakening, not awakened(198)(194), & dont cling to shame while being affected when mistreated, etc.(196), & hold feelings of hurt, etc. gently & meet w/o shame(196), & less overwhelmed by fear & anxiety(196), & need people to live a fulfilling & meaningful life(196), & no final destination(197), & reducing suffering, not eliminating desire(195), & spiritual growth = spiral staircase(189), | ||
Splitting | The Divided Self | R. Laing | See Index | of here & there(175), of inside & outside(175), & primary(175), & schizoid individual(17), & secondary(83), of self from body(79) (162) (174-5), & TS/FS(83) | |
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | & borderline(79)(154), & clinging/separating(79), as defence against depression(78), & narcissist(183), & object constancy(78-9) | |||
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | & interpretation of impulse w/ defence & vice versa(44), & projective identification(27-8), & T(58), of Ts ego into rational observant & feeling, irrational(32) | |||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & description of(112-3), & moralization(126) | ||
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | P. 67 | & contempt | ||
Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & ambivalence(42)(46), & health as giving up defensive(61), & losing black & white simplification as necessary loss(43), of mother & father(good/bad)(42), & object constancy(43), & self-constancy (43), as universal during early life(42) | ||
Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | & assignment of negative split-off aspect of therapist to spouse(273), & conveying totally opposing demands on T(274), & desire of T to heal clients unc _(274), & fear of being trapped in one of identity-introjects through(332), & grief @ threatened leaving T by client (310), of love/hate(273), as major defence of(272)(310), as working against development of coherent internalized image of therapist by client & vice versa(272) | |
Development, and | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | of active oral & regressed ego(74)(144)(163), & biological inheritance(414), of central vs inner ego(70-1)(74), of depressive & P/S positions(167), & ego-splitting(64), of fantasy life & Cs(42) (87), of LE & ALE(74), & object(247), & psyche(249), & repression of sadism(144), & turning in of aggression(146), of weak infantile ego (184)(187), & whole-ego theory(402) | |
Oneness and Separation | L. Kaplan | See Index | & all-good/all-bad(42)(47-8), & constancy(47), & grief(45-7), & partnership(43-4), & testing fate(50) | ||
Envy and Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | & capacity for love(191-2), & confusion of good & bad(192)(216), as defence against depressive anxiety(73-4)(139), as defence against persecutory anxiety(6)(13)(65)(70-1)(85)(139)(257), & denial(65), & depressive position(35), & disintegration(10), & envy(192), & fluidity of(241), & dispersal of destructive impulses(191), of good & bad breast(2)(49)(139)(191)(238), of good & bad objects(253), & hallucinatory gratification(7)(65), & ideal object(9-10)(192)(241), & identification(192), & integration(192)(245), & interaction between Cs & Unc(16), of love & hate(2)(49)(191)(253), of life & death instincts(57)(241-2)(245), in normal situations(14), of object & self (6), & object vs ego(6), & object relations(9), & P/S position(49) (70)(241)(253), & phantasy life(6), as preserving good object(6) (273), as a primal activity of ego(191)(242)(253), & projective identification (8)(11)(143)(192), & repression(66)(86-7)(244), as schizoid mechanism(12)(67), & schizophrenia(5)(10-1)(192), vs superego formation(241), & therapy(18), & transference(56), of unharmed breast(144-5), & unintegrated ego(143) | ||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | & ambivalence(143-4), & definition of(20), of good & bad imago (143), & normal vs psychotic(21), & projection(20), as self-protection (20) | |||
The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | P.252 | as unlikely infant experience | ||
The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | See Index | & ambivalence(117), & borderline(108), of desire & refusal to merge (180), & object constancy(192), & rapprochement(99)(229), & resolution of oedipal(230) | ||
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | P.305 | & benign in therapist | |
Psychoanalysis of Developmental Arrests | R. Stolorow | See Index | & borderline(107), & description of(95), as fantasy formations(95), & prestage of(95), & requiring prior integration of whole, if defensive (96)(98), & rigid all-good, all-bad vs rapid alteration of images(98) | ||
Sponsorship | Self-Relations, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | & alien ideas(53-4)(67)(115)(138)(141-2), & archetypes(161-3), & centring practices(54), by cognitive self(60), & definition of(17-8) (20)(123), & false(110), & goal of(68), & negative(17), vs ownership (17), of neglected self(110-1), & not resisting/not becoming(27), & positive(17), & problem-defined self(67), as receptive modes(105), & receptivity of therapist(106-7), & self-intoxicating inductions(116) (125)(142-4), & therapy(17-8)(20)(98-9)(108-9)(111), & tonglen (123), vs unchanging experience(109-10) |
Stonewalling | Couples, and | Love Sense | S. Johnson | See Index | & definition of(192-3), & withdrawal toxic when becomes customary response tom partners perceived blaming(192) |
Stress | Mind as Healer Mind as Slayer | K. Pelletier | See Index | & acquired attitudes & expectations(104)(107), & acute & chronic (71), & addictions(86), & ambiguous daily threats(5-6), & asthma (186-7), & biofeedback(269)(294), & boredom(93), & bronchitis/ emphysema(184), & caffeine(86-7), & challenges to beliefs(107), & change(5)(84)(87), as contributory cause to hypertension & arteriosclerosis(168), & definition of(3-4), & developmental(84), & diseases of adaptation(76)(83), & the elderly(89), & flight or fight (69), & General Adaptation Syndrome(70)(75), & habituation(205-6), & holistic healing(33-4)(113)(294), & human vs animal(69-70), & hurry sickness(96-7), & idolization of youth(88), & illness (113), & the immune system(62)(66), & internalized anger(106), & job strain & change a major sources of(5)(86)(90)(94), & lack of sensitivity to(24-5), & lifestyle(218-9), & meditation(200-1)(203) (207)(209)(220), & migraine(169), & mortality(89), & prolonged (70), & psychosomatic disorders(5-6), & recession(86), & recognizing (83), & relaxation response(291), & single people(88), & spirituality (89), & stress disorders(4), & stress reactivity(69), & technical innovation(94), & Type A personality(125)(133) | |
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | & coping-instrumental & emotion-focussed(51-2), when demands of environment exceed resources(47), & orienting response(48), as product of a cognitive act, appraisal(47)(49) | |||
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | & biggest stress is humiliation, 2 nd is loss(63), & high level of _ in society due to overwhelming number of uninformed choices(407), & psychological stress transduces to biological change(59), & rise in cortisol, stress hormone coincident w/ depression(57), & stress drives up rates of depression(63) | ||
Helpers, and | The Helpers Journey | D. Larson | See Index | & avoidance automatic when thought, feeling, object or person associated w/ powerful fear(72-3), & best antidote to avoidance is approach(81), & biggest source of stress other people(61), & buy ourselves free from fear of death by daily partial self-destruction(73), & choosing avoidance to cope w/(70-2)(90)(234), & definition of(65), & direct threats to self-esteem create stress as threatens our feeling of having a uniquely valuable role in a meaningful universe(73), & fear vs anxiety(67), & features of undesirable, uncontrollable & unexpected affect people most negatively(67), & fundamental attribution error(55), & high empathy & caregiver stress go together(30), & imagined failure vs real as source of(63), & interpretation of an event [plays a central role in(66), & loss of control central element of(84), & major source of problems usually situation or context vs caregiver(55), & neurotic paradox(72), & pathology vs active adaptational struggle(55), & pervasiveness of self-doubt(85), & problem-focussed vs emotion focussed coping(76), & self-efficacy(68)(84), & self-esteem as reputation we acquire w/ ourselves & powerful predictor of how we behave @ work & home(60), & stress, avoidance, guilt sequence(111), & stress buffers(77), & stress-hardy person sees challenge vs threat(83), & taking away what we love(69), & tendency toward self-blame(63-4), & terror-management theory of self-esteem(73), & T approaches to(72), & unrealistic expectations of ourselves major source of(62) , & when demands exceed resources available(69) | |
Marriage, and | The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work | J. Gottman | See Index | & flooding(36)(38-9), & male vs female(37-8), & stress from other areas(87), & self-soothing/soothing each other exercises(176-181), & talking about(189) | |
Sublimation | Five Lectures on Psycho-Analysis | S. Freud | & cultural success(60), of wish(27) | ||
The Souls Code | J. Hillman | P.241 | & crimes | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | P. 143 | |||
Vital Lies, Simple Truths | D. Goleman | See Index | vs displacement(121), & projection(122), as replacing the threatening w/ the safe(121) | ||
The Essential Jung | C. Jung | P.153-4 | of sexual energy | ||
The Beast in the Nursery | A. Phillips | P.20 | & delight | ||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | See Index | & omnipotence(152), & symbolism as foundation of(97) | ||
Envy & Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | & depressive anxiety/guilt(58)(83), & grievance/hatred(83)(118), & impeded reparation/despair(83), & love as precondition(83)(203) (258), & male/female genital(82), & oral(82), & reparation(15)(74) (82)(133) | ||
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | P.44 | & meaningfulness | ||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | See Index | & creative activity(67), & obsessional(140) | ||
Clinical Studies in Psychiatry | H. Sullivan | See Index | & definition of(14), & dream-world(19-20), & dynamics of difficulty (20), & effect on total personality(19), & element of unawareness (19),& M-D(290-2), & feeling secure(16-7), & obsessional(233-4), & paranoid(160-1), & satisfaction(17-8)(160), & schizophrenic form (34)(188), & selective inattention(62), & sleep(19-20), as way of life (36) | ||
Submission (Dominance) | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & accompanied by resignation(171-2)(176)(199), & collapsing into whenever there are existential beliefs in conflict(107), & death knell of play & improvisation(107), as defensive adaptation against anxiety, shame, guilt, anger(171)(176), & the done-to & the does(107)(167), & either/or versions of reality(167), & expectation of self-fulfilling prophecy of(53), & femininity approves of submission(110), & loses ability to even mentalize to know position of self-assertion(16)(53), & lust enables us to fantasize about(23), & masculine self seeks dominance(110), & mutual despairing sense of futility(53), Vs mutual recognition(167)(193), & mutual negation of each others sense of agency(53), & positional vs princip0les negotiation(170-1), & sadomasochism(16), & self-actualization vs perpetual vying for dominance against terror of submission(37), & split complementarity(16)(35)(193), & subject-to-object relating devolves into experience of(35), vs surrender(16-7)(171)(176)(199-200), as surrender to vs in presence of another (171), thirdness(, dominant position is surrendered while not engaging in submission(17), & trade places ie reversible complementarity(16)(181) |
Success Neurosis | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.128-9 | ||
On Flirtation | A. Phillips | See Index | & ambitions culturally legitimated desires(47), & ambitions need 1) an object of desire or ideal sufficiently separate from oneself to aspire to, a perceived lack, 2) a belief in Time, to suffer the pains & pleasures of anticipation & deferral 3) a tolerable relationship to satisfaction involving a belief in the possibility of ones desire(47), & anyone who is failing @ one thing is always succeeding @ another(49), & better to travel hopefully than to arrive(46), & children carry often in form of symptoms, parents repressed doubts about their own ideals & ambitions(46), & different selves have different projects = success & failure inextricable(50), & failure can feel like only appropriate punishment for success(57), & fantasies reliable because they can be achieved(44), & frustration/satisfaction precursors of our ideas of failure & success(49)(56), & ideals should feel like affinities, not impositions(51), & knowing what one wants can be a contradiction in terms ie success & failure often double for each other(47)(49), & success always means someone elses failure for Oedipal child & can feel worthy of punishment(57), & successful learning is successful or tolerable dependence(54), & suffering turns up when gap too big between who a person feels himself to be & who he wants to be(52) | ||
Suicide | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & confrontation w/ despair(193-4), of survivor(95) | |
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Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & death anxiety(122)(198), & isolation(375-6), & pact prohibiting(250) | ||
Depression, and | The Noonday Demon | A. Solomon | See Index | & act of misplaced courage(282), & alcoholics(255), as an attempt @ exorcism of the pain(244), & capacity for _ a burden that comes w/ Cs(254)(256), & characteristics of suicidal depression(253), & coexists w/ depression vs a symptom(243), & comes from hidden location beyond mind & Cs(244), & connection w/ parental death (257), & escaping confusion(280), & family(250), & feeling safe to locate causes for(263), & feeling well enough for(67-8), & 15% of depressed people will commit(25), & 4 groups of (244-5), & highest among men over 65(258), & insomnia during depression a prediction of(145), & inspires gui8lot all around it(264), & loneliness of self-annihilation(265), & manifestation of depressive end of manic/depressive mood spectrum(255), & men 4 times as likely to commit as women(178), & more of an anxiety response than a depressive solution(275), & committed by people seeing a psychiatrist & comes as a surprise(243), & peer(250-1), & previous attempts strongest factor in predicting(248)(251), & rational _ that responds to futility vs hopelessness ie amount of joy left cannot exceed amount of sorrow or pain(247), & rational vs irrational(283), & requires the coincidence of the wish to kill, to be killed & to die(252), as result of action not passivity(244), & result of thwarted love, shattered control, assaulted self-image, grief & rage(263), as revenge(244), & sources of societal(249-50), & stressed depression most likely to lead to(253-4), & successful people(255), & 3 rd cause of death under 21(248), & typical of agitated depression(48)(71), & undertaken to avoid future suffering(260), & very likely w/ 1 st depressive episode(248), & when killing pain matters more than saving yourself(266) | |
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | & imagining attending own death(175), as powerful story(96), as preserving purity of eros(96), & response to hysteric vs borderline by staff(175), & self-destruction(102)(139), & self-hate(104) | |
Sucking | Attachment | J. Bowlby | & attachment(249), as behavioural system in neonate(265), as complete movement(147), & crying(291), & food vs shape of object (271), & immature vs adult(142-3)(146), & non-nutritional(250) (292)(309), & oral symptoms(218), & orientation towards breast (276), & preferences for Mother(269), & rocking(294), & strength of(276), & symbolic of Mother(219), & transitional object(309)(312-3) | ||
Superego | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & extractive introjection(165), & intrasubjective relation(43) | |
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & depression(136), as element of psychic experience(387), as self-sadism & morality(182), & split of LE(283) | |||
Transference & Countertransference | K. Horney | See Index | as ally of clients hatred(122)(159), & determination of client(167), & projection of into client(115-9)(165) | ||
The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | & denial of projective identification(156), & development of savage (154)(156-7), &n fear of(148), & hatred of psychic reality(69)(148) | |||
Getting the Love You Want | H. Hendrix | P.30 | as imaginary parent | ||
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | & abandoning own wishes(184), & creation of through identification & turning anger against self(184)(217), & cruel superegos in outer world produce same in inner world(202), & egos conflict w/(185), & establishment of values(186), & id impulses(186), & ideals(184), & neurotic conflict & question of how to live(220-1), & pathologies of self-rage(185-7), & prohibition of morality(196-7), & role of accuser in melancholia(169), & using morality as vehicle(202) | ||
Open Minded | J. Lear | & no need for if not an intense wish or fury to hold down(64) | |||
The Will to Live | A. Hutschnecker | See Index | & conscience(74), & guilt(75) | ||
Envy & Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | & actions of(240), @ beginning of latency period(242), & close interaction w/ ego(59)(245), & conception of parents(321), & conscience(240)(279)(321), & core as good & bad breast(50)(136), & destructive impulses(240)(302)(313), & devouring breast/penis (30) (32), & envy(202), as felt by child(133), @ genital level(86), & good breast/penis(30)(32)(67), & guilt(292-3), & hopefulness(279), & identification(306), & identification w/ good object(309-10), & influence of split-off persecutors(279), & introjection of breast(49), & life instinct(30), & loneliness(313), & object relations(2), & Oedipal (245), & projection(320-1), & relationship to loved injured object (242), & reparation(279), & representative of death instinct (30)(240), & repression(86-7), & revulsion @ aggression(321), from split in ego (240), from split of good/bad object(240), & splitting (241)(245), & starting at 5-6m.(255), & successful depressive position(44)(279), & therapy(90)(276), & unified(321) | ||
The Selected Melanie Klein | J. Mitchell | See Index | in child analysis vs adult(63)(67), & demands of bad object(123), & dread of maternal _(80-1), & father as castratos(73), & femininity phase(74-5), & 1 st object relation(176-7), & guilt as product of(70), & infant sexual play(82), & the melancholic(122), & observation of coitus(81), & paternal _(80-1), & repression(71), & severity of(71) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & early history of(19), & experience of human beings(105), & guilt (18-9) | |||
Conscience, and | The Still Small Voice | D. Carveth | See Index | & aggression driven mostly by anxiety(178), & all frustration experienced as persecution→ hate→ persecutory fears of retaliation→ further hate→ projection→ intensifying sense of persecution→ more hate(206), & antisocial nature of(74)(149-50), & archaic SEs demand for punishment for schizoid coldness towards & hatred of object world(133), (133), & archaic vs mature(92), & conflict between empathy & sadistic aggression & revenge(60), & conflict w/ conscience(21)(65-6)(70)(74)(206), & ethic of authority(256), & evil(214), & to extent we refuse to reconcile w/ conscience will continue to be tormented by SE(276), & failure to line up to ideal results in SE attack = both a N state of self-punishment & shame(82), & forecloses expression of depressive anxiety or concern for object(91-3), & from conscience derive moral guidance & strength to expose immorality of SE &, w/ help of ego, overcome it(15)(21), & fuelled by hate(177), & generates N need for self-punishment→ forms of painful self-torment & shame or infliction on scapegoat(66), & guilt-evading function of(91)(134), & hypochondriacal anxiety(129), & ideologies of domination & exploitation that constitute immoral & destructive SE(20)(51)(72) (134)(185), & insist upon our agency to hold us to account to an irrational degree(199-200), & internalise a persecutory obj. due to inevitable frustration & pain = neg. talion operative in PS position(61)(63)(74), as manifestation of Thanatos(82)(178), & mind seeks relief from self-torture by projecting guilt-laden bad feelings ion to others & attacking own sins there-always hides intense or repressed feelings of personal guilt(150), & moral injury arises from obedience to an authoritative SE that commands unconscionable acts(52)(66), & moral & social progress opposed by reactionary SE(67), & narcissism(92), & normal pathological SE not humane(51)(73-4), & perverse [pleasure in our guilt→ more SE scolding that we masochistically rejoice in(212-3), & shaped by familial & military authority(21)(70), & subject deserving of punishment(91), & T soothing of(132), & Unc. grounds of(91)(106), & values comprising mostly derived from culture(70)(72)(79)(82), & w/o conscience, subject will identify w/ punitive SE & self-righteously channel aggression away from self onto sinners whom mission is to punish(65)(149-50) | |
Creativity, and | The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | P.235 | & being inner-directed | |
Sociopathy, and | The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | See Index | vs conscience(33)(35), & obeying the rules(32), & ruthlessness(31) | |
Women, and | Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi, ed | See Index | & acceptance of vagina(196), & acquiring mans(196), & admired internalized penis of father(81), & breast as basis of(84), & castration (194), & change in(188), & cruelty of(72), & female virtues(194), & 1 st stage as heir of negative Oedipus complex(194), & Freud(14), as having weaker(25)(214), & mix of male identification & feminine attitude(81), & obsessional(71-2), & origin in oral phase(83-4), & projection(195), & resignation(194) | |
Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & after Oedipal(34), & affiliation(33), & ego ideal(52-3), & feminine(34), & incest(33), as inheritance of Oedipal(33), as less strong(34), & masculine(34), & maternal(34), as official woman(192) | ||
Superman | Why Men Are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | P.359 | & feeling needy | |
Supervision | Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic technique | S. Usher | Ch.8 | & conflict in(142), & goal of(148), & negotiating/explaining(148), & parallel process(140-1)(143-4), & questions for students(149), & teach or trust dilemma(144)(146), & therapy w/(145), & 3 types of learning(139-40)(147) | |
Surrender | Couples, and | A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & accepting others separateness & difference rather than interacting w/ intent to control or coerce(17), & additive to relationship(17), & allows for co-constructive, co-authorial aspect of each partner to the other transiently identify w/ one anothers projections w/o devolving into a rigid pattern of projective identification(16), & mutual recognition(17), & being vs doing(176), & can surrender in presence of another but not to another(171), & cannot be made to happen(172)(176), as essential intersubjective capacity to live w/ basic human paradox that sometimes I must ruthlessly be who I am but I need you to recognize me to full realize who I am(171)(175), & means transcendence & acceptance(199-200), & play(203), & reflective of growth(171), & reflects an expansion of limiting constraints of ones personality through their relaxation(171-2)(176) (200), & relational mind emerges in relationship when partners surrender to thirdness of relationship(16-7)(181), & represents something synthesizing(17), & resolution of paradox involves(199-200), vs submission(171), & submission/masochism perversion of (171)(199), & surrender positions of dominance while not engaging in submission(17), & tango(181-2), |
Symbiosis/ Symbiotic Character | Necessary Losses | J. Viorst | See Index | & boys anxiety of(130), & fathers role(73), & merging(29), & yearning to return(25) | |
The Naked Ape Trilogy | D. Morris | & beasts of burden(150), & definition of(148), & dog(148), & domestication(151), & pest destroyers(150) | |||
Characterological Transformation | S. Johnson | See Index | & body of(34), =commitment(176), & difficulty w/ separation(33), & fear of engulfment/abandonment(42), & killing sex(176), & oral character(30-1)(175-6), & relationships(176) | ||
Phase, and | The Psychological Birth of the Human Infant | M. Mahler | & attention to Mother(54), & body-ego(46-7), & boys _ anxiety (215), & delayed differentiation(58), & description of(8)(44), & differentiation(204), & earliest boundary formation(24), & infant/ Mother omnipotent system(44-5), & infant vs Mothers meaning of (44), & investing Mother w/ dual unity(48-9), & longing for closeness (75), & Mothers need for(186), & Mothers reaction to locomotor function(66), & Mothers responsibility(190), & need satisfaction(46), & object constancy(110), & optimal cuing(204), & origin of ego(45), & precociousness(208), as precursor to unique make-up(197), as prerequisite for normal S/I(3)(47), & primary narcissism(46), & regression to(209), & stranger reaction(57-8), & symbiotic child psychosis(6-7)(12-3)(45)(198-9), & unspecific smiling(46) | ||
Therapeutic | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | & acting out against therapist as symbiotic-transference identity-partner(87), & choosing to remain psychotic(218), as contented, unthreatened, emotional oneness w/ therapist(218), & individuation (218), vs neurotic(192), & relatedness w/ partner(112), as same as mother-infant relatedness in normal infancy(218), & symbiotic-dependency feelings(192), & symbiotic sense of identity(83), & therapeutic _ as transference & real(96), & transference(191), & use of we(83)(85) | |
Symbols | Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | & archetypes(540-1), as before Cs(331), & calling the gods(580-1), & collective(64), & crescent/moon(404), & dreams(9)(223)(580), as fact(93)(582), & idol worshippers(542), & relationship as centre of social group(24), as sacred eg cross(540), as Unc contents(579-82) | ||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & dreams(17-8)(184), & horse(188), & mana-symbol(185), & mandala(229), & Mother(187), in relation to Cs situation(186), as tendencies in form of analogies(296), & Unc(297) | ||
The Dynamics of Creation | A. Storr | & attaining/limiting insight(187), & comprehending object(184), & detaching self from object(184), & forming concepts(184), & grasping reality(185), & obsessional(140), & psychical distance (183-4), & sexual perversion(142), vs signs(184), & transitional objects(221), & the word(185) | |||
Churchills Black Dog | A. Storr | Ch.11 | & art(235), as bridge between inner/outer(231), & changing one form of psychic energy to another(232), & conveying ideas w/ economy (234), & definition of(228), & development of inner world(229)(231), & development of intelligence(229), as expressing/inducing state of mind(235), as giving meaning to external(232), & music(238)(244-5), & psychical distance(245), when symbolic function fails(232-3) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | P.146 | between infant & object | ||
Values, and | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 76 | ||
Symptoms | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & death anxiety(197-203), & universal symptom(denying isolation)(251) | |
Function of | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 184-5 | ||
Self-Relations, and | The Courage to Love | S. Gilligan | See Index | & archetypal nature of(156), as attempt to repair mind/body split(74), as break in belonging(57), as break in relatedness(131), as call to return to centre(18), & depression(25), as disconnection w/ felt sense of centre(74), as identification w/ alien presences(67), & listening vs destroying(74), & negative self-identity(182), & neglected self(130-1), & ritual(184), & transformation of as therapeutic goal(18), & 3 types of breaks(65), as urge to find new way(25) | |
Synchronicity | Youll See It When You Believe It | W. Dyer | Ch.6 | & connection between thoughts(196), & definition of(184), & intelligence behind all form(185)(187), & life steps as synchronized (219), & meaning in the moment(204), as nurturing our divine connection(198), & saying Yes to life(213)(218), & thought w/o form(205), as universal human experience(185) | |
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & archetypes(26)(331), & collective Unc(26), & definition of(26), & mandala(292), & parapsychology(332-3)(337-8), & Unc/Cs(338) | ||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | & collective Unc(138), & death(138), & premonitions(231), & Unc(302) | |||
The Road Less Traveled | S. Peck | P.254-257 | & definition of(254-5), & grace(257), & serendipity(257) | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Taboos | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | on aggression(219-20)(224), on ambition(317), on arrogance(224), on aspirations(144), on enjoyment(141), on good fortune(230), on hostility(83), & shoulds(65), on tenderness(83) | |
Termination | Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | Ch.6 | & dealing w/ clients feelings about(109)(114), & healing after termination(113), & indicators of(99), & leaving door open(106), & leaving student therapy prematurely(111-2), & reappearance of issues (102), & termination note for records(113) | |
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & activation of self-analytic function(154), & a good analysis(209), & increasing variety of selfobjects(79) | ||
Hope & Dread | S. Mitchell | & capacity to use interpretation(83), & realization of responsibility (229-231) | |||
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | & couples have each other vs individual alone @(147), & examining individual motives of(145), & may experience revival of earlier symptoms(143-4), & interpretation of(144), & mourning the holding env.(150), & noticing they are resolving issues themselves, less fighting, sex life improved & look fwd to being w/ each other(142), & post-graduate work(148), & spending more time on extra-couple issues(144), & symptom improvement, more comprehensive understanding as to why & how conflicts arose, more realistic perception of each other, greater tolerance for flaws & times of weakness, better way of communicating, way of providing holding env., ways of meeting selfobject needs & way of empathizing so that can, @ times, feel deeply understood(142-3), & T becoming a nuisance(142), & would they initiate T now?(142) | ||
Therapeutic/ Working Alliance | Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | between clients reasonable ego & therapists analysing ego(15), & 1 st session as education & understanding(65), & identification w/ therapist as healer(16), & learning what works w/ each client(67-8) | ||
The Mystery of Things | C. Bollas | Ch.1 | as derivative of earlier alliance(6), as paradoxical meeting(10), as 3 rd object(6) | ||
Borderline/ Narcissist, and | The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & alliance of egos(131-2), & clients projections(192), & definition of(129)(192), & intensive analytic therapy(136), & lack of classical, w/ borderline(129-30),& neurotic client(192), & RS(193), & signs of (132-3), & testing phase of therapy(132), & therapeutic neutrality (193), & therapeutic task w/ borderline(131), & therapeutic task w/ narcissist(173), & transference acting out(130)(132), & working through(131-2)(136)(173) | |
Thinking/ Thought | Youll See It When You Believe It | W. Dyer | Ch.2 | & the ability to think(16), & the ability to be thought itself(16), & attachment/detachment(144-5), & cannot die(14)(180), & choice of processing world vs whats in it(34), & circumstances as reflection of (67), & connections between(193)(198), that creates feelings(65), & formlessness(12)(53), & limitlessness of, vs form(8-9)(12-3), & memory storage(196), & obstacles in(206), & physical movement as response to(191), & 4 principles of visualization(42-50), & quality of life based on(112-3), & reactions to life determined by(71), & rules of awakened dreaming(55-61), & rules of dreaming(51-2), & signs of inner peace(14)(88), & spiritual being having human experience(33), & synchronicity(196)(198)(204-5)(212-3), & Tao(196), | |
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & abstract(301), as doing(251), & dreams(301), as male element (261), & schizoid intellectual(64)(301) | ||
The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | See Index | & absence of mental representation for outer figures=absence of capacity to think(5), vs action(36)(103)(144), & abstraction(54-5) (86 )(89)(98), & alpha elements(39)(71), & alpha function(Ch 7)(39) (87), & attacking processes of(152-4), & beta elements(Ch7)39)(71) (83), & beta screen(66-7), & cause & blame(76)(96), & contact barrier(64-6), & container/contained(Ch 6), & emotional component of(81), & emotional experience(27)(30)(91), & exposure to truth(3), as 1 st used to master environment(81), & growth of thought(53) (101), as interposed between impulse & action(87), & naming a constant conjunction(99-100), & omnipotence(164), & omniscience (164), as PS to D move(79-80)(94)(101), & possessing therapist in thought (84), & pre-conception(10)(40)(42)(53-4)(56)(97-8), & proto-mental system(138)(140), & refusal to(103), & thought as no thing(83-4) (102)(117), & thoughts w/o a thinker(82)(102)(182) | ||
Conversations with God | N. Walsch | See Index | & Cs(77), as creative(38)(54)(178), as pure energy(54), & resistance(103), & soul(182), & Sponsoring(12), & words(74), & worry(188-9) | ||
This Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | & container/contained(101), & dream-thoughts(100-1)(103)(105), as framing the questions to be answered in terms of feelings(64), & Freud vs Bion(100), & growth as increase in penetrability of thoughts(103), & it takes at least 2 people to think(Bion)(64) (102), & It wasnt just the sound of your voice, it was the sound of you thinking(18), & omnipotent thinking in mania(40), & psychoanalysis as thought w/o a thinker before Freud(27)(100), & thinkers describing vs creating truth(65), & thoughts destroying the capacity to think(102-5), & unlinkable thoughts(101), as viewing of exp. simultaneously from Cs & Unc mind(99-100), & Winnicott vs Bion(108) | |||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | & archetypal ideas(178-9), & dreams(446-7), vs feeling type(269) (605), as function/type(315-6)(590)(604), & Logos(697-8), as mirror (291), & realizing(Yin power)(657-9) | |||
Brain, and | The Right Brain | T. Blakeslee | & activation by a question(179-81), & creative(42), & left vs right(9-10)(36)(167)(170)(176), & memory(39)(52)(69-70), & mental images(52), & technological progress(110-1) | ||
Tickling | On Kissing, Tickling and Being Bored | A. Phillips | Ch. 1 | & child as wholly exploitable(9-10), & frustration as final satisfaction (11), as pleasure that cannot be produced in absence of other(9), as seduction(10), as only sensuous contact that makes us laugh(11) | |
Tragedy | Open Minded | J. Lear | See Index | & a possibility we must live w/(216-80, & providing us w/ the appropriate objects toward which to feel pity & fear(196)(211), & wonder produced in(203) | |
Traits | The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | See Index | & 3 core motivations: 1) secure/assured=safety, certainty, preparedness & opportunity-fear group 2) loved/connected = rrecognition, approval, pair/group bonding & affection-distress group 3) valued/comforted=respect, power/control, congruence, comfort & harmony-anger group= ways repeated neural firing & mental experience have shaped our plateaus & peaks into repeating & enduring patterns(164-5), & emerge in early life(161-2), & ground of being(being @ one) then have to work for a living & make things OK again→ negative affective states: fear, distress & anger(159)(165), as innate tendencies(182), & integrative(180-1), & mindfulness as way of relaxing rigidity of(98)(173)(177-181), & how we orient to aspects of our internal & external world(162), & insecure A = traits restrictive(163-4), & notion of T=feel comfortable in own skin, not to lose it(162-4)(172)(182)(185), & personality(177), & 9 personality types & each focus attention on specific aspects of events in everyday life especially in interpersonal interactions(153)(161)(167), & have propensities toward emotional reaction of anger/rage, separation distress/sadness or fear/anxiety & focus intention inward, outward or combined(160)(165)(167), & secure A=accept traits(163-4), & traits arise especially when those we depend upon fail to fully satisfy our needs & desires(165), & traits bias us in content(specific features of our experience) & direction(strategies of self-regulation(166) | |
Transcendence | The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & awe(134), & definition of(146), & the Other(58), & religiosity (117-9)(124)(128), & wholeness(140-1) | |
Transference | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & as-if(135)(264-5), & analyst as bad object(149), & better parent(264), & countertrans.(149), & doubleness(262-3), & interpretation(314)(320-1), & mirror to analyst(197), & period of hesitation(278), & re-enactments(327)(346-7), & silence(206) (268), & similarity vs sameness(11-2), in social relations(141), & transference illusion(259), & trauma(262)(265-7), & triggers of(316), & unc hope(142)(192)(296-7), of understanding gleaned elsewhere (203), & the unknown(9)(326-7), & using object(141) (269-70), & wanting/needing(296) | |
Transference & Countertransference | H. Racker | All | |||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & acting out(25), & different transference states(242-7), & extractive introjection(163)(168), & handling of self as object(59) (62), & interpretation as introject(241), & the liar(181), & providing remedy for life(24)& unthought known(207) | ||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & fear & anxiety of client(33-4), & longing for therapists love(33) (345-6), & personal relationship(316)(338-9), & positive/ negative (200), & psychopath(167), & resistance(345), & therapist as human being(353), & 3 stages of recovery(336-7), & what happened before vs what never happened before(353) | |||
Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | See Index | & countertrans.(135), & discussion of(Ch.2), & bi-polar concept (116), & interpersonal experience(71), & re-experiencing therapy (60-1)(84)(173), & resistance(62-4)(75-8), & selfobject(115-6)(119-20) (173) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | See Index | & borderline(129-32)(136), & countertrans.(197)(203-4), & narcissist(175), & transference acting out(137) | ||
Freud | J. Lear | & acquiring a new transf. meaning(137), & acquiring practical ability to intervene in(133-5), & analysis as microcosm in which a persons enduring Unc conflicts are re-enacted(136)(141-2), as anxious moment of breakdown in ability to carry out transf.(138) (140), & capturing @ right level of generality(125), & compromise formation(134-5), & experiencing people as occupying fixed positions(124), & focussing on here & now(125)(137), as idiosyncratic world coming into view in analysis(124)(141), & inverse correlation between remembering & repeating(136)(139), & quick interpretation(138-9), as repetition that cannot yet be remembered(136), & treating as unfolding in a play space(137) | |||
Open Minded | J. Lear | See Index | & cost of keeping something out of Cs=act out Unc=compulsion to repeat(endure)=clients way of remembering=memorialisation= endowing world w/ comprehensible meaning(65-6), & cultural activities having an Unc meaning(69-70), & dev. of as single process w/ 2 aspects(73-4), & distorted images ultimately distortions of something real(59-60), as erotic attempt to end that longing by finding what one is missing(132), as form of political engagement (132), & fundamental demand of _ is that the other should participate in a world endowed w/ peculiar meanings(71-2), as human lovelife as it manifests in the social realm(132), & intrapsychic(62-3), & a living world is transformed into a remembrance of things past(79), & making the Unc Cs(79), & maternal(74-6), & neurosis(138-9), as playground in which repetitions are allowed to proliferate(74-5), as the psyches characteristic activity of creating a meaningful world in which to live(60)(66)(70-1)(79)(155), & rel. between intra & interpsychic _(65), & 3 sets of significant boundaries in human life(76-7), & task of T to take into account both inter & intrapsychic _ else interpretation fails(72-3), & transf. vs transf. neurosis(139-40)(142-3), & understanding Cs thought by understanding ways it functions as covering for Unc form(64-5), & unique blend of comfort & discomfort(75), & well-engineered disappointment(75-6)(78-9) | ||
The Art of Psychotherapy | A. Storr | Ch.8 | & attitude towards T(154), & authority(70-1), & change(81), & gifts (80), & idealization of T(74-5 )(77), & improving interpersonal relationships through(160), & introjection(77), & love(79), & negative towards T, positive towards others(73), & sex(78-81), & therapy as as-if process(75) | ||
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | See Index | & behaviour(89), & definition of(7-8), & gifts(89), via history(46-2), & identifying(85-7), & inappropriate reaction as tip-off(8), & insight based on Ts observation(12), & lack of negativity(11), & 2 levels of (87-8), & looking for opposite of reaction(10), & resistance(22-3), & seeing/being seen outside office(90)(92), in termination(119), & vacation(92-4) | ||
The Analytic Encounter | M. Jacoby | See Index | & archetypal(29)(82-3), & becoming Cs as opus contra naturam ie it goes against nature not to yield to an ardent desire ie paradox of living ones nature & working against nature(112), & countertransf. (109-10), & delusional ie is(57-9), & erotic transf. as resistance (110-1), & human relations(67), & I/Thou, I/It(61-4), & idealizing (50-2), & illusional ie as if(56)(58-9), & interpretation of(85-6), & mirror(43-50), & need of client for Ts love vs therapy(109), & projection(35)(51), & T as instrument in service of the Self(109), & T as opus magnum(113) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman, ed | See Index | & NPD(275)(279-80), & regression(259), & seduction(269) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & acting out(209), & falling vs being held(113), & finding ourselves in client(250), & how little need be done?(166), & interpretation vs waiting(189), & professional attitude of T(161), w/ schizoid(189), & succeeding by failing(258), & transference neurosis(158-60), & trauma(209) | |||
Borderlines, and | My Work with Borderline Patients | H. Searles | See Index | & counterpart of clients psychopathology in T(22), & countertrans. (208-9), & criteria for analyzability(207), & emergence of T as truly human individual from(30)(203), & finding a sample of everything in T(276), vs neurotic(198)(201), & origin prior to clear differentiation of inner & outer & prior to whole person relationships to whole objects(198), & pre/post emergence of oedipal conflicts(125), & premature interpretation(276-7), as priceless source of analytic data (202), & projected onto nonhuman or near human objects or processes (29)(127-8)(198)(204), & projection of unintegrated introject(201-2) (274-5), & splitting of, between T & therapy(124), vs real relationship w/ T(68)(125) (200), & T being moulded into conformity w/ transference-images (68)(200), & Ts guilt over psychotic _(208-9), & T as paranoid parent-figure(280-2), & T reminiscing about their past(277-8), & T as terrifying(275), as threatening Ts sense of reality & identity(198) (202), & transference as Ts only subjective reality (199-200), & transference-borderline-psychosis(206), & transference jealousy (125), & transgenerational(child as parental trans.-image of their parent)(308-9), as transitional object(269), as upsetting to T(12) (276) | |
Cherishment, and | Cherishment | E. Young-Bruehl | as early expectation to be loved(13), & listening for dimension that is clients childhood cherishment, the clients longing for affection, growth & dev.(90-1) | ||
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | See Index | & analysts irreducible subjectivity(102), & appropriate to env.(114), & asymmetrical transf.(108), & borderline couples(110), & caretaker-cared for dynamic(108), & competition for limelight (107), & co-T(109), & envy(18), & erotic(110-1), & idealizing transf. to T(74)(104), includes: 1) transf. of each to the T 2) how T is represented for couple together 3) transf. of partners to each other(103), & internal parents(112), & interpretation of through reliving in T(102-3), & influence of gender of T(104), & men marry their mothers & women too(6), & parental(105-6), & partner transf. emerging through history(38-9), & oppositional partner-to-partner transf.(113-4), & partner functions as transf. object embodying projections & displacements from relationship w/ parents & siblings(5), & reflecting couples internal dynamics(108), & resolution of maladaptive partner-to-partner in termination(142-4), & selfobject(26)(114-5), & sibling(37)(106-7), & symbiotic partner-to-partner transf.(113-4), & transf. love(63), & transf. reaction = 1) repetition of past & 2) inappropriate to present moment(102), & 2 unsatisfying outcomes: 1) expectation sorely disappointed, partner being reverse of what they appeared during courtship 2) life crisis→ shift in equilibrium→ transference need no longer gratified(102), & when 1 partner keeps cancelling appointments, etc.(108), & whole couple(109-10), & wish to have T judge who is right(107) | |
A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | vs agency(50), & bidimensional models of(41)(52)(54)(67), & captures organization of ones personality(50), & constrained by transference convictions(15), & countertransf.(74-5)(119), & forward vs trailing edge of(42), & how does each partner overcome tenacious grip of own repetitive transference organization(15), & how selfobject longings source for triggering(45), & idealizing toward T(209), & the Jack Story(44), & longing for developmental experiences that were missing challenged by dreaded repetition of thwarted development(42), & playing w/ repetitive transf. states (160), & repetitive dimension of each partners Unc models of transf.(43), & selfobject dimension of transf. seeks responsiveness to sense of agency & repetitive dimension scanning for how it will be thwarted(51), & shaping expectations of being dominated(53), & Unc scripting one another(43-4), & when dread to repeat negative repetitive transf. shifts into dread not to(118-9) | ||
Definition of | Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 119 | ||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & being attuned to subj. exp. of rel.(279), & act of communicating understanding(145), & to avoid annihilation anxiety(209-10), & being emphatic & empathic(145), & clients cannibalistic need to find himself in T through_(212)(312-3), & countertransf. as natural, role-responsive, necessary complement or counterpart to transf. (151), & diss. domains of self achieving symbolization through(256) (310-1), & distinction between T being used as obj. & being exploited as a person(209-11), as enrichment of perceptiveness (152), & freeing client to see T while T is seeing him(256), & here & now exp. vs transf. expression of past(319-20), & interpretation co-constructed by T & client(255-6), & knowing clients inner world as rel. act w/o correcting it(145), & narcissism(92-3), & participant observation(151-2)(156-7)(192-3), & psychotic transf. as enactment of diss. self-states(319), & rendering Ts words meaningless by client(326-7), & rel. between T & child(144), & resistance(91-3), & no single transf. reality(287-8), as not just something that has happened but is still being enacted while T makes interpretation(151), & strangeness anxiety(86-7), & Ts act of recognition(278)(294), & T rel. as group entity(289-90), & T as always deaf & wrong in interpretation allowing client to re-create T as part of self-creation(286)(310), & T surviving as real obj. to be used as primary obj.(145), & more T tries to understand more he feels hes abandoning client(319), & transf. as enactment by client & T of area of illusion between inside & outside(144-5)(278), & transf. regression(294), &, through transf., shedding defenses & feeling authentic(145), where capacity to mentalize severely impaired(289), as where the action takes place(256)(310) | |
Erotic | Thoughts on the Nature of Desire | J. Davis | All CTP X | ||
Existential T, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | as defense against death anxiety(195-6), vs real relationship w/ T(404)(413) | |
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | P. 119 | definition of | ||
Fear of Death, and | The Denial of Death | E. Becker | See Index | & all power to cure diseases of life, ills of the world present in transf. object(147)(212), & becomes the focus of the problem, of ones freedom because compulsively depends on it(146-7), & belief that mystery & solidity of transf. object will give one shelter as long as he lives(148), & could lead to complete subjection is its truthful character(142), as enduring monument of mans profound rebellion against reality(143), as the fatal & crushing enslaver of men(202), & fatality of = must falsify world to eliminate what is basic to it, anxiety(142), as form of fetishism, a form of narrow control that anchors our own problems(144)(202), as fundamentally a problem of courage because motivated by immortality, not sexuality(142), & groups(132-3)(135-9)(149), & hypnosis a mystery only as long as man did not admit his own Unc motives(129-3)(138), & indicates a need to exert complete control over external circumstances(143), & less ego power & more fear, stronger the transf.(147), & loss of will a secret yearning(129)(131), & negative or hate transf. helps us to fix ourselves in the world, to create a target for our own feelings even though those feelings are destructive, but blows up person larger than he deserves(144), as not an emotional mistake but experience of other as ones whole world(146), As the positive use of the object for eternal self-perpetuation(212), & see the grown person as a child @ heart, a child who distorts the world to relive his helplessness & fears, who sees things as he wishes them to be for his own safety(129)(142), as a taming of terror by endowing certain persons w/ power vs universe ie comes to represent the great biological forces of nature→ child can control his fate & safely emerge in rel. to transf. object(156), & transf. heroics(156), & transf. object becomes new fate→ transf. terror of losing object, displeasing it, not being able to live w/o it(146), & transf. surrender(157), & using our body as transf. object eg illness makes us feel real & gives us a little purchase on our fate(144) | |
HSPs, and | The Highly Sensitive Person | E. Aron | See Index | & attraction to therapist(178), & longing to be held(181), to spiritual leaders(182), as stronger for HSPs(179)(185) | |
Humour, and | Humour on the Couch | A. Lemma | & analytic superego(149-50), & gratification of desires(160), & heightened affective moments(147), & humour as developmental advance(161)(163), & humourous space(149-50), & interpretation of as main mutative intervention(124-5), & laughter/humour as moment of meeting(147-9), & moments of meeting(147-8), & moments of meeting as mutative(148)(164-5), & moments of meeting vs transf. interpretation(148), & neglect of real rel. &, therefore, humourous exchanges(125)(129)(144-5), & 3 organizing principles if interactive regulation(146), & transf. Interpretation as defensive measure(128), & use of humour to recreate symbiotic, narcissistic rel w/ T(160) | ||
Hysteria, and | Hysteria | C. Bollas | See Index | & collusion not to express sexual contents(153)(159), & cycle of arousal/deferral as erotic(160), & illness as experience of selfs erotic life(148-9), & interpretation as castration(148), of malignant hysterics (128)(132), & mind-fucking(149), vs narcissist, borderline & schizoid (9-10), & presentation of absence(147-8), as satisfying Ts desire(59), vs schizoid erotic _(160-1), & self-disclosure as orgasm(149), & sexuality of T vs real(150), & silent love of T(22) (156), & T as object of desire(155), & transference junkies(150), & transforming imaginary into speech(156-7) | |
Intersubjective, and | Psychoanalytic Treatment | R. Stolorow | Ch.3 | & analysts contribution to(41-3), & bipolar(101-5), as displacement (32-3), as distortion(34-6), & functions of(37-8), as holding environment(44), as organizing activity(36-7), as projection(33-4), as regression(30-2), & resistance(13-4)(39-40), & resolution of(45), & selfobjects(40-1)(86) | |
Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | See Index | & alterego(40), as coming out of client/T co-created, intersubj. field(7)(20), & conjunctions/disjunctions(20-1), & creating trust through careful exploration of(111), & dread of repeating(50), & idealizing(39-40), & individual T in combination w/ cpl(128-9), & the needed vs repeated(22)(49-50), as occurring as client assimilates exp. of T into pre-existing themes & beliefs about rel.(20), & selfobject(36), as universal psychological striving to organize exp. & construct meanings(20) | ||
Working Intersubjectively | D. Orange | See Index | & myth of uncontaminated(39-40), & selfobject(65) | ||
Projective Identification, and | Projective Identification & Psychotherapeutic Technique | T. Ogden | as concept requiring interaction of 2 separate personality systems (210), & 3 interrelational facets(210-1), & projective identification (69-73), & regression to dependence(79) | ||
PTSD, and | Trauma & Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & attunement to Unc & nonverbal communication(139), & dynamic of dominance/submission(138), & experience of helplessness(137), & fantasy of revenge against T(138), & fury at failure of idealized T (137), & inability to trust T(138), & intense quality of(136), & power imbalance(135), & projective identification(139), & sexualized(139), & suspicions of T(138), & T as omnipotent rescuer(137), & violence of perpetrator in therapy(136), & working alliance(136) | |
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & inequality of relationship(84-5), & knowing too much about T(85), & object relations(6), as repetition of clients forgotten past(122), & uncooperative client(88) | |
Self-Psychology, and | How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & compensation(44-6), & empathy(170), & narcissistic(4-5)(44), & optimal errors(66-7), & selfobject(4)(67)(201-2), & self-psychological approach to(5)(208), & 3 step process of cure(65-6) (110), & transference(structural) neurosis(24-6)(53)(106)(113), & transference sequence(6)(22), & transitional period in(68), & trauma (178) | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | as creating safe env. for transforming exp. of existential uncertainty (66-7), as organizing activity(66), & verbal info. vs domain of implicit relational knowing(69) | ||
Transformation | The Aquarian Conspiracy | M. Ferguson | See Index | & definition of(68), & denial as alternative(74), of fear(115), & focussing awareness on awareness(85), & insight(32), & instability (164)(166), & paradigm change(72), & relationships(394-5), & social action(191), & stages of(89-97), & stewardship of our potential (391), & work(348) | |
The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | See Index | & every utterance as(143), the 1 st as representation of experience by client & T of their coming together(106-7), & hatred & fear of(119), & projective identification(111), & rigid motion type of(111), the 2 nd in the communication of that experience by client in behaviour & T in words(107)(119), & seeing of shame, as eg of(166-7), & T not being blinded by pre-conceptions(107), & Ts transformation of his experience w. client(119), & transformation of O(107-8)(143-4) (167) , & typical of psychotic part(111), & use of Grid(124) | ||
The Eden Project | J. Hollis | See Index | & marriage(85), as religious urge(118), & sacrificing ourselves for others(73), & those who hurt us(85) | ||
Dark Nights of the Soul | T. Moore | vs development models of human life(24), & grief(25), & skyscraper vs caterpillar to butterfly(24) | |||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | & archetypes(537), & the moon(379) | |||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | Ch.13 | & living life as expression of being(107), & recovery(107) | ||
Transmuting Internalization | Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | See Index | & building structure(113), & failure of empathy(158) | |
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | & analyzability(71), & comparison w/ normal development(206-7), & cure through(98-9), & self-selfobject processes(70), & 2 step intervention of T(206), as wholesome psychic activity(4), & working through of transference(4) | |||
Trauma | Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | All | ||
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | & anxiety defenses to disrupt memory of trauma(158), & dread (154), & repetition as failed attempt to master(158), & traumatic dream as attempt to restore capacity to dream(155) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | See Index | & dissociation(114-5)(332-3), & sexualization(140) | ||
Couples, and | EFT w/ Trauma Survivors | S. Johnson | All |
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A Relational Psychoanalytic Approach to Couples Therapy | P. Ringstrom | See Index | & as assault of the unimaginable ie when victim unable to imagine event that occurred before its occurrence(103-4)(195), & attempting to free traumatized client from expectations of misfortune most complex issue T faces(132)(226), & causes formation of absolutisms(104-5), & dissociation most often linked to(22), & dread of revisiting w/ partner(41)9132), & having enduring impact (105), & hope of repairing(41), & overcoming constraints of omnipotent solipsistic worldview when fundamental organization has been traumatized(15), & radical diminution in ability to create new meaning &, therefore, encumbers sense of agency & unable to transform meaning of(34), & relationships that are mutually traumatizing(54), & repetitive dimension of each partners Unc model of transf.(43), & shaming effect of reintroducing(106), & using trauma as morality gambit(105-6), vs violation of expectancy (106-7)(115), & when one partner does something that profoundly devastates other in manner could never have believed possible(105), & when sense of agency source of traumatic threat to other(52) | ||
Development, and | Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & evacuation of, through displacement & repetition(69), vs genera (68-70)(78-80), & importance of 2 nd occurrence of(66), & mind as agent of self traumatization(241), & psychic confusion(67), of psychoanalysis(78), & representation of(69-70)(78), & search for negative object & experience(79) | |
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | & clients omnipotence(37), & depression(209), & interruption of going-on-being(97), & transference(209), & violation of infants ego-functioning(57) | |||
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | See Index | & amnesia for perceptual memory but experiential memory remains intact(258-60), & area of conflict always interwoven w/ areas of trauma(258), & basic problem of traumatized ind. his own self-cure(231-2)(260), & childs exp. of me-ness(`0-1)(88)(244), & clients essential truth as island of tortured affect & felt hopelessness of verbal expression(134-5), & clients sense of T not wanting to know the diss. self-state holding the exp. of trauma(259-60), & the cocoon(194-5), & cognitively symbolized through enactment(259-61), & constantly mobilizing for disaster(13)(260)(296), & disconfirming childs state of mind leads to trauma leads to diss.(11), & disruption of illusion of unity(273), & diss. as defense against by obliterating the self to whom the trauma could occur(12) (173)(243)(258-9), & enacting new ways of being w/o fear of traumatically losing the continuity of who he is(171)(260), & equal to W.s impingement(271), & fear of breakdown that has already been experienced(133)(237), & finding voice for what may drive self mad(135), & hope as the enemy(194), & inability to repr. here & now exp.(214), & maintaining state constancy(168-9), & need to get agony in past by ego gathering it into present & omnipotent control now(133),as occurring in situations in which self-invalidation cannot be escaped from & w/ no hope of protection(12), as over whelming threat to integrity of self accompanied by annihilation anxiety(11), & present pre-empted by repetitive, timeless traumatic past(133)(237)(252-3)(258-9), & recognition of as requiring capacity for a particular kind of grief (173), & repeating the trauma of non-recognition(258), & resistance as trauma eluding our knowledge(215), & root problem of neurosis is shock, not fear(169), & security of personality linked to trauma-based view of reality(12-3)(232), & self-reflection extremely curtailed(12)(233), & shame(295-6), & shock characteristic of trauma, fear of danger(169)(184)(229-30), & T rel. supporting ability to regulate potentially traumatic hyperarousal of affect(295), & no thoughts to link intersubj. world of trauma w/ subj. world of another person(134-5)(260), & traumatized child using diss. to cope but w/ enduring exp. of something being wrong(88)(133), as unmodifiable by interpretation as cannot be represented(185), & what will happen vs what has happened(259-60) | |
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index (A-M) | & affect evoked by not merely unpleasant but a disorganized hyperarousal that threatens to overwhelm the minds ability to think, reflect & process the experience cognitively-threatens to carry the person to edge of self-fragmentation & sometimes self-annihilation-continuity of Selfhood is @ stake(190), & it is the blunt denial, disavowal or dismissal of the childs emotional states which contribute to the childs confusion, shame & feelings of worthlessness that has as much or more impact on the future than the fear of the physicality of the trauma itself(140), & cannot be narratively represented in memory→ unsymbolized by language & cannot be spoken about-attempts invoke a reliving as part of the telling & activates intense dissociated shame(5)(80), & clients use session to process nonprocessible exp. from previous sessions(79), & by consistently mobilizing for disaster, the person is already prepared for it & his ego is set to master it(178), & dealing w/ unaddressed shame(89-91), & developmental trauma=prolonged exp. of nonrecognition of aspects of childs self leaving the child experiencing a part of herself as having no pleasurable value to a loved one &, thus, no relational existence as part of me(139-40), & developmental vs massive(6)(199), & dissociation enlisted as defense against trauma by disconnecting the mind from its capacity to perceive what is too much for selfhood & sometimes sanity to bear ie the unbearable aspect of what is taking place is not happening to me(178), & the effect of traumatic exp. is to surrender self-state coherence to protect self-continuity & the person is unable to hold conflicting ways of seeing himself within a single experiential state long enough to feel the pull of opposing affects & dissonant self-perceptions as a state of mind that can be taken as an object of self-reflection((5)(68)(79)(190), & experience of a chaotic & terrifying flooding of affect that can threaten to overwhelm sanity & imperial psychological survival(33), & fear is real enough but mind retains it as dread of what can happen or is happening rather than a memory of what has happened(178), & feeling like client & T moving to the edge of an abyss when history of severe trauma present(88)(92-3)(189), & the felt boundary between surprise & trauma(4), & in any treatment where trauma is an issue the client will attempt to talk about the trauma, though always w/ hidden shame because talking about evokes reliving(123), & inability or unwillingness to work in the transference directly tired to persons reliance on dissociation as means of foreclosing potential traumatic encounter w/ the mind of a needed other in the here & now(179), & increased competency in regulating affective state w/o fear of retraumatization(33), & infants sense of continuity of being can be traumatically disrupted if mothering person fails to help render the strange into what is engagingly novel or familiar (154), & intricate relationship between trauma, damaged capacity for affect regulation & self-observation & need for resilient T relationship that will survive repeated collisions & negotiations on which clients growth depends(118(139)(156), & making trauma-derived emotion schemas known through enactments & potentially available to Cs(136) | ||
Awakening the Dreamer | P. Bromberg | See Index (N_Z) | & parental disconfirmation, because it is relationally nonnegotiable, is traumatic by definition & is intrinsic to the existence of developmental(relational) trauma-typically cumulative(7), as precipitous disruption of self-continuity through the invalidation of the patterns of meaning that define the exp. of who one is-occurs in situations in which self-invalidation cannot be prevented or escaped & from which there is no hope of protective relief or soothing(33), & threat of horrible unassimilable shame necessitates early warning system designed to prevent reoccurrence of affective flooding originally created by trauma-a horrifyingly unanticipated sense of exposure of oneself to oneself(178-9), & trauma caused by shock of strangeness in an interpersonal field on which the security of selfhood depends(154), & the `truth` that is held by a dissociated state as an affective memory w/o a coherent autobiography depiction of its traumatic origin haunts the rest of the self(172), & use of diss. as an evolutionary response when self-continuity threatened in face of psychological trauma(113), & waiting for evils that never arrive(5)(178), & when emotional exp. is traumatic (more than the mind can bear) it remains unsymbolized cognitively(136) | ||
Effect of | The Prince of Tides | P. Conroy | p.483-4 | ||
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | & extent of determined by disparity between beliefs of betrayed partner about commitment & exclusivity & actual behaviour of unfaithful partner(95-6), & flashbacks(143-4), & hopelessness about future(97), & knowing true story behind(191, & lack of basic trust in childhood(98), & loss of innocence(95), & nature of betrayal(100-2), & other stressful life events(99), & parental infidelity(99), as proof of own inadequacies(97-8), & recovery(104-5)(147)(316) (321-6), & shattered assumptions(88-91)(95) | |
Intersubjective Couples Therapy, and | Contexts & Connections | D. Shaddock | & abandonment/intrusion, pursuit/avoidance dynamic(53), & chronic self-doubt(58), & concretization(57), & conflict in rel. due to matching adult context w/ childhood(52), & defensive pessimism (57-8), & disguised thread of hope as relational tie(59), & dissociation(57), & growth in marriage impeded by childhood _(51), & investigation of in cpl T(58-9), & narcissistic rage(63-4)(67), & narcissistically vulnerable partners attempt to communicate traumatic self-state(55), & pervasive req. to comply w/ another persons expectations & to meet their needs(559-60), & pervasive selfobj. failure in childhood=experience of normal relational vicissitudes as intolerable(54), & 2 phases of: emotional injury & absence of response(56), & 2 phases of repetition of(65-6), & profound alienation(58), & projection(57), & repetition of in blame/ conflict cycles(56-7), & repetitive dimension in T greater source of pain(51), & sense of annihilation(30), & shame(60-3), & source of difficulty childs defensive attempts to regulate traumatic affects (57), & source of trauma not pain but absence of adequate attunement & responsiveness(56), & T disjunctions(21) | ||
Language, and | The Unsayable | A. Rogers | All | ||
Men, and | I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | Ch.4 | & active vs passive(107)(204), @ centre of depression(87), & disorders of self-regulation(290), & empathic reversal(204), & lifelong psychobiological consequences of(103-4), & need to connect w/ abuser(106)(205), as not always obvious(105), & passive in boys (110), & recovery from(286), & shame(206), & storage of memories of(287), & taking responsibility for failing parent(205), & trauma as re-living not memory(286) | |
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | vs anxiety(23)(49-50), & because of developmental trauma, T relationship a process of collision & negotiation(27)(57)(106)(185), & big-T=sexual abuse, violence(69), & carries person to edge of depersonalization & self-annihilation(23), & coming face to face w/ our own otherness which sometimes feels more not-me than our minds can deal w/(14)(32), & contributes to every human beings potential for affect dysregulation(32), & developmental trauma core relational phenomenon & shapes personality in every human being (14)(32), & disconfirmation, because it is relationally nonnegotiable, is traumatic by definition & accounts for much of what we call developmental or relational trauma(14)(57-8), & disorganized hyperarousal that threatens to overwhelm minds ability to think, reflect & process experience cognitively(23)(49), & dissociation as defence responsive to(49-50), & enacted reliving of past developmental trauma experienced as threatened loss of self-continuity in the present(139), & enactment reflects those areas of clients self-experience where trauma has compromised capacity for affect regulation in a relational context & thus compromised self-development @ level of symbolic processing by thought & language(16)(22)(33)(49-50)(105), & experienced as being so potentially destabilizing that it leads automatically to dissociation (22-3)(50)(180-1), & frozen A patterns that help a client adapt to early relational trauma become available within a shared mental state(27)(139), & highly limited representation of trauma only kind of representation client likely to have @ first(22), & inability of individual to see himself reflectively through the eyes of an other (50), & may take form of episodic memory, somatic sensations, visual images(22), & is never over(49), & not only unpleasant but mentally unbearable & thus unavailable to cognition(23)(32-3)(49), & overwhelms & defeats our capacity to organize it(22), & perception foremost mental function compromised by(160), & primary nature of trauma to elude our knowledge because of both defense & deficit(dissociative gap)(22)(180), & processing of early trauma is relational(120), & self-states that become traumatically discrepant(98), & shame(23-4), & T allows reliving of w/o being just a blind repetition of past(17)(33), & threatening to disrupt continuity of self-experience(13), & trauma of nonrecognition(69), & what the brain cannot regulate it tries to control(49) | |
Revivification, and | The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | p.298 | ||
Therapy(Individual), and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & analysis as(265-7), & psychical(258), & silent(258), & transference (262-5) | |
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | & analysis as(178), & compensatory structures(42-4), & selfobject failure as ultimate(107) | ||
Uncertainty, and | Toward a Psychology of Uncertainty | D. Brothers | & assuming blame & inadequacy as trauma-generated relational pattern to reduce uncertainty while glorifying partners(58-9), & child trauma survivors preoccupied w/ sexual & aggressive matters(88), & choosing a partner who will betray & crush the dreadful uncertainty of hope(80), & creation of dualities involved in denial of sameness & difference(57-8), & defensive self-ideal formed to maintain needed ties(64), & destruction of systemic emerging certainties & consequent fears concerning availability of self-sustaining relationship(46)(50)(52), & dissociation as crucial to reestablishment of a sense of certainty about psychological survival(65), vs episodes of disorder & disorganization necessary for psychological existence(45), as an event that defies representation & is experienced as an absence(53), as an exile in a world no longer recognisable(46), & expectations of going-on-being(50), & experience of sameness(that which connects us to other humans) sought w/ an urgency that comes to dominate psychological life(55), as exposing certainty as a cruel myth(46), as exposing us to the truth where nothing is certain in a way that is unbearable(45), & faith born of destroyed by(147-8)(180), & finding difference following trauma beings certainty to experience(56), & hope a dreaded enemy(46), & hope tolerated only to the extent uncertainty tolerated(46), as involving loss of that which is known, familiar & meaningful(55), & repetition compulsion(63), & static relational patterns that organize posttraumatic life when horror of meaningless chaos looms again (52-4)(65)(147), & stance of blamelessness to reduce un certainty(51), & suicide to end excruciating uncertainty (115), as terrifying loss or disruption of orderliness of relational exchange threatening us w/ annihilation(23)(45), & trauma-generated certitude of heartless self-sufficient bastard to protect from abandonment & betrayal(73)(78-9), & trust(147) | ||
Women, and | Mother Daughter Revolution | E. Debold | & adolescence(59-60)(63-4), & dissociation(104-5) | ||
Trial Identification | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | Ch.19 | & empathy(33), & listening to clients responses to T(53-4), & regression(34) | |
Triangles | Intimate Partners | M. Scarf | Ch.9 | & definition of(7)(14)(151), & entrance of new family member (170), & father/daughter(126), & fixed(7)(124), as inevitable(152), & having a child(168-9), as lowering intensity of primary conflict (151 (153), & other woman/man(157)(176), & parent/child(121-2)(154-5), & perverse(124), & projection/displacement(152) | |
Women, and | Dance of Anger | H. Lerner | See Index | & asking person to be closer @ expense of another(213), & birth order(175), & disruption of(170), & driven by emotionality & anxiety(211), & greatly increases probability of escalating aggression(169)(174), in families(168-9)(179), & first family issues(180), & gossip(202), & present in all human systems(161) (170), & projections(178-9), & reducing anxiety in relationship by focussing on 3 rd party(156)(161)(170), & requires participation of all 3 parties(208), & secrecy(213), & underground issues from other relationships(155), & underfunctioning family members(177)(188), & unsuccessful efforts to intervene in another relationship=∆(167) | |
Trickster | The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | P.3-4 | as agent of change(3-4), & description of(3), in dreams(4), & potential for degeneration(4) | |
King Warrior Magician Lover | R. Moore | P.28-33 | as know it all manipulator | ||
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.124 | & turning sexual values upside down | ||
Returning to the Teachings | R. Ross | P.71-2 | & humility | ||
Trisexual | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & body image of(82), as curator of memories(84)(90), & description of(82), & devotion(84), vs narcissistic self-love(84)(91-3), as object of intense fascination(83), & 3 lovers(82), & transformation of sexuality(83)(87) | |
True/Real Self | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & activity of, as spontaneous(208), & ego as organized manifestation of(278), of hysteric(190), & the liar(186-7), when mood release conservative object(112), & primary repression of (278), & resistance to contacting(112-3), as self state preserved by conservative object (113), & T potential of conservative object(114), & transfer of, via object relating(244-5) | ||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | See Index | & libidinal ego(182), & regressed ego(74)(77)(81), & therapy(242), & Winnicotts definition of(182) | ||
The Search for the Real Self | J. Masterson | Ch.2,3 | & adolescence(36), as adult(37), as something basic(25)(50), & building blocks of(27), & capacities of(42-6), in crisis(38), & description/motives of(23-4), vs ego(24), vs FS(23), vs Freuds use of self(21-2), & fathers role in development of(33), & Freuds use of soul(21), as guidance system(26), & holding good & bad images (33-5), & infant development of(27-32), & Jungs use of self(22), & latency period(36), in life transitions(41-2), & mothering(30-3)(35), & personal identity(24-5)(49), & RS theory(22-3), & repression/ sublimation(35), & self-images(25-6), & separation(32-3)(35), as stabilized between 3-4yr.(36) | ||
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | See Index | & discover of in therapy(15-21)(57), & perversion/obsessional neurosis as(87), & vitality as opposite of depression(57) | ||
Healing the Child Within | C. Whitfield | Ch.3 | as child within(9), & description of(10-11), vs false(9-10), & showing, on ave., only 15 min./day(11) | ||
The Maturational Processes and the Facilitating Environment | D. Winnicott | See Index | & aliveness of body(148), & creativity(148), & FS(143)(148-9), & feeling real(133)(148-9), & function of FS to hide(133)(146-7), & good-enough mother(145-6), & id-satisfaction(141), & mothers devotion(148), & only it can be analysed(133-4), & Primary Process (148), & spontaneous gesture(148), & suicide(143), & toleration of breaks in continuity(149) | ||
Winnicott | A. Phillips | & choosing to act vs unable to do anything else but act(136), as not described in terms of sexes(6), vs FS(120), & function of FS(133-4), as giving feeling of real(127-8), & mother as constitutive witness of (130) | |||
The Divided Self. | R. Laing | See Index | & body as core of FS vs(69), as disembodied(69)(74)(78), & no direct relationship w/ real things & people(82), as divorced from observable activity(73)(82), & feeling of deadness in(138)(141)(176), & hiding through compulsive behaviour(114), & honesty of(82-3), & isolation of(83)(114), & phantasy(138), & safety of(75), in schizoid(75), & split of(83), & vulnerability of(126-7) | ||
Change, and | Change and the Real Self | N. Diamand | All | ||
Therapy, and | Forces of Destiny | C. Bollas | Ch.1 | & aliveness(9), & aloneness(20-1), & definition of(8), & ego(12)(17), & experiencing the world(9-10)(15), & idiom(9), & jouissance(19-20), & maternal care(9)(15), as origin of ego(12), & personality preconceptions(19), & primary repressed Unc(11-3), & spontaneity (8), & unthought known(10)(13), & use of object(18), & use of T(16-9)(24) | |
Trust | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | See Index | in apathetic relationships(77), as choice(76), in compulsive relationships(77), & definition of(75), & rational trust between partners(76), & resolving problems(84) | |
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | P.231 | & closeness w//flight from T | ||
Trauma and Recovery | J. Herman | See Index | & child abuse(96)(110), vs development of integrity in maturity(153-4), & doublethink(101), & loss of, for traumatic victims(52)(56), as questioned in every encounter(92-3), & recovery of(133)(174)(205), & regulation of intimacy(56), & sense of safety in the world(51-2), & social support(61), in T(138)(14809)(160) | ||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | & clinically created through presence, attunement & resonance(75), & creates conditions for change(75), as emerging from attunement we feel w/ ourselves so that we can remain open to others(75)(86), as essential to achieve alliance, empathy & goal consensus/ collaboration(78-9), & feeling felt(74), & feeling safe by attuned presence of A figure→ trusting all will be well=letting go, a willingness to rely on others for connection, comfort & protection(74)(76), & implicit memory of(26-7), & kindness & compassion(84-5), & spontaneity of(85-6), as state of receptivity; lover w/o fear(74)(81), & violations of(79) | |||
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | & basic distrust of men(347), as dimmer switch(104)(154), & infidelity as breach of(86)(325), & lack of basic trust in childhood (98), & proving trustworthy(109)(325), & rebuilding as cornerstone of recovery(16), & rel. beginning through broken_(130), & trust tests(324) | |
Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | of caregiver(278), & distrust of abused child(72), & incest as violation of(16-8), & intimacy(173), & mistrust as typical reaction to help (288), as paramount issue for survivors(130) | |
Sociopathy, and | The Sociopath Next Door | M. Stout | & plays for pity(109), & trusting of(108) | ||
Truth | The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | See Index | as absolute that can never be known directly(177), & analysis as diagnosis of inner(3-4), as anonymous vs lie(178), & beta screen (66), & Bion similar to Buddha in attitude towards(178), & Bions value of + love above all else(22), as corresponding to a comprehensive reality (176), & decision to face pain(6), & growth of mind through exposure to(3), & individuals role as vehicle of(178), & interpretations that prevent(38), & mystics experience of(177), as new reality(167), as O(167)(176), vs pleasure principle (7-8), as psychological object (177), & pursuit of in T as inviting hatred & envy(155), as quality in things that command our respect (176), & symptom as cover for/ hidden sign of(4), in T(176), & unprejudiced openness to(178) | |
This Art of Psychoanalysis | T. Ogden | See Index | as being-in-the-present-moment(84-5), & binocular vision(66), vs lies(65), as discovery vs creation(66), & emotional exp. having a truth ind. of interpretation(63-4), & facing the truth together @ heart of T process(21), & grounding T truth in a world outside mind of T(64), & interpretation(68), as momentary stay against confusion (69), & paradox that human emotional truths are both universal & idiosyncratic, nameless & highly specific(61)(68)(84), & recognizing it in music, sculpture, poetry, dream interpretation(75) (84), as resting on evidence based on actual lived exp.(66), & Ts task to say something relatively truthful(86), & thoughts expressive of what is true as altering thing that is being thought(65-6) | ||
The Mindful Therapist | D. Siegel | See Index | & acknowledging limitations(91), & breath awareness exercise(96), & cohesion/coherence(89-90), & differentiating what we are aware of from experience of awareness itself(93)(97), & hub of the mind (98-9), & integration flourishes when truth emerges(92), & making meaning(91), & mindfulness(97), & when truth is present, meaning takes coherent shape(92), & w/o truth meaning is distorted by maladaptive associations, restrictive beliefs, rigid & inflexible cognitions, outdated or distorted developmental needs & flooding or blunted emotional reactions(88)(92) | ||
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | See Index | & both brain & mind have their versions of (98), & different configurations of subjective truth(96), & dissociative mental structure that dictates(42)(99), & expanding a clients self-experience not based on discovering enduring truths but in actuality of 2 human beings co-creating what they do together w/ an increasing capacity for spontaneity(50)(92), & via interpersonal engagement, truth becomes opinion, belief or even conviction but is no longer an absolute certainty(96-7), & making T use of affective collisions of personal truth(106), & neural-network & self-state truths work hand in hand to prevent new information from challenging the stability of mind/brain functioning(98), & as an objective reality, not deemed to exist in the mind of one or other alone(92), & ones truth is state-dependent & subjective(96), as phenomenon that seems to support the subjective need of each state to feel legitimate in itself w/o being destabilized by otherness(96), & reality & truth cannot be distinguished from fantasy & uncertainty in absolute terms(97), & relational Unc(97), & T not clutching concepts of truth or objective reality as permanent anchoring points to relieve fear of drowning(121-1), & T truth that is partially self-serving & dissociated(113), & T the interpersonal/relational crucible in which opposing subjective truths can come to coexist(92), & transitional space within which question of object vs subject, true vs false loses meaning(97), & traumatically discrepant(98), & truth client does not need to share(108-9), & truth that is so insulated that negotiation between self-states & w/ other people is compromised (96), & what we call reality & truth depends on which part of self has access to Cs @ that moment(97) | |
Therapy, and | Hope & Dread | S. Mitchell | & co-creation of(58), & hope of recognition of clients(52), & interpretation(59), & personal narrative vs facts(74), & psychological knowledge(65), vs ultimate view of clients development(82), & understanding(56-8)(62) | ||
The Yalom Reader | I. Yalom | See Index | & satisfying life narrative(432), & the truth is what works(427), & truth influenced by therapeutic relationship(434) | ||
Turning Against Self | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & depressives(232), & description of(129) | ||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
TITLE | AUTHOR | GEN. REF. | |||
Ultimate Concerns | Existential T, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | See Index | & description of(8-10), & meaning(465-6) |
Ultimate Reality | The Critical Thinking of W. Bion | J. Symington | See Index | & act of faith(122), & being @ one w/(122), & giving up senses, memory & desire(122), & knowing about vs becoming(122-3)(176), as O(10)(12)(122)(181), vs projective identification(122), as psychological object(177), & resistance to(122-3), as standing for truth of object(121), & T as expression(12)(178), =truth(121)(176), as a vast reservoir of infinite possibilities(123) | |
Unconscious | The Discovery of the Unconscious | H. Ellenberger | See Index | & 4 aspects of(by 1900)(317-8), & automatic writing(85), as chain of undersea mountains(774), & creative, compensatory function of(208), & Freud(490)(494)(496-9), & functions of(317), & individual as related to all(208), & Jung(691), & love choice(866-7), & Myers (314), & mythopoetic function(81)(150)(314)(318), & Nietzsche (273-4), & Romanticism(200)(204), & souls development as from _ to Cs(207), & speculative vs experimental approach to study of(312-5), vs subCs(800) | |
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | as archaic, preconceptualized form of mental activity(9), & Cs mind does not easily recognize this form of mental activity(8), & dreams (74), & emotion(50-1)(58-9), & hysteria(66), & interpretation of _ wish(114-5), & intrapsychic transference(105-6)(109)(118), & not merely concrete & imagistic but on its way toward being a candidate for a concept(106), & operating @ different representational level; from Cs(105), & representing a thing(105-6), & repression(88-9)(91-2), & traumatic memories(34)(58-9), & Unc to become Cs must develop into a higher psychical organization(105-7), & _ thought(9), & _ wish(74)(94) | |||
Psychology & the Human Dilemma | R. May | & definition of(97)(125-6), & meaning of(135-6) | |||
Being a Character | C. Bollas | & being a character(64-5), & communication(188-90), & dreams (14), & ego(42-3), & engaging w/ object(34)(244-5), & genera(70) (74) (81)(83)(87-9)(106), as hermeneutically dynamic(42), & intuition (106), & to know & be known by(48), & reception(74), as self(51), & Ts use of free-association(103)(110)(130), & therapy partnership as Unc collaborative(111-3), & trauma(79) | |||
The Power of Now | E. Tolle | & judgement(160), vs knowing(158), & relationships(160) | |||
The Freudian Moment | C. Bollas | & clients contempt of(57), & creativity(54)(56)(73), & enunciation as Unc expression(44), & logic of sequence(15)(38)(55)(60), & metaphor as mental transportation system(75), & obj. rel. between Cs & Unc.(56-7), & process vs content of(57), & reality principle (55-6), & receptive(27-8)(37)(47)(49)(59), & repressed(38), as some form of orchestration(26-7)(29)(62), & Unc thinking(74)(87), & Unc work driven by pleasure principle(55) | |||
Open Minded | J. Lear | P. 13-5 | =meanings we show that we cannot (yet) say | ||
The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | & analytic theory(154), as aware of us(224), & experiencing as(208), & fantasy(205-6)(213-5), & interpersonal(209)(216), & phenomenological examination of(204) | |||
Freud | J. Lear | See Index | & discovering structures of mental activity vs Unc contents(49), & interpretation(51-3), & interpretation of dreams(90), & same struggle enduring(46), & split-off aspects vs 2 nd mind(239), & working through(50) | ||
Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | & anima(43), & idea of(141), & depth psychology(139) | |||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | See Index | & anima(601), =bottom of sea(138)(197)(204)(643), & caring little for love or hate(164), & children(19), as contaminated w/ everything else(591), & contrasting impulses(149), & cooking as symbol of creation(332), & deities(182-3), & development(452), & diary(165-6), & dreams(12)(60)(72)(157)(186)(268)(448)(638)(643-4)(650-1), & fear of(13)(141)(162)(205), & feeling(128-9)(162), & functions in (608), & identification w/, unless Cs of(217), & illusion(448), & integration of neurotic(20), & knowing the dreamer(457), & language (65)(262), & life w/o meaning(224), & making things horrible(205), & mandala(120), & minorities in(516), as mirror of totality of world (447), & moon(377), & no moral intention(110) (279), & no such thing as time(224)(601), & pairs of opposites(149), & personal(75), & personal characteristics of(529-30), & personal vs universal(140) (449), vs rationalism(307), & realization of, in waves (126)(158) (651), & revolution in(669), & saying, Not exactly (457), as saurian/worm(239)(334)(649), & shadow(67)(76-7)(255-6), & symbolism(131), & symbols(579-82), as symphony(440-1), & synchronicity(417), & unable to endure(239), as what we dont know (47), & wife as(560) | ||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | & clients _ recognition of Ts internal space(248), & ego(8)(246), as egos reliving of instinct(79), & primary repressed(9)(246), & unthought known(9)(246) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | See Index | & adaptation to(62-3), & anima/animus(93)(103)(108)(110-1)(116) (122)(221), & analysis of(122), & archetypes(70)(222-3)(266)(337), & assimilation of(180), & co-determining factor w/ Cs(19), & complementary/compensatory function of(117)(219), & complexes (122-3)(220), vs Cs(60-1), & Cs development from(198)(217-8), & constant observation of(117), & contrasexual demands(106), & convention(202), & creative autonomy(244), & dissociation(41) (220), & disturbing peace of mind(99)(122), & dream-analysis(17-8) (168)(180)(213)(220), & effect vs aim(216-7), vs ego(212)(218) (351), & emotions(215-6), as expression of other side(18), & fate of individual dependent on(219), & fear of(371-2), & functions(62-3), & great decisions(211), & hypochondriacal wine quote(61), as in potentia(216), & individuality as(103), & individuation(22) (225), & inherited collective image of woman in(108), & inhibition of(61-2), as inferior & incompatible(62), & intuition(219), as Janus-faced(216), as life(225), & lives in terms of millennia(217), & manifestation of, as complex(61), & marriage(109), & memory (219), & mid-life(72) (166), & Mother(187), & opposites(275), & perils of the soul (217), & persona(94)(96)(100)(104), & personal (76)(87)(91)(93), & projected soul-image(103-6)(108), & psyche (97)(201)(224), & psychoanalysis(54), & regression(59-63), & relation to(99), & self (19)(275), & shadow(87-8)(93)(221), & schizophrenia(14), & soul (103-4), & striving towards unity(18-9), & synchronicity(337), & taking over role of ego(tending to autonomy)(215), & traces of personalities(220), =universal Cs(224), a utterly different from Cs (214) | ||
Memories, Dreams, Reflections | C. Jung | See Index | & alchemy(205), & anima/animus(186-7), & archetypes(306)(347), & collective(138)(158), & ego-Cs(324), & history(205-6), & house analogy(160), & immortality(301), & integration w/ Cs(287), & Jungs life as self-realization of(3), as knowledge in eternity(311), & myth(311), & numinosity(336), as a process(209), & projection (347), & the real existence(324), & science(336), & self-knowledge (331), & synchronicity(138), & wholeness(324) | ||
Zen Buddhism and Psychoanalysis | E. Fromm | as absence of awareness(96), vs Cs(98), & Cs in constant communication w/(18), & Cs of=to have nothing & to be(136), & making Cs as aim of Zen(12)(130)(136), & making Cs=live in truth (109)(130), & contents of(106), & cosmic(19)(51), & creativity(16), & feeling of(14), & 1 st candle vs many(138), & intellect(49), as part of personality(96), & psychoanalytic method(1139-40), & full recovery of us overcoming subject/object split(135-6), & repression (127)(129-30)(135-6), vs social person(106)(108), as socially conditioned(104), & training of Cs(18)(20), vs Unc awareness(109), as universal man(106)(108), & use of, as cure for sickness vs complete transformation(137), | |||
Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | as autonomous entities(161), & body in(210), & Cayce(165-6), & diagram of(301-2)(305), & hypnosis(68)(164-5), & located in right brain(69), & psychosomatic disease(60), & visualization(166-8) | |||
Biology, and | The Right Brain | T. Blakeslee | See Index | & creativity(37), & difficulty verbalizing(26)(29)(34), & dreams(31-3), & effect of alcohol(30), & effect of dope(30-1), & intuition(24-5 ) (37), & memory(27-9), & repression(29), & right brain(27)(29) (34) | |
The Natural History of the Mind | G. Taylor | See Index | & awareness(90)(318-9), & clues(71)(75), & hypnosis(106), & integration of experience(318), & location of(73), & perceptual defences(83-4)(90), & self-knowledge not dependent on nervous system(86-7)(89) | ||
Breakdown, and | Catch Them Before They Fall | C. Bollas | & clients have Unc sense of how to use what is provided(50), & frailty of(74), & interpreting(15)(73-4), & free association=Unc thinking(75), & one of functions of to store disturbing experiences of child-self for a time in the future when transformed into narrative & Cs(68-71)(73), & past subjected to Unc transformation= history (68), & reflecting on(95), & self hearing from(127), & Unc communication between T & client(20-1)(74), & Unc fantasy(72), & unthought known(72-3) | ||
Collective | The Discovery of the Unconscious | H. Ellenberger | & archetype vs archetypal images(706-7), & dipsychism(147), & Jung(673), & Jung vs Freud(705) (891), & philosophy, science & mythology derived from(734) , & Romantic medicine(205) | ||
Seminar on Dream Analysis | C. Jung | & anima(693)(704), & archetypes(128-9), & cross/crescent(403), & detaching functions from(604), & dreams(24), as eternal language (71), & fear of(235), & history(64), & moon(403), vs personal(75), & psychology of children(402)(674-5), & shadow(78), & symbols of (403), as unknown object(74) | |||
The Essential Jung | A. Storr | as ancestral heritage(67), & anima/animus(116)(123), & archetypes (16)(70-1)(91)(282), & autonomy of(116), & changes in(26), & dreams(18), as 1 of 3 psychic levels(67), & mana-personality(123), vs personal(91)(282), & schizophrenia(15-6), as true basis of psyche(67) | |||
Development, and | Attachment | J. Bowlby | See Index | & appraising processes(105)(110)(117-8), & behaviour(98-9), & feelings(122-3) | |
Dissociation, and | Standing in the Spaces | P. Bromberg | & aim of T not to make Unc Cs but re-establish connection between diss. psychic functions(130), & clients are their Unc. fantasies vs revealing them(153-4)(180), & Unc/Cs vs mind as configuration of discontinuous, shifting states of Cs(225) | ||
Relational Mind, and | The Shadow of the Tsunami | P. Bromberg | & dissociation represents what is most human in ongoing negotiations between what we subjectively experience as Cs & Unc(49), & relational, a state of mind that draws on both enactment & symbolic communication but transcends both(18)(72)(97)(123) (129)(131-2)(154) | ||
Therapy, and | Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | See Index | & controlled regression w/ a T(34), & diversity of(349), & reading of T by client(8), & wishes(138-9) | |
Freud # 9 Case Histories II | S. Freud | in children s adults(346), as contrary to Cs(60), & dreams(22), & Freuds self-analysis(21), & hysteria(20), & inclination to treat _ same as Cs(316), as infantile(58), & moral vs evil(58), & no does not exist(319), & primary/secondary process(22-3), & repressed(58), & resistance(21), & sensual desire(22)(62), as unchangeable(57) | |||
Women, and | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | & archaic mother(321), & conflict(400), & confusion of mother/father images(113), & listening to(217), & male/female(100) | ||
Undoing | Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & description of(127-9), & OCD(283-4) | ||
Unevoked Potential | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & female element(253)as maturational processes which never got a start(216), as 1 of 3 causes of failure of ego-development(216), & schizoid(283)(421), & therapy w/(337), &TS(283)(405)(421) | ||
Unity | Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & artists restoring of(123), & creativity(188), & death(39), & being in love(186-7), & imagination(197), & impact of external on internal & vice versa(200), & myth of 3 sexes(186), as psychological process (197), as related to early experience w/ Mother(39), as religious experience(37-9)(196-7), & search for order(132), & sense of perfect harmony(188), & solitude(188) | |
Unthought Known | The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & aesthetic moment(32), & conservative object(111)(246), as core of ones being(60), & dancers expression of(282), & definition of(4) (246), & ego as essential factor in(9)(52)(246), & experience beyond comprehension(246), & generative mood(101), & the liar (186), & musical representation(282), & phantasy as 1 st representation of(279), & primary repressed Unc(9)(246)& regression(261), & split between what we think we know & know but cannot think(282), & therapy w/(246-7), & transference/ countertrans. interaction(210)(230) (232) (235)(246), through us of other(280) | |
Ur-Anxiety/ Defense | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.96, 211 | ||
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Vagina | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | See Index | & angry mother attacking whole inside(67), & boys vs girls fear for sex organ(67), & difficulty in forming mental image of(67), & Freudian theory of ignorance of(118), & phallic mother(117), & proactive vs reactive female self(348), & unc quality of mouth or anus (68) | |
Essential Papers on the Psychology of Women | C. Zanardi | & acceptance of pleasure w/o fear(251), & denial or isolation of(259), & discharge of tension(256-7), & dual function of sexuality & reproduction(257), as endowed w/ qualities of mouth, anus, etc(237), as 1 st sexual organ to be cathected(105), & Freudian thesis of elimination of clitoral orgasm as femininity(151), & frigidity (151), & male vs female sexual experience(238), & masturbation (58), as middle organ(257), & orgasm(236-9)(257), & phases of sexualization /de-sexualization(256-8), & psychoanalysis(151), & resolution of castration complex(191-3), & shift from externalization to internalization(257), & stimulation by mother(242), & transfer from clitoris to _ in adolescence(257), & undiscovered _ as denied _(105) | |||
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.45-60 | & anasyrma(55-7), & Aphrodite(51)(60), as container of life(46), as haven(45), as holy of holies(46), as soul(46), & woman as world, life (46) | ||
Values | Meaning, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p.463-4 | |
Venus | The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | See Index | & excessive purity(330), as goddess of beauty & natural growth(232) (234), & jewellery(210), & Mars(165)(169-70), & radiance(205), & sports(329-31) | |
The Soul of Sex | T. Moore | P.144-5 | & venereal, & moist aspects of life | ||
Victims/ Victimization | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | P.273-5 | & counterdependent/co-dependent | |
Emotional Abuse, and | Stalking the Soul | M-F. Hirigoyen | Ch. 7 |
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Males, and | Victims No Longer | M. Lew | See Index | & behaviour as strange to others(128), & families of(22-3), & fragmented life(113-4), & mistrusting caring overtures(127-8), as only option(44), & perception of abused child(50), & perversion of childhood(72), & replacing absent parent(23), & role-playing(204), & no room in culture for(41), & rationalizing(101), & seeing himself as less than human(41), & sexuality(56-8), & striving for wealth, power (42) | |
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | P. 82-3 | & overt/covert depression | ||
Vindictiveness | Neurosis & Human Growth | K. Horney | See Index | & competitiveness(198), & compulsiveness(210), & direction of vengeance & triumph(24)(26-7)(103)(194-9), & exploitation(199), & limited by 3 factors(198), & overemphasis on justice(55), & pride (199)(204-5)(209-10), & punitive attitude towards others(208), & self-hate(209-10), & source of(202-3), in T(201-2), & treachery (198), & violent rages(198-9) | |
Violence | Churchills Black Dog | A. Storr | Ch.13 | & aggression vs destructive _(271), & distance between perpetrator & _(279-80), & helplessness(274), & ill-treatment in childhood (274), & learning to mix w/ people in childhood(273), & memories of humiliation(275), & obedience(277), & paranoia/fear(281)(284), as potential in all(271), & psychopaths(272), & resentment of disenfranchised(284-6), & revenge(275) | |
Children of Divorce, and | The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce | J. Wallerstein | See Index | as altering brain dev.(90), & children rescuing family from(92)(95), & childs template of intimacy=uniting to hurt one another(105) (298), & children blaming themselves for(110-1), & childrens needs sacrificed on behalf of parents violent/sexual desires(102) (105), & conspiracy of silence(103), & crying for wonderful & abusive father(96), & daughters view of mothers(143-4), & denial by parents=impaired sense of reality & conscience in child(113), & divorce not quick sol. to(90)(94), & fighting over nonissues as context irrelevant(104), & girls from intact vs divorced families (120), & intimacy & pain intertwined(104-5), & loyalty to parents (103), & merely witnessing as harmful(90)(313), & not mentioned as cause of divorce(93), & ongoing accusations(94), & roots of domestic(142-3), & sons guidance from mothers about(114), as top of list for divorce but not always welcome(103), & unable to make connection of break-up w/(91-3)(298), & violent fathers(143), & violent rel. of children as adults(142), & wanting fighting to stop but marriage to continue(92), & witnessing for girls vs boys as adults(142), | |
Men and, | Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | See Index | & learning to express emotion(84)(105), & shame(84), & 3 forces propelling men to(88-9), & verbal abuse(97) | |
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & active vs passive trauma(107)(113)(116-8), & addiction to(65), & bullying(116), & grandiosity(67), & heroism(69), & internalization of(207-9), & manhood(174-5), & masculine socialization & war (177), as # 1 killer of boys & young men(113), & offending from victim position(67), & overt vs covert depression(22)(199), & reparenting self(239), & self-worth(69) | ||
Virgin/Whore | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | & double vision f masculine desire(93), as symbol of oppression of women(158) | ||
Visualization | Beyond Biofeedback | E. Green | various(not highlighted) | ||
Seeing with the Minds Eye | M. Samuels | All | |||
Youll See It when You Believe It | W. Dyer | See Index | & acknowledging your involvement(67), & before going to sleep (65), & detachment(155), & 4 principles of effective(43-9), & what we convince ourselves is true(118-9), & working on thoughts(65) | ||
Vulnerability | Getting Love Right | T. Gorski | & counter/co-dependent(264-6), & shadow self(276-7) | ||
Males, and | Why Men Are the Way They Are | W. Farrell | & admitting mistakes(348-9), & creating defences(129), & crying (350), & direct responsibility(81), & initiating(88), & expression of ambivalence(337), & male clergy/T(352), & powerlessness(129), & rejection by sex object vs human being(129), & safe(348-9), & success(131)(136)(342), & suppression of feelings in areas of_(336-7)(340) | ||
I Dont Want to Talk About It | T. Real | See Index | & boys disavowal of feminine(145), & connection(158), & depression(22)(35)(38-9), & downplaying _, as factor in lifespan(36-7), & tradition(35) | ||
Narcissism, and | Why Is It Always About You? | S. Hotchkiss | & attaching to N. to heal(62), & dependence(155), & N. parents(99), & projection(64), in relationship(137) | ||
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Weaning | Envy & Gratitude | M. Klein | See Index | & accentuates depressive feelings(44), & attitude toward food(95) (108-9), & bottle vs breast(99-100)(109)(117-9), as confirming infants anxieties(107)(118), & depressive anxiety(108-9)(118), as being devoured by bad breast(persecutory anxiety)(108-9), & giving up of thumb-sucking(119), & greed(109)(293), & increase/decrease in appetite(109), & loss of 1 st loved object(the breast) due to hatred (44)(107)(118), as major crisis in infants life(118), & mothers behaviour(110), & not being breast fed(117-8), & other factors influencing(110), & self-weaning(293), & slow vs abrupt(118), as state of mourning(44) | |
Wellbeing | Pathfinders | G. Sheehy | & being older(23)(320), & definition of(131), & exercise(27), vs happiness(13), & marriage(24), & minimum of human damage(52-3)(182), & personal growth(53), & purpose beyond themselves (57-8), & rating your own(562-9), & 10 self-descriptive statements (15-22)(28)(59-60), & work(23-4)(45)(98) | ||
Whim | Neurotic Styles | D. Shapiro | & impaired intention(136-7), & impulsive style(140)(146), & remaining an impulse(142) | ||
Why | Start with Why | S. Sinek | All |
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Willing | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | & decision(choice)(314-45), & 3 developmental stages of(295-7), & 2 realms of will(298-9), & responsibility & action(286-91), & therapy (291-4)(301-3), & wishing(299-301) | ||
Winnicott, D. | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | & analysis w/(224-7), & creative process(22), & good-enough mother (79), on Klein(246), & no such thing as baby(73), & object relations (291), & play(188), & potential space(177), & pre-Oedipal(218), & using women as transitional objects(39), & way of writing(361) | ||
Learning from the Patient | P. Casement | & analysis techniques(181), & analysts failures(77)(79)(109-10) (196)(303), & antisocial tendency(298), & dreaming as ego-capacity (364), & ego-needs(273-4), & expressing the thing feared(129-30) (137), & hate in the countertrans.(80-1)(250), & good-enough mother (24)(26), & illusion of breast(294-5), & interpretation (197)(279-80) (357-8), & learning from client(4), & period of hesitation(146)(183) (295), & play(35)(38)(196), & unthinkable anxieties(109)(125), & use of analyst(141)(146)(177)(196)(280-1), & way of thinking/ writing(196) | |||
The Intimate Edge | D. Ehrenberg | & analysts engagement(196), & client being seen(23), & confrontation of client(147), & continuity-contiguity moment(34), & failed analysis as analyst failure(50), & manic defence(157), & need to interpret(22), & non-communication(39), & playfulness(116-7) (119-20)(122), & surviving clients anger(67), & unflappable analyst (96-7) | |||
Being a Character | C. Bollas | See Index | & intermediate space(18), & essential aloneness(241),& infants illusion of creation(185), & play(54)(244), & potential space(265), & subjective object(20), & TS(48)(64), & unintegration(14-5) | ||
The Shadow of the Object | C. Bollas | See Index | & creative apperception(135), & development of alternative mentality (136), & facilitating environment(13-4)(37), & failure(17), & FS/TS (8)(51)(278), & hate(119), & intermediate area of experiencing(260), & no such thing as baby w/o mother(42), & normotic vs FS(138) (156), & play(205-6), & regression(256-8), & schizoid(152), & thought as subjective object(206), & uninterpretative act of T(240) | ||
The Wing of Madness | D. Burston | See Index | & Laings relationship w/(51-4), & psychosis(64-5)(227)(238-9) | ||
H.J.S. Guntrip | J. Hazell | & analysis w/(198)(207-303)(307)(326), & effect of death on(312-4), & fear of using object(aggression)(210)(234-5)(260), & incommunicado position(250), & introjection of good experience vs internalization of bad(167), & location of cultural experience(273-4), & maturational process(155), & regressed ego as TS in cold storage (190), & regression(165-6), & relationship w/ Fairbairn(166-7)(184-5) | |||
Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & being infinitely exploited(235-6), & bisexuality(245), & classical analysis vs holding(315), & concern(57)(167-8)(170), & core of self as isolate(300), & debt to(11), & depriving mother(106)(420-1), & destructive primitive love(hate)(32), & ego-relatedness(220-31) (244), & facilitating environment(415), & FS(180)(188)(399), & goal of therapy(127-8)(426), & id-impulses(194), & instinct(422), & interpretation(245-6), & impingement(146)(186)(207), & location of cultural experience(418-20), & male/female elements(259), & maturational process(315), & mind vs psyche(385), & object relating (258-9), & object relations theory(392)(423-4), & psyche/ soma split (63), & therapeutic regression(85)(173)(213)(245), & understanding clients(118), & unthinkable anxieties(202), & view of therapeutic relationship(357-64), & violation by communication (268), & What is life about, apart from illness?(389)(425), & withdrawn RS/TS (66)(69)(74)(77)(81)(144)(209)(244) | |||
Melanie Klein | P. Grosskurth | & ability to be alone(457-9), & analysis w/(233), vs Bowlby(402) (404-6), & Clares analysis w/ Klein(452-3), & efforts to modify Klein(399), & good-enough mother(398), & hate(379)(382), & hearing his lecture(399), & importance of mother/child relationship (300)(417), & Klein as Eureka shreaker(121), & Laing(446-7), & P/S position(417), as pixie(399), & pushing back scientific frontiers (292), & relationship w//differences between(233-4)(251-4)(289) (374)(393)(398-401)(410)(414)(416)(423)(428) (432)(441) (447) (451), & supervision by Klein(233), & training regulations(431), & transitional object(397-8) | |||
The Drama of the Gifted Child | A. Miller | & destroying object(16), & emotional world of infant(54), & FS(12), & hidden TS(20-1), & knowledge of theory(91), & mother gazing @ infant(32), & play(51), & usable object(63) | |||
The Interpersonal World of the Infant | D. Stern | See Index | & FS/TS(210)(249), & going-on-being(90), & language as transitional object(172-3), & primitive agonies(202), & transitional objects vs person-thing(122-3), & undifferentiated self vs sense of core self(101)(241), & unthinkable anxieties(199-200) | ||
In Ones Bones | D. Goldman | All | |||
Solitude | A. Storr | See Index | & capacity to be alone(18-21)(28), & creative apperception(71-2) (123-4), & FS/TS(72)(94), & transitional objects(52-3)(69-71) | ||
Winnicott Concentration Notes | N. Diamand | All CTP98 | |||
Winnicott | A. Phillips | All | |||
Wishes/Wishing | On Kissing, Tickling and Being Bored | A. Phillips | See Index | & obstacles(83)(91), & worries as punishment for(54), & unc problems(112) | |
Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | & affect block(307-11), & choice(302-3), & compulsivity(313), & feeling(305-6), & impulsivity(311-3), & inability to feel(305), & incapacity to wish(303), & will(299-301) | |||
Love & Its Place in Nature | J. Lear | & in archaic mental life no firm distinction between wish & satisfaction(193), & censorship preventing recognition of conflict between adult outlook & infantile _ striving for gratification(73), & discovering what it is via its role within the archaic activity in which it finds its home(75), & in distinctly existing world not possible to satisfy all wishes→ melancholia @ heart of every I(160), & dream as attempted satisfaction of(73)(193)(215), & holding oneself responsible for vs accepting responsibility for(174), & infuse interpretation w/ meaning(114-5)(119-20)(215-6), as motivating force but product of not action, like desire(75)(77), as part of a structure of proto-beliefs, evaluations & wishes which has its own purposefulness(94), & primary processing(77), & repression of(88-9)(92), & solving puzzle of intelligibility of infantile _(119), & striving to acquire form in which it can be understood(215), & sublimated expression of(215-6), & Unc _ striving to get themselves satisfied(218), | |||
Freud | J. Lear | & belief as illusion if derived from(203-5), as form of motivation but not connected to beliefs(6), & repression of(6), & tending towards hallucinatory gratification(258), & wish-fulfillment def. of(110)(258) | |||
Withdrawnness/ Withdrawal | Schizoid Phenomena, Object Relations and the Self | H. Guntrip | & absence of mother(128), & 3 causes for(75), & daydreams(211), & defence against(51), & dreams(211), of ego(101), & ego-psychology (126), & very early elemental fear as cause of(207), of exhausted heart of LE(73), in 1 st year of life(66), as healthy phenomenon(66) (128), & inner world(405), of libido from Cs(101), as other side of introversion(42), & physical symptoms(211), & in & out program (39), as provoked by deprivation & anxiety(69), & regression as(55), from relationship(35)(90)(101), vs repression of sadism(148)(207), & separation anxiety(128), & schizoid condition (19), & struggle to maintain active ego(211), as ultimate underlying problem(237), & unevoked potential(216), from world & ALE(216) | ||
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis | N. McWilliams | & description of(100-1), & schizoid(192-4) | |||
Relationships, and | How Do I Get Through to You? | T. Real | & the cycle(147), & lack if internal boundary(241), as male response to intimacy(59), & templates for rel.(176) | ||
Womb | Women Analyse Women | E. Baruch | & dark continent(20)(199), & fathers voice as acoustic womb(193), as representing pleasure principle(118), & reproductive technology (20), & return to(118), as utopian place(20) | ||
Work/ Workaholics/ Careers | New Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & boomers lack of work ethic(70), & death of corporation as parent (68), & deathbed quote about wishing he put more time in the office (80), & education(189), & employees as disposable resource(69), & FS/TS(83)(263), & high well-being(189-90), & inner-directed values (266), vs leisure(67-8), & mastering something(271), & meaning of (12), & mentor generation(379), & poverty(189), & precarious position of men in their 50's(260)(267), & retiring from (374), & 2 nd Adulthood(139)(244), as surrogate marriage partner (190), & who you are when not defined by(373), & workaholic generation(37), & working wife(268) | |
Abuse, and | Stalking the Soul | M-F. Hirigoyen | Ch2,11 | ||
Defense of Specialness, and | Existential Psychotherapy | I. Yalom | p123-4, 208-10 | ||
Infidelity, and | Not Just Friends | S. Glass | See Index | as fostering opportunity for(26-9)(282-3), as powerful aphrodisiac(30-1) | |
Men, and | Wrestling with Love | S. Osherson | See Index | & earning money(146), & fathers return from(125), & feelings(192), as major source of masculine identity(137), & mentoring(18)(141) (193)(303), & perception of being judgmental by staff vs yearning to care(18)(126-7), as pressure point(147), & satisfaction @(137), as 2 nd home(147), & womans request for responsiveness(176) | |
Finding our Fathers | S. Osherson | See Index | as choice made by others(191), & confusion of loving & suffering in(33), & deathbed quote about spending too much time w/ family (208), vs dependence(13), & fatherhood shaped by place in career cycle(195), & flight to, by new father(175)(191), & mentoring(16), & repressed longing to be a kid(188), & traditional role of(35), vs unambivalent love(182) | ||
Masculinity Reconstructed | R. Levant | Ch.7 | & achievement as love(154), & doing as much as possible(178), & fear of failure(152)(266), & feeling indispensable(180), & home vs (200), & making work more satisfying(184), & measuring worth (180), & mens upbringing as preparation for(175-6), & needing to be good at something(182), & not knowing anything else(177), & sacrifice/indulge cycle(154), & selfless vs emotional generosity(149) (151), & womans control over(188) | ||
Understanding Mens Passages | G. Sheehy | See Index | & being process-oriented(221), from competing to connecting(148), & coping w/, & strategies for job loss(259-61), & downsizing(125-7) (142-3), & heart attack(82-3), & internal mission(62)(223), & mid-life(134), & over 65 as fastest growing full-time employees (222), & psychological aging(men vs women)(161), & retiring from(220)(225-6), & testosterone(187), & traditional role(52), & wife as safety net (157) | ||
Working Models | Attachment, and | Attachment in Psychotherapy | D. Wallin | See Index | & affected favourably by nature of individuals attachment rel.(27)(85), & ambivalent(35-6), of attachment rel. as selective representational samplings of lived rel. exp.(64-5), & avoidant(27) (35-6)(66)(90), & based on structure of developmental dialogues w/ those upon whom our survival depends(84), & contradictory Cs & Unc(90-1), & differentiation of(65), & dissociation(173), & enactive representations(66), & evolutionary necessity of(64), & fundamentally grounded in emotional exp.(55-6), as implicit enactive representation(84)(90), & influence of parents _(31-2)(34), & insecure as rigid, less open to change & self-perpetuating(27)(36) (66)(280), & integration of(65), & internalized secure base(65), as invisible straight jacket that leaves one confined & ignorant of our confinement(279), & key feature of _ of self=how acceptable or unacceptable in eyes of attachment figure(27), & key feature of _ world=how attachment figures may be expected to respond(27), & resisting revision because Unc & self-protective(if self-defeating(27) (66), & revealed in characteristic patterns of narrative, discourse & imagination(28), & rules of behavioural/communicative strategy generate representations of attentional strategy(35), & rules that govern how infant behaves will allow themselves to feel, want, think & remember & shape future rel.(31)(34-5)(66)(84), & rules of implemented actively(35), & secure(35), as shaping & being shaped by expectations & behaviour(27), as structured processes serving to obtain or limit access to info.(34), & survival-critical context of original emergence(36-7), & unresolved(248) |
Working Through | Between Therapist and Client | M. Kahn | P.31-6 | & emotional utilization(31-3), in transference(33-6) | |
How Does Analysis Cure? | H. Kohut | See Index | vs confrontation(173-4), & hidden moral/educational pressure(210), & interpretation(5)(75), & oedipal transference(5)(68), vs self-analysis(154), & selfobject transference(4-6)(68)(159)(206), & self-psychological approach to (75-6)(110), & transmuting internalization (4) | ||
Introduction to Psychodynamic Psychoanalytic Technique | S. Usher | P.24-6 | & change | ||
Open Minded | J. Lear | See Index | as ego repeating actively what was experienced passively(138), as enduring attempt to give meaning to phantasy activity itself(103), & reviving permanent possibility of a restorative re-creation of vs reproduction(138) | ||
Couples, and | What Is This Thing Called Love? | S. Usher | & easier because in the room for all to see & experience & partners can check out each others response(136), & implies repetition @ each partners own pace(136), & internalization of relationship w/ T based on new exp. & development of insight through interpretation (136), m& interpretation accepted more easily if comes from 1 of the partners(135), & more difficult w/ couples as behaviour part of long-standing, collusive way of relating(135-6), & permits the subject to pass from rejection of a interpretation or merely intellectual acceptance to a conviction based on lived experience (135), & possibilities in couples T 1 partner may want to change, the other sees it as threatening(135), & resistance to change(135) | ||
Regression, and | The Basic Fault | M. Balint | See Index | & allowing interpretation to influence(14), & importance of words (14), & need for strong ego(8-10), @ Oedipal level vs pre-(14-5) | |
Worrying | On Kissing, Tickling and being Bored | A. Phillips | Ch. 5 | vs anxiety(53), as attempt @ simplification(55)(57), as born of conflict & censorship(54-5), as constituting a self(57), as dream not trying to have(54), vs dreamed(50), & forgetting of, vs dreams(57), as form of insulation(52), & giving agency to(50), as intense form of eating(51), as ironic form of hope(56), & irresistible invitation(47-8), & looking forward(56-7), as punishment for wishes(54), as pursuit & persecution(52), & regulating intimacy(58), as response to ordinary demands that seem excessive(58), & way one was worried about=way of worrying(49), & Whom is this _ for? vs what is worried about (49) | |
Notes on Worrying | N. Diamand | Fav. | |||
MAIN TOPIC | SUB TOPIC | SOURCE | OF PARTICULAR INTEREST | ||
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Zen | The Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life | T. Moore | See Index | & aimless life as theme of art(255), & beginners mind(303)(360), & frogs & dreams(175), & garden(340), & jokes of(183), & numinous(38)(303)(365)(367), & not wobbling in chair as T(181) | |
Zen Buddhism and Psychoanalysis | E. Fromm, et al | All | |||
Zeus | Re-Visioning Psychology | J. Hillman | See Index | & deception(103), & Hades/death(207), & Hera(126)(186), & Hermes(160), & liberating hero vs old king(126), & love(184)(186), & love of(192), & philosophers as followers of(247), & polytheism (171), as ruling solar plexus vs Olympus(104) | |
Androgyny | J. Singer | & Athena(56), vs Artemis(61), & birth/legend of(51-2), & cutting man in 2(109-10), & Dionysus(63-4), & legend of Minotaur(58), as replacement of goddess worship(67)(73), & test tube reproduction(39) | |||